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| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Answer from a woman. Respect and treating us as equals. Really. Misogyny is horribly unattractive. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?I think if you like her embrace it and have fun. No one else’s opinion matters except yours. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 04:44 AM |
| 25 | Is it weird that I don't want to sleep around anymoreNo. It’s not weird at all. 💛 | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?I’m more attracted to tall thin men. Always have been. Muscly guys don’t do it for me at all. There are absolutely women out there attended to your body type OP. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | CougarHow old are you? If you’re a teenager then she may be a predator. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.Don’t hit on her in class or be awkward and act like you’re her boyfriend there is what I am guessing she’s saying. So just be cool and enjoy her company. Ask her out if you like for dinner and Netflix and chill. ;) and see if she’s into the idea. But NOT at class. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)Misogyny. If I get a whiff of any man thinking he’s better than me simply by virtue of the fact that I’m a woman? I’m out in two seconds. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?I’m a woman and far past 30. I stand by my comment wirh years of knowledge from myself and both women and men I’ve known who have dated from 30s-40s. The dating pool is far smaller. The getting laid pool however is not smaller. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:29 AM |
| 9 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Yes. There are lots of changes. Much fewer people to date in your thirties and beyond as most people are already married and having kids. So your dating pool shrinks considerably. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Raj from Big Bang Theory used alcohol. :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 7 | My big butt co-worker modeled 3 thongs for me!Porque no los dos? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.More like he’s obviously a dick. Not “coming off as one”. But yes. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Well I’ll be honest here. Your attitude sucks. Basically no one wants to date someone who calls other people creatures. Because that’s a disgusting thing to think about other humans. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.This is true to some extent. But you have to be really really good looking to make this occur. My brother had a friend in HS who was about a smart as a brick but super hunky. The other guys in the friend group jokingly called him “bait” because all the girls would come to hang out when he was with them. The friend group got the overflow. But this is the exception. It’s not the rule. Again - unless you’re so good looking that personality has no bearing for some. Lol. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themNo of course not. That’s also not what I said at all if you’ve read my posts here. But pretending friendship only because you think someone is hot? Keeping a friendship for years and then just not talking to the person anymore because they’re no longer attractive to you? That’s fucked up. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themThey had only ever been friends. But sure. That only proves the point I’m raising here. That some men disrespect women if they don’t find them attractive. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:37 AM |
| 12 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themWhat? No. This is they reached out as friends. Then they decided she was no longer worth talking to as a friend because she wasn’t attractive anymore to them. This is just one example. Many men treat women they feel are attractive a lot better. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 27 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themWoman here. Trust me. This happens in the reverse too. For sure. For example - I have a friend who’s mid fifties now. She was a babe when she was young. She’s had a couple of incidents where guys who were friends from her past reached out to reconnect then realized she’s older and not as hot and all of a sudden they don’t want to talk or be her friend anymore. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | She said she was on Birth Control?Buddy - always always wrap it up. Always. Unless you’re in a long term committed relationship and you decide on going raw together with Bc. You have no idea who this person is. If they’re truthful or not. If they’re even a good person or not. If they have an undisclosed STD or not. Wrapping it up is the way to go and good on you for not giving into momentary temptation. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | We all know a guy who seems to drown in poon juice despite having almost nothing going for him, so what's the deal?I wish I knew. Lol. I’m a woman and have a friend like this. We’ve been friends since we were in HS. You wouldn’t believe the amount of women who literally threw themselves at him. He’s an average guy. 5’8”, brown hair and eyes. Bad teeth. Lol. But he’s a really interesting and fun and energetic person. I think maybe they’re drawn to his energy. Who knows? | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Honestly? Twenty seconds of courage. You just do it. You keep doing it and you’ll get much more comfortable with it. Think of it like getting your engineering degree. There are times you’re scared. Times you feel like you’re not good enough. That you’ll never get there. But you keep going. You learn. No one is good at something right away. It takes practice. It takes courage. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Does friends with benefits ever work?I’ve had really good experiences with FWB situations. You just both need to be clear that it’s not a LTR and lay out the ground rules. Such as sexual exclusivity if you want that. Honestly about dating others. Etc. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 3 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesCopy paste from google: “In fashion and clothing, a petite size is a U.S. standard clothing size designed to fit women of a short, smaller build of height 163 cm (5 ft 4 in) or less.” But for sure I agree with you on the small build as I mentioned in my initial comment to you. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesJust to comment. Petite doesn’t mean what you think it means. :). Means small build and 5’4” or under. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:51 AM |
| 16 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesUmm. Not even sure what to say here other than you are not even discriminated against for your height. 5’10” isn’t short. It’s above average for a guy. Guys who are 5’6” and under experience height discrimination regularly. That said - I’m sorry you are feeling badly. I agree social media has contributed. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking?Yeah sure. Your OF site needs attention. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 3 | When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking?Ewwww. No. This is not a sign. This is a woman trying to workout and having to deal with creepy shit like this. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?Anti depressants like Prozac can effect sexual function. So can alcohol. Together they can have a double effect. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?Don’t drink. Don’t masturbate for a few days to a week before seeing her. I bet nature will take its course. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?I couldn’t tell you. But there are just certain people who have crazy charisma to the opposite sex. I’m a girl. But a guy I was really good friends with growing up had this power over women (not me). He’s not tall. Maybe 5’7”. Average looking. Great personality. But women threw themselves at him. It was crazy. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?Friends should be happy for you. Not dicks to you when you tell them something positive about your life. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meIt’s not the actual age difference. Nobody would give two fucks if a 42 year old was dating a 30 year old. But the fact is that someone who is 30 is in a completely different stage of life than someone who is 18 and just out of HS. There are issues with power dynamics in the relationship and very honestly there are a LOT of seriously creepy older guys that want to date very young (recently legal) women. Who are predators and want someone they can manipulate. I’m sure not all. But enough that bas… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:11 PM |
| -9 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meBut 32 to 22? That’s completely different stages of life and borders on creepy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | girls on tinder started to text me less, should I just ask her out?Ask her out. You have nothing to lose at this point. In future ask a girl out quickly. Texting fades fast when you’re hoping to actually meet someone. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 3 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Usually there is a place to put what you’re looking for/interested in. Put “Casual Dating” in that spot. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to believe girls like personality?I wish I could answer this question. Lol. But all I know is it’s just the way things seem to be. For me I think I just realized that great guys come in many different packages and I care a lot more that my partner is kind and a great companion than about how he looks. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to believe girls like personality?Because having a great rapport with someone matters a lot. Half the fun of being with someone is being able to joke around and have great silly conversations. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to believe girls like personality?Maybe this will help. I think many young women go for looks first. But over time as we get older many women go for personality. I know I do. So maybe it’s just not yet your time. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl overSincere question. Why do you want to invite only one girl over that you are friends with and who only sees you as a friend? Seems to me you want to get laid. So be honest and look for someone who wants the same thing. Not someone who thinks you are their friend when you just want to bang them. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestWhat does that even have to do with this conversation? Other that your little fee fees are hurt because I pointed out inaccurate data? Wow. Hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestPerhaps you should actually do some reading on the subject. You’ve just shown your idiocy and insulting people on the internet is pathetic. Go ahead and cry into your Cheerios because your widdle fee fees are hurt. https://www.census.gov/prod/cen2010/briefs/c2010br-03.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 09:41 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThis is just simply not true. Go anywhere and you’re likely to see a very attractive woman with a guy with a dad bod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThis isn’t true at all that the obesity rate is higher among women than men. Although severe obesity is slightly higher in women. Maybe you may want to check out the actual facts. “Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over. Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3% among those aged 40–59, and 43.3% among those aged 60 and over. None of the differences by age were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:34 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestAgree. So sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?So I guess for me the entire point is meeting people to see if we click. So an in person meeting is the way to go. Could be 1000 reasons why she didn’t respond for a couple weeks. I’d meet her in person and see if there’s anything there. What do you have to lose? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 5 | How do you decline sex?Umm. Did you just leave her hanging? She blew you and you didn’t try to reciprocate in some way? | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?We do. I was once in the position of wanting to be intimate with someone and not wanting a relationship. Fwb for the win! | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I would suggest rubbing her the area around her clit with your fingers. Maybe alternate between that and oral and yes brother. You need to push through if you’re bored or getting a little tired. But you could alternate between fingering and oral if you’re getting too tired or a bit sore. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?It’s definitely a thing and not new at all. BUT a good friend of mine growing up is shorter. Not classically good looking at all. But women could not keep their hands off him. It was impressive. So yes. Height will shut some doors for you. But it certainly doesn’t mean you can’t be successful dating or hooking up. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?That’s simply not true. There are absolutely men who value and want marriage. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Look dude. If a woman wants to get laid that is a forgone conclusion it can happen for her. But looking for a relationship is an entirely different thing. That you can’t see that is a little disturbing. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Some guys just have that “it factor” that attracts girls. I am a woman. I had a really good friend growing up who is a guy. He’s not particularly tall. Maybe 5’8” or 9”. Not particularly physically good looking. But my God the girls would not leave him alone. He just had that charisma about him. Women threw themselves at him all the time. Starting from when we were 14 or 15. Sounds like your brother is one of these guys. Don’t compare yourself to him. It’s not worth it. These kind of guys who ha… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”?Ah the Han Solo response. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotBest advice? Treat her like a person. Not some unattainable treasure. Do you have women who are friends? That is the way you interact. Friendly. Then she will give you signals if she is interested. Such as touching you, the hair twist, etc. You also need to think - what do I have to lose if I ask her out? Not asking is a for sure no. Asking? If she says no you’ve lost nothing. If she says yes then you proceed from there. Nothing ventured nothing gained. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked me to leave after we started making out when I came back from bathroomI wouldn’t even think twice about it OP. This is a her thing not a you thing. :). Unless you took a LONG time in the bathroom and she thought you were pleasuring yourself solo :p. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully?I think it’s because his life experiences have led him to becoming 100% himself. He knows who he is. All his own strengths. All his own weaknesses. He also has compassion for others. So when he leads he leads with confidence and he would take no for an answer. That’s attractive and women respond to it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem?I mean 5” is about average? It’s not small. Honestly some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with a partner who was 4”. It matters more the sexual connection you have and showing your partner a good time. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Women fall into two categories: those who are attracted to you, and those who aren’t. The concept of ‘leagues’ is nothing more than a self-limiting mindset that leads to failure.I really agree with this. Plus the amount of beautiful women with physically unattractive partners would concur. I rarely ever see an attractive guy with an unattractive girl. But the other way around I see all the time in real life. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]There are a non small number of guys that lose interest after having sex once. For them it’s all about the conquest. Maybe he’s one of them? | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You sent her a dick pic. Never ever send a dick pic unless you’re asked for one. Really. Ever. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Put it in your online dating profile that you’re looking for a FWB situation or casual dating. Easy. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Not fapping just helped my finger pull the triggerFrom what I’ve read it means the person has watched and wanked to porn so much that he has become used to it and can’t stay hard and get there with an actual woman. Only his normal porn-induced way. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 37 | Not fapping just helped my finger pull the triggerPorn-Induced Erectile Disfunction is my guess. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Left my number on her truckDefinitely not creepy. Sweet and a very nice way to give your number. Says this woman :). | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | How I Text WomenNo. My disagreement is with this post being 1. Complete bullshit and 2. Treating women as objects instead of as people. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 72 | How I Text WomenI’m a woman and this is one of the most ridiculous and useless pieces of advice I’ve ever seen. There are plenty of men who enjoy texting far more than I do. 🙄 | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Gotta have standards beyond looks.End of that date if you’re both feeling it. Or sometime during the date if you can’t wait and want to test chemistry. It’s hot when a guy asks if he may kiss me. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 6 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Yes but I’ll add we should all do this FOR OURSELVES! Working to better yourself and make our lives happier needs a personal commitment. Whether we find a partner or not. :) | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 07:31 PM |
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