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RhettButler7/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 01:33 PM
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Maybe I’m overthinking it, but everyone seems to be making upwards of $250k in NYC, even outside of finance. This is false. But this false narrative has been spun so often that it has gained the veneer of legitimacy. I make $150k in NYC, and live in a very nice apartment in Gramercy. My friend (VP at BB IB) makes $500k/year, and both of us live a similar lifestyle. People widely over-estimate the amount of money they need to be happy. Show me someone making $100k+ in NYC and "struggling", and I'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 07:46 AM
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If you look at it logically, Christianity is a Red Pill story. Mary marries Beta Joseph. But when hawt Roman legionary comes around, she spreads her legs for him. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. False rape accusations weren't in vogue during the reign of Emperor Octavian (27 BC to 14 AD), so she went with the "I'm raising the son of god".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 08:53 AM
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The raising of another man's bastard has long been normalized by Hollywood propaganda. Even as early as Jerry Maguire (1996), we see a woman raising Chad's bastard, and by the end of the movie, land the mythical Alpha Bucks (Tom Cruise). Again, that was in 1996. Women under age 25 have been hearing this fantasy since the day they were born.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 08:43 AM
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AWALT is absolute. "But my girlfriend/wife is different" is copium. Every woman, up to and including your mother and grandmother, are like that. Women are not any different today than they were 100 years ago. The only difference is that they do no longer have the bulwark of the patriarchy, and societal expectations to check their hypergamy. 100 years ago, if a woman cheated on her husband, she was ostracized by society, was often thrown out on the street by her husband, and lost access to her ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 09:09 AM
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Depends greatly on who you are as a person. For a dark triad Chad who has little or no asset or skill worth speaking of and certainly no future, this is the greatest time in history. In every other time throughout history, fathers made certain that their daughters weren't ruined by these men. These same men today can amass harems of beautiful women through downloading Tinder alone. However, for men who have have built a great life and career for themselves through talent and/or hard work, there …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 02:30 PM
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Excellent post. I tried escorts during the summer I interned in BB IB. Tried escorts from an agency that primarily offered Russian girls at ~$400/hour range. I checked their TER reviews beforehand, and recommend you do the same. Can echo almost everything OP said, but to add to it... Escorts will almost always require you to wear a condom, and aren't very enthusiastic about extended french kissing. If like myself, you only go rawdog and require deep kissing, then escorts are not for you. In hind…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 10:23 PM
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I'm still shocked by how censoring has become acceptable, and how discourse of differing ideas can get you ostracized. A decade ago, I took a university class on sociology and wrote a paper linking the Feminist movement and the sexual revolution of the '70s with increased divorce rates and a decrease in happiness in women. The professor was a staunch liberal who wore pussy hats in anti-Trump parades. But he still praised my critical thinking and well reasoned arguments. He didn't agree with my p…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 08:42 PM
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Your post is absolute truth. But 95% of men are unwilling or unable to even consider it. Even high value Chads like Trump got married to women who brought nothing to the table. Leonardo DiCaprio is the only famous Chad that is living the Red Pill life, by dumping women when they hit 25, and upgrading to a younger model. IMO, things will never get better. We will continue to see men marry post-wall shrews, and act baffled when they get divorce raped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 03:23 PM
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Girl is an attractive 19 yo, and already pregnant. So you can rawdog without fear. This is the only type of girl to sleep with from Tinder. Men are far better served to approach girls IRL. But you would never approach pregnant girls, so it's perfect. "I won't sleep with you" rhetoric is not a problem. That only applies to Beta Billy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 02:37 PM
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I started Red Pill in 2014, so by the time this interaction came to pass, I had already had plenty of experience, so I improvised. But when I was starting out, I followed Roissy's teachings and asked myself "what would an uncaring asshole say" and then messaged whatever I thought best. It was hit/miss and there was a lot of trial and error.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 06:35 PM
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Cheers mate! I most enjoy chicken wings. Absolutely love them. Also eat beef and lamb on occasion to make sure that I'm getting enough micronutrients. Always whole pieces though. Not a fan of ground meat. I eat once a day, but always to satiety. Honestly not even hungry when I do eat during my one meal.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 06:26 PM
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I never use "hey" or "whats up". 99.99% of men use this and I know if I do as well, then my post will get buried in the 1000+ other matches that she has. I typically make an inappropriate joke as an opener. I'm no Jimmy Carr, but I try. Just checked my phone, and my last opener was: "I just saw 3 midgets walking by. If you help me look for the gold, you can keep half". This sort of thing almost always gets a response. Beware: some girls will unmatch you if they take offence.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 06:20 PM
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Bloody hell... that's tragic. On the plus side, at least you don't think I'm a wizard for having 24 matches over the span of 2 months while maxing out the daily quota on swipes every day. And this is in NYC, filled with young women, and almost all of whom are on Tinder. I think a lot of people on this sub don't realize that Chads get 100+ matches within a day, let alone weeks or months. Or even how much you can improve your prospects even with average looks.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 06:00 PM
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Damn. You and I have the opposite problem. I can't get these birds to match, hence 24 matches in 2 months. Meanwhile you get 100s of matches, but can't convert.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:51 PM
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I wouldn't say she's famous. I'd certainly never heard of her before. She had a bit part in Pretty Little Liars and several other shows I can't remember and I'll never watch. She messaged me first. I list stand-up comedy among my interests, and she said she met Russell Peters, one of my favorite comedians. I called bullshit. She sent me a pic with proof. I made a retarded joke about seeing a midget that I thought was Peter Dinklage. Some other stuff I can't remember. She mentioned she also paint…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:46 PM
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Manhattan isn't for everyone. Even the 3rd floor walkup in Murray Hill was $2200/month lol. That was with no doorman, no elevator and noisy neighbors. However, I prefer to walk everywhere, and to me it's worth the price to be able to be within 30 minute walking distance to my office, gym, bars, clubs, shops etc. Just FYI, the "luxury" condos you see in Hollywood movies cost 10-20k+ per month. Those condos have way too many things I would never use. Even if I made $10 million/year, those places w…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:30 PM
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It's been several years since I read the sidebar, so I would recommend reading all of it. It's all excellent. Apart from that, read Roissy's Chateau Heartiste. The Poon Commandments are absolute. There's a lot of gold in the pre-2014 posts at least. That's when I read them. Apart from that, excellent game will come with practice my friend. Somewhat surprised that you say you have the Frame down pat, since even after many years Red Pilled, I still struggle maintaining Frame at times.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:16 PM
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Disagree on "light skin, green eyes, long hair, 6 ft" Indian guys struggling. Am good friends with a 6' jacked Bangladeshi with good game, and he does very well with women. Since to White people, Bangladesh=India=Pakistan, I think my point stands. Yes, the White Chad will always outperform him, but since he's laying pipe on the reg, I don't think he's too bothered about it.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:09 PM
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Luxury condo in Manhattan is elevator, 24/7 doorman minimum. In addition to the above, my apartment also had central air conditioning, a small gym within the building, laundry facilities, and several other perks. Also must stress that renting through Zillow or through a broker should be a last resort, and you will never find good value. I got my place through a sublet from a gym acquaintance. Before that I lived in a 3rd floor walkup in Murray Hill with none of the above perks. Getting Amazon de…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:01 PM
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Sure. I list stand-up comedy and MMA among my interests. The Australian messaged me saying that she actually went to a UFC event in Melbourne a few years back (Whittaker vs Brunson). Whittaker was the UFC Middleweight Champ at the time. I'm knowledgeable about MMA, so initial messages were me joking around about how Whittaker had to fight an actual rock golem (Romero) for 50 minutes. I then shifted the convo to a nearby bar that shows UFC events. She invited me out for drinks. I don't drink, so …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:47 PM
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Cheers! I'm a former MMA fighter and since retiring in my mid-20s, have maintained my diet and exercise regimen. I have high insulin sensitivity and thus have a tendency to fat. As you may imagine, this posed a problem when I had to make weight prior to fights. Eliminating all carbs solved this problem. For the last 10 years or so, I have been on a meat-only diet, so naturally it's very high protein, so lifting heavy is not an issue. If you're interested, Ted Naiman, MD has excellent explanation…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:33 PM
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A luxury condo in Gramercy, where I lived, ranges from $2500 to $4500 per month depending on timing, luck and whether or not you used a broker. Mine was on the lower end of the scale, and I'm subletting it from someone who holds the primary lease. $35-40k per year in housing isn't going to make you broke if you have a decent income and live within your means. And my lifestyle choices are independent of income. I would do the same if I made $10 million/year.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:25 PM
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The actress was an invite to her place to see her artwork. She also paints as a hobby. No artwork was observed. The Australian invited me out for drinks. I don't drink, so we ended up going to a taping of Late Night with Seth Meyers. From there, I suggested a comedy club 2 minutes from my apartment. So 2 venue changes, but same night. My profile has pictures of me with hot girls and doing interesting activities. Social proof can offset average looks to some degree. I have also travelled extensiv…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:16 PM
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Same as with every other lay really. But I was pleasantly surprised by the fact that they were excellent conversationalists and seemed genuinely interested in me. Struggled pretty hard to retain Frame and not go beta on them. The actress, I tried to convert to a plate. But she was engaged to her boyfriend, so she didn't want to continue. The Australian went back a week after the initial hookup. We smashed a couple more times before she left. Which is probably for the best, since I would have bee…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:00 PM
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I don't own the property. A luxury condo in Gramercy, where I lived, ranges from $2500 to $4500 per month depending on timing, luck and whether or not you used a broker. Mine was on the lower end of the scale, and I'm subletting it from someone who holds the primary lease. Apart from housing, I don't really spend money on anything else, and live well within my means. Everything from my office, the gym, bars, clubs, shops is walking distance. I hardly even use the subway. So essentially no transp…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:51 PM
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Apart from housing, I don't really spend money on anything else, and live well within my means. Everything from my office, the gym, bars, clubs, shops is walking distance. I hardly even use the subway. So essentially no transport cost. I also eat one meal a day, and cook that meal myself, so no exorbitant restaurant bills. Neither do I drink nor do I do drugs, so misc expense is also zero.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:48 PM
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A HB5 is a girl who is a 5 out of 10. If you're new, highly recommend the sidebar. It's excellent. Also recommend Roissy's Chateau Heartiste. The Commandments of Poon are absolute.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:44 PM
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Must disagree here. This is not SF, Seattle or god forbid, DC. In NYC, there are many, many 9s walking around. You still need to have a base level of success and decent game, and even then it will be a rare occurrence. I did not mean to give off the impression that I'm laying pipe on 9s all the time. That it happened at all, and the fact that they initiated the message, was baffling to me then as now. It occasionally happens that I strike out with a girl, and in the same night sleep with another…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:36 PM
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Could you please elaborate? Why would I be a particularly "easy lay", when girls can get Chads for ONS with relative ease. As was evident with the results from the female profile. This is why I was so surprised that the two HB9 messaged me first.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:23 PM
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For reference, I make over $100k/year, live in a luxury condo in Manhattan, Did you mention any of that in your profile? If youre saying you are average and short, money fixes all that. No way to reliably signal for this without coming off as tryhard. I do hint at it when setting up logistics, so I think it might indirectly protect me against egregious flaking.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:13 PM
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Having average looks does not excuse you from maxing out your value. My profile has pictures of me with hot girls and doing interesting activities. Social proof can offset it to some degree. I have also travelled extensively and included it in my Bio, further demonstrating value. My travel was work-related, and I personally despise travelling, but girls love it, so I signal it to all and sundry.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:07 PM
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Apart from housing, I don't really spend money on anything else, and live well within my means. Everything from my office, the gym, bars, clubs, shops is walking distance. I hardly even use the subway. So essentially no transport cost. I also eat one meal a day, and cook that meal myself, so no exorbitant restaurant bills. Neither do I drink nor do I do drugs, so misc expense is also zero.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:56 PM
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This was in NYC over a period of 2 months. This would be 50*60 = 3,000 girls I swiped right on. Out of those a tiny fraction matched and out of those, only 24 remained after I culled the bots and the obese. That is less than 1%. Not exactly what I would class as "that many".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:46 PM
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Did you read the part where I said I maxed out the likes every day? This would be 50*60 = 3,000 girls I swiped right on. This was over a period of 2 months. Out of those a tiny fraction matched and out of those, only 24 remained after I culled the bots and the obese. Just thought to post, since I saw a recent post where the guys were saying they were getting 20 matches per day. However, they did admit to being handsome and jacked. So a post about an average guy's results sheds some light on thos…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:36 PM
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Oh I had already known this. But knowing it from basic Red Pill principles is markedly different from holding your iPhone and watching 100+ Chads message a girl I myself would refuse to even plate. I still recommend trying it for yourself. If for no other reason than amusement.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:22 PM
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If you read my post, you would have known that I accounted for the very thing by only including men who actually sent a message. Thus excluding those who immediately unmatch.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:15 PM
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The 3 HB5 had pretty faces but were a little overweight, around 150-160 lb. I kept them in the sample because the vast majority of women, even pretty ones, are at least slightly overweight. Welcome to America. My personal preferences for skinny girls led me to ignore those 3 girls, but someone else who prefers thicker girls may have accepted them. However, 200 lb+ is excluded because at that level they are more whale than woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:12 PM
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Everything you describe is 10x worse in US and Canada. Here a woman can simply put your name on her bastard's birth certificate without your knowledge and you are still on the line for child support. Yes, this can apply even if you are not the father. Why do you think you see all these pregnant thots on Tinder?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 12:33 PM
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Don't you frogs have GOAT child-support protections? I thought the French had laws that state that the man has to explicitly claim fatherhood over a child to be liable for child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 11:31 AM
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Depends on body type. Do you eat one meal a day, and are still overweight? You should eliminate all carbs from your diet. Look into Zero Carb. Never drink calories. Life will be much harder for you than the skinnyboy category. Deal with it. Are you skinny while eating ungodly amount of junkfood? Reduce sugar and processed foods. Your carb intake should include rice, potatoes and other natural carbs. High protein and a decent lifting regimen is mandatory for every body type. If you are a beginner…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 03:57 AM
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“my husband does all the cooking in my house, I would never cook every night. He waits on me!” Don't be surprised when you see them divorce and she says something like, "my husband is a nice guy, and a great father, but I dunno... I'm just not in love anymore". Then the comments become more toxic.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 07:43 PM
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Gold-digger is a ridiculous accusation in the first place, not to mention misogynistic. From the dawn of mankind, women have gravitated towards men who are good providers and leaders. Female hypergamy is woven into the very fabric of their being. It is a feature, not a bug. This is RPW. It is a safe assumption that most women on this sub want children, a traditional marriage, and all that entails. And it is women who have a lower probability of producing healthy children past 35, not men. Don't …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 09:17 AM
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Do you have student loans from your undergrad and masters degree? Men (at least the ones worth having) don't care about your career or how much money you make. Men are fine with you bringing nothing into the relationship, but they may be wary if you have negative net worth, or spend more than you make. As long as you don't have student loans or credit card debt, and are debt free, you could work at McDonalds and it wouldn't detract from your SMV/RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 07:13 PM
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If you are with someone from high school or college, the problem is that you don't know whether or not they will succeed. You could devote the prime years of your life to someone who ends up in a dead end job out of college. Or worse, has a struggling business that hemorrhages money. Then your choice is to either raise a family in poverty or try your hand at the marriage/dating market where your value is 10x lower than it used to be. Might sound mercenary of me, but I would always suggest going …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 07:04 PM
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Your nose, lips and teeth are fine. As long as you don't have ancillary issues like bad breath, facial/body hair, you should be good. Since you're slim, I would suggest lifting weights at the gym. A toned body will add to your appeal, and again set you apart, since less than 1% of American women have it. Don't believe the myth that you will get huge biceps and turn into a bodybuilder. These women that you see online are on steroids and testosterone. Even men have issues putting on muscle after y…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 01:46 PM
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Exactly. RP men have an entirely different end-game than RP women. It becomes glaringly obvious if you think about it logically. If a RP man is in shape, has good income, and has gained the ability to sleep with numerous young, attractive women, through months/years of arduous self-improvement, why would this man then enter a LTR or marriage in 2020? Modern women are perfectly willing to give him sex, love and companionship outside marriage. These men may seem like good prospects at the outset, …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 01:08 PM
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What do you mean "VERY below average face"? Do you have acne or visible skin issues? If not, becoming skinnier can solve a lot of problems. Feminism and the obesity epidemic has led to a drastic lowering of the bar for women. If you are skinny (be brutally honest here) and smile when you speak, you are automatically top 10% of women, independent of your looks. If you are skinny and have a pleasant smile, looks do not matter as much as you think they do. Judging from your post, you seem to have m…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 12:51 PM
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What kind of engineer? Not all engineers are created equal. Entry level Engineer salaries range from $60k to $120k+ depending on the city, type of engineering, and the company. What's the US News ranking of the school? You can give a range like 20-30 if you don't want to specify. What's his GPA? Student Loans? He's a senior, so ideally he should have already had an engineering internship, preferably multiple internships. Engineering internships are very easy to get, compared to finance internshi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 08:15 PM
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That was horrible advice. If a girl does what he suggests, depending on how much experience the man has with women, there are 2 outcomes. 1) She becomes a plate for a high SMV man 2) Even a less experienced man's opinion of the girl falls drastically. He will sleep with her, no doubt. But he would never marry this girl. KaraZorElf has the best advice on this thread. Become skinny. Wear a cheap, cute dress from Target. Smile. That puts you in the top 1% of women regardless of your looks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 12:37 PM
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Offering to pay occasionally is really important This. Yes, the man should be paying, but it reflects poorly on the RPW if she should take it for granted. Even if he pays 95 or 100% of the time, be sure to appear thankful. As you said, he is not super wealthy, so even $100 is not insignificant.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 08:35 AM
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