RhiRhiRolls Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	How can women & feminists help MR?	Questions	RhiRhiRolls	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 12:53 PM

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1	Q4Women: Women of PPD, please answers these questions to help me understand some important things about female sexuality. I should like to add, about physical stimulation, most women rarely or never orgasm from intromission. And I very much doubt penis size is all that much determinant to this. An ideal robot for physical stimulation would address the clitoris, not the vagina. I mention this to make very clear the gulf between optimal physical sensation and the actually desired experience. The clitoris has far more to offer than PIV in terms of stimulation, but what about the experience? PIV hits the psychological …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/17 07:34 AM
1	Q4Women: Women of PPD, please answers these questions to help me understand some important things about female sexuality. 1: What do women really think about penises? Do they turn you on? If not, why not? If so, what about them turns you on? Do you fantasize about them? What is your overall psychosexual relationship with the male penis? Some people think genitals look ugly. Some people think the genitals of one gender look ugly. I like genitals. I think penises are pretty, although circumcision is pretty skeevy for me. Some penises are ugly. Some are quite beautiful. Many are cute. I fantasize about penises in the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/17 03:08 AM
1	Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you ever see men in public who are so beautiful that it has a powerful emotional impact on you, and really messes with your emotions, and drives you to distraction all day? 1: Because of anisogamy / Bateman's Principle. Women have to have selective discernment for genetic quality. And women have to have discernment of traits signaling capacity and willingness for parental investment. Women who haven't had these qualities didn't have very much success passing on genes. In short, for a man, the woman supplies her eggs and bodily resources. He has an incentive to choose an attractive woman whose body indicates her access to food. He can impregnate many, many women - i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/17 03:48 PM
1	Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you ever see men in public who are so beautiful that it has a powerful emotional impact on you, and really messes with your emotions, and drives you to distraction all day? I thought about it and couldn't come up with anything clear. There's a difference, but how to conceptualize and then verbalize it, IDK still. The sensations just hit me on different levels is the best I can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/17 02:00 PM
2	Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs? What kinds of mean shit have people said (1) about you and (2) to your face? I've been dubbed a slut - unfoundedly. Rumors about me getting with people have gone around, none of them founded. People have also called me slut to my face when emboldened by it becoming fashionable to see me that way and the resulting lack of social support. This was high school, so you can expect b/s drama. But adults still play into that kind of crap. If you have big breasts, people think you are easy. You will be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/17 04:52 AM
3	Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs? Can you elaborate on what your mental/physiological response is to his attractiveness? Then we can see whether it's similar. Sometimes looking at him I lose my trail of thought and am sort of concussed for a second and then that feeling passes. But I don't think it's stunning in the same way men are stunned, as per your last thread about a profound emotional effect. It's not haunting. Isn't this quite rare? I mean, I see stunning women every day, so if it's 10 times a year for you then that conf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/17 01:16 AM
5	Are confident and assertive men who are successful with women invariably going to be viewed as rapey by some women? Though rather than saying one was "creepy" and the other was "confident", they should just call it like it is and say they weren't attracted to the neckbeard. One is creepy. Behavior out of sync with your SMV is creepy. It signals delusion. Delusion is dangerous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/17 01:09 PM
1	Are confident and assertive men who are successful with women invariably going to be viewed as rapey by some women? And why shouldn't it be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/17 12:00 PM
3	Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs? I have a very attractive guy friend who I'm sometimes stunned by, but I wonder if I mean the same thing that you mean - I don't think so. Otherwise I see men as facially attractive as him, iDK, 10 times a year? There is no equivalent. There just isn't. Height, shoulders & ratio, butt - these are nice... and in no way equivalent. Some study showed that women are reduced to parts for inspection and men are taken as a whole. Some of us like muscular men, even to the steroid-y point you mentioned (I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/17 11:48 AM
2	Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you ever see men in public who are so beautiful that it has a powerful emotional impact on you, and really messes with your emotions, and drives you to distraction all day? Have you noticed a difference in your attraction to men and women? Yes, but I don't think as definably as it is for you. I'll need to think about this. For example I've lusted after women on first sight. I think about touching them and doing unto them. I tend to only lust after men after a physical or intimate conversation; and one that signals dominant behaviors - strong hands/ strong grasp/ guiding motions / measured conversation, etc. None of these things I can assess or feel by just looking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/17 07:09 AM
12	Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you ever see men in public who are so beautiful that it has a powerful emotional impact on you, and really messes with your emotions, and drives you to distraction all day? I feel like this physical beauty is a one-way street; men simply aren't physically beautiful enough to have this effect on women. I don't think so. Men can be very beautiful. I'm a bisexual woman: a beautiful man catches my eye as much or more than a woman. That said, the average woman is much better-looking than the average man. But it's not that men aren't or can't be beautiful 'enough.' It's that female attraction isn't nearly so prone to infatuation on sight. Evolution scripted men to go aft…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/17 02:30 AM
1	Wage Gap is a MYTH Or you just didn't understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 04:12 PM
1	Wage Gap is a MYTH Duh. Incidentally, if you look for that, you'll still find a gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 04:02 PM
1	Wage Gap is a MYTH No, 23 cents is the median wage gap between women and men working full-time. This is a product of hours worked, experience & performance, careers selected and promotability. It's important because: It's a measure of female financial dependence on men, or from a male perspective, the relative incentive women have to sponge off men. Want less socioeconomic hypergamy1 and divorce rape? Have more financial equality. It's a measure of career choice and how some careers are valued, both being suscepti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 03:46 PM
2	Wage Gap is a MYTH This is unknown. Most researchers conclude that there is some discrimination involved, on the order of a couple of cents. Also cf. Lily Ledbetter, etc. But this misses the broader conversation. The factors which shape women's choices - an open question. The ongoing negotiation of the wages for traditional 'women's work' in the marketplace. Also, most of the gap owes itself to a. women being less sensitive to pay, and b. less inclined to bargain and less skillful in doing so - in other words, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 01:09 PM
-3	Wage Gap is a MYTH The wage gap isn't a myth, no economist has refuted it. Claudia Goldin said a few things and the manosphere or whatever it's called has circle-jerked on it for years. Go to google scholar and do some real research. Oh, and this? Here is the problem: American women are the best informed and most self-determining human beings in the world. Silliness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/17 10:14 AM
5	[Question for Women that reject TRP]: What exactly do you want in your man? I don't think you understand how stringent #1 was for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/17 05:59 PM
5	[Question for Women that reject TRP]: What exactly do you want in your man? Nope. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find a belly rubber? Like a real one? In (more) seriousness, #1 was almost always the dealbreaker, and to a lesser extent #4 if not #3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/17 05:15 PM
1	[Question for Women that reject TRP]: What exactly do you want in your man? Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/17 05:05 PM
6	[Question for Women that reject TRP]: What exactly do you want in your man? Someone I can see the father in. Good-looking. Intelligent enough to teach me things. Sensitive enough to learn from me. Rubs my back and belly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/17 03:56 PM
2	Banned and muted from r/Feminism for disagreeing I'm a feminist and I've also been banned from that cult-like sub. For having a nuanced position on the wage gap. Which is apparently blaming women for choices. Which is wrong. And bad. And banworthy. Something's got to give. We can't keep on like this.	/r/MensRights	24/05/17 12:41 PM
3	As a female, I think the Red Pill documentary has the potential to usher in both male and female allies for the Mens Rights movement. Thanks, I needed to read this.	/r/MensRights	24/05/17 12:36 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? Thank you, somehow I missed this post the first time around.	/r/MensRights	21/05/17 02:36 AM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? Why, exactly, do you care? I don't mean that in an accusatory way, I'd honestly like to know. gender issues are the most important issues i know because so many of us find fulfillment through romance & family the status quo is that men trivialize and dismiss women's issues and women trivialize and dismiss men's issues; men train women to dismiss our own issues, as women train men. the result is mass disconnection and mutual immiseration on a more personal level i have a father, a brother, a husb…	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 04:15 AM
2	How can women & feminists help MR? some of us do, more of us will	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 04:07 AM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? for what it's worth, i'm banned from gender critical for saying that gender emerges inescapably from biology and from r/feminism for saying this about the wage gap: If you hold the position that equal work should be paid equally there is nothing wrong with not believing in the wage gap. The wage gap, as commonly presented on both sides of the argument, is largely a red herring anyway. But I encourage you to go to google scholar and research for yourself. There is a wage gap for equal work at equ…	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 03:13 AM
2	How can women & feminists help MR? i agreed with both of your posts save that gendered advocacy is a bad thing - with more dialogue it needn't be adversarial, imo, and i don't really see an option to go straight for equalism or that it would be appropriate without men speaking for men and women speaking for women comprising it first and talking together	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 02:35 AM
2	How can women & feminists help MR? this is incorrect 1) patriarchy theory is a radfem theory which doesn't describe the broader tendency of libfem, or equity feminism and its variants for that matter this is as inaccurate as the other guy conflating critical theory with feminism as a awhole gender role theory (the idea that gender roles are primarily cultural / societal in origin). doesn't describe difference feminism, equity feminism, etc.; there are even feminist evo psych organizations cf. anne campbell, diane halpern, carol g…	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 02:25 AM
4	How can women & feminists help MR? Thank you.	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 07:17 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? Since you're a feminist perhaps you could explain this behaviour. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Origins_of_Totalitarianism	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 05:39 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? idk why you are taking about my needs i am asking you how to better support men's issues i understand wanting men's issues to be taken seriously, but you are saying you don't want women to take them seriously, that men's issues will be solved by men alone even tho so many of your issues have to do with having them dismissed by women?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 05:15 PM
0	How can women & feminists help MR? my views have never been misandric ofc, and politics evolve along lines of dialogue between disparate groups Edit: Sigh indeed. MensLib calls your views "misconceptions" and turns you down. a sad show indeed when the one men's movement that is explicitly pro feminist is unwilling to work with feminism on men's issues out of fear of... idek	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 05:12 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? feminism isnt a clear cut ideology where everyone has the same beliefs and walks around with a little red book ive been reading feminist lit for a looong time, feminism is as varied as it gets there are few fundamental underpinnings, only tendencies and very few feminists believe that men are all rapists or that we live in a rape culture rape culture in third wave use is really about rapey subcultures	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 05:09 PM
0	How can women & feminists help MR? Not sure how you missed the part where I also said: Men's issues are very real and also important. We need a pro-feminist, non-reactionary, non-misogynistic men's movement like men's lib to work with - and together we can platform both sexes' issues and work out conflicts of interest. Secondly, I didn't get the boot from menslib. They just did this: We feel that this post is too generalized to be very productive, as it potentially frames women and feminism as singular entities that aren't doing …	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 04:35 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? why does feminism fundamentally oppose the advancement & care of men?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 04:23 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? 1) Stop trying to "help" men why? and why then mra?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 04:23 PM
4	How can women & feminists help MR? Thanks for this! I'm familiar with Dr. Farrell's work and have read 2 of his books, I look forward to reading more. I'd love to see prominent MRAs meet with sympathetic feminists and talk more of this out, I think we really have a lot of common concerns. I agree that the Duluth model is garbage, as is the Koss definition of rape.	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 04:20 PM
2	How can women & feminists help MR? i've been a feminist for 13 years now	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 04:19 PM
1	How can women & feminists help MR? why?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 02:33 PM
4	How can women & feminists help MR? why?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 02:32 PM
2	How can women & feminists help MR? as a feminist, why cant i?	/r/MensRights	14/05/17 02:18 PM
106	Snapchat News This Morning: "If men wish to procreate with beautiful, fertile women they're gross." Filthy bioessentialist.	/r/MensRights	13/05/17 12:33 AM
6	Professor says she felt raped by white male student's paper touting men's rights The thing is this professor is a rape victim... (For the trigger happy, I am not justifying her outlook, but that she is a rape victim makes the statement above mine more problematic.)	/r/MensRights	28/04/17 05:17 AM