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10

You should try and get some self respect and not let women use you as an alcohol delivery guy.
/r/seduction14/08/23 12:43 AM
15

Sure brah.
/r/seduction13/08/23 09:28 PM
16

So you are her delivery boy now? Sucker.
/r/seduction13/08/23 09:24 PM
3

Oh brother. One of THOSE again.
/r/seduction13/08/23 04:11 PM
1

Would you rather men call you that?
/r/seduction12/08/23 11:37 AM
1

I don't know if it is, but it is the real thing. I mean you can also sit home and play video games and win fake digital rewards instead of going out in the real world and having adventures and achieving victories that matter and sure lots of guys do it. But then they complain they are lonely and no girl wants them. Well no shit Sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:08 PM
1

You guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:26 PM
1

If you keep rewarding yourself with jerking off and porn which does release dopamine, then what sense does it make to go out and try to get laid? So let's do some math. If 100 men and 100 women go out to a night club. Let's assume only the top 20% of men get laid. They go home with 20 women. Sure, some lucky guy may go home with 2 women, but most likely not. This still leaves 79-80 women sexless for the night. So how exactly are women having sex all the time with Chads while 90% of men go home a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:18 PM
-1

No, that was HIS method. Not yours. You have no idea when he's cumming so you could kick him off of you. So YOU were not using the pull out method. You trusted him to use it and he ducked it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:06 PM
0

That's a conversation you need to have with the baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:55 AM
-1

I assume you are a woman. How did YOU specifically practice the pull out method?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:53 AM
0

I will make sure to tell that to: My current wife My past 3 serious girlfriends Several fuck buddies and members of my harems A whole bunch of ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:20 AM
3

Why would anyone want to be responsible for another fully grown ass adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:18 AM
-6

It's called pulling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:17 AM
2

Your literal words "what if everyone and world tells you that". I'm just calling you out on your lie and you being a drama queen: that's all. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:46 AM
0

So you are just making irrational statements. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:26 AM
0

Every single person in the world has told you you are an ugly loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:20 AM
1

If you tell yourself you are an ugly loser and that no woman will ever want you, you will believe it. And when you believe it, you make it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:47 PM
1

I've never met a guy who has needed love/women/sex who has been successful in obtaining those things. They always elude them. The only way to be successful is to give up needing others to make you happy and fulfilled and to actually believe that you are sexy and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:35 PM
4

If you don't want anything from women and you are not offering yourself, how can they reject you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:32 PM
1

It's the closest thing to a panacea that you will come across. Most men have shit inner game by virtue of their upbringing and social brainwashing. Some more, some less. Once you fix that, fixing external game things such as how you present yourself, how you dress, how you interact with women is basically just adding gasoline to a fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:13 PM
2

I genuinely have no idea what you are on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:37 PM
2

Let's say a man fucks one woman a day for a year. That's 365 women in a year. This man has had more than his fair share of fucking, but the women he fucks have only had sex once in a year. How many women do you think will be happy with this? Just because one man sleeps with a woman it doesn't mean that her sex is no longer available to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:17 PM
1

Oh of course those women love the attention and the money. If they really wanted to do something else, they easily could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:38 PM
3

Men have two basic criteria to achieve arousal, which we will describe as getting a boner and being ready to use it. The two basic criteria are: A woman they find attractive enough (which is a pretty fluid criteria since it can change depending on how many beers they've had, how desperate they are and how late into the night it gets). A woman who appears willing to have sex with him. That's it. So a guy reasons, "if I were a hot girl, EVERYONE would be willing. So all I'd have to do is shout fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:24 PM
3

What every man here is secretly thinking: I wouldn't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member. In your example it will translate to: if a girl is desperate enough to date a loser like me, she must be an even bigger loser than I am. Ain't no way I'm fucking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:10 PM
3

Get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:07 PM
6

You should hear how sex workers such as escorts and strippers talk about men. Yet they have no problem getting new and repeat customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:05 PM
3

I have a little secret to tell you. Fix your inner game (beliefs, personality, identity) and all these little games you think you have to play become completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:04 PM
4

There aren't enough billionaire, 6'5" Caucasian Chads to go around for every woman. I know the opposite may seem true to you, but I assure you it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:13 PM
1

If they really want to change they would have to give up the story they tell themselves about what huge victims they are of society and the bad wimmins who have wronged them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:41 AM
8

I had someone made a comment: I'm not lonely because I don't socialize. I don't socialize because I'm lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:23 AM
1

Nobody cares about you. It's your life. Waste it on video games and incel forums all you want. Literally nobody gives a flying fuck about what you do with your life and whether you want to throw it to the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:40 AM
2

The greatest tragedy of modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:39 AM
3

I don't know. Have you tried being a woman of quality that men actually want to stay with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:38 AM
1

Humans have been tribal for the larger part of our existence as a species and it seems like the predominate mating structure was one of community everything - community food, community sex, etc. I think what you are referring to didn't come about until 10,000 years ago with the advent of agriculture and the eventual accumulation of power and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:53 PM
6

It's not that the mothers don't give a shit, it's just that a woman even if she wants the best for you cannot make you into a man. She cannot teach you to be a man. Only another man can do that. The same way that you cannot teach a girl how to become a woman, how to deal with men, how to put on make up, get pretty, wear the right clothes. I mean for fuck sake, men can walk around with the same ripped up underwear and t shirt for days and not even notice and you think you properly teach a girl to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:32 PM
2

If you don't set the rules early on, she will and you may not end up liking her rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:29 PM
1

Earning sex? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:56 AM
4

Cosmo magazine: "10 ways to give your man an unforgettable blow job", "everything you've ever wanted to know about trying anal sex", "you can get morning after pills at a bar now", etc, etc. Women are thinking 24/7 about how to please the man they are after. The question is always, are you that guy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:36 AM
1

If you knew you can drive any woman wild in the bedroom, imagine the confidence that would give you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:21 PM
0

All I see is couples of all leagues represented. Maybe YOU need to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:33 AM
-7

All the advice women need is: Wear shorter skirts Learn to deepthroat Do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:55 PM
1

I'm 42, so I'd say a good 99% of women would date me. The science is explained in this video: https://youtu.be/aVFfvwbhNJE
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:46 PM
0

That's not what a passport bro is. You can't just go and live in most for an extended period of time even as an American. The limit in Europe is 90 days .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:15 PM
0

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:21 PM
5

So why would women dress sexy and provocatively if they hate sex with men so much? And why would they get into relationships with men and have sex with them if it's so disgusting? Are you sure women don't consume porn? This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. You are misinterpreting how women behave as lack of interest or attraction to men. They are just different and much more subtle than men are for a multitude of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:28 PM
6

Please provide proof that women are not sexually aroused by men and explain how humanity has managed to procreate for the past million years? I'm waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:18 PM
1

So women are only fucking those ultra rare Chads and no one else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:15 PM
1

I don't think women are nearly as promiscuous as they should be or even want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:42 AM
1

Honestly, it's not so much about wearing the same outfit or not. It's about standing out. Every guy wears shades of gray, green, brown and beige. The colors of camouflage so they can fit in and blend in with the background. Worst thing you can do as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:39 AM
1

Who is fucking all these young women that no guy can apparently get?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:36 AM
0

Lol, who promised you anything bud? Where do you get those unrealistic expectations from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:26 AM
1

Is it purge week already?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:22 AM
1

It's not only the choice of clothes. A well fitted t shirt and jeans can look hot on a guy. But it's also about the fit and the color choices. Most men wear a combination of shades of grey, green and brown. The color of camouflage, basically trying to blend in with the environment instead of standing out. I tell guys, who would you prefer - an average dumpy woman who blends in with the rest of the gray masses or an shining example of beauty that radiates and stands out anywhere she goes? I mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:33 AM
0

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:30 AM
1

That's not it. People want what they can't get and women doubly so. Badboys are never easy to get. They are not the settling kind and no woman is going to be the only woman for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:22 AM
2

Presence:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:27 PM
3

Presence:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:26 PM
8

You mean all the things that sexually unsuccessful men stubbornly refuse to improve on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:14 PM
1

I have been my ideal self for quite a while. I've done it all, slept with many women, gotten into relationships and gotten married. It all depended on what I WANTED at the time, not what some woman wanted. I went looking for what I wanted until I found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:44 PM
1

Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:43 PM
-5

Only one person can wear the pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:23 PM
2

Most women want a hard core porn relationship deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:22 PM
-7

Nature of men and women. Men are not supposed to lower themselves for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:19 PM
1

Download the audiobook for Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura or No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:46 PM
1

Technical virginity? Only women can come up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:32 PM
-2

Leftists and wokists are hell bent on making everyone the same. Men more like women and women more like men. Until we achieve some sort of a genderless mix of someone who kinda looks like a chick but also has a dick and someone who looks like a pubescent boy but has a vagina. Only then will they be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:43 PM
-1

If you are approaching, you are the one giving HER a chance to show you if she's interesting. But that's too hard for you to grasp because you want to get something out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:02 PM
1

What guys don't seem to grasp is that the more they send themselves messages that they need sex and women and that without them, they are inadequate losers who are lacking and deprived, the more unattractive they make themselves. But why? Here is one great universal truth: people want this which they can't get. Well, a desperate, needy guy who is convinced that sex and women will make him happy and are the only thing that will make him happy and fulfilled, wjll always see sex and women as a trop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:19 AM
1

You always complain women are hot how are about what attracts them, but when they are honest you are still butthurt. They can't win. Desperate, needy men have never been on anyones dating card.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:06 AM
1

Not only that, but when men finally let go of the Pussy Monster, they will start getting laid way more easily because every woman wants this which she can't get. And a guy desperate for pussy is so easy to get, it's not even worth her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:00 AM
1

The claim is that women equivocate words in order to make them into something they can accept as true. A woman will say "I have only had sex with 3 guys", but in her mind she doesn't count bjs, anal, hooking up with a guy whose last name she doesn't know, having a threesome, etc., as sex. If she included those the numbers might be quite a bit higher but since they "don't count" in her mind she is telling the truth. A high school teen girl comes home from banging the football team cleverer in spu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:58 AM
0

I'm believing SHE needs to give you a CHANCE, you are already behind the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:54 AM
2

I mean if she really wanted to she could get 40 n count in one evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:52 AM
1

Why are you so worried about other people and not yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:25 PM
5

Yes of course. Parents and society at large that brainwashes men into soft little bitches. Most of you blame your moms for not telling you they like badboys or whatever. I've never heard any guy here blame his useless dad, who is the reason he is a wimp in the first place. Women, mothers, cannot teach boys how to be men. There is a gym related meme going where a guys mom says: You are going to a gym? What if you get injured, what if you pull something be careful? And the dad says: "Son, don't do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:13 AM
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We've beat the nice guy trope over and over in this sub. People shit on nice people, because they are easy to shit on and don't put up any resistance. As a matter of fact, most nice guys get shit on and ask for more so most women just oblige.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:06 AM
1

Yeah just not you
/r/seduction27/07/23 10:49 AM
1

If you didn't fuck anyone your experiment doesn't count for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:33 PM
1

So what did you prove exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:11 PM
1

So how many of those dudes did you end up fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:10 PM
3

It wasn't a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:24 PM
2

Do not read books on PUA. If you want a book that can change your life, read Intimate Connections by Dr David Burns. It's old and outdated in many ways, but the core message is still solid. It teaches stuff no pua material will ever touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:26 PM
4

I personally wouldn't engage with this poster. She is....different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:22 PM
2

I witnessed a group of pick up artists spam approach a bunch of girls in a park one day. All the women had a baffled, wtf is happening here look on their faces. They probably thought they were on one of those candid camera shows. It looked so cringey and weird looking at the interactions from the outside that right then and there I told myself "god help if that's how I come across to women because that's just so weird". So I stopped "trying" to pick women up that day and resolved to just be a no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:21 PM
1

I wonder how I had a girlfriend at 16 when I had a monthly allowance of $20.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:15 PM
0

I got you beat by 2 years. I have all my hair and I'm a little leaner than you but still muscular. There is a teenage girl in my building who clearly has a crush on me. Women half my age are constantly checking me out and sending invitation signals to me, especially in the gym, but also on the subway, street, etc. A woman hit on me at a wedding although my wife was right there. Embrace it! PS I checked out your photos. You are exactly the kind of daddy these girls want to have approve of them, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:14 PM
1

My best wingwoman story is a girl I dated and who I reconnected with as friends later on. She introduced me to a chick she was hanging out with and that's how I adored my first Asian chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:10 PM
–

Indifference is confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:32 AM
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You are absolutely wrong about what confidence is and how it is acquired. Confidence is about lovingly not giving a fuck. When you can talk to a woman and it doesn't matter to you whether she ends up liking you or not, when both outcomes carry the exact same weight, that's confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:03 AM
11

Nothing to change about your view. It is correct. Women crave excitement and adventure. All romance books are about that. But for a guy to have an exciting and adventurous lifestyle, he actually needs to take some action that doesn't involve posting on incel and forever virgin subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:02 AM
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Being the provider is absolutely the least sexy role a man can play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:16 AM
2

The only time this would make sense if you got into a relationship with a nun and halfway through it she started dressing like a porn star. Figuratively speaking of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:38 PM
1

Believe it or not, but girls who grow up without fathers experience menarche earlier because their brain and body senses the presence of unfamiliar men. This may be correlated to these women starting their sexual experiences earlier in life than women with their biological father present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:37 PM
1

Isn't this actually good news for most beta males anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:34 PM
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If you don't think I make sense, you need to get a CAT scan cause you may have some brain damage. Nobody wants average and unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:39 PM
1

Any man can give himself status right now by treating themselves like a prince. Eat the best food, dress int the best clothes, demand you better treated the best. Treat yourself the best. When people sense that that's how you are used to being treated they will start treating you better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:28 PM
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What woman would you choose? An unremarkable, average fattie who you couldn't distinguish from a good looking horse with hobbies like knitting sweaters from cat hair OR an outstanding example of beauty and health who radiates everywhere she goes? Now ask yourself why should women prefer average, unremarkable men they can't distinguish from a pile of steaming dog shit on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:53 PM
3

Women will never stop needing men. The same way you haven't stopped needing women although you have all the modern amenities like Uber Eats to deliver you food, Angie List to hire you a house cleaner, unlimited variety and quantity of pornography, sex dolls, VR, etc. It boggles my mind that men claim women don't need men anymore but men still need women like they need air and water. Stop shooting g yourself in the dick and selling yourselves short.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:51 PM
0

Treat whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. Way too many guys out there treating queens like queens and then wondering why they can't score.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:41 PM
1

Yes, I responded to the wrong comment Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:58 AM
3

Cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:57 AM
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Not really. I've hooked up with women who don't speak my language. Human beings and their predecessors have been hooking up and having sex before language existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:18 AM
1

I don't make the rules baby. I just play by them. Hate the game not the player.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:57 PM
1

I ain't need to fantasize baby. You be doing the fantasizing when you see me out and about. Make sure you get spare batteries. Don't want to run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:56 PM
1

Jerking off is nice and safe. Sticking your dick in someone you barely know anything about is a completely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:40 PM
-2

Responded to wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:25 PM
1

How do you know you want to fuck a woman you've never spoken to before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:21 PM
3

Because it's a social concept and nothing to do with any objective attractiveness. I'm 5'11" and according to black and purple pill I should be a 40 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:20 PM
1

Men get more interesting with age. Women just get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:17 PM
8

I've approached many women. Many successfully, and many unsuccessfully. Have never been arrested, assaulted, sued, sent to the gulag or anything that comes even close. As a matter of fact, the worst reaction I've ever had was "uh, I have a boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:17 PM
1

In case you haven't noticed, complaining about men is a woman's national sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:26 AM
-1

I think the core issue that makes the nice guy is someone who mistakenly believes that he is not okay as he is and therefore needs to hide his "flawed self" by being overly nice and accommodating to everyone (but especially women), including creating this perfect image of being hard working, well dressed, great career, great body, perfectly spoken, etc etc. Anything to be as inoffensive as possible, because if he does break this veneer of the perfect nice guy, someone may actually see how flawed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:44 AM
1

Cure your fears and you will be set.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:29 PM
0

Women can smell your fear across the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:50 PM
23

Do you really need someone to spell out to you that women who exercise and watch their diet are more attractive to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:08 PM
1

Women say a lot of things. If you listen to half of them you will go crazy. As I said, if you cannot differentiate between making a move, expressing your interest directly and sexually assaulting a woman, you may want to get checked for autism or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:05 PM
2

No, I don't need to discard anything. If they can't differentiate between making a bold move and assaulting someone they need serious psychological help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:57 PM
-1

I think you may have bigger problems than this buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:56 PM
0

Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:54 PM
4

Ugh? You are the one talking about assaulting women. Duck is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:44 PM
0

What are you afraid of in women? You think they know karate or kungfu? That they will stab you or shoot you? I guarantee you women are more afraid and shy of you than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:37 PM
4

Agreed. Women should pay me for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:36 PM
-2

I couldn't think of anything that screams NICE GUY more than someone who spends all his life trying to become the perfect specimen of a man. That's what a nice guy is. Expecting that only if they follow all the rules to a T, their life would be smooth and problem free. The guys I see getting laid the most are the ones who are constantly breaking the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:35 PM
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When i was learning to approach women I'm sure some of them were uncomfortable or couldn't care less about me bothering them. Who gives a fuck. It's not like I was trying to rape them or abuse them. Most of those dummies had no idea what they are missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:33 PM
4

If she went out with him, then he was good looking enough. But go ahead and keep shooting yourself in the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:31 PM
12

That's not how this works. Women are turned on by men who have the balls to go for what they want without excuses. A man who attempts to kiss her and is turned down is still miles ahead of the guy who never makes the move because he is so worried about being seen as a nice guy, and not one of those guys who want to fuck. First, you have to get rid of some brainwashing. What is the nature of men and women? Ask yourself, how have the human species survived for hundreds of thousands of years and ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:14 PM
4

No, because it's the difference between needing and wanting. Needing is not a choice. When you lack something you need, you are affected negatively. When you want something, it's your choice and not getting it is no big deal. Who cares. Needing women will always get you the same outcome, which is rejection. They can control needy guys and needy guys are easy to get. Who wants that? Men who don't need women are infinitely more interesting and challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:14 PM
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I agree with you that men should be more okay with being single. The truth of the matter is this. If you hate your life and yourself because you are single, why would a woman want to become part of that life or want to be with you? I mean, you know yourself best. You spend 24/7 with yourself and your innermost thoughts, so if YOU are miserable with yourself and your lifestyle, why on earth would she be happy with it? Wouldn't she be miserable as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:00 AM
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Ultimate Nice Guy question. If i do everything right, I will finally get laid..., right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:57 AM
2

First time here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:35 PM
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Yes, you are thinking about what the woman is thinking and thinking you should be all respectful and goody two shoes. Who cares what they want. Actually here is what they want. They want a man who knows what he wants. It doesn't sound like you know what you want. What do you want to do with these women? Hold hands? Or do you want to fuck them? Don't tell me you don't want to fuck them, because you that would make you a fucking liar. Be true to yourself and express what you want. The purpose of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:34 PM
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Women's primary need is security. Marriage is a way for them to exchange exclusive access to their sex for the promise of security for the rest of their life. The marriage contract doesn't even say that she has to keep having sex with him, only that she doesn't make it available to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:30 PM
0

If romance novels are the male equivalent of porn, ask yourself, do all men want to have 5 guy anal cream pies with the women they are dating? The answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:29 PM
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I mean I sure you know a lot of desperate guys with no standards. Luckily those guys rarely actually get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:19 PM
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I don't understand the masochism of men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:52 PM
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I love how blackpill and incels have a thousand exceptions to the rule that he must be 6'+, square jawed and muscular to be able to even get an average chubby chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:38 PM
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I consider myself solidly handsome. And I know for a fact that if I feel needy and desperate for a woman, literally not even fatties would give me a second look. But if I feel like I am the coolest person I know and have a take it or leave it attitude towards women, I would easily be able to sleep with a new chick every day if I'm willing to put in the effort of going and talking to them. Otherwise, I look, smell and dress exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:34 PM
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Of course not everything women do is to attract guys. I'd say only between 90-99% of what they do is to attract guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:32 PM
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Maybe men and women happened to want the same thing? Which is each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:22 AM
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I meant to write male speak. Like no women speak the way you spoke about this. This is just retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:45 PM
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Men who are successful with women do zero to impress women. And nobody chooses for somebody else what to do with their body. Yes, women choose who to open their legs for the same way me choose who to stick their dick in. But they way you put it, you are certainly implying that the woman is the chooser and the man is just a cockroach who is lucky enough to breathe same air as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:39 PM
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Your second point couldn't me more wrong. You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:17 PM
1

I see. But in the arena of women, why is that low socio economic classes seem to procreate at the highest rates? Why do smart and intelligent and successful men have so much trouble getting some pussy while Dashwante from Hoodville has 3 baby mamas by the time he's 23?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:17 PM
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I mean you are just using male speaker to describe the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:15 PM
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Optimistic? Not at all. I live in a densely populated city where women would be lucky to meet someone like me. I happened to like myself very much and treat myself like a quality guy. For some reason women seem to respond to that. I already have a ton of women in my day to day who are constantly sending signals and flirting with me. So if I ever decided to become single or my wife left me, it wouldn't be a huge stretch to go out and meet another woman relatively easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:54 PM
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I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about confidence as it relates to getting women. You seem to be making it about whether people should have jobs or not and whether certain elements of society are undesirable. I think you need to refine your argument buddy. You are all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:51 PM
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I don't have to. If I wanted I could source pussy irl within an hour of going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:49 PM
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People want this which they can't get. That's the one thing men need to understand about women. If they throw themselves at women and act all available and easy to get, then they are....easy to get and therefore of no interest to women. That's why neediness and desperation are such turn offs. Needy, desperate people are easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:18 PM
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Nobody cares man. Stop making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:17 PM
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Thank you! Plenty of married and couple people who are miserable and lonely although surrounded by friends and loved ones. Romantic relationships can certainly make your life a tad bit sweeter but they cannot take you from a miserable loner to happy, well adjusted confident person. That's a choice you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:11 PM
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So you just sit home and feel lonely instead of going out to get some pussy? You strategy makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:09 PM
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I've never met anyone who needed love to be happy and fulfilled and who was able to get it. But I've met many people (most guys on this sub), who have been brainwashed into thinking that being loved is the only way to be happy and as a result they continue being lonely and miserable and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:07 PM
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Women are the selectors only when you are a loser beta male. When you are not, then you become the selector. You are right about points 1 and 2. Yes, don't listen to what women say. They lie anyway and you will just go crazy trying to figure out what they want. Yes, women want socially competent men who have a life and things going for them. No, they don't tend to go for socially stunted weirdo loners. And no, women are not the choosers. It just seems like that to you because you are not followi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:05 PM
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No, they are super important to them. Everyone is responsible for their own feelings and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:00 PM
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Come up with a better argument buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:56 PM
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From other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:56 PM
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You are very mistaken if you believe women want to be chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:55 PM
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Absolutely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:53 PM
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Nah, you just equate confidence/self esteem with hard work. That's just the puritan work ethic. Basically if you don't work hard enough and achieve, you are worthless and a net drain on society. You can actually give yourself permission to act confidently and like an alpha male right now, you don't need justification. You don't need achievement. You are already who you are. You have achieved being you. So being confident in yourself is already justified. You don't need to be confident in shootin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:50 PM
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That they want a man that wants to protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:37 PM
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How is hamstring? Doesn't a man prefer a woman with a slim waist and large breasts? Why would he when modern medicine all but ensures a healthy pregnancy and childbirth? Why would men pick women who appear fertile and able to have healthy babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:36 PM
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I've never met a person who needs love to be happy actually find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:03 PM
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Your problem isn't wanting sex. Your problem is that you have convinced yourself that you need love in order to be happy and fulfilled. And because you feel you don't have it, you walk around feeling like a deficient loser who has a big gaping hole in his soul the size and shape of a woman. Sound about right? Do you believe that if you had a loving girlfriend all of your self loathing, self hate and depression will go away? Do you believe that if only you had a loving girlfriend, you will have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:23 AM
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I give her the same advice when she deals with me or other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:46 PM
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And just fyi, it's not hostile or demeaning at all. It's just that you need to only worry about you. That's all. Put your needs and desires first. I don't see what the problem is with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:30 PM
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Of course, you need to give them a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:10 PM
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I will be sure to tell my wife of 8 years that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:28 PM
2

Slut U and University of Hoing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:28 PM
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I do agree wjth that, but the point of rule #1 is that if you spend all your energy thinking about what other people are thinking and saying, you will lose your direction. You will be chasing what you think women want, which even they don't know exactly what that is. You will keep making the wrong assumptions, because you are not a woman and can't think like them. So the solution is only think about it what you want. When I used to go out, I'd focus on thinking things that matter to me, like how…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:12 PM
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Men lie sometimes, women almost all the time. I only care about being the most important person in any relationship. I don't care if you are offended by it. If you believe other people are more important than you are, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:09 PM
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Far from it. Men can't understand how women think. Women lie all the time. Listening to what they say or trying to figure out what they are thinking y is retarded. A man should focus on what he wants not only what the woman may want. He is the most important person in his life. Do you think those women you see on the street or TikTok think you are more important than they are? Have you met a woman who doesn't exclusively care o lot about herself? So why are men out there concerned with what wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:32 PM
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You are violating rule #1: who cares what women say. But by extension also rule #2: you are the most important person in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:09 PM
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As I always men and women mean two entirely different things by "emotionally vulnerable". Men think it means "I have permission to be pathetic, feel sorry for myself, and wallow in self pity over what a total loser I am" and women think it means "a person who can be comfortable talking about their feelings of love, loss, sadness, anger, etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:44 PM
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So your earlier comment never actually happened? You "paraphrased". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:32 PM
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What about t of effort are meant putting in exactly? Is your thumb hurting from swiping right? Because I go to the Bumble and Hinge subreddits and look at the profile review requests and 99% of men put in as much effort in their profiles as in waxing their assholes. Which translates to about 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:21 AM
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The problem is that people (both men and women) want this which they can't get. Just go to the dating_advice sub or other dating sub. It's filled with requests for advice from men who have been repeatedly shut down, given the runaround, flaked on, etc. Yet they want nothing more than to keep chasing these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:14 AM
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You are the female equivalent of incels. The only image you have of man is built through media that has an agenda. Most incels have never even spoken to a woman yet they have a War and Peace treatise on how terrible women are and all the things they do to fuck men over. Go out and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:13 AM
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I can do better now in my 40s then in my 20s but that's because I've matured, grown more confident and way less needy. I've lived with a woman for close to 10 years. If she decides to leave me or the other way around, I can find a replacement in 2 hours. Being single/alone doesn't scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:55 PM
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The fattest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:08 PM
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That's not the point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:44 PM
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I'm extremely handsome and most women ignore me because they are too intimidated. The only women who check me out and smile are the ones who have a big ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:18 PM
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Don't go out on dates unless sex happening is a foregone conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 PM
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I used to tell women: I can buy you dinner but then you will have to sleep with me. If we both pay our share, then you can make up your own mind at the end of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:12 PM
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Competent in what? Having a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:11 PM
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Lol. I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 PM
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Women want this which they can't get, so the needy, desperate nice guys that populate this sub as too easy for them. If those guys stopped giving a fuck about women as much and expecting them to be so tho g they are not, they'd have way more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:12 PM
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The red flag is the runaround she is giving him, but being too desperate makes you make excuses for women's shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:15 PM
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Nah. We just got that big dick energy ovah heah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:02 PM
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The purpose of dating is to find people that you are compatible with and that also like you. It's the nature of dating to go on a lot of first dates with people you won't be compatible with. Obviously you had expectations of this being more than just a friendly date. Which was probably your biggest mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:38 AM
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Men are also tired of other men wallowing in self pity. It's tiresome. You don't want any help. You just want people to feel's prey for you but you never take any action to improve your situation or mental state. What do you want women and other men to do for you? We are not your therapist, family member, SO. What the fuck do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:34 AM
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You are violating rule number one: who cares what woman say or think. And by extension you are violating rule number two: you are the most important person in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:32 AM
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Mostly latinas who are vastly superior to other women. Also see a lot of short Asians with Asian chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:09 AM
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I live in NYC and constantly see short Latinos with really hot girlfriends. In my country on Eastern Europe you constantly see shorter guys. The difference is they are typically muscular and alpha not shy loser nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:28 AM
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Go to the dating_advice sub. Literally every other question by a guy is a variation of the following: "So I met this girl, we talked for 2 months. I decided to ask her out and she ended up canceling last minute because her mom got in a car accident. I asked her out again and she said she is really busy with final exams and didn't know when she would be available. So a month later after final exams were over, I asked her to hang and she didn't show up. Should I ask her out one last time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:26 AM
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Women are extremely attracted to guys who are happy with themselves instead of being busy dissecting all their imagined and real flaws. You know, the men who are out there fucking instead of posting on incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:58 PM
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So let me get this straight. "I created a dating profile, now I'm all out of ideas"??? Is this your stance? If you are a man you cannot sit around idly and hope a beautiful naked woman will materialize in your bedroom. You need to go out there and get all the pussy you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:37 PM
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I've found that people who like to "tell it like it is" and that other people "can't handle their honesty" are just miserable fucks that no one likes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:35 AM
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Oh god
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:08 AM
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Men will readily forgive a really good looking woman's infractions and bad behavior. Women will readily forgive an alpha male's infractions and bad behavior. You have to understand that when people want something, they will overlook a lot of fatal flaws just to have it. Men yearn for a beauty and will do anything to have her. Women yearn for an alpha male who tells them what to do and will do anything to have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:18 AM
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Why do guys marry good looking women used to male attention and then complain that they dress sexy and get male attention? Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:11 AM
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Total GILF
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:53 PM
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For sure for sure. Millions of years of evolutionary mate selection criteria changed just overnight. For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:48 PM
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How were you born then? If your dad was tall, handsome and with broad shoulders why didn't you inherit his traits? Or was he just a regular guy? How did he get to procreate? Did he rape your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:37 PM
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Women have evolved to be attracted to men who are confident, powerful, authoritative, who know where they are going in life. Tell me, using the above criteria, how many of the men who post on PPD would qualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:15 PM
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Yeah, no. Women most desire men who don't need them. Usually, men don't need women because they have plenty of them. Or just because they've learned how to not be dependent on women for their happiness and fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:28 PM
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Stop projecting your own lack of options and sexual success to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:55 AM
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Women online all use the same beauty filters or FaceTune algos. That's why they look like clones of each other. Interestingly enough, humans have always sought out genetic variety because it ensures the survival of our species yet everyone rushes to look, dress, talk, smell, behave and think exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:27 AM
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I mean if you expect women to come up to you and offer you blow jobs, you will be waiting helluva long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:08 PM
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The friendzone doesn't exist if a man makes it painfully clear that he is a sexual being who likes to fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:51 PM
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All these holywood women look the same because they go to the same surgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:18 PM
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No they don't. Women just love drama and that shit doesn't even require an HBO subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:17 PM
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I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:16 PM
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Men love slutty bitches. I dare anyone to provide me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:54 AM
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Lol. You have to understand 99.99% of the evidence that men here use in arguments comes from two sources: Their warped imagination TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:46 AM
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If Niki Minaj can look past being a rapist, so ca........
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:45 AM
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Get a PhD in sucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:08 AM
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Yes, agreed. Most men who don't have a purpose, turn to women to get their happiness and fulfillment which makes them needy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:48 PM
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Guys need to find their own purpose. It can be something as simple as your career, a hobby, a sport, some kind of artistic expression, music, etc. whatever it is, as long as it fulfills your need for happiness. Although all the things you listed as men not being needed are 100%, unadulterated bullshit. Law enforcement, first responders, all men. Military, mostly men. The people who build the machines to do the work - almost all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:33 PM
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Guys who do whatever the fuck they want without their mom's permission tend to be hot and attractive to young horny girls with raging hormones? No shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:29 PM
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I mean you used Trump as an example of confidence. Literally a conspiracy theory mongerer with zero competence. Get your story straight brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:57 PM
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Actually in high school it was always the brainiacs that had problems with girls. The dumb jocks got laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:21 PM
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Bro. You will be the first one to die in a war that your alpha President Camacho starts over limited resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:18 PM
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Women approach in many ways, such as looking at you, smiling, hovering around you, dancing in your line of sight, accidentally dropping something and bending to pick it up right in front of you. Yeah, most won't say "hey hot stuff. Wanna get out of here?" But they will send enough signals to land a plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:51 PM
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Crazy women are also dynamite in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:49 PM
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I mean you guys complain that women don't want sex as much as men then in the same breath complain they sleep around too much. You complain you don't get enough sex, but then complain women should be having less sex. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:49 PM
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I do give actionable steps. The first step is to change how you think about women and what women/sex/relationships mean to you and also what not having them means ABOUT you. OP actually covered the last part. Don't beat yourself up because you are single. It doesn't mean you are a loser and inadequate and weird. Change your thinking from "I need women" to "women are icing on the cake". Then go out and build your cake of a life. Find a purpose that gives you happiness and fulfillment. Fill your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:57 PM
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There is a universal law that states: people only want this which they can't get (added by me: women doubly so). A desperate, needy man who chases women is very easy to get. Therefore he is of little interest to most. Sure, he can wear down a woman's resistance until she settles with him, but who really wants that. And a man approaching does men that he is chasing. A man can approach a woman because he wants to see if she will add something positive to his life. But if he approaches her because …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:54 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Why wouldn't a confident, high self esteem person change what they need to change? Being confident and loving yourself means that you treat yourself well, that you take pride in yourself and if that means dressing better, grooming better, improving your career, than that's what a confident man who loves himself will do. The secret to doing well with women isn't to treat them nicely, it's to treat yourself nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:48 PM
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The problem has been around forever, it's not a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:34 PM
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The problem you guys have and I keep repeating this is that you are addicted/dependent on love/women. Women should be regarded as icing on the cake of your life. But you have to have a great cake of a life to begin with. I've never met a man who has needed love to feel happy and who has been able to find it. But I've met many guys who learned to be happy and fulfilled as they are and they were able to find girlfriends. And yes, some of them were short and bald and quite honestly autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:10 AM
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Average guys certainly struggle because they believe themselves to be average and thus inadequate. As long as they believe you have to be 6'5", chiseled jaw, muscles and a millionaire to even have a chance of getting a decent girl interested, they will remain average frustrated chumps. But if they realized they are enough as they are and became proud of who they are, they would have their dance cards so full they would know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:34 PM
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To say they are a nice guy who treats women with respect and romance and that he is not like the other guys who only want one thing, then go to their browser and find hundreds of searches on PornHub for gangbangs, BDSM, facials, anal, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:33 PM
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The best definition of Nice Guy I've found is by Dr. Aziz Gazipura. He describes it thusly. Most people believe their niceness comes from virtue and morals, but the reality is it is motivated by fear of displeasing others or gaining their disapproval. So yes, you were being a nice guy because deep down you were interested in these women and wanted to express that to them directly without any excuses. You thought by becoming g their friend and not expressing sexual interest you were being virtuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:31 PM
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That's a good point. I wouldn't sleep with a girl who doesn't do anal or swallow. I should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:26 PM
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The problem with all of this is why women do this at all. They have been socialized and had that belief constantly reinforced that if they are too EASY, then nobody will take them seriously. "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free." Whose heard this one before? So when a woman meets a guy and he wants to date her, she figures "there are only so many transactions of this kind that I can make in my life, preferably not more than 10 before I'm considered a washed up ho by society and by m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:26 PM
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Cut out all sugar, added sugar, etc and all diary. Especially milk, cream, cream cheese, etc. You should start cleaning up by week 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:08 AM
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I'd rather someone else do the bloody work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:58 AM
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Nobody believes me when J say that 90% of what women talk about is men. Clothes for the men, shoes for the men, where to find hot men, how to keep hot men, how a man is fucking her or not fucking here or who he is fucking, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:57 AM
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Life doesn't care about it your excuses. It keeps going while you are left behind and it doesn't stop just because one member of the tribe is weak and can't keep up. Nobody can solve your sex life for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:17 PM
2

Being treated with respect. There are two types of respect: fear or admiration. Most men will take either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:00 PM
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Women are very interested in sperm harvesting (casual sex) for a few days every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:59 PM
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Men usually mean it to emotionally vomit all over their woman and become groveling, pathetic nice guys. It's no different than if their girlfriend told them she likes sucking random men's dicks in dark alleys because she has low self worth and it makes her feel loved. I dare you to look at her the same after such an admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:30 PM
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I'm sorry I just don't see your line of reasoning here. Why would a nice and gentle person not be capable if disliking themselves and a toxic person not be capable of liking themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:33 AM
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Who said anything about attractive hearts and souls? If we are just making shit up, I can play that game too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:32 AM
6

When women say they want men to show emotion, they mean show her that he cares about her, that he misses her, that he thinks about her, that he cares about his family, pets, going through difficult times at work, etc. When men think about showing their emotions, they mean "I'm actually a super depressed, suicidal maniac with no friends or aim in life."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:26 AM
-1

In every single religion women are subservient to them men. And they like it. Women will spend 3 hours in the bathroom getting ready to go out. What do they do there? Do you know? You can't figure women out using your male referential system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:32 AM
2

The guy who popularized cognitive behavioral therapy, Dr. David Burns, has a number of podcasts on the subject and even a book (Intimate Connections). He often talks about his Burns rule: people only want this which they can't have (added by me: women doubly so). To your point, the desperate, needy, lonely guy who is ready to do anything to get together with a woman, including being overly nice to her to win her over is EASY TO GET. The indifferent, non-chalant bad boy who is not the settling ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:09 AM
1

Women are turned on by a man who has more power than her, just like men are turned on by women who have bigger breasts than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:46 PM
0

You are kind of pointing in the general right dimension but still pretty cold. Here is the problem most men face. Let's take it back to tribal times. Many surviving primitive tribes today have a so called rites of passage. This is a specific ritual that follows generally the same format: At a certain age, a boy (teen) is old enough to have to take on the responsibilities of being a man. The boy is taken away from the mother by the village elders. A symbolic separation of the person from their bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:32 PM
0

I don't see where I talked at all about goodness or high morals or virtues? Can you point it out to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:47 PM
2

Have you noticed that said celebrities tend to kill themselves once their fame and the approval of their fans start to wane? But by the same token, guys on PPD usually claim that self esteem is the result of other people loving you and admiring you. When it comes to celebrities who are universally loved and admired, then why would any of them kill themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:51 PM
2

Now imagine if you really liked yourself? But the thing is that's really the secret for men. Women can sense how a guy feels about himself from across the room without him even opening his mouth. I have proven this to myself over and over. I look the same, weight the same, I'm the same height. Yet, if I am feeling down on myself and have low self esteem, I'm not able to attract a woman to save my life. And when I feel on top of the world and in awe of myself and bursting with pride, bitches be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:50 PM
4

Women are not excited by men who see them as sexual objects. They are excited by men who don't make them the center of their lives and don't depend on them for their happiness and fulfillment. That's what "nice guys" don't get. They are so incredibly needy, telling themselves they are miserable and lonely without a woman, which violates the universal law that states: People want this which they can't get (women doubly so). A needy, lonely guy who hates being by himself and hates his miserable li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:39 PM
2

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:48 PM
-5

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:18 PM
11

People lay it out pretty clearly. Plus I can read the signs between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:03 PM
13

There is advice hidden in the statement, which is to focus on the relationship with yourself as opposed to your relationship with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:13 PM
126

So let me let you in on a little secret. It is not actually women that they hate so much. The real crux of the problem for these guys is just how much they hate themselves. People who hate themselves, tend to project that hate into others. Negative, low self esteem people often believe their lack of confidence and outright self hate only affects them, but they always fail to see just how unfriendly and hostile they are towards others. And here is the advice that nobody ever wants to hear: if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:46 AM
12

As someone recently told me in a thread: I'm not lonely because I don't go out and socialize. I don't go out and socialize because I'm lonely. You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:40 AM
-2

How do you suppose this will happen with their attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:38 AM
-2

Why even go on apps? I got on the train today and two girls half my age were giggling like school girls. They waved at me through the window as I was getting off. They could have just said "hello". It's honestly so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:48 AM
-1

You know many girls have said "I love you" and how many I've said "I love you too" to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:39 AM
1

Being desired by many people. Women/men come and go. Someone loving you today doesn't mean they will love you tomorrow. It doesn't mean you will love them tomorrow. The ability to find someone new easily is freedom and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:34 PM
1

That presupposes that there is something wrong with you to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:26 PM
1

If beating yourself up work, don't you think it would have already worked by now for you and countless other guys who tell themselves they are hopeless loser virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:22 PM
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8 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:06 PM
2

Okay buddy, you lost me there. Enjoy wallowing in self pity and hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:05 PM
2

Some people may need to work on themselves. Most need to realize that they are much better than they are. The key element is how one feels about themselves. You could have a list of achievements and still feel like a loser. And since women can read from across the room how you feel about yourself, they will ignore you. All a man needs to do is learn to feel good about himself, be proud of himself, his accomplishments, etc and be okay with who he is. Self accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:57 PM
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I found this sub by accident during Covid. I've always been fascinated with male/female relationships and for the record I adore women. Before I was married, I was also single and dating and having sex and other relationships. The thing that I gain? I actually hope to help a guy here and there. Help them escape the hellhole of low self esteem and toxic beliefs and actually find happiness and get laid. It's proven to be a very tough audience though.=
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:46 PM
2

No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:21 PM
1

What the fuck are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:33 PM
2

When has nice been an attractive quality? Men think nice means virtuous, Sit Lancelot type. But here is what nice really means. Nice comes from the fear of being disapproved of, of others being displeased with you because you of who you are or what you want. Why don't women want nice guys? Because they are socialized to be nice and fear disapproval themselves so they seek men to counterbalance that. So women want men to be men and men want women to be men (why aren't women approaching us or tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:38 AM
3

So don't date. There are other things you could be doing. Boing boing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:17 AM
-3

Yes, they would rather have sad, lonely lives. Why? Here is a challenge for you. List at least 10 reasons why having a sad lonely life is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:15 AM
2

Yep, anything to avoid actually taking action and racing your fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:14 AM
2

If you are down there for the balls, you may as lick the taint. And if you are licking the taint, you may as well rim him. That will make you the perfect girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:13 AM
1

Pissing on her because she just lays there is rape now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:55 AM
1

Well, you identified the problem in the first sentence. Men are desperate. That's why they can't get laid. Women want this which they can't get. A desperate man who has zero standards is the epitome of easy to get. Don't you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:15 AM
1

Yep
/r/seduction04/07/23 11:18 PM
9

You don't need the study. Everyone knows the 95/5 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:55 PM
-1

Who said I'd ask first?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:40 PM
2

I don't know. I may piss on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:58 PM
2

I'm not that fancy. But at this point anything is better than bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:58 PM
-3

Nah, I will probably go play video games and show her the door. Or if I'm in the middle of a nut, I'll probably finish but there won't be a repeat invitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:48 PM
-6

If you are in bed with me there is no "not willing to try anything new".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:35 PM
49

50% of all women are married to the top 5% of all men. The above was calculated using PPD math.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:22 PM
3

The thing that has made the biggest difference for me has been: don't seek anything from women, don't seek approval, don't want them to like you or accept you. Since I already like and accept myself, I don't need those things from women. Second thing that has made a big difference is dressing with style. I always look like I mean to look this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:19 PM
2

It doesn't help that the message women get including from subs like this is: just put out once or twice a week and men will love you for the rest of your life. Of course, those messages are sent by guys who've never smelled pussy or been with a woman from more than 2 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:18 PM
-3

You've no idea how trash most women are and men still chase that pussy like it's made of diamonds or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:16 PM
1

Not being annoying and clingy. The more rope you give men to hang themselves with, the more they will stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:15 PM
-3

The lazy 10 better be prepared for a dick in her mouth and then in her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:14 PM
1

Sure. I can see that. But it's really not these womens fault that men have been wimps their whole lives. If they want to be angry at someone; they should be really pissed off at their own dads who failed to raise them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:16 PM
4

How do you know what women think? Can you read minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:18 PM
2

How do you know what women think of you've never been wjth one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:03 PM
3

This is my biggest problem with all of these manosphere philosophies. It's all about pitting us VS them. Men VS women. They make men look at women as "the other", the enemy, someone to be feared and defeated at all cost. Quite honestly, the biggest mistake those red pill guys do is ascribe way too much power to women. They paint them as some all powerful beings that can destroy you just with a whiff of their pussy. Blah blah blah. It's the biggest BS I've ever seen and it ultimately ends up hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:05 PM
3

Women do often put up so called last minute resistance because they do not want to be seen as easy. And the best way to deal with this is agree with them and pull back. I usually find myself in bed with her 10 mins later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:55 AM
1

There are so many contradictions on this sub. Women have lower testosterone so they have little libido and don't care about sex AT THE SAME TIME they are riding the cock carousel and having gang bangs every weekend. Women are extremely selective with them men they fuck, only willing to go for the top 5% AT THE SAME TIME they are having non stop sexual with a new guy every couple of days (so all of these guys are top 5% hmmm). Women ONLY lust after men who are tall and extremely good looking AT T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:53 AM
1

I really don't know. I don't know how people do it. I mean women are so scarce. It's not like every other person on earth owns a vagina, am I rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:11 AM
8

Name one thing more unattractive than a man who can't even take care of his own needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:21 PM
3

This always reminds of Chris Cornell, one of my favorite grunge rock stars. The guy was tall, very good looking, heavenly voice, literal rock star with a beautiful family. Yet almost all his songs were about it suicide and he did eventually kill himself. There are countless such examples which is enough to prove that having it "all" doesn't fix your problems as long as you think/believe you have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:20 PM
2

Got ir
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:15 PM
2

Women are fully capable of doing all of this stuff. Don't blame them that men are dumb enough to be manipulated by some fluttering eyelashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:33 PM
1

Accuse women of wanting one thing only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:59 AM
1

Okay. Perpetual victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:10 PM
2

Don't try to pass of your weirdness as normal. You do not speak for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:04 PM
2

Oh yes, and those poor, poor men who have no agency and ability to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:03 PM
1

Dating and mating is a dance and you have to learn to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:02 PM
1

I'm too good looking so people get jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:55 PM
0

I've been banned from everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:11 PM
2

Then skip dating all along. Tell her you are not that "type of guy" who will go out on dates and try to impress her. Just don't play that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:01 PM
2

It means they feel very comfortable there, they have done it a thousand times on dates wjth all kinds of guys. So taking them out on an action date will throw them off their game. It's new, unexpected, it's a pattern interrupt. You see, when you invite a woman out on a date, she immediately falls into the pattern of "this guy is trying to sell himself, so I will kick the tires, compare him the list of a my Prince Charming that I made when I was 8 years old, that says stuff like: occupation: knig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:29 PM
2

Oh noes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:19 PM
1

It's just the game that women play. I just steal it from them. I guess all women are narcissistic psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:44 PM
3

Restaurants, cafes and cocktail bars are an attractive woman's playground. Not a great advantage for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:59 PM
2

They do. That's why it's so fun to steal their game and use it "against" them. They literally don't even know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:48 PM
2

I mean there are too many of us anyway, why would anyone want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:23 PM
1

No they were not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:23 PM
3

I was never into children. Neither was she although at one point we may have wanted to, but that passed quickly. I've never been with someone with the intention of having kids, but it had come up. At the time it terrified me and I felt pressured and cornered. Those relationships ended soon after. Here is my advice to you. Figure out what you want. Once you know what you want, close all other doors and windows and pursue only the thing you want. What you want may change over time, but you should …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:11 PM
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When the TRP subs were still around, they were full of guys who could barley contain their disdain for women. Like utter disdain. Some of the things they'd write made me blush and I'm not an easily embarrassed/disturbed type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:59 AM
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Because that's the only "game" women have. It's the same for every woman "I'm so tired of being treated like a piece of meat, men just want one thing, you know my eyes are up here". They run this "game" on a guy and guys become pathetic suplicators almost immediately. You know how you turn it around on them? Steal their "game" and watch them become like guys, trying to convince you that no, not all women are the same, and that she values your personality l, blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:56 AM
1

I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:52 AM
1

This is the most perfect explanation anyone has given me! Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:45 AM
-7

It's an observation, not a statistic. And yea, 90% seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:02 AM
1

There are enough virgins on PPD as it is buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:00 AM
1

Make up your minds. Are women low libido, ambivalent to sex nuns who need to be on TRT to get a bit horny for you OR are they mindless nymphos whose sex drive needs to be controlled at all costs because it makes you insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:00 AM
1

The more you tell yourself that you need love and romance to be happy, the more they will elude you. I've never met anyone who has needed love actually been able to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:59 AM
-1

Break ups are thought for men behave they keep telling themselves they will never be able to get another pussy in their life. But if they got one, they can get another one and another one and another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:55 AM
-5

Of course it is. 90% of the conversations women have is about men or related to men. Men talk about women maybe less than 40-50%. Also, you have to understand that women have one game and one game only. And it's exactly this "all men are dogs, they think about one thing, I'm so tired of being treated like a piece of meat." The easiest way to get a woman into you is to steal their game. Start complaining about being stared at in the gym, about women wanting to be your friends but actually wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:54 AM
1

What else are people going to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:49 AM
0

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:48 AM
1

You are approaching this from a position of weakness. This is your current model: You are the beggar, she has what you want (date=pussy), You have to convince her to give it to you. Instead, I approach women thusly: I know I have what they want, they want it from me, they have to convince me why I should give it to them. So I am simply giving women an opportunity to meet me, impress me and convince me to take them to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:00 PM
0

If you approach women wanting something from them, you've already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:30 PM
2

It's never acceptable to approach a woman for a date. How do you know you want to date her? What if she's a bitch? What if she's boring? What if she's insufferable? What if she's a drug addict or a gold digger? If you are going to approach women, approach them wjth the intention to find out if they are interesting to you. If you approach them with wanting something out of them (a date), chances are you will always get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:53 PM
1

So this is not a question of intrinsic value but of whether you have the skill and looks to attract a ton of women? That does not make a high value or low value person. There is no such think because we are all good at some things and bad at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:22 AM
2

Even those women find something cool and admirable about the men they date in those scenes which is different than what PPDers want to be the reality. They want unremarkable, average, bland men to be attractive to women because that's how they see themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:25 AM
1

What is he filtered by? Are you referring to an app? So how is that detracting from his value exactly? What if he lies and claims he is 6' anyway and no one knows? So is his lack of value intrinsic or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:25 AM
2

High value and low value. Nobody has been able to define it for me. Is a 6'+ man high value? According to PPD and black pill, he is. What about a 5'11.999999 man? Is he all of a sudden low value? If a man earns $100,000 he is high value. What about a man who earns 99,999.99? See, it's all arbitrary bullshit. You spoke about best friends, family, women you have loved and cherished. They may not be high value in the eyes of the average PPD incel or even society, but you were able to approve to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:06 AM
-9

I admire women who bleach their assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:28 AM
1

There is a scale. From a biological perspective, an 18 year old will probably get pregnant by smelling a guys boxers. A 38 year old? Let's just say that a lot of my friends in their mid and late thirties are struggling to conceive. So yes, males tend to be biologically attracted to young, fertile women. That's not to say they are not attracted to anyone else last the age of 23, many and most men become attracted to older women as they themselves age. Hell, people are fucking in old folks homes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:38 PM
7

Yes. I don't care about women because I was obviously not born to one or married to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:44 PM
2

GOP America is soeedrunning towards Taliban/Shariah rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:20 PM
1

It's actually not that hard. It takes for a man to become fiercely loyal and self appreciative. As long as you don't do things you wouldn't do, your self respect and self appreciation will grow and with this your self acceptance and confidence in yourself. Women don't want HVM. They want a man of quality. A man who knows who he is, accepts his limitations and is confident in his abilities to lead her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:07 AM
1

Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:48 AM
5

I don't wanna brag, but cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:10 AM
2

Okay so you are fucking just not dating. I support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:36 PM
1

Well 60% of you find the time to fuck. How did you get to 150M population without fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:29 PM
-2

The vast majority of males were never meant to procreate. Only the alphas (ambitious males who will accept no subjugation) and betas (males who are in waiting to replace the alpha if he gets hurt, old or dies) corner the sex market. The remainder of the males are more like sigma and omega males. Their role in society is to sacrifice themselves for the preservation of the species, whether through their life, health or resources (such as raising the child of an alpha male). Accept that truth and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:28 PM
2

Every woman wants high quality sperm. How does she know a guy's sperm is high quality? If many other women want it, then it must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:19 PM
1

Well, I won't necessarily hold her lack of experience against her as long as she is an enthusiastic learner and actually likes sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:17 PM
1

I have never discussed n counts with the women I've been. Yet if I told them I had only been wjth one woman before them, they wouldn't have believed me anyway. And rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:16 PM
4

Suspiciously sounds like projecting and rationalizing your own lack of success with the ladies. But what do I know. I'm a 35 year old millionaire on steroids who played college football and I'm 6'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:15 PM
-1

If you are not the man in the relationship, she will become the man and you won't like that. Neither will she.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:06 PM
5

Current messaging is you need love to be happy. You need others to be a complete person. Being loved is necessary. But it's not. 99% of what we do and have is not something we need, but something we want. Sex, women and real too o ships are no different. They are nice to have and should be treated like that. I've never seen a man find love successfully who has come from a place of needing love to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:14 PM
6

You don't need women. They are not your end end goal. Women are just icing on the cake. They won't ultimately make you happy. If your life is so miserable and empty without some pussy, then you have bigger problems you need to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:43 PM
11

Is this any different than good, well behaved girls being upset that guys will throw their hard earned money over some tatted stripper with fake boobs and a huge ass? Instead of shaming people for liking what they like, it may make sense to explore why people are attracted to the bad boys/girls to begin with. And maybe incorporate some of that naughtiness in their own persona to become a bit more sexy and desirable to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:56 AM
9

I used to have a huge mixed social circle at one of the companies I worked for. When all the guys got coupled up (only one with a girl from our social circle), the social circle fell apart. Well, not exactly. All the girls stopped coming out with us and it was only guys. Now why would they do that if they only wanted to hang out as friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:07 AM
1

In surviving Hunter gatherer cultures today, do you really think it is the case that their women are treated like cattle? And how does this work in every other species on the planet that doesn't reproduce asexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:19 AM
4

I want to know the answer from you. And while you are at it, explain how every species on Earth has continued to exist for millions of years if females are so repulsed by sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:27 AM
3

That's what I meant. He was implying those guys are average and can't compare to male models, but they literally look like models. Fitness models at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:04 AM
2

Mentions a guy that will beat a male model. Googles guy who is literally a male a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:35 PM
5

If women stopped wearing make up, use Botox or groom, most guys would think they woke up in sausage farm land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:13 PM
6

Explain how humans have grown from a few tribes in Africa hundreds of thousands of years ago to over 8 billion today?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:08 PM
1

Sure. Most alpha males are guys you will never hear about because women find ways to fuck them wjthout counting them as a notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:03 PM
1

The study is about wolves. Completely irrelevant to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:07 PM
0

Completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:57 PM
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Not exactly. Women want men who know what they want. If they want to meet their one true great woman, more power to them. The problem is that men actually don't know what they want and they don't focus. They are all over the place, leaving doors and windows open just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:34 PM
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Basically the premise of Sex/Life Netflix series. Not a new phenomenon for anyone who has been or is married or in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:31 PM
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By definition an alpha male is someone who is not of the sticking around kind. The most important alpha trait is really leadership ambition and not accepting being anyones bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:30 PM
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Oh 100%! I mean all the love songs, pop songs, they talk about needing people and having to feel loved, etc. It's everywhere in our culture. The way I see it there are two sides to the coin. One side is: what does having sex/women/relationships mean to you and the other is: what not having them means ABOUT you. Men tend to see having women as the ultimate goal in life, their only or at the very least, major, source of happiness and fulfillment in life. They have convinced themselves they need wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:32 PM
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It's because you equate women with your ultimate goal and happiness and that's the biggest mistake you can make with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:50 AM
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All of this is wrong. A woman cannot teach a man how to be a man no more than a man can teach a woman how to be a woman. Period. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:49 AM
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First time here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:45 AM
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Being the alpha is the natural drive. Being successful in society's eyes in order to be allowed to feel alpha - that is the social conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:43 AM
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I think it's a solid mix of nature and nurture. Of course, men tend to be competitive and want to conquer and achieve stuff. As little kids, we play soldiers and super heroes. It's innate in us, but it also is society's way of preparing us to sacrifice our bodies and well being for the good of the society/tribe. Boys like playing sports, competing and dominating each other. But high school sports take this to a brutal level where you subject your body and well being to brutal training regimens, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:40 AM
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Yeah, I'm not saying anyone should stay single or never date again, but when you do it's because you want to, it's a choice, as opposed to feeling miserable and lonely because you are single and needing a partner to feel fulfilled and happy. Men who are fulfilled and happy with their lives and don't need women to be so, are actually way more attractive than the mopey, desperate guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:33 AM
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It's not even six days. It may be as little as three days that are most fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:39 AM
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Sexual desire for men and women is different. For men, it's literally about cleaning the pipes every day. For women, the urge is to find the lost suitable sperm during that time of the month before she starts menstruating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:12 AM
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I usually have to read a few sentences/paragraphs to see the obvious contradiction, but you nailed it in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:58 PM
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It is a very simple explanation. Fear! Fear is at the bottom of all mens problems with women. Confronting your fears is, well, scary. And anxiety inducing. And uncomfortable. But it is exactly what is needed in order to make the transition from boy to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:52 PM
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Hey y'all I keep hitting my head against a brick wall. Those damn, evil bricks are no good!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:47 PM
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Oh my god, where do I start. Firstly, Freedom. You have the freedom to do whatever you like, go wherever you like and never have to consult anyone else or deal with their wishes, restrictions or schedules. You have more spare income to do whatever you want with. You can date multiple people are the same time. You can focus on yourself, do things that are very selfish and self indulgent without having to worry about another person. You can easily move around to a new city, or neighborhood. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:52 PM
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