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I would hypothesize that our primate minds would tend to be drawn towards the most popular individuals we are aware of. Celebrities are a hyper-stimulus of sorts, because they appear so popular, and no, it's not a conspiracy but business. They either grab people's attention or are out of business. Over time, the industry has honed the attention-sucking machinery to perfection, because it has to. To me, the causality seems clear. It may very well be the case though that once our Dunbar slots have…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 06:33 AM
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These factors don't motivate me whatsoever. My mind is more sophisticated than you think, and while with most people, the ego, emotions, and other tribalistic instincts blend into every opinion and action, this is not the case with me. Edit ---------------------- It still takes me some time to remember that I'm no different. Thanks for reminding me. End of edit --------------------- I'll just leave this here as an example of something our minds will do anything in their power to not see. I shoul…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:42 PM
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Glad that this came up. I'm actually surprised that it took so long. You are giving me the occasion to explain in more detail some things I mentioned briefly in my previous comment. Without realizing it, you are being very helpful, for which I thank you. Some readers may misinterpret this as sarcasm - which it is absolutely not. I mean it 100% seriously. You are demonstrating how certain unlucky features of our nature shape the ways we act. This is hugely helpful. you are one pathetic piece of s…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:13 PM
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She goes on a freaking tirade. Calls me all sorts of names. Accuses me of lying about having a girlfriend, and says that she never wanted to believe the rumours about me being gay back in college, but I'm probably getting "plugged in the butt like a fucking daffy." She spits out some more choice words about me. Tells me that she only ever slept with me because she just wanted to find out what it was like to be with a golliwog, but I couldn't ever satisfy her because I have a tiny dick anyways. S…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 09:58 AM
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I won't explain the video because it's imperative that you watch it, however much of it you can stomach, yourselves. Didn't stomach much. Here's a better science show to watch.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:03 PM
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Yeaaaah, that felt GOOD! My ego is melting like hot butter. Could you say this once again? I could actually hear you in my head. An army of people having my thoughts loop in their heads. Kinda nice. I never planned this, but now that it's happening, I don't object. Being aware of one's ego helps to keep it in check. We men tend to easily fall for ass-kissing, and this is a major weakness. I appreciate your feedback. I'm trying. Thanks dude.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:18 PM
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What's recent got to do with it? If a revelation was made 10 years ago or yesterday, does its value change? While this isn't wrong, the comment was intended as an answer to this: But seriously isn't she just reading out TRP esque ideology and getting validation from the very people who claim to not give validation to women easily? The idea was that there are plenty of guys repeating the same stuff and getting validation.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:22 PM
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You almost got it, but there's a tiny twist you missed. And an important one at that ... Our brains are biologically predisposed to fall for certain lies, and right now it's happening to you. Welcome to having a human brain. What's the tempting lie: that you are supposedly a victim of some evil perpetrator. This kind of narrative comes up a lot, because human brains tend to fall for it. And it seems really convincing - to a human brain. 'The masters' are not the real masters. In any animal pack,…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:23 PM
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"Hitting the head. Dont let these bitches touch my jacket" This is an example of a signal that cannot be faked. You either do this with full conviction or you 'die.' You don't really die, but you are found out as 'fake' and the angry pussy scratches your eyes out. Ugh, text is a lousy medium. I don't mean to 'scare' you, not one bit. Actually, I'm quite amused ... What I'm trying to say is that you really need the right attitude with this ...
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 02:29 PM
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The only difference between a natural and a "learned" alpha is that the first one didn't learn... ... consciously. We humans are learning machines - especially kids whose natural curiosity hasn't been stifled by a misplaced pride of being 'smart.' 'Naturals' learned 'by osmosis' without realizing that they were learning - just like we all learn to stand, talk and walk. After a certain age, learning becomes conscious. From this point forward a willingness is required to question what we thought w…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 02:22 PM
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Simply put, the last 200+ years has given LEGAL advantages to crafty, backstabbing, two-faced, Betas, Deltas & Gammas, whom gain undeserved Alpha status, due to LEGAL protection from PHYSICAL retaliation, whereas in the previous 199,800 years of "mans existence", these guys would have been quickly dispatched or exiled through the physical retaliation of those in their closest networks You seem to be equating true alpha with physical dominance. But what happened to be "the fittest" under certain …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:04 PM
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Every successful system that man has dared to create throughout the centuries all have this 'structure'. A framework where various parts do not (really)work independently of each other. Where if you take out one element the rest will fall. Maybe this is not the best formulation of what you are trying to say. I really hope so, because your current formulation describes a system entirely built of single points of failure: A single point of failure (SPOF) is a part of a system that, if it fails, wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:01 PM
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Most of my reading on RP has led me to believe that cleaning and tidying is the job of the woman, thus lowering my value. Is this true? 'Value' is a matter of perception and thus inherently subjective. There are certain behaviors that the female nervous system perceives as sexually attractive. You can become good at them for the purpose of consciously shaping the way you are perceived. You are being perceived in one way or another anyway - whether you know it or not - so it's better to not leave…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 07:52 PM
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You are onto something important here. I feel reluctant to talk about it, because it's going to be unpopular, but now that you ask, it may be time to go forward with this. It's a whole new red pill that's going to be very unsavory to the male brain. What I'm about to say should trigger a great deal of discomfort in you. There's a male crisis, because our brains aren't adapted to the changing world. It's our brains' propensity to blame it on some external perpetrators, but the truth is that our o…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:25 PM
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she wanted to make it look like a bunch of pussys whining and succeeded Haven't watched the film, so this may be the case. Maybe MRAs are screwing up. But where are the ripped dudes doing the job properly? Legislation has gone horribly wrong and needs to be fixed for humanity's sake. If nobody else's stepping up, I welcome MRAs, imperfect as they are.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 05:10 PM
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however, a good film for MEN to watch. This film is only gonna feed that pussy inside you that tells you to take a day off from the gym Good point. wait in vain for legislation when what you really need to be doing is reading the fucking side bar and installing the stronglifts 5x5 app on your fucking phone. Fixing legislation is actually very important - and lifting does nothing for it. It seems to me like you've thrown the towel in this regard. MRAs have taken an unpopular route and are fightin…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 04:58 PM
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Caveat: Haven't watched it yet, only interviews with Cassie. There's lots of awesome in your post. I won't repeat points, because you've basically said it all. So yes, dudes - just go and read the fucking post once again. I have seen a fair bit of suspicion and doubt in this forum regarding Cassie Jaye's "The Red Pill." I have a few thoughts about why this is so. Here we go: Average people need simplistic, black-and white answers. If women aren't glorified angels that poop rainbows and birdsongs…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 04:12 PM
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While your intentions are good, prohibition backfires. You'll never have full control. The desire for it is FEAR-based. In the rare cases that somebody does become a dictator, this ends up being even worse. (Think of all the dictators of human history. If you ever succeeded in your desire for full control, you'd become one of them. They all started off with good intentions. This is human nature.) So what do we actually do about it? I don't claim to have the silver bullet. But here are some ideas…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 01:03 PM
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Thanks for the interesting info. One possibility would be that the genetics that make outliers live on and reproduce in siblings with lower IQs and more mating success. Another possibility is that the production of outliers on every trait is a common time-risk management technique employed in case conditions have changed. You may enjoy learning about spandrels: A main example used by Gould and Lewontin is the example of the human brain. It is explained that the human brain is the area in humans …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 02:32 PM
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There's a difference between sustainability and life quality. Rules made old societies sustainable, not necessarily happy. On the other hand, breaking all the rules doesn't necessarily lead to happiness either. Our brains evolved for sustainability and not happiness. This is a very fundamental problem of humanity: We are all born slaves to our genes' agenda, and the choices we naturally make don't lead to happiness. While OP's making an important point, I believe that the vast majority of tradit…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:51 PM
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What can I do to keep my mind off a particular girl and focus on myself? If you were to try to think of anything else but a polar bear, you'd notice how the harder you try to push the thought away, the more you think it. Trying to push thoughts away backfires. What you have to do instead is decide what you do want to think about, and then watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself drifting away from what you do want to think about, gently get your attention back on track. Don't beat yourse…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:18 PM
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Challenge: tempting. Trying to resist ...
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 11:16 AM
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Your inborn instinct to be nice/nonviolent to others out of "kindness" is just because of the calculated inprinted fact that many times the men protecting other women would be stronger than you so you shouldn't try This may very well be so. But no invention was ever held back to its original purpose. Kindness evolved for whatever reason it did. Once it does exist, it acquires a life of its own.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 10:06 PM
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I found the post body very interesting. The title - meh. To me, it's a given that rape claims are not always true. Let's not preach to the choir. The problem I see with the title is that it can be interpreted as if all rape claims were false. Which would be a ridiculous claim. In an effort to appear confident, OP shat on his credibility. Which is sad, because the post itself is quite awesome. I am all for fair investigations - which are lacking. But the title goes to an extreme. Many trolls will…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:39 PM
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The one thing that stops men from doing this isn't women fighting back. It's other men. The only thing? You remind me of an evening from an old time ago. I was fresh out of college, visiting another town, and I got into a conversation with some school kids. What struck me was their inability to conceive of the possibility that somebody could actually enjoy learning. To them, having good grades was an 'obvious' sign that the student was trying to kiss the teacher's ass. They had never experienced…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:22 PM
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Our minds give us hacks rather than truth. Hacks is all we've got. Or we could call them 'appearances.' Don't worship your appearances. I do not - however - mean doubt in yourself. You should have complete belief in yourself not because it is accurate, true or anything else, but because it builds a strong sense of self, and creates a mindset that will propel you to succeed. No human was ever 'wrong'. Opinions always are. We are biologically hardwired to confuse the two. Classical physics was nev…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 01:51 PM
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I won't pretend to have a clue about what you're going through. Maybe you'd prefer to listen to this guy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VaRO5-V1uK0
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 10:46 PM
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A 100% convincing appearance of 'impossibility' is precisely what makes your eventual victory fulfilling. And your current inability to imagine this yet is precisely what an appearance of 'impossibility' happens to feel like. You can never bounce back unless you fall first. You never know what you can accomplish until you do. If it were easy, it would be boring. One day, when you look back at what you've overcome, you'll know that it was never a sickness unto death - but an opportunity for a gre…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 10:19 PM
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You have a challenge that nobody here has a clue about. It's very unlikely that anybody would have a ready solution for your situation. Look at it long-term: When you figure this out, you'll have achieved a level of wisdom unique to you. Realize that you are at the beginning of a huge project. It's gonna take as long as it has to. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 09:41 PM
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Why would any actor make an ass of themselves in front of the entire internet? This would be procreational suicide. I don't know about you, but Touchy Tequila is done for me. In the highly unlikely case of ever meeting her in person, I'd make sure to avoid her. Similarly, Cuck Norris has screwed up his chances with any woman who gets to watch this video. Negative publicity does exist. Nobody with half a brain would do such a thing to themselves. That's why this has to be real. In case you're won…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:31 AM
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I very much appreciate the way she promptly confirms the facts of the film with her behavior. This may delay the inevitable - just a bit. But the cat is out of the bag. Not the smartest move on her part, but she doesn't know it yet.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 11:39 AM
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when women give you shit upon approaching, it still is an indicator of disinterest I'd rather stay away from over-analizing* this. For the most part, people are acting on auto-pilot. Just train your autopilot to feel good about yourself and not depend on external validation. Typo intended.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 03:47 PM
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There's the unscientific claim that by staring at her left eye you'd stimulate her right, emotional brain - rather than her left, logical brain. While we can't claim that this will work, claiming any certainty that it won't is just as unscientific. So you've got nothing to lose. It relieves you from having to decide which eye to look into - so that you have your mind free for more important things. Look at whichever eye you want.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 03:26 PM
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This is how you become attractive - for real. I can't put my mind around whether this post states the truth or whether it just represents what most of us, especially newcomers, would like to believe and really just represents an extremely ignorant and overly simplified view on things... Here's the technicality of how this works: When faced with the appearance of a 'rejection,' you either 'know for sure' that you're being 'rejected,' or 'know for sure' ... whatever your belief is. Depending on wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 03:13 PM
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Maybe because they don't wear bras. Gotta test this ...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 04:31 PM
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So many detractors express that they dislike the concepts here because they are sexist, offensive, and untrue but then when a woman finds herself attracted to the very asshole that she believes inhabits this place and then goes on to believe that the guy in question isn't like that. Plot twist: the concepts of this sub were never 'sexist,' 'offensive,' or 'untrue', and she can recognize this when looking at a particular person. The actual hamster is about her failure to reconsider her opinion of…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 04:12 PM
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nobody cares what you did. Well then, keep it up while you still can. There's an inherent problem with this attitude though, because this is what it inevitably leads to. And when you get your ass kicked, your kids killed and your females fucked, it is almost as romantic as the BP crap - or so the hamster says. To consciously choose this path is not very wise IMO. When you’re winning, who thinks about losing? But when you’re faced with what I’m looking at, a new and cold reality dawns. A fact we …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:39 PM
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We men have all a need to brag about something: 'Look at my car!' 'Look at my cash!' 'Look at how smart I am!' 'Look at how talented I am!' 'Look at how humble I am!' 'Look at how RP I am!' It doesn't matter what you brag about, it seems cute for a while (like 5 seconds) and then you're nexted. Or - as OP is pointing out - it does. Because there are some mass hysteria triggering topics to absolutely NOT brag about. Edit: There's something I might as well share with you. This guy is quite awesome…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:17 PM
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Lots of testosterone lead to hair loss. Baldness can be very sexy. Except when you feel insecure about it. Insecurity is an inside job. Stop self-sabotaging.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 08:41 AM
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Gentlemen, with a risk to hurt your feelz, please avoid this faux pas: Your professor is a moron. Personal attacks are a no no. Avoid them like the plague. After dropping a shit like that, any reasonable argument that follows won't be heard. Just do yourself a favor and learn some basic communication skills. Just going to note that I really hope you don't take the holier than thou tone you've taken throughout this comment thread with your patients. They will never trust you if you cannot communi…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:43 AM
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We both said the same sentence: You bitches need to chill. How about body language and voice tonality? Saying the same words means always nothing without these taken into account.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 06:57 PM
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This would have been the reasonable course of action for somebody who wants to make money ... But we are dealing with white knights instead ... ... or could something completely different be going on ...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:27 PM
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Yes, I do. My message is that of Hypocrisy. Pointing it out without making the receiver feel attacked is a fine art. I believe that there's a male hamster, too. We are all full of crap - and afraid to admit it. It's just easier to see it in others first. And then the temptation is to milk this insight for a sense of superiority. It takes a high level of self-esteem to dare asking the question: How am I doing this too? All hamsters are caught up in a superiority game, and the best pretenders are …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:36 PM
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you hypocrite fuck Dumb fuck. Glad she fucked you over As soon as I make a counter argument I get down voted by the faggots here. I guess humans are really shit at their core We all have an inner animal inside that hates being attacked. Once attacked, nobody gives a shit about your point. They just fight back. So here's a question to ponder: After removing all the stuff quoted above, what's the useful message you want to convey?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:39 PM
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I'm glad you got dicked down by a "loser" pothead you hypocrite fuck. You are highly skilled at not getting your point across.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:28 PM
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Off the top of my head without having read any other replies ... It's our version of "just be yourself! Then you'll find the right woman for you". Just as women ideally want a natural alpha (not one who has "learned" to be that way), men ideally want a natural beauty (not one who has "learned" to be beautiful through make up tricks). Pretty close ... except that learning how to be an alpha actually means that a change on the inside has taken place. Makeup remains a superficial cover. Lemme try a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 01:41 AM
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Knowing how many things can go wrong when writing a software program I have full control over, I cringe at the thought of what could go wrong when we start tinkering with human genes. And I do think that sooner or later, humanity will do this.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:16 AM
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apostrophe's I don't know either. Heil Grammar!
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 12:29 PM
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In the video at the top, he points out the hypocrisy of the current system, where when women do evil, everyone tries to rationalise that it's no her fault. No, it's always her environment, her hormones or the evil patriarchy (men). They're never responsible for their own acts. IMO, the real problem is the double standard: You either hold both genders equally responsible, or neither. Both men and women tend to perceive genders differently: men are perceived as agents and women as victims. I tend …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 07:36 PM
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She is a yoga teacher who apparently hates yoga people, judging from the criticism she heaps on them in this article. I don't know which article you are talking about, and they won't let me read on without a member(ship) anyway. I read those though: "My marriage was not a failure, but a successful masterpiece" and "I'm all natural with breast implants." Both make great points. The point of the second one: With 18, I made an irreversible decision I wouldn't make today. I choose to not engage in u…
/r/seduction27/05/12 01:08 PM
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When you first look at that passage, you might think that something that contains the phrase "shiny leather passenger seat" is just bad writing. But no. It goes deeper than that. There are allusions to two songs in there: I'd love to lay you down, and Upside down. Bad writing, a country ballad, and the 80s in one sentence. I'm impressed by your ability to miss the point by distracting yourself with allusions that she probably didn't make. Let me translate from womanese: If you are trying to impr…
/r/seduction27/05/12 11:22 AM
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Man, if you get so upset at her being a woman, what are doing at seddit? I read both articles, and she's making awesome points. Awesome.
/r/seduction27/05/12 12:21 AM
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Don't read with your ass. Use your eyes. Don’t worry about how your future children are going to go to college (just enjoy them still swimming in the confines of your testes) because we will weather the collegiate money suck when it’s time. AKA Don't plan too far ahead. And yes, she is assuming that the relationship is going to last, but you don't need to make a big deal out of it. You may be assuming that your next HB is gonna have huge tits, but you could also enjoy smaller ones. Women do spea…
/r/seduction27/05/12 12:11 AM
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That's a rule of thumb and no dogma - and it shouldn't keep you from recognizing good info when you see it.
/r/seduction26/05/12 11:31 PM
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A clinger? Why do you think so?
/r/seduction26/05/12 07:49 PM
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I don't know where exactly they look at. The thing is, I enjoy living in my body. The feeling of my body moving gives me that smirk ... so it doesn't really matter if they look at my ass or my face.
/r/seduction08/05/12 02:53 AM
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Don't try to force any movement. Hip movements come by themselves when you are relaxed. No hip movements mean that you have tension in your pelvic area - which means that you are stressed out - a "loser" quality. When you are relaxed, here's how hip movements arise by themselves: when you stand on one leg, and the other one is carrying no weight, your pelvis naturally tilts sideways, and the side that carries no weight sinks. When you transfer weight to the other leg, your pelvis naturally tilts…
/r/seduction08/05/12 02:49 AM
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Working link: 13 Common Limiting Beliefs That May Be Sabotaging Your Love File - How To Live Happily
/r/seduction25/04/11 09:22 AM
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Working link: A very unusual method to improve your body posture and become more relaxed
/r/seduction24/04/11 09:25 PM
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Working link here: Dancing Social Anxiety Away: How I Became a Salsa Dancer What happened?
/r/seduction24/04/11 09:02 PM
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In case you liked this, and haven't heard of Nonviolent Communication yet, I suggest that you check it out. This stuff has the potential to bring world peace. For practical purposes, Verbal Aikido is easier to implement, and there is a lot of overlap between the two. If you'd like to go deeper though, check this out: Marshall Rosenberg on Nonviolent Communication
/r/seduction02/04/11 09:48 PM
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Hеy, thank you vеry much!
/r/seduction01/04/11 12:47 PM
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First things first: congratulations for taking action and attending the salsa class. This will certainly pay off in the long run. Guess what, it did also pay off immediately, but you didn't notice. I know I have failed miserably in applying most of seddit advices here palmface This is the kind of attitude that screws up your success. Drop the word "failure" from your vocabulary. All rules are just guidelines. Getting what you want is more important than sticking to rules. It's incredible, how mu…
/r/seduction31/03/11 09:31 PM
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herp derp
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:36 AM
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I see you've got an alpha cock. Would it fuck this?
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:22 PM
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LMAO!
/r/seduction27/03/11 12:19 PM
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Yes, Alexander Technique does work AFAIK - because it uses some of the Feldenkrais principles. Use it as an alternative to my second link. My personal preference is Feldenkrais though. It is not an alternative to the first link.
/r/seduction27/03/11 12:06 PM
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OK, thanks for the feedback. That's what I get for neglecting these principles: Knowing the theory is quite useless if I don't practice it. BTW, that chick in the last three videos ... I don't really watch her while typing in another window, but her voice turns me on ... Edit: fix broken link.
/r/seduction27/03/11 12:00 PM
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OK. Don't bother clicking on the links. Don't invest in 15 minutes for testing it for yourself. Don't get the results. Prove me wrong and feel superior instead. If this floats your boat, I'm fine with it. It's vital to never ever test anything before it is PROVEN to work, lest you turn out to be STUPID*. Yes, I'm an asshole. Downvote. Report. It's been a while since I got myself to start blogging. I've been having the results for a few months. Yes, I do attribute the results to these exercises -…
/r/seduction26/03/11 10:55 PM
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The first set - the TREs - I watched the DVD one evening, maybe an year ago, and felt quite rushed, and didn't get any result. Then I tried once again the next day, and this time my body exploded. It was really intense, and the kind of relaxation I felt was like nothing I had ever experienced before. The second set - Feldenkrais - I kept doing a 45 minute session every day for a month, then I got lazy and didn't keep it up. I just came back from buying some groceries. At the store, I met a guy I…
/r/seduction26/03/11 09:52 PM
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I can see how this can be funny: by its sheer ridiculousness. As long as you don't take it seriously, it can work. The risk is that you can enter the frame "She is doing me a favor by giving me sex." That's a shitty frame. You've gotta keep it ridiculous or drop it.
/r/seduction22/03/11 04:26 PM
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In case you liked this, please consider helping me out. Thank you.
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:20 PM
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*The guy who sits there listening to stories, or the guy telling them? Both - at the appropriate times. The guy who always tries to make things non confrontational, or the guy who stands up for what he believes in, tells people when he thinks they're wrong, and tells them when he thinks they're right, too? The guy who has no fear of being disagreed to. The guy who can express his views without having to prove others wrong. The guy who is comfortable with himself, and can be happy even if he gets…
/r/seduction04/03/11 08:13 PM
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I am getting the impression, that you are trying too hard to make them become your friends. You may be pressuring them too much. If you identify yourself with your success in making friends, it will always feel like an uphill battle. This will screw up your vibe and push people away. Instead, focus on enjoying yourself as much as you can. Find some activities that you really love, and then have fun with them. Others will see and will want to participate.
/r/seduction03/03/11 09:49 PM
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Until you learn to keep the beat, it's best to stick to one system. You'd be unnecessarily confusing yourself otherwise. Keep practicing.
/r/seduction20/02/11 09:30 AM
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For those who have objections, read this: Some of the parts they don't go into very much sound like the sort of magical thinking I grew up with amongst new-age types, however. It IS unconventional, and many people's reflex is to come up with similar objections. If you take your time to read this, you'll see that it's not woo-woo. Some of it sounds like good old meditation and proprioception training The same old truth from yet another angle. I personally love this angle. Do you have more detail …
/r/seduction16/02/11 10:55 AM
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What kind of research are you doing?
/r/seduction16/02/11 12:17 AM
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Whether he should go for it or not depends on his skill level.
/r/seduction15/02/11 10:23 PM
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You can never eliminate risk from your life entirely. Are you gonna be devastated if you lose this job? There are ways to make this work well, but you need some social intuition: recognize a psycho and stay away if you have to. spike her interest without creeping her out. If the girl is cool, you can be extra upbeat for the short moments when you come to wait her table. Make your entrance, shine, then walk away. You will be able to see her response and decide if it's gonna work. Chat her up, jok…
/r/seduction15/02/11 04:00 PM
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I'm listening to Shinzen right now, ant he's talking exactly about this.
/r/seduction14/02/11 09:10 PM
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Firstly, accept the prospect of nothing happening. Trying to "get" her will keep her away. Tell yourself: "Even if nothing ever happens between us, I'll be all right." Only then: Have short intense interactions with her and then walk away. When you see her, greet her with a hug and kiss. When you pass by, touch her, play with her hair. Then walk away.
/r/seduction12/02/11 07:15 PM
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Alpha doesn't have to mean grumpy and a killjoy. Women who need a man like that have a self-esteem problem.
/r/seduction12/02/11 01:12 PM
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I read all the answers you guys have posted, and ... You are all trying to be smart and gimmicky. I don't like the term "try hard", but that's exactly what comes to my mind now. The girl was having fun and shared it. Just stop overthinking it. Relax, allow yourself to have fun, and then you'll come up with a reply. You don't HAVE TO reply either. I listened to the song, and the reaction I spontaneously posted here could have been a good reply (wasn't thinking about that while posting): LOL, "the…
/r/seduction12/02/11 07:26 AM
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I didn't know about this song either. Seems like she's open enough to you to share this with you. You're lucky that you didn't get defensive.
/r/seduction12/02/11 02:11 AM
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LOL, "the best 30 seconds of my life"
/r/seduction12/02/11 02:10 AM
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I'd suggest something as simple as doing a round of asking everybody about their name, and shaking their hands. Use confident body language, keep eye contact, smile. If some of them says something stupid, just ignore it/laugh it off. Don't get defensive. He can only harm you if you let him. After pulling this off, your status will be high. Befriend the group, then focus on a girl of your choice. I know that it's easier said than done, but keep working on it. Good luck!
/r/seduction12/02/11 01:57 AM
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How about giving her some great sex?
/r/seduction11/02/11 11:30 PM
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Am I supposed to play aloof or rapidly escalate? Don't be too hungry. Don't beg. Don't be afraid to escalate either. Let go of her hand first or hold on until she lets go? Hold her hand for as long as YOU like it. It you are starving for sex, you may introduce a correction: hold her hand for a while - focus on how the touch feels like and enjoy it. Then slowly let go. Don't be afraid to touch. Don't cling either. In the end is it all just about confidence? Yes, it is about feeling good in your o…
/r/seduction10/02/11 09:35 PM
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Flowers are NOT a way to make her want you. Flowers are a way to thank her for treating you well - when you are already in a relationship, that is, you have already had sex a few times.
/r/seduction10/02/11 08:36 PM
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LOL, that's a long story. It's already been some years ago. I decided to leverage my musical talent and do something for my social life. At that time, I used to be extremely shy and socially inept. I was also a cheapskate, and didn't want to pay for salsa classes. So for a while, I used to go to the local events, sit down, watch the people dance, and I was trying to figure out what they were doing. I also tried to find stuff on the internet. None of it worked. Finally, I gave in and started goin…
/r/seduction10/02/11 01:47 PM
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This sounds like a limiting belief to me. When you meet inner resistance, pay attention to your thoughts and write down all objections your mind is throwing at you. This makes you aware of the B.S. you have programmed with.
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:44 AM
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Some limiting beliefs you have: Sex is wrong/dirty/sinful. Women don't like sex. Both are B.S. Read Nancy Friday's "My Secret Garden" to get a perspective.
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:36 AM
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Get some social hobbies. At best something involving physical contact - like martial arts, dancing or acting. Cooking is not bad either. Let your imagination loose. Look at listings and see what events are available. My hobby of choice is salsa dancing, but it's just me. The beginning was hard. Now life's good :) When you meet inner resistance, pay attention to your thoughts. What are the objections your mind is throwing at you? This is a way to recognize the limiting beliefs you have. Work on r…
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:32 AM
1

Many, if not most, psychologists contend that long-held beliefs can be totally eliminated, if at all, only after extensive time, effort, and specific retraining. TLM challenges that assumption and contends that even beliefs formed early in childhood can be permanently eliminated in a matter of minutes. The basis for this claim is thousands of clients who state that a belief that was experienced as true is no longer experienced as true and that the behavior and emotions that result from the belie…
/r/seduction05/02/11 01:50 PM
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Hey bro, I really loved your post! "it'll look dumb going over there now" "my logical side was talking bullshit again and was gonna fuck me over" Yeah, that's exactly what our minds love to do. Our minds bullshit us so damn often. Congratulations for not trusting the BS and taking action! You rose above your fear and got rewarded. To me, the greatest reward was not the outcome with those girls, it was a shift in you: "I felt an almost extreme state of relaxation. It was almost like something tri…
/r/seduction03/02/11 10:24 PM
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You are very welcome! If you lack confidence and self-esteem, it is probably caused by some limiting beliefs. If you feel that you are not good enough. If you constantly feel guilty or judged for something, you'll never have the guts to approach. Even if you force yourself to do so, your body language and voice will reveal your true state. The woman will feel that something's off and will probably politely excuse herself - at best. There's a method to bust limiting beliefs quickly and easily. Yo…
/r/seduction03/02/11 08:26 PM
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Keeping eye contact is a great exercise, because it stirs up your inner resistance and helps you become aware of your limiting beliefs. Your mind suddenly starts giving you all possible reasons to look away - thus making you conscious of the BS you believe in. Watch those thoughts and you'll know what beliefs you have to bust. If you want to smile, don't try to force a smile in order to make a good impression. Trying to get an outcome from the girl will make your smile creepy. Instead, imagine w…
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:41 PM
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Hey MurderGoat! You've already got a bunch of good advice. A social hobby is a great idea. Reading 60 and David Burns also. As for the hobby, you may consider something that involves more physical contact. While DJ-ing can be great, you could think of some sport like martial arts, acting or dancing. My hobby of choice is salsa dancing, but that's just me. As for the reading stuff, it can be very helpful as long as you don't just read. Unsuccessful people hold themselves back because of their att…
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:33 PM
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