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So many things to do and so little time
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:05 PM
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It's not necessarily "ignoring" them, ignoring is intentionally not talking to them. That's just rude. It is more like you don't have time to keep bending your schedule to them and you're just putting in as much effort as they are. If she starts talking to you talk to her, if she stops talking to you stop talking to her. That simple, it's not a game you play.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:12 PM
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Most girls will be comfortable with a kiss on the first date, in my experience. I use a checklist anytime I do a first kiss that may be useful for those nervous about how to. But if you try and go in for the first kiss make sure she has a "way out" if she's feeling cornered or forced into it that raises alarms. Then I will wait till they enter my personal space (if they enter mine that means they put me in theirs), then when I go for the kiss I go half way and see how they react, do they go in a…
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:03 PM
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In the context of the comment...? Confidence is NOT a masculine trait therefore they must be referring to confidence in the dominant personality sense. And not exactly, I don't associate confidence with dominance but I do associate dominance with confidence. Not everyone who is confident is dominant but if someone is dominant then they usually have confidence
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:28 AM
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If you are being truthful about having a good career, keep yourself fit, have above average looks, etc then all you need to do is be around more women. Make more friends and out yourself out in the world. Find something you enjoy doing, do it with the same people weekly. Examples: martial arts class, yoga class, local photography group found on Facebook, Dungeons and dragons party, etc.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:17 AM
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Of course. Everyone wants to date up. Just like how most men want a woman who looks like a super model even if they themselves look like a sack of potatoes.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:01 AM
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No, just that confidence in this context refers to dominant, tough, etc. You can be confident in your art skill for example but to walk with an air of confidence is a personality trait that is often found in people with more dominance.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:55 AM
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You have the right things but came to the wrong conclusion why they work. House clean, expressing your emotions (healthily), and can cook means you got your shit together and you're mature. Cuddling releases the love chemical oxytocin, so of course it works. Wearing a dress, acting feminine and owning it shows confidence and also that you're probably fun to be around and know how to have fun. You said yourself you did it just for fun, women are people, are we surprised that people like fun peopl…
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:23 PM
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Anything she has heard 100 times and now has a canned response to. I never ask what they do for a living when I first meet them, I wait to learn that because their brain just enters autopilot immediately.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:54 PM
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Nope, but I was the overly nice guy so girls were friendly and never laughed at me
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:47 PM
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I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding about what "leagues" are. Leagues are NOT about looks. Leagues are standards. Most girls want a guy who has a stable job and if you don't then you aren't in her league. Most girls want a guy who can take care of himself so if you're a slob then you aren't in her league. The point is not to talk to girls in your league, the point is to get yourself into the top league. Improve yourself into someone girls want to date.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:51 PM
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Literally everyone is saying the same thing "doesn't matter, just try" and you, OP, have the same response to all of them (often copy and paste) saying it does matter. If you weren't going to listen to the answer of the community, why did you ask the question?
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:45 PM
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It all depends on time and place. For example look at Pete Davidson, he certainly shows a vulnerable side and yet gets girls who theoretically should be out of his league so it can work. However it is easy to fuck up showing your vulnerable side, coming off as needy or insecure or etc, so it is often best to simply not. That being said if you've been dating a person for a bit then showing vulnerability becomes easier and can absolutely increase the bond. Also, your title says showing emotion but…
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:16 PM
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Do you mean any courses on promoting your social events or courses on seduction? For advertising I'm not sure as I haven't done it that way myself but YouTube should be good, for seduction I watched some people giving presentations at conventions and found a presenter I liked and who made sense to me. I discovered they had a course so I did it. I'd recommend finding someone who is good at picking up the people you want to pick up.
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:02 AM
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You don't need to hire promoters with social media these days. If you feel like hiring promoters just use Facebook ads and/or a Facebook group to advertise your parties, post pics of your parties to Instagram and point people where they can find out about your next event, etc. However, the best way is word of mouth still. Make friends with guys and girls, get those friends to bring people to the parties, then hit on those new people. Don't hit on the first few hot girls that go to your event, be…
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:32 PM
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Ask her out already. Sounds like you're young? She could easily be giving short messages because she is nervous to talk to you or she simply isn't a good texter. Literally everything else indicates you have a shot. You are seriously questioning giving up without ever giving it a shot? Why? If you give up then nothing changes and you miss out, if you ask her and she doesn't like you then nothing changes, if you ask her and she likes you then you've got a date. Literally no down side.
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:34 AM
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If she likes that try looking into Shibari, it's a very artistic form of bondage from Japan that can be good for a beginning sub if you start with single/double column ties on the wrists and/or a basic chest harness (no suspension work, duh.)
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:52 AM
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"we both value each other as friends and adding sex could have a bad ending" umm... Why? It's this thought that gets in the way of FWB. The trick is to still be friends even if you two stop having sex, and to still be friends while you two are having sex. I'm still friends with some of the people I've had sex with! And I actually use that, now someone can't say "sex will ruin our friendship" cause I have examples of the literal opposite. If I were you I would NOT propose being FWB, I would let t…
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:47 AM
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I'd say you should always be clear about your intentions from the start. Any girl I'm with knows my intentions before we ever have sex, that way she never gets let down. However, now that you have had sex, if it does come up make it about yourself, such as "I'm not in a good place for a relationship like that", "a committed relationship is just not who I am", "I'm not ready for that" etc. If it's about her she will feel bad and/or argue, if it is about you then she can't reasonably deny it, she …
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:35 AM
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I would absolutely text her so that she has your number, try to include a fun reference to something you talked about for bonus points. For keeping her interested I'd say don't overthink it, sounds like you've already done a great job so just do what's natural. Get some plans and If you don't text for a few days don't sweat it, you will have to text again eventually as the plans get closer. If you NEED to keep it fun try sending gifs/memes that you find that remind you of her or something you ta…
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:05 AM
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Interesting, I actually disagree. I always considered warm approaching to be approaching someone who is in a social circle you're in or who already knows your name or etc. I was describing someone who you've never seen before and likely never will again which I'd consider to still be in the realm of cold approaching. If you consider what I described above as warm approaching them I'd agree with your original statement that cold approaching sucks. However my definitions work better for me.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:53 PM
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Context may be important here. Have you known this girl for 2 hours or 2 years? If you've been dating a while the ability to feel safe is something girls highly value and some girls may feel it's sweet to hear a vulnerable side (especially if their love language is words of affirmation) but there are also better ways to do it. If you just met then I'd say no, the beginning they prefer a protective male to the vulnerable one.
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:39 AM
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I find it works well if the person either gives a sign she likes you but also, most importantly, if she is bored. If she is bored and you're good at having a fun conversation she will be much more open to talking to you instead of standing there idle as you both wait for a bus or something (typically). I never cold approach someone unless they do one of these two.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:54 PM
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