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What's your approach like and where do you meet them?
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:49 PM
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How many dates on that?
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:37 PM
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That's a whole lot of assumptions coming from you. The things you are saying tell a lot more than you realize. I know what works and what doesn't, which you don't seem to. No, this is world class advice. High volume gamers preach and practice the same mindset and get multiple girls home a day. Yes, multiple. A day. I'm talking 40 approaches a day bare minimum though. You don't have a better chance of scoring because 80-90% won't even respond to you. You simply just don't understand the concept o…
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:54 PM
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Guy who doesn't approach telling a guy who approaches his game is subpar. Standard. You are too fixated on conversion rates. Again a novice gamer mindset. That is needy behavior. I can deal with 20+ rejections in a row, but you can't. I have a bigger chance of scoring more because I just simply approach more. You are just fixated on my percentages because they are low, which they should be if you are a serious practitioner. Second, she was hammered dude. I don't take advantage of that. I drove h…
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:47 PM
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I know that they give it to make you go away. If your text response rate is greater than 20%, then you either only approach when you believe the interaction will work in your favor, or you are lying. I approach regardless of whether I think the girl is into me or gives me a signal. My interactions don't last longer than 1 minute over 95% of the time because making a percieved connection doesn't mean jack. If you were high level game you would know this. I know this because I've had much longer i…
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:32 PM
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If my approach is off explain why they give their number then. That doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:21 PM
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My experience tells me 80-90% of girls don't respond to the text regardless of how the interaction went. How many approaches roughly have you done this year?
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:17 PM
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I don't have an issue with approaching in front of girls you just talked to, but if you do it to get a reaction from them, then it's needy. If you do it because you find the other girl attractive too, then all the power to you. Don't listen to the majority of people on this thread who are tearing you apart, they haven't gone through enough rejection to understand that doing this saving you so much time and energy. Keep on keepin on.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:59 PM
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This. Girls numbers I get don't respond 80-90% of the time anyway, why would I waste my time and energy leaving the bar, walking to another, waiting in line for a few minutes, get in, just to get another number that won't respond.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:51 PM
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How do you know it's because of that? I don't care if a girl i just approached sees me approaching another. I won't do it for her reaction, but only because I find the other girl attractive too. That being said I don't do it fairly often, yet I still don't get a text response 80+% of the the time and I'm probably one of the most bold 23 year olds in this sub. I used to think like you but after so many no responses I figure she won't respond to me anyway, so I'm just gonna pinball off girls withi…
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:36 PM
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Why waste your energy on that
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:16 AM
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100%
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:37 AM
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You would be surprised how many girls don't care about muscle. Guaranteed those guys with jacked arms and legs don't have the confidence to approach because they need to compensate for a lack of confidence. I'm 23 and I approach usually 5-10 women a night at bars on weekends. I go out alone and I don't drink. Just focus on game. I'm a good looking guy but I'm not jacked by any means.
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:38 PM
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Talk to multiple girls a day.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:31 AM
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There are plenty of women that get turned on when they see it too. It's like, wow he doesn't care what I think and just does what he wants? Girls are into that.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:25 AM
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You are making assumptions. People oppose what they cannot understand, so it makes sense you would say something like that.
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:08 PM
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Im just looking for casual stuff until i meet the right girl
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:55 PM
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Why does the amount of women I approach dictate whether I view them as people or not?
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:16 PM
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I never stated that women aren't people. The sexual game is brutal and doesn't give an F about me or you, you have to take action for it to work in your favor. Just as girls will be brutal about ghosting, I see it as equal justice for me to mass approach girls in search of what I am looking for.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:14 PM
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Appreciate it brother
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:08 PM
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Okay, do you then. No need to put down others.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:51 AM
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Eh, Ive noticed that length of conversation does not matter. I know advanced approach practitioners and they pretty much all say this. If girls that you converse with for 10 minutes are gonna ghost you at the same rate as girls after 1 minute, you might as well cut your losses and only spend a minute on each girl. 10 chances vs 1.
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:04 AM
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If a girl ghosts she lost her chance with me. She can't just decide to come back later and say she wants me again even if it is true. That's manipulation. They know you will still respond because you as a man have orders of magnitude lesser options than a woman. Don't be disrespected like that.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:20 PM
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Agree with the advice, but your story is fake.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:23 PM
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Whats the average amount of time between having someone at your place though?
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah? And how often is that happening?
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:36 PM
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Someone who doesn't approach believes this.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:31 PM
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Approach more women. I honestly forget who doesnt respond now. I did a 16 approach session and got 5 numbers 2 weekends ago. I'm at the point i dont even remember the girls faces anymore.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:30 PM
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Worst that can happen is she laughs in your face, best that can happen is she gets in bed with you. We are all going to get old and die one day. Every guy in their late 30s and older tells me they wish they had failed with women more. You're going to realize one day that there was no true risk in approaching that girl that you saw at the gym, but we're too afraid people would think you were weird so you didn't do it.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:04 PM
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You're perfectly free to think that. Just know that the guys that aren't worried about being labled 'weird' are the ones capitalizing on those oppotunities.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:42 PM
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You don't need social status to find girls who will get in bed with you.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:34 PM
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You assume monogamy is my goal. It's not.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:33 PM
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I know a guy that came to the US from India and he told me if you tried that there you get beat.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:10 AM
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I wonder why you are in this subreddit if you think a man introducing himself to a woman is creepy.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:27 AM
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This comes down to caring too much about what others think of you. If people don't like me for being "the approach guy" then so be it. Don't associate with me anymore. I've lost friends because they think the fact I approach is creepy/weird. They can leave as far as I am concerned. Surround yourself with people who support what you do.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:21 AM
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Why does it matter what random people think of you? Especially when you are never going to see them again.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:14 AM
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Why not? This isn't how women operate. In general, they let a man's confidence do the talking. This might be true after a certain threshold of looks is met. Confidence won't make up for the looks of a 5'2 dark skinned janitor with bad facial features. I'm not saying looks don't matter at all. They help you if they are favorable. But if you're convinced you can't get women simply because of the way you look, you need to shift your mindset because that is not true. How much? From cold approaching,…
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:44 AM
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Weird how my decently good looking friends don't get rejected at that rate. Then your friends aren't cold approaching. My guess is they are getting women through social circles, no? If your friends are legitimately cold approaching women with a direct opener, they will be getting sex with less than 5% of the girls they meet. If it is much higher than this they are lying to you. ​ 🤣🤣 I'm not supposed to be outcome oriented? So I'm supposed to just enjoy the thrill of getting told to f*ck off? Yes…
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:33 AM
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No reason to add the sorry.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:17 AM
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You're the typical guy that gets into approach. You give up when you get rejected over 90% of the time when that is excatly what every other guy goes through. You were too outcome oriented.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:10 AM
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A lot to unpack Looks don't matter for guys nearly as much as you might think. Your confidence can easily make up for a lack of looks. Also you do have to get through a lot of rejection to be successful with girls. Guys who don't are the exception to the rule. In no venue are you going to be kicked out for approaching women. Basic excuse.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:08 AM
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I was that guy for 2 years up until 5 weeks ago. I legitimately went from 2 approaches in 2 years to 50 in the last 5 weekends. Im 23.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:51 AM
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Bro the numbers he has presented are just a standard. His standards are you will get 1 number for 5 approaches, 3 dates for every 20 numbers, 1 lay for every 3 dates. These are not absolute and and shift into high or low percentages at any given time. It really is about luck. Nowhere you go in the world are you suddenly going to get rejected drastically less no matter who you are, no matter what you say. That's a fact.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:20 PM
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A white guy in Japan is playing on easy mode, so you can be robotic and get numbers. His statistics prove this is false. He still gets rejected 99%+ of the time, yet he approaches anyway. He preaches rejection is a good thing, which most guys wouldn't understand. Rejection is something most people in this sub think is a bad thing. The average man gives up when they don't get laid after hundreds of approaches. That's why they fall off the cold approach. I'm in a WhatsApp group with Mike and he co…
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:51 PM
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I rewatched his video and he believes he did more like 320-350 in 9 hours. He posted the contacts he got from it. He has posted videos of himself approaching. I've been consistently increasing my approach count almost every weekend for 5 weeks now. I've only been gaming for that amount of time. Last night, I did 16-17 approaches with 5 contact acquisitions in 3 hours. My best session yet. And that is double my 1 for 8 sesh the previous Friday. 30 a week would be a cakewalk for me at this point s…
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:37 PM
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I've slid in 500-700,+ girls fb DMs and got no dates out of it. I've gotten phone numbers but no dates. It's probably possible but I haven't had good luck.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:28 AM
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Last year Mike Mehlman pulled off 81 contacts in 9 hours on his channel with proof. He approached intrastation in Osaka that day. Since his standard is 1 number per 5 approaches, he should have had around 400 approaches that day. He doesnt count, but that's an estimate. His approaches are no longer than 1 minute long and he can pinball off girls because of the pure volume of the city.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:51 AM
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You cant argue against mike mehlman. I know him too. His body count is near 2000 if not more than that. He can get laid by new girls multiple times a day. He lives in Osaka Japan and can afford to approach literally all day every day. Although he approaches more than he preaches guys should, he says guys should be approaching about 50-60 a day 4-5 days per week. He is robotic af when he talks to girls and it obviously works.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:46 AM
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Some users in this sub need to hear this big time.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:52 PM
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Rejection is good.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:50 PM
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Okay, forget about dignity. Ghosting is disrespectful af. And yet you continue to reach out to the girls that do it to you. That is needy. You are telling her it is alright that she ignores you. It's not. You feel the need to text after the ghost because you don't create enough options for yourself.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:12 PM
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No. I will never reach out to a girl that ghosts. If she wasn't interested in me the first time, she lost her chance. I don't waste time with girls who flake. I normally delete numbers after 24 hours of no response. If I get a text from an unknown number, I will respond "I don't know who this is. I either don't know you or I deleted your number because you weren't interested." You do lose dignity and show neediness to girls you reach out to again if they already ghosted you. I promise you they w…
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:21 PM
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This is your way of curbing rejection. You will find girls who respect you more if you ask for their number because you don't give af that yall just met. Girls do not fuck guys that take things slow.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:19 PM
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You're right. OP is afraid of rejection and he tries to curb it by coming off more casually. He thinks "playing it safe" with the girl and not being forward is going to win them over. Girls do not fuck guys that take things slow.
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:46 AM
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If you give anything but your number, that tells her how seriously she should take you. Actually, you should be getting their number. Giving your social media handle to girl will never fucking help you. She gets to see exactly the type of guy you are. You are no longer mysterious. Any questions she might have had about you are answered and she is no longer interested in finding out more. I don't care about instagram followers. I don't need my ego stroked like that. Plus, what exactly is your pla…
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:42 AM
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How is a man to handle potentially hundreds of approaches in a row that could yeild no results otherwise? That would crush anyone who isn't used to getting rejected. This is why most guys seem promising, then outright quit because the results they seek they are not getting.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:42 AM
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Let me rephrase. I approach women I'd like to date. Literally the hottest girls I see, but I don't care at all if I'm rejected. High percentages just reflects low boldness. Trust me, if you were as bold as me, you would have a 1% or less lay rate. High percentages means you approach only when you feel like the girl will be receptive and you say whatever you think will best curb rejection in that moment. I go up to girls and say what I want regardless of whether I think I will get rejected. I hav…
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:26 AM
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I hardly ever care about the girl I'm approaching. It's about fucking up, getting loose, and getting better for the next approach. I don't care that they can sense it because I don't need something more to come out of the interaction. I know that picking up a girls number is a ghost sentence 99% of the time. I look at any numbers, dates, and sex I get from approaching as a nice bonus. If you aim to cold approach and just expect you'll get high perecentages and success, you will get frustrated an…
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:40 AM
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This is the world of cold approach. Welcome. 1 lay per per 100 approaches is the standard so you're above that.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:41 PM
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One big reason is I eventually want to get into day game. If I can prove to myself I can approach without alcohol in me, that's a massive step. Another reason is that staying sober helps keep me calibrated. I notice while im drunk that I dont say what I want to a lot of the time. I let this distract me and i lose focus of the point of approaching. I totally get the use of alcohol for nightgame, but it's all too common. I try to avoid approaching a girl with drink in my hand (even water). My thou…
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:35 AM
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You may have a point. Still, my style of approach is direct and will continue to be. I don't do instadates right now and I am only going for phone numbers so I can quickly get my approach count up. This interaction with Jane did turn into an accidental instadate because I was bored and decided to try it out. Instadates are the best way to hookup the most. That isn't my main goal right now because I need to face rejection to build my confidence. The 30-35 rejections I took made me super calibrate…
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:17 AM
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Unfortunately, approaching is the best way to get the no-fucks-given attitude. There is no shortcuts. I have to say, assholes at work bother me much less now because I have been able to handle girls that outright ignore me when I tell them they're cute. You will understand what I mean when you get good approach volume.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:08 AM
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Ok without giving you a motivational quote or saying bullshit like "You just have to love yourself", here is the real truth about how to get over your approach anxiety: You need to face adversity constantly. Force yourself massively out of your comfort zone on a near-daily basis. For me, moving across the country away from all my family and friends to live alone in a giant metropolis was my adversity. I suggest you do this if you want to accelerate the fastest. Saying you can't do that because y…
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:41 AM
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Cold approaching is not just for results. The average brain cannot understand this and I empathize with that. This is why majority of guys who look at stats like "1 date for 60 approaches? What the fuck?" end up quitting. You have to realize how important it is to get rejected. It puts a fire in you and you become more calibrated for the next approach, not caring about the outcome. Think about it. If you can go up to the hottest girls you see and tell them they're attractive right off the bat, w…
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:07 AM
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Great. That's all I needed to hear.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:05 AM
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Cool how many have you done in the past year?
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:45 AM
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5 hookups for every 30 matches is nuts that is absolutely top .1% on OLD. Meanwhile I can barely get a match a week. I have picked up more numbers from approach in the past month than I have OLD in many months. Cold approach IS effective. But you have to enjoy the rejection that comes with it. The fact you are whining about results tells us it's not for you. I embrace my rejections and they only make me stronger for the next approach. I enjoy getting rejected. I know, the average brain can not p…
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:44 AM
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Tell me you don't approach without telling me you don't approach.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:36 AM
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Game is worth it. LMS does not matter nearly as much as you think. You need to be approaching dozens a day for results. This goes for any guy. I know this because girls will reject me without even looking at me. You could be Channing Tatum himself for all the girl knows, but they don't care.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:35 AM
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The more you game the more you realize the ghost rate is the same no matter how long your interactions. It's not worth going longer than 30-60s for the convo before number close.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:31 AM
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You need to be direct immediately. Tell her shes cute.
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:36 AM
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Yes, at the end of the day, my line and your line will work, just with different women. My opening line is always "Hey, I thought you were cute/attractive and I wanted to say hi." You include the "I know this is unusual" because you fear rejection and that is a tactic you use to try and curb it. It is like saying you are not normal, or that you should not be approaching girls. It is okay to be imposing. I don't hint at the fact that what I am doing is wrong/unusual because there is nothing wrong…
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:06 PM
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Cut out the this is unusual, and tell her why you came up to talk immediately.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:13 AM
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I still think directness and forwardness is necessary for any situation.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:11 AM
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I use that daygame one at night too
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:10 AM
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It's almost never about looks. An average looking confident man can destroy an attractive man who is afraid to initiate.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:29 PM
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