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Richandler/r/seduction04/06/11 10:04 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction10/08/14 06:25 PM
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Who was this guest on the show?
/r/seduction10/08/14 05:36 PM
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Practice talking loudly and over enunciating things. Don't do it on purpose around people, but just practice in your own time and develop habits that support a stronger and clearer voice. Try lying on the floor, place book behind your head, breathing into your diaphragm(stomach) and trying what I suggested.
/r/seduction21/05/12 11:56 PM
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Link to the actual site bro. http://www.ted.com/talks/paul_zak_trust_morality_and_oxytocin.html
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:30 PM
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Girls like proving they are better than the girl a guy is already with.
/r/seduction21/04/12 07:36 PM
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Woman are human. A lot of society wants you to believe in some other construct.
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:51 AM
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I get this affect too. However, at 6'4" I have witnessed the highly disturbing trend that all my red shirts end up being smaller/shorter despite being the same brand and size of other shirts I wear.
/r/seduction08/04/12 07:35 PM
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Um... relax. No seriously that is the best body position while sitting. The body position where you are the most comfortable shows you have to nothing to hide or worry about.
/r/seduction06/04/12 10:38 PM
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If you look at it, things aren't much different from how a dog is raised. If you raise a dog around other dogs and you keep them social, other social situations will be natural. If you don't do that, it takes a lot of effort to make them less aggressive to other dogs.
/r/seduction31/03/12 03:35 AM
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Women will talk about and exaggerate everything. They look for gossip and attention. Get over it. Also if she is for whatever talking about you, you made an impression at the least. Although, she may have also been right so think about how you may have come across as creepy because it's is absolutely possible.
/r/seduction18/03/12 01:05 AM
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You've just written a short piece about the importance of habits. Habits are huge part of game.
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:39 PM
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I've never been a fan of field reports. They seem more like boasting to strangers. This one though, well, it comes off as the male equivalent of a romance novel...
/r/seduction15/03/12 08:33 PM
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I think what is important is that anxiety and apathy largely come from the same emotions. They are in fact very similar. They both don't involve taking risks or being potentially vulnerable. They both also seem to be easily rationalized by the mind.
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:55 PM
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Speaking of the sidebar. It is ridiculously cluttered. It really could use some condensing. The sections should be placed in posts and linked.
/r/seduction13/03/12 09:00 PM
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Dude was dancing with his male friends...
/r/seduction11/03/12 10:48 PM
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If you're using this to base your decisions on anything than you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction06/03/12 05:47 AM
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Actually I think the most alpha is kind of a dumb thing to try for 30 days. Doing stuff like he said in the video. That's the kind of stuff that just makes you naturally a cool and interesting person.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:33 PM
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Posture coincidentally changes voice tonality.
/r/seduction26/02/12 06:32 PM
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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/22/social-media-and-female-self-esteem/
/r/seduction24/02/12 05:28 PM
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One problem with inner game approach is that it lacks approach. Want to increase your inner game? Go have a conversation with a stranger. You can build up all the inner game in the world but it's not going to fix any approach or interaction problems. Approaching will fix these problems. Too much inner game is the equivalent of taking an emotional bath. I imagine a lot of people come to game because they are so in their head in the first place. All the inner game thing does is mental masturbation…
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:09 PM
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"How's the coffee here?" sounds dumb to me. Are you not going to buy the coffee there? Why are you there if you aren't going to be trying it? That said I think overhearing drink orders and asking about those makes more sense and seems more natural.
/r/seduction23/02/12 12:50 AM
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Okay I didn't even get to the video because I get hit 4 separate advertisements before the video even started.
/r/seduction23/02/12 12:48 AM
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She recognized you. She did care to act like she did though. Don't worry about it. You shouldn't care little things like that anyway.
/r/seduction22/02/12 06:11 PM
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Opening your mouth is a lot more important than the emotional bath the article suggests.
/r/seduction22/02/12 06:03 PM
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Here is a topic: You guys should talk about the little things that are non-related but relevant to seduction. Lifestyle and habits that that separates those with game, "alpha males," and those without. I think a lot of seddit likes that kind of observation whether or not imitating things like ordering only black coffee makes you more "alpha" or not. I think a lot of guys don't realize some of the "alpha" traits that they actually demonstrate, but just don't realize it with their "beta" centered …
/r/seduction31/01/12 08:38 PM
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I vaguely know why, but your description makes me want to see the movie just a little bit more now.
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:46 PM
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I almost always tell the person they should have put on suntan lotion.
/r/seduction26/01/12 01:46 AM
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"Everyone who says that is jealous. You aren't the jealous type are you?"
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:11 AM
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Most of rap is filled with really good quotes on these subjects. These guys get laid all the time. Helps they're stars, but still, they know how to talk.
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:30 AM
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Applied science of what? More women? Biology?
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:28 PM
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You also know what they are going to say to you in some respect. They are going to try to sell you something you know that you don't want to buy. When approaching during the day you can't immediate try to sell something to someone. They are looking to buy you, they're window shopping. You have to be the consumer and on their side. The conversation starter has to be something non-personal. If it's related to what you're doing or shopping for it's far more natural and doesn't come off as creepy. W…
/r/seduction07/01/12 11:16 PM
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This guy is like a 9 on a woman's scale if not a 10. It's much easier for him to walk up to almost any girl and walk away knowing he'll get something later as well as knowing she probably hasn't been with anyone as attractive.
/r/seduction07/01/12 10:46 PM
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Isn't oxtocin and comfort chemical? Like the kinda that gets you super attached to someone.
/r/seduction20/12/11 04:39 AM
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Are you being direct or indirect with them? Directly approaching someone comes off really weird. It's sales person like. Read Day Bang, it's filled with all the reasons how randomly talking to people can seem creepy or make people uncomfortable. Also look at nature. Seriously how many animals are communicating outside of sex and play?
/r/seduction20/12/11 04:23 AM
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The best actors you see never stop getting nervous. In fact they thrive off it. It's living for the approach anxiety and performing using that nervous energy which probably propels you or it should. You're human and approach isn't natural; or if it is then being nervous is the natural reaction. It's a big risk and always will be to walk up to woman. You have to enjoy it though.
/r/seduction19/12/11 03:37 AM
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Read Day Bang
/r/seduction11/12/11 02:01 AM
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I'm curious what seddit thinks of Day Bang by RooshV.
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:59 AM
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I believe there is an entire short books worth of body language in the beginners section in the side bar. This stuff I already knew, but have seemingly forgotten.
/r/seduction02/12/11 05:59 AM
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Just because something is featured on the media doesn't mean the "secrets" are going to get out. The only guys who constantly approach are definitely not watching Nightline.
/r/seduction02/12/11 05:30 AM
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I do this in general. Ever since I've had to have a shitty phone, texting is just to much of a hassle for life in general. Phone calls are much more personal and make you feel better.
/r/seduction02/12/11 12:17 AM
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That's hella skinny. Around the same height I was 165 forever and people told me I looked like I didn't eat. Of course even at 175 I still think I look rather skinny now..
/r/seduction28/11/11 07:35 AM
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Could possibly be the clothes making the attitude too. The clothes don't have a label so to speak, but what you have adopted as their label could very easily come across in a subconscious way.
/r/seduction28/11/11 03:06 AM
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http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/17/the-pheromonal-beta/
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:37 PM
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Women usually need to be turned on. If a guy isn't doing that, a dry experience isn't going to be much fun.
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:32 PM
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You forgot to mention you have a kid.
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:27 PM
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They play games you move on. That's kind of actually a part of the game. Set the rules and the game is as fun as you want it to be.
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:25 PM
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Control. You give them the sense of control they lose interest in you as a mate. "Good guys" cater to women too much.
/r/seduction13/11/11 02:22 AM
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Not just funny but with confidence is the issue. If you're insecure talking to someone you got no business talking about their insecurities.
/r/seduction27/08/11 07:55 PM
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The hell are you doing picking up a girl and carrying her? That's where you lost her.
/r/seduction27/08/11 07:20 PM
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I do believe that is a shit test there am I wrong? That or this girl is just out to get free drinks in which case she is pretty devoid of value. Most of those guys who handled it wrong may have played it bad, but they don't seem like they're losing much with the girl at least.
/r/seduction07/08/11 09:57 PM
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Less be yourself, more be confident.
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:45 PM
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Um... actors in general. They take risks in front of people. Seriously if you just emulate any energetic performance you'll see what being in the moment is all about.
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:09 AM
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IThere is no reason to fracture the community into two separate places.
/r/seduction25/07/11 03:13 AM
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I don't agree with most of this. It just tells me your insecure with yourself. I don't want an insecure girl who most likely will complain throughout dates.
/r/seduction23/07/11 08:09 PM
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Be more constructive with your criticism.
/r/seduction28/06/11 10:23 PM
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This is a very contradictory philosophy to when in doubt just do something, with regards to approaching women. You don't do anything you won't get anything.
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:19 AM
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From my understanding of seddit, the guy should said alright then and went about his merry way in the first couple of frames.
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:46 PM
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I love concise and emphasized. Not enough of that around here.
/r/seduction29/05/11 12:11 AM
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Smiling: very important for inner game.
/r/seduction13/05/11 02:09 AM
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This sub-reddit is definitely low on the upvotes. There is a lot more complaining than there is helping other people. To use more seddit terminology, this place reeks of "betas" trying to come off as "alphas."
/r/seduction28/04/11 11:52 PM
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The problem with this is when people are looking through sub-reddits, they aren't going to find askseddit they will find seduction. If anything I think FR's should get their own sub-reddit instead of questions being deferred somewhere else. None of the other subreddits refer questions to other sub-reddits and neither should this one. Be helpful. Teachers teach the same material year after year, if you want to be helpful then you're going to have to accept that new people are constantly coming in…
/r/seduction28/04/11 11:45 PM
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Seek the approval of others Hold back their true feelings Become uncomfortable when others express strong feelings Give more then they get from people Avoid conflict Don’t like confrontation. So I agree with this, but I don't believe this is the entire story. I think there is a lot to be said about the mental state of these so called "nice guys." I often think a lot of them are at least mildly depressed individuals who suffer from some bad views of the world ingrained into their mind. They seek …
/r/seduction18/04/11 11:45 PM
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One note about all of this is that a lot of people overlook the starting out guides here. I think this is very important because, one of the first thing you need to do before you start, is get your life together and deal with any depression you have. I think most people don't do this. They jump right in when they aren't really prepared or happy with life.
/r/seduction15/04/11 11:23 PM
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I see 1, 4, and 7 as the most important ideas on this list.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:04 AM
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Um... Think Awwwwwwww Yeeeeaaaaahhhh in your mind... That might work.
/r/seduction05/04/11 10:07 PM
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Ah, the answer I was looking for.
/r/seduction04/04/11 03:23 AM
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Are those Kenneth Cole plain shirts you posted a longer fit? I'm pretty tall and narrow, so I always have a hard time finding shirts that actually fit me.
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:06 AM
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You don't go to the typical bar in suit. You save that for a more upscale bar.
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:03 AM
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What have women attracted to you because a script says so.
/r/seduction30/03/11 05:02 PM
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Or they could try reading real books so they have something to actually talk about. All of the "the books" have the same basic concepts in them almost all of which you can find on the internet too.
/r/seduction15/03/11 09:16 PM
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From my brief point of view /askseddit was spin-off that came because a few people for some reason didn't want to see question in /seduction but instead just wanted field reports. I could be wrong. It is rather pointless. The moderators here need to get rid of posts complaining about people asking question. If it's related then it should be fine. Unless /askseddit becomes randomly popular like AMA then there is no point in being exclusive.
/r/seduction12/03/11 11:06 PM
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Very good poem. This is one of the more important aspects life, not just game. Learning to speak will open a new world to your social life. The same results come from speaking more slowly too. I consider it the most important aspect of my self-improvement. It gives tons of personal satisfaction to be articulate.
/r/seduction07/03/11 07:09 AM
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I'm commenting merely in hopes to see more people post scenes they remember. I saw this recently though from the Aviator
/r/seduction07/03/11 04:07 AM
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You were in your head. Having no energy is just an excuse for not committing and having fear.
/r/seduction06/03/11 11:12 PM
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How about a direction to some material about qualifying another person.
/r/seduction05/03/11 12:53 AM
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It's taken me a really long time to find this. I first heard about this from some actors friends of mine who took a workshop on "tremors." They never were able to fully explain this idea to me or even what it was for. I searched on the internet for the technique but failed. It now has popped up 3 years later. Awesome.
/r/seduction02/03/11 03:59 AM
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I keep seeing people talk about this vibe concept but they are always very empty when they talk about. There isn't really ever a description as to what vibe is how one would begin to do so or anything else. I'm never sure what anyone is really talking about when they are saying vibe with other people.
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:42 AM
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She hasn't enough presence to get posted about on reddit though.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:34 AM
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It definitely needs to be tl;dr in the first place. Then asked for elaboration.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:32 AM
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I think this philosophy is a funny contrast to the philosophy of taking an interest in everyone. It is definitely a fine art to balance the ideas together without one blowing up in your face in some fashion.
/r/seduction13/02/11 11:00 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about lingo wise, I randomed into this reddit, but you're right. Just talking to everyone will break social barriers in your life.
/r/seduction16/12/10 08:44 PM
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