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Around year seven, you kind of stop caring and it's ironically funny.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 04:18 AM
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This thread has made me realize that I don't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 11:07 AM
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If you know the camera is there, then it gives you a little mute motivation to let them dig the grave deeper.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 10:52 AM
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/r/tumblrinaction Couldn't finish watching the video. Her saying he shouldn't weigh his daughter was painful.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 10:50 AM
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I'm not red pill and I take this approach with both sexes. I have certainly seen women giving horrible advice on attraction. I've also seen men giving bad advice, even sexually successful men. It's more important to look at the actions, what the sexually successful man does, or the attracted woman responds to, than to rely on the hope that the person is really introspective enough to give accurate advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 02:03 AM
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I agree I like something in between, but it is extremely hard to ride that line. Either it develops into a full relationship, or one party desires more commitment and they move on to where they can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:09 PM
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Relationships can get boring pretty quick Try doing 3-4 ONSs for a few months and then talk to me. I did that and ONSs are really really unappealing to me now. And I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 07:05 AM
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I've made "alpha widows". I've had women I've dated a year and a half later tell me they haven't dated anyone else because they can't find a guy who treated them as well as I did. In these cases universally, they fucked up and I bailed. Thing is, it's never from casual sex. I've never had a casual sex partner indicate this later. It's always from sex with feels in some way. Maybe that guy treats them like shit, but there is some kind of feels there. You'll never know what it's about because peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:44 AM
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You don't have to be a self centered ass, you just have to value yourself. Value your time as if it is the most precious thing, the only thing that has ever been given to you. Your parents money has helped, but all you really have is your time in this world. Luckily, you are young, so you have plenty left, don't waste it, and don't feel it's alright for others to waste it. When they waste your time, it's like killing a part of you that you never get back. Don't waste your own time either. Come u…
/r/becomeaman20/10/15 10:03 AM
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A guy I know has this thing where ask of a sudden he sucks in through his nose n that's not really the problem, the problem is that he gets this weird look on his face, squinting one eye and twisting his mouth away from the side he's inhaling. Extremely unattractive. But he's not an incel, he knows to hold off on it when women he's interested in are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 01:51 PM
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Something that often gets lost is that while women can really have sex with just anyone they have a hard time finding sex with a man they like. In many ways, finding sex with an acceptable partner is much much easier as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 05:20 PM
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For alimony, that's true, but not for child support. For child support it's supposed to be so that both parents have an even standard of living so that the children are not disturbed or suffering when they go to the other parent. This seems good on it's face but leaves me wondering why my brother needs to pay so much to his exwife that he litereally could not afford his own home (he's living with his girlfriend) and his exwife makes nearly twice what he did (iirc, she makes 110k, he makes 60ish)…
/r/MensRights13/10/15 09:50 PM
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You can't hold a conversation with me, I'm putting in all of the work talking to you, I'm bored, I don't want to fuck you. I agree with you, but wanted to add an observation. I have this experience a lot with women as well. When I get it, I generally lose interest pretty quickly. But I never think of the woman as "creepy" or even necessarily "awkward". Usually I chalk it up to they weren't in the right mental state for communicating at that time, sometimes they are genuinely uninteresting, and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:29 AM
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I think you meant to post in /r/deadbedrooms
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:41 AM
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I'm not sure I'm a big enough connoisseur of manosphere literature to enumerate all the points I agree with. Also, it's often hard for me to understand what a feminized man might find interesting. [This guy literally just told me to "not [pretend] women are fucking super duper amazing all perfect unicorns" and I'm like I always looked for women on Earth. One thing I think I notably agree with is that some game works. I feel it's actually sexist to say game doesn't work, because it implies that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:01 AM
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I'm not self flagellating. I really do have moderate brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:49 AM
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If that's all you've gotten from me so far, I think you might be beyond help. I'm pretty explicit about what I agree with and what I think are scams. But one more time with feeling. I don't think the "manosphere" is wrong on all accounts, it's even right on on some things. The problem is that they mix this right stuff in with stuff that is actually pretty emotionally harmful. So you feel happy about the right stuff so much you don't think to question the wrong stuff. And I also strongly feel tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 10:06 PM
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Some people, not All people. This ain't AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:54 PM
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Thanks for this education. I kind of forgot my scientology dogma since I haven't looked at it for decades :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:52 PM
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Explain it to me. Use small words because I have moderate brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:49 PM
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N-n-n-n-n-n-n-necro!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:48 PM
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I believe game is effective. It's actually a little sexist to say that game isn't effective, because if it wasn't, you are essentially saying that women don't care about personality. Game is largely about how to present your personality in an mass appealing way. But... there is a lot of PUA on the internet that is just really about trying to get people to subscribe for dollars. They promise female mind control in their secret archives but don't really deliver. What's the non-emotionally stunted …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:47 PM
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Except it fucking works! Here's the problem. Scientology works to make some people happy too, buy I'm not going to start believing we are all reincarnated aliens from the planet Xenu. There are simple things in TRP that work, work out, don't get so butt hurt over slights from women, play your options, and yeah, you will do great. I personally discovered a lot of stuff on my own, finding it easy (almost trivial) to get many attractive sex partners. After I saw there was a pattern in my interactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 05:15 AM
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It's not really a troll as much as someone with conflicting messages of feminization and masculinity spewing hate. I.e. The Red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 05:04 AM
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I think maybe you are starting to see why some of us argue against TRP. Yes, of course it is preying on any kind of male with a low esteem. It promises "at least 2 points or more added to your SMV" and to have you drowning in pussy. It grew out of the scam artists of the PUA movement, but it's more like bitcoin or torrents because it's a distributed system, so no one person is directly benefiting from it, but the more people in it, the more the early adopters benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:13 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjZdHdd88jo
/r/becomeaman22/09/15 04:30 AM
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A fundamental iron law of life is that not everyone can be a winner. I absolutely disagree with this. Life is not a zero sum game. We all get, for free, our bodies and our time on earth, and with these we can make things that make us and those around us winners. A rising tide raises all boats and other such metaphors. The point is to use that time wisely. Waste it and it's gone. Maybe that makes you a loser, but it really just means you're not a winner. Good thing is, if you're still alive you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 06:56 AM
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False rape accusations often succeed in court. Are we talking about legality, ethics, or outcome? Because they have the ability doesn't mean they have the right (except under nihilism).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 06:11 PM
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This is a wide departure from the topics of this sub because it more deals in the realm of ethics. Because ethics are generally considered to be subjective, they end up taking a back burner on debate subs. People have their ethics which they derive from morals which themselves are derived from... an assumption. Morals are axiomatic, so if two people do not have the same axioms, it is useless to debate. This is why ethics don't find their way often into this sub, because debate on them is often t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 06:01 PM
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I've got a ticket for you right here, and yes you can eat some popcorn and cotton candy so long as that's a euphemism for my ass ;) Downvoters be so serious, yo
/r/ExRedPill15/09/15 07:43 PM
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Meh, this isn't paying the bills our folding laundry, this is sex. Every now any then I'll do something I don't care for my leisure, but to do it always would be tedious and I wouldn't tolerate it. I think the fear here is always "Well, he might like it too much and ask for it more." But a position I want to be in (my lover feinding for a type if pay I dislike).
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:17 AM
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I'm pretty sure they were trying to conceive a child, and though Drogo is a barbarian, even he knows the poop chute is the wrong way to go about that. Later on she dominates him in bed.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:11 AM
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It's not desperate to shotgun, just logical. If you put a lot of thought into each message, you'll find that is wasted effort. Sent out 100 low effort messages in a day, maybe get back 2 it 3 real responses, and you can go from there. That's why Tinder is such an innovation, because the doing system is already a low effort way of initiating contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 08:08 PM
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Ah, so "caring meaningfully" equates to disproportionate emotional responses like crying yourself to sleep at night or being consumed with empathetic thoughts for weeks on end. This pay kind of makes me think that you have no idea how to care for someone and are looking to me to explain it. Sorry you had such an upbringing that you don't understand, but make no mistake, just because I'm sorry in the moment doesn't mean I care. The rest of your comment is so far divorced from anything I'm dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:41 PM
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However, I am capable of feeling compassion for someone and lending some support. I don't doubt you are capable, just that you will do this in any really meaningful way. What you are calling "caring" for another is really just rule planning a concern for a time as is contingent to you. Saying you actually care for this guy is disingenuous, and if not, then is a sad reflection of what you think caring is. Wow you are angry. I'm like no, not really. It is a little irksome when people on the intern…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:40 AM
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Yeah, I bet you'll be crying yourself to sleep about this guy's troubles. More like in a few a days he'll be a footnote. Truth is, we all got more problems than to care about the troubles of one internet stranger. This guy isn't even an avatar. As for your "need", a wise woman once told me to want in one hand and shit in the other and see which one fills up first. You have a specific question, ask it. None of this "elaborate for my benefit" self entitled bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 06:44 PM
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I'm not going to call your story bullshit. It's not that it's bullshit, it's that it doesn't generalize well. Nobody gives a crap about some aspie fighting strawmen of their own invention their whole life. At the same time, it doesn't justify the blatant sexism in TRP while at the same time feeds the stereotype that TRP adherents are social morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 03:54 PM
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Selfies have been around a while. I have a collection of selfies going back into the mid 2000s. Before that, I have this weird collection of pictures where all that's in it is my foot. Fact is that people hate on selfies, but they are super convenient. Much better than handing over your multiple-hundreds of dollars computer with tons of your personal information over to some stranger who probably has no idea how to frame or perceive lighting. It's not practical to always have friends with you an…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 05:16 PM
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She wasn't caught. They built a circumstantial case around an assumption and then shoved that idea down your throat and you bought it. See also George Zimmer and Treyvon Martin, and the Georgia hot car case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 04:54 PM
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/r/MensLib
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 05:27 PM
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38 male. You could say I'm retired, I have a disability pension and manage investments in a personal retirement account, I also have rental properties, but I'm selling them in October. USA. Married (poly, have two "plates"). No pill (but I think red is too extreme in many things). No photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:23 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong person
/r/ExRedPill18/08/15 12:44 PM
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I think it will be awesome. I have a lot of hope for the gel they are injecting into the testicle tubes (can't recall the name now).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:29 PM
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I don't have a problem with the erection, but I do find it nearly impossible to relax enough to cum. I had one plate I saw for years and never once came with her. Super hot and fun in bed so still worth it to me.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:28 PM
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I should put my caveats in, I mean reversible, reliable, accessible make contraception that doesn't reduce sensation. Having it will, for the first time, make it so that men have equal control over their reproductive destiny. It's hard to say exactly how this will change the game, but I would anticipate it would cause a bigger shift in men being older and more established when in relationships with women, women needing to change how they attract men, especially those that want children (but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:15 PM
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Did this include trade school graduates, because really, only a sucker we'll sign up for the low return that a mountain of student debt gets you.
/r/MensRights17/08/15 03:48 PM
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Game over would be male contraception. This is kind of nothing. It might fix some dead bedrooms but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:39 PM
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WAW is documented affect Yeah, I completely believe it exists, just not something I have ever thought was true and dnt understand how people get sucked into it. Maybe is a generational thing. I was raised on those bond movies OP talked about and he was certainly chauvinist, and the message is that if you are suave and cool, you will get the women (I actually never thought any bond was good looking until pierce brosnen). It's not about him being a chauvinist asshole, but being that didn't hurt hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:20 PM
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I think this is another one if those disconnects I have from TRPers, I see some feminists talk this way about men (I sub to /r/tumblrinaction), but I just think it's idiots acting stupid (which is a little funny to me). I don't feel there is any need to balance what radfems say. I guess I just feel like to be a real compete philosophy, TRP needs to espouse the unbiased truth, not one that assumes you've internalized some feminist nonsense. Good man, raise her right. I'm trying. She's only 1 yr o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:56 PM
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Banter between men is a tricky thing. In some ways, I find it's often just fun, and can be socially bonding, and I like to do it. But then other times, it can go too far and people get hurt. Also, there's this one guy in my main group of friends that is kind if the group punching bag. Any time someone says a negative joke about him (his asshole smells, that kind of thing) it's guaranteed to get a laugh and play well. One time he needed a lift home from a restaurant because his wife had to leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:32 PM
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PitYThis is another one I wanted to touch on. Like I said elsewhere, I'm a bit of a chauvinist. But even I feel like the only people who believe this are people who have not lived with female teenagers. Oh my god, they are horrible. I do know a woman who is very emotionally stunted, she was raped repeatedly by a family member as a child and it's held her emotional growth back a lot. She's an alcoholic, flies off the handle at her husband for shit she has invented in her head and when you logical…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:19 PM
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I don't think TRP literally believes men are incapable of hamstering. I agree they don't. When I put that part it was more to confirm AWALT of hamstering. But I do feel TRP focuses too much on women doing things that people do. The risk here is that TRPers will think men don't and I've been screwed over by many men on business deals and they hamster their own justifications. Right now, I have a contractor that disappeared with a $10k deposit on work on my home, and he is still spinning a story a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:51 PM
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It depends on what you define as a red pill truth. It's like lifting. Does being thinner help your chances? Yes, definitely have seen it. Does having some muscle help with most women? I feel so but it's inconclusive. Does having huge rippling arms and a thick muscular thighs help with most women? Actually, no, I've seen the opposite. There is a certain kind of woman that is very likely to be at a club looking for a partner that will be into this, but most women prefer Brad Pitt and Johnny Dep to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 12:44 PM
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I agree with you in general, but here is the only time is relevant, because it's a CMV starting there is a causal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:00 AM
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I listen to people with mental issues, I'm open about my anxiety issues myself. My mental issues are mute that I can get confused easily. I had a few stories in January so it has kind if scrambled my brain. So I might think I've heard different numbers, but maybe I didn't. Can be addressed to go back and try to find what I thought I read. I didn't really go into his nice guy personality, you asked why a woman might be with him. Thing is, thus guy is orbiting my wife right now and he has like 0% …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 04:12 PM
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Well, I keep hearing different things, plus I have mental issues so I might be mixing some stuff up. Some of these guys might be 30% but I'm not really sure how to judge people against a population. This guy I'm taking about is almost certainly 30%. Maybe if he lost a lot of weight he would be higher. No gold digging, unless it's on his part. His last gf, he lived off of for 2 years, getting odd jobs here and there, and she runs a maid service so she would have him do some houses, but he's the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:30 PM
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Not sure what to add. Just that TRP often says that the top 5% get all the sex they want, the top 20% do well, the next 20% get it less than they want and the bottom 60% get nothing, and I've seen many many bottom 60% guys in multi-year relationships, with a healthy sex life (way more times a week than a guy puking in Friday and Saturday night). And most of these guys do not have a slayer personality, they just found a woman that they like and likes them. Usually, they are pretty funny and fun, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 03:05 PM
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This topic comes up often here. Most if the FRs are pretty take compared to what I experience in my life so I generally believe the outline if the events as they happened. (He got into a retarded argument with a feminist and backed her into a corner with generally the statements she said) I usually think some details are embellished. (E.g. How much the girl was stammering) I rarely believe the interpretation of other people motivations/inner thoughts/etc (e.g. How the girl actually felt about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:17 AM
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I'm not even sure it has an effect on women. We've seen one study that suggests a correlation, but we don't know if there is a hidden factor that causes a woman to both be less able to commit (or be happy in commitment) and this also cause her to find many partners. Simply stated, while finding someone's N might give you insight into how well they commit, setting an experiment where a person artificially increases their N doesn't have a known result. Even then, you'd need to account for the sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 02:42 AM
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Do you know how reflux is diagnosed in infants? Chronic or recurrent vomiting/coughing. Vomiting + reflux = (you guessed it) chronic vomiting. Thanks for that diagnosis, Dr. Oz, but I think you should stick to interviewing Roosh V on your day time talk show. There no such thing as "chronic vomiting" but there is something called "cyclical vomitting syndrome." Given your lack of knowledge on that, I doubt you really have any idea what she is required to do to care for an infant that has this. But…
/r/MensRights15/08/15 02:26 AM
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You know this how? It doesn't say in this article. I even looked in other articles and didn't see it.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 02:21 AM
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Do you have children? Children vomit. The article is also light on details, saying reflux and vomitting (nothing about "chronic vomiting", in fact, the word chronic doesn't appear in the article, so I'm wondering why you added it), so basically this is coming down to interpretation. I wonder what the actual cause of death was. So far seems like people here just want her to go to jail because dark skinned fat bitches shouldn't be drinking and having sex, amiright?
/r/MensRights14/08/15 08:35 PM
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That part was confusing, but she got a suspended sentence, Not jail.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:18 PM
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People die, it sucks but no one needs to go to jail for it. Two of those cases, the man was beating the child. The got neglect charges instead of abuse charges, which send wrong to me, but hey, penis pass, right? The other one, the guy left them alone, leaving his home, three times. I won't even go into the dental stuff because that's a separate charge. The real point is that this woman did everything that every parent dues with their kid: leave them in their crib, clothed to sleep, while the pa…
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:12 PM
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Heading off, sure. But she was in the same house. This case makes no sense.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:03 PM
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I have to agree. I don't understand why this woman was even charged. Leaving a baby alone in a crib for 9 hours in a tracksuit? That's every fucking night with my child. I like how they imply there should have been a blanket when the hospital warns you nut to give a blanket because it's a smothering risk. It has to be clothes they wear tight to their body.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:02 PM
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Hey now... I was only offering second male lead.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 02:39 PM
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I'm not nearly as big a guy as you, but I just don't mind helping people move. I'd rather do some lifting that actually has a purpose, so many times I've been working it thinking "There is no point to this." Also it can be very social, but even that's not all I like about it. One time I was in New York and side guy was moving into a 5 story walk up and a was waiting for a table. I just jumped in and started to help him. The guys dad was with him and he came in and paid for my and my wife's meal …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:55 PM
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Send you meant to respond to this comment
/r/MensRights11/08/15 10:32 PM
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Every man is Y. And Y must die #BlackLivesMatter
/r/MensRights11/08/15 10:10 PM
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Not 100%, but for me, my infertility makes it so I don't have to worry anyway.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 09:34 PM
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Meh, I don't just do it with anyone.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 09:31 PM
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I use a condom and it always comes out with a little brown on it. I also like fingers in my ass while getting a blowjob and afterwards, I have my partner wash their hands. I've gotten since brute on the sheets before and honestly, even though it's a lot less, it's still worse.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 09:30 PM
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That's what I got out of it.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 05:00 PM
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I generally don't see people defending manspreaders but more challenging the notion that this is a serious problem facing society today. The closest I've ever come to this is the disagreement over who gets the armrest on a crowded flight. Never at a sporting event have I had an issue with this. However, I am disabled and while I can walk around, it takes a lot out of me. People assume I'm normally-abled because I can walk around, but when I do I get very tired and might fall over. It's even wors…
/r/MensRights11/08/15 03:14 PM
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What's crazy is enjoying only missionary. Have you seen someone about that? If it's because of inexperience, that's okay. Just try not to talk when the men are talking.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 02:58 PM
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So, basically you co-opted his argument to talk about understanding.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 02:57 PM
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Meh, it's just a retarded argument, and it did appear like you were ignoring his central point about co-opting arguments.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 02:31 PM
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The only thing that was annoying last time was I was finding her then went to fucking her and bring my hand up and out it on the white pillow. Oh well, it's but like I wash them. Compared to the butt stuff, the mess really isn't that bad.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 01:28 PM
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Call me crazy, but I've cut partners with razor blades to see their blood and then cut my own lip and kissed them hard, the taste of my blood mixing in with the kiss. Some of us don't like boring sex.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 01:24 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWdd6_ZxX8c
/r/MensRights11/08/15 05:19 AM
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Never said they were. But this woman is saying I should be as offended with rape as I am with periods, which is just stupid.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 05:18 AM
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Am I serious about not minding periods? Yes. Last time I was with one of my subs, she was flowing. Didn't slow me down.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 05:07 AM
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I work part time as a male exotic dancer. I've never done a bachelorette party, but I've slept with a lot of clients from the club, and am dating one right now. Still, there's also a lot of girls that tip you and then are like "don't touch me". I'm kind of thinking "what the hell are you here for" as I dance in front of them but their money is good. I've had one girl shove me once because I was even dancing too close. She had just given me $600 and she was a regular, so I just took it with a "ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:59 AM
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Also, some men are disgusted with periods, but I know I'm not. I'll fuck through it and have a great time. Is this woman saying I should be a rapist as well? It's such idiocy it's hard to fathom.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 02:46 AM
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RichardPalma hates it when people talk about themselves in the third person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:50 PM
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Not that it makes much difference, but I fucked him, he's a bottom. I did blow him, though. I generally don't like to receive butt sex (I'm pretty much a top), but I like a little play back there. This guy was nice looking too, which never hurts.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 01:45 PM
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I got into it because I fucked a club owner (just a regular dance club) and told him I was looking for spare money. He was fucking this other guy who worked at the male review cub I'm at now. He introduced us and then that guy got me an application which I submitted. I used him as a reference and a manager contacted me to interview me and then show me the place. After a few days he called me and told me I was hired.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 07:47 AM
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There's a saying "Youth is wasted on the young." The problem is that college ages kids have no idea what they are doing. So while there are a few people slaying, most are just floundering. I do find it easy to have several new partners a week if I want to, so it's not outside the realm of possibility to me that I can slay better than a college frat boy. On top of that, when I was in college, I looked way less hot than I do now (I'm bisexual so I can judge ;). I've become very masculine and given…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:00 AM
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It might be. I've slept with so many married women and women with boyfriends, that I don't really think of that as a real reason anymore. I know this one that pushed me away doesn't have a boyfriend, but she does seem to have some kind of mental issues, like maybe autism or something. I don't really know because I haven't talked to her too much. She also really pisses off a lot of the other regulars but that tip is unusually high (other girls will maybe give like $250 or so) and she tips that mu…
/r/MensRights10/08/15 01:25 AM
1

I've never done a bachelorette party. I was invited to do one once but it conflicted with other things. I normally only work days and those things are usually at night.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 01:20 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-C1PxARlxo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 04:57 PM
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This reminds me of two shy girls that came in a few months ago. BFF types. They kept tipping me and then telling me to do stuff to the other one (like lick her neck) etc. And it kept escalating though my speedo never came off. I know I made more than $500 off of them "trying to embarrass" one another. At the end, one girl gave me her number.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 03:14 PM
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I work part time as a male exotic dancer. I've never done a bachelorette party, but Ive slept with a lot of clients from the club, and am dating one right now. Still, there's also a lot of girls that tip you and then are like "don't touch me". I'm kind of thinking "what the hell are you here for" as I dance in front of them but their money is good. I've had one girl shove me once because I was even dancing too close. She had just given me $600 and she was a regular, so I just took it with a "yes…
/r/MensRights09/08/15 01:46 PM
3

Always be dating new men. Have many men in your pipeline. Don't sleep with any of them, but keep them around. Text them and meet up with them. Until your guy wants to commit and be exclusive, you are going to be going on dates. This one can be dangerous, because they aren't going to all promise commitment at the same time. You are going to have a front runner, and you're going to have to come to a decision when he hasn't indicated commitment is coming and one of the minor picks offer themselves.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 04:06 AM
2

That goes back to discipline. You do it not because you like it, but because you have faith that it will give you better returns later. Later on, you do it because you need to to maintain the things in your life that it has brought.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:38 PM
3

The problem is that you are seeking immediate gratification over long term greater returns. It's a similar question to "how can I save money in a retirement account instead of spending it as soon as I get it." The key is this: discipline. You have to respect that you should have it and have faith that having it will lead to better things down the road (or at least stave off disaster, as is the case with savings). You talk about how you don't have anything you like, and actually I would say this …
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:39 PM
1

Derp, had that in my copy buffer from /r/niceguys. Oh well. This topic is dead, no sense in correcting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:26 PM
2

That's definitely not right. People very often say that the subreddit is not the red pill. My understanding is that red pill is a series of blogs in the manosphere, including, for example, Illimitable Men. Many of the deep red pill leadership have disdain for the subreddit because of the userbase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:41 AM
2

If the intent was cheating, the woman would have been saying something like "How am I going to hide that?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:33 AM
3

This is part of the problem that Roosh hinted at, that Redpill really is community defined, so Redpill Comic is a prominent member of the community so they are part of the definition of Redpill. In addition, they are targeting their work to people of red pill, so it stands to reason that this is a reflection of the morality of the community. Calling him beta BP smacks a little too much of "no true scotsman" to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:16 AM
1

In the other panels, it's clear what the problem with the father is (in the first one, he isn't present for the birth because he's in prison, in the second, he has a swastika tattoo and is the Chad archetype), but in the third panel there's no explanation, essentially saying that the dad being darker skinned is bad enough to contribute to the doctor's nervous breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:13 AM
1

I didn't think so, but the latest Redpill Comic has a pretty racist panel (get it, the mother is white and the baby is dark skinned!).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 02:24 AM
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No No No No Yes No Yes Yes No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:48 AM
3

I do some of this. Actually, first of all, I'll hold a door for anyone. It's pretty much convention now that everyone holds doors for everyone and not doing it is being a dick. However, I also don't pull a chair, open a door, or help someone up simply because that someone is a woman. If I'm on a date, I will do these things for my date, but I'm not doing it for other women. The idea is that by doing this, I am kind of declaring to the room "this person is important to me." Contrary to the RP the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:42 AM
1

Economics is a great analogy for TRP. After all, economists predicted 9 of the 4 last recessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 09:43 PM
5

I'm not really sure what you are looking for as a response. I've used tinder in the past (not really looking for anyone new right now) and it's pretty much like these guys say. I'm not in New York, I'm in a southern Baptist town, and there aren't a lot of women on tinder (you can swipe right always and never run out of likes), but still it is really easy to find at least a hookup or two per week. Probably more, but that was always my limit for how much free time I had and I wasn't obsessive like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 02:04 PM
1

Why are you so bent on painting narcissists as objectively evil, though? Really, it's not part of my discussion at all. The point here is to discuss the relative narcissism of a woman getting married to a TRPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:24 PM
1

And do you agree that entitlement is a state of mind where one believes songwriting is owed them when a rational poison would not feel anything is owed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 01:39 PM
1

Don't throw a tantrum Why? I know you love to masturbate to me throwing a tantrum. I get you so hot bb, and I just want to please you. Did you cum yet? Would you agree that a narcissist has a sense of entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:09 PM
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If he did it well, sure.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 11:05 PM
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This isn't the clinical definition of narcissism, nor is it the one I'm using for the purposes of my post. Well I didn't think we were using the clinical definition, but now that you mention it, maybe you better define narcissism because you could just be making up some definition that no one uses. In which case, there's really no need to debate because we can't even agree on base assumptions. Victims of abuse also often attribute their unwillingness to leave the abuser to feelings of love. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:23 PM
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We are talking about two different things. A person doesn't need to know they are narcissistic to be a narcissist. However, they still need to have conscious bad intent, not just actus malus. So when a woman knowingly enters into a marriage like you described, it's a problem. If it's because she thinks she thinks she loves the guy and doesn't want to break up with him and this is the next step, then it's really not narcissism at all, it's just a mistake. I see peopl eon /r/deadbedrooms all the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 04:48 PM
2

the conscious knowledge Mens rea is an important concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 04:20 PM
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I've seen him on some subreddits. He's always come across as an ignorant troll. Didn't know he had anything to do with feminism. Edit: just remembered, he used to troll /r/libertarian.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 03:44 PM
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http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/995/415/b30.jpg If a woman is marrying a guy with the conscious knowledge that he is just a provider for her, then that is indeed narcissistic and would be looked down on by both pills I would assume. However, that rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:35 PM
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That's not ad hominem. As hominem would be more like "You are a known misogynist, so we don't need to listen to anything you say."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:28 AM
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A friend of mine went to Nashville to start her music career. She is very talented, but she kept finding that for songwriters to work with her, she'd have to fuck them. She eventually gave up on the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:06 PM
0

I actually talked about this recently in a Purple Pill debate comment, and certainly agree with you. It's also not even just becoming better that takes time and discipline, though. It takes time and I would also say some discipline to actually find those better women that are worth you giving your only time in life to.
/r/becomeaman04/08/15 03:16 PM
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I was manipulated by a man when I was six to have sex with him several times. Any time he would put his cock in my anus, it would hurt but I really wanted to please the man so I went along with it. I do think that there is an age where you really don't understand what sex is, what the risks are (good thing I didn't get hep B, right? HIV was pretty new then too), and what right they have when it comes to refusing sex. This last one puts a fine point on the notion of consent. While I wanted to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:38 PM
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I'm having a hard time reconciling this comment against this comment which challenges BPers for saying it's the husband's fault. But if the husband isn't giving to to her like Billy Biker, then it's that his fault? If he doesn't take any effort to increase in himself what his wife finds attractive, then isn't it his bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 07:06 PM
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I went through a phase in last 2013 and early 2014 where I went into a bit of a manslut mode. I was having 3 new partners a week. It was a combination of free time, and learning more about how to open to women (not from PUA, just on my own, I looked at PUA stuff after and found a lot to be spot on and other stuff to be whatever). I don't disagree with TRP that there is a "cock carosel" but not all women are riding it (seemed more like 10% by my estimate), and there are guys also doing the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 06:56 PM
2

That is fascinating that women can smell gene compatibility. Probably yet another reason to go light on cologne so as not to overwhelm her ability to smell your pheromones. This is something that really depends. The purpose of cologne is to have it so that you smell the same way as positive experiences in a woman's past. Smell is very linked to memory and by giving a smell from their past, you link them into the feelings they had in those memories. Some women respond well to Old Spice because it…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:45 PM
3

I'm sure this stuff seems important to you now, but nobody, and I mean not a single person, over 21 cares about this high school bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:16 PM
14

Abundance mentality: start using your other hand.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 05:29 PM
1

But the girl pissing is totally okay?
/r/MensRights02/08/15 02:46 AM
1

There are a few thing that come with marriage. - Social security death benefits are extended to your spouse. If you aren't married, then it's basically seeing that money disappear to nothing and your family might then elect to pay a monthly amount for death benefits. This is not really a direct benefit since it only kicks in if you die, but some people, like myself, feel it is important to make sure your family is taken care of posthumously. I have a daughter and I would hope my wife would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:59 PM
2

There's this red haired balding pick up artist on youtube. He was the only guy I would really listen to because that dude was in no way good looking, but he could pull like nothing else. For a lot of women, it is just presenting yourself as a novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 04:38 PM
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Especially with the whole 'spinning plates' bullshit. They try to give the impression that they have several hot girls who want the RPer so badly that they're willing to put up with other girls who want the same. I mostly just see a few pretty average-looking casual hook up partners who don't actually place much value on the RPer except for casual hooking up. Not so sure about the "average looking" because I've spun plates and some of them are knockouts. One used to be a model and star in a burl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 04:33 PM
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I'm not redpill and there's nothing about that story that seems out of the ordinary. This is how me and my friends all act, especially at a barbeque where everyone is drinking and joking around. I've definitely said things along the lines of "hey woman, get me a drink," the "this ain't burger king" line is pretty common, and the guys tend to act pretty chauvinistic towards the women. That said, for your other question "do [I] really think women want to be ordered around," I'm a BDSM dominant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 04:24 PM
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That's the bouncers job isn't it It is, but at the same time, I know about many club owners who are "friends" with these girls and so it's also their job to look the other way. There was a particularly infamous guy here (he was killed in an unrelated shooting) who was known for bringing 14 years olds up to his office for cocaine and sex.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 04:02 PM
1

In California, it would be illegal.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 03:55 PM
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“We don't see him that way,” Les Anderson said. “If our son's a sex offender, there's a lot of other people on that list like him which dilutes the list, and it almost makes it meaningless.” No shit. I have two women friends on the sex offender registry, one for streaking (running naked on a public street) and the other for peeing in an alley behind a club (the women's bathroom was backed up). I also have a male friend on there for a similar reason to this, he was 17, she was 15, there was no ro…
/r/MensRights01/08/15 03:32 PM
1

It's *a* good approach, but not the best approach. Still, I've gotten a few girlfriends in this manner, becoming friend and then growing together romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 02:02 AM
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I did for posting on TRP apparently. Thing is, I'm anti-TRP and post there mostly to provide balance. I prefer PPD. I've had idiots in the past bring this up. Too lazy to acutally look at the content of my posts, and just care if a certain subreddit exists in the history. It so lazy, it's hard to care. If it seems like I'm getting downvote brigaded in other subreddits, I might get concerned. But since this is an alt anyway, I'll probably just make another alt.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 09:00 PM
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The one you stick to. But for me, I don't lift because I'm pretty disabled. I have physical therapy exercises I do but it's more with my body, and a lot of them are focusing on balance. I've always found dieting to lose weight was more effective than lifting to improve smv. I used to lift before my medical problems (no specific program, just what I learned to do in college decades ago) and it was never the panacea that RP made it out to be. Being thin with some muscles, though, always did me wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:16 PM
5

Bullshit. It's stonglifts 5x5. And really, the endorsed advice is ask on /r/fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:59 PM
5

I agree with this a lot, and I even get that for some people, getting these warnings is going to improve their life. Thing is, for most people, this philosophy is not an improvement. Someone once said to me that if you take something and apply it across all of society, then it is degenerate (they example is homosexuality, because it would cause problems with perpetuating the species). In the same way, being hyper sensitive to the risks of marriage, spinning plates until your dick shrivels up, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:44 PM
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It depends on local laws , I'd say, but I know here pedestrians are not supposed to step into the street except at a designated crosswalk and if they get hit, unless it can be shown the driver was impaired by alcohol of drugs (doubtful because they didn't arrest her at the scene), then it's always the pedestals fault. Not breaking until after is extremely common. Some people even accelerate out of reaction but it doesn't mean anything.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:14 PM
1

I really only know couples, because when you're in a couple, you tend to hang out with other couples because you are more on the same page in life, and there is less drama. But I do know one guy who is single and 42. He's basically anti-commitment, abd when he starts to get attached to a girl, he'll go out and get a few hookers, then dump the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:49 PM
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This lines up pretty well with what I've seen. There are some guys who divorce and get back into the market, but for the most part, the people who are single when they are older are single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:23 PM
1

I don't really see 5 happen that often. It certainly can and does, but it seems most women end up with a mixture of AF and BB. They don't shop from different pools, and it's very rare for a woman to, say, marry a BB and then seek AF elsewhere. I've been with several married women and they all at one time were very attracted to their husbands, wouldn't have married them if they weren't. And the reasons attraction went away are rarely due to being too beta. Send like most just kept falling comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:06 AM
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I'm open poly and I don't see what you are saying at all. Although there is a certain amount of acceptance, and in the checked I run in, it's usual for people to not assume monogamy (doesn't mean assume poly, just if they see a guy stepping out, they won't call him on it until they know for sure what the deal in the relationship is). Still, I feel like there is quite a bit of judgement about it. It mostly comes in the form of women judging my wife in the "how could you let him do that to you" va…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:34 PM
1

No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:49 AM
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Let's be 100% clear that I don't care about the etymology of the term, just like it doesn't matter who coined the term "nigger" when the KKK uses it. TRP has adopted the term and continues to push it. This is so the nerds who follow it can revenge fantasize about how hurt that bad woman is going to be (they know the one) Should have been "feminists made me do it" but phone auto-correct messed it up. It's poking fun at the idea that you are trying to say that women said it first so TRP is innocen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:21 PM
-1

I said what I said. I never said anything about midnight on a woman's 30th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:12 PM
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Because women are never mean to other women. Fall to see any point here. It's a term TRP has adopted, so they own it in their own context. I don't buy that feminists made you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:32 PM
2

No one is claiming that a woman who's attractive at 29 years and 364 days old suddenly turns into a wrinkled old shrew once the clock strikes midnight on her 30th birthday. I never said they were. The problem is that the metaphor of "the wall" is really just a dig at women, dressed up. It's so boys can titter to themselves about the image of that hot woman that rejected them slamming head first into a wall. But the metaphor doesn't fit. It just doesn't happen like that. Yes is often the case tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 10:08 PM
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The problem with "the wall" is that it's a horrible metaphor. It's more of a downward slope. And women who are in their late 30s and 40s still meet men and hookup or get into relationships. It's not just "one person I know" but most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 05:11 PM
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I read a comment the other day that /r/thatHappened is about stories that are obviously not true. That stories really in the realm if what could happen don't belong there, even if they are made up. The post you link to isn't unbelievable, given my life experiences. I also date multiple people and make sure everyone knows that I do so that there is no hurt feelings or confusion later. If a woman said that she deserved respect for being a woman I would say "Respect has to be earned regardless of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:04 PM
2

Not really. It just requires the assumption of what is, not what should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 11:59 AM
2

I can understand for gay and trans, since if everyone were this way, it would end humanity in a generation. I'm not really seeing it for furries (everyone could have one or more costume costumes). I'm definitely not seeing it for poly, is be like saying it's degenerate for people to have multiple friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 11:57 AM
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It's just statistically true, based on studies of actual costs. Healthy people have multiple hospital stays as well. There will always be a individual cars that buck the trend, but overall, to help society, people should smoke more and gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 11:52 AM
5

But really. I've had TRPers not like that I'm open poly. They've always been very against cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 03:11 AM
4

Do you want ants? Because this is how you get ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 02:43 AM
2

Oh, I missed the update. Guess PUA guy didn't work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 01:55 AM
1

Actually, they'll safe society billions because if shortened life span requiring Lee's social retirement. Even Medicaid cost are considerably less than a person who lives longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 01:48 AM
2

She is referring to that civil court has a standard of the "preponderance of evidence" and not "beyond a reasonable doubt." She is still wrong, but it is often the case that if you introduce just a little evidence, then they need to counter it to prove innocence.
/r/MensRights16/07/15 05:52 PM
1

That sounds made up.
/r/MensRights15/07/15 03:05 AM
4

I never understood this. You should put both the seat and the lid down before you flush. Do people just like shit water sprayed all over everything?
/r/MensRights15/07/15 03:03 AM
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No
/r/ExRedPill13/07/15 10:58 PM
3

This is the result of a puritan culture. They can't ban sex directly, so they make it practically impossible.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:57 PM
2

a hollywood movie with just 1 scene where 2 name-given female characters talk to each other Kill Bill vol 1&2 came to mind instantly. There's also the sex and the city movies. How about Thelma and Louise. How about tv shows? Torchwood has several scenes where Tosh talks to Gwen. I recall Bones has a lot of these scenes between Bones and the female medical examiner. Even Archer has scenes between Malory and Lana or Pam. The rest of your post is really just equivocation.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 12:35 AM
4

You seem very apologetic for something that seems in line with what this sub is about. Why do you think that is?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/15 11:14 PM
2

No. Take it easy there, toughguy. To be fair, you kind of come across as stupid, or at least unable to understand a simple comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:11 PM
2

It's very unlikely for the state to approve adoption for a single male. Surrogate mother might be a route, but even in those cases you have to convince a surrogate and a fertility clinic that you are worthy of it. It's not like buying cheese.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:09 PM
5

All of us wonder, what would it look like to have a family where you’ve got a couple that are a couple but only one person who’s going to be a parent. How’s that going to play out? What the hell? Aren't there, like, thousandsof these cases where a single mother gets together with a man. Some cases, the father died, so it's really exactly like there is only one parent.
/r/MensRights04/07/15 03:52 AM
4

Powerful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 03:16 PM
4

It's often the case that people join the red pill because up to that point they have been horrible at judging their own life. Because of this, I'd say asking others is much better than simply trusting in yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 05:23 PM
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I'm not red pill and tbp banned me because they suspected I was red pill. The mod said he was tired of people reporting me. Edit: here's the link. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:44 PM
2

Does she have a thousand cock stare? What does it look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 01:54 AM
1

Aesthetics are less than everything else? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:50 PM
1

I think most people start out voting Democrat. Democrats pool we'll with younger constituents (who don't necessarily vote). The have a simple first order platform: someone has a problem, let's use government to directly apply to it. It's harder to accept the idea that government interference has side effects that might make problems worse. But people are influenced by their peers to vote Republican. For middle class men, it seems like voting republican might Lee their taxes and give other deff b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 04:15 PM
1

I definitely remembered all the names and faces. 10 isn't ready that many, I mean I have more friends than that in my main circle of people I hang out with. I would call all of them "baby" as a pet name so doesn't matter who I was taking to, I'd say "baby" and be right. I did cross the names once in text, but I kind of recovered saying it was early and I was just waking up (which was true) and confused (also kind of true, she called me by a pet name the other one only used, she just picked it it…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:29 PM
1

I do that (they ask know I'm poly and at least dating others) but really I still feel 10 is to much. It's not really "hard work" but that I personally feel like I don't get to spend time with them the way I want to.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:20 PM
1

I've peaked up to 10, but yeah, it was impossible to find enough time. First of all, most, like 6 of them I would only see once every 2-3 weeks, and kept shit going through text. 4 is really more manageable, even then I'll have 2 I only see occasionally.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:45 PM
1

Wouldn't that happen to a woman in an ltr, especially since she would probably be having sex more frequently.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 09:20 PM
1

Do you really think that internalizing messages like these can't actually have adverse effects on multiple levels So what you're saying is that red pillers have internalized a long string of microaggressions in their life. Most people don't respect tumblrinas when they say that seriously, and it doesn't really fly as well here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 05:05 PM
2

An I missing something. All the of those address the question. The first says it is disputed because your perspective is wrong (exaggerated). The other two say that they don't deny it (i.e. Strawman) but that is not really an argument important to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 04:38 PM
3

I'm wondering how you feel about other trans concepts like transraciality and other-kin.
/r/MensRights23/06/15 06:45 PM
4

You're missing my point I can't miss what's not there. Basically when you say things like "All 50 states allowed slavery" when it's clearly not true, there's no real reason to listen to anything else you have to say because you'll just make up anything to prove what you think is the point. If you want to use historical facts then have historical accuracy or get the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 05:17 AM
4

Apology accepted. Still means there's another use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 05:07 AM
3

I don't think all states allowed slavery back then and there certainly was not 50 states at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 05:00 AM
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Revenge Porn laws only serve to protect women This is absolutely false. By having these laws in place, women are more comfortable in sharing pics of themselves. These guys who post them are fucking it up for the rest of us that get nudes sent to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:55 AM
2

What other possibility is there? Serious question. That people in relationships aren't in a power struggle. That it's just two people who do shit together because it's nicer to do shit with another person. If one person doesn't want to do something, they don't and the other person may or may not go ahead and do that thing anyway. If there is no objective reality, if nothing means anything, then what really are you saying? Jesus that's pretty solopsitic. "If my view isn't right, then nothing mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 04:43 PM
2

This is cool, but really I hate presents. I hate other people trying to figure out what I might want better than me and having cap clutter up my place. Now if the tradition was they had to come make a meal...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 01:44 PM
2

In the first stages of dating, the person who asks is the one who pays This is pretty much what I do, but if she asks then I'll pay for myself. Also, if we're at a place where you order at a counter (e.g. Starbucks, a bar) then it's Dutch. I prefer counter type places for a first meeting (if I met you at a party and asked you out that would be different). It's easier if the date goes south to bail if you don't have to wait for a waiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 01:39 PM
1

You don't understand. This is based on the collective observations of over a hundred thousand people to see what is true and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 07:45 PM
7

Happy? Not sure I really get your comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:25 PM
-16

Or A Song of Fire and Ice?
/r/MensRights16/06/15 03:04 PM
1

Mistrust of something is not the same as just not default giving trust.
/r/MGTOW16/06/15 02:20 PM
3

Dianetics comes across as a reasonable book on self discovery and improvement. It isn't until you've been part of scientology for a while before they introduce the later books that talk about planet Xenu and the souls of weakened dead Xenians (called body thetans) causing medical problems. So yeah, an introduction seems alright. It even seems fine when they say "We don't hate women, we love them because we are the only ones who understand their true nature" then they start to talk about how All …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 05:32 AM
3

Women have it easier to date than men because they don't have to do anything, the man initiates and follows through.. Men have it way easier to get what they want out of dating because the man initiates and follows through. The fact that women have more "feet in the door" really doesn't matter when all doors go somewhere they don't want to go. A man doesn't need all these, because he picks a door and walks through. If it's locked, he picks another door, but because he is choosing, if the door op…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 05:03 AM
0

Just to be sure you know what we are taking about, I said "constantly reinforcing the "choice" to not be in a relationship." I don't know who you meant to respond to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 03:44 PM
6

The reason you see more men at a gym than women is because men need to have muscles for their looks while women only need to diet. Women only need to be thin and being thin does not come from working out, it comes from eating right. The amount of exercise one needs to do to lose fat is insane when compared to just eating less or going low carb.
/r/MGTOW14/06/15 05:16 PM
0

Read the handbook and sidebar more. Ltrs are never recommended and are actively discouraged. It's true you can to red pill things in an ltr, but rp still days you shouldn't. I mean that quote from the freaking handbook should have made you think twice about claiming this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 04:42 PM
0

Regardless, it's against RP canon. This isn't what I'm saying, it's what RP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:27 AM
0

They are doing RP wrong and have oneitis. I've gotten a lot of criticism on RP for having an LTR. From The Red Pill Handbook: "I think the constant dread of "If I'm not on top of my shit, I'm gonna lose everything" is not a strong place to be coming from. It's true, it's the nature of the game, but being aware of it AND BEING SIGNIFICANTLY INVESTED AKA MARRIED/LTR is a losers game. I understand guys want companionship, a lot of you are romantics and you're scared of being lonely as you get older…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:55 AM
0

I see a lot of people posting just that. They are in a relationship, the deal goes sour for some reason, they mope around a bit, then they find red pill and apply it and but not only does it abdicate them from a lot of responsibility for the failure of their last relationship (in a way. RP says it is the guys fault but the guy can claim ignorance of RP was the real problem), but it sets them up with a few loose women to take their mind off it while constantly reinforcing the "choice" to not be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 05:45 PM
0

I think you're probably not fucking them hard enough.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:54 PM
1

WTF. I'm 5'6" and it's literally never a problem for me. There must be done other aspect of your personality that is making it so that people think it's okay to insult you. Because they don't have anything immediate, your height is their target.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:09 PM
4

I agree with stickfiguresk, the hesitation is that you left without trying to close the deal. This is a negative. But you can still go back and I like the "Let's get a drink" very to the point.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:06 PM
8

I've seen this advice and probably it applies in major cities. Where I'm at, I never run out of the free likes and I like to take some time looking at the pics. If someone has something interesting, I might look at their profile and other pics but there is no point in reading all the profiles. When I've talked to my matches, they've all said they don't even look at the profiles until they get contacted.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 01:44 PM
1

I think it's only bad if it's not reflexive. You should think if yourself as the prize and take pride in what you have to offer. But if you are in a relationship with someone, I find it's better to also think of them as a prize at the same time. Otherwise, you get into this mode of thinking "why am I doing for you?" You are both people so it makes sense you should choose each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 01:02 PM
0

That is my understanding of that definition, yes.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 04:08 AM
1

Not really seeing the men's right issue here. I use TOR for all my communications. I'm using it right now. Still, there are child porn sites on TOR, so the article seems fine.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 03:29 AM
2

It's a mistake. They mean the deep web is much larger, and the deep web is that which is not indexed by Google our other search engines. Somewhere, deep and dark get mixed up and you end up with this nonsense.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 03:27 AM
5

Sorry, you treaded into the area of talking about the actual content. I'm just saying one is for a state the other is for the country. Both are clearly wrong.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 03:48 PM
11

Not to defend tripe, but one is "in NY" and the other is "in the US" so they are different things.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 03:36 PM
1

What do you mean "you guys"? There are a lot of people who get married for the reasons you say, but the topic here is that Men don't logically need marriage and to change their view. I'm giving the rational response to the rational argument that the risks of marriage are too high. You say a lot of people get married for various reasons, but news reports and statistics do show that a lot of people are opting out of marriage now. The RP narrative is this is because men do not want the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 02:58 PM
1

Children get some of those rights, but I'm more thinking along the lines of, say, the death benefit for Social Security. The child gets one but the spouse gets a separate one, which provides more for your child if you were to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 01:57 PM
1

I feel it does depend on your goals. If you want to have children, then it still makes sense to get married. There are a lot of legal protections and government benefits that only apply if you are married. For example, for example, the ability to make medical decisions for the partner. Another example is SS benefits. Some company benefits also won't extend to the spouse if you aren't married. While these benefits are going to the spouse, the reality of it is that anything that benefits your spou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 01:01 PM
0

It definitely comes up often. I might save this response as copy pasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 01:13 PM
2

A lot of people in this thread don't seem to know the origin of this statistic. It comes from an OKCupid blog post that found that women have a skewed distribution in how they rate the attractiveness of men on the site, such that 80% of guys are judged below average. However, the messaging patterns show that women are more realistic in who they keep contact with than men, who skew their messaging distribution to the top attractive females. There's a lot of problems with going from that article t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:25 PM
1

I've often found that this does not recuse one from being civil.
/r/MGTOW02/06/15 04:38 PM
14

Lesbian Gay Transgendered Bisexual Questioning Asexual Redefining Super-saiyan Anthropoedic Universal Hetrogenous Interspecies Divergent Unorganized Heran Eruditic Rhinokin Uranisian Immobile Homeostatic Venusian Intersexual. What did you think it stood for, shitlord?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 11:07 PM
4

Some folks call it a sling blade, I like to call it a kaiser blade.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 05:25 AM
1

No with a "but". Yes, with an "if".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 12:25 AM
0

I was glad to see your other responses which were based on, like, history and not feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 05:57 PM
13

Him being TRP/PUA/MRA isn't dangerous and won't on it's own lead to him being violent to you. Him being alcoholic and bipolar however is a big risk. Also, he doesn't actually seem very red pill to me, if he is oneitising on you.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/15 05:53 PM
13

This isn't patriarchy, it's cronyism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:00 AM
0

I thought I might be the only one. Today there was one about a guy and his virgin gf. I didn't even click it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:51 AM
0

Yes I've seen it. RoK had a post about it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:31 PM
2

High value men like me and other dudes on here will NOT follow a philosophy that you or anyone else is profiting from. What I've found is that for every guy like you, there's at least 5 guys waiting to give money over for no reason. You are high value, they aren't and they want to be. They want to have that secret tonic or special handshake that makes them high value, but they can't be. Because some people are on the top, and other period suck at life.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:29 PM
0

True. I don't really like people using gay as an epitaph either. I went to universal studios a few years ago and watched their Bill and Ted's show they have each year. Twice in the show, they said "gay" instead ofof "lame" which would be more in line with their surfer lingo. It stuck out and seemed pretty offensive to me. I've had bp people gay shame me (I'm bi) our just do general gay shaming of rp people (I'm not rp, I just sleep around and this apparently makes me a bad person to bp), and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 06:05 PM
8

I edited it. Stupid Swype. I know what you are taking about but I don't really feel that tbp hates all virgins, but they hate all rp and think that all rp must be virgins because surely they wouldn't sleep with them so there's no way anyone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:59 PM
13

Good idea. TBP is a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:17 PM
0

Well, you're wrong. Most people will say it without thinking about actual people who are sexually inexperienced. I've made this mistake myself, when I was younger, talking to my best friend about some guy we both didn't like, and I said "he's probably a virgin" to emphasize how much of a loser he was. Well, it cut into my friend because my friend was a virgin at the time and really it's not a good thing to say, just like slutshaming, but it's something society seems to find okay. I see it all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:14 PM
0

get some healthy mexican on your own Is this an euphemism I'm not aware of?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:59 AM
3

"Don't make me give up my security blanket."
/r/askTRP18/05/15 09:52 PM
1

I wasn't trying to be judgemental, it's fine that you put the week in, and no matter what dm;hs.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 06:16 PM
0

Should I go in for a hug when I see her? Always. Hell, I go in for a make out right when I first meet, but this is usually with a little sexy chat before meeting. Kind of sets it up to say you aren't full of shit. Should I take a few beers and snacks? I prefer to bring wine, women are just more receptive to it and if you are eating it's natural to drink some wine with it (it acts as a palate cleanser). Yeah, bring these and say "let's have a picnic," don't ask her if she wants to, just say "let'…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:47 PM
1

Hmmm, I think I found a different kwml, because I'm on page 45 of this one. So far it's not a great read either. Something about your post has me curious if this is how people usually go about things. I'm usually talking about sex in the first conversation, and having sex pretty quickly. When you said you were talking with her for a week it just surprised me and I'm wondering if I just let things go too quickly if they don't escalate soon.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:32 PM
1

I can't even really deal with these as a plate, I'd rather be with an uglier girl with more charm.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 04:07 PM
2

Honestly, I'm not the board of health, so I can't say, but a lot of the escorts will street walk from time to time, so I think it's a bad idea to think of them in terms of being safe. Always wrap it up. The real risk with street walkers is them leading you to a spot where their pimp is waiting to beat you up and steal your cash.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:45 PM
3

Those are okay, but really the best site by far is USA Sex Guide for your area. There's guides for picking up street walkers safely. The local forums will tell you where to go and which girls on baggage are worth it. When you get some cred, other forum members will give you good private info, like where the hidden brothels are, etc. That said people are super paranoid about any new person being law enforcement. Rubmaps is another good one. You can get the older reviews for free to see what a pla…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 08:25 PM
0

I will say that that I don't highly that red pill tactics will work on the woman in the article. The issue is that she has some kind of psychological issue that prevents her from enjoying sex. It's not a matter of lack of tingles, it's that when she feels tingles, she blocks it it out/feels anxiety/has a negative or neutral reaction. The inky thing that will work is getting therapy. Thing is that this really can't be brought up by the husband because she will dismiss it as self interest. She nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 07:56 AM
50

Now, a staple of the superhero mythology is, there’s the superhero and there’s the alter ego. Batman is actually Bruce Wayne, Spider-Man is actually Peter Parker. When that character wakes up in the morning, he’s Peter Parker. He has to put on a costume to become Spider-Man. And it is in that characteristic Superman stands alone. Superman didn’t become Superman. Superman was born Superman. When Superman wakes up in the morning, he’s Superman. His alter ego is Clark Kent. His outfit with the big …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:16 AM
0

I think the 8+ is not really reasonable, especially when the partners get much older in age. I do like the age/2+7 metric, so a 40 year old should be seeing people older than 27. I'm nearly 40 and I'm seeing a 22 year old. However, she is more mature than many women I meet, she has a good job, is in her final year of college, and has a pretty good head on her shoulders. I'm also seeing a 28 year old, and I would say the 28 year old is less mature in many ways. In both cases, I do think there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:04 PM
0

As opposed to metaphysical manifestations like the idea of a "soul".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 01:02 AM
6

Really don't try to figure out what is going on in the heads of sick people. One woman had piles of marijuana, cocaine, and crack and was soliciting male and female students. Even when on bail, she kept getting caught with underage people. These reportedly weren't even her students, just her preference I guess. Another case, the woman took over a special needs student, so the posters here taking about the bad boys and jocks have really no clue what they are taking about. Some people are just sic…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 06:27 PM
80

I hate these kind of ads (this trope also appears often in sitcoms, but often in ads). They portray men as boorish idiots who not only don't have basic life skills, but have a desire to want the opposite. Spilling milk on the floor... Yeah who wants that smell. On top of that, the commercial sets up an expectation that these are the kind of things a woman should nag their husband about. It sets up a normativity in the idea that women need to keep their men in control all for the selfish purpose …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 03:49 PM
-2

It's kind of hard to tell. From your pictures, I would say you are really cute, definitely up my alley. But you said you have an average personality. It's hard to tell from this post, but I really only date charming girls, so I'd need to know you better to say if I'd date you. If you are having trouble dating, then it's possible you are really a dud on dates. When you go on them, do you find you are taking a lot, making the other person laugh, smiling, leaning into them, opening up without worry…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 02:52 PM
36

This is almost like saying "What do men want in a meal?" The answer is "different things at different times for different people."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:47 PM
1

When you're single, you have a lot of time on your hands. This sub is almost her surrogate partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:38 PM
3

I wanted to just have the first line as a response, but figured the mods wouldn't allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:58 AM
10

Baby, don't hurt me. I believe that all thought is just chemical reactions in the brain. But still, there are really a lot of different kinds of love. Most people think of New Relationship Energy as love and this is a person's ability to induce a dopamine drop in you (combined maybe with some oxytocin). But there is a longer term form of love, one where you can decide to work together in the long term towards something. To be committed to each other to be each other's partner. Then there is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 11:39 PM
0

I've had women tell me I'm unattractive because my girlfriend happens to be 22 (I'm nearly 40). Thing is that she is more mature than most American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 02:19 AM
-1

This is completely opposite my experience. If I also with a woman on the first date, it sets the expectation that it's a sexual relationship, and more often if you want to do other things, they aren't happy about it and it can cause the plate to crash. They don't want to spend a lot if time when they want to get laid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 10:40 PM
0

I'm guessing the missing word is ID. Yes you should ask her and if she doesn't, then ask what bars she's able to get into. When I was underage I knew many bars that didn't card, we even once had an underage pub crawl.
/r/seduction06/05/15 11:55 PM
3

It's not weird. A few weeks is nothing really. If it was one year, it might be strange (but oddly, two years or so it becomes okay again, but you need to work a "reconnect" angle).
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:13 PM
4

I've been the other man many many times. Never been caught out but if a husband did come to me, I would lie, even if we weren't seeing each other anymore. On one level, it can be bad for future liasons if you are know to rat the wife out. Also, you never know how crazy a guy us, he might come to try to harm me and ain't nobody got time for that. And in many cases, even if I'm not seeing them, even in the one case where this one woman really fucked with me badly, I often feel bad for them in thei…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 07:02 PM
0

One thing I've found is that the goal posts get moved when you argue such a thing. They will say TRP doesn't say all women will, just that they can and maybe here are the ways to recognize if they will. An example recently is a guy who had his gf tell him that a guy friend of hers suggested she cheat and she told OP because she thought it was awful that her friend said it. RPs response was to tell the guy to spin up more plates and dump her. But this advice is terrible. Then if you try to argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 01:39 PM
0

The great thing about Mary is that she has a really low N and isn't all baby crazy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:08 PM
0

Seems fine to me. I thought this was going to be about the matchbots that send a message prompting you to call a number asap
/r/askTRP01/05/15 08:20 AM
2

I did kick Dr Oz's dog once. He was surprisingly fine with it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:08 AM
-1

It might be a feel good thing to think that way, but reality shows that obesity is cheaper on social medicine costs than the costs of people who live longer. It's because fat people tend to die acutely. You seem to think healthy people have acute conditions, but that was not shown out. Healthy people live a long time and thus rely on social resources more, and they have their own chronic conditions that are not weight related.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:45 AM
-2

I was taking about socialized retirement. Maybe you ment to respond to someone else?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:15 AM
-4

Because of socialized retirement, the real burden on society is all these old people who lead healthy lives and thus live longer, sucking the resources of the young. In the next f few decades, they well bankrupt the US, and then rob the young if their own retirement, necessitating at least a 75% haircut in benefits. Socially, we need more fat smokers.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:59 AM
2

I can throw away the data regarding people who don't. My denominator shrinks. No you can't. You can assign them a 0, and the the ones who got divorced a 1, but it makes no sense to throw away that data. Then it looks like 100% of the population has the trait. This whole response is too incorrect to try to correct. This comes down to weeks of work you need to do yourself, which it seems you haven't, and you are just saying "we'll have to agree to disagree". Ok you can disagree and continue to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:33 AM
12

515 * 0.12 = 62 (rounding up). Hardly a meaningful sample size. I took ANOVA as part of one of my math degrees, and this statement is so completely wrong, it's ridiculous. First if all, the sample size is 515. You wouldn't multiply it by the rate of incidence, unless you were performing some kind of test on that population specifically. Secondly, 515 is huge. 3 is a bad sample size, but there is a huge difference between 3 and 10. There I'd a huge difference between 10 and 62. There is not a big…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 02:04 PM
4

I find see what statistics has to do with personal choice and the determination of hypocrisy, but cool information, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:50 PM
3

Because everyone makes their own choices. In my BDSM relationships, I regularly flog my partners, but I would not accept a flogging myself. It's not hypocritical, it's understanding that different people have different needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:41 AM
-1

I'm pretty sure no amount of hippie bullshit will make his pancreas secrete insulin.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 04:46 PM
5

Well, to be fair, I have a preference for shorter women. I used to like tall women and all my earlier gfs were usually 4" or more taller than me, but one day I got annoyed with the logistics and having to lean up to kiss, and having my face at neck level during sex, etc, so I started to have a preference for short girls. I exceed this once to a woman and she said to me "oh that makes sense since you can only get short girls" (nite I'm 5'6"). It was confusing to me since it was just completely ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 04:37 PM
1

There are plenty of young men who aren't frustrated with women, but then again, there are plenty that are. It all comes down to your own experiences. I've had great luck with my partners, but still some of them have been horribly toxic. They seem alright for a while but then they just change, take you for granted, try to clamp down on you, push you away when they say they want you near, all these weird things that can be confusing because their actions do not match their words. But here's the th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 04:22 PM
0

I mix it up a lot. Sometimes, I approach first and he comes quickly, sometimes slowly (maybe he's taking to someone else), sometimes he approaches and I'm fast or slow. Sometimes we approach together. It really depends more on what is natural for the interaction. I do feel it's better when one of us goes in and the other one is right there, especially if it's with a pair.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 10:46 PM
1

I don't understand what the question is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 10:12 PM
6

I've gone to sex clubs where the point is "con non con" (consensual nonconsent) and had a partner for a few months that had this a her number one fantasy and so we would role play it almost nightly. I don't know who said they want to be tasked by an attractive man but it's really me like they want to have the element of danger without actual danger, pretty much the point if any fantasy. A for COD or Quake or Doom it whatever, those have other goals. The point is to feel accomplished through over…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 10:00 PM
-1

Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 09:48 PM
-2

I love it when people who don't understand shit tell me to read stuff. A neg is qualifier and shouldn't even really be an insult or a tease and may contain a weak compliment. Yes do those playful teases, but don't think they are negs or soft negs or whatever else people in this forum have cooked up to make themselves feel like they aren't manipulating people. You go re-read the material you obviously don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 01:46 PM
0

My lawn. My regular guy has the itis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:51 PM
1

I think you just acquire another poop jug, and collect them like Howard Hughes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:51 PM
2

At least poop jugs have a cap. Cumbox had a nonsealed lid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:42 PM
7

I believe someone once said it's like women slut shaming, while a woman didn't want another woman giving sex away for little, men don't want other men giving away commitment for very little. This comes from the idea that women trade sex for the sense of commitment commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:35 PM
7

I can't argue against the rest, but negging is inherently manipulative. The definition you gave really doesn't capture the essence or purpose of negging. It is not playful teasing. It is creating statements with the express purpose of making the target feel as if their SMV might be lower with the idea that this will give you a relative increase in attractiveness. In this report, we have a classic example if negging, telling the target to "put some effort in this time" to their looks when it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 03:09 PM
0

Really my whole response is just based on your writing OP. I didn't think the original post was interesting enough to warrant thinking about, but when you put in this pussy shit about sugar coating being implied by nice (if you don't follow the logic, you said not sugar coating implies not nice, so by transposition nice implies sugar coating), and this is exactly the kind of thinking that bitches use to justify stretching truths. Basically you are promoting the idea that feels are better for a p…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:32 PM
0

The truth is only harsh if you can't handle it. Don't be such a pussy.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 03:31 AM
-1

I think they work great together. You don't want sugar coated answers, and really I feel any kind if answer that US disingenuous is not nice. At the same time, when she was asking that it really means don't be rude, like tell her unhelpful to get the fuck out. So I think straight forward and not rude is nice.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:48 AM
1

I know it is supposed to be based on "beatniks" but I think I don't understand the imagery. Seems like he's just trying to cash in on right wing sentiment against hippies, instead of making a clever term that stands on it's own.
/r/MGTOW23/04/15 01:51 PM
0

Many home depots will escort you away if you go up to customers in the parking lot, but there is usually a place by the sidewalk where a bunch of guys are and customers well pick up a few for the day.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 04:52 AM
0

I think this works in some cases, and in others, the wife just feels jilted and the relationship falls apart and either becomes a statistic or an RP story that has a different explanation of the woman's actions (e.g., she was pining after some Chad). There's even this post where the husband is trying to apply this, but the woman is hating it. It is true that being and pleading will not cure a dead bedroom. Most people on that sub feel the correct course of action is to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 09:24 PM
4

I understand not making her smoothie, but try not to do things that might backsplash on the kids. It's not their fault and it would suck if they didn't have their lunches. If you agreed you we going to do something for them, then you need to say "I'm not doing this anymore" so that they aren't left out in the cold.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 09:15 PM
2

I am also good looking and this echoes my experience exactly. I am a male exotic dancer and I know most of my co-workers are better looking and can get clients coming to them first but, except for one guy, most of them can't hold a conversation at all which has the clients moving on and sending the rest of their money with me. Outside of there, I'm often the just attractive guy around, and like you said, it's a good foot in the door.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:10 PM
6

I was expecting a reveal that Jane was really a guy the whole time and the story was gender-flipped to illustrate a point.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:46 AM
2

These isn't because of a pussy pass, it's because she turned state's witness and was part of her deal to do so.
/r/MGTOW21/04/15 05:55 PM
1

Can't be solved. You didn't include happiness values for Chad if he denies Nancy, but fit Nancy if she is denied by Buck. Also, there is no percent chance for Chad to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 04:39 AM
0

Reminds me of a festival I was at. These two HB9s come up to me and one of them says "we're looking for [friend of mine]" I start to think about the last time I saw him and then she says "actually, what we really want is cocaine." I say back, "oh, so you really aren't looking for [friend], you're looking for cocaine." While I could have helped them with their search, I just said "good luck with your search" and went to a dance area. All they saw my friend as was cocaine, and it was a little disg…
/r/MGTOW21/04/15 01:24 AM
0

Usually, if your relationship is bad enough to seriously go through with a break, then it's probably better it's over. Still I do know of the rare case where people realized it sucks "out there" and get back together happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 12:03 AM
3

That feeling of being used is probably really there. When people are in even a friendship together, they often use each other for help. If you don't need much, then maybe you feel taken advantage of (especially if you don't have much and someone is taking the little you have). I try to live my life where I'm getting a benefit from all my relationships, and by benefit I mean an almost immediate benefit. It can be as basic as "this guy is fun" to as complicated as "this woman supports me emotional…
/r/MGTOW20/04/15 11:13 PM
-1

Indeed, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:58 PM
1

Lol, I was going to make the same joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 10:45 PM
3

Hmm. I'm not really a "chubby chaser" but I have a wide range when it comes to weight I find attractive. I am dating a bean pole but most of my girls have some curves and they all have nice big tits, it's just what I like. And still even I only find Ashley acceptable. That campaign really is unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:39 PM
-5

You just don't understand, because he's not an RP alpha that could prevent his woman from going to the b party, she must be a cock riding cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:32 PM
-2

Wow. Woman does something her husband doesn't like. Alert the press, stop the newspaper run. She didn't even blow one of the guys. This story is dumb and is a bad example of AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:26 PM
0

There's like a few months between most of those posts. If anything it shows what a minority opinion it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:48 PM
1

The shorter statements are begging for a justification which puts the reader immediately on the defensive, which must people do not really enjoy. The longer ones make an attempt at providing the defense, so no one needs to feel defensive when they read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 09:41 PM
2

I've been downvoted here for criticizing TBP as a self-indignant circlejerk and nut satire as they claim. Those comments lead to me getting banned from the TBP subreddit. Really people are just morons over there and they infect this place badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 09:38 PM
1

I read over there and it seems more about guys wanting to keep their wives, but manipulate and game them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 05:10 PM
1

The kids these days call it S-ing my D. So some people just need their D Sed a little simply for them to do their job. The satisfaction of a paycheck is no longer enough for doing work, they need some kind of external validation and come to expect it. My wife and I often do good cop-bad cop for things (most recently to get some under warranty repairs done to a vehicle). And you would be surprised at how good it works. One person making demands, the other person S-ing the D. So yeah it's a choice…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:42 PM
1

*music plays* two girls for every guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 06:34 AM
0

I have standard shakes for hire people are a part on my life. It's one of many things I'm pedantic about. They need to do it right, not me.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:17 PM
3

This is just masturbatory fantasy to think that just anyone will make a 50 million dollar company.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:13 PM
0

I usually think of them more as lambda.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:19 AM
0

She want to get sick again? But improper use of antibiotics creates superbugs that affect us all.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:51 PM
0

I don't know a lot about feminism, so I probably wouldn't comment too much on it in a serious manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 12:54 PM
2

I'm older, buy it seems to me that culture has gotten to fractured to pick or even have a style. It's part of the whole thing where when we grew up, there was 4 tv channels (abc, nbc, cbs, and some crap uhf station), while now kids have 1000+ channels and over 200 pokemon. Also, it seems more popular to have tight during clothing that broadcasts your physique instead of, for example, the shoulder odds of the 80s. You can go with some designer labels (Ed Hardy, Affliction, Armani Exchange) but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 12:48 PM
1

In the kink world, this is referred to as topping or bottoming. I can and have ordered a sub to lay down and then I give a massage simply because I like to feel their skin in this way and it's still maintaining domination. However, I would be "power bottoming" in this case. Point is, being the giver does not necessarily mean being the submissive (though they are often linked). So maybe she doesn't bottom well. It's unusual in a woman, but it happens. Or maybe there was some other behavior that c…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 12:12 PM
1

I have the desire to fuck girls but only if it's meaningful I also have this aspect of my personality. I can do an ONS but I find that masturbation is usually more preferable, and I always just feel like I'm "doing for" someone when there's no meaningful feelings involved. That said, I still have two plates (maybe a third, but I'm still unsure about her). I don't find it hard to have a meaningful relationship with my plates, just that we have no commitments. No commitments of time, not even the …
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:46 AM
1

I've personally seen this and I find I have this quality myself. I don't know if AWALT, but I've certainly dated many that have this personality trait. I call the projects "broken puppies" and I've also found "You can't fix all the broken puppies in the pound" meaning there are a lot of broken people out there and it's not really possible to spend enough time to fix them all.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:24 AM
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You can have integrity, but still not recognize that AWALT, that they have a dual nature of AF/BB when it comes to the sexual marketplace (while men only have AF because we can provide for ourselves) and how you have both SMV and RMV and that hypergamy is real and it leads to deception and branch swinging (see AWALT). Recognize the truth of Briffault's Law and the nature of female solopsism. Take women off of the pedastal, be disciplined to never let your heart go towards one woman only (aka one…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 10:03 AM
9

Yeah, this is a really bad one because the type of people with addictive personalities are going to crave the dopamine (and possibly the oxytocin) of sex. Meanwhile, women have a greater pressure on them to be less promiscuous so when you find one who is more promiscuous, you would expect her psychological issues to be greater. In no way shape or form does this show that promiscuity caused the psychological issues. It's pretty well documented that victims of sexual abuse when they are young (dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 01:05 AM
1

in your view when the woman consents she is still the victim of enjoy less sex I didn't say anything of the kind. I think you need to reread what I did say, and not inject your own political views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:29 PM
-1

That's irrelevant. That's, like, your opinion, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:27 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:16 PM
0

No they weren't. That one guy was just looking for friends. The other guy was just texting. You are reading into the situation that he is actively cheating to preserve your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:16 PM
1

Seems like we are many in number. Remember remember the fifth of November.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 02:10 PM
0

The necessity of this justification...depressing. Yeah, the whole thing is such a downer. It's like I let a fart out in the chatroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:03 PM
2

I prefer the plastic surgery section.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:50 PM
-1

Also who fucks two different guys w/o protection and isn't even on BC, that shit is crazy. Generally I agree with you but this certainly has happened in my life. When I was younger and dumber I was barebacking with a guys wife and she was barebacking with him. He was fucking all over town (which I knew) so I ended up with gonorrhea. Before a TRPer comes in about "18 years", I'm practically azoospermic and that situation was complicated. Still, can't deny that woman was crazy. She stalked me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:47 PM
-1

Like I've said before, the happy couples aren't running out to the internet to ask about how they are happy. They are just off being happy together. So first you have a selection bias again. Then, I really have to feel that you have a confirmation bias. I mean this woman should be fucking her husband's brains out with dread, not thinking about divorce. Same with this woman because her man clearly has options. This one too but I guess she shit tested him and he failed; bro should have agreed and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:34 PM
1

Welcome to the club bro. I never want to be part of any club that would have me as a member. Except Sam's Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:45 AM
1

Actually, I'm XNXP so I fit in fine with ENTX. I just know that was the part of my personality pushing me to look into it. Still you are right that I'm not NT, so I'm missing keystone e-values that might compromise my ability to understand their sacred society ;) I kind of always thought red pill was more J than P, maybe XNXJ, possibly XNFJ (if the later, almost certainly Fe)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:43 AM
1

Well, I say that but... it's more to distinguish it from being figuratively literally raped, which is really what people are meaning when they say divorce raped. Unfortunately the meaning of "literally" has been figuratively literally raped by modern use. And I don't need help, I just need to hold frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:36 AM
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There are such forums, and magazines and whole industries built around this. The problem is that female sexual strategies are so foreign to you that you probably don't recognize them. First of all here is something you need to understand: it is much easier for a man to acquire sex that he enjoys than it is for a woman to acquire sex that she enjoys. Understand that women have giant hangups about sex that are programmed into them by society (and men do not have any such hangups). Finally, recogni…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 02:41 AM
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Thanks. I've been divorced, and I've been literally literally raped as well, so I'll be sure to watch out for both together. ((btw, this comment made me laugh so damn hard, thanks)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:19 AM
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First, I want to suggest that red pillers can suffer from horrible selection and confirmation bias. I've written about this before but when you base your ideas of what "humans are" based on "how people who hang out at bars looking to be picked up are," then you are going to get a very warped view of humanity (and women specifically). When you completely discount all the regular happy couples who go through their lives, marrying, having kids, retiring to Florida, and dying, then it might seem tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:38 AM
-1

Get some platforms. It's not because the height helps. I have a plate taller than me and have no problem with taller girls (though I must admit, if she's like the statute of liberty, I'm not really interested anyway) and I'm only 5'6" But what matters more is how you feel about it. The confidence that a 4" sole will give you will probably do wonders for you.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 10:32 PM
-1

Did you know forests have trees in them?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 09:38 PM
2

Not everything warrants an ultimatum.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 09:16 PM
1

There is this thing where when communicating with another adult (not just your wife, but your boss, etc), you should not use "you statements" but instead "I statements". Pretty much like you just said. If you say "you statements" then it comes off aggressive, while an "I statement" is more sharing and compassionate. Judgmental: You drink too much Non-judgmental: I don't like how much you drink. Alternative: I feel like you drink too much. I'll often express that "I feel" a certain way. The key h…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 06:04 PM
0

Really the worst that can happen is you waste a little time. Sorry your shit has gotten frustrating.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:53 PM
0

I recently has something similar happen. I made a date for a Tuesday and the day of she said "hey, I have a job interview and can't make it." We rescheduled for a Thursday and she showed up and it's been great. I was thinking of one striking her, but really, if you don't care then you don't care. If it falls through, it falls through. Set up another date but, of course, don't rely too much on it.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:50 PM
0

Yeah, I've had friends fake a story to get on Springer. I don't know how well this show vets their people. but I know it happens and she really seems like she is acting.
/r/MGTOW14/04/15 05:41 PM
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I've noticed the same, and I've even commented about it in /r/TheBluePill. Really the people there are, for the most part, not good at rhetoric at all, and it just seems like a self-righteous circlejerk. I even agree with them on many many points, but I still think they are useless. Maybe some people find it fun to sit back and titter about how awesome they are, but I sub to this group and /r/exredpill because I would prefer to actually do something to steer people away from some of the more har…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:25 PM
0

Girls would rather share an Alpha than own a Beta. In my experience, this is only true for a while. I always make it clear to my girls that I am open and poly and that they are just one of a select few I choose to spend my time with. The girls I'm with are fine with this for a while, but they will almost all eventually go on their own way (sometimes, they start drama, and I need to cut them). One or two have gone on to their own poly cliques but many times they've left me for a more beta provide…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:47 PM
0

I agree with FATTIES_ARENT_HUMANS, an agree and amplify is a good response. I might go a little humourous like "I'm really just looking for a partner to help me hide the bodies. Isn't [lunch place you met] where all those type hang out?" could be good. Brings things back to your meeting and shows you are rubbing some brain cells together to remember who she is.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 02:18 PM
0

I prefer to do it asap. For me that tends to be often a bit in the future. Last Thursday I made a date for this Thursday and it's just annoying me. But I was out of town on the weekend and her work didn't line up well until then either, so it is what it is. I've really never noticed a problem either way (soon vs later), but I guess I just don't like this kind of anticipation too much.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:56 AM
0

Seems* set up to me. Meaning, looks like the date is set, don't worry about it. I also hate it when I have a date set so far in the future but you just gotta go with it. If she forgets, then she probably want that into it in the first place or is a horrible flake.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:44 AM
0

Send set up to me. Don't even worry about her little disclaimer, didn't mean anything. Call her on Friday to set up where to meet.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:33 AM
0

Maybe my poly brain is all fucked up, but this seems more like a comfort test and she is trying to move beyond plate.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:16 AM
0

I had a tendency of Woody Allening when in in a relationship. I can be a neurotic mess. In those cases, I found I do way better to just stop thinking and enjoying what I have in the now.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:37 PM
0

Some girls definitely go for it, but the problem is you won't necessarily get a chance to back it up. If it's in person, that's one thing, on the internet a million things can go wrong.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:17 PM
0

There are a lot of men who can't hook up for sure, but it's pretty much well known that lots of people are hooking up all the time on these things. Most guys I talk to are at least with one girl (lots of monogamy too, actually).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 08:14 PM
0

have you ever BEEN in a fight? Yes
/r/askTRP13/04/15 06:40 PM
0

Not sure if your joking but your main profile pic should be the hysteria looking of into space. Who/what is he looking at? Who took the picture? It's a mystery. Shirtless pics are tryhard.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:52 PM
3

This actually reminds me, I hang out in a lot of online communities and sometimes I'm open flirting with a girl there and every now and then some woman feels the need to say something song the lines of "That's why the guys here can't get laid." Of course the girl I'm talking to likes what we are doing and I've gotten many hookups from these spaces, so the virtually is just plain wrong. Still, for some reason it always kind if bothers me because they couldn't be more wrong and it's so unoriginal …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 03:39 PM
1

Most popular pop culture references of the past 30 years True but badly selected. Wasn't Mr T a little bitch when they went on airplanes. Even Murdock, the idiot, could fly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 03:21 PM
3

How comes nobody understands this? Because your examples and writing style sucks and you are referencing minute blogs that no one follows? I know you were picking one character in his career, but Dwayne The Rock Johnson is not exactly known for his masculine behavior. Mostly his popularity is because of his off-the-wall goofiness. Meanwhile the hyper masculine like Steve Austin are popular but not quite the same. The Dothraku Khan did a lot of masculine things in public but eventually submitted …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 03:04 PM
0

This reminds me of when I was at a bar recently. I started taking to this 9 (to me a 10, she has these elven features that kind of drive me crazy, plus gorgeous long hair). Chatted her up for a good while and then her husband showed up. Actually, he was really cool and had a much better personally than his wife. We shot the shit for a while too and then I said to him (because sometimes couples are looking for a little MMF action and it was a hail Mary) "Hey, I hope you're not offended, but your …
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:25 PM
8

Congratulations on breaking free. Good report.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/15 11:59 AM
2

I've noticed the sane thing about women. Adam Levine was voted the sexiest man in America. People are all about Rick Grimes (the walking dead), and you could ride a wave of splooshes to work and back by showing women a picture of Orlando Bloom, in character or out. To just continue with the swashbuckler thing, there is a show cllked black sails and the men aren't metro, but they also aren't barbarians. They have great masculine features with a little femininity added. I myself have been blessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 11:28 AM
1

Concern troll. Said the guy who has no idea who he is responding to. Hell I'm a tourist here and even I know who /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom is.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:01 AM
13

Change location immediately. If she knows what's going on, she will back you (women hate aggro), if she doesn't know what is happening, then it doesn't matter, she'll just accept it without knowing why. Don't explain it.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 10:28 PM
1

I agree with /u/xRILLIANx, but at the same time recognize this is your family and he is in so much pain that he is in a literal literal way considering suicide. It's not good for a brother, even worse for a twin. You need to reach out and talk to him. Ask him why he is so hung up on this woman and why she deserves his all when she is giving him her none. The lyrics are "Give me all of you, I'll give you all of me" not "half ass it and I'll give you all of me." You need to walk him through the di…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 09:08 PM
1

Equivocators gonna equivocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 08:33 PM
3

Meh. I've watched a lot of that show (I lived with tween girls for a few months last year) and mostly Austin is the epitome of IDGAF, mostly because he's the epitome of I Have No Clue What's Going On. Archer it's probably the only one better at it than him. Ally is in total beta orbit around Austin, and the secondary characters just change with the scene. Point is, don't take too much out of it. Cinderella is more of a story of a hypergamistic entitled solopsist, and her two AWALT step sisters (…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:59 PM
2

You could, ya know, trust her. Or turn into a paranoid ball mumbling "AWALT" over and over. If you like to kiss her, chances are other guys are going to try to kiss her. The key is making it so she doesn't desire to return that kiss. With the ex, get her to talk a lot about the reasons she broke up with him.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:42 PM
1

Anytime. Thanks for the... boring pedantry, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 07:14 PM
0

Yeah hard to believe. Hey since I, myself, like to cuckold, could be that I would be fucking your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 07:14 PM
0

Naw bro. I tie her to the dock and ram my 26 ft sailboat into her. Lol yeah, stupid Swype always correcting me. Meh, like I said, it's more complicated. Your response was too predictable, and you still come across as trying to run my life from an armchair.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:08 PM
-4

It's about making dumb decisions that are harder for no good reason. Well, phew. That's not what I did then, so I'm glad I'm okay. I didn't think you were attacking me but you were certainly calling my decisions into question. I'm a grown man and you have no clue about my life so really don't worry about it. My ship's gone pretty damn far. I get you are trying to be helpful, it's just that you are bad at it because you are giving advice based on one phrase in one comment. Since you seem to need …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 06:02 PM
1

Did I miss something? Yes. Something something how much I care versus how much you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 05:49 PM
0

Most girls I talk to I'm used to treating like sisters so changing to the type of guy who can say this shit would be difficult for me Yeah, I heard you. If it didn't come across fluid, then it just comes across bad. So you need to be able to express attraction. That example is a little extreme.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 05:47 PM
-3

My wife knows about us dating and has met her. So... Kind of nothing. I've been in the situation where a secondary gets out of line and starts shit. Then they are gone.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:45 PM
1

God you're dense Can you introduce me to the kettle next? I heard it's super black. There's so much more that it'd take me weeks to list Oh, please proceed. I'm waiting with baited breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 04:23 PM
-4

I would like to make clear that my wife is not mentally unstable. That's just one chick I'm dating. That said /r/marriedtrp. It's hard to take advice from people who don't even know how to understand you.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 04:22 PM
-7

Look, I get that you live your life in fear and wanting to take the easy way out instead if taking the big risks for the big money and fabulous prizes, but I don't mind a little adversity as long a it's worth it. Also, last person I need to justify my life to is you. I mean, what's so good in your life that I would want to emulate your thinking?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 04:20 PM
0

It will help you get the habit of working out. I also had a little cringe when I saw you putting off working out until summer. Also, regarding "you have nice tits". I literally just said this to a woman last night at a party. She was wearing a very revealing top, showing off her front cleavage well. It was by no means creepy and she then leaned over and shook then a little for me (and the woman I was sitting with/talking to). The point is that it's not what you say, but more how you come across …
/r/askTRP12/04/15 04:17 PM
-2

Well, when you put it like that, you kind of sound like an oversimplifying moron.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 04:07 PM
0

The NPT was a good one too, and it did allow for the corrective action in Iraq, but it's become increasingly hard to sell people on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 03:42 PM
-5

Thanks for thinking you can live my life for me, but I got it covered. She's a secondary so don't worry about it. Only woman I let have me a little bit at my beck and call is my wife.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:38 PM
0

Here's one recent thing that went well for me. Me: wow, you look great Her: thank you :O Me: yw ;) so did you like my pics or my profile? (Note this is a tinder match so she liked something) Her: both Me: I like that answer, simultaneously non-committal yet complimentary. We should meet. Her: yes we should Me: give me your number. Her: [number] Then I text her with my name so she has my number and continue to tinder text logistics and some small talk about mutual interests.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 03:30 PM
0

what would you be expecting from me Damn, do women have a playbook or something. I've been getting this one a lot lately too, and my (working) response is "I tend to try to live my life without expectations." With an optional "that way I'm never disappointed." only if they seem confused at the statement. Last week I got back "I also do the same." So I said "I think we're going to get along then." Then I went on to build attraction for my date, got them making out and then into a three way. Bet s…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 03:23 PM
-4

Prefect comment, too bad people here don't want to listen.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:19 PM
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Another thing to make clear is that she only doesn't find you worthy of a sexual relationship. She possibly finds you worthy of something else and people have complicated needs. I don't really believe in the friendzone. Many times in my life I've hit on a woman to be met with "I just want friend right now" and it ended up that it was just some unknown or misunderstood aspect if her personal life holding her back, but later we get together when is more resolved. One chick I'm dating now has PTSD …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:13 PM
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Define "Good", but generally, I'd say the answer is "myself." Then again, I'm in the high nineties for narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:00 PM
4

I think men who really and deeply believe TRP dogma can be easily controlled by women who understand that dogma and their predictable reaction to it.. As such, it is highly risky for an average TRP man to get with a TRP woman. Queue men convincing themselves they aren't average and can handle it.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 02:57 PM
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No. I do believe in fairies, I do I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 02:54 PM
4

Fathers be good to your daughters. It's not rocket science that both a strong male and female role model in a child's development are good for esteem and other things, leading the child to a happy life. But also, studies showed that children who are raised in a broken home where both parents stay together but are antagonistic is way worse than divorce. Also men are too willing to roll over and allow full custody than fight for their role in their child's life.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 02:11 PM
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Hey I admit I have brain damage and sometimes get confused easily. Probably it's the width of my phone but those all look still like one section, but I went to the other link and links under and still don't see where DT is the best strategy. I have high narcissism and machivellianism, but not sociopathy and an very emphatic. This empathy is very key to my sexual strategy, and I feel that unless you are very good at long term role play (which is a trait of high functioning sociopaths) that sociop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:56 PM
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We'll there you go. Problem there send to be swallowing too much feminism. Really in both cases you are relying to much on dogma and not enough on yourself. You are socially retarded, you still are a little and use red pill as a crutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:24 PM
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Oh, so NAWALT? I personally subscribe to SWABTO. And to blame the wonks without taking personal responsibility for being fooled is a little whatever. Maybe you happened to have the perfect confluence of influences, or maybe you are just moronic, socially speaking. And I don't give a fuck about y'ladies. I've got my own to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:23 PM
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TRP is that women initiate 2/3 of divorces The problem being that this shows nothing but that maybe men get the better deal in marriage after all. I know I like that my wife cooks for me, takes care of me, gets me nice clothes, etc. I'm in turn nice back to my wife but I see more trouble in marriage where the husband is more of a long and these kind of guys will be happy with their partner while their partner gets fed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:01 PM
1

Global warming studies are heavily funded by the government and other groups who want a global mechanism of control on all economies. It's a keystone piece of the Problem-Reaction-Solution strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:56 PM
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I think maybe you have put scientists on a pedestal. Scientists are human and rent seek like any other. They go to where the funding is and don't rock the boat for fear of being thrown out by other nervous passengers. "It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding it" - Upton Sinclair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:54 PM
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How does that prove AFBB? Where is the sociology report on the cock carousel? I read your Buss and Schmitt, 1993 and it didn't really confirm dark triad at all, maybe only Machevellianism, but there were explicit factors cited that were only orthogonal to dark triad traits. I'm going to have to assume your other "sources" use similar arm reaching, which I'm sure is embraced well by true believers, but otherwise not convincing (and kind of perpetuate the stigma of TRP as a cult).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:49 PM
-5

So... Magic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:30 PM
-1

You might be socially retarded, how are we supposed to know your flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:27 PM
-1

Pretty good analogy, but I would like to point out something. If the waitress spat in your food, it might be that she is a terrible person, it might be the management is lax at that restaurant, but it also might be that you did something else to deserve it. We weren't there with you, it's up to you to look at it with an objective eye and figure out if you did something wrong and if so how to avoid doing that in the future. This is assuming you want to eat there. All the people at the soup Nazis …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:25 PM
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why is it the case that we have to do those temp bans Two reasons, first is that people are tired of answering the same questions when they are answered by doing a cursory skim if the sidebar material (most people don't read a word of it). In a sub that large you have too many ignorant people who want help with their crush and are commenting/posting because they are desperate. The first time it's cute, the fiftieth time it's annoying. Second reason is because TRP is very bad at rhetoric, so if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:15 PM
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This McDonald's is shit and made me fat. All restaurants are like that (ARALT). What are you taking about "Ruth's Chris Steakhouse?" I'd never pay so much for something essentially the same as McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:06 PM
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Yeah, when talking to people on the fence about trp, I try to remind them that all people are complex, often ambivalent, and feel differently about things in the short term than the long term. Also, people can change and become jaded of the "sexual marketplace," I know I tried that shit out and it just left me feeling more empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 03:40 AM
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If you define rape as drunken (consensual ) sex, then yes, the desire is there fur people to engage in it and thus it is an eventual fallout. Now bear in mind, I was anally raped repeatedly as a child by a family acquaintance, so I find that definition if rape to be a little offensive. What I went through was traumatic, post drunken sex regret has nothing on it. Sometimes it just feels like pandering for emotions, borrowing on the backs if people who have been badly hurt, like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 03:36 AM
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I don't really subscribe to the duality of AFBB. Must women I know try to find both qualities in one man, and men who are successful in their relationships (in term of not ending up in /r/deadbedroom) know how to exhibit both a soft side and a firm side at the right time. No one is perfect though, and women tend to be a lot more forgiving than TRP suggests. One woman I know kept on with her jobless loser bf for two years before she dumped him. He was not BB as she was supportng him and he was ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:26 AM
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Banning them might lead to weird side effects. You have to understand that people are acting like this because they want to. If you ban it, then generally what could happen is a vice industry (possibly with links to organized crime) appears to provide parties, the parties go underground , and now women are at even more risk because there is large social pressure to keep the underground parties secrete from authorities. Show me one case where banning consensual vice has lead to a better outcome f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 12:38 AM
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Send to me the problem is you aren't escalating towards sex properly. If you are stopping at making out, it's probably because you aren't progressing to playing with her nipples, teasing her inner thigh over her pants, teasing inside her pants, rubbing her pussy until it's wet, pulling her pants off... I mean, you didn't expect her to do all that, did you?
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:26 AM
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Yes she knows. Almost universally, the husband didn't/doesn't know, but there is one case where I met the husband and explicitly got his approval. I get asked this a lot when I talk about this, and I don't understand why it's important to strangers.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:07 PM
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Awesome. I like me too.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 03:52 AM
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One thing I feel is that it used to be that a single parent could maintain a household with one job. Note that it is the norm for both parents to work, wages have become where both parents need to be writing to maintain a middle class lifestyle. Now my friends are in a weird position because the husband has gotten into a bad medical situation (should have had disability) But exactly the ruination if society, but still an unfortunate side effect of women working. It was supposed to make women mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:38 AM
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Even an attractive guy can say the wrong thing and make a girl cringe. I was at a bachelor party recently and the main stripper guy was this super hot beefcake guy. My (female) friend went up to him and asked him if he was hanging with her tonight. He responded in this super retarded type of voice "uh, I'm just here for the money". She was like "oh, don't talk" and walked away. I'm a part time male exotic dancer and I've seen many guys ruin their tips by opening their mouths. Something about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 02:07 AM
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I love holding breasts. They're really nice, when you grab them and feel them and they are like a bag of sand. Don't worry about it too much. Maybe just focus on yourself a bit. Maybe you a are really attractive and that's why people think you are experienced. If so then try to recognize it and use it to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 01:20 AM
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Thing is that feminism is not the only alternative to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 12:34 AM
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I usually do it on the first date. I hate to sound formulaic, but I can be on dates, especially when I don't really know the girl well. I usually do some kind of fun activity first, like jetskiing or horse back riding something that I like anyway and isn't too involved in conversation. Then after a bit of that, we'll go and sit together to talk, maybe by a fire, maybe at a cafe, kind of depends what is convenient. I have a whole list of things I normally cover here, first that I'm married and I …
/r/askTRP11/04/15 12:15 AM
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I think I missed the part where he was taking with customers. Anyway, for customers, you just need to act compassionate. A lot of "I understand"s and "Let me check on that"s (even better if you do check on it or get a manager who can). Doing this will help you keep your sanity because the stream of dumbass customers is never ending, but your patience can be limited.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:19 PM
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One of the best things I've found here is to seem confused (furrow your brow and look like you are trying to think hard about it) then give a little half hearted laugh, like you do when a joke sucks. You do that enough times, they start to think they have a problem with their humor (which is probably true). Sometimes you do this and someone else sees you and says "I don't think I get it" at which point they become really ashamed. No one wants to explain that shit. This might only work if you see…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:09 PM
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An example is a friend of mine recently was joking with me a little bit about my gay side and I was joking back to him, he said that what he was doing wasn't gay because "the balls weren't touching" (the implication being the stuff I do is easily more gay). I responded with "That's what I keep telling my twinks, but they don't believe me." Part of this is that I really don't like twinks, preferring more masculine features, so this is kind of obviously ridiculous. We just both started laughing an…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 06:04 PM
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That was an interesting article. No worries about being the other man, I kind of knew what I was getting into in most cases, just didn't know how it would make me feel about myself. It wasn't really the one but it was being that for the fifth time in a row that had me wondering if there was something wrong with me that I was just a great side plate and not main course. Then my girlfriend and I started getting real close and most of that feeling is gone now. I'd still be the other man (I just lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 09:57 PM
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Cool deflection. It's not really a deflection.. I saw you use that word here and I do not think it means what you think it means. You simply are ignorant of this situation. I'm sure you've been lied to, we all have. That doesn't make you an expert on every lie. Ick level 10. If I've given you the impression that I'm trying to appeal to you in any way, please know that it was unintentional. If you think people practicing D/s is icky, then I've come across this kind of bias before and it's not eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 07:51 PM
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I don't know how well I can argue against this because I kind of agree with it. Men want a woman who is simultaneously desired and yet exclusive to him. These two qualities are very attractive to a man because it means he has something special, which means he is something special. I am dating this plate and I rank her a solid 7 but people keep telling me she is a 9 and she gets a lot of male attention. However, I don't like model-style skinny girls, preferring an hourglass figure. I was dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:23 PM
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I have slept a lot with women who are cheating on their husbands. Sometimes it's a boyfriend, but husbands yeah. And I think men cheat more and here is the reason why: opportunity. You see in "the sexual marketplace" men, make their own opportunity, while women for the most part have to be passive. So even if a woman is open to cheating, it's not really guaranteed that she will find a partner who is both willing to see her and willing to be the other man. When you are single and the other man, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:16 PM
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I don't think those words mean what you think they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:06 PM
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I dated a woman for about 8 months (we broke up at 6 months but then got back together kind of thing). Anyway, the lengths she would go to to hide me from her husband were ridiculous. She had a laptop that he didn't know about hidden in her room, and that is how she would communicate with me. No phone (unless it's a break in case of fire emergency), just texts via that computer or meeting. She had all these other mechanisms built up,and it was crazy, but at the same time smart. Then again, she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:05 PM
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pragmatic paradigm I don't know if it's really pragmatic. Actually, I feel a lot of it ends up creating people like this guy who are completely paranoid about their girl straying. That's not to see the paranoia might be unfounded, but a lot of the paradigm pushes people to believe deeply that it is imminent. That's kind of no way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:00 PM
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discipline I think this might be a key word. A lot of people coming into TRP have no discipline. I think discipline is really important and know that people will benefit from it. I just look at the kind of discipline and see that it can hold someone back (like an improper form of a dead lift. You might gain but you might also throw your back out).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 04:58 PM
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To point out your cognitive dissonance and to discuss other people's posts in the subreddit. That doesn't really seem like a goal to me. It just seems like actions. What is your goal posting here? To gain perspective through communication. To help others with my perspective. If I gave you the impression that I give a damn what you personally do, please know that was unintentional. However, don't run around acting like you're some stand up guy being 'open' and honest and communicative when you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 04:53 PM
1

Three beta orbiters and their girl. Actually, it's two plates, an orbiter, and a girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:40 PM
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She had a bf at the time but he wasn't there and she didn't want him there. He is an extremely crazy beta orbiter If he's an on-again-off again boyfriend, he is not an orbiter. Orbiters circle but never approach for fear of crashing. His footsteps are all over that moon. The other guy seems to have gone into orbit but that doesn't mean he won't attempt a landing again. So at this party I can tell she is digging me, long story short we end up hooking up that night. You are at best a plate here. C…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:39 PM
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Ok. I guess I have to admit I didn't really look at her side if the argument closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 03:25 PM
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I know and I appreciate it. Just didn't want you thinking that this is some unhappy girl. She knows what time it is. Sometimes I think she is naive and then she has always proven me wrong (part of why I like her so much I think, she's taught me a thing or two about relationships).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 01:12 PM
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I never realised men needed to be validated aswell I would like to talk a little about this because it's an important thing. I do domination and submission and practically the whole interaction is about validation. However, the key is if the person is externally validating versus internally validating. While gender is a factor, either gender can be either one. But generally, the best submissives are externally validating while the best dominants are internally validating. So when I am with a sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:39 PM
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What they say is that they want a kind mand and a gentleman. What they do is sleep with guys that treat them like shit (and then complain to the gentleman about it). In my experience, the women who are in LTRs with guys that treat them like shit have people like me on the side. They need to get their esteem from somewhere and if they are the kind of person who is externally validating (my specialty as a dom) and they have a reasonable amount of free time (even as much as a few hours every few we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:25 PM
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I don't know about her (or care for that matter), but you seem interested in this topic and I have a lot of experience with this and she is absolutely right. The problem is that people confuse "kind" with spineless or standardless. You have to be assertive and kind. It's a hard line to walk but really doing it will not just benefit you in relationships but in life (work, friends, dealing with Comcast). A lot of TRPs "maintain frame" is just to cut out being a whiny bitch. People who have a tenda…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:08 PM
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Asking someone to match TRP's whole body of writing/advice bit-for-bit in this context is a bit unreasonable. The thing is, we aren't asking, she is telling us she can do this and we are being asked to change her view. If she can't do this in a self post, then at least link to her self-help website. I really didn't care for her delivery all that much, even though I buy the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:05 PM
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In general, I feel it it better not to give advice as a prescription. Unless the target is in an open frame of mind wanting to take you prescription, they just aren't going to. In fact, if some part of it seems contradictory to their world view, they might even find you to be hostile and will close their ears to your advice or even become contrarian. Is your advice better than the advice on TRP? I would say yes it is for certain. Can you offer that advice in a way that it will impact the targets…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:01 PM
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Hey, she's actually not discontented or unhappy. She is annoyed because her school is taking a lot of time (and I'm annoyed with that too, but we had a talk about it and things seem better). But I'm one of the only things in her life that gives her happiness right now, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 11:50 AM
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Out of curiosity, what exactly is your goal here? Is it to give me advice? Are you really concerned about my honor/inegrity? Because presenting yourself as sanctimonious and self-righteous certainly isn't going to win me over and it doesn't really work well with others. I personally find advice goes over better when you relate it as a story of "this is what I did." So to that end, let me here your anecdote about when you had even one wife and one girlfriend you were lying to (who knew about your…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 11:49 AM
1

I can't help it. It's a compulsion! Somebody help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 04:24 AM
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if his goal was to get laid with a girl This is a very important distinction: get laid with a specific girl, get laid with a girl that meets a certain standard, get laid with any girl. Any girl is easy. Hands down, go to an AMP (Asian Massage Parlor). Look on rubmaps.com to find one that has good reviews that talk about full service. Take the table shower, it's the best part of the service. A specific girl, well... I'm not going to say it's impossible but you have to be open to the strong possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 12:25 AM
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I'm terrified of the emotional connection and if he will ever be able to have that with me if he keeps that open with her... As a man, I don't think that this is an either/or proposition. You need to establish your emotional connection on your own. Sorry to say, he probably does have feelings for her, but those feelings are complicated and ambivalent while the ones he has for your are (hopefully) simple and heavily positive. I know what it's like to have a woman hold your heart for a while and t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:48 PM
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Sexual orientation and gender seem to be independent functions of the brain. I don't believe it's well known yet what role biological forces have on sexual orientation, but indications are that it is not determined at birth nor is it even a binary gay/not gay thing. Despite the fact that I've been with a few men, the overwhelming majority of my lovers have been female and I've never had a long term male partner. It puts me more of a 2 point something on a Kinsey scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 10:13 PM
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Hey, I have brain damage so sometimes my mind grabs the wrong potato. They deleted the post but my recollection is it said something like "this isn't going to be a hardline rp stance, it's more of a moderate rp stance." then at the end s/he said "I don't disagree with all of this btw".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 10:07 PM
1

I think you misunderstood that prefix.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 08:17 PM
1

The purpose of "amused mastery" is when you are on a topic, you can show personal value by acting like you are so good at it that you would be condescending yourself to talk about it with the target. If you project this well, the target then becomes enthralled with the idea that they can learn from you. I actually see this all the time in D/s as subs fall over themselves to receive training from me. At the same time, it can come across as condescending itself so you need to be careful with it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:28 PM
1

Seems the problem here is you are conflating statements made while role-playing a red piller as part of the original exercise and his/her personal opinion. Role play is role play and it's a little silly to "call someone out" for having a different character than an rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:21 PM
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Not surprising, it's a reddit default sub. What do you think happened to all the /r/jailbait subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 01:20 PM
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The fact of the matter is that she is with me because I'm easy and kind of what she needs in her life right now. There is no way she could have a real boyfriend. She is in college, working, and spending a lot of time with her family and has an hour or maybe two a day for me. No guy without someone else would put up with this and even I'm a little on a tether about how little we see each other. She will be done with college soon and I fully expect that when this happens, she will have a lot more …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 12:19 PM
1

Lol. And who told you that was important?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 02:42 AM
0

Yeah, I felt the same but I have weird neuropathy that made me unsure.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:52 AM
6

On one hand, you're right. On the other hand, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 01:51 AM
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Yes she's fine with it. The only one who doesn't like it is my girlfriend (who is fine with my wife, just not the others). I manage it with openness and communication and lying to my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:05 PM
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I was 36 when I had my daughter so to Do you really think children benefit from having a older dad who can't participate in sporting activites with them and have enough energy to run around? Ultimately, dont children benefit from having younger parents (20s and 30s) rather than parents in their 40s? This answer springs to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:04 PM
1

We just now bought the RV, so I'm not sure exactly how it will work. We (my wife, daughter and I) will still spend the majority of the year in my home town. And I never said traveling the world. I travel in the country a lot and even when I was working I would take a few weeks off to do so. I lost a plate/girl friend because of this last year, but oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:55 PM
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The issue is a woman with a 115 IQ combined with her life-long pussy pass thinks she's a fucking genius. I was recently hanging out with this one woman who fancied herself an intellectual. I myself am pretty intellectual and she and I would have some good conversations about the books she was reading. I flirted pretty hard with her but she just kept acting like her pussy was made of gold and after enough of that I kind of get bored with the attitude and I ended up dating her friend for a while (…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:50 PM
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Certainly right now the best thing in my life is my daughter. My wife is great. I'm a little annoyed at my girlfriend and one of my plates, but overall they are good, and my new plate seems really great. But my daughter is perfect. She has a smile that can make a misogynist's heart grow three sizes. On top of that, there's just something really amazing about the idea that I will be such a large influence in the person she is going to become. That's some powerful shit right there. I've just got a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 08:25 PM
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Thanks for the response. I totally agree that both men and women are affected badly by that date if they are single, and yeah in different ways. Cool about the master's in psych guy.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/15 08:07 PM
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Um, no. I was saying that was pretty obvious. You know, what the quote means. Although I guess it's actually Brett. And just to be clear, since you really had a hard time interpreting the comment the first time, the whole assumption that I would be echoing something from the manosphere is completely retarded. Nothing else warranted a response. He might as well have been asking what operating system the feminists used to do the programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 07:56 PM
1

That's what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 05:15 PM
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Now check out the small brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 04:25 PM
0

Loser incels are a set of people that intersect with men to a non-null set. I don't understand the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 04:24 PM
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"I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and god dammit people like me."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:54 PM
1

My comment was a lot less serious than this but I hope you know that even in third wave, sex positivity is highly controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 01:20 PM
0

This doesn't seem the usually manosphere rhetoric. Check out the big brain on Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 01:05 PM
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Most the queers I know, know how to handle women. Do you even gay, bro?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:05 PM
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Unhappily single old guys My Uncle was one of these. He got married when he was young (which was the custom of that generation), his wife died, and he never married again. When he was in his 60s, he moved in with his mother (my grandmother) and lived with her until she died at about 90. Now the house wasn't his and so it went to him, my father, and their sisters, and there was some kind of shit where he wanted to keep living there and they all sold it out from under him and gave him his share (r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 11:35 AM
1

Feminists programmed men to hate sluts when, really, we should celebrate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 11:32 AM
1

How can men embrace their sexuality/lust positively? Are you seriously asking this question or are you actually asking "How can I embrace my sexuality/lust positively?" Because a lot of your answers apply to men but don't seem to apply to you. You don't want a girlfriend? Ok, your choice, no one is forcing pussy on your cock. Well most men do and most men have one. As far as rape goes, I've been raped by a woman. Checkmate feminists. A large percentage of people drawn to the red pill are those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 11:30 AM
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I'm bisexual (or pansexual or whatever the fuck the retards call it now) and run a lot with the gays and my gaydar is not going off here. What about his comment made you think he was gay (or were you just gay shaming)?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:18 AM
0

Because RedPillWatchTower is a cockgoblin that can't take any kind of criticism of his identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 03:44 AM
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I'm pretty sure that RP people will say a guy is "very RP even though he hasn't heard the Good News." I'm also pretty sure that this question is overthinking some shitty dogma. Like I said in another post on this topic "We can also model red pill and blue pill like it's a giant toroidal donut with yellow sprinkles, and the red pill is on one polar convergence and the blue pill is on the topological antipode. I'm on one of the yellow sprinkles."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 08:58 PM
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To them it's SMV. One man's trash is another man's comeup.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 08:13 PM
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It is. What's wrong with acting like a bitch now and then. I act like an asshole now and then. Everyone has their faults. Stop trying to make everyone perfect around you and you might be able to relax and have a good time. Also, generally in the world of ethics "instinctual" urges are given a pass on being labeled moral or immoral, instead being more like talis qualis as there are no immoral lions, even if they are eating a gazelle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:41 PM
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It's not that popular, but people who like that have a hard time finding people to play with. I hooked up with one sub at a sex club once and I kind of took pity on her after she was lamenting about not being able to find a poop partner. So I shat on her face. Funny story, I was seeing this other woman who happens to be a domme and she said I could use her place whenever I wanted because she was living with her boyfriend. Anyway, of course that is when she decides to walk in. I was kind of glad …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:33 PM
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I think the article complete falls apart here: As it turns out, most if not all Instagram models make their living by being “sponsored,” meaning they get paid to fly to Dubai and have sex with an Arab sheik and ten of his best buddies. Most Instagram models aren't making a living at all. The rest of the article talks about a weird subset of women, not women on Intagram in general. Might be a little bit interesting anthropologically speaking, but not really going to ever effect my life. Did it re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:28 PM
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No, I'm a romantic. While those things can be enjoyed by such, they wouldn't seek them nor go through great efforts to do them. And to be honest, it just seems like you are equivocating now. Be careful, though, if you shift those definitions too much then the original statement will become meaningless. Already I can see you are tightening up the definition of romantic to exclude even more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:12 PM
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Anyway, my point still stands. I wasn't really talking too much about women and the focus on that one statement seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 04:43 PM
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First of all, I do think it's important to say that Red Pill does say those things but then leaves it up to the reader to interpret if it is "good/bad" "flattering/unflattering" whatever. You missed the big one because "Men are polyamorous while women are hypergamous" is a common refrain. So is hypergamous really that bad? I think we all are a little like this, we know it would be nicer to have a mate that can bring us up. How about men being polyamorous? I believe this definitely about myself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 04:36 PM
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Fame can and does add SMV because there are a large pool of men out there who are hot for them (it just comes down to statistics) and it is this desirability in others' eyes that drives desirability in a man's eye. Knowing that he can have what others desire adds to his own esteem. Even Rosanne Barr would pull hot 20-nothings.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:28 PM
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Dang. edited
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 03:58 PM
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I think you are badly generalizing yourself to all men. I think you are badly generalizing yourself to all women. Just to talk a little about the first, I got a chance to see exactly what women go through at clubs with most men a few times because my wife also told me that my views were way off and she wanted to prove me wrong. So we set it up where I wasn't around and she would be inviting and I would be listening. It was really eye opening. I thought that all guys were thoughtful kind of charm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 03:56 PM
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I aim to be in the 'discrete lover' position because it fills my needs and tends to produce less pushes for moving the relationship towards serious and less fallout when the relationship inevitably ends. This is absolutely true. I seek these out because I myself am married (open marriage) and attached women are always better for lowering drama. Still, I would be completely lying if I said I don't get a thrill from it: I do. And it comes out in really perverse ways, where I have them fuck me in p…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:41 PM
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Updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 01:53 PM
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Read this post and the resulting comments. What you are seeing is almost assuredly a skewed reality. Some kind of selection bias in your life has you thinking that RP people and extreme feminists are the norm and they just aren't. Both are tail ends of a normal distribution of emotional range. So you see them as being filled with nothing but hate, and maybe they are. Maybe they had some shitty experiences and can't emotionally deal with it. Most people are like me: have had some shitty experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 01:48 PM
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The damage might be less serious if more men were to practice "day game" I wanted to talk about this but thought my comment was a rambling wall already. But yeah, I do a lot of day game. It's not intentional, I'm just really a horrible flirt and if I see someone in a grocery store who is remotely buying something that I am interested in I'll talk to them. But it's so true, that the numbers for day game are wildly different than for at a bar because those are mostly normal people. Still I think m…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 01:33 PM
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Hey my SMV is objectively high and I agree with a lot of what you are saying here. I've done the regular stuff: hooking up at bars in my truck, hooking up on Tinder, all that shit. Meanwhile, I have a large social circle that involves more private parties and normal life. What I find is this: People at bars have a heavy selection bias going on. I don't mean the group of friends in the back drinking beers and shooting pool, I mean the ones who are at the bar looking to meet people. First of all, …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 12:13 PM
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Yw, it makes all the downvotes worth it lol. People just don't like cuckolders, so I expected them. Actually, I find my chances of success are way way higher than with an average women. When they say something like this, it's almost like they are primed for an affair and I'm having a hard time thinking about a time it didn't lead to sex at some time later on. I'm going to go with definitely above 50% but probably not 100%. I'd say an average woman is more like 25% for me. I do know for a fact th…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:35 AM
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You can tell from my comment history, I'm a big of a perv. One of my likes (not quite a fetish) is cuckolding, especially without the guys knowledge. Now so get with these otherwise attached women what I do is this: when they bring up their boyfriend//husband/whatever, I'll ask "are you a good girl?" If they respond where they have part of their identity as being a good girl (e.g. "Yes, I am a good girl"), then forget it and move on, trying to change an identity takes massive brainwashing and ti…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:27 AM
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Only say this if you actually are. If you aren't then drop her and get a new plate. This isn't about tricking people and stringing them along, it's about demanding what you need in you life and achieving it. If you have abundance mentality, then you would never need to try to con a person into staying.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:59 AM
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I think I would have gone with something like "Oh maybe I shouldn't trust you there either? Are you going to steal something?"
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:48 AM
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do wives stay sexually attracted to their husbands, or do they get bored with the same guy anyway. If you ate steak every day would you get bored with it? Yes, most will get bored. I've banged the wife of an exfootballer and the guy is ripped, gets women throwing themselves at him, etc. It's just simply not enough.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:46 AM
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This doesn't really happen all that often. The internet makes it seem like it because the guys who are happily fucking their wives aren't posting on the internet. I know a lot about my social circle of friends and out of a few dozen couples, only one of them is in this kind of situation. That said, I've often been "the other man" to women in marriages like this. Pretty much the man's physicality isn't the problem, it's that they did something that really pissed the woman off. The most common thi…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:42 AM
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I can attest that women who have said this and then we are fucking later on also will draw a hard line on blowjobs. It seems a little crazy to me but at the same time it's hard to care.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:34 AM
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Because a prerequisite of commenting is subscription, so even if you want to just put in a one word comment of dissent, you have to subscribe. This will artificially increase their subscriber count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 01:31 AM
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I think this debate has a large chance of falling into a "True Scotsman" fallacy due to the inaccuracy of what a "true friendship" is. I think you can have a true friendship with one or the other having an (unrequited) attraction for the opposite. Just because you are hot for someone doesn't mean they aren't a good person to have as a friend. To that point, I think you can have a "true friend" that you also happen to have sex with on occasion. I have many friends of the opposite sex and many of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 01:07 AM
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Topkek means cupcake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 12:31 AM
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Someone told me that the bitches on farmersonly.com go downtown really fast. Never used the site because I'm not in a rural area.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:34 PM
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I don't think I understand your view well. Is it that Most men can be just as selfish and disloyal as most women? Is that kind of a continuum thing or are you somehow converting disloyalty into an objective numerical value and then aggregating across both sets and then comparing? To me, it seems that most people in general will stay committed (I should know, I generally date the ones that don't), it's just that there is some poweful self-selection going on to where you never meet these people, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:30 PM
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Yeah, maybe. One time was on the west coast (totally would expect it) and the other on the east coast. Still, wouldn't do that in certain parts of town here, generally better to back out with a laugh and and a "yo cuz" attitude. Situational awareness is key.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:01 PM
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Only if I'm at a gay bar, you'll get your ass kicked around here if you try that at a straight bar. Are you some kind of homophobe? Edit: This isn't really true, it's rarely needed to dance at a gay bar, you can usually just go straight from talking to the truck. Kino to get a guy's attention for sure, but I can't remember actually dancing up next to a guy.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:41 PM
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I do a lot of what OP does. I'm also waaaaaay better solo than with a wing person. I don't know why but with a wing person I'm content to just hang back and chat with them, but when my guy goes to the bathroom, and comes back, I'm often dancing with a woman. It's because part of how I define having fun is interacting with people. Not women, people. So if my buddy is there and I'm talking to them, I'm having a good time. If I'm alone, then I'm kind of having a bad time, so I just find a person in…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:28 AM
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She says she is bored I've found this can be a powerful motivator. It's why I step out from my wife. It's not that she isn't great because she is (probably literally saved my life two months ago, cooks every meal, raises our daughter well), but she just can't give me attention 100% of the time in a way that captures my attention. So, I have a girl friend and two girls on the side (aka plates) to fill up some of the time when the wife is more occupied. When I meet people, and I've been with many …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:03 AM
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You can complain all you want, but there's a reason why an abusive rapist is the object of desire for literally millions of women across the globe. I used to date a woman who was extremely into rape fantasy. We used to do a lot of role play and this was one of her most common scenarios she requested. I was a stranger breaking in and finding her asleep on the couch, forcing her to do many things to and with me. Truthfully, I like it as well, the "please, stop"s and the "no"s being really exciting…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 03:24 AM
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Men who are 5'8 and 150lbs know not to pick a fight with a guy thats 6'4 and 220lbs. Thats a big dude and he will wreck your life. You say this but... I'm 5'6" and 160lbs and when I've picked a fight with a group of people in the past (this only had to happen twice, thankfully), I singled out the tallest, biggest person in the group and talked directly to them like I had a beef. Two things kind of happen. First the big guy has no idea how to react. No one picks a fight with him so he doesn't kno…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:09 AM
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real life millennial 20-something women are already like all of the stuff I described above. Vacant, blank, uninteresting, and not very intimate, and don't form connections with men anymore A lot are like that. I just don't date those women. I date the, you know, quality ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 01:35 AM
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I cast magic missile at the darkness.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:14 AM
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Wasn't really clear from your story, I see others made the same mistake. Well, if she was sober, then don't worry about it. She's a douche.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:14 AM
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I was raped like this once. A woman knew that I had certain preconditions to us having sex (which included consent from her husband and my wife), and still she invited me over, got me really drunk, and then had me have sex with her. I was pretty blind drunk but I realized at one point what was happening and decided that freaking out wasn't going to be the best option because everyone would freak out (her husband was asleep nearby and he has hands like Gregor Clegane), so I pulled out and made he…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:13 PM
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Get her pregnant. No don't do that, or at least not right away. First of all, the parental limit probably only applies to Chinese dudes. If you can meet the parents, talk about babies a lot, all they care about is becoming grandparents and securing their legacy. The problem with a 48 year old is that when your kids are 18, you will be 65ish (give or take a little because of gestation). Convey clearly that you can handle this. Also, know you probably can't. As for the grandparents, they don't rea…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:36 PM
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Sorry for wasting your time though. No worries, I didn't really read it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:24 PM
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Jesus. When did this sub become /r/livejournal?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 02:55 AM
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"Is this right given modern technology? Who knows." Also still risks in birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 10:14 PM
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It seems like promiscuity carries the same risks and reward amongst all genders This makes no sense when you consider pregnancy. Women must carry the baby and invest themselves into the one baby for at least 9 months. Men can sire multiple children at one time. Also with women there is never a question of materinity while with the man there is a question of paternity. Is this right given modern technology? Who knows. It just answers how men and women are different when it comes to sexuality. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 09:48 PM
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