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When you come across women who bodyshame men, call them out on it instead. Flinging feces at people jusr because they are throwing feces will result in the room smelling like shit twice as much, be better for fuck sake.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:29 PM
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Being disrespectful to people based on their physical appearance is pathetic. Just because somebody ate too many donuts doesn't mean you gotta go out of your way to make them feel bad about themselves, that is extremely low value behaviour and it will greatly hinder your social success. Just because some women are superficial and get away with bodyshaming men does not mean it is a good thing to do it yourself. Strive to be better than them, not equally pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:26 PM
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Oh i see lol, he is entitled to going mgtow Love is our base state, deep inside our body, our life energy if you will, is loving Even when i am unsuccesful with women, choosing to love them regardless has had a positive effect on my mental well being. Less insecurity, emotional pain and more happiness that also influences others to become more happy and loving towards me Those who love women are loved by women
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 03:13 PM
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I have read your comment three times and i still don't know what you mean
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 01:35 PM
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Good post and reminder to love. Yes a real red pilled man loves women whether he is alone or with someone, succesful or unsuccesful.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/22 01:51 PM
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A big poop come from my anus
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 03:17 PM
4

"it shouldn't be this way" No! Humans are exactely as evolution made them to be, therefore embrace it! Do not resist the reality of life unless you wish to make yourself suffer. If you weren't self serving, you wouldn't be alive. If women weren't picky and selfish, humanity would have died ages ago.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 07:03 PM
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"women can't be trusted" you still have a lot to learn i think. As this doesn't apply to just women. All people are self serving by nature, therefore you cannot trust anyone, or atleast, trust people to behave like people. If you can't trust no one, trust everyone. Do not hold expectations onto others and you won't suffer from their behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 01:46 AM
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Woulde ye rather have: biggus poopus OR smallus boobus???? Only real Einsten can awsner this question corectly
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 08:50 AM
10

Calling men beta is kinda beta in itself
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 02:59 PM
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Less excuses more push ups
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 11:19 PM
2

Women are women. They don't have a different operating system outside of the US. No one will betray you unless you set them up to betray you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 05:04 AM
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Being a woman would kind of suck man, there is no conquest since shit just gets handed to you, which makes life dull and boring. And you never know whether men really care for you or if they just want to fuck, seriously this is a super depressing aspect about being a beautiful woman since they know 99% of people are only nice because of their looks. And as they get older, they get less and less attention.. Imagine your whole life lived being desired and then suddenly it's all gone! That's seriou…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 04:59 AM
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They do it based om feeling. They know what they do, but not always why. Men aren't much different in that regard. Take bullying for example, people bully to find out eachother's boundaries, but do they know why they do it? No, they just do it because it feels fun. People in general just operate based on how they feel in the moment. And for a woman to realise she only shittested a guy only to see if he will stand up for himself because that's attractive to her, takes a lot of self realisation th…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:12 AM
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To talk openly about it with anyone in public that isn't red pill aware is autistic and hughly recommend not doing so
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:27 AM
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Since women have been very vulnerable al throughout evolutionary history (especially while pregnant) they pretty much had to develope a superior sense of intuition. Also if you're in a bitter mindset that causes you to call women bitches, they also tend to pick up on that shit. Not nescesarrily saying you are bitter, but in case you are, stop saying bitches.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:05 PM
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You must dare to feel the emotions you're trying to run away from with alcohol. Emotions will never really go away when you drink, they come back once you're sober. You must allow it to happen and cry it out, it will be unpleasant but the longer you keep bottling up your emotions the more you will want to drink. Addiction is refusal to feel emotion.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:01 AM
3

The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago. The second best time is today.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:02 PM
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no, but money also does not make you an alpha
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:11 PM
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money provides resources, and women are attracted to resources because resources are nescesarry to raise kids. this is why women will often fuck the alpha and let the beta provide for the kiddos
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:19 PM
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money can't fix beta
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:18 PM
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Reflect back everytime when it happens and ask yourself why you were naïve, what you were being naïve about and how that gave other people the stick to hit you on the head with. With time you will start recognizing the patterns and you can eliminate them slowly. You need to also practise with setting boundaries, start small and keep expanding it. I don't know your pitfalls or places you need to focus on, but you do. ​ And a general tip that has worked for me is to prepare well for uncertain situ…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:44 PM
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Women may be attracted to you, they just don't say it usually. That said, i've defenitely met women that showed high signs of interest. #1 is when they walk up to you to chat, they want you to escalate and make shit happen though. There's also plenty of other more subtle signs but this is by far the most obvious i've had it, it's a bit of a rare occurence though. Always keep improving and learn to go for what you want in life, women will follow.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:45 PM
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You're playing a game with women, which they enjoy. They do not enjoy when you pause the game, grab the manual and start reading it to them.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:53 AM
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You shouldn't care. It's obvious these women lack any form of self awareness, rather than taking an honest look at themselves in the mirror they blame their dad and their poor choise of boyfriends. They're the female equivalent of a bitter incel. They are all miserable deep inside, i feel sorry for them. Let them have their shitty reddit page, as long as they refuse to better themselves they will always have a shitty dating life. ​ And reddit mods are a bunch of simps for letting it happen, as f…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:36 PM
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1 You already know this, what are you trying to prove? 2 You're wasting your time, do something useful. 3 You're wasting other men's time.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:33 PM
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W/ out reading your post* It's probably better to just consult a doctor bro, good luck.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:42 PM
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Use this one OP it's solid gold. Remember to bring a phone camera/mic in case she goes king kong rampage on you.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:40 AM
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Bro, unless your eye is two inches lower than the other and you have teeth beyond repair you ain't fucking ugly. Get a decent haircut and fine clothes. You don't have to be the best looking guy to do well in life. And even if you're ugly, some guys are in wheelchairs and are still succesful, it's your mindset holding you back. Better yet, DM me a pic of you. I bet you're just normal looking guy.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:52 PM
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It's funny considering how bluepill the entire show is. But in the later season he gets oneitis over Robin.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:49 PM
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While i'm really happy for you I must add; she is pretty dope RIGHT NOW. Things can always change anytime (i speak from experience). I urge you to vet her well before you move in togheter. Thing is, you never really know someone until you move in and you start getting annoyed at each other.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:09 PM
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She either wasn't interested completely or you did something to turn her off. She is implying you're too immature i think, so take an honest look at your own behaviour and extract wisdom from it.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:03 PM
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Would only move in with a woman if you plan to marry her. If not then what's the point?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:42 PM
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And shower
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:47 PM
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I think he is being sarcastic. A lot of women are into written erotic stories. It's their pornography.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:28 AM
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When "friends" do this it really shows they're immature and don't want to take responsibility for their life. Carefully consider if you should still hang out with him. I have a friend like this too. Lives at his parents house, no job or education and i'm tired of his shit. Do as i did. Just say "no" without explanation. He might continue to nag like a little bitch but keep saying no. If he asks for an explanation just tell him he needs to go get his own wallet. I recently demoted him from friend…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:23 AM
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I think this can be good for practise. I am also considering it since i'm abnormally nervous around being sexual. Still practise your on normal girls though, remember the mere act of talking to a woman, gazing in her eyes is already a sexual act in nature. Sex is more than sticking your dick in something and cumming, it's desire, tension between two individuals. That and i'd say go for quality. Find an escort that has a vetting process for her clients, you'll be less likely to get an STD than wh…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:15 AM
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Get better friends if you feel like you're hanging out with toddlers.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:22 PM
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Also consider the fact that a woman has probably had to reject much worse guys than you. She'll be like "thank god he's cool about it", and take it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:55 AM
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It's only going to be awkward if you perceive it to be awkward. I asked out a girl from class, she flaked and i didn''t really care, so i said "fine let me know if you change your mind" I just talk to her casually and i don't bring it up, not like being friends either but keeping it fun.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:53 AM
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Dominance, competency, chasing excellence nomatter what life throws at you
/r/askTRP29/04/21 09:23 PM
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No if she wants to hang out then she probably likes you
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:38 PM
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Depends on if she thinks you're creepy or not.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:12 PM
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This and challenging your own values. Why do you care what others think? "Because bla bla" and why is that? "Well bla bla" why? Ask yourself why 5 times and you will likely get to the root of it. You choose to value what others think more than what you think of yourself, and if you understand WHY that is, then you can tackle it.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:13 PM
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Take it from a 4.5 incher: WOW OMG YOUR SO BIGGG You're well above the average length. Feel better? Now move on to bigger issues.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:32 PM
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That's false. "Fittest" has nothing to do with the type of climate we live in but with adapting to the climate. And also some people will always be fitter than others. Again, if a baby is born tomorrow with sudden apathy to sugary food when he turns 3 years old he will have a huge advantage over others in life. It'll be near impossible for him to turn into a fat fuck.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:06 PM
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You worry too much about her. You can't change who she is or decide what she is going to do. All you can do is love her, or as some say: walk a horse to the water but you can't make it drink. You worry about your own life, you have no control over your sister.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:57 AM
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Imagine you were gay, how'd you like if your sister told about your coming out to your father?
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:44 AM
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This is a great question and the answer is actually pretty simple. Jocks with strong bodies and good social calibration still dominate in attractiveness over the shy nerd because that was key to power and success thousands of years ago. Only very recently has science started to elevate us to achieve amazing things. This is all very new though, our brains haven't cought up on it yet. we still operate on the same brain hardware we did 10.000 years ago because evolution is a s l o w process. Our ca…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:22 AM
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Let her di what she wants man, you can't comtrol her. Let her live eith the descision she's made. She will regret it some day probably when she is old.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:18 AM
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It's not about being good to the man, it's about not feeling guilty about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:43 PM
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Because 1: being honest is hard and hurting someone's feelings suck so it feels less confrontational. And 2: they are scared of making you angry and having you come to their house for an explanation. They just want you to get the hint and move on. You shouldn't take it personal
/r/askTRP24/04/21 01:23 PM
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Spot on bro, i recognize myself in this. But the more aware i become, the less all the shame tactics have effect on me. it's their words vs their actions. Even though i'm still not succesful, my mindset is growing slow but steadily out of it.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:39 AM
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Yeah now that you mention it. I can recall all the times i hung out with people to play games and they weren't into it, now i understand them. Saddest part is my friends are still dedicated gamers and i dread spending time with them when they're gaming. Once you "grow out" of gaming you can't really go back into it, guess it's like a shoe that no longer fits
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:23 AM
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After my breakup i lost 90% interest in gaming. It left me a lot of time to do other things. I've grown and learned a lot, went outside way more and my interaction with women also increased. If you're a hardcore gamer considering to quit i can only recommend you try it, you can always go back to your games at a later point in life but you have a lot to gain from doing other stuff now. Nowadays i can't really play more than an hour and when i game it's good old stuff on dreamcast and gamecube or …
/r/askTRP19/04/21 03:43 AM
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dude whatever to me gay is a spectrum, it's never a total one thing or another. and frankly i don't trust any woman around guys if i am in an ltr with her. women don't have honour the way guys do, so i expect het to cheat as soon as her feelings get aroused. if she is in an ltr with me she won't be having guy friends. in the end she is free to do as she pleases but i won't be around her if she decides to have male friends
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:26 AM
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Not so sure about this one man. Gay guys are often on the bi spectrum too. And a lot of them are very good looking as they spend more time on their looks and clothing. Women often find gay men attractive from my understanding. Their non-needy behaviour probably helps with this aswel
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:25 PM
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So what if you're a virgin anyway? The only reason they taunt you is because you let it get to you in the first place and because they themselves deal with deep rooted insecurity of sexual adequacy. A guy who regularly gets pussy and feels good about himself does not feel the need to beat down on others. So i recommend you learn not valuing their words so much. There's also a different approach and it's to tell em to stop, if they won't listen then you simply walk away. No shouting, no anger or …
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:49 PM
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U cant, and shouldn't ask for consent that way bc it is beta. but always keep your chat history with every girl you been sexual with in case they decide they want to ruin your life.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:22 AM
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Very well said.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:27 PM
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Closure comes from within I saw my ex after we had split, it isn't worth it. Better to cut off contact and be good to yourself
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:02 PM
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Nah i just thougjt ur comment was wholesome and i agree. But a lot of people think red pillers are nysogynists which i think is BS cus i don't see it reflected in it's user base, apart from some whom are in red pill rage
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:00 AM
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And they say the red pill is a hate sub lol
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:55 PM
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The red pill does not condone filming sexual acts without consent you're giving this sub a worse rep than it already has thanks to autistic shit like this
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:30 PM
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Being self aware, knowing your flaws and owning them. Not taking yourself too serious. Being oneself unapologeticallyl
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:21 AM
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I wish you well OP. Go to some online AA meetings, seek connection with other people as much as possible. You're not alone. A and read lots of books. This dark time will pass if you stay strong.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:20 PM
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Im 24, honestly not too succesful with women myself either but at the very least i know it's my vibe whicj i'm working on. I'm average looking but my lack of success ain't because of my looks, i know that for sure. What surgery are u talking abt? Men who are older have many advantages; more life experience, they know better how to treat ladies and they got more money and style. Your physical looks may not matter as much (they still do) but being in shape defenitely is. Also the way you carry you…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:22 PM
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Lmao you look fine dont worry about it. Women worry about their looks, you got bigger shit to deal with
/r/askTRP09/04/21 12:04 AM
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This will pass, be unapologetic tho. If you apologize that's when they'll eat you alive. Stick to your truth, if it becomes unbearable then move to another scjool if possible
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:57 PM
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She already is accusing him of stuff anyway
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:56 PM
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Sounds like you feel guilt and shame, correct? I haven't ever gone through somethug similair myself but i can imagine how hard this must be to go through especially when the bitch accuses you and everyone goes along with her narrative. Sounds like you did nothing wrong if what you say is true. Try to live by your own judgement and ignore what society tells you. You love yourself and you have the right to be here. Through this adversity may you learn to do it, din't give in! I say don't avoid her…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:57 PM
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You should try to explain us why you're afraid of her, maybe then i got some advice for you. But i don't really know what to tell you from just this information alone.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:14 PM
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What makes it not good? Is it the pose, the composition, too tryhard or the fact that it's a selfie?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:11 PM
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Practise having fun by yourself and guys and girls will introduce themselves to you
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:08 PM
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The best negotiation tactic is to walk away and mean it
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:06 PM
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I think having lots of guy friends is more a sign of daddy issues, which then transforms into sluttiness but i could be wrong. And yeah i think so, just listen to your gut. If you think she ain't ltr material then she probs isn't, whatever u do just don't try to transform her into something she's not.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:04 PM
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Imteresting insight
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:53 AM
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Lmao are women really this clueless?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:45 AM
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You forget about 80% of what you read, watch or hear the first time. Repetition is the mother of all skill -Corey Wayne Yes absolutely it's in order. And fix your social life while you're at it.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:45 AM
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I agree and disagree. We white men should indeed focus on ourselves and pity these cucks and incels, because holy shit they're pathetic. An average man who takes responsibility for his life and focusses on making his bread will do a lot better than any of these pricks. But it does worry me that white men are now seen as less vulnerable than any other human being as if we're supposed to have less nerve endings. It's a dangerous development and it will probably get worse if no one puts an end to i…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 04:11 PM
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Next her. It's not about what you say or even how you say it but why you say it. If you validate a woman because YOU want to, then it won't matter too much, still shouldnt overdo it tho. If you do it because you NEED her to like you back, then you're in the shits. You have a case of oneitis for this girl and i can smell it from here, go talk to other girls. Practise your abundance and do not seek their approval.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:07 PM
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You want revenge because someone said a bunch of words that you didn't like to hear. That is not only pretty weak but you're also operating in their frame of mind. They have every right to call you a son of a bitch because you're acting like one. If you're this much of a hothead i suggest you learn to meditate and work on your fragile ego, not to fight. Learn to treat people calling you names like women who shittest, if you react then you've already lost, even when you beat them up.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:16 PM
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Dude with all the autism on this sub how am i supposed to know
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:23 AM
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I see, thanks guys
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:14 PM
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As a psychologist first year student my honest answer is: a mix of both. You have genes that are set for life, those can only change due to genetic mutation, which is usually bad and non beneficial. Then there is environment that shapes you aswel. Your si called epigenetics react to your outside world. It's a bit like an outer layer to your DNA (as far as i understand), that has parts (histones) that can turn on and off depending on your surroundings. You may be born introvert, but you can work …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:48 PM
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Thats terrible advice
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:13 PM
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By making u jealous and paranoid they feel stability in their lives. They know they're desired and they got options
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:07 PM
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Security
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:47 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:01 PM
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Yeah it means she doesn't want anything romantic to happen so she invites over cock blockers. OP, next her
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:06 AM
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It's not them, it's really you holding back yourself. Because you allow it to be in your life and then complain about it. That's what women do, but you're a man. Either you tell them to stop or if that does not work, move out. Or you accept it the way it is. Both ways you are the one who must take responsibility.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:25 AM
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Im in the same boat, this is how a door to door salesman got me to buy into his bullshit contract recently, i couldn't say no cause i felt guilty for some reason, and it sucks. But i believe we need moments like that to teach ourselves the error in our ways, how easy it is for people to exploit our weaknesess. Therefore it'll never happen again. It's a slow process that will require small steps into the right direction. Awareness is the first step. Saying "no" more often is the second, without a…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:36 AM
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How long have u been on nofap? A so called flatline is nirmal but if it goes on for too long then just start fapping again occasionally like once or twice a week
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:35 AM
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By realising other people really can't make you happy. Even if they do it's gone as soon as they leave, you don't want your emotional well being to be in hands of others, you're giving then tio much piwer over you already! Hold yourself in higher regard than that. Dig deeper into your inmer self, there is probably a lot you don't yet know about yourself. Maybe you like to cook, hike, read etc. And by all means do seek connection with other people, just know they can't make you complete like you …
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:26 PM
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What did she mean by "he's learning"?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:11 PM
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I experienced that walking away (and really meaning it, nothing needy) tends to create respect and attraction will rise if any attraction was left to begin with
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:23 PM
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Neill Strauss is 1.66M tall and bald. Just letting u know that it's more about your charisma. All effort you do to cover up your insecurities will only make them that much bigger.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:10 AM
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Baldness is like havign a little dick. Meaning the embarrassment you feel over it is worse than having the thing itself. Women don't really care, they care only about CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE Own ur baldness
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:00 PM
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Women's biology won't change anytime soon so cold approaching etc will still work. I recommend anyone not to consume too much media because it will make you self conscious to even look at a woman. Im what universe should a man appologize for looking at women and being sexual? It's a nation wide shit test to weed out the nice guys, the assholes dgaf
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:48 AM
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Didn't read past headline. But generally: women have so many options, a date is nothing to em. And women obey their emotions, not their words
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:15 PM
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Not to sound like an asshole, i know 1500 is a lot of money but the amount of effort this is gonna gost you you might aswell just work for it and forgrt about this bitch and her money
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:55 PM
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Don't loan money to peers period, only bad things can happen from it
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:53 PM
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Yeah its over dude. Just leave her, and do not explain nomatter what u do. Whatever explamation you give she will use to turn it around and make you the bad guy, so stay strong and don't give her that power over u. Also start seeing other girls asap, good luck
/r/askTRP18/03/21 10:00 PM
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Vasectomy's are awesome. I got one yesterday, then my wife's boyfriend came to see me and gave me a nintendo switch
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:47 PM
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You're welcome, you can DM me if you need advice. Now log off for awhile and live your life.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:43 AM
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Exactely my friend. It's all in your head! Women really aren't out to get you, women are indifferent to your suffering, but also women love you, they just want you to be strong and have FUN!
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:39 AM
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Take a break from the red pill information and focus more on having fun. Whenever you meet women, implement fun aswel. You can libe life taking it very serious but you will only harm yourself, women can't help you, i can't help you, no one but yourself. I challenge you, stop thinking about female nature and you will feel happier.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:26 AM
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Thanks for your advice, as i am currently 15-20% body fat, perhaps i should first focus mainly on getting to 10%. Meanwhile i'll still workout but my gains will be minimal. And i will look into TRX
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:51 PM
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I think you didn't read my text. As i explained, i am incapable to do heavy lifting due to medical condition. I can do heavy weight and so i've done before, it's just it destroys my heart in the long run. I wanted to know what my options are with cardio, light weight and body excersize alone so i don't have to die from heart attack.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:49 PM
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I think you didn't read my text at all. It's really not that i don't want to, but i am physically incapable due to medical conditions as i explained. That's why i came here for advice to see what my options are. This quote means nothing.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:45 PM
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Try it out and see for yourself. Considering the fact that so many different factors contribute to a woman's attraction to men there isn't a 100% fool proof answer to your question. Some guys say all the right things and still get the wrong result. So just try it out and if it fails you will learn from it.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 07:56 PM
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Will do that, thanks bro
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:33 PM
5

While that is true i wouldn't really want to do it just for the women but because it makes me feel good. But yeah feeling good about my body would add that extra confidence boost that is likely to help with women. If this all fails i will follow your advice and look for other sources to gain confidence from. Thanks a lot for your advice
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:32 PM
1

Atm i'm around 15-20% a slight skinnyfat physique, how'd that affect my gains precisely? Honestly i don't wish to be a full on jacked bodybuilder (since its unrealistic for me anyway) but having strong big arms, a flat stomach with abs shown and a bigger chest would be more than enough for me, so it sounds like light weight could accomplish that
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:30 PM
31

Can you comtrol the desire for your favourite food? You may, but you'll still want to eat it.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:06 AM
8

1
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:37 PM
13

I suspect simply cause you believe enjoying sex is wrong. You worry over other people's judgement more than you worry about your own happiness. Realising this is the first step to unplugging from your nice guy facade.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:12 PM
1

Lol if she touches ur dick while saying that then she is just shit testing to see if you will go for what u want. She wants to feel your stregnth before she lets you enter her pussy. You failed the test but next time you know better.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:59 PM
9

So she touched your dick and you didn't go for it? What was holding u back?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:01 AM
5

Ye
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:51 AM
2

It's pretty much a biological drive and most men have it. You want to scatter your seeds in order to reproduce, that simple! Best try to enjoy it
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:35 PM
5

Who cares if she thinks of you as vulnerable? Do what feels good for you. This girl knows you want to fuck her but she won't let you. She likes you enough for attention though, so she keeps talking to you even when you ignore her. I suggest two things, either you block her and move on despite your feelings. Or you bring her an ultimatum and say "either we have romance or i want to stop all communication, i'm a busy guy and i don't want to spend time with you if you ain't got the same interest in…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:33 PM
10

First and foremost you should block her and quit contact everywhere. No explanation required, this is for your mental health. You need to process the fact that it's over and go through the griefing process. I suspect deep down you're hoping she'll come back somehow but it's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:00 PM
13

I got a pill for you that'll rid you of fear and i call it the gift of fear exposure. Before i tell you about this pill, understand fear. Fear is a very important and valuable emotion. Without fear, life would not be valuable, cause the root of all fear is caused by the possibility of death. And the fear for death is what makes you appreciate being alive, you have to grasp this concept, change your relation to fear & understand it's importance, befriend it. The reason fear is so unbearable to yo…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:37 PM
2

1 you're not the only man feeling this, so hope it helps you to know you're not alone. We all feel this way, even the blue pill beta men who deny it, they still feel it at a subconscious level. They know deep down women choose assholes over nice guys despite berating the nice guy for being an oppressor, much worse for them is they're in denial about it. 2 you're not the only man who thinks like you, we just don't say it out loud because of hate mobs and (weak male) feminist shit smearing us for …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:04 PM
1

Your pics don't stand out very much. Have some more (higher quality) action photos, group photo w/ friends (esp if u got female friends) and pets. Besides that your description comes off as a little negative, not sure if that's a deal breaker or not but do some research in bios that actually work. Good luck
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:53 AM
0

Your style is a bit, well... Gay. I know women do love gay men. But you have that submissive girly gay guy look yo you, which i suppose is a deal breaker. For example, in your first pic you have your arms tucked in, as if to say "i'm small, i ain't no threat!" So i recommend you work on your body language and dress a little more manly. Get a shorter haircut Drop the earring Don't over dress yourself Work out & Don't take urself too seriously Also i been reading your replies, you seem very defens…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:18 PM
3

Women expect man to pay, nomatter how much feminist diarrhea they spew, they want to be taken out by a gentleman who takes care of everything and she's just along for the ride. YOU decide where to go, where to sit and for how long AND yes you pay for the first date. If you two been togheter longer it's fine for her to pay if she insists. That's why you keep your first dates inexpensive and lighthearted, a walk in the park is free. If you feel chemistry you take her further for a couple of drinks…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 01:47 AM
37

No but worrying about what happemed like crazy IS social suicide. I had a panic attack while giving presentation in class, whole room full of girls. Just own it, you're not made of stone.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:56 PM
3

Do i sense jealousy? "Looks" as in facial features are not nearly as important as looks in term of style and attitude when it cmes yo seduction
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:07 PM
1

Alright man cheers. I still don't have much success, but like you said it's the idgaf attitude that i still need to work on. By the time i reach your age i'll be doing better.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 12:04 PM
21

Do you cold approach, dating apps or both? & How good where you with girls at 24?
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:53 PM
1

Unconscious beliefs are tricky to change, i also struggle like you. The only way to change a belief is evidence, positive reinforcement. So seek small easy things to test out that you feel comfortable doing at first. Don't try to shoot too high at first, like putting on some fake persona cause that won't work.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:22 PM
5

You shouldnt care, grab ur nuts and dump her
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:54 PM
4

U can have the most perfect teeth and jaw and still suck with girls. Don't do this just for the women is all. It's more powerful if you learn to love your look than if you go through all this pain just for some cosmetic difference, you decide
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:15 AM
14

She's horny and wants to see your dick. Do i really need to explain more to you? Like i said if you don't wanna send it then don't do it... You can also tell her to come over later tonight. Her pussy is literally wet for you and you're overcomplicating it already.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:01 PM
33

YK not everything a woman does is to see if she can make you her bitch. It's stress like this that'll actually alienate your girl in the long run. Just send her the pic if you want to, if you don't then don't do it. Just don't ever do anything to a woman as a means of getting her approval and you'll do just fine.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:32 PM
3

I agree. As Mark Manson stated in one of his books. The pursuit of self improvement is in itself a reinforcement of "not feeling good enough". But it depends kinda. On one hand, seeking to improve is nescesarry, but doing it out of a feeling of "not being good enough" will always result in feeling more shitty about yourself. Sometimes self help is indeed not the answer. But do not let my message be an excuse for you to not go to the gym and work hard in your career
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:17 AM
3

It doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it. This rule applies to other things as wel, such as selfies. It doesn't really matter. But if you're all self conscious about this, it's gonna ruin the simple fun of taking a memorable picture togheter. You're not in the moment, you're supoosed to enioy yourself
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:47 PM
8

Post: talks about attention span being shorter than ever Reddit autist: pOst Too lOmG!!!!
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 10:42 PM
9

It depends! But yeah reading self help without taking action is like porn to the ego. The man who takes action is still going to be more suvcesful than the one that just reads books. But the man who takes both action and reads books has the best of both worlds
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:48 PM
1

Whatever enjoy being mad at women
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:12 PM
1

How exactely are you supposed to "train" a woman you already broke up with?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:03 PM
1

What'd be the point of that? Women do what women do. And not just women shittalk their exes, men do it too, maybe just as much. There's zero point in trying to go against human nature. You can get mad all you like but it'll change nothing. You can call women out on their bullshit, it'll change nothing. I am not defending women, i am just explaining them. Stop reacting so strongly to the way other people behave
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:57 PM
25

If a woman does this, it's to make her feel better about herself. Women (many humans in general) don't handle rejection/breakups well, so they will do anything to remove the unpleasant feeling of taking responsibility. It's not that she wants to spread rumours out of ill intend, she doesn't just wake up and think "golly jee today i'm gonna behave like a huge cunt!!". She just doesn't want to feel shitty about herself
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:13 AM
1

Gotta remember this one
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:59 PM
4

By the way i really have no idea what you're trying to say in this post
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:06 AM
3

Bruh you don't smile with your eyes? See the difference for yourself https://images.app.goo.gl/Y7kcGUevjktyZ8JQA
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:05 AM
1

OP i get how you feel, i sometimes still dream abt her and i wake up sad. Unfortunately for you the guys who commented before me are right! Stoo longing for someone who doesn't want you back, have some self respect. Grow some balls and walk away for good. Doesn't mean it won't hurt, but this is your reality now. Best you try to get back into dating and see other women
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:43 AM
1

You're not going to jail and here's why. Women are afraid of men, and they're afraid to reject them because many men take rejection poorly. In case they don't want you it's FAR easier for them to just give their number and be done with you. 99,9999% of women won't blow up in your face, they're too scared. So you just ask her out politely with a cocky smirk on your mug and you'll be OK, seriously stop being afraid of false accusations you're not worth the trouble in their eyes
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:38 AM
1

Stay strong king. Better times ahead, take your time to process everything. This pain is supposed to be unbearable, you're doing ok.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:43 PM
2

This is very true. It takes a man's ability to set aside his own ego for a bbit to see this. Just because women can fucj anyone anywhere does not mean it means shit to them. They are picky by nature and it's their curse, they have a much harder time finding what they're looking for
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:40 PM
1

Whats the product in question
/r/RedPillBooks12/01/21 05:09 PM
1

It's understandable, but the resolution is simple. You state what you think of their jokes and if they don't listen, then they don't respect your feelings. That's not what a friend should do. Now i understand male friends constantly nag eachother which is fine, but jokes like these can ruin your reputation. If they don't listen you should find other friends
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:07 PM
-2

Surprisingly through showing vulnerability and telling people how certain things make you feel IS actually a good way of making a point, even with women IMO. Even when their attraction drops, they won't doormat you anymore. Thing is, most people are NEEDY and therefore their vulnerability is seen as weakness. But telling it how it is without being outcome depended is a sign of strength. And just because you've known em since you were 5 doesn't mean you need to keep hanging out with em, you owe e…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:34 PM
1

Volunteering is great but may i ask why wouldn't you rather have a regular job? You get to meet people your own age and it pays money
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:25 PM
1

This is a crutch. OP will become dependend on it if he uses it. He is better off to face his fears like a man so that he can rely on himself naturally
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:04 PM
1

Its all qbout the manipulation aspect of being nice that turns women off. If you do nice things for her and expect sex or love to be rewarded to you for example, it does not work like that, those are female dating strategies. Be nice on your own terms and without expecting or being needy of someone to like you Non neediness will change everything about you
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:31 AM
6

I worked in a restaurant where i didn't have good relation with my higher ups. I simply left. No restaurant work is worth getting yelled at comstantly
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:14 PM
2

I been to therapy and have been offered solutions. Not every therapist offers the same type of treatment. There are a lot of mediocre and bad therapists out there unfortunately that work inefficiently. And OP, i recommend you find a male psychologist. Not saying female ones are bad (if you have trouble being in touch with your emotions a woman might even be better, but beware) men can offer better advice to other men especially an older man than you
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:32 AM
1

If i was in your shoes i'd get a job as a janitor before i think of killing myself. By doing simple work i got a lot more free time and within a year i figured out what i am good at. Now i study psychology. Maybe dental is not your thing, otherwise you'd have been motivated enough to pass your exam. But seriously, if dental is making you miserable, it is more productive to enjoy a low status job than a high status job you hate. Don't kill yourself over a stupid job and start taking some responsi…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:15 PM
1

you must NEVER identify as an incel bro. That's the sane as identifying as ugly or boring. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. Stop it right now
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:42 AM
1

It can last for years
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:50 AM
1

Is your main focus when you go on dates to have FUN? Or are you worried about it going well?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:15 PM
4

Hey man, there is a whole thread of books somewhere here already. But no book can help you better than goimg out and practise. Next time you're standing near the cash register ask the shop clerk if they had a nice christmas
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:49 AM
2

Thats just how they are
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:40 PM
1

Everything a woman says and feels is real, in that specific moment. The next day her feelings may be different
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:10 AM
3

Your goal is not yo get rid of bad habits but to obtain good ones. So i recommend you start small. Pick ONE thing and be very consistent with it. Make a schedule and stick to it. Once that has become a good habit you're ready to implement more good habits
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:49 AM
2

Bro you're jealous and it's okay. This is an emotion you need to learn to deal with No one gives a fuck that you're jealous, your ex doesn't give a fuck about you and right now she is getting railed at her new bf's place. ACCEPT IT! I'm sorry you're going through this feeling When my gf left, she got into a relationship with the first tinder match she found. A much more successful guy than me with a good degree, job and own appartment and shit like that. Meanwhile i had nothing, i still got noth…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:43 AM
1

Another question, anyone else experiences extreme fatique or light headedness/shortness of breath after working out to failure? Perhaps it's my health condition but was wondering if anyone relates to it
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:44 PM
6

Same i want to see what he looks like, bet he just looks like a normal guy
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:43 PM
8

Same i want to see what he looks like, bet he just looks like a normal guy
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:43 PM
30

Nothing changes, nothing at all. See, we always think "if i get from X to Y THEN i'll be happy" but that happiness will last for 2-3 days and then you're back to feeling like you did before, i'm dead fucking serious
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:35 PM
5

Basically he asked if he's a psycho. He's admitted to phantasizing about fucked up shit happening to people who didn't give him what he wants and also bragged about stalking girls, showing up to her home, taking pictures etc. Look at his post history, the guy keeps posting the same shit. He shouldn't be on this sub. He probably is not a psycho, just a bum without social skills
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:31 AM
2

Get professional help, but all that won't work if u can't aconowledge that stalking people is not ok
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:27 AM
2

Bullshit excuses from a low life creep
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:23 AM
3

It's sad
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:22 AM
4

It makes you a fucking low life creep that's for sure
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:19 AM
4

Needed to read this today, thanks
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:47 PM
9

I used to be the biggest nice guy and landed a LTR with a beautiful girl. My behaviour eventually turned her off after 3 years but the point is whatever i did worked for me, i even was a male feminist. Who knows, he just makes her feel good. Worry about ither things than her
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:09 AM
3

Stop identifying as an awkward autist is step #1 Let people speak and LISTEN and if in doubt asl them what they mean
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:39 PM
1

Sounds too thirsty for me honestly i think this would backfire
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:08 PM
12

Do you relaly want to base your self worth on what a woman thinks of you? It's okay to like validation but you gotta wonder if you can do without it and be equally happy in life
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:47 AM
2

Everything you need is already within you, a course is a waste of money. If you're socially awkward yiu just gotta keep practising with talking to strangers Charismatic people appear careless and they enjoy the moment
/r/askTRP21/12/20 02:27 AM
9

Some chicks dig bald dudes
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:54 AM
6

Grow a beard if u can
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:54 AM
3

Good luck man
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:54 AM
1

Smile and wink, because deep down you know they just attracted to you
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:21 PM
3

Fill up some water bottles and do excersizes with them, read a book and learn something new We are all in lock down, we all think if sucks. You aren't special in feeling this. It's uo to you to make the best of it, lying in the couch doing jack shit is your choice
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:12 PM
27

This is the advice you need OP! Get a hobby that attracts cool people, so a sport or cooking class. Avoid nerdy things, nothing wrong with it but that tends to attract socially awkward nerds. Be genuinely interested in people that you want to befriend, ask questions and just enjoy yourself. You are 23 do not give up!
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:50 PM
2

He does mot offer any solutions to the intersexual probpems men may face. It makes it easy for chumps to turn bitter
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:53 AM
2

Some women do think like that, but it's a really dumb way of testing. If a woman really likes you, she wouldn't ignore you like that. She probably isn't interested
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:50 PM
2

Just dont get your feelings involved too much OP. She will cheat on you as well as soon as she feels like it
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:09 PM
0

Thanks man! All the best to you, keep your mind and spirit strong. You've got only up to go when you're in the low
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:44 AM
1

Hey man same happened to me since 1.5 years ago. Haven't even managed to date since. So i don't really have much solid advice i can give you other than, you're not alone in this. Make sure you find a way to extract confidence and self love from inside, and do not wish to rely on others, that is a weak mentality. I know it can be tough to learn this, but once you embody emotional self reliance, your life will become better!
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:25 AM
1

For the small amount of 5,99 i'd just buy it https://www.bol.com/nl/p/legendary-lover/9200000078496324/
/r/RedPillBooks13/12/20 03:53 PM
3

I got a simple solution. Get of your fat ass and learn something valuable like sales. Get real good at one thing, give it your all. You're still somewhat young but before you know it you will be 35 with the same degree-less sedentary life and you won't have nobody, not your parents, not women and not society to blame for it but yourself. Also read, lift and run
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:35 PM
3

Meditate and lift
/r/askTRP11/12/20 07:49 AM
2

You are so young still, i wish i was 17 when i was at the level of maturity you're at now:) i'm almost 25 and i just moved out - having no game at your age is forgivable, one homework task i'd like to give you is to practise small talk and banter immediately from now on. I like to practise with cashiers and so on, since it's only a brief moment of seeing them. Just ask them if they had a nice weekend, any plans for the holliday? Get creative! Girls loooOOOooove to talk, talk, talk. Man just asks…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:01 AM
3

I'd say it's bad when you consume it a lot and are not getting laid. Then it's used as a replacement for the real thing. If you have no trouble talking to girls, get laid om satisfactiomary rate and have no trouble getting it up in bed porn is okay. Otherwise stay away. And imo, the less porn you watch the better regardless
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:41 AM
1

Thanks Edit: i can see what you mean by his mindset. Also this book is funny as fuck, thanks so much for the recommendation
/r/askTRP10/12/20 05:57 PM
1

Haven't heard of that one before, will check it out man
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:47 AM
1

Noted
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:40 PM
2

As long as you change on your own terms it is fine, don't do it to please others
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:00 PM
11

If they gossip with you, they will likely gossip about you. Knowing this it's up to you to decide
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:54 PM
1

This is a simple practise i use, get in confrontations. Disagree a bit more with people Say "no" more, especially when you fear their reaction Can i borrow your car? "No" and you don't need to explain shit either. Sit out the awkwardness. And asking ither people for favours is a good way of training yourself in getting what you want Learn to put yourself first
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:38 PM
2

Hey same happened to me awhile ago. She flaked on me and got back with her ex. Couple months later she messaged me to say she missed me, what she meant is she missed my attention. You learned a hard lesson there, don't be mad at her. Just go out and live life, you'll find someone better.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:35 AM
1

I disagree on viewing them as far below myself. (Albeit a little bit hehe) I just prioritize myself over her, over anyone for that matter. But if it works for you then keep doing what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:06 PM
7

This, i've come to find that beautiful girls are often very insecure. It helps to focus on an imperfection of them when you talk to them so you do not see them as perfect beings. They're human just like you and me.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:17 PM
2

Women are human beings. To hate half of the population means hating humanity, it means to hate oneself. Incels are not bitter at women, they are bitter at themselves for lack of success and confidence around women. It is not the woman's fault. To blame anyone else but yourself for your misery is holding on to a victim mentality, it will not serve you
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:58 AM
1

Dude you cant be asking this forreal. Why arw you SO concerned about being beta? If u like working out someplace then workout. If u dont like it there leave, simple!
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:10 PM
3

Its 5 billion years actually
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:29 PM
3

Do not ask "how do i stop having feelings" YOU ARE HUMAN AND HUMANS HAVE EMOTIONS Ask yourself "how do i deal with feelings in a healthy way?" Learn how to love without attachments or expectations. Be happy with or without the person in question. Having an awesome fulfilling life makes this easier for you Nature gave you feelings for a reason, it's what makes you human. To try and hide them (and you won't be succesful) will make you non-human. Allow yourself to fall in love, and to feel heart br…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:09 PM
2

Life happens, own your mistakes and take whatever lesson you can learn from it. You just crashed your car and you seem to worry about people's opinion more than the well being of your friends, show some empathy. Be glad you are all ok, be grateful for being alive
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:24 PM
7

If u dont give her any explanation it'll drive her nuts and she'll nag you about it for long probably. I say good, cause she has been a dishonest woman and dishonest women do not deserve closure from good men. She night start cryung her eyes out, all to manipulate you into feeling sorry for her, don't take the bait. If you do give her an explanation she'll likely use the info to justify it in her head, do not give that satisfaction to her. All the luck man, take care of yourself. Again she lost …
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:24 PM
2

The power of now is a great book abour anxiety and letting things go. If u havent read it i highly recommend that you do. It isn't a bad idea to back off from the self help a bit either. Good luck
/r/askTRP20/09/20 11:42 PM
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