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Richralph/r/seduction14/12/15 08:48 PM
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Scares the shit out of me but it can be managed. If I am having casual sex with a girl I always use a condom and finish outside of her. I also only date girls who have the same life outlook as me (I.e no kids for 3-5 more years and therefore they would want an abortion too).
/r/seduction26/12/15 09:20 PM
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I don't know if this is a troll or not. If there was any way to identify this guy I would report him to social services so they can check he is ok
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:16 PM
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"Want to go for drinks on Saturday?" There's nothing needy about that. It demonstrates confidence and a desire to get why you want. It would become needy if you got upset if she was busy or if you made yourself free all the time to see her. She's your girlfriend - your way over thinking this!
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:33 PM
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No one can tell you if it is a failed date - unfortunately you are just going to have to see how it plays out with her! However here is what I would have done differently: Moved venues either instantly or after one drink. In my city I know 3-4 good bars that are near each other and any first date is in one of them. Then depending on the mood/environment I move to at least one other if not two during the date. Theres real psychology behind this because when individuals have visited multiple locat…
/r/seduction26/11/15 08:40 PM
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Medication helps but any good therapist will suggest further changes in lifestyle too. Its all part of a wider scheme to get better. To the OP my family has a severe and significant history of depression and it can be beaten. Don't give up. Get some self help books to help yourself begin thinking properly. Discuss with your mum medical help or a psychologist but a mental home is the most ridiculous idea ever in the current situation! You will be fine in the long run :)
/r/seduction26/11/15 08:33 PM
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He should give up drugs too. Sure they are fun (and I have done some) but more often than not they are not conducive to a productive life. If they are they should certainly be in moderation, the same as drinking etc. Monging out on weed and psychodelics is short term fun but will not help this guy get a long term satisfactory life. Imagine if every time he did that he went to the gym instead or took up another hobby etc. Instead of monging out he should ask some of his few mates to hang. It migh…
/r/seduction26/11/15 08:29 PM
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Sorry for a slow reply but I work at the Big 4 (accountancy/financial consultancy)
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:20 PM
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Always text. She might not pickup a call because she is busy, did not hear it or does not want to talk right now. That's fair enough but what if she misses the next to? Calling a third time looks needy and desperate. Texting is non-invasive and waves the ball in their court.
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:17 AM
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"I try to push interactions as far as possible, but because people are busy with class I usually have to settle for numbers." If your pushing it to hard then you may be coming across as a bit creepy whereby giving you their number becomes a way to get rid of you, not hook up again. Even the best will tell you they would really struggle to get 7 dates a day - unfortunately some of these girls just won't be attracted to you, however giving you their number is easier than saying no :) Then again yo…
/r/seduction19/09/14 03:13 PM
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If your smoking every day then cutting down will also save you a shit ton of money. Money you could use to:get gym membership, take girls out etc. It will also help you lose weight. I know smoking slowed my weight loss as I got horrific munchies
/r/seduction19/09/14 03:03 PM
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Do you talk to her much? If so then wait until an office party and make your move then. Alternatively make smaller moves, for example when you go for lunch invite her with you under the prelim of a catch up. I would also be tempted to suggest you go for drinks with her. You can always gauge her reaction, if she looks a bit hesitant then joke about it "oh... not in that way." Heck, even if she is excited be like "calm down girl, I'm not promising anything." This will help diffuse any sexual tensi…
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:49 PM
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I think a great problem of the seduction community is that it teaches you how to bed a girl but not really be with a girl. I actually have the opposite problem to you in that I end up falling into relationships I am not necessarily committed to (in addition a lot of girls I want to be serious with I cant even fuck!). Part of this I imagine is because of my lifestyle (high powered job, house, decent salary, well educated etc) which means a lot of women see me more date-able than fuckable (or 'mar…
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:42 PM
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Maybe it works for you but personally I find that a bit sleazy. Personally (and this is what I do) I think it comes across way better if you just say "Right, I want to meat you and go for drinks. Lets say 8pm Wednesday at XXX" I just think that is better because Tinder clearly doesn't suck (otherwise why are you using it) and you most likely dont hate txting (if anything it makes it a bit more awkward for her to keep txting you) Just my 2 cents
/r/seduction16/09/14 01:58 PM
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It doesn't affect how I feel about the girl at all. However I reckon knowing that she really likes me definitely plays into my hands. I feel way more relaxed and in control, which I am sure comes across as more attractive to the girl. Then again I have always enjoyed the spooning/relaxing with the girl, not the chase/dating phase more
/r/seduction16/09/14 11:58 AM
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I am sure if you google the authors it will come up on google. Off the top of my head I know Mark Manson's 'Models' will be one of them :)
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:45 AM
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This conversation is really boring but some of the pointers are helpful
/r/seduction11/07/14 01:56 PM
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I think it is great to have this library of advice but christ if you are reading this many books then it is almost pointless. By this stage what is holding you back is not how many books you have read, but your refusal to engage with the material and go out there actively doing what they suggest! edit: I guess what I am trying to say is that there comes a point where continued reading adds almost zero value compared to forcing yourself to go out there and begin actioning upon previous knowledge
/r/seduction08/07/14 02:07 PM
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A great way to respond is to joke back in a rediculous way. For example joke that you will do the complete opposite, as in "oh actually I was going to crash the car into the tree over there" If you deliver it well then not only does it make people laugh but it also subtly points out how rediculous and controlling they are. The latter is important as it achieves the same goal as if you had directly said that, however it does it in a way without sounding butthurt
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:52 AM
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I don't know about Brazil but this is VERY expensive for most of South East Asia. Just spent a month in Vietnam and Thailand and I spent $50 a day. This includes everything (food, accom, travel (not the flight out) activities, renting mopeds, getting pissed). If you travel alone just stay in dorms (loads do it) and you meet so many people all the time. This in itself would be great personal development. I did Nepal a whole back and that's even cheaper. A trek to Everest all included will be less…
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:46 AM
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Sounds like you have shit friends mate. Im the opposite, think I am not that good looking but my mates say I am ok. Either way having a great physique, good dress sense and being well groomed is 90% of the work. If your friends can't appreciate that and keep pulling you down then call them out on it. I would be interested to know if they have had any gfs? Seems like jelousy
/r/seduction27/06/14 05:11 AM
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This makes no sense. Some girls ignored you online and therefore your raging and going to quit? Get over it dude. Girls online get hundreds if not thousands of messages from guys. Expecting every single one to reply is unrealistic and unfair. What made you stand out? Why should she spend 5-10 minutes checking out your profile to decide if she wants to respond? Of which even if she sees your message there are hundreds of reasons she may not reply. Maybe she is now seeing someone? Maybe she just d…
/r/seduction23/06/14 03:14 AM
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Mate your thought process is all over the place! Calm down (although I know how uselss this piece of advice is!). I feel with yourself there are a few areas you could improve which are not even related to seduction. You are clearly doing an immensely good job recovering from depression and you should be very proud of this (trust me I have lost multiple family members who never made it through). However there is a long way to go! I am no expert but here is my take: be more comfortable with your j…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:58 PM
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Why are you posting so many fake stories to subreddits? In the last 24h you have had a milf flash her tits, two girls sleep in your bed, the above and then loads more. Kind of weird making up all these stories dude. Even if you were a sex god this amount of stuff wouldn't happen in 24h. Of which another post if yours talks about your social anxiety in a hairdressers (not consistent with all the above stories)! Mate I would recommend reading Models (read the sidebar). I feel the outlook on life w…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:25 PM
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Dude if you read anything in this community you would know this is not true. The girls are likely saying this due to their own insecurities. By publicly announcing they hate ugly guys approaching them they are basically trying to convince everyone else they are attractive. Of which girls who only care about looks are usually those who only have looks themselves. Personally I do not think you should care what these girls think. They are clearly not girls I would like to spend time with and I imag…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:13 PM
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It's their own insecurity. Maybe a few are naturally good with girls and genuinly with a girl they like, however I imagine most are insecure and unwilling to accept they could improve. By bullying you it justifies their inadequacy to deal with their own issues. I.e. if they say only losers read these books then that it justifies their refusal to read them itself (of which this refusal is due to their own inability to accept they are not perfect). Just ignore it, will go away in a few weeks and t…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:07 PM
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Try and get rid of the idea that she is special. Every girl is special to someone, but very few are flat out special to everyone. I guarentee you if you go meet some others then within no time you will be looking back and realising that whilst a great girl she is not unique and not necessarily the one. In regards to your original question then to be honest I would walk away. You suggest you have been friend zoned four times? Im not sure what you mean by this, did it turn sexual four times as wel…
/r/seduction15/06/14 05:30 PM
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You got some real insecurities about yourself man. It's incredibly selfish to wish that on someone simply because you are jelous
/r/seduction13/06/14 04:26 PM
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Is there any chance you could link a few of your photos as examples? How long do you spend swiping each day? Interested in how you got 400 matches really
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:31 PM
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