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| 4 | Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s.It's because her skin is smooth, her boobs aren't saggy, she's tight, shes just physically better. It's not bloody complicated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:23 PM |
| 8 | Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s.This is true for some men, but that's not the same as wanting to manipulate people. Someone with baggage and resentment from dozens of failed relationships isn't exactly fun to be around, especially if they haven't improved themselves. True for any gender combination. Skin care is key to presenting younger, for any gender combination. Use sun screen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easyIt was physical maturity around puberty, that's what they meant when they said "girls mature earlier than boys". Nothing to do with emotional or cognitive maturity, just puberty. You're welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easyI'm honestly surprised by how intensely you have been hurt by this comment. But words don't justify your attempts at social violence (shaming). What about being grateful to people who provide for your physical needs is so offensive for you? Am in incorrect in any part of my statement? I don't think I am, and I think it infuriates you that your ideology is so ridiculously easy to discredit. Maybe you should go back to school? Perhaps learn something which isn't just a complicated form of mean spi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easySo damned entitled you think it all happens by magic like a princess in a castle. How about you show some gratitude to the literal armies of men who keep you safe, feed you, perform dangerous jobs which make your lights work and your toilet flush, not to mention the geniuses that make your magic phone work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easyBusiness an social science's, as taught, are a net negative. One gives us sociopath MBAs and the other gives us post structuralist attempts to "seize the means of epistemological production" and demand we believe 2+2= whatever they say it does. Both utterly moronic enterprises. Philosophy is still mostly ok. But none of it is necessary for survival | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:36 PM |
| 10 | Generalizing by Gender Is Lazy and HarmfulGender is just racism for biological sex anyway, we should stop using patriarchial constructs like "masculine" and "feminine" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Do girls mature faster than boys? How is “maturity” defined?Mostly it means females start puberty earlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Do girls mature faster than boys? How is “maturity” defined?Females enter puberty earlier than boys, they were taking about "sexual maturity " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Do girls mature faster than boys? How is “maturity” defined?When you were in school and heard someone way "girls mature earlier than boys", they meant females start puberty earlier on average. You just misunderstood, and continue to. It's nothing to do with emotional maturity or whatever,. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easyAs a STEM graduate its important to remember that most non-stem courses are essentially baby talk nonsense. If you adjust for the difficulty and usefulness of the degree (eg. Engineering vs Gender Studies), men obviously dominate in everything which is necessary for civilization, women mostly do "garden party" type subjects which are only relevant when all physical requirements are already taken care of. But basically yeah you're right that university should only be for people with high IQs, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.Emotional cheating is just jealousy with fancy clothes, but having a relationship with an adult content creator of any kind just seen kinda pathetic. Like those dudes (typically) who believe the hooker is really into him, or groupies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 10:24 AM |
| 11 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHow does a guy know you are amazing before he gets to know you over weeks and months? Or are you just talking about brain chemistry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 10:19 PM |
| 0 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.Careful, by confirming that the identities of the owners is what makes the difference in your mind, rather than the business practices, you are saying the quieter part out loud. Namely that you think men and women have different moral value based purely on their identity rather than their actions. Which of course is bigotry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 08:07 AM |
| -1 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.But do any of us really have free will in capitalistic society? Aren't we all just victims of power imbalances who lack any agency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:54 AM |
| 0 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.I think health insurance is an abominable and disgusting industry and yet I participate in that marketplace. Your logic is weak just take the L | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:53 AM |
| 8 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.Remember that a lot of these creators have managed by agency companies and the person sexting is not the person on camera. Increasingly it will be handled by an AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.It seems likely that more consumers of only fans content will form a parasocial relationship with the creators than with regular porn. Maybe it's part of the appeal of the platform . But you've drawn a very wide generalization and I don't think that everybody who watches this content has that sort of parasocial relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themWomen have an exaggerated fear of physical violence, men have an exaggerated fear of social violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themI think a lot of people confuse confidence with competence, especially on the corporate world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themIt's never been clear to me what "confidence" means in this context either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themThis sounds like PUA advice, as though women are too stupid to realise they're being hit on and need to be "reeled in" with a fake platonic conversation. What do you think of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:18 AM |
| 24 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipMost people ARE average, that includes women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:10 AM |
| 17 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI think you're over emphasising that angle. I'm definitely looking for a relationship (in my 40s) and women are extraordinarily entitled in courtship. Which would be fine after like the 4th date, but I think it's unreasonable to expect a stranger to pretend you're amazing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different.Most people are kinda trashy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different.Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:38 PM |
| -3 | Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different.How did he "try to rape her"? What does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:35 PM |
| -2 | Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different.Is a life of paranoia worse than taking the risk of abuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:35 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sIf men had wombs and could give birth presumably religious people would make the same arguments. If society was really set up to benefit men, then it would have been women dying in coal mines in the 18th century, and women dying in Wars for all time. Money is more important than gender to those who rule us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:42 AM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sThere's no such thing as society speaking with one voice on any topic. The choice of which voices you choose to listen to, whether they be feminist or misogynistic, patriarchal or progressive, is up to you. The actions of one member of an arbitrarily constructed group such as "men" or "women" do not reflect and are not the responsibility of the group as a whole or of any other individual member of that group. In the same way that not all Islamic people need to take responsibility or should be bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sThat is not a constructive response. All sex has a non zero chance of pregnancy, regardless of precautions. Take responsibility for your body and your actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:35 AM |
| -4 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sIt's tiresome for women to fall back on "I'm not responsible for my actions because I'm not able to resist social pressure or norms" when the entire existence of feminism proves the opposite! And of course you would never accept "social pressure" as a justification for men's violence against women. So you just look like someone who can't be taken seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:33 AM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sAbortion is a conflict of values;.the right to bodily autonomy vs the right to not be killed in the womb. These two rights are in unavoidable conflict in this case, so we have decided as a society,.via a political process, to prioritize the conscious person over the potential person. (At least here in Australia we have). This is probably the best choice, but it's wrong to claim it's purely moral, it has elements of "making the least worst decision". If in the future it became possible to transpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:27 AM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sWhy is it required to separate our advocacy efforts by gender? If you believe the patriarchy is a real phenomenon, then it invented the concepts of masculine and feminine, so why do you keep using the categories of the patriarchy to separate people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:07 AM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sWhat is the male equivalent of a gynecologist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:05 AM |
| 2 | One of the biggest problems in dating is men *think* they want easy sex.We aren't hardwired, it's cultural | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.I can't think of any women I know who have ever expressed a preference for a specific measurement. The cliche is "bigger is better, nudge nudge wink wink chortle chortle", same as with men and boobs. The one time that I remember a woman explicitly mentioning a size, was her explaining to me under what circumstances she thought it would be okay for her to visit a prostitute. Which was if she wanted something specific, like a 10-inch penis, that she couldn't get in her relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?This issue is women's use of extreme social violence. You have a lot more strength in that dimension and need to stop abusing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:36 AM |
| 7 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Entirely in the eye of the beholder unfortunately. Women's proclivity for extreme social violence makes it too risky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | There is No hook up cultureYeah it's kind of like saying "private jet culture" is prevalent because everyone wants to be part of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future?It annoys me how a humanities or business degree is treated as equal to STEM or philosophy.(Technically it's in the humanities school but it's a special case). There are a lot of women doing sociology or business /commerce which are pretty much just indoctrination into weird ideologies (left and right respectively), but someone with a 90 IQ can complete them. That's not the same as a mathematician or a physicist, or even the vocational qualifications like medicine, engineering, and law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 10:59 AM |
| 1 | The ugly good guy vs the abusive Chad trope is overblown in this subTl;Dr men only caring about looks and women caring about personalities or "moral qualities" is a gender stereotype, women who transgress the stereotype are called hypocrites by people who believe that stereotype (for whatever reason). I think that in order to criticse men who are only interested in how a woman looks, it was necessary, in order to avoid accusations of hypocrisy, for the people criticizing those behaviors to claim that they themselves didn't care about looks. I think a lot of it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 10:49 AM |
| – | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodFair enough, I've never worked in the field. Also they will probably repair themselves...that will definitely end well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality?Omfg stop with the sociology 101, feminism is a reverse IQ test and you apparently failed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality?Take responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality?Yeah facts, I'm a nerdy guy and I wouldn't want an unattractive partner even if she likes Star Trek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Most people who complain about shallow people would be just as shallow and picky if they had the chanceFacts, we all like what we like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.These women only exist in their imagination, it's a poorly thought out emotional representation. Most of their thinking can be explained by "in group"/"out group" biases. Out group is always homogeneous and has bad motives. Feminists use the same model as incels (they're basically the same thing at this point). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:28 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.Nice flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:27 PM |
| 4 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.I dunno, personally I'm tired of fucking people I don't care about or even know. It gets boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:26 PM |
| 4 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodThat sucks dude, it must have hurt a lot. Probably still does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 0 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodDude, stop watching Andre Tate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:23 PM |
| 7 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodHow about we accept that there are unkind and selfish people of all sexes and genders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodThere are a plurality of viewpoints | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodGood point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodWhat is it about women which makes them unable to tolerate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:17 PM |
| 12 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodThere do seem to be a lot of women happy to use their power to promote based on sexual bigotry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodDepends on the pay. Union jobs in my country are mostly locals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodMaybe, maybe not. How many women have the STEM background to program and repair them? Or will it all be done by magic robots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:15 PM |
| 7 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodInteresting hypothesis, I don't know how much large scale construction was going on though, what information do you have about specific buildings or highways built by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:14 PM |
| 36 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodI don't know what OP meant by "patriarchal shaming", but we are all being worked to death by the owners of capital, man and woman,.black and white, just the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:12 PM |
| 10 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodStop thinking in generalisations. What evidence do you have that the women claiming from social programs are parents? How do you incorporate the idea that many women don't have children (some never, some not yet)? What about the men (myself included) who are solo parents? Assuming things about a person based on their sex is called prejudice, and it's part of bigotry. You sound like you were radicalised in a sociology class, taken advantage of by the power imbalance between the lecturer and yours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:07 PM |
| 33 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodSuccess within established organisations is mostly social skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Many of the women I've dated have been utterly unable to control their emotions, and have been abusive and occasionally violent. Females are just as violent as men, it's just that their lack of physical strength means nobody ends up in hospital. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.That's not what we mean, we mean "be kind" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.But none of that is 'be kind' or 'be his friend ", which is what we are talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:13 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying?I think this is smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying?Women don't all want the same thing or find the same things attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Is this an incel PUA subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.Similar experience here. I wish I was more confident with women, but I had an abusive mother and it has messed me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.Last two women I dat d decided they didn't want to date a man (widowed) with kids (it was on my profile ). I've been on two dates in 12 months. I'm a software engineer and do standup comedy as a hobby (literally smart and funny), but zero matches for two months and no interest from any single women I know. It fucking sucks, and the only thing I've had as feedback is that I seem too interested. Increasingly of the opinion that anyone still single after about 35 probably has an attachment disorder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.I think some people have gotten confused about "I don't need a man" meant FINANCIALLY. It wasn't supposed to mean that women should be disinterested in a loving relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.This is probably true, many are too old or too young , but any given hetero woman is attracted to plenty of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.That's not a cold approach. They were known to each other and shared a community. Cold approach is an actual stranger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.Nah this is true, but the workplace was also a place where people met, that seems riskier for men now. It honestly seems like women only want to meet people from apps, which are designed to extract money by preventing people from meeting people...not sure it's going well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.Plenty of people met in bars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:38 PM |
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