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That much is true. But obviously nobody thinks a woman is emasculated by taking dick. It’s a different reaction to the same act.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:20 PM
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Yes they do, because sexuality is about an overall consistent preference, not an absolute 100% ever situation. If your definition were the case than 90% of the population would count as bisexual. People can get into all sorts of sexual shit in the right context.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:38 PM
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Yes. Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:37 PM
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There’s a big difference between obese and nice fatty curves in all the right places.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:36 PM
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I’m confused about how this relates to my post. Yes of course men who knowingly pass on STDs are at fault, not their victims. Not sure why you’d think I would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:02 PM
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Well I get your point but it’s very different from him saying that the thought of anyone having heterosexual sex grossed him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:16 AM
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Since this is such a spectacularly unreflective non-answer, I will compensate by summarising the truth, for frustrated Redditors passing by: I don’t think it’s “biphobia” in that that implies it’s just a random medical condition of hatred. It’s more like male bisexuality is perceived as a critical defect of masculinity and that women generally seek indicators of masculinity. Coupled with that is just the continued idea that it’s just deviant and gross in itself, regardless of masculinity. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:11 AM
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I don’t think it’s “biphobia” in that that implies it’s just a random medical condition of hatred. It’s more like male bisexuality is perceived as a critical defect of masculinity and that women generally seek indicators of masculinity. Coupled with that is just the continued idea that it’s just deviant and gross in itself, regardless of masculinity. I think this comes from a mixture biological programming and more flexible social conditioning. Most women won’t admit the above reasons, often not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:02 AM
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Maybe you’re right. I can’t say I’ve ever asked anyone these kind of questions before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:52 AM
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Please stop claiming people want to have sex with you! It’s really disgusting! It sounds like you’re using this debate to jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:49 AM
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Nobody is wanting to have sex with you… relax!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:46 AM
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Nobody has claimed they’re entitled to be in a relationship with you. Nobody has expressed any desire for you. I expect a more common thought from this debate regarding your desirability as a woman would be, from the liberal men: “this woman is gross and unattractive” and from the conservative men: “this woman talks like a man and is repulsively lacking in femininity”. So please just relax!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:45 AM
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Well they don’t see trans women as women so if that’s transphobia then…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:40 AM
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Dating defines society. It’s inevitable that both women and men will change themselves to fit what they can understand of the other sex’s dating preferences. Men preferring young and pretty women give young pretty women status in society at large. Women preferring tall, heterosexual white men gives tall, heterosexual white men status in society at large. Personally I’m an “accept this reality” guy. What I won’t accept is all the brushing under the carpet to pretend these things away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:39 AM
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Er, no. If a lesbian decides she should really try sexual with a man at least once, does it, and finds she hates, is she no longer a lesbian? Hint: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:33 AM
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Your analogy was actually correct. The guy gave a response which was different from the analogy and provided a more substantive reason. Anyway he’s turned his brain off to the argument, so you won’t get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:30 AM
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People don’t want to date obese people because they find obese bodies repellent and obesity low-status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:27 AM
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There are obvious reasons for not wanting to date all those categories which you could easily explain. There’s actually an obvious reason for not wanting to date bi men (it indicates a critical defect in their manhood; if he’s taking it in the ass it makes him radically passive and weak in her eyes). She won’t say this, or perhaps even admit it to herself, because she wants to gloss herself up in inclusivity piety, where we’re all meant to believe nobody can exclude anyone else from masculinity …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:25 AM
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It’s a fake answer. It’s based on the pretence that sexual preferences come from thin air out of magic random land and are not enmeshed in ideas of masculinity and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:20 AM
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I think it’s because the reality is that it’s to do with gay sex being seen as emasculating, making a man not a man, and therefore not of interest. Many of the female commentators have plainly stated this. To act like these kind of turn-offs are just completely random, and are not enmeshed in concepts of manhood, is disingenuous. Many women refuse to go there, because they’ve been raised to believe that to admit their disinterest or disgust at men who fail their masculinity tests is a betrayal o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:16 AM
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I would not expect a gay guy to say that “women are unattractive and gross”. I would expect him to say “there are many beautiful women, but I’m personally only sexually attracted to men”. Anyone who just flat out says “women are gross” is misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:50 AM
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She means shortness is unmasculine. Anything that causes a man to lose his masculinity in her eyes means she won’t date him. There are many many ways for a man to be insufficiently man for such a woman. A man might be ultra-masculine in nearly every respect, but one failure in any of these key parameters and it’s game over. The only thing that puzzles me is why this particular woman claims to be blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:46 AM
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Don’t worry about it. The bi-disgusted women here are saying they’re disgusted merely by the idea of a guy being tempted by such an action. So this guy actually doing something made no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:28 AM
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So you would be indifferent if you frequently heard people say “black women are gross and unattractive and more male than female”. You wouldn’t think that maybe they’re a tad racist? Nobody is saying anybody should be forced to have sex with anyone. Everyone is agreed that everybody is free to avoid sex for entirely homophobic or racist reasons, but do we have to pretend there are no homophobic or racist reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:27 AM
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Many of them literally say on this forum “they are unattractive and gross”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:24 AM
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It’s pretty fucked to be disgusted merely by the idea of a man having sex with a woman. I don’t believe gay people are generally like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:24 AM
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If the reason is “I think bisexual are utter scum and disgusting and I throw up whenever I think of one of those revolutions excuse-for-men faggots” would it not occur to you that person might have a little touch of bi/homophobia? Of course they are still 100% within their rights to operate according to their phobia, but that doesn’t mean the rest of us have to pretend it’s not part of their reasoning. My example was of course exaggerated to make the point, but many of the comments here simply e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:20 AM
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It’s more the statements like “bisexual men are gross and unattractive” and “more women than men” delivered as objective statements not subjective where it’s at least borderline phobic. You can find these statements in this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:10 AM
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The distaste is different. One is about being emasculated and the other is about being sexually untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:53 PM
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I’m not a woman but personally I think this guy clearly looks better in the first photo, but it’s more to do with his particular body, face and what suits him, and also what he’s wearing in each photo and his specific pose. Even the lighting composition in the first photo is more flattering. However I think, more generally, a low body fat looks better on men than higher. The Greek god statue look, with exposed abs etc, is a good look. It’s just that it can’t be extrapolated to all men, and it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:12 PM
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I don’t think so. Breasts, thighs and ass are all fat deposits and all very attractive to pretty much all men. I think it’s women who are more likely to think extreme low body fat is attractive in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:08 PM
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Yes true, but the lots of casual sex wasn’t referenced in the post I was referring. Sexual fantasising does not consist only of fantasising about multiple casual partners!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:56 AM
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I was mainly tongue-in-cheek riffing off the way mainstream media / academia discussions denigrate men and male sexuality but frame it in a completely different - reassuring and celebratory - way if it’s women fantasising in similar ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:01 AM
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Aha! Thanks for clarifying. I wonder what the stats are for sex-in-marriage being as bad as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:48 PM
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This is true. But there’s post I was replying to didn’t make any reference to behaviour that would be perceived as slutty in our culture. A woman wanting sex and adventure, in itself is perceived as slutty in mainstream society (which excludes very conservative religious sub-cultures of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:46 PM
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⬆️ Wisdom 👏 👏 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:34 PM
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Do you think the same about male prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:32 PM
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Could you clarify that first sentence? Sounds interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:31 PM
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Yes completely fair. But I don’t think these conservative areas show greater prevalence of female fantasising about sexual coercion. In fact the one relevant survey I recall hearing another (in Macau) showed much less fantasising in general (but I’d expect less honest reporting in very sexually conservative cultures too to be honest)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:51 PM
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That seems realistic and reasonable. I would have thought 100% of women fear being raped, even the ones furiously masturbating every night about being raped, or actually going out there and setting up CNC gangbang encounters, because there’s a big difference between a fantasy you can create and the reality of someone forcing themselves. Maybe some women go so far that they don’t care even about that but I can’t see that as anything other than extreme mental illness and self-hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:49 PM
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You’re saying that women, unlike men, needed something other raw sexual encounter to feel desire? Like there should be a backstory where the men has in some way charmed the woman and given her a reason to be excited about him. Unlike men who find it coherent and plausible to be excited about a random unknown hot woman in front of him? If so I think that’s true, but then it seems doubly unintuitive that women would be able to get excited about a man who, not only hasn’t done anything charming, is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:45 PM
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Maybe. I’m aware that people who’ve suffered sexual abuse are more likely to be into this stuff, so it’s contributing factor, but not nearly enough to explain most women who are into it. As for male violence against women being on people’s minds - that’s true, but then there are great many men who are into porn showing female sexual violence men, as many as women into the reverse I believe. And this obviously almost entirely divorced from reality and not on people’s minds. I’m inclined to believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:40 PM
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Okay understood: it’s not the nicheness itself - it’s specific female-friendly characteristics which happen to turn up in niche categories. But what about violent maledom porn and rape porn would be particularly appealing to women? Are the men more attractive in violent maledom porn rather than gentle heterosexual porn? If I didn’t already know that a lot of women are into BDSM as submissive, I would intuitively have imagined that violent coercive porn would be especially geared to men and espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:09 PM
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I think everyone knows that men have vile and bizarre sex fantasies. However our culture teaches us that women are generally more wholesome in their sexual tastes, and hate and fear male sexual violence above all. So the finding that huge numbers of women are especially into sexually violent maledom sex is surprising and counter-intuitive, at least to people whose impression of female sexuality comes from feminism and feminist films and books, rather than encounters with actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:04 PM
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Come on we no longer live in a culture where women are condemned for wanting a life of adventure. What modern film condemns women for wanting advantage and gender freedom? How many films and books actively celebrate this? Is your theory testable in any way? I’d suggest that if it were true then women in more anti-female-libido cultures would have more violent maledom porn fantasies. Is there any evidence of that? There are correlations show more conservative Americans have more fantasies about g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:01 PM
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Makes sense but I think the question is more about why there is an especially large female need to scratch that particular kink itch and not others. Violent maledom heterosexual sex would intuitively seem like something women would find especially repellant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:47 PM
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If it were just that then all niche categories would get equal attention from women. Or rather the more niche the better. But that isn’t the case at all. There’s no obvious reason why violent maledom heterosexual sex should be more reassuringly niche to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:45 PM
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Is it necessary to use homophobic shaming to make your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:43 PM
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Nice, an honest answer 👏 instead of people just foisting on their pet Just-So story that happens to fully support their pre-existing socio-political worldview, like everyone else is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:40 PM
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I agree that men keep coming with simplistic sweeping systems about what women want, and that it never fits reality. I’m just saying it’s inevitable and, in itself, legitimate that men will agonise about what women want, especially men who don’t have success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:37 PM
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I don’t think sexual orientation and physical sex characteristics are gender “roles”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:20 PM
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What a reasonable exchange! And I agree myself with both points.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:07 PM
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This is ludicrous. Obviously both men and women are always going to worry about what makes them attractive and unattractive to the pool they’re interested in. Sure they don’t “need” to, in the sense that in a Stoic sense people don’t “need” anything, but they will worry, it’s of massive logical concern to people’s lives and how they behave, and it’s complete valid and reasonable to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:06 PM
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I have indeed met a woman who was shocked that I used an umbrella as a man. I mean I just found it funny that she attached significance to it, and she was just shocked that I did it rather than icked, so it became more like a shared joke. This was many years ago now, but she would certainly have identified as leftfield and alternative. I assumed it was just a gender thing that had become normal in her high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:02 PM
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You get the Someone Who Thinks award for this thread: 🎖️ I can now go to sleep. Faith in humanity restored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:08 AM
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It’s so nice to come across rational and fair comments here 🙌🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:58 PM
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I guess if you’ve never encountered any man who doesn’t body shame women you’re messed up by abuse and we shouldn’t be too harsh in judging your fucked up misandry and inability to distinguish to understand that a group consisting of billions of people cannot have moral responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:55 PM
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You seem to have trouble distinguishing between individuals and groups
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:51 PM
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Er… Because not every person of a given gender behaves in the same way and has committed all the misdeeds that people who share that gender has…. I mean this is pretty 101 of basic human morality and decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:50 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:01 PM
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Not my terms. I don’t think leftism is inherently effeminate and I think the OP is just a straw man version of leftism. I despise the exaggerated macho obsessions of a huge part of the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:42 PM
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Isn’t obsessively focusing on the importance of men not being a “weak little bitch” and referring to “dick riding billionaires” pretty conservative in itself? You wouldn’t use that language to critique women, because there’s nothing shameful about women being viral and vulnerable or sexually passive. Yet being weak and vulnerable or sexually passive is very shameful for men, as evidenced by even you, a proclaimed pro-trans liberal, using it to valorise liberals as the true torchbearers of strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:13 AM
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