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| 3 | Soft or Hard Next?If she's having unprotected sex with you so soon, just assume that she's done it before too with other men. You're playing with fire if you're not using a condom with her. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Destroyed after GF of 4 months broke up with meI assumed borderline because OP says he has 10-12 years of dating experience, and in spite of that, fell in love within just 4 months because of the 'strong' chemistry they had. Someone that experienced is usually a bit jaded. To rouse such strong feelings within just 4 months...I assumed she idealised the shit out of him, and then dumped him during the devaluation phase. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Destroyed after GF of 4 months broke up with meHer coming on strongly towards you, and then dumping you out of nowhere sounds like a classic borderline move. My ex did the same thing. She had BPD. Borderlines are emotionally unstable and their fear of abandonment causes them to sabotage their relationships. With them, your frame needs to super tight, which yours clearly isn't. Also, you need to realise that you can't use logic to change someone's mind when they're drowned in a sea of emotions. When she broke up with you, you shouldn't have s… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:05 AM |
| 5 | How do you handle non-apologies such as "I'm sorry that you think that I'm such a bad girlfriend"?She's too immature. Dump her. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do I keep attracting broken girls?THIS. I also used to keep falling for borderline girls even though there were other non-BPD girls interested in me. I realised that I myself was damaged, and that there was a void inside of me which no normal girl can understand, or fill. I understand that from a logical point of view, normal girls are better for a LTR, but I just don't feel any passion in those relationships. I've come to terms with the fact that I need a girl who acknowledges that she's damaged, and is consciously working on h… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 02:41 PM |
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