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| 4 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenThat’s what I did. Ordered it online and did the test during my parenting time when my child was only a few months old. Told no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 5 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subSame. RP theory works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?I feel like a lot of these responders would stop loving their kid if they turned out gay, or wanted to marry someone of a different race. I mean if it were conscionable to stop loving them, where would you draw the line? Just love them. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 03:00 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?I didn’t say I want them to be a whore. I said I would love them unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?This is a rational response. I’m surprised by all the haters. I will love my children no matter the decisions they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 8 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlExactly this. Women who expect me to pay are the type of women I do not want to date. Easy way to weed out the riff raff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 6 | My tinder experimentIt’s exceptionally eye opening when you do the experiment yourself. So much so that I just stopped using tinder all together after that. Seriously, as a man it’s just not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Are women really that vindictive to the point of irrationalityYes | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 0 | She wants to have first date 6 days from now?What is it with dudes who confuse frame with being controlling. She likes coffee and prefers to meet in the afternoon. Either do it or don’t. You can’t make her drink or go out in the evening. If your logistics don’t work out then just next and move on. If you made the kind of impression you think you did, she’ll eventually come back and try to plan a date that works better for both of you. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 25 | Other than lifting and reading, what are some other hobbies for people with a lot of free time?Generating more income should be at the top of the list. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Getting a Vasectomy in my Early 20'sA vasectomy reversal is possible. I had mine reversed after 6 years and it was successful. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter to prove it. Just prior to my second vasectomy (last year, and definitely permanent), I made a deposit at a private sperm bank, just in case. I think an ‘early’ vasectomy is a great idea. Go into it knowing that it’s likely you won’t be able to procreate naturally, but also know there are a number of options available to mitigate that risk, and that medical technology is ge… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | My GF won't have any sex with me after 3 months because I am virgin.She said it herself. Find another girl. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)No. That’s MGTOW | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | What’s your experience with using CBD for anxiety?My experience has been very positive. CBD won’t make you high and it’s not addictive. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?It’s an FDS term. High Value Male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 9 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?I am, 2+ years. I would never, ever consider a woman for LTR if they expected me to pay. I consider myself HVM, and my LTR would whole heartedly agree. An FDS Queen is shooting herself in the foot if she expects HVM to pay for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 04:37 PM |
| -1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?I think anyone who believes that either strategy is about “using others” has incorrectly interpreted and/or applied it. Speaking for TRP, a “true alpha” should never need to manipulate. He should be attractive enough that women offer their assets freely. And vice-versa for FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 16 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?I beg to differ. I believe FDS and TRP are complementary, when they are applied correctly. TRP Alpha = FDS HVM FDS Queen = TRP LTR It’s just unfortunate that there is so much ego, preconceived notions, and invalid testing to understand that each group’s personal goal is to be the best man or woman they can be. Add in past-traumas and improper application and interpretation of the fundamentals of each ‘program’, and you get a high level of distrust and paranoia preventing either side from accepti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 29 | The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men.It’s not that we don’t care. It’s that men speaking up for men’s rights is guaranteed to be grossly misinterpreted and viewed as an attack against women’s rights, which of course is not allowed in this society. It would be social suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario Canada18 and completed post secondary. There’s standard wording for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 30 | Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario CanadaEven co-habitation can result in the same rulings. You’re treated as common-law after living together for a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/20 09:09 PM |
| 13 | Getting Divorced in 2020 in Ontario CanadaI’ve been through it in Ontario too. It’s brutal. Can confirm. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 4 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalTRP is for men who want to increase their options to get laid. Ie: Polygamous. FDS is for women who want a relationship with the best man. Ie: Hypergamous. But only one of them is saying it as it really is. Edit: word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Yes, but only to a point. I started taking it for anxiety/depression and by managing those symptoms I was able to be more focused. But recently I started taking Vyvanse a couple of times a week as well, if I need it, and that really helps with the adhd stuff. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Wellbutrin is a wonder drug. Definitely improved my life. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:30 AM |
| 6 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?+1 for Vyvanse. I don’t take it every day though. Maybe twice a week when I need to have a day of focus. I find the effects last for a few days. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 11 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Athol Kay’s Mindful Attraction Plan (Should be required reading) is very clear - getting your medications straightened out is a top priority. Mental health can be a real issue for TRP men. A LOT of us have pre-existing anxiety, trauma, shitty relationships causing depression, etc; which is part of what led us here in the first place. Talk to your doctor, there is no shame in taking medication. It’s an integral part of getting healthy and attractive. Also, there’s nothing saying you’ll be on the … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support?In Canada, it costs an average of 250k to raise a child from birth to 18 years old, according to recent studies. If child support capped out at half that (heck, even the full amount), then I could understand the “ it’s for the kids” argument. But when I’m paying 350k+, that money is definitely not just “for the kids”. Alimony is different - if the woman is unemployable because of a relationship, then sure, she should get some additional help until she gets on her feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support?Commenters are not getting this point. If the woman cheats, she still gets all the “perks”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheI agree with this. Far too often the only comments on asktrp posts are purely mysognistic and douchey. I actually attribute a lot of this to the quarantine, which adds an accessibility obstacle. Dudes who “figured it out” aren’t contributing as much cause they don’t need it and can’t be bothered to stay engaged, leaving the helpless and desperate guys behind - the blind leading the blind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | LTR after 2 years wants to go to the clubExactly. I don’t understand what’s up with all these mate guarding response. You can be RP without being a controlling douche. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Is the red pill really that bad?Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize - things a man should not do during an argument with a woman, because it perpetuates the argument and makes him look like a whiny baby. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Letting LTR go outSo far the only viable comment. Seriously, wtf is up with all these guys saying to be a controlling douche? Just be the man she wants to come home to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the red pill really that bad?I won’t disagree that there are a ton of misguided guys on TRP who are misogynistic and disrespectful to women, which set the tone and the public perception for the sub. It takes a high level of discernment to weed out the good vs the bad. But I still believe the core tenets are good - the reading, the self improvement, the fitness, etc.. When someone starts suggesting or using “tactics” to manipulate women, it’s time to step back and consider whether it is respectful and beneficial for both par… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Is the red pill really that bad?Yeah. What about the being interesting, being fun, being an emotional rock, not being needy, not taking things personally, not DEERing, being decisive, being fit, and having your own interests... among others. Personal experience. I’m 2 years into my first relationship after finding the red pill and it is BY FAR the best relationship I’ve ever been in (previously divorced, then engaged - both disastrous). I’ve said it before and will continue to say it. You can follow RP theory and not be a douc… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How do you remind yourself not to engage?Is it better to be right or to be happy? Engaging is just going to lead to chaos, stress, and negative emotions. This would undermine my ability to be the oak/rock and to maintain a peaceful household. Don’t let it escalate. Nip it in the bud. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Cliche, but true. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/19 02:09 PM |
| 7 | Wife spent $9k behind my backOP, it sounds like you’re the shitty communicator and this is a wake up call. | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Carousel rider admits to losing her pair bonding ability while discussing 'slut shaming'.Definitely worth following | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 11:13 PM |
| 6 | Why do you desire virgins?Agreed. More experience generally translates to better sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Dead bedrooms happen for a lot of reasons not just loss of attraction, for BOTH gendersAgreed. It’s a dead bedroom when one (or both) doesn’t WANT to fuck anymore, irrespective of other issues going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/19 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Won't sign up as the FO despite massive improvement. Kill the puppy?Yes. Exactly this | /r/askMRP | 22/07/19 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?Exactly the same here | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Gillette brand takes a hit as '#metoo' ad backfires - more people in the U.K. have been hearing negative than positive things about Gillette and that “purchase metrics have started to shift downwards”.Exactly this | /r/MensRights | 26/01/19 04:15 AM |
| 156 | Gillette brand takes a hit as '#metoo' ad backfires - more people in the U.K. have been hearing negative than positive things about Gillette and that “purchase metrics have started to shift downwards”.That’s healthy masculinity right there. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/19 04:04 AM |
| 15 | Gillette brand takes a hit as '#metoo' ad backfires - more people in the U.K. have been hearing negative than positive things about Gillette and that “purchase metrics have started to shift downwards”.90 mil views. Surely if the ad was effective they’d see a rise in sales by now? | /r/MensRights | 26/01/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Is this an example of how to lose your wife and make her like you even less or did this guy do the right thing?Mate guarding is unattractive | /r/askMRP | 09/10/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it immoral to only spend 50% of the time at work productively?I work from home and have about 30% productivity. I get done what needs to be done, and help others on my team do what they need to do. I make 6 figures. Sometimes I feel like I’m ripping them off, but in the end, I’m providing value through my expertise and ability to do my work well. The way I see it now is that it’s not immoral, I’m just efficient and lucky/blessed. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP Developers/Coders/ProgrammersI wonder how much we could raise to hire someone.. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Girl has boyfriend but shows interest. Dost thou escalate?Had a similar situation not long ago. I didn’t escalate, but felt terrible after, like I let her down. After long hard thought and analysis on it, I’ve determined that her relationship is actually none of my business, and that it’s also possible that they were not exclusive. It was an opportunity lost and I’ve vowed to always take it up when I have the opportunity going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 01:35 PM |
| 10 | LTR And Revealing ClothingMate guarding is unattractive. She raises your SMV if she’s hot and goes home with you at the end of the night. If you don’t trust her to not fuck someone else then there are bigger problems and you can next or demote her. Otherwise just let her be her and enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Most TRPer's relationships end due to lack of communication, egos, and/or fear of abandonment NOT hypergamy/polygamySame here, and those kernels work wonders - without being a narcissistic dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | 36 and I am the weakest guy at the gym. What's the point for me?I just watched Momento last week for the first time. Thought it was great! | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:42 AM |
| 3 | She's pregnant, fuck my lifeSidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Wife and I decided to end our 12 years relationship, 7 year marriage today.The classic “geographical cure”, which is a temporary fix at best. | /r/askMRP | 08/08/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Don’t try to plate a girl forever – for your own sakeWho says the relationship needs to turn monogamous? I plan to turn all my good plates into LTRs. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | "What are we?" A very brief field reportThis is a better approach, imo. No need to cause anxiety in your plate. If you are high enough value, they will keep coming back, no matter what reason you give them. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 05:29 AM |
| 5 | “I wanna be loyal”100% this. She wants to ‘hang out’ again so you can turn her on again. She is setting up plausible deniability and giving you another chance to close (which you better take, or you won’t get it again). If she didn’t want you, she would have nexted/ghosted already. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate begs to fuck, and is in such a rush that it turns me offCut out the porn and masturbation. A hotter plate might help too. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Are women turned on by ROMANCE?From an LTR perspective - when a girl begins losing sexual attraction, they don’t want to lose you but still want the feelz. So they’ll try their hardest to turn you into a beta. They’ll settle to get their feelz from validation and commitment rather than getting it from tingles. Romance becomes the currency for transactional sex. If a girl starts saying or doing these things, you are becoming less attractive: “I want sex to be more intimate” “Be more romantic with me” “I’d be more likely to wan… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What are some good redpill YouTube channels or podcasts to watch/listen?Coach Corey Wayne | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys find the Red Pill?Found MRP through posts on /r/deadbedrooms | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How Can I Quit Nicotine? Any Tips?Wellbutrin | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 12:55 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how to properly respond to this manipulative text from in-law. Please respond only if you have a child.Agreed. This is between you and your wife. Talk to her directly without the MIL present. If she says she needs you to go, then go. A new mom with a new baby needs all the support you can muster. This is your time to be a rock. Show your strength by being there for her even when it's difficult for you. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/17 03:16 AM |
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