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Man it’s a huge blow to ego cause you are stuck wondering wtf you did. And if she never told you then how could you work on it. I’m not talking about mention in passing. I mean a sit down of “this is wat I need to stay or I’ll have to leave”. It’s on the person that feels wronged to speak up. Not my job to guess.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 07:09 PM
2

Man do not move out. She will use it against you. Double down. Tell her “ well we can work it out somehow but know you are doing this. Not me. I have to work so don’t use our kids as ponied love to had seen the look on her face when you told her that
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 04:28 PM
4

Your credibility went out the window when you compared going to war to women doing house work. Gtfo of here
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:25 AM
1

I absolutely do. Baby trapping is a thing. Rape to. And tampering with condoms/lying about birth control.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 02:46 AM
4

Check this out. She isn’t your concern anymore. She made that bed. She needs to learn to live with it. You’ll never find a woman going over there still taking care of your ex wife. Second off wat time you aren’t working just pay attention to your boy. Tell her that if it’s not about him you ain’t hearing it. I know it’s dickish but it’s got to be done
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 02:41 AM
2

Man you absolutely got to get back in there. I mean yesterday. Don’t say there isn’t a way. It’s your house to. Let her move them. But take your hind end back in that house sir
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 02:30 AM
6

Ehh that’s not true. If a woman wants out that marriage license won’t hold them back. Matter of fact they stand to gain from divorce more than you. You already said you wouldn’t prenup so where does that leave you? Don’t get married. It just isn’t worth it as you are now finding out
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 09:34 PM
1

You are part of the problem then. Why are you here? To creep and lurk? To go back to your fem ran subs and pick apart our posts? Which is it? Cause personal experience trumps your opinion. You can’t say hi to a woman without her looking at you with disdain. If it was the other way around a man would get ran out of a place for acting like some women do to us. Nobody owes anyone anything but being a decent person costs nothing
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:37 PM
2

You must live under a rock then.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:17 PM
5

I feel ya. I’ve been banned from subs I never was a part of to begin with.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 12:34 AM
2

The whole thing is dumb. Also cancel culture. That needs to go away to.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 05:25 PM
1

The other day there was a post of a woman mad as fuck her boyfriend wouldn’t put her on the deed to a condo he bought. She thought her being his wife entitled her to that and she was asked how much she helped on down payment, mortgage, etc. “nothing, I’m the mother of his kids and chose to be a sahm”. Well there ya go. When pressed further she admitted the kids had been in school for 5 years. So you didn’t attempt to even try to go to school or find a career? And they wasn’t married. Of course o…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 02:54 AM
9

Bro she’s losing her life net and scrambling to keep you on the hook. Serve her papers. She doesn’t love you
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 10:18 PM
2

You should get alimony and probably child support. She can’t kick you out of the house either. Straight tell her you aren’t going anywhere.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Na. She can’t love 2 people equally. It’s not going to happen. Lawyer up
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 12:09 AM
1

Man keep your head up and don’t lose sight of wat you are fighting for.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 05:57 PM
3

I’ll never be married. Almost but she’d never get a job. I seen the writing on the wall. For 7 years I did everything financially. She could not boil water to save her life so I had to cook to. She cheated and I was heartbroken but the more time I spent away from her the stress melted away. She tried to come back and I straight told her life was alot better without her that her being a unfaithful hoe was just the catalyst to start the chain reaction
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 02:40 AM
2

Yea. And still get called incel or or told I was a misogynist because I didn’t bent to there will is unbelievable. Oh and let’s not forget gaslighting or narcissistic. Those are my favorites
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 07:49 PM
1

By difficult can you elaborate? It’s cool if you can’t.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 03:09 PM
9

Cut her off yesterday. Lawyer up and you file. She is no longer your wife and you need to treat her as such. Be cold to her. You’ve been acting like nothing happened and continuing husband duties. Stop. If it has nothing to do with kids do not engage. Tell her you can’t watch the kids this weekend and she needs to figure it out. Guarantee it’s someone at the bar she is seeing or he’s coming up there. You are being cucked and not even knowing it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 02:59 PM
2

You can only do wat you can man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 07:06 PM
6

Lawyer yesterday and do not leave. The claws will come out and at this point she is no longer your wife. Don’t even speak unless it’s about the children
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:38 AM
4

Man find a fwb. That shit is expensive.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/22 05:18 PM
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You went looking. 😂
/r/MensRights17/07/22 04:52 AM
2

I do to because I’m my younger days I was a simp. Never graduated to cuck though but shit some folks get so far gone they lose themselves
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 03:53 AM
3

I think that. I just don’t say it but good lord. Some super cuck shit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 03:38 AM
3

I agree. Had them come in here and want to do it again and nobody said they should and they still found a way to come around to they was going to marry anyways. Like why the fuck are you here then?
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 03:20 AM
8

Prenups don’t work half the time. To many ways to get out of it
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 03:01 AM
6

Call there bluff. That’s when men has got to make a decision. Love ain’t worth it anymore
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 03:01 AM
7

Leave her. 🤷‍♂️. She’s not going to change and she’s with you for financial support. If she hates men then she can get a job
/r/MensRights12/07/22 05:31 PM
4

Holy fuck
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 09:30 PM
2

The best you can do is NEVER GET MARRIED. listen I get it. Your parents did and they worked out or you grew up with family that there marriage worked out. Well man that was 30, 40, 50 years ago. You really need to vet your prospective wife. Test her even. Men just have to much at stake. Even the government makes money off failed marriage
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 09:27 PM
3

You don’t. It’s over man. Save face and move on
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 08:05 PM
1

I’d like to see the rest of the tweets she got for being a bitch. 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/22 04:39 PM
1

Man not very many folks will see it you’re way. Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. I’ll be damned if we are “besties” after you go behind my back and fuck another dude. And sometimes it’s in the marital bed.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/22 02:02 PM
0

There is always someone that will. Remember that and tell ‘em. Lol
/r/MensRights28/06/22 08:53 PM
1

My girl.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 11:32 AM
3

Can’t say I blame you at this point.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:22 AM
3

When you do I’ll be looking out for them.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 01:54 AM
5

Yea. Got to. Gotta reserve some dignity. To many simps around though that woulda took her right back. Good on you brother
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 01:53 AM
11

Women really get so entitled and then think because of that vagina we should give half of everything. Like foreal? I’ll never get married and any woman I get with has a career. I’ll never do that again
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 01:24 AM
7

Isn’t that funny how that works? Lol
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 01:20 AM
1

Ehh like I told mine. If she didn’t someone will. 🤷‍♂️. Not all women will go on a strike and I’m sure the fuck not getting a vasectomy
/r/MensRights27/06/22 11:48 PM
1

Do not leave. That’s the dumbest advice ever.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 03:18 AM
4

Tell her that. Unless it affects the kids you owe her shit. I never understand why someone would keep that shit up after divorce. “Ahh I’m so glad you still come and bail me out even though our marriage is over”. See? Does that make sense? Not at all and you are being manipulated
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 11:45 PM
1

I’d get all the credit cards out of my name before she takes you down with this sinking ship.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:22 PM
2

Just like with anything there are extremists out there who do hate women but that’s not the point of the movement. The point was to work on yourself and get your money up and don’t even worry about women
/r/MensRights26/06/22 08:08 PM
1

Man just quit right now. Let her take over but put no more of your money into it yourself if you think she’s gonna get the house
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 04:21 PM
2

That sub is dumpster fire anyways
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:53 AM
3

There are some women actually married but withholding sex until there partner has a vasectomy. Like you’d freak out if it was the other way around. I’m not going under the knife just to fuck you.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:35 AM
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So all of a sudden we gotta give a shit? We don’t even get a say anyways. Fuck that.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:47 PM
1

YOU may know you have more to offer but we don’t. That’s the difference. Most women have made approaching you hard. That’s why we have all but quit trying. We see you but is it worth it to approach you and not only maybe be called a creep but even if you want a date then jump through hoops for who effectively is a stranger? It’s just easier to stay away and not say anything
/r/MensRights23/06/22 09:55 PM
2

Yea. Don’t get married. Not until they change some laws.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 04:28 PM
1

Man you really wanna give more money to a cheater. You child support probably already buys the new dude things. You are supporting her dates. Think on that next time you feel bad
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 12:51 AM
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Its according to your area. But I’ve never heard of it being that high. If he’s getting that much though he’s a pit bull and probably would have a good consult.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 10:14 PM
2

Man I’ll be honest. I’d at least try to get a consult from a lawyer to see wat he says.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 09:54 PM
3

Good. She can deal with it then. He needs to learn there are consequences. He’s a young man now.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 01:47 AM
1

Well do you pay child support?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 01:43 AM
1

Na. I had that rule. He played you. He didn’t want a job but wanted the benefit
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 01:38 AM
1

Come on bro. Get after that. There isn’t even a hint. Most women don’t ask to go get drinks by “work flirting”.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 04:01 PM
1

Ummm you got any pics of doggo?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 03:46 PM
1

I once seen a post of a feminist telling a another woman who regretted having sex that it was rape. Like these folks actually exist
/r/MensRights07/06/22 11:12 PM
1

You know what else is rough? Staying offended. 😂.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/22 06:32 PM
1

You got nothing but school yard insults. Well if it makes you feel better pop off I guess. You’ll stay mad in this sub so you might want to leave.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/22 04:11 AM
1

Hahahaha. Big mad huh? I hope she sees this bro so she’ll give you a crumb of pussy. She’s a slut bro. It’s ok. She has a std she can never get rid of because she wants to fuck a lot of dudes. None of my business but if you don’t want to be made fun of then don’t put it out for all to see.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/22 11:24 PM
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I wouldn’t do it. Because it’s a losing situation. Hot or not it’s a bad deal all the way around.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 04:30 PM
0

She has herpes. That’s far from mono. And yes you can get it on accident but she straight up said she been sleeping with a lot of dudes. Now she pays the price. Stay mad
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/22 02:59 AM
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It’s incel to call someone out for wat she is? That’s a go to to the point of the word “incel” has lost it’s meaning. She did slut things and now has to face slut consequences. Pussypass denied
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/22 10:15 PM
3

Truest statement bro
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 05:03 AM
2

Listen man. Like any divorce or break up folks don’t wanna pick sides. Reach out. If they don’t answer back find new friends. Fuckem
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 02:32 AM
5

We all have to pay taxes so why not OF thots?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 05:04 PM
5

I know some women that carried that debt into a relationship and afterwards tried to pawn it on there husband. Fucking pathetic. There was a few stories on here where women absolutely thought after marriage it was there husband’s responsibility and even threatened to leave when he said no. He wouldn’t be paying her debt off
/r/MensRights04/06/22 03:01 AM
5

Well you are right but at this point it’s that I don’t want to provide. I’m not having a grown adult live off me. She will have a career or she won’t be living with me
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 12:00 AM
3

First thing you should realize is it’s got nothing to do to you and everything to do with her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 02:21 PM
1

Listen man she ended it. It’s ok to still care but you are no longer her husband. Tell her straight up that those days are over and you will take the kids but she’s responsible for herself and will be out on the streets.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 02:20 PM
3

Well fam nothing you can do bout it unfortunately. That’s why it’s not feasible to cohabitate. They absolutely will pull bull shit. I’m petty though. I’d get my shit out and tell her when rents do.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/22 03:43 PM
1

You haven’t answered anyone that I can see. Was she on the lease or not?
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/22 02:45 PM
4

Have this post in the back of your head when you slip into old habits. Every step forward is a good step. Means it’s not where your at and on the way to the man you want to be
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 01:44 AM
4

See that boys? There shouldn’t be a test. Marriage shouldn’t be about a damn pissing contest. But women make it that way. I’ll never be married.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 12:15 AM
1

Hahahahahahaha
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/22 06:05 PM
3

She’s going to cosmetology school I believe
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 05:59 PM
2

That would be awesome.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:22 AM
1

Did you go through and read her other posts?
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 01:29 AM
1

Of course. They are told from an early age they are princesses and get whatever they want. And then when that doesn’t pan out we are the bastards. Like you can work and have a degree. They are grown I shouldn’t have to care for another adult
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 01:06 AM
4

I hope you know that you made a post here you’ll probably be kicked by some other Reddit subs. But we do thank you for being in the fight with us.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:48 AM
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You lost me at they/them and talking about other genders like there are more. There is 2. The others are made up fantasy land. We could’ve took you seriously until that.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:02 PM
5

Na. She deserves all the smoke for being a dumb Ass. Cry about it
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 06:57 PM
6

To be fair they are in high school. She probably doesn’t know wat incel is.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:14 PM
1

Yea. Don’t do it. Tell her no and be prepared for her to leave
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:04 AM
2

They get awfully mad when I say there have been enough lies thrown around that no, I absolutely won’t just condemn a man because you said to. I personally know a guy that barely brushed up against a girls ass at work. She went right to the office. There barely was an investigation and he lost his job. Of course we all refused to work with her so she ended up quitting. I don’t even want to be with females by myself unless we are on a date or something and even then I watch myself
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:58 PM
2

This is where I’m at. I’ll probably never marry unless she’s everything I need in a women. I won’t be settling with bull shit.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:56 AM
2

Man I’ve read up and down this thread and you are looking for someone to tell you to go back or forgive her. Well go on ahead but know this… when you are out at work and wondering wats she’s doing those thoughts will come creeping in. You’ll start to resent her. She doesn’t love you so she needs stability. You’ll be working your ass off while she gives some dude gas money to come over there and beat her kitty up and drink your beer while you get laughed at.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 12:53 AM
-2

Yea. He’s gonna do it. Trying so hard to find someone to tell him wat he wants to hear
/r/MensRights19/04/22 11:07 PM
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Sometimes you also gotta do the hard love thing. It’s not an insult to let him know he’s fucking up.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 09:48 PM
7

Yea. I don’t think the comments are going how he wanted
/r/MensRights19/04/22 09:19 PM
2

Yep. Been doing this the last year. Saved a lot of time and money. It’s somewhere you can talk too. If we vibe then second date will be dinner. Weeds out those pesky fds to
/r/MensRights19/04/22 06:15 AM
2

Oh I’d disappear and switch jobs. I’ve seen it happen and they get away with it. Fuck her. I can’t believe that would remotely even work
/r/MensRights14/04/22 05:36 PM
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As a single man I don’t want them in my house anyways. More responsibility and a lot of trouble. Don’t mean to sound like an ass hole.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 02:32 AM
1

Fucking awesome.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/22 01:52 AM
0

Seen a post may buy a feminatzi simp talking about how as a man he hates men because every woman he knows has been sa’ed. all those women in there besides a few told them it’s not all men. Even when hit with statistics they still wouldn’t budge on there men hating stance. If i would’ve made a post about women like that id be kicked off Reddit
/r/MensRights12/04/22 09:28 PM
8

Bro wtf is going on here? She is the enemy. It’s over. Radical feminist should’ve told you not to marry her in the first place so I’m gonna give you the benefit and say you didn’t know at first. Absolutely get a lawyer. Like yesterday. She’s bout to bend you over a barrel
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 05:25 PM
11

Get an fwb and stay single gentlemen. The state of dating right now is pretty bad. Don’t even get me started on marriage
/r/MensRights12/04/22 05:10 PM
5

I believe if it doesn’t pass we should do like we have been doing and just simply not marry. More and more of us have givin it up
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:15 AM
1

Idk. It sure pisses them off. Had one try to report me on Facebook for it. Double mad when that didn’t work.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 07:32 PM
2

Sounds like it’s her and nobody will be enough. I’ve had one like that. Luckily it got nipped in the bud because I asked her “are you ever gonna be happy or are we fighting a losing battle? Cause I’m not staying around for you to nitpick at me all the time.” She was pissed but I don’t care. Her momma was like that with her dad but he just took it. I refuse. That was a long time ago and she’s working on her 2nd divorce
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 02:57 AM
1

I do it before.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 02:39 PM
5

Absolutely
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:47 AM
1

This one here. Yes they do. Lol. Bad part is they infiltrate other subs and become mods and any man that doesn’t agree will get banned from multiple subs for being in this sub and others
/r/MensRights31/03/22 04:10 AM
5

Get alimony. She’s a feminist so she should want to be fair right? Right. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/22 01:11 AM
3

Hilarious
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 02:52 AM
13

I quit offering help a long time ago. Just can’t anymore
/r/MensRights25/03/22 05:57 AM
2

Oh oh yes. Artritis
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 05:14 AM
1

Saves finger strokes. I got the arthritis
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 05:04 AM
1

I decided not to push it. Just to make folks ask wat happened to my H button
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 04:53 AM
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I think that is a damned good idea. Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 02:29 AM
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If you are a member of any sub for men then they will ban you for nothing. They did that to me. Bout 4 subs I never was even on banned me for this group or r/divorced_men
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 01:52 AM
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I was wondering why I seen a pattern there but couldn’t put a finger on it. You nailed it. Hell it was mostly women on there ganging up on mens opinions anyways. I laughed at it when I got banned.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 01:22 AM
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I agree with this. Got banned from r/dating_advice last week for telling someone polyamory doesn’t fix anything and it’s another excuse to sleep with folks but also get your bills paid. I’ve heard woman can say anything they want on there but men can’t make a peep
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 01:08 AM
3

Umm sounds like she should get a better job if she gotta shame someone into buying her of.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 12:12 AM
6

This reminds me of a time when a girl I was dating would sort of push my buttons even after conversations where i said wat was a hard line not to cross with me. I asked her wat the deal was and she “every girl see’s wat they can get away with”. Like wat?!?!
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/22 10:20 PM
6

Bro wtf? Always get a lawyer. Are you new here?
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/22 04:22 AM
3

Is there really women out there that think this way?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/22 08:44 PM
1

Reminds me of a post about a guys ex tried to get him to take the kids of her new bf on a vacation with him and his son. She legit thought that he should include them cause they can’t afford it. The audacity of these females
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/22 01:01 AM
1

Oh everyone would know. I don’t give 2 fucks.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/22 12:56 AM
7

Just…. Wow. Get that lawyer like yesterday and review the footage. Do not speak to this woman without recording somehow or don’t speak to her alone. Protect yourself op.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 06:40 PM
8

Yes. I’m not a lawyer or anything and this isn’t legal advice but you leaving can be considered abandonment. And women will say or do anything to get you to move because it’s easier to keep the house and all that. Do you have kids? Well if you move out that will look bad in court. Consult a lawyer asap. Also record everything. Her friends might be in her ear and all it takes is for her to accuse you of the wrong thing and your case can crumble. Courts give no fucks about us men. Document documen…
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 09:04 AM
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Do not move out
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 08:48 AM
3

That is simply 💫Bullshit💫
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 05:48 AM
5

How do you know it didn’t?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 05:05 AM
2

Do not move out. Never ever.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 10:40 PM
2

If you’re married it’s one thing and even then if you can I’d have a rat hole of money for rainy days. Also if I’m on a date it’s none of there business wat I make
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 05:41 PM
5

Yep. Op. In this order
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 10:03 AM
21

Do not ever. And I mean ever move out of your own house. No matter how hard. That’s seen as abandonment if you have kids. Sleep on the couch, on the floor, or anything else but do not leave your residence
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 09:14 AM
1

Well that doesn’t sound like a fun time but might be necessary
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 12:45 AM
5

Why do that though?
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 12:41 AM
3

Do not give in. She made her bed and gave no fucks and now you do the same
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/22 05:41 AM
15

I was banned by 4 different subs for being in this sub. 3 of them I never was a part of of knew existed
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/22 04:59 AM
5

When she text say all communication will go through my lawyer unless it has to do with the kid. She will bait you but grey rock her ass. You just giving her ammo.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 09:00 PM
3

Why care? She don’t give a shit. I wouldn’t have even given it a second thought. It’s hard to care about someone that did things to you. If they remember or if she calls then fine but hell with the rest.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 04:27 AM
4

A big mistake we make is thinking these women won’t do this or that to us but unfortunately and usually to late we realize this ain’t the woman we married. She doesn’t care bout anything but securing the bag as some folks call it. They don’t care and will use kids the best they can to get maximum monies out of you. Quit playing nice and scorch earth her ass.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 06:34 PM
3

Man I know everyone wants the dream of getting married. It’s not your fault. But these women nowadays have no accountability and they will drain you for everything and then tell you it’s your fault. I’d rather take a ass whooping before I want to play games and lose my livelihood cause a girl wants to “secure the bag” as they put it. Look up r/femaledatingstrategy and you’ll see.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 09:56 PM
4

Lawyer up yesterday. And man let this be a lesson. Never get with single moms. She’s trying to shame you into paying everything because she wants to keep her money. She waited till y’all were married to start bitchin about it. See the pattern?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 07:57 PM
2

Wat a pro! Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/22 07:34 PM
8

I’ll be honest. When I’m 50 and I’m not married ima still try for 20 something’s. Someone don’t like that can suck it. 🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 02:12 AM
8

She trying to get extra money. Tell her firmly to get fucked
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 09:32 PM
5

Man you are trippin. None of wat I said has anything to do with feminatzi agenda. Dude above said op’s friend paid to keep the kid away from his dad. Well yea fuck him to but she let it happen also. Also we don’t know all the details. The bio dad may not have been in the kids life so op’s friend adopted the kid.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/22 12:14 AM
9

If he gets out now it’ll be minimum damage. But if her ex pays child support then he shouldn’t be on the hook I don’t believe. Your friend is a level 5 fucking idiot. Hate to say you play stupid games win stupid prizes
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 08:58 PM
-1

Dude it’s on her as much as him. Let’s not forget that there is a reason she’s not with the baby daddy to begin with
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 08:56 PM
6

Yea. Wouldn’t hurt though. Man shit like this is why I’ll never be married. Anyways I’d document all your proof of her cheating if you have it and then speak to a lawyer. Your in a predicament though cause you’d have to choose between paying debt off or seeing the kids from wat I read? Definitely start with a lawyer either way.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:53 PM
6

First thing I’d do is paternity test man. You’d be lucky if all those kids was yours.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:44 PM
4

Man I hate to say it but don’t trust this. No paperwork and you piss her off no matter receipts or anything courts don’t care. You’ll have to start paying all over. You may even owe back child support. Just lawyer up man
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 12:52 AM
3

Man this is the most clear cut case I’ve seen. You get a lawyer first and foremost. But man you are lucky. You’ll be out of some alimony but not for very long (Ask your lawyer bout this). But take life in your hands and go with it. It suck but the sooner you pull the trigger the sooner you’ll be able to move on
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 12:29 AM
33

I’ll never get married. Fuck that
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/22 01:03 AM
6

Yea. It’s called r/femaledatingstrategy
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 12:41 AM
7

Here’s the thing. If you’ve not noticed every time a woman is unhappy with a man they sling that word around. To the point of where it’s lost it’s meaning.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 12:40 AM
1

I got banned from facepalm and a few others. Fuck em.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/22 03:59 PM
3

Hell na. I’ve done that and I’ll never do that again. I want all I payed for. Then I gotta start over cause she decided she was done? Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 03:52 PM
31

I agree. Definitely looking for life on easy mode
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 05:20 PM
3

The fact she even asks this made me realize I never want to be married. Hell I probably live by myself forever
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 05:19 PM
3

Why should he have to pay for a grown adult though? If she has a degree and they can be better off but out of pure laziness won’t cause “oh my husband should pay all my bills cause he can”. That’s dumb
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 04:44 PM
1

Just curious. Wat do you mean culturally a retirement plan?
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 04:40 PM
6

Me either. Didn’t comment on any of these. Matter of fact I got the email I was banned before I even opened Reddit today
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/22 10:48 PM
5

I’m good being single. Have been for 2 years
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 10:00 PM
63

So anyone else get banned from r/facepalm?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/22 05:16 PM
12

I got it to and didn’t even comment
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/22 05:14 PM
5

I looked at that subreddit and it’s pure venom directed at men. Good lord.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/22 09:53 PM
3

I’d advise to lawyer up quick. Also check and see bout the laws on recording someone. If you can get her to say it if not try to get it in text somehow.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 04:20 PM
1

You answered you’re own question brother. Now you know wat you need to do. Get a lawyer and do it TODAY. Do not wait. Start that new life. Said yourself you’ll be saving money even paying her spousal support. Reading that makes me never ever wanna be married
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/22 06:52 PM
2

Women will do anything but hold themselves accountable. I swear she expected you to keep up her place to.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 12:44 AM
4

Make no mistake. You ain’t friends. She’ll find someone else and try to “be friends” and tell you bout all about it. Be amicable but don’t be her friend and make that clear
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 07:34 PM
4

I’ll never get married. She can hit the road if she doesn’t like that
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/22 05:34 AM
2

Did it get shut down?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/22 09:56 AM
14

I’ve fully taken that advice
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 09:41 AM
2

Nope. Stories like these is why I’ll never be married. I don’t even want kids. I’m 34 and decided it would be best to not bring children into this world or put up with women’s shit. Cause I’ll sit in jail before I pay alimony to a chick that doesn’t wanna work.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 09:34 PM
1

Yea. That’s why we as men aren’t marrying. Most of my friends say the same thing. I have a few that’s married but it’s traditional marriage. That’s the only way I’d think of marriage
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/21 05:16 AM
8

I doubt I’ll be married. Ever. They have no power if you never sign that marriage contract… and best believe that is exactly wat it is.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 10:06 PM
15

We should all go over there and tell all men to demand 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 07:45 PM
11

You don’t even need college credit in my state.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/21 08:12 PM
1

Man you married a teenager who wants more of a daddy than a husband. You aren’t alone on this. Financial burden and mental burden is all she is. Get a lawyer yesterday and get the ball rolling NOW. Before you have to pay her for nothing
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 07:43 PM
16

She absolutely cheated on you first and she’s trying to justify it cause that’s how women’s brain works. Glad you got out. Also wat the hell was she thinking? Why would you pay anything for her parents? So dumb.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 06:51 PM
3

I don’t understand why folks don’t hold grown adults responsible for there actions. Like you want me to really put up with that shit? The kids have to be embarrassed and put up with it to. I wasn’t married but I put up with the same thing after for 7 years. No kids thank god but her family witnessed her shit first hand and it was still somehow my fault for cutting her off. I told them to go fuck themselves
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 08:16 PM
7

This story is why me and a lot of other men aren’t getting married or wanting kids. Putting up with this bull shit just to further the blood line isn’t appealing anymore when everything is against a man. You don’t even have to be the one to mess up the marriage to get totally screwed and become homeless, broke, and broken inside. I’ll take hook ups over that any day.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 07:04 PM
1

How crazy is that? I gotta know wat you said after that text.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 04:27 PM
3

Man this makes me not ever wanna be married. And any man worth his salt would fill some type of way bout living in another mans house. No shame.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 02:38 AM
3

Sir this is it right here. I’d give it gold if I could
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 02:26 PM
1

Shouldn’t have done that. She’s gonna use it against you hardcore
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/21 11:52 PM
19

Nope. Never getting married
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/21 04:16 PM
5

Reasons I’ll never be married
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/21 04:35 PM
3

Agree. I wanna see my brothers succeeding in life. Wish and hope we can all find someone worth a damn but unfortunately until the laws are more lax on men with stories like these, well I’ll never be married at this rate
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 04:55 AM
12

I love this. Can’t figure out why women take advice from divorced friends that can’t keep anyone. Obviously they can’t even handle their own life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 04:27 PM
1

You know wat you should do? Go to bed before she does and lock her out. I’m sleeping in my own bed and she can sleep on the couch. Edit to add. After reading the comments it’s probably a good idea to not do this. It’s a boundary thing.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 04:07 PM
5

Nothin we can do. We’ve taken that red pill and seeing it for wat it is. Maybe some will learn before it’s to late and they knock some mattress back up and she takes him for everything. He’ll realize then but it’s to late
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 07:44 PM
26

Yea. Not all of them. Some women live life on easy mode by manipulating men and seeing them as wallets. I’ve seen that a lot to. They’ve gotten away with it so long.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 06:11 PM
2

Never beg. Did she really think that would work? Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/21 12:01 AM
1

Why though? I wouldn’t reconcile either. Once an ex always an ex
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/21 07:00 PM
4

Wow. She thinks you are a fool. Tell her she can have her break and to take her shit when she goes cause the break is permanent
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/21 03:48 PM
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