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Productive vs unproductive emotions. When I get sad or mad or lonely, I do something about it instead of letting it hold me back and sitting and dwelling.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 02:39 AM
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It's a modern term for something that has always existed. Don't act like growing up you didn't meet men that were just a little feminine or women who were a little masculine. That's all gender fluidity is, pointing out that very few people embody 100% of the stereotypes of for the gender they were born into.
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/22 08:08 PM
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Now that I'm in my 40's I find the best advice I can give to young men in there early 20's is...get a vasectomy as soon as possible!
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 11:11 PM
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Between 2018-2022, there was some pretty wild real estate growth across a lot of markets. He could very possibly owe tens of thousands, in some markets, he could owe 6 figures
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 08:59 PM
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Either a walker or the down payment on a assisted living condo. I figure, if everything goes perfectly, I should be out of debt 1 week before I die
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/22 02:08 AM
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This was great for me. The person who is starting their time, picks up. So, if you're short your visitation time, it's no one fault but your own.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 10:30 PM
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Right of first refusal, move away clause, (may not be plausible but) graduated plan leading to 50/50 in the order. Legal shared custody, so you have access to medical and school records.make-up time, specific summers, holidays, birthdays, father's day, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 01:57 PM
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Objectification and sexual harassment always makes me giddy! Have you tried also telling them, they'd be even prettier if they smiled more?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 11:07 PM
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You are rolling the dice by walking up to random women on the street and making uninitiated comments about their looks. It's just creepy and offensive
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 11:00 PM
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That kids is how you get sexual harassment charges filed against you
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 10:49 PM
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This video shows a case of a women making an accusation and it turning out to be the truth. We can't look at one video in which a women actually told the truth and say all of the courts are against women while ignoring the other 99.9% The court officials acted properly based on the history of accusations by women.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/22 12:12 AM
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You can't really take these one off cases of women telling the truth and try to apply them to all cases.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 10:20 PM
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This is also why jobs promote married men over unmarried men. If you aren't tied to the debt of a marriage & family, you aren't considered as reliable an employee because you can just say fuck this job at any point and walk away.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:13 PM
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It is different, but given that abortion is still legal. It can be worse for men. When a child is unwanted by a women, she can have an abortion, this is true even if abortion becomes illegal and while that's no ideal, it isnt a lifelong commitment. This is true even is the man involved does want it. When a child is unwanted by a man, he does not have an option to not have that child born. If the women does want the child, it is born and he has a lifelong commitment to that child. This is complet…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 12:16 PM
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The problem is by saying '90% of rapes go unreported', you are perpetuating the problem. You are assuming that these are true accusations, without any evidence or proof. For all we know, none of these accusations are true, or only 10% or 15% are true. What we do know is, since they were never reported, there is no way to ever know.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 09:28 PM
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MGTOW is exactly what your last sentence is: I do my own thing despite heavy social pressures to not For some people cohabitating and reproducing is their own thing and the pressure is in the opposite direction. Its about doing what feels right for you, not just following a predefined path or the status quo, that could mean anything.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 03:30 PM
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MGTOW is literally, men going their own way. If your own way is marriage, more power to you. Its not a defined set of rules, it literally just means, do what you feel is right and follow your own path.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 03:27 PM
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Is the foil inside the pot just to keep it clean?
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 12:57 AM
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"We dont want lawyers", means she is going to end up showing up at court with a lawyer fully briefed and prepared and you will go there thinking everything is amicable and she cleans you out. You need a lawyer, beg and borrow from everyone you know.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 12:23 AM
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My understanding is, a court cant force a mother to pump. So, breastfeeding isnt necessarily good, as it could negatively effect the fathers custody. Formulas are very good these days.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 12:17 AM
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Yup, thats the difference for me also. I have about 30 more months left, but, i know i'm going to be helping out as much or more even afterwards. With college and starting out in adulthood. But, it will no longer be mandated by the state and automatically deposited into her moms account. I can decide how much i pay and when and can pay directly and to my daughter.
/r/MGTOW28/05/21 05:30 PM
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College costs and if the kid doesnt move out at 18, they can extend the child support until 21 in some states.
/r/MGTOW28/05/21 05:25 PM
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The OP specifically mentioned straight men.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/21 09:27 PM
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I'm probably going to get down voted, but the actual saying is “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” Not disagreeing with you, its just a pet peeve of mine when quotes get distroyed.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 01:59 AM
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This is great. Imo, mgtow has always been about finding internal validation instead of looking to society to validate us. Yes, a big part of that is no kowtowing to women and their expectations, but that was more a part of the process, not the whole.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 01:14 PM
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I found the best response to this is to just give them what they want. Usually people that 'give the silent treatment' find it very difficult to actually be silent. If someone tries that with you, just walk away. When they see that it doesnt phase you, they will go right back to non-stop talking.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 07:16 PM
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There are stages of MGTOW, but you are right, men that go their own way, aren't the ones who are on the MGTOW boards. Those that are MGTOW mainly have gotten passed the venting and bitching and moaning stage and are out living their best lives.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 01:05 PM
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I run into the same issue in real life and its caused me to sorta pull back from dating. We live in such a 'hookup' culture that its gotten very hard to meet and get to know someone without the pressure of sex within just the first few dates. I've been called all kinds of names by women just because i turned down their sexual advances, its as if men dont have the option to say no. We are expected to always want and always be ready for sex.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 05:24 PM
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I dont support Biden or Harris. But, that doesnt mean i blindly support Trump. Going your own way is absolutely not just following the path of others, even when they are politicians.
/r/MGTOW12/01/21 03:44 PM
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Think about what happens when a prison guard goes to jail. He went from being a corporate leader pushing around the politicans, to one of the politicians being pushed around. He did lose power over the politicians, because he could no longer buy their support. This was a shock to him.
/r/MGTOW12/01/21 03:43 PM
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No Biden is absolute trash.
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 03:04 PM
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As i said, what made him mad is he actually had less power as president vs when he was a business leader. I dont know if he realized before being elected just how much business controls government. “As a businessman and a very substantial donor to very important people, when you give, they do whatever the hell you want them to do,” Trump told The Wall Street Journal in July 2015. Trump said, “You’d better believe it. If I ask them, if I need them, you know, most of the people on this stage I've …
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 03:03 PM
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Trump has always been a part of the establishment. He spoken openly about bribing public officials and working with them to push policies that helped him. He spoken openly about taking advantage of loopholes created to help people like him. The swamp has always been the seedy back rooms where government and corporate leaders, just like trump, got together to screw the american people and enrich themselves. Trump expanded the swamp. What changed and made trump made while he was in office is him l…
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 02:10 PM
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Its impossible to become a billionaire through just your own labor, you musy siphon the value of labor from others to do it. Thats just how the math works. We live 100yrs, if we are lucky. If you work for 85 of those years, you would have to make around 11.8 million a year, or 2,828 hour on a with an 80hr work week. Can you think of anything you can do, in one hour that is work $2,828? That can be repeated 80 times a week? It just cant be done through your own labor
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 02:16 PM
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Alot of the right wing are using 'telegram' now.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 04:26 AM
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I've said this at the black lives matter protests. Its just a matter of not looking deep enough. Yes, black people are arrested and convicted at higher rates, even though they commit crimes at the same rate as white people. But, people arent asking why that is. Black people are 3 times as likely to live in poverty...guess what, they are also 3 times as likely to be arrested and convicted of crimes. This isnt a war on black people. Its the poor being victimized by the police.
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 01:03 AM
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Its a complicated topic and depends a lot on if you support our 1st amendment. We have an absolute right to protest, so i dont believe any order that restricts that right is lawful. If the police attempt to restrict it, the people SHOULD stand up, imo. I feel the same about the 2nd amendment and am disgusted about those homeowners who rightful defended their property being indicted. We should be protesting for them also. I can post a half dozen videos of people driving into crowds and the protes…
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 06:07 PM
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They are having rubber bullets shot at them, they are being tear gassed, they are being driven into and marched over by police. You can dismiss it by calling it 'ordered to disperse' but to everyone else, we see clear objective violence by the police. Yes, there are instances in select cities in which Looting and Rioting is happening in response to police violence, there are even situations of looting and rioting that is completely independent of police violence. That is not what is happening in…
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 04:54 PM
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Now, expand your national view beyond portland, california and nyc. The mass media is located in those 'hubs' so those locations are where we get the majority of our news from. But, they make up a tiny part of this nation
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 04:30 PM
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It would be interesting to find that out. Based on republican policies. How many inmates are pro-2nd amendment, how many are religious, how many dont support the lgbt community, but do support the US military, how many are for closed borders and reducing foreign aid, how many want smaller government and less taxes. Dont forget, donald trump isnt the be all end all for conservatism, you can not support trump and still be a conservative
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 04:28 PM
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An even higher percentage were raised or live in poverty. Its not a race or sex thing, its a class war. The police target the poor and those who live in poverty stricken areas. Ending police brutality and over policing/government overreach helps everyone
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 04:16 PM
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Stop getting all your information from the main stream media. 3 cities are having issues with looting and rioting. The rest of the country is peacefully protesting. Hell, i live 30 minutes from Manhattan and we have had protests day and night here, everyday. Not a single incident of looting or rioting. The main stream media wants to make it seem like the country is burning down, because that gets views.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:43 PM
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The police tend to lean right and the majority of the violence done at these protests have been by the police.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:35 PM
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Stop getting all your information from the main stream media, look outside.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:32 PM
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Oh bullshit, all people do bad shit. There are conservative in jail just like there are leftists in jail dont be intentionally ignorant.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:31 PM
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Anarcho-primativism (his book 'walden' is revered by the anarcho-prims) is kinda a meme belief, but a lot of it makes sense. Going back to being self reliant and building a life with bare hands (figuratively) is not a bad philosophy. Of course the other part, being anti-technology is a bit extreme.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:30 PM
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Yes, bad people do bad shit. Does that really shock you? The problem is, when those given special rights to defend the laws, those given the duty to protect and serve the public instead brutalize and force the public to be submissive to them. I dont buy the whole bullshit black/white thing. But, police brutality and government overreach is a real issue and something that effects all of us.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:25 PM
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They are protesting against police brutality. The police pushed over an elderly protester causing him to have a stroke. A news reporter was shot in the face with a rubber bullet and lost an eye. Police stopped a car driven by peaceful protesters and tazed them multiple times. A police vehicle plowed into a crowd of protesters in nyc causing multiple serious injuries. There are hundreds of incidents of police brutality against peaceful protesters. Lets not act like police brutality isnt an issue.…
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:22 PM
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Why do you compared armed cops being killed by armed civilians to unarmed civilians being killed by armed cops. How many armed black people are killed by cops? Are you anti-2nd amendment? The post you responded to specifically said i dont back the orginization, i just support an end to police brutality and right now, the blm people are the only ones fighting for that. If the damn libertarians would step up, i'd prefer to join them in this fight.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:11 PM
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People just read the headlines, thats all they've ever done. The headlines say 'black man killed by cop' so they see racism. But, if they look deeper, they would see its not black and white. All races living in poverty are being killed and having their rights stripped from them by the cops everyday. Its a war on the poor, not on any specific race
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 02:04 PM
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I'm a libertarian. Liberals support big government and constant control of the people by government enforcers.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 01:47 PM
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There is no way that is going to end up with a wife or in any kind of male female relationship. Its already closer to MGTOW then most people in this group.
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 01:10 PM
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Granny pass overules pussypass everytime
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/20 01:18 PM
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There are about 6-7 videos about this story.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 02:16 AM
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The video doesnt match the song. The video shows a guy busting his ass working 24/7, while the women in the video are literally laying on their assed getting money showered on them. It shows how hard men have to work compared to women
/r/MensRights28/02/20 01:06 PM
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It will decrease your burden also. Most people will save thousands in medical costs and college loans.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:57 PM
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You have to do whats best for you. I have a young daughter and have been chained to the same company for 10yrs because i cant afford to go without medical insurance(its legally mandated in the custody agreement). A medicare for all plan would give me back employment mobility and tuition free public college will help me advance my career a little more. It will do that for a lot of other people also.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:49 PM
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I work for the insurance industry. Granted, i work in claims, not underwriting. But, i have some understanding of it that most people dont.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:43 PM
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I dont hate trump. I may have even voted for him in 2016, he's a big mouth and a bit of an egomaniac, but i'm a New Yorker so i get that. Ideally imo, the smaller the government the better. But, no one running is running on shrinking government. Trump is just as much Big government as bernie. Trump is big military and small social benefits, Bernie is small military and big social benefits. When i weigh those two things, i believe our tax dollars should go back to the people who pay them, in the …
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:35 PM
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Out of 8 charges he was only found guilty on two. Thats the narrative we should be pushing. Less then half of the claims were proven to be true in court. It goes to show you cant just 'believe all women', even if he is guilty on a couple charges, doesnt mean he is automatically guilty of all claims.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:15 PM
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At $110,000 you will pay around $3,000, cutting your current costs in half. I dont know where you got that $20,000 from but it doesnt seem accurate. You see, how insurance works is, the larger the pool, the smaller the risk and the better negotiating power the insurer has with drug companies, hospitals and medical facilities. The entire population of the US is a HUGE POOL. Costs would go down significantly.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 09:07 PM
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Bernies tax plan is the same as the current one, except you will pay 4% more for universal healthcare. I know just the premium of my insurance i pay through my paycheck is way above 4%, that doesnt count my deductible or copays, for a lot of others, thats true also. You will actually save money with medicare for all. If you dont want to save money, thats your choice.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 08:43 PM
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Trump hasnt been all bad. He's helped the economy, but he still follows the mistaken belief of 'trickle down economics'. Our tax money should be coming back to us in the form of government works directly. Not be given to the rich with the hope it will trickle down. The ideal is obvious a libertarian system with very minimal taxes, but no politician is going to do that. The best we can do is get back in benefits what we pay in Bernie has the best chance of getting us that.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 06:36 PM
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Hillary was the definition of establishment politics. High taxes being drained from all of us, going to the industrial war machine and corporate bailouts. No benefits for the people. Bernie is not that, everything he calls for is giving taking our taxes and using them to benefit us all universal healthcare, tuition free public colleges, legalized pot, etc. Bernie is nothing like Hillary.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 06:32 PM
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I dont think we disagree as much as you think. Its about a measured response. If i slapped mike tyson in the face, i expect to be hit back harder then i could ever hit someone. But, i wouldnt expect him to come at me like he is fighting Holyfield. Its the difference between ending up in the hospital vs the casket. Tyson could kill most of us with just a couple of hit, but that would be excessive force and just not needed in the situation. Landing me in the hospital is enough to teach me not to d…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/02/20 02:12 PM
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If they cant actually do harm to me, male or female, i'm not going to go all in. If a child hits you, you dont wind up and knock them into next week. Its the same with kid sized adults.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/02/20 03:11 AM
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People focus on the wrong shit in these videos. i dont care if you are a Male or Female. That is absolutely no factor in how i responding to you hitting me. I'm 6'2 260lbs, if you are in my weight class, i'm going to respond at full force. But, if you are 5ft nothing and 110lbs soaking wet, i dont need to do all that.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/02/20 09:02 PM
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MGTOW is going our own way. Who cares what others do when you can follow your own path?
/r/MGTOW11/02/20 01:35 PM
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Because as men we are perfectly able to figure things out on our own and fix what needs to be fixed without help. We are islands, strong, confident and self assured. Men are taught not to depend on others and to be self reliant.
/r/MGTOW07/02/20 01:14 PM
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Right, dont envy Chads, they are still following the path that we are working to get away from.
/r/MGTOW07/02/20 12:43 PM
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It is import to point out the toxic basis of the traditional path. The 'go to college, get a job, get married, have kids, die' path. You cant begin to even travel down your own path until you realize how toxic the tradition relationship and the 9-5 job market is. But yes, this sub does tend to focus only on a tiny portion of going your own way, while ignoring all the others. Toxic relationships are important to move away from, but if we only take that step, we still arent free to go our own ways…
/r/MGTOW02/02/20 06:01 PM
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Just showing him youre happy and how great your life is is the best way. Buying things for yourself, having the time and energy for self improvement and the time and money to travel and make your own choices about where and what you want to do. When people see what freedom looks like, they will never go back to slavery
/r/MGTOW02/02/20 05:53 PM
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There is also the discord, which created 24hrs ago, already has almost 200 members. 26 online right now https://discord.gg/kzv3VUw
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 10:56 PM
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Part of self improvement is getting away from toxic people who only drain your resources and hurt you.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 11:08 PM
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I went through just about the same thing. When i got the dna test results back, i hadnt seen my daughter for months. Filing for paternity and parenting time, i got screwed because of the time apart. Just got a few hours one day a week(i'm a model citizen, so there wasnt any other reason except i hadnt been parenting for that time). It took me 8 more court dates over almost 10years and tens of thousands in lawyer costs to incrementally move up to 40% custody. The whole time paying child support. …
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 09:25 PM
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If you made it out without kids, you've won.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 08:10 PM
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Your boss thinks the same of you at your 9-5. Going your own way means breaking free of that harness also.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 08:05 PM
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WAS being the key word. Not since the 1980's has it been about equality
/r/MensRights29/01/20 07:20 PM
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I will be 40yrs old in July. None of this surprises me. When the charges dont stick, she will file a restraining order keeping him away from the home and his children until the divorce proceedings begin. Now, since he cant be around his kids, her lawyer can claim easily that she is the sole caregiver of the children. He'll be lucky to get every other weekend. Plus, he will be charged child support based on his 'possible income' and will be tens of thousands in the hole before he can even find a …
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 07:23 AM
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Her pussypass was denied, is my point
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/20 05:30 PM
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Got the max sentence
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/20 04:49 PM
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The MGTOW subreddit is really for those in the first step of being MGTOW, people first starting to step away from the societial pressures of dating, marriage, kids, etc. That first step is a big one and those people just getting over it have quite a bit of rage to work through to get over that step. Once you get passed step one and you figure out that you dont need others to feel validated and complete and that you can forge your own path, you dont really need this subreddit either. There are ot…
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 07:11 PM
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I think Bernie has a better temperament then Warren. If i was a betting man, i'd say she is more likely to start a war during her presidency vs Bernie during his.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/20 02:29 PM
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Yes, in the last hundred or so years. But, for thousands of years before that, it was much closer to even.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/20 02:11 PM
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You know, historically this is inaccurate, right? For hundreds of years monarchs ruled much of england and the surrounding areas. When Queens were in charge, they were 27% more likely to start wars. If you are just talking modern history, this maybe accurate as we have moved away from a matriarchal society towards equality, but that ignores thousands of years of history.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/20 02:07 PM
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Quality of life isnt improved by spending a third of your life making someone else rich. I'd say the minimal quality of life is what is left over after living a 9-5 life, do you even have time to live life at all like that? Really life is lived out in the real world. Quit your job, enjoy the real world. So you can see what a quality life really is.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 04:50 AM
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Right and your path just conveniently follows exact what society demands you follow. Sheep also think they have a choice not to follow the flock, but yet they still do it, every single time.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 03:11 AM
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For me, its the complete opposite of toxic. Its about finding your own path in life and moving away from external validation to become self confident, self reliant and learn how to find validation from with in. A toxic community would attack and demean you for not following the hive mind and doing what they believe you should be doing. MGTOW embraces individuality and freedom.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 02:32 AM
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Religion also pushed expectations onto others based on how they believe we should be living. Its hard to 'go your own way', when you are following someone elses path. Even if that is the path of God.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 01:51 AM
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Thats what they tell us, but its simply not true. When i was younger, i knew a ton of guys who worked at ski mountains in the winters and spent 9 months a year living as beach bums out of the back of their vans. I know a guy now, in his 40's who works 6 months a year running a pool service company and does nothing for the other 6 months, living minimally. The reason you think you need a ton of money is because you are trying to live up to other peoples expectations. They expect you to buy a car …
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 01:49 AM
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GO YOUR OWN WAY. Marriage for a long time was considered just a 'part of reality' for men also. The 9-5 is a trap meant to chain you to a desk for 40years. Stop chasing other peoples dreams of what your life should be. You would be amazed how happy you can be just working temp jobs and living minimally. Some of the happiest people i know work 3 months, then live in the back of their trucks or vans on beaches in mexico or traveling the us living for free for 9 months every year.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 12:38 AM
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The expectation of a white picket fence in the suburbs, leasing a new car every 3 years and 'keeping up with the jones', is independent of marriage. Its a societal expedition that keeps you on that treadmill. Working day and night just trying to keep up with what is expected. Yes, marriage makes it worse, but the plantation starts way before that. We miss that a lot here, it isn't just the women who are forcing us into servitude, its the societial expectations of what they say men should be.
/r/MGTOW11/01/20 08:32 PM
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Already too late for him. Hes already been through the soul drain monotony of work. Got to find a way to escape before that. The 9-5 is the real plantation
/r/MGTOW11/01/20 07:29 PM
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You just explained feminism
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/20 10:56 PM
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How do you like the inflatable? Does it feel sturdy? I've got a tandem kayak already, but i'd love something lighter, smaller and a bit more maneuverable
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:07 AM
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My office is a little more casual. No ties, but you must wear a collared shirt, slacks and dress shoes. Casual friday only allows a change to jeans. Well, that is the rules for men. Women come in in pretty much anything they want.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 02:24 AM
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Its not about like or dislike. If i point out that the person to my left is 5'8", i am just stating a fact, not expressing my like or dislike. Alot of what is said here is just stating facts about women, its seen as 'bashing' and 'hate' because women are seen as a protected class that you arent allowed to criticize. This isnt a 'safe space' where people are protected from free speech. We tell the truth here
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 07:35 PM
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There has always been 'bachelors' through out history who have done what the 'redpill PUAs' are doing now. Society accepts these guys as part of the standard 'norms'. You arent going your own way by being a bachelor and following the exact same path as society dictates. I'd say you are actually just as stuck in the plantation as any married man. Still peacocking to attract women that will only waste your time and resources MGTOW is all about self-validation and self-worth. Finding value in your …
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 03:21 PM
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This, instead of anger directed at others, take pride in what you have accomplished. If you keep your head up and not let yourself feel disrespected, it wont matter what these NPC's say or do. Just take pride in who you are and what you do, everything else is just background noise. I dont know the principle of least interest, but it sounds to me like laughing at others anger. Showing you are above all the petty bullshit and focusing on your own way. Dont let others decide for you who you are bec…
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 02:32 PM
2

None of that has anything to do with going your own way. Its just following a parallel road thats full of the same bullshit as the other path.
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 01:28 PM
32

You are going to retire at 57-62 from a state government job. While you may have a 401k(403b?) and a pension, you gave away 40 years of your life to hopefully have enough money to not work for 15 years. That 40years of 9-5 is about 85,000 hours of work. Considering 16hrs of waking time a day, thats about 5,200 days of your life given to someone else. 14 1/4 years of just solid work. So, you spent 40 years of your life to gain 3/4's of a year of freedom. Great plan!
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 02:28 PM
68

The plantation extends far beyond just the societial norms of marriage and kids. Its also wage slavery and the 9-5 lifestyle. Breaking free of that is just as important to going your own way as not getting married and having kids
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 01:10 PM
4

It used to be well known that the highest percentage of men who go to the gym were homosexuals. You know why that is? Because the superficial braindead bullshit around starving yourself and damaging your body in the gym is only believed by women and faggots. How about you man the fuck up, get some self confidence and stop being a little shit and worrying about what other people think you should look like? Jesus christ, are you people going to start sharing makeup tips next?
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 12:11 PM
2

There is an idea called 'financial abortion'. During the pregnancy, before the birth, the father would be able to give up all rights and responsibilities to the child. I'm a dad and my kid was born in a situation in which i asked for an abortion but was denied. But, i'm not a fan of this. i believe in taking responsibility for my actions. I couldn't morally live with myself if i had a child out there whose life i wasnt a part of. Even if the situation isnt ideal.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 12:52 AM
1

I've vaped for a long time. It works.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 01:23 PM
8

I'm not saying dont stay active. There is so much world out there. Get off the couch. I dont think we should be limiting any of our life. The world should be your gym. I kayak all summer, go hiking and biking in the spring and fall and stay active all year Thats what i see as the point of being MGTOW going your own way, fully, without someone else slowing you down.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:05 AM
7

I will also enjoy my 3 beers and 3 shots every night, my nicotine addiction, my heavy porn watching, my casual drug use and every fucking thing else that actually makes life worth living. Enjoy....being miserable and never having self validation or even a moment of feeling satisfied and self fulfilled.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 01:26 AM
4

Why? I'm not trying to impress others nor do i care if i can fit in skinny jeans to look like some anorexic soyboy. Meals are literally the flavors and spices of life. Starving yourself and feeding yourself only grass and seeds is just going to make you miserable and can cause low testosterone. Sorry, i'm a man, i'm going to enjoy life and live it to its fullest. I'm going to eat whatever the fuck i want, when ever i have a craving for it. You have fun trying to get a bikini body like some image…
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 01:06 AM
3

Ahh, i'm almost 40yrs old. I have seen the transition from dating in the 90's to dating today. How the work environment has changed. How family courts have changed.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 06:17 AM
5

We arent at the point where we can rise above at this point. Men are being attacked at all angles, we have to fight to keep even the few rights we currently have. Sitting back and letting the sjw's, feminists and femcels say as they please will just allow them to use those fabrications to try to take even more rights from us
/r/MensRights10/11/19 06:05 AM
4

Heres the problem with rising above. It allows others to demonize you without proof. If i am getting raped and stab someone in the chest, i cant just rise above and not mention the rape while she tells everyone i stabbed her. The whple story is important
/r/MensRights10/11/19 05:59 AM
7

The facts about men are spouted off constantly, feminists dont let anyone forget any of them. We need to state the facts about women as a counterpoint so the whole story is told.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 05:54 AM
5

So when women make generalization about men it also has the effect of making it seem like these are only mens issues. By pointing out the hypocrisy, that women also do disgusting things, it allows people to see that this isnt a man or women thing, its scumbags or all sexes that act that way. We cant demonize one sex while ignoring the crimes of another.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 05:49 AM
3

Some 32's would look nice on that.
/r/MGTOW05/11/19 06:30 PM
1

Congratulations, you are such a useless, full of shit millennial that you have no hope of ever understanding how the real world works. Just cry to mommy when the world is mean to you. If you cant handle a boss telling you, your work is shit, or you need to do a little more, Have fun living in daddy's basement playing fortnight until you're 50.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/19 10:26 AM
0

Are you in America? The passenger side is the curb side of American cars, so you would have to walk past the passenger door to walk around and unlock the drivers side
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 03:28 AM
6

Older cars werent the micro-economy shit boxes we drive now. Yes, you could go to your side, unlock it, the reach across and pull the lock on the other side. But, thats long reach. Its easier to just unlock the passenger side while you are at the curb.
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 02:24 AM
1

Where did you get that? In any job you are going to have to take BS, if not from your direct boss, from the customers, or vendors or other workers. Thats part of being a grown up. If you cant handlr taking any bs, you belong on the streets.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 10:59 PM
0

In which you will have to take more bs
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 10:50 PM
36

We opened up car doors because you had to unlock each door with a key. Modern cars dont need that done anymore
/r/MGTOW03/11/19 09:37 PM
0

You have to take some BS to hold a job, i dont care what job it is. If you arent willing to take any BS, you arent going to be able to hold a job. You wont have a job and will be sleeping on the streets. I.e. if a women wants to sleep inside, she needs to take some BS
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 05:08 PM
0

Women have to put up with BS if they want to sleep inside.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 05:03 PM
0

Good luck keeping a job and not living on the street if you arent willing to take a little BS
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 04:56 PM
4

He's not wrong though
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/19 03:25 PM
4

Would you keep a non-violent parent away from a kid that sees them as a hero? This isnt about the wife, fuck her. Its about keep a kid from its parent.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 03:48 PM
12

Right, look at that house. They have money to spare. She is in no way hurting for his child support, but this guy is obviously in pain being away from his child. Fuck, i shouldnt have watched this, i'm just going to be pissed off all day now.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 03:22 PM
22

Not always. Its rare, but if you have 'taken on the role of father', even if its not your kid and you didnt know, you can be forced to pay child support. 'Taken on the role of fatherhood', can be as simple as signing the birth certificate or even living with the mom.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 03:03 PM
-7

You know shes the wife of one of the founders of reddit, right? Such an amazing athlete and impressive person she is!
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/19 12:35 AM
3

Thats a huge step/goal! We are expected to carry debt at this point. Everything from college loans, to mortgages to credit card debt. If you can go your own way, away from debt, thats fucking awesome!
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 01:55 PM
22

This is what i think when i hear mgtow. Societial norms are "go to college, get a job, get married, buy a house, have kids, work behind a desk for 40 years, hope you live long enough to retire". These vandwellers and tinyhouse people have found a loophole to go their own way. Its refreshing and it helps show the world that going your own way is a real option.
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 12:56 PM
1

Last i hear, married men were 'presumed' to be the father at birth and entered onto the birth certificate. If you are unmarried and you don't sign in the hospital, you get a DNA test and file for paternity to have your name added.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/19 05:43 PM
9

This. While legally we have the same sexual and parental rights as women on paper (we know thats different in the courts), we have no reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 04:22 AM
6

Self-actualization is a lot deeper then just giving up women. Moving away from women, so you can focus your desires on self improvement and find inner focus is the easiest way to go, but it is not the only first step you can take.
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 09:26 PM
1

I've been through the hell of family court while unmarried. You have to prove you are the father and jump through months of court dates to establish any time with your child. After those months have passed, she has already established primary custody and you are fucked. I always recommend marrying the women to friends i know who get into this situation. Marry her and divorce her the second the baby is born. As a married father you have equal legal custody rights to your child. That means you can…
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 04:27 PM
3

You can still go your own way with kids. Its just much much more difficult and much much more expensive. I have a daughter i pay child support for, but because i made the choice not to follow the path of marriage, homeownership and chasing women, i am able to live a life in which i make all the choices.
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 04:22 PM
25

http://newscastmedia.com/domestic-violence.htm
/r/MensRights08/10/19 01:34 AM
34

http://newscastmedia.com/domestic-violence.htm
/r/MensRights08/10/19 01:34 AM
241

Most offices won't even allow shorts or non-collared shirts. But, women can wear pretty much any slubby crap they can find.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/19 03:07 AM
49

I would look into getting one for you and your child. She was a danger to your child when she was driving like that also.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 02:14 AM
15

Practice witchcraft?
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 04:04 AM
42

Exactly! This wont effect bachelors at all. We can live simple lives and be extremely happen. It is women who need to consume to feel fulfilled
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 04:03 AM
2

Exactly this. Why is there someone wrong with complimenting people?
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 04:56 PM
23

Women need external validation. Like children shouting 'look at me!'. Everything they do is to get validation from others. When they see that we can find that validation internally, they cant understand it and seek to try to distroy it. Thats why mgtow is attacked so viciously by the feminist groups. Going our own way, not caring what others think, seeking internal validity and self fulfillment, drives women crazy because they cant do that.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 08:25 AM
11

If i had any money to lose i'd get a vasectomy. There is no way i would trust a women to take the pill.
/r/MGTOW23/08/19 12:17 AM
1

Thats what they are teaching, but if you compare the mental stability of generation X and earlier men vs millenials and generation Z, the truth stands out. I dont know if it was really bottling up emotions as moving past them and solving our problems instead of dwelling on them and feeling sorry for ourselves. I was taught if you dont feel good, dont sit there and feel bad about yourself, do something about it. Productive values instead of breaking down and dwelling.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:46 AM
2

I'm just under 40, so maybe a little older then most of you. But, this is a valid question. There are a lot of things that seperate men from women, one of the main things is how we deal with grief and pain. While women tend to dwell and fall into their pain, men are meant to pull strength from it. We are the problem solvers and the rock, because we dont sit around and dwell, we fix and help. Maybe its just the way i was raised, but crying is anti-productive and useless. You gain nothing from it …
/r/MensRights10/08/19 01:47 AM
1

Supermarkets throw out tons of food on a daily basis. Food that hasnt expired yet, but is within days of expiring. They legally have to and in some states if it is within x number of days of expiring (not expired already 3-5 days) they are legally restricted from donating it. They HAVE to throw it away. Dont forget, with more people purchasing food, less will be sitting on the supermarket shelves expiring. So, yes. We have enough food. We just dont have enough people that can afford it. (Not eve…
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 07:18 PM
1

America throws away around 60 million tons of food a year due to spoilage, waste and over production. That doesn't even include the food we are paying farmers not to grow. We have no shortage of food.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 05:09 PM
14

Kindness, supportiveness and intelligence were the top three. The exact traits of a beta male provider. Women are looking for a man they can push around and extract money from.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 04:02 PM
10

I pay a shit ton in taxes, if i can get $12,000 back a year instead of it going to corporate welfare/social justice programs/the military, i'm all for it.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 02:56 AM
0

But, dont you think he should be? If i saw this while dropping of my daughter to get here nails done, i would offer to help the boy. Something has gone really wrong in his life to drive him to that. Maybe just having a conversation with a man could help.
/r/MensRights04/08/19 04:47 AM
48

Rape culture is when a female teacher rapes an under age student, she is given a more lenient sentence when compared to a man and no news reports will report it as rape.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 02:01 PM
2

Its horrible seeing all the guys standing in the background just watching it happen. I bet they would have jumped in instead of just watching if he had been hitting her instead.
/r/MensRights28/07/19 02:21 AM
7

I dont know if i can post that on here.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 04:20 AM
30

Its from a feminist hate sub. Not really surprising from that group.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 12:54 AM
1

So it looks like we just have a difference of opinion. You see MGTOW as all or nothing. Any risks are unexceptical. I see it as process, every step away from following what society demands or you is another step towards freedom.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 01:04 PM
1

There are a lot more then just marriage and a family that make a man a plough horse. Men are going their own way and casting off the label of provider and defender by choosing to be stay at home dads. More families are dual income with nearly equal salaries.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 12:49 PM
1

Its not so much a game he's playing as he has a type. Just like you may not want to date a fat girl, he does not want to date a girl who doesnt contribute equally.
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 12:26 PM
1

I dont really know why MGTOW is restricted to men. Going your own way is a great concept that everyone should be following. But the way societal norms having been changing recently, Towards anti-male sentiment, i can understand why men have been gravitating towards it so strongly.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 12:20 PM
1

Marriage and children arent the only societal expectations. You are also expected to be a good consumer, to purchase a home, to work a 9-5, to wait till 65+ to retire, etc. As a male, you are expected to dress a certain way, get one of a few different hair cuts and to act and diet according to what society says. Its true that there are major risks with marriage and children. But, working the expected 9-5 desk job for 40 years and other societal expectations have major risks also.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 12:08 PM
2

You can be married with children and be MGTOW. Its literally just 'going your own way'. Its about going against societal expectations and following your own path. With the way society is going right now, believing in Mens Rights and standing up for them is VERY against societal expectations.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:41 AM
1

r/mgtow2 is a bit less toxic. But has many less members.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:38 AM
3

The best thing you can do is clean yourself up and be present in life. Don't do it because you feel you have to for the wife or the kid. Instead, do it for you. Being the best person you can be, not only improves your life, it helps those around you see a strong male rolemodel and makes them better as a reflection. Next, get a lawyer and get prepared to fight. Divorces are never easy when kids are involved and if she is a stay at home mother, the fight get much harder.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/19 07:16 PM
2

I saw this video years ago. Never part 2. This is hard to watch, since i have a 14yr old kid.
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 11:28 PM
1

I'm not sure about communists not agreeing with MGTOW. Its main tenants are a 'classless, stateless, moneyless society'. In a world like the the most self sufficient and self confident would thrive. When I think of communism, i think of the book Walden by Theroux. Sort of an anarcho-communist world.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 11:26 PM
2

Get a lawyer, don't move out. Get custody and keep the home you own. Make her pay you child support.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 10:38 PM
12

That's not what liberal is. GYOW is a very liberal idea. Those who break away from religion in conservative areas are going their own way. Those who come out as gay are going their own way. Going your own way is going against traditional values and expectations. It's as far from conservative as can be. It's very a progressive movement.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 09:50 PM
1

That 90% is intentionally misleading. It is the percentage that get convictions in court. There are hundreds of steps before that in which claims are dismissed before even getting to court. I'd say the majority of rape accusations never even make it to a police report because of how obviously false they are.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 08:11 PM
5

Land whales are easy marks. They put out without any effort, you dont have to worry about catching feelings, because they are hideous, they will be greatful for your attention, so are very willing to degrade themselves and they are so used to being pumped and dumped that they dont turn into stalkers a month later when you start screwing around with their cute friend.
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 02:12 PM
12

As a father of a 13yr old daughter. I would act the same way. Yes, its natural and everyone has done it. But, there is a time and place for things, i dont watch porn at work and she shouldnt be searching things like that when with me. Not to mention, most of those sites at 18+, she shouldn't be on them at all.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 01:12 AM
1

Going your own way isnt only about getting away from women. For most that is the first step to rejecting the standard societal norms and going your own way, but it doesnt have to be. Societal norms say at my age, i should be married with kids and a house, pulling in six figures. I should be wearing a suit to work everyday, driving a car i cant afford, tens of thousands in debt and killing myself at a job i hate. If i decide to go the 'pickup artist' route, working odd jobs and vandwelling, that …
/r/MGTOW222/04/19 01:53 AM
3

I know its not the most exciting thing. But, i've been trying to make a good 'sunday gravy' (thats tomato sauce for the non-italians) for awhile. I do 6-8 quarts of sauce every other week and freeze it to use for quick meals. I still dont have it good enough imo. So, i'm going to be spending Saturday night and most of sunday wrist deep in in short ribs, braciola, sausage, meatballs and tomatos.
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 01:34 PM
8

Cautionary story: I didnt go MGTOW early enough, never married but got a girl pregnant and have been paying child support for 13yrs. That pregnancy shook me to the core. The fact i had no choice in the matter and had to drop out of college and start making real money. Today, i will be working my regular 9-5, then 6pm-12am doing uber, saturday and sunday will also being 12hrs each of doing uber. Dont be an idiot like me.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:30 PM
1

You should look into anarcho-communism or even anarcho-primitivism. A lot of what keeps us from being able to go our own way is that capitalist hamster wheel and the pressures of 'keeping up with the joneses'. As long as you are stuck in a 9-5 working towards a financial goal, instead of working towards improving yourself you are falling behind. If you define yourself by a dollar sign, you are still defining yourself by womens standards as a wallet instead of as a person. Anarcho-communism and a…
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:14 PM
11

One of the big issues in the Mens rights movement is the systematic oppression of men when it comes to family courts and child custody. Also the unfair distribution of child support and the bs alimony. The right is still very deeply entwined in the gender stereotypes that women are the caregivers and men are the providers and many of the courts are VERY conservative. The right is also VERY big in the blue lives matter and police can do no wrong camp. The camp that automatically takes the womens …
/r/MensRights14/02/19 05:22 PM
7

Tiny homes are heavy and, even though they are on wheels, really not great from traveling.
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 05:29 AM
2

But is it the SHO?
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 01:18 AM
3

Its important to understand. That age is adulthood. A child is never old enough to decide on their own. But, judges will start taking consideration of a childs wishes around 12-14 depending on the state and the older they get, the more weight that consideration will hold. But, it isnt 100% a childs decision until they are adults.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/19 10:54 PM
1

Just you. The top chefs in the world have always been men.
/r/MGTOW28/01/19 01:20 PM
1

That is the point i have been trying to make in other places. That moving away from the societal norm of a mans requirement to support and protect a family, is just the first step and in not the end goal. But, then they do further research and it does end up being brushed off as misogyny. Its VERY frustrating and i worry the anti-women posts on here perpetuate that myth.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 09:24 PM
2

For me? I went my own way from what was expected of me of society. Marriage, family, home ownership and working 40yrs at a 9-5 job. Its an opposition to societial norms. The van-dwelling community is a good example of people who have 'gone their own way'. Its much more then just getting away from women. As for the why, this is different for everyone. But, i see a rather large societal and moral decline on the horizon and see people everyday who have followed societies path and have lost themselv…
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 09:10 PM
0

I'm not a troll. I just think you guys would get more support from others mens rights groups and even some far left groups if you framed it more as 'walking away from societies expectation for men' instead of 'look how money hungry these hoes are'
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 08:58 PM
0

If you just moved to that community, the children havent had a chance to get 'established in the community' and you wont be taking them away from their schooling, friends and family by having them move again to primarily live with you. 75 miles away isnt that far for them to live away from mom. You can offer to provide all transportations when they go to visit her on the weekend. Fight for primary custody, thats what i would do.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/18 12:19 PM
-7

Thedonald is a pretty rightwing sub and also follows that same logic. They ban indiscriminately. Are you saying they are liberal? Its not a political thing, get your head out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 12:26 PM
5

Soo, the odds of relapse are rather high with alcoholism and may lead to legal troubles. I dont think you should be planning for divorce, alcoholism is a disease and divorcing someone because they have a disease is fucked up. But, what you should begin doing is talking to him about separating assets due to the possibility of lawsuits. Car accidents with injury, fights, property damage are all things that can cause your husband to be sued if he relapses. If your assets are seperate, you may be ab…
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/18 10:56 AM
0

This is the same job you had before the divorce right and your expenses shouldn't be that much higher, why do you have to see them less? If you moved out(which most people will recommend you NOT do) as long as their is no paperwork saying you can't, stop in after work. Bring dinner, or if it's late, offer to read them a book before bed. One of the best decisions I made is a daily phone call. No matter what I'm doing, I'll stop at exactly 4pm every day and call my daughter. This gives me a chance…
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/18 11:20 AM
1

Never seen war games?
/r/MensRights28/06/18 12:32 AM
1

'Won a game by not playing it' is the moral of one of the greatest movies ever made.
/r/MensRights27/06/18 09:17 PM
4

There are a few ways to play this. But, playing along isnt a bad one. Responding to texts immediately isnt a bad idea, a lack of communication can be used against you in court and she can twist that late responses as you not communicating. As for the custody schedule she has setup. How bad is it? I would ONLY agree with the stipulation 'more time as requested' and call anytime I have a free minute to see the kids more, even if you only have a minute and KNOW she will say no. Even just requesting…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/18 12:14 PM
1

I graduated high school 6'2 145lbs, i couldn't put on weight no matter what i did. I had real body acceptance issues. Now, about 20yrs later I'm 260lbs and the most comfortable I've ever been in my body. Sure, I'm fat, but i made the choice to be this size and I wouldn't go back no matter how many people try to shame me or what they feel people should look like.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 12:03 PM
1

The very definition of communism is 'a stateless, classless society'. I dont think you know what communism is. How do you have a dictatorship without a state?
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 06:23 PM
-3

Right, the goal of going to college is to get a great job and have a great life. That doesn't mean the only way to get a great job and have a great life is to go to college. There are many other ways to communism except socialism. One is through a libertarian government or a voluntary society. Communism isn't some liberal ideal or libertarian ideal. Its all about how you get to communism.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 04:38 PM
-4

You are getting socialism and communism mixed up. Communism is a stateless classless society. Essential an libertarians wet dream. Socialism is a shit hole some people believe(no one who actually understands politics) you have to go through to get to communism.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 03:47 PM
1

Fairly recent, as far as I know, tactic by the family courts. I think its called 'nesting' or something like that. The children live in the marital home full time, but the parents switch time between the marital home and the rental as their custody time comes due.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/18 05:05 PM
7

When you move out and leave your kids with the soon be ex, you are telling the court that you are ok with them being the primary care giver. Also, when you move out and establish a new 'home' or location. You are telling the court that you are better able to find a new home and that your ex should get custody of the house. This is why so many men lose their homes in divorce and end up only seeing their kids on the weekends while paying thousands in support
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/18 06:55 PM
1

She will easily be able to claim that you have setup a new residence and that she should be entitled to stay in the home(which you will have to pay for). She will also very easily claim that she is the primary caregiver for the children, since you don't even live with them (increasing child support costs and limiting your custody of your own kids)
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/18 09:11 PM
-5

I though most states allowed a father to give up his rights to his child. Which releases him of all financial and legal obligations. Imo, it's a shit thing to do, it's not the kids fault and it seems leaving a kid to be raised by a single mother and/or the state punishes the kid.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 08:33 PM
22

Every aborted child is another guy that doesn't get sucked into the bullshit child support and custody cycle. Another chance for a guy to realize how fucked the system is towards men and for him to go his own way. I'm very pro-abortion. I dont give a fuck that there are less future feminist and criminals running around raised by single mothers.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 12:12 PM
8

Men don't need to 'fake it' they are happy with who they are, or at least accepting of it. If your priming and pruning to try to fit into other people's standards, you aren't a man.
/r/MGTOW05/03/17 08:38 PM
4

They tried that in China. It sorta worked for awhile, but when you import them into America it seems all of the training is lost immediately.
/r/MGTOW30/12/16 12:40 AM
2

Now that I'm thinking about it. When I was in school, the term used for those girls was dicknotized, essentially hypnotized by the dick. They would drop everything they knew and like as soon as they met a guy and adapt his likes immediately. Getting older, I guess I should have realized this is a very common phenomenon. But, it never clicked before.
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 07:06 PM
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Wow, you know I've never that, but thats very true.
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 12:15 PM
15

What is knitting?
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 01:21 AM
2

It seems by some I'm the men's right community that male and female circumcision is on the same level. My understand of female circumcision is that they are removing the clit. I don't think that's the same as removing the foreskin. Wouldn't the clit be more equal to removing the 'head' of the peni
/r/MensRights28/12/16 01:34 AM
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It's always easier to ask forgiveness instead of permission.
/r/MGTOW27/12/16 04:23 AM
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Dude, it's a choice you have to really sit down and think about, it's not about finances, it's about if you feel like this is your child and you are responsible for it. There's only 3 choices: Give up all rights, stay out of this kids life forever Pay child support minimal parenting time (you pay out you ass and the child knows it's father, but not well FIGHT for custody and have her pay child support to you. Your child is raised in the best possible circumstances, by its father. But, that's a h…
/r/MensRights19/12/16 04:28 AM
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It's a big strain. I drive a 20 year old truck, I eat like a college student and have to watch my expenses very closely. I basically live pay check to pay check. Some months ends don't meet. But, through all the strain, I am raising a little person that will make a difference in the world and who will help pass on my legacy to the world. I wouldn't give that up.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:38 AM
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I'm in NY. It's 17% here and they calculate that pretax. So, yah it sucks, but, that 17% is totally worth it to have a daughter.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:08 AM
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Ok, I don't agree with this, but if you truly don't care. In Texas you have the ability to terminate your rights to the child, which will also terminate child support But, ive got to say again, I think a child needs their father in their lives. The chances of child abuse almost double when the child is being raised by only the mother. Not to mention of the chances of the child growing up to abuse drugs or end up in jail. Mines was kinda a one night stand. Broke up with her, dated someone else fo…
/r/MensRights19/12/16 02:37 AM
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? These are your kids. Do you really want your children, your family, raised by a women you couldn't stand enough to even live with? That's fucked man, I wouldn't wish being raised solely by my ex on my worst enemy.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 02:17 AM
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I'm pretty sure they ask for the last 2-3 paychecks if you don't have a tax return. They will average those. Has custody already been established? Because, if you are only working part time, you should be fighting to be the primary custodian.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 02:10 AM
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They take a year's wages and average it.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 01:54 AM
3

Why bother? By doing that you are just showing the ex she has power over you. If you go to the party you go for the kid and you shouldn't give a fuck at all that the ex is even there. Not acknowledging her will drive her crazy enough. Women thrive off attention, she'll spend months second guessing why she couldn't get attention from you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:48 PM
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That's not true. Back in the day the children were considered the fathers property just like the wife. In the case of a divorce the father was the one who took custody because he was the one with the means to raise the children. It's changed only in the last 50 years. Women getting custody of the children is what's gotten fucked up because of feminism, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 12:43 PM
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If she traps them and the guy fails down the ultimate hole of marriage. She stands to gain much more then just dinners. She wins a house and half of everything the man has.
/r/MGTOW13/12/16 01:09 AM
1

I'm pretty sure he's like 5'4".
/r/MGTOW16/11/16 11:59 PM
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