Riding_Officer_CCI Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
43	Gentlemen; A practical thanks		Riding_Officer_CCI	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/03/16 02:51 PM

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1	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 27, 2016 Re books on leadership: I'be got a post forming about making the case for Dick Winters as a case study in leadership for the sidebar- his frame re leadership was rock solid and helped me greatly with the reconciliation between the anger/burden of performance/acceptance phase. I'll draw it out properly in a full post, but for now: Winters, Richard "Beyond Band of Brothers" Kingseed, Cole "Conversations with Major Winters" He rises earlier, runs farther, stays working later and holds himself to a …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/09/16 05:34 AM
1	Leadership...my focus. While the rest of the interwebz think we are all about being Herbert Sobel, we are busy teaching each other to be Winters.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/16 04:43 PM
6	Why is Red Pill Amoral? This: "Wedding vows were historically a vow to give full sexual access in exchange for full protection and provide for a good life. If both sides broke their arrangement, look at the consequences." Is something I've been thinking of developing into a post in itself- I know my previous paradigm held the 'sexual access' part of the vows of Marriage 1.0 as an ideal, however, understanding things more clearly- namely that women's desire mechanism is evolutionary, not logic based and pretty much an h…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/06/16 04:51 AM
8	Most women find me attractive, just not my wife. Am I still the problem/the one who needs to change? I'd posit that there's a better than even chance you're treating your woman as a wife, not as a woman you're gaming. Never forget that the ring, wedding and corresponding commitment is the woman's equivalent of getting a blumpkin on the second date- a massive "well shit, where to go from here?" moment. You're attraction from her perspective takes a huge, unavoidable hit simply by committing to her for life- hence 'hard mode.' Start slowly treating her as a woman again. Remember- she doesn't 'owe…	/r/askMRP	27/05/16 05:34 AM
1	[RP Theory] How do you make a woman feel desired without showing neediness? Rule # 1- be attractive, don't be unattractive. Take a template of words and actions conveying desire. Imagine how a woman would react to Seth Rogen using that template, compared to Gerard Butler at his '300' physical peak. Exact same words and actions, totally different reactions. Her desire is reactive. Which brings all of us, once again, to Step 1 - 10. Lift. Edit: iPhone spazfingers	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/05/16 07:47 AM
1	Keep Going. She has a breaking point. Tone is difficult to convey. It should not have happened a second time---> I understand what happened and how it did ---> same mistake will it occur a third time. Explain why ma hamster has got anything to do with it.	/r/askMRP	24/05/16 09:47 AM
7	Keep Going. She has a breaking point. I've let my foot off the gas twice since unplugging. It should never have happened a second time. Excellent post, timely reminder.	/r/askMRP	24/05/16 04:46 AM
-3	Is she shit testing or have I moved too fast? No, no no no no. No. we are not talking about career, vacation or education plans. This man can't choose to eat a sandwich without his wife passing comment; she expects him to justify himself. Think how fucking ridiculous that is. Unless he's in a wheelchair, it's 5/2 that if he chose (hypothetically) he could kill her with his bare hands before she could summon help. Instead of late night landscaping, suggest the OP just stare coldly at her while aggressively gobbling that sandwich. Never break…	/r/askMRP	16/05/16 06:59 PM
3	Passing shit tests, pays you somewhere down the line Wish in one hand, shit in t'other and see which is full first. Change 'I wish' to 'I will,' or even better 'I am' A mans lot in life is hard fucking graft. A gifted man learns to enjoy the work. Get to it, brother	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/05/16 09:00 AM
1	Take a break from your phone, and become it's master It comes to this: Would a man you aspire to be allow himself to be subject to operant conditioning?	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/04/16 07:45 PM
1	What in the ever living fuck is this shit? Article link in post It's The Guardian. Why would Men wipe their arse with it when they could bidet With feminist tears.	/r/askMRP	16/04/16 07:07 PM
2	Keep going down the rabbit hole Do you view the RP journey as one without ego completely, or a process where an ego is destroyed and rebuilt into something different? I keep noticing comparisons in necessary mental state between this and Basic training, difference being in the RP, it's ego suicide, rather than murder-by-sergeant.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/04/16 05:06 AM
11	Blog post by a surprisingly self-aware woman theorizing on how to handle her shit tests The anger from the fems is because the whole mechanism of shit testing is evolved to assess which men Just Get it. In order to maintain the illusion of the 'feminine mystique,' any explanation or deconstruction of female mating behaviour represents a threat to the balance of power, I.E that women get to select a mate. Not only that, but it threatens the id on a fundamental level that a man can learn to 'get it' - ie be a Game natural, rather than he just be magically born with it. Women, despite…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/03/16 06:50 AM
2	Being romantic again She doesn't find you arousing any more. You are the first guy in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4 Many a true word said in jest, huh? The same realisation came to me, and when it did, I'm not being hyperbolic to say it ruined a piece of my soul. I was operating from the Old Set Of Books, and the pain it caused me was almost unbearable- that's a post in itself. The good news is all the New Set Of Books, the instructions can be found in the sidebar and contents of this sub. Al…	/r/askMRP	27/03/16 05:41 AM
1	Why no texting? You've inadvertently defined a shit-text. If she texts you something non-logistical, does she get pissed if you don't reply? Hint: shit-test She thinks she wants you to reply straight away- gives her a short term power hit. Medium and long term, however she will lose desire if you do that. She (and all women) are aroused by a Man who's so busy crushing life that he's not got time to reply to "heyyyyyyy :) how's your dayyyyyyy x x X x x"	/r/askMRP	26/03/16 02:12 PM
6	Why no texting? When starting out on the Path, it's real likely that a male is chasing his wife about, both physically and emotionally, desperate for her validation and approval, and desperate to do anything which compromises the same- I.e being clingy as fuck. Anything that is not logistics is her ringing an 'attention bell,' to see if you will respond- Think of it like a really lazy, low cost way she can check that your balls are still in her purse, a tug on the dog lead, if you will. An attractive man hasn't…	/r/askMRP	26/03/16 05:42 AM
3	Dread possibly working Because as you're teasing (which is OK by text), she believes she has 'hand,' - specially if you were being overtly sexual. As soon as you tell her you've made a plan without asking her, the cards are revealed and she has a fistful of shit. My darling bride has a premier instructor in passive aggression from the MIL, and it's taken me a long time to strategise a way out of it. Yours may or may not be like that generally- but that text sure as hell is PA. Text: "thanks for asking me before you ma…	/r/askMRP	25/03/16 07:43 PM
2	Ressources on building and maintaining frame? May I borrow your dishwasher example? Her: "you didn't load the dishwasher correctly, I've told you a thousand times that (white noise)" Choose from the following options: 1) "honey, I do it this way because x" 2) "don't you fucking DARE try to scold me in my own house" 3) "k sugartits, (smirk) show me how it goes again?" The right option will only be maximally effective when she finds you attractive. Hence the single most used word on MRP is what we English would call an 'elevator.' Once you ca…	/r/askMRP	25/03/16 07:30 PM
1	Dread possibly working Having thought about my response, I think I done thunk too much. When faced with those two, in a text, the following flow chart applies: Is she texting about logistics? if yes -> reply appropriately If no -> ignore Is she pixting you a shot of her bosom? If yes -> birthday cat emoji (h/t Chateau) If no -> ignore Her text # 1 = passive aggressive fishing. Level 3 cuntiness Her text # 2 = doubling down, trying to get you to break frame and beg for forgiveness/supplicate in some way. Level 5. How d…	/r/askMRP	25/03/16 07:07 PM
2	Dread possibly working Her: "We need to have a talk when you get home" Picture a petulant six year old girl telling you that. Respond accordingly.	/r/askMRP	25/03/16 06:16 PM
6	Got the long term covered. What about short term? So meditate. You telling me you are so busy that in eighteen hours of being awake, you can't sit quietly for ten minutes and think only about breathing in and out? Don't 'I wish,' or 'I will,' you know what will help, so do it. Tell yourself that you are the man who meditates for ten minutes a day, and live up to that name	/r/askMRP	23/03/16 06:48 AM
3	[FR] Be a wild tiger. Awesome FR chap- the deconstruction of her behaviour and your reactions are really useful, beecauuuuse... AWALT. The phrase I've been using more and more when tested, rather than DEER, and as development of STFU, is... grin "I got this." Of course for that to work, one has to *show that shit has indeed been got. Yes, it means I'm still setting out the boys kit for nursery tomorrow, tidying the kitchen or sorting something around the house while she relaxes, after a shorter day than mine in a muc…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/03/16 06:04 AM
11	"You need a man cave" 'workshop,' is a better term... Fill it with stuff which produces (easel, TIG welder, treadle lathe, punch bag, you get the picture) rather than consumes (Tell-a-vision, consoles,) and my darling bride and her silly friends can call it what she/they like. Fuck, a man used to have a study or a library in ye olde days- the concepts not new.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/03/16 08:06 PM
2	"You need a man cave" 'Aww sugartits, the whole cave is my man cave. Where do you get those silly ideas in your pretty head?'	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/03/16 06:55 PM
1	What comes next? Take a step out of her frame. Yes, she gave him a deadline; but who cares? Yup. Better perspective than mine right there.	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 05:55 PM
2	What comes next? Before I say that, I want to know that I will win AND how I'll win it. Is the correct answer- and pour your anger and pain into self improvement. You sound like you're a switched on cookie, so remember any and all internet advice is worth what you pay for it... Including mine.	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 04:29 PM
1	What comes next? Simple, but not easy- im guessing she's always had first refusal on your time, attention, money and affection? Make her understand that if she leaves, she gets none of those things. I.E: no comfort behaviours at all, and focus all your attention on maximising attraction behaviours- which it sounds like you're already doing. Even the 'oldest teenager in the house' should understand that actions lead to consequences. Remember- there is no such thing as a 'true love' bond between a woman and a man-…	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 03:48 PM
1	What comes next? No chap, its different advice. A philosophical question: If you have to beg a woman to give you your balls back, do they really belong to you? Look, puss puss- op can take a year running his 'Map,' etc - but his woman will have burned on her mind that he allowed himself to be manipulated by her fucking deadline. The marriage is dead. Be a Man, do not tolerate that shit, and op has a chance. Theres a time for 'fun and awesome' captain and a time for "this is how my ship runs" captain. And he need…	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 12:36 PM
3	What comes next? FUCK her deadline Knowing what we already know, which is more arousing: Her: "we'll try for a month, but if I'm still not happy I'm leaving you" You: "I'll be a better Captain, I promise, look at all my improvements, please just give me time" or Her: "we'll try for a month, but if I'm still not happy I'm leaving you" You: take her gently by the chin, steel your eyes and say "You threaten me like that ever again and I will have papers for you to sign in the morning. I will fight you with everythi…	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 09:42 AM
3	What comes next? in u/BluePillProfessors book, he goes over the point that the marriage contract is an exchange of sexual exclusivity for your time and resources. Your wife is thinking of 'branch swinging,' or as the great Terrence Popp would say " an unauthorised upgrade." It's important not to get confused with the 'ships captain' analogy- it has its arse kicked around here an awful lot. Yes, you are responsible for the ship and her complement of crew. Your Executive Officer is thinking of mutiny- showing how …	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 08:05 AM
2	First step in a 1000 mile journey Go to a gym now. Banish the words "I will" from your vocabulary, because "I will becomes" "I would have, but..." All too fucking easily. Go. Start building the habit. Kill the ego, lift an empty bar if you need to avoid soreness, but form that habit	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/03/16 06:40 AM
9	What comes next? Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Record everything Particularly- time spent with your son, your financial input to the household, and any further 'threat' conversations with her. Others may advise you to lawyer up- I've not enough experience to suggest spending that much cash. No matter what she says or does, do not move out of YOUR house - possession being 10/10ths of the law etc. Dante Nero (of the Beige Phillip fame- disciple and friend of Patrice) had a good bit about a divorce thre…	/r/askMRP	21/03/16 05:59 AM
1	what to share/keep away from wife A kid brings home a piece of card with pasta stuck to it and goes 'Mom mom mom mommy mom MOM! Look what I did at school,' and she sticks it up on the fridge door. Yes, we all want validation for our achievements, it's only natural- however your woman won't understand the work it took to make them, all she knows is she has to put more fucking pasta on the fridge and pat you on the head. Take pride in your achievements from the praise of your superiors (at work), or generally men you admire. Kill …	/r/askMRP	20/03/16 07:37 AM
2	"I like skinny guys" 1) The discipline of lifting regularly, and the testosterone it produces is the very essence of what it means to be a man. Everyone you meet for the first time is subconsciously making an assessment- either "can this man beat me in a scrap" or, if they have a vagina "could this man protect me from the world." 2) Dem gainz happen so slowly that they are the very definition of 'deliberate' on your part. The internet will be able to teach you how best to train into complement your sports. You won't…	/r/askMRP	20/03/16 06:37 AM
15	SMV. Perceived and real. Self-perceived SMV is not only irrelevant to males becoming Men, but any time spent on that venture is wasted. A used car is not worth what the owner spent on it, but what the buyer will pay. In this case, the men of MRP have restricted ourselves to one buyer. Which of the following questions is likely to raise more helpful answers for a male who is on the path to being a self-actualised man: 1) My SMV has risen to a seven, but she's still a four, why won't she fuck proper? 2) I've dropped from …	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/03/16 09:51 AM
2	[Editorial]: Why RPW Hates MRP, or, How All of You Failed a Large-Scale Shit Test. Inspired by the recent PPD thread and BPP's Subsequent Post 1) women, like children, want to live in Disneyland. Disneyland is ruined if someone explains all the hard work, late nights, deadlines etc it takes to pay for the trip. 2) According to CDC data, the average woman spends a whole three years of her life choosing outfits. Remind me again why anyone cares what the little darlings like or dislike, when they don't know themselves? Men- just take em to fucking Disneyland. Don't explain how you got there.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/03/16 03:19 PM
24	FR: Itty Bitty experiment by the new guy If we have any former grunts in here, forgive my simplistic explanation. When conducting an infantry attack at night, a unit's mortar support will fire 'illume' rounds- huge parachute flares which burn for a while, effectively turning night into day, and enabling attacking troops to navigate terrain and take the enemy position. The terrain to navigate here is Female Nature and this interaction is a small, single illume round which has allowed you to see a snapshot of the terrain. Your aim is to …	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/03/16 06:07 AM