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Someone that is only treating you with respect because of them being desperate and having a scarcity mindset isn't exactly the most desirable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:17 PM
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You've personally witnessed a woman grill her husband/boyfriend for crying? It's not specifically crying, it's behaving in a manner that the woman in question consider effeminate. Typically they won't "grill" their spouse for it, this would be too direct for most women and they will be seen as a bad person because in society we are supposed to encourage men to share their emotions. Instead they will lose attraction to the guy which will lead to negative things in their relationship and yes I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:16 PM
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It's surprising to you that most women want the guy to just "get it" ? This applies to almost everything else they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:12 AM
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I think you have to state what you mean by "only has eyes for me". I am not saying he won't be loyal or committed to you and act like a gentleman ONLY to you, but looking at another woman and thinking she is hot is something that is done within seconds. That doesn't mean that he wants to sleep with her or engages with her in flirtatious manner, simply that he finds her hot because of his biological nature. Don't you find some guys hot despite not ever wanting to sleep with them whilst you are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:37 AM
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Women are just okay with tolerating insecure tall men For the same reason that many don't mind dating short guys as long as they aren't insecure about it, both of these men fulfill the attraction quota to the point where they are desirable by the woman in question. I would even make the argument that the confident short man has a much higher long term success than the tall insecure man because the woman has already accepted his physical stature and deem his attractive. Insecurity has a nagging a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:32 AM
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I doubt you would think the same about a negative experience you had with a tall one. In order for your comparison to make sense, the negative experiences would have to be directly correlated with him being tall, so the question is, which negative experiences would that be ? Shes literally assuming other short guys will be the exact same as the man she has dated by default. She is assuming that at the very least there is a possibility of him being insecure due to her past personal experiences an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:21 AM
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Any negative or toxic behavior done by a short man in a relationship is attributed to his height This is not what she said though, she said she would never "hear the end of it" this heavily implies that he was specifically insecure because of him being short. Hence it's not unreasonable to think she wants to avoid dating someone that may potentially have the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:49 AM
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It's safe to work under the assumption that the 'requirement' is for the guy to be taller than them and the preference is to be above average male height. When women claim that they only date 6' specifically or above it should be treated as a shit test and responded to accordingly or you completely disregard them because of their vapidness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:45 AM
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if my partner would've liked me more if I was taller. I mean this can be said for just about everything, it's better to just live with the assumption that she genuinely is into you and that's why she chose to be with you. Any insecurity from your part will most likely result in lost attraction from her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:33 AM
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Its makes 0 sense to me How come ? IF the guy is insecure because of his height, which she attributed it to, then it makes perfect sense as to why she wouldn't want to take a chance with another guy that may potentially have a Napoleon complex ? Tall guys aren't insecure because of their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:21 AM
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only has eyes for me From a sexual viewpoint ? This man doesn't exist, at the very least not with a guy that has the robust libido you desire. I am not saying he won't be loyal or disrespect you by flirting with other women, just that us guys like to look you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:16 AM
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The difference is if a man goes off steroids, but maintains lifestyle the muscle will stay It entirely depends on how much the guy was taking in the first place, the more you take, the more you will lose. This is particularly true for the additional cosmetic effect of looking WAY fuller when you're on vs off. It's a complicated topic because we don't fully understand satellite cell / epigenetic memory in relation to muscle regulation over longer periods of time but there's a good reason as to wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:04 AM
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She just realized that her Blastoise was in reality a squirtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:40 AM
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What are you talking about? Most people have bad experiences with both genders. Boys and girls (at least where I live) are quite heavily separated during school years, not physically but boys hang out with boys and girls with girls. Also these experiences are not in a romantic/sexual context so the illusion may persist. Things that TRP try to take credit for is just common sense to most people. Some of the things, sure. It was just the guys who joined TRP were behind. Which is exactly what I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:29 PM
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They are just the ones where things didn't work out organically with women. Not everyone else understands it, many men are BPed into oblivion (Think OF simps). RP men are former BPers that are now vocal about their realizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:51 PM
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You do understand that emotional intelligence is required to be socially competent ? As a matter of fact it heavily depends on it, if you can't understand how other people feel, you can't adapt and therefore you can not behave appropriately in different situations when required to do so. >Shy people aren't just "choosing not to interact Whether you interact with people or not is absolutely a choice, I am not denying that it is harder for some people. Also most of these people are not shy around …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:05 PM
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That doesn't make it objectively a hygiene risk. It's way more likely that you pointing out your boyfriend that he smelled like sweat(bad) made him more self-conscious and he improved his grooming. The truth is that sweat itself doesn't smell bad, it's the bacteria that comes in contact with the sweat that creates the bad smell, which is why it heavily differs between people how bad they smell. Armpit hair is only an issue if a person can't clean themselves properly to get rid of any bacteria be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:37 PM
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So it's not OBJECTIVELY a hygiene risk as you state it is, because your observation is not rooted in the correct logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:21 PM
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The message that he is trying to convey is that more men will cheat on their woman out of pure physical lust, compared to women whom will cheat both in an emotional and physical manner. He defines the former as infidelity and the latter as both infidelity and being unloyal, you understand right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:19 PM
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My own observation is that many young women(more than men) are shy and reserved, yet very keen to other people's emotions and exhibit appropriate behavior whilst in diverse social situations. Young men on the other hand are more likely to be more bold and forthcoming but ignorant or uncaring of other people's perception of things. I am fully aware that this is not all women or men but I would still never deem the women that exhibit that behavior as lacking in social competence, because it's too …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:56 PM
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> But yeah, I also agree that armpit hair is objectively just a hygiene risk. If I smell sweat on someone, it's usually someone who has armpit hair. What YOU'RE missing is that people who do shave, also in general care more about their own personal hygiene. This is why most people that you encounter that smell bad are not shaved and most (virtually all men) that do shave, don't smell. Guys that are gay/bi or just metro- also in my experience are more well groomed and smell nicer but not because …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:01 PM
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I love how you start off your post as if you're actually considering dating a guy like that but half way through you drop that absolute bomb of a statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:10 AM
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You sound extremely needy, you do realize that the vast majority of guys you meet that agrees to that will be absolute doormats and you will ultimately end up resenting them for it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:08 AM
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Being shy and socially competent are not mutually exclusive, you can be extremely socially adept and just not prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:00 AM
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Gym averages out at like 1 hour / day, what is the problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:58 AM
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I honestly think that your expectations are extremely reasonable assuming you are telling the truth about your own commitment to the relationship. I'm actually very similar to you in the sense that I am aware of the value that I bring to the relationship (as a boyfriend) so I won't tolerate her not respecting my boundaries and expect her to be a good girlfriend as well, otherwise we are not compatible and I will save us both the time and break up with her. >I’m super loyal so I didn’t even consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:12 PM
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You're very feminine looking and cute at that. I don't think you will have trouble finding a guy that dominates the fuck out of you and makes you feel feminine around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:50 PM
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What I am saying is that something doesn't line up with OP - I agree with your post about the guy being a "nice guy" simp and then dropping his act once he got some. However I don't think OP is correct about her "falling" for him love bombing her since he was doing that for 3 years already and he wasn't getting anything. Honestly this sounds more like OP gave this "nice guy" a chance after bombing out with her previous ex and didn't take into consideration that no reasonable, high value man, spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:21 AM
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>Just like how I fell in love with a version of him that doesn’t actually exist (during the love bombing phase) You say that he chased you for over 3 years, how did it take 3 years for you to fall in love with him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:23 AM
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I think a lot of people do notice character flaws but choose to ignore them because they are infatuated with the person. It's also just not "green" and "red" flags but rather a spectrum of these traits that people usually have, so you have to make a decision on which you deem "acceptable" and not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:10 PM
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In my fictional example, i imagine that players only being interested in hookups will have it easier than ever. Financial data is important for LTRs though and not hookups. Looks primarily and personality/charisma(in terms of sex appeal) is what secondly matters. Current state of online dating is perfect for hook ups, which is why it's so bad for most men since they don't fit the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:08 PM
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You think we will have Tyrell Corp level Android commercially available in 6 years ? Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:04 PM
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Whenever I hear the term "Demi-sexual" I think of a person who strongly associate romantic feelings and sexual attractiveness. This would be in contrast to, perhaps a more "male" centric but not exclusively of course, clear separation between someone whom I BOTH want to pursue romantically and have sex with, and a pure want-to-bang-her-brains-out within seconds of seeing her. Then again you knew that you wanted to sleep with him after(during?) your first date so it's not like you had a ton of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:54 PM
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Well, I mean there's an underlying cause for everything. I am just the sort of person that find things that I don't fully understand intriguing. I do understand what you mean by objectively attractive, sometimes a person who doesn't have the "best" or "striking" features just awakes something feral in us. As for the face-sitting, it's pretty dominating - Do you align with that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:26 PM
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To be fair they won't just "leave". First, they need to "secure" the person in front of them otherwise they risk losing both. Secondly, their feelings for this person has to dominate their innate, rational want for something better, since admitting that would make them a bad person. And thirdly they must validate their not-too-hot feelings for their current partner, usually by a lackluster effort to "confirm" their partners "lack" of (you-used-to-do-this-but-not-anymore) motivation to strengthen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:12 PM
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I should clarify I'm not trying to imply you're a one night stand kind-of-person at all, what I am trying to understand is what made you hot for him. A lot of women seem to start of in a neutral type of position to a guy and then find endearing things about him, like his humour or smile as you said. Whilst these are attractive traits they typically don't make a woman just crave for him, you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:56 PM
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Alright, so you enjoyed spending time with him because you had a good time and his smile was contagious. I assume this made you intrigued and want to see him again, so that you could get to know him better. At which point did you want to sleep with him and what was it that made you feel that way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:32 PM
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So what did you find attractive about him RL but not based on his pictures ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:17 PM
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It's not about marrying a "perfect" 10, it's about having options so that when you meet someone you like there is a higher chance she also finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:00 PM
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If you are under the assumption that he wanted a LTR, then yes. If he just wanted to fuck then it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:44 AM
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If you just met her and she sits on your lap and shares a bed you with, she's a walking red flag. It indicates that she has low inhibition and a high sex drive, for LTR the inhibition part is a red flag but if he just wanted to smash he failed her test badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:27 AM
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it’s an exception Tbh HE sounds like he's the exception. Considering Asians are typically seen as less masculine, him being tall and bald (Not necessarily a positive trait but regardless it's still seen as masculine). Does he also work with maintenance ? (physical and handy)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:24 PM
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Causing harm to monsters doesn't make you into one. Are you also against locking up criminals in jail ? Because robbing someone of their freedom for decades/life is much worse than beating someone in self defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:32 PM
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It also doesn't mean that she NEVER will be into him, which is true for the poor analogy she used.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:16 PM
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Why wouldn't you just reverse the situation and use a female friend instead ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:03 PM
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I understand you now, we are just seeing this from two different perspectives. You appear to say that women's sex drive appear at higher levels in terms of complexity, while what I was referring to was in order of magnitude. As in men's 1-tier system, due to higher levels of testosterone(primarily but not exclusively) having a bigger impact on the need to satisfy the urge of engaging in sexual activity. Since this is what the term "sex drive" most commonly refers to. In comparison to women's 3-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:35 PM
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Of course, which is why I don't get why people are whining about women finally liking them once they get in shape or whatever, both men and women are shallow to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:15 PM
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I understand what you mean but if only a limited amount of men can trigger the maximum levels of desire from a woman and the rest of the time they lay dormant, compared to that of a man who's being triggered constantly(especially in the age we live in) then would you not agree that women's sex drive operate at a lower level in general ? I agree that when all 3-tiers(to keep it simple'r') are met, women does not behave much different from men and will often be even more aggressive in their pursui…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:02 PM
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Do you think it sounds condescending ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:44 PM
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The expectation is that they will be using both of their incomes to achieve higher standards of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:39 PM
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It's possible that she primarily dates career driven men that are looking to start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:33 PM
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Why do red pillers like calling women being turned on "the tingles" Because when we crush on people growing up there is commonly a tingling sensation around our belly button/ loins area. Men feel it too but women are typically more animated in their response to any given emotion they feel at any given moment hence the usage of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:29 PM
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Quality is the collective sum of traits within the man that the individual woman is attracted to. Red Pill / Black Pill does a good job detailing the general ones, the latter being focused on physical traits (looks) whilst the former going much deeper into the psychological parts, dynamics of attraction etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:23 PM
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In which ways do you feel that they gaslight people at the bottom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:17 PM
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They have 300 guys to choose from. The quantity of 300 does not matter if only 30 of them are quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:46 AM
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No reason to be more depressed because of that realization, it's nothing personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:43 AM
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He didn't resent her for liking his personality, rather that the prerequisite for her liking his personality was him being more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:42 AM
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The perception of a persons personality is unfortunately, at first glance, highly dependent on other traits the person possesses. Example, a very attractive guy acting confident around women will appear to be congruent with his looks, because after all why would he not be confident with looks like that ? An unattractive guy will come of as being the opposite, incongruent. Typically perceived as either faking it or being unaware of his own bad looks. He also clearly mentions he only acted fully a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:41 AM
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Most feminine hetero women likes muscles (to a certain degree) over the average chump body because they inherently feel feminine and muscles represent a physical part of masculinity. I'm sure you can understand how this can later translate into sexual attraction between the polar opposites and a sense of physical protection because bigger muscle size has higher force potential - and like you said will garner respect from surrounding male opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:09 AM
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and primo. How you know someone has no experience with anabolics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:43 PM
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It certainly does apply to men just not as much, not because men are "smarter" or anything like that because we're not. Men are generally more objective and women more subjective, not because women don't understand objectivity but simply because it does not matter as much for them. Neither is inherently better than the other because it entirely depends on where we try to apply the advice in relation to what we are trying to achieve. Whilst men could be more direct and specific in their questions…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:59 PM
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The majority of women themselves don't know why they do things, which is why they will say one thing and do the opposite. Unless you are implying these women intentionally lie ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:53 AM
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Maybe they can't comprehend why women say one thing and do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:39 PM
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Good comment ! I completely agree with birth control and it pains me when women glorify it when it not only has a tendency to destroy their libido but also exacerbate any existing mental problems, I mean it's literally estrogen/progesterone in a pill. I understand that some women get really bad menstrual cramps and excessive bleeding but due to the almost brainwash like positive reinforcement modern society has when it comes to promoting birth control in the pill form it's definitely a factor th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:33 AM
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people can rate photos differently based on things that have nothing to do with physical attractiveness They can, however in this case it was a dating site which primarily consists of people uploading "selfies". You are making your decision based on what is presented in those kind of photos. It is not a long drawn conclusion, actually the opposite, to assume that raw physical attractiveness plays a major component in women's ratings. women are showing an overwhelming preference for men with a me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:17 PM
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I implied no such thing since ratings are inherently subjective. My point was that an ugly guy can take a good photo but still be ugly. I simply pointed out that women were rating photos of men So your reasoning is that they were rating men based on the way that they represented themselves rather than their actual physical attractiveness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:17 PM
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The OKCupid survey found that on average, women rated 80% of men's photos as "below average." They rated the men in the photos as below average, are you implying that they objectively rated their capability of taking a photograph of themselves from an artistic/professional point of view ? In the same survey, in the very same graph, it also found that 80% of messages sent by women were to men with a mean rating of "average" or lower. I assume they mean "sent by women first" and my first guess wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:53 PM
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The OkCupid data was that women found 80% of the men "below average" in physical attractiveness, that's it. 80% of the men, based on their own submitted pictures were not sexually attractive to the women on the site. I don't see why anyone would find that unreasonable to believe. It doesn't mean that they would only date the remaining 20% factoring in exposure to their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:39 PM
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In the end it was 1 study, done with under 30 participants Afaik it was global data released by the people working at OkCupid(Not Tinder) that showed the percentages of how women/men interacted with each other. Also If I don't misremember the data was "pulled" because it's not really great stats for at least half of your user base(or 95% if your Tinder stats are correct) but people had already screenshotted it. Anyway the stats themselves aren't shocking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:35 PM
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Bones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:28 AM
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I appreciate you being honest about it, a lot of women probably wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:02 AM
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For the sake of curiosity, is it that you feel powerless if put into those conditions or are you always in relationships where you think the grass is greener on the other side ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:36 AM
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Self projecting are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:08 AM
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Do you prefer when your husband take lead in the bedroom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:59 PM
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I was under the assumption that whilst you thought BP advice was bad, that it was still intended to be good advice. I thought that because you were presenting arguments about it being bad/indirect advice but not necessarily intentionally so. My bad if I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:04 AM
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Red pill is for autists who don’t have any social awareness. Actually it's more for guys with feminine traits on how to be more masculine around feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:46 PM
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You're under the false presumption that BP "advice" is actually meant to help these men, it's not. Women does not want to give advice on how men can be more attractive, it's inherently unattractive to require such advice to begin with. Should they next give advice on how to protect them and make them feel safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:45 PM
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That's not what I said at all. I said it wasn't attractive behaviour and that women have no incentive to teach men like that because it is not in their best interest to mate with. That doesn't mean men shouldn't strive to improve because that's exactly what men should be doing instead of whining about it, that goes for all aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:51 PM
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If she is good enough then she fulfills his desire for casual sex, how is that settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:28 PM
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Good enough when it comes to casual sex, for a relationship it's a completely different manner for any guy that values himself. I agree that it's shitty that some guys are willing to get into a relationship or make it appear that they are in order to sleep with a woman because of only wanting to fuck them. In the former case it's obvious that superficial reasons alone won't be enough to make the relationship work long term and that the novel attraction will not be enough if you are not compatibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:09 PM
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Is it really settling if that is a big part of what we desire? You seem stuck in your POV when you can't consider that men's considerably higher sex drive makes this behaviour perfectly natural and fulfilling for us. I would argue that women with very high sex drives themselves will be over-represented among those that engage in lots of casual sex, do they suck too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:53 PM
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What is it that you don't understand? Compare the amount of women that can acquire casual sex based on their inherited traits compared to the amount of men. Average guys that goes to clubs still needs to have confidence and social competence in order to get laid, women just needs to look "good enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:39 PM
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It's pretty simple The men that admire men that can have regular casual sex with women are the ones that aren't getting it themselves, yet they want to be in the situation of that man. Men in general are born with considerably less value than women so that's why they admire instead of being jealous. The equivalent would be a woman that struggle to get commitment from the man that she wants, these women are typically jealous of women that can ensure commitment. Women are born with more inherent v…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:28 PM
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Being adult enough to fight doesn't mean your brain is developed. It's just as much about responsibility as competence and being able to make the right decisions. do not know who they are or what they need. So do you think the age of consent should be raised? Because they, like you say, not able to make good long term decisions for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:11 PM
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foolish hormone-based decisions It's not foolish for a man to sleep around with young women, we all know this. His reputation will have a considerably less negative impact and possibly even a positive one compared to hers. women get over it Do they get over it or do they just run out of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:05 PM
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Oh, so men are allowed to forever be shallow Everyone can have whatever standards they want, I don't have a problem with women's standards whatsoever. The issue is women not owning up to why they chose to behave a certain way at a certain age, I hold women to higher standards than to simply accept "I was young and dumb throughout my 20's". Men in general are the ones that approach the woman, so naturally there is not much to base that on except superficial reasons. Women in general are the ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:56 PM
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I understand the intent, my point is that the intent is deceptive and frankly stupid. Being deceptive is not a good start of a relationship don't you agree? Women wants and expects us to be honest with them about how we feel about a potential LTR with them or not but will do shit like this themselves. Also she doesn't even know whether this guy is the kind of guy that would judge her for doing that and that it would have an impact. Secondly no one wants to date someone that is judgemental about …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:13 PM
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If a woman genuinely wants to have sex with a guy but is afraid that he will judge her for it then is it not deceptive to: Not act in a congruent manner that is in line with her true desires. Lie to you about it by stating that she "wants to take it slow" when in reality she doesn't. her intent If her intent is deceptive should we honor that? guys say all the time that there are women you just have sex with and women you have a relationship with This is true but that does not mean you have to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:23 PM
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The way you type make it sounds like you either haven't found your ideal guy and is single or that you have a boyfriend but are still looking for something better. Very few people get it right in the first place, or even second and third but that wasn't my point. There is a difference between dating people that clearly wasn't suitable for LTRs during the span of multiple years due to prioritizing the wrong things or having the right prioritizes and being bad at vetting or simply straight out dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:41 PM
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That's adorable, you sound like a great partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:14 PM
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Don't try to tell me what you think I mean to say. You are giving me plenty of incitement when you yourself says that it took you a decade of screwing around to figure those things out. Your standards can be as high as they want but the chance of the guys out there living up to them that are willing to date you is going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:06 PM
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my standards are higher Are they higher or has there just been a shift in priority?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:23 AM
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by pinning everything and everyone else to the fault and denying to reflect on themselves You say that you were RPed but then say this shit? When clearly self-improvement is one of the biggest pillars in RP and that women are not to be blamed because of their nature. Women can absolutely love you for who you are, IF who you are is a desirable man. Not everyone is desirable OR the amount of women that they appeal to is so small that it's very unlikely that the "right girl will eventually come" BP…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:04 AM
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Because men prioritize looks pretty much their entire life, there is some level of change as they get older but if they don't have kids already then naturally they will prefer women under 30 for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:28 AM
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yall yall yall yall yall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:00 AM
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People are considered adults at 18, if you can enlist in the army you are not a child anymore. Women KNOW what they want, they simply just don't have to follow any of the direct consequences that used to exist (Pregnancy, Shame etc) as a result of them sleeping around. They also prioritize hotness and excitement over stable and kind and more often than not get burnt by it. They still want hot and exciting guys when they get older it's just not at the top of the hierarchy for them anymore. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:46 AM
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i’m not into bad boys anymore The first woman on this sub that admits that she once was, ILY.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:22 AM
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the superficial part of me would not want to be seen as someone who dates criminals. not good for a person’s social credibility What if it was something that clearly demanded a high level of competence? Or something that was morally correct in most peoples eyes but not according to the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:21 AM
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The more you act like men the less men are attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:35 AM
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Any suggestions on how to be suave while looking through my book for the words to read out? Help me understand how your brain works, you can clearly communicate in your head(since you can type fluently) You can speak when you have the words(or notes) written in front of you(so no problem with verbal articulation?) so where is the disconnect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:10 AM
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Young women primarily being attracted to looks and excitement And yet not a single woman on reddit is brave enough to admit that they feel/felt like this at one point, or all they ALL different ?? Hmm, which scenario feels more plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:39 AM
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It's the idea that any woman can Agreed, it's just a case of all the women not having these possibilities being invisible to most women and not being taken into consideration, similar to how women see unattractive guys as invisible in other scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:16 AM
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It's actually very simple, most girls won't casually sleep around and if they do, they will primarily be with the most attractive guy available, I mean that makes sense no? Why would they sleep with someone less attractive when the entire thing is superficial in the first place? This is the entire chad cock carousel in a nutshell, except that the definition of "Chad" loses a lot of it's meaning because 1. They are too rare to fulfill all these women's needs and 2. With the involvement of alcohol…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:11 AM
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Online dating app developers releasing data is one of the best sources because the people involved are actually making decisions that will affect their actual dating life and not just some stupid survey. Funnily enough the app developers aren't very keen on doing so because the data wouldn't look very appealing to the majority of their user base(Men).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:06 AM
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The Ok Cupid study doesn't tell us anything that we didn't know already (That women aren't getting horny over average looking guys). It's simply a result of women's lower basal sex drive and no I am not sour about it because I will never belong in that percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:04 AM
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There's also tons of guys in LTRs that get dumped because they didn't understand what their woman wanted and why their relationships were failing. There is a fine balance between over-analyzing and being mindless that most people will need to master.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:01 AM
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TRP is based on men's experiences with women, do you think someone came up with it from scratch?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:55 AM
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Those guys are not traditional at all. Every single man/woman that I've met that valued family have had great relationships, I have never heard a family oriented man that thought anything but that his wife was the most amazing woman regardless of her physical appearance changing over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:31 AM
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I know that RP is supposedly not trad End of post right there lol. You will have men write shit like that because of western culture, which ironically anti-trad / progressive left leaning women so much admire and promote. Traditionally women are expected to embrace motherhood and it is the most beautiful thing but instead in the west they embrace their career and being a "boss" rather than setting up family life, their party/hoe/cock-carousel years become their glory years, similar to that of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:24 AM
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She's in a very powerful position where it doesn't take a lot of brain to manipulate a man, just a lack of clothing really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:55 PM
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Feeling resentment towards women is not Red Pill at all, like the poster said, attraction is non-negotiable. Women in general being attracted to tall and broad shouldered, confident, intelligent, socially proficient men are not a conscious decision so it should not be taken personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:51 PM
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Your initial comment was deceiving because it implies your daughter is somewhere close to 23 as the one example that you gave. Her being 12 and you making that subsequent comment is ridiculous and is not even close to comparable to the initial example. The commenter clearly perceived her to be around 23 and his following comment would most likely circle around her being an adult and able to consent. He was being a dick tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:47 PM
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It depends whether he gets his or not. She's also about to hit peak attractiveness so wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:41 PM
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He sat down next to me, so I unless I was blind, I kinda had to know that he exists, right? I mean you didn't even know that he existed when you were in the same class together but maybe you are just shortsighted. Were you physically attracted to him then and are you now? Did that change after you find out about his piano skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:38 PM
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once I noticed So what actually made you notice him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:13 PM
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Some have fat people faces and some don’t. Some people lose the weight and still have a fat face. None of this changes the fact that Lizzo has a "fat people face" like you described it yourself. Lizzo has good bone structure and if she lost weight she would be gorgeous no doubt but the puffiness will make her unattractive to the vast majority of people. Bone structure alone is not enough to make someone attractive. It's the most important factor which is why I can say that she would be very attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:57 AM
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She’s not ugly in the face, just fat. She is unattractive in her face because of the fat, you literally can't see the majority of her bone structure because of all that fat. Bone structure is what separates us from each other and what makes a person physically attractive in the face. Fat people all look very similar because it's all just fat covering their bone structure. Also those guys in the comment section are not commenting about her face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:27 AM
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The majority of women are LTR-oriented, they know that the guy that they want to date(also LTR-oriented) will most likely prefer a lower body count because it indicates that woman is indeed LTR-oriented. They don't "slut-shame" women, as a matter of fact, they do the exact opposite of that and encourages the behaviour. The reason why they do that is because it raises their value in the dating market because there will be less women like her. The give-away is that they never fail to mention their…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:58 PM
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The vast majority of women don't consciously think that way, that doesn't mean that it doesn't happen. Dual mating is mostly a result due to the lack of experience in dating for women, the vast majority of women in their late teens/early 20's will not look for the same qualities in a guy that they look for in their 30's. At the very least there will be additions to their initial standards that they had but most likely there will be a shift from more superficial standards towards more longevity b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:59 PM
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Sorry, I actually misread your post, I agree that woman wants looks + everything else compared to looks alone. We are in total agreement about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:39 PM
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Based on looks alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:36 PM
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I'm sorry but dating apps are all appearance, you literally swipe based on looks. How do you detect authentic relationship characteristics based on a very limited description? Anyone regardless of their true potential can write whatever they want to, much harder to feign that through several dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:35 PM
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Unlike women we don't see the opposite sex as "hostile creatures", that's the gynocentric POV. Most guys that struggle with women put them on a pedestal and see them as angelic creatures, which is a problem in itself because women don't respect men that puts them on a pedestal so whilst your advice is legit in the sense that getting to know women and that their shit stinks too is important to make yourself feel more comfortable around them. It won't in anyway help you become flirtatious unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:28 AM
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Didn't we recently have a discussion how inauthentic mirroring womens hobbies and interest is and now it's a legitimate way to get laid? It's the one-on-one behaviour that will prevent people from getting laid assuming looks isn't the issue, TRP helps with that. That most Red Pillers ultimately want a relationship I agree with but good guys will still make a bigger deal about sex than for example the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:33 PM
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Of course it makes a difference, the less men that can make you come the more valuable each and every man get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:14 PM
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You're working with the false pretense that seeking sex guarantees sex and that motivation is all you need, which may be true for women. What I am saying is that there are tons of "good" guys that wanted to get laid in school but simply wasn't appealing enough in a sexual context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:10 PM
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They wouldn't be having sex in high school or college because then they wouldn't look for The Red Pill in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:49 PM
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Wdym "just an orgasm" - I thought women were hard to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:43 PM
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Don't lie, you're clearly into us Red Pilled Alpha Chads, that's why you come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:56 PM
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This is because in relation to women they are not nearly as locked in to their "type" when it comes to whom they find attractive, so in comparison you could say that they don't have a type. In actuality, of course everyone has a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:38 AM
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As a biological being you are most surely entirely driven by it whether it functions as intended or not. Women dating abusive assholes are even further proof of this considering it makes no conscious sense to date someone that mistreats you when there is many other men out there that would treat them better, yet they continue to do so even in countries where they are not financially dependent on them. This is primarily due to them being accustomed to some form abusive from an early age but this …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:31 AM
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• af/bb • 80/20 • awal • the wall • hypergamy AF/BB = Why do you think this is false? The traits required for fucking is the not the same as for having a long-term relationship for many women who are in their 20's and wants to "have fun" and gets drunk in a club. Would still women want a guy that has all the traits? Sure but we can't have everything most of the time and we certainly don't NEED everything to be in a relationship which is evident due to how many of them fail. The same is true for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:28 AM
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These people would be equally or even more unsuccessful with women regardless of what pill they took, I think the real issue lies somewhere in the "socially autistic" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:00 AM
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I get that us women may have an harder time to get to the highest point, but if a guy doesn’t like toys, should we just trash him for it? I guess it depends how he receives the "trashing" and which toys we are talking about. I don't mind vibrators and most dildos but if my girl wanted a bad dragon dildo or something absolutely massive I would probably feel "inadequate" to say the least lol. I guess we all have our insecurities and limits and it depends on the person, if ultimately one's girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:53 AM
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A guy using toys in a relationship isn't frowned upon, it's only frowned upon if he is single, because then he is deemed "unable" to get laid. Also the vast majority of men unless absolutely deathgripped, won't have any issue climaxing with a woman or enjoying intercourse. It's well known that women need more stimulus to achieve the same thing so them adding something to reach that same point is considered "healthy" or is at the very least accepted. Then with guys you also have the whole "Up the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:28 AM
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But that doesn’t stop men from sexualizing the woman and blaming her choice of apparel for his feelings. A man would never consider it "blame" because it's not a big deal for us. I've been groped by both women and MEN and I couldn't care less unless a guy was trying to rape me or something. I am not saying it's okay either way and ESPECIALLY not for women because of reasons I hope that we both know why, I am just trying to explain my and a lot of men's perspective. Fashion is rarely a deliberate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:20 AM
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It's spontaneous desire that is most likely a myth. Exactly, men are just way easier stimulated than most women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:10 AM
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No one doubts this, even men would exhibit more spontaneous arousal the more attractive their partner is. You see it as harmful but if this didn't exist our reality would literally be the blackpill. Also it gives men that wasn't born with the best looks a chance to get with women by being attractive in other ways. I mean the focus could also be on whether the man knows how the fuck to arouse his woman? I agree however that men should be well groomed and LEAN as the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:10 AM
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Women react differently but some lose desire for sex on the pill. Others who come off of the pill (baby time) find that they no longer desire their partner. This isn't surprising if we take into consideration that study that showed that women who are ovulating(Off the pill and ready to get impregnated) prefers more masculine men and when not ovulating(technically also on the pill) prefers more feminine/androgynous looking men. If her boyfriend in this situation does not fit the description of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:59 AM
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Women don't swipe right on guys in the first place regardless of their thirst, online dating is shit because LOOKS ->>>>>>>>> everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:54 AM
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It's not a shit show for men because of that, it's a shit show for men because it's LOOKS over everything and women's sex drive just ain't high enough to swipe right in the first place on the average guy. That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:54 AM
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I don't think anyone disagrees that having tact and social competence is superior in every possible way unless the recipient is just as "simple" in their own approach and is looking for their equal. It isn’t done in professional environments. I mean this happens all the time and it's a common complaint from women. and no, drooling over someone in public when with your spouse or mother isn't exactly self serving. Thing is, men know the difference. Yes, we usually just don't care. That women willf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:37 AM
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Because it gives us a dopamine rush and makes us feel good and I guess people like to be vocal about that. A lot of women have the same response but are usually more reserved about letting the men know about it. We know that unattractive men doing it inconvenience women because of a plethora of reasons, however in the chance that the woman MIGHT find the guy attractive or appreciate his "boldness" it may OR may not be in his best interest to be vocal about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:26 AM
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They aren't easy to control or submissive but they are traditional in the way that they cook/clean and if financially possible they will stay home with the children. The majority of guys that go over there don't have the traits of a traditional man and they aren't dominant/assertive etc, so they actually make a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:14 PM
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A part from college, those are all male dominated spaces where most women are already in a relationship or aren't receptive to most male advances because how creepy anonymous horny guys usually are. Women become even more scarce the higher up the ladder your climb within any given game because most women enjoy the social aspect of gaming more than the competitive aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:52 PM
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Do you see the irony in you wanting him to see "female people" as fellow human beings and then using that condescending judgemental language?? Most men don't BEFRIEND women because they have very little in common when it comes to their mindset and the worlds expectations on them. Most of the time guys will have hobbies that are primarily male dominated. The men that don't, usually get along great with women on a friendship basis, which has very little to do with success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:45 PM
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Wrong, women don't want to be pursued/get into a relationship with someone that doesn't "get it". A man that needs to be taught on how to attract women does not "get it" and therefore is not attractive. You have no incentive to help a guy on how they can attract you, if you are already dating them and find them attractive in some ways then yes you have "some" incentive on how they can improve further, however generally this backfires because when the guy puts your needs above his, it comes off a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:24 PM
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It's not that hard to understand There's objective values and subjective values. A very good looking guy can be considered attractive(objectively), yet not your type(subjectively). For example, 9/10 women might find him attractive, 4/9 of those finds him very attractive. The 1 out of 10 woman that didn't find him attractive usually would find someone on the other spectrum of whatever he is (Masculine / Feminine) attractive/extremely attractive. SMV is based on an objective scale and not a subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:19 AM
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Wow you must really have hated him.. Since you DID date him and he seemingly got several other GFs, what did you like/found attractive about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:06 AM
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80/20 rule… women find 80% of men unattractive based on their terrible profile pics Has nothing to do with their profile pictures and everything to do with women's lower basal sex drive, which requires more stimulus to "get going" than the average man's. If women were as horny as guys they would find more of them attractive based on pure physical features. Women still date average men because IRL you have a chance to expose your personality to each other, which I am sure that you agree is an imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:18 AM
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Literal potbellied vampire goblins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:07 AM
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Look at Patrice O'Neal comedy about the male frame and how it can override everything. Do you know where he talks about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:06 AM
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Ah the good 'ol - He lacks pre-selection/social proof so he must be someone bad/untrusty.. Meanwhile women gets abused by guys that ACTUALLY are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:45 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:59 PM
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A man can still do/behave in a way that is not considered manly, which can in turn change other peoples perception of him. Like, I understand that the physical thought of man-on-man action icks you out, I am trying to understand WHY it does. Does it seem unnatural to you? That two masculine men, just goes ham on each other. What about two bearded guys kissing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:56 PM
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I'm glad you got your cottage ! When searching for a partner "what will my life be like" is number one Basically the "movie star" syndrome most women seem to have, I would hope she would think "What will OUR life be like". I mean it sounds like you are quite neurotic about your living situation, am I completely wrong if I were to guess your boyfriend/husband is quite easy going? I am not saying he doesn't have his own quirks, everyone does, but generally two people that are very specific about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:54 PM
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not just a feeling you get when things feel wrong for you You see this is the problem I have with many women in general, you always stop at "It just feels wrong" instead of asking "Why does it feel wrong ?" I understand that you might not care personally but there is no point discussing anything without trying to further understand our differences. Another issue is that you also mention that you got the ick, but refuse to mention even WHAT made you feel that - which could then lead us to the WHY…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:02 PM
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Being very empathic is pretty high on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:41 PM
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What are you talking about? Her problem wasn't with his use of language or tone, it was with ANY male approaching ANY woman in a parking lot for whatever reason, she clearly states that at the end. She even said that he clearly said "Excuse me, mam" - I have a hard time him using an aggressive tone with those choice of words. She then says that he "cussed" her out but only repeats the phrase, "What the F, what's your problem ?" which isn't anything out of the ordinary considering her strong reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:39 PM
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boyfriend getting dicked down Would it make you feel like he is less masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:18 PM
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Do you think being competent/successful as a guy can be a turn on for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:52 PM
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Does women really get shamed for preferring younger guys? I always see "You go girl, get that stud". Socio context as in how? I feel left Iike it's so easy to understand men's preferences compared to women. Are women more sexually attracted to men their age +2-5 years or younger guys??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:22 PM
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My interest lies in WHY women want more masculine men as they age, I still don't feel like I understand that, hence my feeling feminine narrative. Why Carnival?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:13 PM
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So what you are basically saying is that the 'pretty boy' archetype is masculine ENOUGH for younger girls, than when women get older they want even more so masculine men. Is one of the reasons why women prefer the man being older than themselves because it makes them feel more feminine? Considering the woman gets less neotenous as well and having a man that is 2-3 years older than her would make her, in comparison, feel more feminine as time moves. How much of this is tied into the importance of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:13 PM
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Her husband died of complications from diabetes, very obese. Sorry to hear about her husband but I have to say this is why I don't like our society forcing us to "accept all bodies" no matter how fat/unhealthy they get, like, it's not just about looks but that man could probably have lived a hell of a lot longer if he was in shape. I am not condoning straight out fat shaming but having strong ideal bodies of healthy weight instead of the direction we are going now is a must change IMO. A passive…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:32 PM
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Ironically Henry Cavill is actually extremely nerdy and is very focused on his career, he also sounds very thoughtful and caring in his interviews. His personality doesn't at all match his looks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:27 PM
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I want to know how much thought you have given it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:35 PM
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I'd like to see your browser history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:30 PM
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That's almost a 180 in your preferences. Thinking about it it seems like most girls have those same preferences, going from soft pretty boy - strong masculine man. Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:22 PM
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Ask and I shall receive.. You look hot as fuck, glad you enjoyed your evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:20 PM
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Extra emphasis on "Talking".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:10 PM
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Would we? I mean it's not like us men in general are hard to please, I also feel naturally inclined to do most of the work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:00 PM
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Why do you think men are horrible towards fat/obese women when they reject them? Are they? There's a miniscule amount of fat/obese women that approach men in the first place and the ones that do typically don't tend to give a shit about what the guy says/thinks of them since women with low confidence/self esteem don't approach guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:27 AM
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It means that they are trying to protect themselves and others from harm. They do the same online, must be one hell of a hard wiring going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:24 AM
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8/10 Story - Would have been a 9.5 or even possibly a 10 if we got to see you in that dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:17 AM
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I'd fuck me so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:09 AM
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einstein for example. Just be einstein theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:05 AM
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You do understand why she got angry and turned off right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:44 AM
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Also, being a millionaire doesn’t mean competence. Lots of them are profoundly incompetent morons who just inherited or got lucky. I agree, that's why I specified that it's the competence that they are attracted to. But sure, there’s some It feels like a lot more women than some considering how aware they are of what value men put in sex. Also it's worth mentioning that these men have power, I think a lot of women can find that attractive in a guy, especially from a raw sexual perspective if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:11 AM
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Affirmative consent, right? How about no. Affirmative consent/Written are major buzz killers, if a girl ever brings that up after we've been on a great date and having a good time I'm getting out of there ASAP. No way I am asking for permission before I make a move on her, I have enough social competence to judge whether it is the right time or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:01 AM
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So you don't think competence is attractive in men? Sure there are gold diggers, but there is a hell of a lot more women than men that find competence within the opposite gender a lot more attractive. Most women aren't attractive to rich guys because they have a lot of money, they are attracted to them because they are competent, successful in their respective career and have plenty of guys, sometimes a lot younger and way more attractive, looking up to them. It's basically being social proof, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:18 PM
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Possibly but if you think about it, it would take a very special kind of woman to accuse someone of harassment if the escalation is done on a date that she agreed to go on. I mean what was she expecting from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:07 PM
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Grinding is kind of hot tho. I like watching girls dance considerably more than I enjoy dancing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:54 PM
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I don't watch porn either, the over-stimulation and amount of death grip males in our society is ruining a lot of potentially great sex. Kind of unrelated but I am currently going through ADHD assessment and I have noticed that if I abstain completely from everything related to the subject of sexual stimulation, I start feeling amazing about 3 days in and it only gets better from there. It's not a complete cure but it increases my energy levels tremendously. I wish I would have realized that my …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:51 PM
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It's nice that you seemingly compare the average 25 yo woman to 6'4 Chad Hunk Movie star Jason Momoa.. Having said that, I am willing to bet the VAST majority of 35-45 women would much rather date Steve from accounting compared to the 25 yo version of Steve. I have personally observed women go from rating a guy in their late teens/early 20's as a 10, only to then drop him to a 7.5 a couple of years later because they want something more "mature" or he is now too "boyish".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:32 PM
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they most often message women who are closer to their own age. I mean that's just them being realistic. Most 35-45 yo guys won't get with 25 yo women unless they are very attractive and/or stand out in other ways. They are afraid of rejection and there's a smaller chance that they might be denied a date with someone the same age as them. Also being attracted to and seeing relationship potential with are two very different things, as a woman you should know this very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:57 AM
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Most porn is viewed through the male gaze - look at POV style I've read that this is because a lot of women prefer to watch women get pleasured(by a man if they are straight) through the facial expressions and body movement of the woman rather than only seeing the guy. I think this is also why a lot of women enjoy watching lesbian porn despite not being lesbian themselves, because they "channel" the pleasure of the women in the videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:48 AM
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Only if you look like Robert Pattinson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:36 AM
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I kind of understand what you mean but If I deal with everything directly then what trivial feelings do I have to share? Like if someone/something bothers me then I will sort that out immediately instead of holding it in and dumping it on my partner, I don't see why women would prefer that I don't act and hold it in only to share it later, seems like more suffering than necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:11 AM
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I personally don't kiss men in clubs Do you grind on men in clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:33 AM
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Did she give you the reason why she wanted to wait/not have it right now? It kind of makes or break the logic behind your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:44 AM
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A man's body will shut down it's own production when supplementing with exogenous testosterone, I simply let the levels drop and compared how I felt at different levels. Then I compare my own emotional observations with thousands of other people online, both men/women as in Bodybuilders/Testosterone Replacement Therapy users but also trans-women / men because I find it interesting to see how it affects them in relation to my own findings. My own findings has been that the impact on mood is first…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:22 AM
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You seriously overrate the credibility of professionals, individuality matters more in competence than their degree, most of them cruise control after their schooling is done and stop having any ambition to improve their knowledge further than what they're required to have to maintain their current position. Also with your stance when it comes to injecting things that are "incorrect" for my body chemistry, you must be against people transitioning where you have a literal biological female or mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:54 AM
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Are you a medical professional? No but I'm jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:20 AM
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Are you transitioning? Do you have to agree with me if I am? Just joking, no I am not. I just have experience with anabolic steroids and in men the primary source of estrogen is through conversion from testosterone, we don't produce it in the same way women do because we don't have ovaries. This means that when you increase testosterone in men the estrogen also will increase, especially when reaching supraphysiological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:15 AM
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Are you a woman or a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:01 AM
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Men are just as emotional as women. This is not true, women's estrogen levels on average(if healthy) are way higher and makes them more emotional than men, I know this because I have experimented(as a guy) with different levels of estrogen and higher levels ALWAYS make me a lot more emotional. Similar to how if you inject a woman with testosterone her sex-drive will spike like crazy(similar to that of a man).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:43 AM
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In the real world nobody dares mention it I would estimate 50% of my guy friends care about it, specifically because it has come up during random conversations and they mentioned their thoughts, they don't even know what RP/PPD is btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:35 AM
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Most men aren't. They don't give a shit No disagreement there lol. I mean we still have to do most of the work because depending on the woman it can range from being super easy to very difficult, men on average not difficult if they have balanced hormones and are in shape, certain hormones can make orgasm impossible(too high prolactin for example). You completely misunderstand my point comparing the two, if a girl knows how to finger herself to orgasm then she can teach the guy how to do it, PIV…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:33 AM
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No need for mental gymnastics tbh as women will slut shame each other when they see fitting, it's deeply ingrained in your psyche at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:13 AM
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It's not that weird of a concept at all. A woman with less experience, will have less expectations on the encounter and therefore she is less concerned with the outcome. A woman with more experience will have higher expectations on the encounter and more concerned with the outcome, despite knowing the ways of reaching this outcome it does not guarantee that it is easy.. Is a woman easier to please at 30 after 5+ relationships or when she is 18 and enters her first? It's not a perfect analogy sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:12 AM
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What about plastic surgery? Don't they do some crazy shit with faces these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:59 AM
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As a shy(but not necessarily timid) guy, I can tell you the women that are attracted to that kind of guy usually(almost always) expects the guy to do the first approach and take charge, then when he is "shy" or "insecure" about something usually trivial, after he has already done the hard work and established the relationship. She finds it cute and she likes "shy" and "timid" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:55 AM
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Yeah they are but she seems extraordinary picky about it, not that I mind. I don't think most girls expect guys to do everything perfect according to societal standards. As a matter of fact there's plenty of girls that like when guys play by their own rules, of course in this scenario they always prefer the guy that is AWARE of the rules but choose to break them instead of the guy that isn't. Most guys that play by their own rules aren't very aware unfortunately and it usually ends up bad for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:35 AM
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Also - why does being single matter? He's asking because a lot of women don't mind guys striking up conversations with them if they're single, like being available and receptive matters a lot. I understand that you find it socially unacceptable to be approached at the gym/mall etc but as a guy that wants to find someone that is compatible with me for a LTR, I don't mind approaching girls outside of club bars. I am not fond of drinking tbh and whilst club/bars are great for casual encounters it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:49 PM
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So in other words you are attracted to men that are highly socially intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:37 PM
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twerked at work Ask her if she finally found that stripper dream job that she wanted or "I always knew you were a hoe" but do it in a flirtatious manner. If she gets pissy about the word usage then tell her that she is your hoe. how some dude was hitting on her "Oh so now your ego is even BIGGER than before? Jeez" or "I hope for your sake that he was at least hot" Like, if your girl is banging then she will have received attention from guys ever since puberty hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:34 PM
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grand conspiracy to ShIt TeSt you and ruin your life Lol, how did you come up with this? Women "shit test" to make sure they aren't getting a bad deal, there is nothing wrong with it and it's not something they are even consciously planning to do. Women always complain(you included) about guys trying to find way to casually fuck women and shit testing is a great way to see if the guy is fronting or if he's for real. Same reason why women say "Just be yourself" saves them a lot of trouble having …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:24 PM
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1 comment from a man that seemed to have the right ideas of what a traditional man really is Elaborate what a traditional man is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:00 PM
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You date your friends former GF's period?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:46 PM
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Yes, the OKCupid Study like 15 years ago. I wasn't trying to imply that those women had dated all of those men and gotten to know them, in what world would that make any sense? Any person that refers to the 80/20 should by DEFAULT be aware of the conditions or not refer to it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:41 PM
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Those FDS posters are the female equality to incels, in the sense that they can't get commitment whilst the incels can't get laid. I don't think FDS posters hate men at all, I just feel like they are fed up with being in relationships that turned into nothing/shit. The horror stories I have heard women on there describe of their former partners strongly support this. So do you believe the majority of Redpillers/Incels hate/resent women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:39 PM
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The 80/20 rule still stands, because it was never about women wanting the top 20% of guys. It was women finding 80% of the men BELOW average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:29 PM
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Do you really believe the majority of them hate/resent women? It would be equal to me thinking the majority of women on TwoX, WitchesVsPatriarchy or even FemaleDatingStrategy hate/resent men based on their posts, which I absolutely do not despite what they type there on a regular basis, it's just venting. Most guys find PUA because, just like you said, they lack any game whatsoever. Some will find success, some won't. Usually get laid a couple of times, find a girl that they like and settle down…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:22 PM
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things that are hateful/resentment Ah yes, because men pursue PUA because they hate/resent women, it makes a lot of sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:56 PM
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Naturally I mean maximum velocity at that incline, like do you go 100% full bore or keep it at 90% ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:38 PM
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3 sets of 5 reps of 30 meter uphill sprints Are you talking 15 total sprints at maximum velocity? Seems brutal tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:26 PM
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Those are rookie numbers, keep pumping those up and it will grow, alternatively you have very unlucky fat deposit genetics OR you carry too much fat in your lower back which removes the "pop" of your buttocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:22 PM
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What's your squat/deadlift/RDL numbers at?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:15 PM
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That doesn't answer my question at all, your advice is fine in a situation where you are exposed to the person for longer periods of time without any pressure on escalating the situation in order to remain in contact with them. You have a very limited time in club/bars(considered very socially acceptable places to approach) to make a decision whether to pursue someone that comes off as neutral but who might enjoy interacting with you nonetheless. Other places which are sometimes okay to approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:37 PM
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And what do you do with women that come off as neutral? Not every girl that have interest in you will light up upon first contact, as a matter of fact, most won't. Even if they find you attractive and want you to continue chatting with them, they might themselves have social anxiety/introversion and you basically have to lead and sometimes carry the conversation. It's not easy to judge, especially as a fairly introverted guy myself whether she has interest in me and just have a hard time express…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:41 PM
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Because if an older man needs to date a younger woman because he is incapable of dating Why would he be incapable of dating someone his own age? He simply lacks experience with women and wants to date someone that wants to go through the phases of dating and later on a relationship with equal experience as him. What if he wanted to date a 30 year old woman with similar experiences as him? Technically she would be as prone to exploitation from him because she doesn't have any relationship/dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:20 PM
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I would argue that insecurity stems from not living up to your own standards rather than self awareness itself. Self awareness is a requirement for that to happen but it's not the direct cause, there's plenty of people that are aware of where they stand in the hierarchy of the dating market but simply aren't neurotic enough to let it hinder them in process of pursuing women. A complete loser being confident as hell is a sign of very low neuroticism, which is highly attractive to women. The rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:48 PM
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What reasons could a man past the age of 30 have for dating someone 25 or younger For most men on here I would say it's a lack of experience with women themselves, if they are around 30 and have either very limited experience with women or no experience at all. If you combine this with the fact that they are aware that most women at the same age as them, will most certainly have completely different expectations and perspective in life. Younger women in general feel like they have more time to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:55 PM
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Perhaps men should start a positive movement rather than the lone wolf thing External positivity and motivation makes me feel less masculine and mentally weak. I don't mind women having groups like this to feel better about themselves as long as they don't force it on everyone else, which is exactly what has been happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:33 PM
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That sounds like the thinking of a sociopath or deeply twisted individual, certainly not the majority of men that wants to date younger women whilst being past the age of 30. Also the word "grooming" is being thrown around so much these days that it's lost much of it's meaning and feels like just another shame tactic, used for the purpose of controlling men's behaviour. I assume that you have some type of personal experience with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:18 PM
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What do you mean by grooming exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:03 PM
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Many men on this sub I mean these same men are the ones that lack in social/sexual experience, is it still creepy if they are as inexperienced as the women? And yes, younger women are more naive because they have less trauma from their failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:55 PM
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Or you could argue the rise in loneliness in men in an indication of WGTOW I can't tell whether you are arguing that women left because of men's behaviour, or that men's behaviour is an indicator of women leaving. I don't feel it's fair to have it both ways, so which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:08 PM
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Even the most "horny" women I know have impulse control issues. Have you considered that the Impulsivity is caused by being hornier? I mean the amount of "mistakes" people make when aroused is astounding. Even the weekly discussion thread is about that exact topic. Also being hornier doesn't mean that you enjoy sex more, just that you want it more often. I've had both a low and high sex drive during periods of time and it felt equally good regardless, just that i wanted it way more often when my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:00 PM
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The only economical access you have is to shit food Is this really the case? Like is it cheaper to get regular junk food(not candy/snacks) than let's say Ground Beef / Rice / Tomato Sauce / Spices etc??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:32 PM
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Not my cup of tea but if a girl asked I would drench her no problem. More of a cumshot type of guy haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:52 PM
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Give or take?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:44 PM
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So I like being raped if I don't mind my partner waking me up with a blowjob? I mean do you give verbal consent before each and every time you have sex with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:32 PM
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Yes if I hadn't established free-use that would be rape. Do you really feel that? I wouldn't feel like I was being raped/assaulted if it was from my partner, perhaps I am being to lenient? I would assume she was horny or that she wanted to surprise me with it. Maybe it's a guy thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:21 PM
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If you don't talk with your partner about your boundaries and preferences how would they know I would probably assume the woman would attempt something and see if I like it or not? Like unless it was something very disgusting I wouldn't get mad. As for general relationship boundaries, I would never date a woman that wasn't on the same page as me. I feel like most people know in general what is acceptable no? Most of the time people that make mistakes in relationships play stupid afterwards as no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:14 PM
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I went into every possible detail Maybe I am just vanilla compared to you, it sounds like you are engaging in BDSM or something similar that pushes the boundaries. I always felt like what I was into was pretty standard though so never saw a reason to go through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:55 PM
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having consent to do it. I mean it's your partner, like would you be upset if he was just down there one day without talking about it ? If I woke up with a girl giving me a BJ, I would at worst appreciate the effort but I wasn't feeling it at the time, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:26 PM
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Do you know anyone who doesn't have underlying issues? So now you agree that there is something wrong with them? Maybe. You're the one considering them...what's wrong with you? I'm looking for a reason not to see something negative with women that rack up their N-counts because my instincts and logic says that there is. no actual human will ever make you happy. So we should accept every person and have no standards/requirements ? No wonder so many relationships fail when two people that are clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:08 PM
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there just hypersexual In a sense I agree with you but you can be monogamously hypersexual. I believe all humans are equal At birth sure, our decisions change our value, whether people want to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:47 PM
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Sometimes it's a coping mechanism Does this not indicate an underlying issue? Sometimes it's because they can't keep anyone Sounds like there is something wrong with them? Sometimes it's because they can't find anyone worth keeping So their filtering mechanism for LTR's are broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:46 PM
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Lol. Direct, pure raw attraction is the way to go everytime if given the opportunity. Ugly people might not have a choice tho, it's possible that she is not very attractive and/or have a low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:54 PM
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Hahaha I had completely forgotten about those. It's nuts how regardless of which country you were in, it was always the same type of dude that wore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:13 PM
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That's why they added slap fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:09 PM
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You blew a guy and took it up the ass but not sure if you are Bi ??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:32 PM
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What I think it comes down to is that if people are approaching you that you view as having nothing to offer you I know what you mean, if another guy with a high-end car that you appreciated but yet didn't have in your collection gave you a compliment, it would hit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:45 AM
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That’s a niche community You're joking right? Don't confuse sub in the bedroom as being sub in the entire relationship, they are very different things. Also when I talk about dom/sub we are not talking about straight out BDSM type shit, like literally the woman wanting the guy to lead and be assertive with her in bed is a sub trait, that is not far from majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:05 AM
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I think the problem is how conventionally hot they are For any woman that prefers the guy being dominant/assertive in BED, being dommed by other guys removes the image a sub woman sees him as, hence removing attractiveness. Even if he is initially hot, this is a "boner" killer for the vast majority of women, the guy is absolutely right about his point and every sub woman knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:34 AM
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Now that is disgusting, like why in the purse?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:03 AM
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I assume you're a guy, just shave her ass for her or tell her to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:01 AM
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I have trust in the ratio bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:59 PM
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No, the guy cheated 30 times but only admit to the ones he got caught doing. Ratio is not that far off then depending on the quality of women he went for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:52 PM
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Incels were just ahead of the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:47 PM
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Understandable, would you spit in your bf/gfs mouth if they wanted it? As in, it turned them on a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:23 PM
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Lmao, sounds like she has a spit kink, not my thing but wouldn't gross me out badly if we were going to make out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:37 PM
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Is it really that bad tho? I mean they were attracted to each other and would be exchanging saliva later anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:36 PM
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Why do you label "lack shyness or self consciousness or nervousness" as hybristophilia tho? Isn't it possible that most women score high in those areas, including being neurotic(not saying you do) and men that display low levels are attractive to them, partly because they are generally more exciting, straightforward, appear confident and many of those women admire that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:29 PM
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Lmao, no homeless really where I live so just taking guesses. I wonder how much of homelessness is due to mental illness and how much of it is voluntairly or a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:12 PM
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So why are so many women attracted to this type of behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:33 PM
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They will still be more successful than high inhib low NT people. I have a lot of mutual friends that hang around with people like that and completely understand the condescension you speak, like the utter lack of self-consciousness/reflection. However I see have seen more success with those type of people compared to the high inhib aspies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:32 PM
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They have their homeless women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:31 PM
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red pill dudes think chicks care about. Low inhibition is straight out of the RP handbook too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:25 PM
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Anyways, I think you missed the point he was making. He was basically saying that the threshold is relative to what men currently offer rather than a fixed value. I mean I understood what he meant, I just think that there both exists a fixed value and a relative one. The relative value would be in comparison to other men, and the fixed value would be a biological measure for basal physical attraction, then there is also the relative value of what women has to offer YOU. Unless women would improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:53 PM
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You've been down that path, haven't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:03 AM
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what more proof do you need? Since when does raping people involve the other party "Letting" them do it? Whilst debating whether it was a good idea, like how does that work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:56 AM
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I mean that's pretty much what celebs/rich people do, because of the potential drama involved with non-professionals. Regardless your everyday random woman won't know that it's out of preference the regular dude does it so she will assume he's bottom tier. Does it really matter what women about it? It's not like there's a sign on these guys saying "This dude fucks hookers".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:46 AM
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It's looked down upon because it's assumed the regular dude can't get any pussy so he turns to hookers, whilst with celebs/rich people it's quite obvious due to their status that they can have their fair share. Woman will disguise their disgust with things like "Prostitutes are slaves, it's immoral" "It's human trafficking" etc, whilst the real subconscious disgust lies within the thought of a low quality male not being able to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:01 AM
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Honestly I think it's more on the guy to make things exciting, there's a great deal of this in RP literature. Obviously being very attractive helps on that part, especially when it comes to other women displaying signs of attraction to you. A man increasing his SMV whilst a couple of years into a "comfy" relationship will usually increase sexual desire from his partner as well. Now yes, whilst familiarity is the destroyer of primal attraction, women that wants to keep fucking often are those tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:54 AM
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It's not like you just need to reach a threshold and after that there is the land of casual sex I mean there is certainly a treshhold for attraction, it's not like women have a magical "top 20% scanner" with them. Casual sex is deeply rooted in how attractive you are, I see tons of overweight young men that would get laid significantly more often if they got lean. Also learning about RP and watching some Tate clips won't teach you shit, there's like 0.1% of the people exposed to RP that actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:05 AM
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You can't convince someone using logical rhetoric when their viewpoint is based on emotions. If you look at the people that changed their views regarding Covid/Vaccines, it's always the one that themselves had a bad experience, or one of their loved ones COMBINED with the fact that once they tried getting answers for their symptoms they were met with the fury of the people whom they once belonged to. Only after having experienced that, can they understand how they themselves acted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:31 AM
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He's the ethnic Ragnar Lothbrok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:02 PM
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First of all, how many are we talking here and at what age? Secondly, if you decide to give it a shot with her, MAKE SURE you are not bothered by it. If you are then it will destroy the relationship sooner or later and you will be standing there with this ace up your sleeve ready to use against her which will lead to nothing good for the two of you. She will sense the uncertainty and insecurity in you and it will kill attraction over time. Also be prepared that she has a high sex drive and to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:00 PM
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No, you just have to be attractive to be attractive. We all know the vast majority of women don't care about age in the same way men does and being "ripped" only really contributes by leaning out your face, the biggest looksmax for a guy is to get to 15% or below, not because of abs or veins, simply because the face looks better. People with a more robust bone structure will be able to carry more body fat without looking chubby but for guys like DiCaprio or Timothy Chalamet(aka pretty boys) it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:52 PM
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It sounds like you are describing a light version of a gold digger, like I am more interested in the appeal of a sensual/sexual nature if that makes any sense. The few women that I know that were into older guys almost exclusively all had an absent father of some sort when growing up. Whether physically not being there or being neglectful in some way made them look for something authoritarian or "mature and stable" in their future partners. I can see how being independent and not having to be ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:44 PM
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The average stocky strong hairy dark 35-40 year old South Italian guy absolutely my type Proceeds to mention the highest paid male supermodel that is also RIPPED to bring forth his greatest asset(his face). Also Idris Elba is like 6'3 and very broad from a genetic stand point, hardly average in anyway. I remember watching him for the first time in "The Wire" and he had a very dominant and menacing stature that stood out, he has the face of a man with a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:23 AM
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Oh look, even I’m one of them. So why does a lot of women seemingly want to date older guys? Like what is the appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:42 AM
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i happen to know a sugar baby - she's open about the fact she'll ditch her guy as soon as he stops buying her things. That's a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:41 AM
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80/20 doesn't mean that 80% of women will ONLY date 20% of the top men, it means they would consider dating the top 20% of men based on LOOKS alone. This shouldn't surprise anyone considering the sex drive of the average woman. Yeah no shit women fall for average looking guys but ONLY if they are exposed to their personality for extended periods of time, the computer/tech and the internet has isolated many of the non-neurotypicals of today compared to forcing them out in the world pre 2000ish. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:03 AM
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"playful teasing" As a guy I love doing this and it's really a hit or miss whether a girl enjoys it or not, like some women will go crazy for it and others think I am just straight up insulting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:17 AM
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Didn't know Henry Cavill was a health freak at all, just that he's a total introvert nerd that likes playing video games and reading fictional lore from their universes. He's about as little of a jock/bad boy as it gets beyond his obvious masculine good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:03 AM
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Chris Hemsworth isn't that jacked, don't get me wrong he looks great but muscle size wise he's not that big. It's all camera angles and pumped up photos of him where he looks "too big" just because he is lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:53 AM
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Wdym making an "exception" ? Women are comfortable enough for the right guy. I'm talking about the requirements for arousal based on physical appearance being considerably higher in women than it is for men. The top 10/20% figures are just based on my observations for the majority of women, also keep in mind I am not saying that average looking girls don't date average looking guys, just that their standards for casual sex is considerably higher. Also you didn't answer my question..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:16 PM
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I mean I based it on the fact that you put emphasis on the "waaaaay lower" part, since most women seem to be up for casual sex if the guy is VERY attractive(Like top 10%) and would preferably date(based on looks) the top 20% guys. Meaning if the guy have other attractive traits, he will "grow" on her. If you have a high sex drive then it's more understandable that you intercorrelate men and women's requirements/standards for casual sex/dating because they are quite similar, but for the average w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:02 PM
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The sex bar is waaaaay lower than the date bar lol Is it lower or is it just different, but you consider it to be lower because you value a relationship more than casual sex? Or do you just have a high sex drive and have lower requirements when it comes to physical looks on a guy(that turns you on) than the average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:44 PM
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Women generally will not want to stay in a relationship with you if you treat them like shit, unless they have issues It was never about literally treating women like shit, it was about women being attracted to guys that COULD treat them/women like shit and get away with it, thus signalling high value. Obviously not all, maybe even most women are like this, but there is quite a significant amount of them considering how long some of these women will stay with their abusive boyfriends/husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:07 PM
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Acting aloof and indifferent somehow makes women like you more Acting aloof or indifferent is indeed a terrible way to start things off with, being non-needy, which is a better description of what RP teaches is very valid tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:04 PM
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slight head start I wouldn't say it's a "slight" head start at all, if anything it's a massive head start but you are right that a LTR will never work based on Chad looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:02 PM
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I wouldn't say that I belong to any specific pill, I like Red Pill because of the aspects of self improvement and understanding certain parts of human female nature but it's mostly specific to women 18-29 years that is looking for certain emotions that is generated by a specific type of guy. Everything needs to be in balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:37 PM
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is even then averageness ugly still? I never said average is ugly, I said average is average and should be treated as such. If the average man looked like Brad Pitt then the average man would be attractive to the average woman, not because he is celebrated in anyway but just because he has the physical characteristics of a very attractive man, this is mostly rooted in biology, you can look at facial structure of cultures around the world and very attractive people have similar traits. The OkCupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:28 PM
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I’ve heard many lesbian say most women are so beautiful. A lot of women will virtue signal, also they are afraid of insulting other women. I think many of them still date above average lesbians if they themselves are above average, it's weird because sometimes a lesbian can be into "butch" lesbians so it's hard to compare how they stand attractiveness wise. There is also less lesbians than straight people and if the total pool of people that you can date is more limited than maybe your standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:50 PM
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The average looks of girls are celebrated by WOMEN but men don't mind because of our higher sex drives and broader appeal to the average women because of it. Great achievements Feminism There are two sides to this coin. on one hand, making woman more independent of men have made it harder for the average guy to date and especially start a family with a woman. On the other hand it is in every person's fundamental rights(In my opinion) to have at the very least equal rights in most aspects that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:44 PM
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A lesbian may enter a bar and immediately feel sprouted by beautiful women This never happened lol, lesbians have standards too wtf? There is a hierarchy of wants and desired from both sexes, in men the want for good looks is higher than in women. I don't think you can increase the appreciation of the average man's looks unless you increase a woman's sex drive to match that of a man. What you can do is create an environment where women will give the average guy a more fair chance when it comes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:35 PM
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That men aren’t showed as erotic, desirable, as sources of pleasure, enticing, sexy, nice to look at. Men are showed as erotic/desirable, it's just not the AVERAGE guy that is shown as that. The same goes for women(besides this fat acceptance bullshit) look at women that make a living off being models, they are either very attractive in a sexual way or they have a very aesthetic appeal, most if not all of them are top 20% in looks. You can't change biology from a societal stand point, women DOES…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:28 PM
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They also pay more attention and care more about how they are perceived than the average guy is, or he's just ignorant to the matter. They also usually relate more to other women and can have an easier time starting conversations that may not be sexually loaded from the get-go(Thus both parties giving each other a better chance to like one and another). Also since they are both female a general lower emphasis on sex is present.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:15 PM
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Yes, because women also wear make up which increases their attractiveness. The perception is more biologically based than socially, for example birth control decreases the average woman's sex drive, which in turns makes her have higher physical standards towards men. I mean what exactly are you looking for? You can't force women to find the average guy attractive, since attraction is non-negotiable. So how do you "rebuild" the perception of men's looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:01 PM
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Lol at this convo, want to understand women's sexuality? Go on a low calorie diet whilst exercising excessively and watch your Testosterone/Sex Drive plummet and you will feel similar to how a women sees the average man. The hornier you are the more enticing the average person of whichever sex you are attracted to is, this is why gay men(as you pointed out) are more sexual than for example lesbians. The equal to how you feel about the average women in terms of physical attractiveness is how wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:12 AM
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shows you have no respect for yourself Same with the cigarette smokers, alcoholics, drug users ! All weak minded with no self respect for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:22 AM
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You know, I envy that. It's like something that is taken straight out of a history book, or perhaps a National Lampoon's special. The modern day cinema feels 'different' somehow, then again I haven't even experienced IMAX yet so that might change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:17 PM
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What if the woman is very shy and introverted and you can clearly tell she is bothered by it? Would you leave it up to her then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:08 PM
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Did you watch it at the theaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:07 PM
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Shark populations are down 70% Good thing too ! Ever seen that 70's documentary about the giant vicious shark that terrorized a summer resort town? Wouldn't wanna be swimming in shark waters I tell ya !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:01 PM
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Which iteration of WoW was it tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:11 AM
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overwhelming majority Maybe it's just the women on reddit that have these bad experiences then, or maybe these women are selectively remembering only the bad parts of the relationship(men does it too). Regardless it seems that traits such as being nice or having high moral standards can be overlooked by a number of women if the man possess other attractive traits. This is without even taking into consideration being "in love" with a guy and experiencing butterflies when merely thinking of him an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:32 AM
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What about grinding on guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:40 AM
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I have spent a lot of time on those forums, if anything they lean towards worshipping Chad. Most of these people are somewhat realistic and realize that women are the ones that do most of the choosing, it's just a lighter blow to their ego that them not being the selectee is because of their looks instead of their behaviour. But I can assure you that being physically attractive won't cover up neurotypicality long enough to be helpful. You're saying if these guys were able to go out and get laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:16 AM
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They don't even realize their hatred of attractive men The vast majority of "incels" don't hate attractive men, you are right that they are self loathing but if a persons problem lies within their brain chemistry it's not an easy fix, most of them are alone because of them not being neurotypical and not having the physical attractiveness to make up for that deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:47 AM
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morally upstanding and nice are minimums With the amount of women that apparently dates "abusive" men for years on end, I disagree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:42 AM
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That's both funny and sad, is he autistic? Like how can he not grasp that what you want from him is to keep you in his mind during his day and that you appreciate him letting you know that he does just that, not the non abstract delivery of a text message.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:48 PM
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Because a man is raised to be a protector and a warrior. Sorry to break it to you but there is a lot of weak sauce men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:32 AM
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It depends on what you want as a woman. If you're looking for a relationship then I don't think it really favours women since it kills a lot of the spontaneous romanticism that you can feel when you first meet IRL. If you're looking for hookups or attention from hot guys then it very heavily favours women. Most women seem to want a relationship, some even state that they "need" a romantic connection before they want to sleep with the guy so ONS is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:07 AM
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You forgot to add that they like to go on tedious rants in the daily discussion chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:47 AM
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If they weren't drenched in make up I might agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:28 PM
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Look at what happened to NoNewNormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:26 PM
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KPopmaxxing is legit these days with under the 18 crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:25 PM
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I mean, I love a woman that chooses to cook for me but sometimes cheap ass burgers and fries are the bomb you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:24 PM
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This would have been avoided if he was RedPilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:06 PM
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Bezos is a btch, he could've have kept a private, low life as Gates did and divorce reasonably without a fuss. LOL Gates had been cheating on his wife since the 90's with Microsoft employees, also there is no doubt that he has been fucking escorts as well on the side when it was more convenient. The only reason why Melinda didn't make as big of a fuss is because she's tied into many businesses with him and value herself working with them above the temporary satisfying feeling of having the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:39 PM
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For men there is a much clearer separation between a life partner and a casual fuck. A man can say that he only loves his wife and wants to be with her for the rest of his life and still fuck around on the side whilst actually meaning it, the side piece means nothing to him besides being a mean for satisfying his primal lust. Most women would not be able to do this because their association between love and sex is more tight knit. Just like most women on here say that they want to get to know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:27 PM
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The living conditions are the consequences for their actions, of which they were in control of. You reap what you sow. My post was also explaining why people SHOULDN'T care and instead focus their attention on honest/empathic people that does need help. People that care and have sympathy for most of these people(Not all of them are equally horrible) baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:41 PM
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Anyone that commits suicide by definition has control over their life and made their own decision to do that, being in prison does not exclude that. Responsibility is a different matter but let's face it, a lot of these people are scumbags and most people would rather have their tax money go to "normal" people needing psychiatric help than most of those rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:19 PM
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rather than a woman that has had 2 and refuses to answer the question. If the girl likes you she won't. The same women that goes "It's fine to have a gigantic N-count as a woman and enjoy casual sex" are the same that will be the first to advertise them NOT being that kind of girl. That is a recurring theme on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:00 AM
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Just fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:55 AM
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I mean since those people are being vocal about their opinions you would expect them to have arguments that will stand the criticism, otherwise what's the point? Also it's not like there's a shortage of idiots on the right wing that the opposition likes to make fun of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:50 PM
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My point wasn't that they were equal because of that but I think it's important to state. Plenty of things are complementary or work together well, and yet are still very unequal If we are talking about power dynamics then of course they are, but having a leader is the easiest way to get things done and keep them organized. I believe that there are more men that are willing to lead than women, that doesn't mean that they are better leaders but there will be more of them so that amount of compete…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:18 PM
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How long does this phase last for you each cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:41 PM
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I can't speak for other men but it's ridiculous to think femininity is inferior to masculinity when in reality they just work to complement each other so well. I just can't see how men find traits that they are attracted to(not just sexually) as inferior. As for your second point, I think it's a mix between there being a lot of severely inexperienced men here in terms of real life experience but with a lot of academic(lol) knowledge about relationship dynamics and mating behaviour. This basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:19 PM
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Alright well in that case it's my observation that modern female(and male) feminists appear to have the most against typical femininity, considering that they do not behave in the way of which you describe and will comment on other females that do as "Tradwives" or "Pickme's". I very rarely, if ever, observe masculine men degrade or regard typical femininity as inferior since they choose to date these women since they find them the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:11 PM
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What do you define as womanhood and typical femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:46 PM
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The difference is that when I swipe right on all of them it takes me 1/20th of the time it would take me to read them and make a decision, this way I only have to read the ones that I match with, which is a significantly lower amount then I swiped right on. Technically the amount of profiles I go through is the same but the time spent on the profiles that I would not have matched with is significantly less. I can then simply unmatch with the women I don't want to get to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:57 PM
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Straight girls do be playing tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:22 PM
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That’s exactly what I said. No, you said that it wasn't time-efficient. Reading all of my ACTUAL matches will take less time then reading all of my POTENTIAL matches since the latter is a far higher number. I don't weed them out differently, I just weed them out afterwards because it's faster. My process of elimination would be the same regardless if it is before or after they have swiped right on me, I simply just don't spend time reading BIOs of some people that wouldn't have swiped right on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:31 PM
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If you’re going to weed them out at the end, doing the same at the beginning actually takes less time. Let's say I have 100 matches in my Area, I can either spend 20 seconds reading each of their BIOs and make my decision or I can swipe right on all of them and only read the 5-20(Depending on how attractive you are as a guy) that I matched with and read their BIOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:55 PM
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Being on Tinder in the first place is desperate. Tinder works as an add-on to your already existing social circle. Swiping right on everyone SCREAMS EXTREME desperation. People that swipe right on everyone is doing it because it's time effective, afterwards they filter the women that they actually matched with. I mean, if that’s not desperate then what is It's only seen as desperate if you assume the guy has no options and like I said if he is bothered by a possible negative outcome. The context…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:01 PM
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Well Lysa you are in the minority, it also sounds like you met online and you talked a decent amount before you went for it. Most girls will only position themselves nearby a man, make eye contact and possibly smile, and if they are very interested they will make up an excuse to go talk to him, like "I forgot my X things, can I borrow yours?" and then hope he will steer the conversation to exchanging numbers/a date. In RARE occasions if the guy is really attractive OR if she is comfortable aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:35 PM
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Can you please elaborate on these general effects then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:24 PM
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People will block other people because that persons world view does not fit into their own, sometimes even labeling them as trolls when they are not. I am not experienced with Reddit blocking because I have never used the function but there should be a way to block specific PMs from a certain individual without blocking them in the public chat, since that is something that can be moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:05 PM
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Always accustomed myself to RPers and Bpers, I kinda like Bloopers but Terpers sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:39 PM
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Can’t you ascertain chemistry more effectively if you are just meeting people in real life Yes, you are correct. Tinder has first and foremost become a hook-up App and secondarily the lazy non-romantic way of meeting people. Meeting people in real life, whether in school/mutual friends/even clubbing beats online by a large amount. Like there is no "set up" to the interaction, you just sort of start talking and let the chemistry flow naturally. Both parties engaging in mutual flirtation without f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:15 PM
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Red Pill 1 - 0 Black Pill ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:37 PM
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I know, but, what if the guy is REALLY HOT and maybe you get a bit drunk and it could just be this fun thing that you never talked about again.. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:35 PM
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people who seek and have power tend to be fucked up virtue signalers. I agree with you, I mean Trump is a slime ball in his own right but one of his redeemable traits in that aspect is that he is quite open about it, like the way he "handles" women or how he doesn't give a shit about going into the locker room of beauty pageants because he runs the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:34 PM
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Terp protocols are beyond Machiavellian. What does "Terp" stand for I can't find anything on google matching it. Also do you seriously think Redpillers are actually running some type of organized advanced conditioning protocol?? You didn't answer my question either, do you primarily take offense to the people applying said behaviour or the behaviour itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:30 PM
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It's funny how all the leftists/democrats demonize Trump for his behaviour with women but then they refuse to take a look at Biden and his inappropriate behaviour around women and freaking children. Also there's more substance to him actually committing SA(Literally grabbing a woman by her pussy) against a woman that worked for him WAY back I believe in the 90's, then anything against Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:05 PM
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I'm joking, there is no conditioning protocols being run that can manipulate a person into sleeping/dating you unless said person is actually attracted to said traits/behaviour. I don't believe said attraction is a strict female trait but I do believe it is a primarily feminine trait. Do you take issue with the fact that men apply these principles thus making them "inauthentic" or with the actual principles themselves? Also the average RedPiller isn't running some elaborate Machiavellian scheme …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:48 PM
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So you’re psychologically manipulating your wife with operant conditioning I prefer to use the term "cast a spell", it just sounds more romantic and less 1984-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:30 PM
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Wdym just be beautiful without make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:22 PM
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Makeup makes women look how they'd look on a really good day, in good lighting. With an instagram filter applied and after 1000 selfies being taken, MAYBE. Seriously this is only true for women that wear EXTREMELY light make up and are young. I don't know the name of the specific products that they use but that thing you do with your eyes that make them darker and "sharper" looking is the biggest fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:21 PM
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For a guy, each swipe has a considerably less chance of actually scoring a date with the girl, so us guys have to play the numbers game. This is due to there being less women than men on the App, women having more individual taste on which men they find appealing, some women only looking for male attention and not actually planning on going on dates etc.. Also reading someone's Bio does not tell me if I will have chemistry with that said person, compatibility perhaps but I care WAY more about ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:07 PM
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No, he's a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:18 AM
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You aren't explaining it properly then. It sounds the traits the bad boy has would create emotional unsafety and make him unsuitable for LONG term relationships with children involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:14 AM
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So women want physical safety(Financial?) but emotional unsafety(Tension) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:48 PM
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Anything above 15% will start wreaking havoc on your facial aesthetics, some lucky individuals can get away with it but they would still be more attractive as a leaner individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:42 PM
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Swiping right on a lot of girls on Tinder is not desperate, it's effective. It is only desperate if he is bothered by a negative outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:33 PM
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I agree, every man should accept women for their nature and they would if they were actually Redpilled. As a man you can only improve status among other men and present your best self, not convince women to fuck/date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:04 PM
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I mean he was attractive sure, but if he was hot enough you could just have had a threesome with him, aren't you BI ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:00 PM
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He just wasn't hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:56 PM
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Men needs women for emotional support? Are you kidding me.. What kind of babies have you been dating. I AM the emotional support in any relationship that I am in, it took me a while to stop giving women solutions to their problems since that wasn't what they were looking for and just provide comfort and reassurance instead. I'm a freaking rock, not blunt tho, I stay sharp. Neither a single woman or man can have a happy fulfilling life if they desire a partner, which most people do. I'm a single …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:50 PM
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Dude, you need to lose the weight, high protein, enough fat and only enough carb for energy for gym. Prioritize the weights before cardio ALWAYS, cardio is good but only if you have enough energy/motivation. When you get to 12%, your family/friends won't even recognize you anymore and you can start a new life if you want to. Go out to a club/bar enough(You don't even have to drink) and you will see how women respond differently to you, eventually someone will even approach you. I think the beard…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:31 PM
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For most people, yes. The amount of attractiveness that you gain is entirely dependent on your facial structure/size. Men with boyish faces and less "ogre" facial structure will gain the most from losing fat, think Justin Bieber/Taylor Lautner type of face. Someone like Chris Pratt can usually get away with having a bit more, like he does look better when leaner but it's not a death sentence for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:19 PM
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How do you feel about the majority of men being sexually attracted to 18 year olds? Should we put all of them on watchlist as well? 18/19 years olds are adults and of legal age to have sex with other adults whether you like it or not. And yes Ephebophilia is indeed a preference, the reason why that distinction is made is because the vast majority of men are attracted to 18/19 year olds and it would be pointless to make it a group if that was the case. Spare me your patronizing attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:48 PM
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It's not really problematic since there is a very limited amount of men ages 25+ that 18 year olds would be attracted to in the first place. Attraction to post pubescent children (ages 15 to 19) is ephebophilia. Wrong, a PREFERENCE for those ages is ephebophilia not mere sexual attraction. In reality the majority of men are physically attracted to 18 year olds, there have been plenty of studies done that confirm this. They show pictures of women to grown men and let them rate their attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:59 PM
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"That means that it's working" is my favourite one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:52 PM
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No but I wish that I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:51 PM
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“No, this never works because I haven’t seen it” I presented two common reasons why that type of relationship has trouble functioning and is not the norm in the first place. To be honest "quiet personality" is a very vague description and can be twisted and turned but I think my assessment was correct. I do expect her to reinforce her statement in a more detailed way considering that is what this forum is essentially about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:49 PM
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Alright, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:43 PM
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Oh I see, she goes easy on the hot sauce so she doesn't burn his dick later on, attagirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:08 PM
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excited she is about her food. She is clearly on her way to Chad with that meal, can't you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:04 PM
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You're supposed to be argumentative now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:03 PM
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We've already established that he makes more money than the other person, he's also clearly more gifted given his lack of need for extensive education to perform. What is it that the college education provides that this man isn't already reaping the benefits from? As stated they are both in the same field.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:02 PM
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Why tho? I mean it's infinitely more impressive that a guy has that much success without going through a run of the mill program.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:50 PM
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I think shy men are best for women with quiet personalities. Nope, nothing ever comes off this, shy men doesn't like approaching and "quiet personality" women won't ever approach either. No one would take any initiative in anything and the girl would grow bored of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:57 PM
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What if he is not college educated but considerably more successful than most college educated people whilst being in the same field as those who are. He's basically self-taught or mentored. Do you value the education itself or the practical benefits that it provides?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:38 PM
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What grown man would be interested in an 18 year old girl? Are we talking physically or relationship wise? Very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:59 PM
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I mean if you're gonna steal Tyson's line, at least quote it verbatim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:52 PM
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You must be new here, women argue all the time that they have equal or greater sex drive because of them having a greatly reduced refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:40 PM
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I don't watch those giga-cringe Bachelorette shows, I mean what kind of person falls in love with a camera crew invading their dating space? These people are bizarre to say the least. compliments women use for men’s looks have individual variation. I guess that clears up the confusion since usually people pick accurate words to describe how they feel but it's great advice to watch what women do instead of what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:37 PM
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I trust a woman and her 'emotions' on a show like that about as far as I can throw her(Not that far really). Also you're very clear that you and your friends are into cute guys, birds of a feather?? How about this one, I met a girl that I hadn't seen for a long time, since I last saw her I had gotten considerably fitter and leaned out. She later tells a close friend of mine "Oh my RightNowImReady has gotten so handsome, is he gay?" How much of a backhanded compliment is that? There is no other c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:14 PM
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That's honestly perfect, like a truth serum inside a trojan horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:04 PM
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And yes, exactly, listen to her describing it: the “first kiss” metaphor is her talking about the fact that she’s so attracted to him it makes her feel insane butterflies, like it’s a whole new experience of excitement. That’s raw sexual desire and chemistry, and if you don’t see that then you don’t get how women talk about these things. Yes I did listen to her describing it, I can tell you the first kiss in elementary school does not signal raw sexual desire LOL - That's literally disney level …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:31 PM
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“Cute” is when we’re super into a guy, period, and not just for looks but when we really want to date him / are super excited about him Long term mate... Usually if I call a guy “hot” it means he’s physically attractive but not someone I’m falling for in any deeper way, I think. Short term mate a.k.a you want to get railed by him in a primal manner but nothing more(or less). This is what guys to evoke in a woman. The video you posted earlier that you somehow thinks proves your point that being "…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:59 PM
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You're not a balanced individual though, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:26 PM
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This is such a normie moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:17 PM
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When a woman finds out a man is a virgin past a certain age, regardless of how he looks/behaves she will assume there must be something wrong with him. Regardless of how legitimate the reasoning for his virginity is, there will still be doubt in most women's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:15 PM
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Lucky for us nature has a way of balancing itself out then, also without a minority of men having these traits I think we wouldn't be nearly as successful as a species as we are now. While I completely agree with you on a societal level, that we can't have a majority of men acting with an individual agenda, I still think many of those traits are desirable to women on some primal level. I guess we'll just have to disagree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:52 PM
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sawing motion instead of a stroking motion Lmao what does this mean? Some guys pause between in/out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:24 PM
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If you take the average wage slave and apply these traits he will either end up fired(most likely scenario) or in the positioning of firing people(high up the food chain). It's a high-risk high-reward type of person we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:20 PM
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It seems like a lot of Americans(I think?) seem to have this religious upbringing and either adhered to it strictly or rebelled, as a Swedish person I can't relate since we are extremely agnostic/atheistic and religion does not play any part in our lives besides the baptizing/marriage traditions. In my opinion the traits that he listed is very opposite of what most females are and YES I believe opposites attract (Masculinity vs Femininity - Dominant vs Submissive etc) It's quite obvious that we …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:50 AM
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They are undateable for YOU because you like to be in charge in your relationships, you feel more like a man then as a woman correct? Of course you're not going to find a lot of these traits desirable. Imagine a non-assertive, submissive woman looking for a guy that leads the relationship, she would find many of those traits desirable. Also I agree arrogance in full-on display is horrendous but some women seem to find it sexy if it's done in a nonchalant type of way WITH the guy being able to ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:55 AM
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Like in what world do you people live in? The one where people aren't intentionally being obnoxious or anxious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2aticerEcs You located near any of those cam locations? ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:21 PM
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Would you describe yourself as more assertive/dominant then? I usually find people look for the opposite when it comes to their partners because otherwise it usually ends up in a lot of friction(Both being dominant) or lack of attraction(Both being submissive). Of course this is a spectrum so I am not saying only two strict polar opposites exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:17 AM
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I broke my toes watching that, should be tagged NSFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:04 AM
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How old are you? Marlon was actually surprisingly built compared to any other mainstream actor back then, he seemed to be into sports and regular weight training as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:57 PM
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I mean it makes it sound like there was previous not so smooth BF introductions due to them being a not-so common taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:52 PM
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My parents know me and my tastes Just fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:39 PM
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acting like a Cat 1 is the apocalypse Isn't Ian turning into a Cat 4 tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:26 PM
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Possibly a bad job at nurturing her in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:46 PM
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If she said that to me I would expect her to fuck some other guy and act all surprised if I got upset by it. "I mean I'm fine with you doing stuff with other girls, soooo."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:45 PM
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Wdym not long distance, you moved to turkey without your ex no? Hence me saying what was he thinking.. Wouldn't it just have been easier to break up with him before you left? Since it's clearly feels like you were already over him with the given time-span. Also regardless if he can find a new girl or not, him finding TRP can avoid him getting blind sided like he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:07 PM
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Lol, your ex must be giga Blue Pilled, what was he thinking? A long distance relationship and you getting "the tour" with some native young dude?? I hope he finds The Red Pill for his sake..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:05 PM
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met an amazing guy, had to hold off on chatting with him How did you know he was an amazing guy before chatting with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:11 PM
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It's creepy and hypocritical otherwise Except in reality most girls don't want a virgin guy, let alone one above a certain age so it's a terrible situation to be in for a guy. People are allowed to have preferences, just like the fat women that wants fit/skinny guys or girls with average income wanting someone that makes 6 figures. It's their own fault if they set their own expectations too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:34 PM
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You wanna throw something else at me? I am here to discuss and debate, hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:42 PM
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Some women are comfortable with anything and some aren't but that doesn't have much to do with sex drive There is no incentive to do something unless you get something out of it no? So regardless if you are comfortable with it or not then you won't have sex with someone unless that person turns you on which is where a persons level of sex drive comes into play. No one sleeps around because they can, they do so because they want to and enjoy it to some degree. Your "common phenomenon" isn't commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:36 PM
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I mean not indulging in pleasurable behaviour even though you clearly want to, without any real drawbacks in modern society(Wear a rubber, I never kiss and tell etc etc) is a red flag to me. Does it have to do with the intimacy of having someone else inside you or what? Make me understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:17 PM
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I mean can you really force or make an emotional connection happen voluntarily? I can't and more often than not I crush on women I really don't want to crush on.. If he trully liked you, he can wait a month or whatever timeline each woman needs Or you know, from my perspective, if the woman truly finds me attractive than she won't string me along for a month before sleeping with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
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Depends on how the guy died.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:04 PM
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Alright, so how long did you blue ball Mr. Lucky before you slept with him then? You said a few months of learning his character I hope he didn't suffer that long LOL..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:59 PM
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Having a high sex drive doesn't mean you're turned on more when you are, just that it's more often It also takes less effort to get you into the mood when you have a higher sex drive, which is why it has an impact on how fast a women will sleep with a guy ASSUMING she is not hindered by any moral/societal/insecurity issues. Someone with a low sex drive may be more comfortable with having sex early on as it doesn't happen that they want it too often Not only are these people less likely to engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:52 PM
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I never said that it was, this particular woman said it was because she COULDN'T feel any "real" sexual attraction until there was a emotional connection present, this does not imply self control but rather an involuntary inability to do so. I am well aware that women practice self control for various reasons to their benefits around men, even tho they might want to engage in sexual intercourse at that specific moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:41 PM
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Mid to high sex drive for a woman or for a man? Sexual attraction can take time to build up Maybe, there have been time I have grown affectionate of women that I didn't look at sexually in the first place but that was not the same RAW sexual attraction that I immediately have when I meet some other women. Also there can be other reasons why you specifically wouldn't sleep with a man on the first date, I mean have you never met a guy and he just turns you on and you want to get it on as soon as p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:37 PM
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Comfortable from a moral/societal acceptance stand point? Making sure the guy isn't a judgemental asshole? The word "comfortable" for me is a bit butchered after having witnessed women sleep with a guy whilst on a night out within 2 hours of first being introduced to him but keeping another guy on the back burner for 2 months straight because she isn't "comfortable" to sleep with him yet. Being turned on strongly lowers your inhibitions and having a high sex drive generally will allow you to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:31 PM
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Even if the guy is extremely attractive? It just sounds like you have a low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:57 PM
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How accurate will an unmedicated / untreated bipolar person be when judging what is abuse and what is not?? I have a friend that is Bipolar and his perception of reality when his emotions are playing ping pong from one end to the other is highly questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:54 AM
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It's the easy access to hyper-palatable food. Most people don't get fat eating healthy balanced home cooked meals but from all the junk. America has junk food in their schools and make it cheaper than a lot of other nutritious food, when it should be the other way around. America needs a junk food tax tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:47 AM
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Anecdote here. A friends GF was out for a "girls night out" when we were hanging out just us the boys, she comes home pretty drunk and starts talking to my boy. Tell him that this "guy" wanted to buy her and her friends drinks but they never spoke to him and it was so weird, I guess indicating to him in a subtle way that she had admirers/options and wanted him to step it up or something. Anyway as she is talking about it she mentions the guys name, which my friend catches and asks her "You said …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:41 AM
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This is why you keep your man's balls thoroughly drained so that he won't stray away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:44 PM
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I know they mean an autistic fit Lmao, you should hear me when I am gaming. Anyway I think most women don't mind a guy showing emotion for brief moments but it's when they extend beyond a certain time frame that the woman will lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:59 PM
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Most men don't feel entitled in my experience, the ones that act like you describe just don't care about taking it whichever way they can. That doesn't mean they feel like they are on a high horse and have the right to do so. Any non low-life(in the grand sense of status) will typically still trade favors(usually career) for sexual acts/affection instead of feeling entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:55 PM
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We weren't talking about men and women and making comparisons, also of course men will start wars when they are the ones that have been primarily in charge of countries for the past 2000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:46 PM
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I'm very emotional so maybe it's contagious? I think it's an adorable trait in women but I would refrain from it myself after hearing so many horror stories from men that "opened" up and got ditched most likely because of it. I think it's acceptable across most, if not all people, to cry when family/close friends passes away. Also animals, particularly if they've been together for many years/since childhood that created a strong bond between them. Some movies/youtube clips tears me up(those vide…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:45 PM
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OLD = Online Dating. And don't even start trying to deny the vindictiveness of a woman who feels she is entitled to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:36 PM
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What did you do to those poor bastards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:35 PM
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Problem with these groups is that women will label guys that rejected them later on for whatever reasons as "creeps" or "undesirables" regardless if they were or not. I can see groups like this having quite an impact when OLD has grown as big as it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:25 PM
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What's a "predator" in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:23 PM
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Women can be rejected by a man even if the man wants to have sex with her. On OLD a good looking guy wouldn't even have swiped right on her if he didn't want to fuck and rejection online is a fucking joke anyway, like who cares? Suggests that even you shame for being a slut is alive and well. Of course, normalizing being a slut is just virtue signalling or coping. The same women that "supposedly" supports being sex positive are also the first that states how they are LTR focused and have low n c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:53 AM
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I think that's debatable, like HighValueMoidxDDDD pointed out earlier, with feminism preaching about #sexpositivity and our beloved yearly slutwalks the shame part should be just about nullified. As for rejection that would mean the woman would have to make the move, which I could buy when going out to a club or a bar because it can be hard for a woman to be seen by a good looking guy in a club/bar if she is average. However with OLD she can just swipe right on the good looking guys and have all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:49 PM
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I agree with most of what you said but let's not deny that men value youth in women than the other way around when it comes to sexual attraction and fertility. That is essentially what this talk of a "wall" is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:31 PM
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good looking people. I would disagree that you need a high libido and low disgust to have casual sex with a good looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:27 PM
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Obese people generally get fat by over consuming over-palatable junk food that is designed to get you to eat as much of it as possible. This type of food + a consistent caloric surplus = Insulin resistance, which can lead to Diabetes, which we know is very unhealthy. Also obese people are just unattractive in general and we don't like that now do we.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:09 PM
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It's not necessarily that women age WORSE than men but men VALUE youth in a woman more then a woman does in a man, so that once signs of aging starts appearing in a woman it will have a more significant effect on a man's sexual attraction than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:02 PM
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That's just straight up attractive, like a big ass or tits on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:51 PM
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At least you admit it's a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:43 PM
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What do you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:11 PM
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She was probably afraid of being called a racist for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:51 PM
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aroused differently I agree, but the higher the sex drive the lower the threshold is for being sexually stimulated by another person physically, this goes for both genders. I think this is why the "average" man is not sexually appealing to women at first sight, because their sex drive is generally lower than a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:31 AM
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Of course there is more at play than just testosterone, I don't think there is a good correlation between testosterone and sex drive when comparing two different people. However if you have the same person and modify their testosterone levels(Assuming other hormones are kept reasonably balanced) then I am inclined to believe that they would see a boost in libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:29 AM
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painted nails Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:01 AM
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I agree with you, the initial attraction the girl will feel for the guy once he immediately makes that move without second guessing is huge, simply because most other guys won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:59 AM
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seems thats more a dealbraker for men You are correct, the most important physical change a man can make to become more SEXUALLY appealing is having a lean face, the lean body is the cherry on top of that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:58 AM
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You're joking right, fat also applies to the face and a fat face is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:28 AM
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Tell her to forget about her LOSER ex boyfriend if she brings him up and that she is with you now, I stress the importance of referring to him as a loser.. And if she starts yapping about him just straight up tell that you couldn't care less and that you don't want to spend your time around miserable people. Then you excuse yourself to the bathroom and tell her that when you come back, you expect her to be on her best behavior or not there at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:51 PM
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You're a slave.. !to your sex drive !!<
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:41 PM
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Well, I was thinking more in terms of you talking about having a "low battery" ADHD medicine aka Amphetamines will make you feel like you're at the top of the world, they're really amazing if you are a low energy type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:39 PM
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Have you tried ADHD medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:30 PM
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How much do you think make up plays a part in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:23 PM
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What do you guys talk about? If I might ask
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:21 PM
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Do you ever spend time with him alone without your BF? Like watch movies and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:00 PM
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Dad dicks are huge dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:00 PM
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He is right though, there's a lot of women(models) that I would personally rate at 7 in terms of raw attraction but I can still recognize that she has certain traits that are desired by most people even though I personally don't find her extremely attractive. So when I rate I will first give an objective opinion and then my own subjective one IF there is a large discrepancy between the two. It's the same with movies, except there I would objectively rate them based on how "well made" they are co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:57 AM
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You can still and should rate people objectively to some degree, like some people are quite easy to figure out and fits accordingly to our own preferences but others don't fit what we personally find attractive but we can still recognize that they are very good looking. It would be like someone asking you to rate a man, like you don't find him personally attractive in anyway since you are heterosexual but you can still recognize a handsome guy and put a somewhat accurate rating(compared to most …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:42 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:56 PM
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his birthday party At this point I personally would have just suggested that we go together, like it's not one of her girlfriends so it's not going to be exclusively girls there and she could easily just invite you as a date. If she said no, I would have just moved on at this point. You have to be more assertive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:23 PM
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I mean my sense humor is a bit adolescent but I found it amusing, I actually wouldn't even believe the person was being serious but rather that it was a sort of self deprecating take on men being excessively horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:04 PM
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she seems very interested in me 2.5 months and no date yet dude.. How far did you get when you both planned to go out? Like did you have a date and time/place set and she bailed last second? Or did you just ask her and she agreed but you never actually planned it out in full before she said she had something come up? How important was the things that came up? Did she lose pets/friends/family members or were they bullshit reasons that she could have easily postponed if she really wanted to go on …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:57 PM
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What is your definition of a "sexual perversion" here? Like how far off are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:49 PM
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Thank you, I mean how else am I supposed to fight a dragon?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:37 PM
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Well it's the best information that we have, can you suggest any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:24 AM
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Not bullshit, yes if I was a woman I would see it as an asset. Whether you want to believe that or not is up to you. My face is an asset, my body when i workout becomes a more valuable asset. There's a shit ton of women that see it as an asset as well, I mean the sheer amount of women that endures the pain because they enjoy having large breasts is real. It's not like their discs are slipping or anything. I know the type of pain since I had the same thing from when I was younger and it didn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:55 AM
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We all know men more commonly cheats with someone considered 'uglier' than women does. Also Hypergamy still applies since it has to do with LTRs not casual sex if you were trying to imply something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:24 AM
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Lol couching it in body positivity? Fuck body positivity. I am anti-surgery when the alternative is something way less invasive and also happens to provide multiple other benefits(exercise) like you stated yourself. I'm like 90% ass and 10% tits, I just tried to put myself into the position of myself as a woman and how I would see it as an asset that I would like to preserve rather than a nuisance. I guess I seem to share the mindset of women getting breast enlargement, which does not do it for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:49 AM
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I don't consider back pain to be a valid reason because you can exercise to strengthen your back and it surprises me how this isn't being taught or told by physicians to women when they complain about it, instead they want to put them under the knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:02 AM
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There's nothing subtle about the man hate on that sub dude, it just so happens that the Reddit hive-mind and political agenda is aligned with it. Also there was a sub called 'Incelswithouthate' which basically consisted of self proclaimed "Incels" engaging in self deprecating humor and Chad praise/worship. There was no raging or hate allowed but it still got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:16 PM
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I mean you reinforced your initial position with your second comment hence why I made my absolute statement comment. Don't withdraw from your posts or make your exact position known from the get-go. Men in general care about the size/shape of women's noses, large noses are associated with masculinity since men have bigger noses in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:58 PM
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It's a status thing IMO and not necessarily money related even tho money can get you status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:51 PM
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You were the one that made the absolute statement and I didn't even have to go looking to find a contradiction with it, in this very sub as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:41 PM
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mostly for health reasons Like back pain or what? Also you said "mostly" so what was the other reasons if you don't mind? Like I enjoy all sizes of boobs but it pains me when women with big boobs want to reduce them, like whyyyyyy..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:39 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/Ia8jWfL.png KEKW
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:36 PM
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On the basis of the word of other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:31 PM
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A woman fucking a good looking man doesn't mean she can not like him. I never said that, I said that was those women's only requirement for a hookup. Also of course they are "lukewarm" when interacting with a good looking man, because those men are not the standard so they are already above average. Did you not see the ones saying that being safe or not a dick was also a requirement? I did see that but the way you have been phrasing your posts shows you have no other perspective than your own wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:35 PM
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I have had men just openly tell me at random how they sleep women they don't like that much. What are you on about? We literally just had a thread on here about what girls care about for hook ups and a ton of girls said it was about 'Looks' and if they liked the guy they would consider him LTR material. Like that was literally their requirement. Women will even fuck men they dislike if they are horny enough and he is attractive, it's rarer in women because you generally have lower libidos but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:44 AM
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I'm not sure how anyone can argue that Anakin was a Gary Stu. Dude was literally created by the force and spent his entire life training to be a Jedi. He didnt tho, a big part of the movie was that he was "too old" to train but Obi-Wan kept vouching for him. Also I think there was a big step from Ep 2 to Ep 3 in Hayden's Anakin, like his flaws became more and more apparent in Revenge of the Sith, also Obi-Wan had to carry him against Dooku in Ep 2 because of his flaws. He also did have a massive…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:08 PM
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Join a weightlifting gym if you want aesthetics in a reasonable time frame, combat sports(besides grappling based ones) are a bad idea if you are using your brain for a living or plan to. I love boxing, both training and watching it but the only way you will improve at the sport after a while is by sparring, especially sparring better opponents and you WILL get hit in the head. IMO it's only worth it if you plan on competing and get a ton of enjoyment out of that. If you are the kind of guy that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:02 PM
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They say they start with animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:53 PM
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That's called a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:57 AM
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Why would you go to an extreme? You wouldn't be treated badly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:04 PM
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insecure, and neurotic. Gee, I wonder what percentage of women fit this profile..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:04 PM
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You can demonize it all you want by calling it a cult, doesn't change the fact that it's not in the best interest of women of helping men improve themselves in order to date women like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:34 PM
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They are behind the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:30 AM
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So your mom was your MD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:22 AM
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Who the fuck puts 5 year olds on antidepressants?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:16 AM
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Also notice how the first chick rotates her thighs towards the bulge(Classic body language) and starts rocking her leg lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:00 AM
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It is impossible to predict or game human behavior. To perfection? Probably yes and certainly a waste of time unless a person is completely passionate or makes a living of it. However that doesn't mean that there aren't specific lessons to be had about human behaviour that we can utilize and take proper action(make correct decisions) to improve a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:47 AM
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It's not lies, it's just the way that a lot of women explain things(Not all women tho) has a tendency to be completely void of anything other than their own perspective. Also do you really think something as big as TRP would exist if there wasn't a massive issue with being congruent among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:21 AM
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They sense it but they don't care since Tyrone has other traits that make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:09 AM
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She looks like a young Stifler's mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:58 PM
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Jealous of them feeling boobies and butts or you not being able to do the equivalent as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:53 PM
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From 8 to 5 without make up? How fucking hard did you party?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:51 PM
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How was his character ? I've never seen it and never plan on doing it but I've seen it mentioned by a decent amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:54 PM
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If it doesn't improve your looks why do you wear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:48 PM
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OR they have traits that outweigh the negatives, this is essentially the case with every abusive relationship. Women however doesn't like to highlight this and you are either scum or amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:40 PM
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Most girls like chubby ex college athlete, 6'3, muscular with a fat pad above it and with a facial structure that hardly gets effected by being 22% body fat. You can't deny that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:28 PM
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How often? If I may ask. I have gone 35 days before but I didn't have one, the 10 day to about 25 my sex drive was through the roof and then the last 10 days it sort of subsided but that might have been because of unrelated things affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:37 PM
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Do you just cum in your sleep or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:03 PM
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As long as we ultimately put the blame on the woman for her actions then we are in agreement. I too understand(to the best of my capabilities as a man) why she did what she did but obviously I can't fully fathom how a woman feels in a position like that, especially sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:20 AM
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I wasn't the only one that read it that way, combining that with you saying: forced her into that situation Indicates that it was somehow not preventable and it is a given that she did was she did and the outcome that came of it, neither which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:42 AM
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Yes and you are incorrect in saying that it was unfortunate because it has nothing to do with bad luck. I wasn't the only person that interpreted it this way by the way, you using the word unfortunate comes off as passing personal responsibility from her actions due to her circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:25 AM
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You came off as not holding her responsible for her actions when you said that it was "unfortunate". As in it was a matter of bad luck that other people died when she has full responsibility for handling the poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:15 AM
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Neither you nor I know what her state of mind was. The difference between me and you is that I paint her by her actions not by some imaginary thinking that she must be a good person because she is a woman or whatever reason you find a must to defend her. No one is denying that she was in a shitty position and that if she had only killed her husband we wouldn't even be having this conversation to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:05 AM
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Except she wasn't, this wasn't some spur of the moment, in the heat thing. She planned and calculated(albeit in a stupid fashion) the poisoning with her lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:56 AM
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I never said it was a fact but it's hard for me to comprehend how a person can put a poisoned glass of milk in the fridge and somehow not pay attention to it, even with an entire family gathering at her place. Like you're sitting at the table, they are serving a milk made dessert and it doesn't cross your mind to go look in the fridge if the glass is still there? I just can't comprehend the stupidity of a person like this existing. Which is why, whilst not a fact, it is way more likely she eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:48 AM
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It was enough for the chief of police to interrogate her hard enough to the point where she confessed, it's impossible for anyone but herself to know what she was aware of or if she did tell that to the police we still don't have access to the transcripts of the interrogation. I am not even saying that she "knew" it was poisoned but anyone with any ounce of intelligence would pay attention to that glass if other people except the person she intended to kill had access to it. It's also possible t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:27 AM
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Alright a glass of milk that is left unchecked with other people having access to it, happy? Care to address the rest of my post or do you agree that she was a stupid, heartless bitch that didn't give a shit about those other people because only her own experience and life is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:09 AM
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I am not talking about PHYSICAL attractiveness alone tho, I'm referring to the whole package. So a woman appreciates love bombing from a guy that is confident yet she is not attracted to him? Unless you're saying that every single guy that is confident regardless of their looks/rest of their personality is attractive to women. Simping really is just love bombing that is not reciprocated because the girl doesn't find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:04 AM
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They didn't "unfortunately die" they died because of her ignorance and stupidity. Her dumb ass thought contaminating the entire milk and leaving it unchecked when other people have access to it was the best way to go about it. She was present at the family gathering, did not consume the dessert(that she knows contains milk) for obvious reasons. Seeing 8 kids and other family members that had no part in her forced marriage consume the poisoned dessert and thinking that killing them was worth her …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:51 AM
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Ms. Bibi was the only person at the family gathering who did not drink the milk It's from the wiki page, I mean I would imagine that's how why they chose to interrogate her no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:38 AM
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When we talk about a man not having options it universally means that he has no options, if a woman "wouldn't know" and he could pass then it means that he has options by default. And sure, men from those countries are more confident because they aren't cucked like us northerners lol. Let me put it this way: confident men are attractive, attractive men have options, attractive men with options makes girls feel special when love bombing. If you're attracted to the guy he is love bombing you and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:34 AM
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So why didn't she drink the milk(dessert) at the gathering?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:21 AM
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I don’t understand setting a boundary with someone who can’t control themselves. I guess the idea would be not putting them in a situation where they can lose control. I will give you an example of a friend of mine's girlfriend. I was over at his place for a hangout with just the boys and his girlfriend decided to go out with her girlfriends to a club, no big deal since he trusts her. I don't really know her that well but from her past she was in 1-3 long term relationships over the past 10 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:09 AM
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Men without options aren't attractive, they don't have anyone interested in them to engage in mutual love bombing with in the first place. They would be labeled simps by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:55 AM
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Men's reality -> Women's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:38 AM
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Like in movies Just be young Leo confirmed. Jokes aside, me thinks that it has nothing to do with HOW they do it but rather WHO does it ;) As in, if the value of the guy is high enough he can love bomb a girl because she knows that he has plenty of options but he specifically chose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:32 AM
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Dude had multiple wives, how much more alpha could he get? Also did they release some real footage or is the source of that statement Seal Team 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:50 PM
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ironically young chicks can tend to date “ unattractive “ guys cause they don’t know better yet ( it’s a thing ) These guys were average tho. Over time the girl grows attached and starting liking the guy foreal especially cause of sex If they didn't find the guy attractive, nor liked the guy, are you saying they slept with him because of trying to fit in? The more likely scenario that you conveniently rule out is that the guy had time to "woo" her with his personality, intentionally or not, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:55 PM
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But you know, just like looks fade, personalities change This is the problem with people and why you have to vet them like crazy before entering a relationship with them. It's so scary to think that a person that you've been with for years suddenly starts behaving differently and expect you to change as well to accommodate their new persona. I blame lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:33 PM
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Interesting. Is it because you're afraid or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:22 PM
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Ever since I found out she got pissed on by Jason Biggs anything that comes out of her filthy mouth is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:21 PM
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If you don't mind. Can you tell how me how it makes you feel when a man lashes out in rage? His psyche being in a state of unpredictable and unstable turmoil, destructiveness..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:58 PM
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Predator 2 Come on, it wasn't thaaat bad. Seriously tho, is there any sad scene in that movie even?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:01 PM
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I know girl that recives bdsm toys Are you interested in her? Tell her that you want to try the toys with her the next time you see each other. Then you will know if she is interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:15 PM
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though it’s done with confidence And how do you sweet talk and love bomb with confidence? Like what is the distinct separation of doing it with confidence and not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:07 PM
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they way you feel around them. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:56 PM
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I think overusing Porn to the point where you get desensitized to "Vanilla" stuff is a thing, which might make you look for more novel material but typically this is something that would to some degree have appealed to you anyway. However there's no fucking way a person turns gay from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:57 PM
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I'm more surprised that you haven't changed in four decades, or is her husband in his teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:54 PM
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This is why Veganism is referred to as a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:23 PM
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So why would you feel the need to have them there if your already in a monogamous relationship? We've already established the person isn't contacting them, or they other way around. No communication is taking place between them but why would I even feel the need to have them there. And yes I agree, if the partner is not comfortable with you having fall back/back ups in your phone then he shouldn't try to demand otherwise, instead he should just consider both of you incompatible and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:26 PM
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It's not about needing anything, it's more of the persons intention of going into a relationship with "back ups". I don't date a person unless I am going for a long haul, meaning I don't keep casual or romantic partners of past in my phone when I enter a monogamous relationship. If you're friends with these people then it's a completely different thing since your relation with them has changed but I see no purpose of having "back ups". It makes me question the persons willingness to fight for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:18 PM
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I guess we found Amanda.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:18 PM
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Just because it's a religious practice doesn't mean there isn't a reason for performing it, even Maimonides himself considers it to be so The circumcision rate is far lower than that these days and it's becoming increasingly lower every year as people realize what a barbaric procedure it is. Don't let yourself be stuck on tradition to penalize your unborn son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:08 PM
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If you were able to see the other side then it wouldn't even be a consideration for you. The social benefit of having a nicer dick? Really? Once the foreskin is pulled back they look very much alike. The hygienic benefit is bullshit as well, you literally rinse it for a couple of seconds in the shower and you're done with it. It was literally invented to reduce sexual pleasure and promoted in the US by Kelloggs(Yes the Cereal guy) to reduce masturbation in boys. Like it's such an outdated and ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:48 PM
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probably would circumcise a son For the love of god, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:25 PM
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What do you mean? If I get a girl pregnant, I better be ready to father the child. It's taking responsibility for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:03 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:41 PM
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The Dark Knight is the only movie I watched twice in the cinema, man that shit is so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:55 PM
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Alright, so what you're basically describing is people reading RP and making their own assumptions of what it is about. What you're describing with your first angle is just men being stupid and stuck in the anger phase. The second angle isn't true either to what RP says because one of the core quotes is "She's not yours, it's just your turn" as in you DON'T / CAN'T control her, just enjoy it while it lasts. RP basically says to always attempt at maintaining that initial attraction that she liked…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:12 PM
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Red Pill doesn't blame anything, it just states that's how it is, to internalize it and accept it. I understand what you mean in the sense that cheating is always wrong because you can always break up with your partner beforehand and not go behind their back, which I agree is the right way to go. However that doesn't change the fact of WHY she became attracted to another guy to the point where she slept with him, do you not consider the guy to be responsible for this attraction? Not the cheating…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:35 PM
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As far as I can remember yeah, the real eye-opener was when I saw a clip of a famous twitch streamer, Alinity something was her name I think. They had this exact same discussion and she basically said the exact same thing "When a girl cheats it's because of the guy". Basically meaning the vast majority of women don't cheat because of pure sexual reasons but rather because their guy fucked up the attraction somewhere along the way, usually by becoming too much of a beta. I remember how the reddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:26 PM
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Wrong. Man cheats: Novel sex, clear separation between romantic and purely sexual relationships. Woman cheats: Man's fault. That was my takeaway anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:13 PM
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No, I'm saying she was more sexually turned on during those situations but women have a hard time admitting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:38 PM
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So why would a woman turn down sex with a guy that she genuinely likes? I mean relationship wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:33 PM
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So they are mutually exclusive? Is that what you are saying a woman can't have sex early on in a serious relationship? I mean you are basically proving the Red Pill concept of AF/BB you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:22 PM
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Are they mutually exclusive? I am under the impression that a healthy relationship consists of both, which is also what most men want, BOTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:59 PM
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The exact situation OP described is very rare yes. That women want to wait for sex until they get "comfortable" or "trust you enough" is not, this is of course commonly combined with her previous actions towards other men not being consistent with her current ones, which is the scenario men despise and never want to find themselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:37 PM
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You reminded me of this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:28 PM
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Only if you assume your first statement has no effect on the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:23 PM
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I mean it's still a transaction just that both parties are oblivious to their respective others value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:09 PM
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No, the point was that the situation described by OP, whilst not ideal in any sense still gets the point across to us men but seems to fly straight over the head of some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:06 PM
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You don't understand my point, I agree that this character(in the story) is ridiculous in itself and could be better written to more accurately describe reality. The point is that the scenario described with some minor changes, one of which being the specific reason for not engaging in sexual activity early in the relationship and the other being the length of time abstaining from sex, as in instead of waiting until marriage, your example of "getting to know someone" is a better example. However…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:05 PM
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Change the "religious" aspect to "I don't wanna be pumped and dumped anymore" and it's very common lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:33 PM
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It's essentially the ability to understand and navigate social situations and relationships(friendships as well) with finesse and ease. Basically the opposite of SOME people that are autistic/aspergers. Think of it as "reading the room" - It's often not a conscious effort either as you usually either get it or not. People typically confuse it with being extroverted but you can be extroverted and have no idea what other people are thinking or feeling they are not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:16 PM
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LOL @ You. Even babies prefer to look at the faces of more attractive people, did you know that AelfredRex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:08 PM
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It differs but mostly they mean social intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:59 PM
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Women are the ones who are much more likely to date down Women never date down in a overall sense, yes sometimes they will overlook physical attractiveness if the guy has other traits they value. Rarely will you see a guy with a girl who is noticeably less attractive than him in a relationship If you remove the makeup is this still true? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:11 PM
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I agree that less sex drive = less importance on sex but it's also these same type of girls that seem to have a higher threshold for who they find attractive and what turns them on, so things like height/dick size/muscles/face can be the difference of them getting turned on enough to casually fuck a guy or not. Meanwhile the high sex drive woman doesn't need any of that in order to be turned on but because she commonly engages in more casual sex she is more "outspoken" on what she wants. It's re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:51 AM
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It's the opposite actually, the higher the sex drive the lower the standards will be in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:07 PM
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Disgusting, she expects guys that actually date her in order to form a long term relationship to spend money on her whilst not getting any pussy, meanwhile she has her own onlyfans where she is whoring herself out and giving out more than her potential future boyfriend is getting, can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:57 PM
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taking advantage of the fact that you look younger You're acting like the women don't have a mind of their own or something. It's like saying a guy is taking advantage of a girl because he's good looking, if they care about his age then they can just ask no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:35 PM
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This is some woman LARPing as a man, wishing most guys would think like this instead of drooling over youthful babes. The person is trying to achieve this by acting pretentious and shaming the guys(the majority) that think like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:13 PM
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I still think being attracted to people half your age is weird Sexual attraction to someone that is 18+ isn't weird at all for men, it might be for women as they usually prefer guys to be 1-3 years older than them at all ages of life. For men you're the outlier if you don't find 18 year old girls hot, at any age for that matter. he’s just saying he matured? Did you miss the part where he condescendingly disses his friends accusing them of trying to take "advantage" of women like that? He even us…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:11 PM
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Also why it's a horrible combination with people suffering from BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:43 PM
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Difference between being physically attracted to someone and engaging in sex with them wouldn't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:40 PM
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Just poison If you make a statement like this then people will expect you have a pretty strong bias against that person so when you state that you don't then it just seems like you listened to whatever shit the left MSM spat out condemning him, rather than actually having some thoughts of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:35 AM
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That thread is sooo bad lmao. Like I think being big into fitness is a much more valuable trait than people make it out to be for long term attraction purposes. Hell, LTRing a former anorexic seems better then what most of those people are experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:44 AM
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It's not "insider knowledge" as much as something they just want to keep under the rug because it doesn't look decent. "Harassed by fans trying to have sex with them" lol clearly you don't know the male perspective, I'm not saying there's guys that turn down these hoes but most will slip at some point. Also we both know that most men and women view sex differently, so don't try to devalue the power of novel pussy, having sex with the same person becomes familiar too on a purely physical level. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:01 PM
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That comment doesn't make any sense to me, please explain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:47 AM
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His fans are defending him, I remember back when that video hit of him attacking that woman in Iceland(I believe) and people were like "Oh they're just playfully fighting" "If you think that was him using real force then your dumb" "What you see is Ezra carefully putting the woman down in a playful manner" Meanwhile everyone sane could see there is something off with the guy, then you have the whole "I barely even identify as a human" type of deal, the ridiculous pronouns. Everyone just trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:22 AM
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Similar to the Britney Spears situation, they're both mentally unwell. I think Ezra might be a bit nuttier tho. It's just cringe, sad and terrifying watching fandom and PC culture cheer it all on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:59 AM
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How dared you use him like that !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:09 AM
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This is literally common knowledge to anyone within the NBA scene, pro sports in general really. Also I have no doubt that ALL you SEE are posts like the one you linked because you won't open up your eyes any further. I mean even your first link popped up with NBA Legend Julius Erving, who cheated on his wife back in the early 80's that resulted in getting a sportswriter pregnant. His wife stayed with him but he got another chick in 2003(The girl in the picture with him btw) who's over 20 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:08 AM
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I mean did she hold her breath for the entire duration or did he finish in like 10 seconds? There wasn't any time for her to get any words out? Even when she was pulled into the car? It makes more sense she went into mental shock and just shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:31 AM
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I mean they found the dude, she positively identified him. It shouldn't be too hard to find out where he lives and take note of his routines and work something out. Like I said he's a scumbag and The Police won't be giving a shit about finding out what happened to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:09 AM
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It says she "dissociated" with the situation so basically it wasn't physical as much as it was a psychological situation. Doesn't make it less bad but your original post wasn't on point. Also if the legal system won't help you then you have to take action into your own hands, I'm sure the local police won't dig too hard if they are receiving scrutiny for this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:41 AM
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If you get raped and your rapist is choking you so you can't say "no" the police will say it wasn't rape because you didn't say no. That sounds like attempted murder as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:24 AM
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A man can be happily married and sleep around with tons of women, this man feels no romantic emotions towards these women and loves his wife. Also that's funny considering the NBA is known for the amount of sluts lining up to casually fuck and even getting impregnated by those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:44 AM
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Yes, but women would rather share(In their mind temporarily) a high value man than exclusively date a lower value one. Worst case scenario they had casual sex with a highly desirable/status dude that they found very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:21 AM
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To his/her defense I have heard a lot of women say the father wanted his son circumcised because "He was" also I've heard a lot of people in USA being targeted for ridicule with their uncircumcised penis whilst in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:46 AM
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Sex is generally more enjoyable for uncircumcised people, You are more enthusiastic about something if it gives you more pleasure, would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:44 AM
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“…not push any further than that.” Meaning? Meaning it's more preferable to her to remain in the dark about my fitness habits, thus maintaining the possibility that I am telling her the truth, or maybe even half of it, that I'm genetically gifted in that department, stand out from the rest. You know stuff that most people find attractive? And I would guess it depends on the situation where we meet, if we're both tipsy in a club maybe you would giggle but in a more formal setting you would expres…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:48 AM
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Women: I thought you just wanted to be friends ! Also Women: All guys want is to fuck !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:05 AM
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Yes that poor poor husband who’s so unwilling or unable to take care of himself to the point where his wife feels more like his mother. That’s a behavioral issue on his part Are you saying she married someone who's unwilling/unable to take care of himself? What does that say about her lol? The more likely scenario is that she has a very controlling personality. If someone genuinely believes “shut up and agree with whatever she says” then they have a relationship with a total and complete lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:17 PM
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Yes, but there's a disproportionate amount of women posting selfies compared to men. Then you also have to take into consideration both men's and women's view on promiscuity and how that connects to it. Additionally the way women view men that are taken and how it makes them more attractive because of other women already being attracted to them, this would equate into a man becoming more attractive when he had good feedback from other woman on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:15 PM
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I think they just manifest differently in the sexes. I am not sure if this is hormonal or not. My experience is that men in general isn't as neurotic as women BUT when they are, it's more obvious than in the average neurotic woman. It will also much more commonly manifest itself in violent behaviour among men than women, where I feel it manifests itself in sadness. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:30 PM
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"Don't be a creep" very vague and not helpful at all. A much better response would be: "Be neurotypical, have a solid understanding of social dynamics and act accordingly to them, only trespass these boundaries once you've reached the point of where it's acceptable or the woman in question is specifically into it." This is just one example but the majority of women tend to communicate directly based upon an emotion that they have instead of men that prefers a more direct and logical approach of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:51 PM
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I took it as an insult to be honest but I can see how some people might perceive it as a compliment. "OMG, RightNowImReady is so handsome, is he gay?" The sister of a childhood friend of mine told him that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:44 PM
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The way you typed the sentence opens up possibility for misinterpretation. A woman posting selfies isn't doing it for sexual attention most of the time, in the case of her being single and looking to date then yes, that's is increasingly likely. However to say that a woman is not seeking attention in general when posting selfies is absolutely bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:35 PM
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So you're sharing your moments with your family and friends, that's cool and understandable, I also recently started seeing my extended family and it's been a great time seeing them again. I also believe that you aren't looking for male admirers and neither do I think most people(especially those in a relationship) post selfies of themselves to acquire admirers. I think most women post selfies because they felt like they were pretty in that moment and wanted to share it, it feels good to receive…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:17 PM
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People post pictures of different motives for different reasons, again why do you think people post selfies of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:54 PM
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So why do you think woman post selfies of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:46 PM
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I doubt he’d find success with most woman with those books. That's not the point at all, the scenario is that everything is identical between the two men but one learnt it from someone else, whilst the other one just "has it". Doesn't even have to be from a book, could be by asking some girl advice on reddit ;) Your example with your boyfriend is a different scenario tho, yes he was unsure and awkward but he had the confidence to come up and talk to you and that's attractive. He didn't try to le…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:26 AM
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I feel bad for her, she is clearly mentally unwell and all the leftists with their #FreeBritney movement just unleashing all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:06 AM
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Maybe if they let the priests marry and get some occasional pussy they wouldn't resort to the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:50 AM
1

Yeah so what? Eat according to your own metabolism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:38 AM
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No man should be above 15% body fat, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:32 AM
1

Did you miss your daily dose of cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:31 AM
0

Is this actually a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:52 AM
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I'd say that my success rate was about 50/50. Success for ONS or a relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:24 AM
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Right-wingers Luckily for me I'm alt-right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:07 PM
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It's normal and I have felt similar, I just try to put myself into that position, like, when you were with her did you think about all the other girls you fucked? Or did you just enjoy being with her? It's common to think that girls we're with compare us or had previous "better" experiences with guys in the past but most people live in the present, especially if they are happy with their current partner. Why would she want to go back and think about other times if she likes her current guy? Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:44 AM
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"Be your best self" won't give any meaningful advice to the non-neurotypicals roaming these boards for advice. They want a laid out, concrete way to get women. Of course nothing will guarantee success with every woman but TheRedPill has the most valuable information by far, especially with the demographic these men are trying to get with (Women 18-29). I already explained why it's not weird that they would give advice that's self-serving, this doesn't mean that they do it intentionally to try an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:17 PM
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Because it's unnatural behaviour. Imagine this scenario (and be honest) what is most attractive to you, a guy that comes up and blows your mind in the sense that he fits the exact traits that you find attractive and makes you feel genuinely excited to want to get to know him. Or, the exact same guy but you found out that he just finished reading Vol 3 of "How to be attractive to women". One is what you would call a "natural" the other one is not. Similar to how if you meet a guy that has a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:04 PM
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What do you mean by this? do you have any example? He means that women gives advice that might appear(and perhaps is) sincere and honest but that ultimately benefit themselves more than the guy they are seemingly intended to help. Like saying "Just be yourself" isn't inherently bad advice in the sense that it tells the person not to put on a front that is both impossible to retain and won't help you meet the girl you actually mesh with(In the long run) but at the same time it also doesn't provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:18 PM
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Girls between 5'7 and 5'10 are the hottest IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:09 PM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:57 PM
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At first glance? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:28 PM
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We're all competing whether you like it or not, also Jordan is an asshole but a ridiculously successful asshole. I've never had an interest in basketball itself but his approach is a recipe for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:22 PM
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For me personally it wouldn't have been something I broke up with a girl over, I would think that if this girl trusts me enough to be completely honest about her body count(Which most women won't be if they are above a certain amount) then I feel like she would be honest about most everything else and straight forward, which I like in a woman. Also her sex drive would most likely be high too which is nice. Anyway best way to get over her is just go out and start talking to new girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:43 PM
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I agree?? Reading the responses in this thread it seems like some women enjoy it and others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:33 PM
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Yeah I do, that's why I said he is likely to swipe left on people that he doesn't find attractive and you generalized that all men swipe right on everyone, which isn't true. The average women is picky because she has a lot of options so she carefully selects who she swipes left/right on, very attractive men do the same because they too have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:24 PM
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I knew you would say that but you also can't state that he is unlikely to be with women that he finds unattractive, they kind of contradict each other you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:10 PM
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You didn't really answer my question tho :D If he doesn't find you attractive then you lose nothing since he will swipe left on you anyway and you won't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:57 PM
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A partner? No. I want a "connection" with the woman that I am with, I prefer to use the term understanding tho. An understanding of each others mind, ambitions, morals and values and to both appreciate and support each other in the pursuit of this. I am family oriented and require the same from the woman that I am with, hobbies and such I don't mind being completely different as long as we have that "connection" if you know what I mean. I want her to be kind/empathic/seeing her eyes light up whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:52 PM
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Do you have bad personal experiences with very attractive guys or just going with stereotypes? I have heard that a lot of women don't want to date extremely attractive men because it makes themselves feel insecure, maybe this isn't true in your case but I have seen it mentioned a couple of times, even to the point of them straight out rejecting them because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:29 PM
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Doesnt the idea that women only need it be pretty and young show they have less value? If you look from a woman's point of view this might seem true since seemingly women have a far different hierarchy when it comes to desired traits in a man, but if those two qualities are quite literally by far the most important ones from a male perspective, and one of them are guaranteed(Young) and the other (Pretty) is in some parts subjective then they have a higher base level than some of the traits women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:25 PM
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Why on too hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:59 PM
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Because of the ingrained belief that males are born with inherently less value, which I agree is true. Most men that "make it" don't change this belief system and will continue to date similarly how they would even if they weren't in that position. Of course it is in the best interest of most women for this man to remain blind to his true value as to better increase their chances with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:58 PM
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If you consider having it easier = better position, then your conclusion is correct. However if the top women want the top men and we all know that women want to "date up" at the very least in their mind which is usually shaped by our society, then there's a hell of a lot more very beautiful women out there compared to male billionaires/celebrities/sport professionals etc. By definition if you believe women want to date "up" then the top males are always in the best position to get what they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:55 PM
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Surströmming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:13 PM
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I agree with you, I think it's adorable if a girl showcases that I'm with her exclusively. However the underlying thought is that for a guy to do the same to his girl(mate guard) indicates that he is insecure about his relative position to other men and feels the need to "fend" them off. Whilst if he was the "alpha" or best choice then he would have no need for such actions since there is no way his girl would entertain any other man. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:53 PM
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How in this case would subtle mate guarding as OP described be seen as toxic by the receiving end?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:50 PM
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If you had a higher sex drive you would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:39 PM
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Funny how women never address these.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:38 PM
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No correlation from what I have observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:07 PM
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I have no idea why the Columbine shooters chose to target the school, my guess would be shock factor. They were both extremely depressed from what I can remember from reading Klebold's diary with an unhealthy obsession with violence and mayhem. At least one of them was on anti-depressants, I believe the other one had an undisclosed medical history. Shooters in general have one thing in common, depression(or mental illness) that manifests itself in rage. The specific scenario for the outlet, in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:47 PM
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red pill to mass shooters pipeline. More like the obsession with school shooters, I mean have you seen the Columbine fandom? Take someone that feel like they can relate to these people with their own depression/suicidal/rage and combine that with the close to cult following and you got yourself a bad mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:26 PM
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Then you're in the minority of women, as is the OP of this thread but among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:58 PM
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I have never ever wanted to be dominated. Does this include sexually? As in him taking the initiative, having his "way" with you, whilst you're getting off the fact that he's consumed with you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:25 PM
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Everything has to be perfect in that idealized relationship they've fantasized about since middle-school. They're just chasing juvenile dreams. You know this applies to A TON more women than it does men right? The whole "I want a prince to sweep me off my feet" scenario you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:05 PM
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I agree with you, I think men should take full responsibility and not blame women for having "too high standards" or "not approaching" and similar stuff like that and then subsequently work on improving themselves. After all I can only control my own actions. I was just addressing the situation that it will create if things go down that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:39 PM
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All brains do indeed use the dopamine reward system. OCD and depression are two entirely separate issues from excessive porn use tho, if you are saying these people are more likely to indulge in a large amount of porn then I agree, especially with people that suffer from depression. Also I never said abstaining from porn would solve either, just that it solves the problems caused by excessive porn and masturbation. As a person that actually has OCD(Not OCPD btw) anecdotally my compulsive behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:39 AM
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Since you know how porn addiction work, and seem to agree that there's an addictive part to it then why don't you lay it out? It's a massive dopamine hit, people with addictive personalities are way more likely to keep chasing it and desensitize themselves which requires more stimulation to achieve a similar high. Are you in the porn business or something?? Do you think the way you do because you don't want to feel like you're apart of something that can cause harm to other people's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:04 PM
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I think both women and men look for similar traits in a partner but the hierarchy of these traits are differently laid out. Also I'm sure biology plays some parts in it as well even though that sounds very primal when put like that. Income just happens to be one of them that is on completely different ends for each partner, maybe I am just a modest guy and my experience might be different living in Sweden but I don't crave a particularly expensive or luxurious lifestyle and even if I did then I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:49 PM
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Come on, that's not even close. It's approach is similar to how you face other addictions like junk food/sugar or alcohol, you break the habit and don't indulge in it. I've never been an alcoholic as the drug doesn't sit well with me at all but I've over indulged on junk food and if I find myself having gained too much weight, completely cutting it out works 10x better than having a "little". Different strokes for different folks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:18 PM
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They don’t value womens hard work to be successful and emotional, complex beings. It's like how women don't appreciate men's hard work and struggle to become successful, they like the finished product but couldn't give a shit about the work they put in. This applies to meeting new people obviously, I understand both men and women appreciating their partners efforts since they have developed a relationship at that point. A lot of women are learning to be truly happy with themselves and alone even…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:42 PM
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who's to say that's a bad thing? I mean it creates disgruntled angry frustrated men and unhappy women, I don't see that as a good thing for our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:25 PM
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Phrenology - the detailed study of the shape and size of the cranium as a supposed indication of character and mental abilities. I have no idea how you in anyway could come to that conclusion and it just seems like you are dismissing everything based on your emotional response to the subject. I just wanted to understand where you were coming from that's all. I enjoy porn and masturbation as well but like with anything, moderation is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:06 AM
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So you're on some anti-religious tirade? I am from Sweden so religion doesn't play any part in pretty much anything over here. I completely agree that a moderate amount of porn does not cause ED. NoFap is directly aimed at helping people overcome porn ADDICTION. This means an amount of porn that becomes unhealthy with women that look close to physical perfection and behave in a concubine manner, a massive stream of dopamine at demand which in return will require even more stimulation in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:30 AM
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Wait, how does using TRT strain the kidneys? I only heard it improving renal function. We're talking replacement levels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:45 PM
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I would like to add he's also good looking(No homo) in great shape, good fashion sense and well groomed. The dude has maximized his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:19 PM
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I never said any of that, my entire point is that men's and women's sexuality is not that different in terms of HOW they work but more so in how strong they are relative to each other. In turns this makes sense because like you said women throughout time has had a lot more to worry about when engaging in sexual behaviour(Before condoms/birth control etc) than men, so it only makes sense that they don't have as high of a sex drive as men. I am not saying women with a high libido will screw everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:56 PM
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Is your argument that no woman can have good sex without chemistry and rapport? Or just that they desire it in general? There's a lot of women that want to get railed (A woman's word not mine) if they consider the man sexually appealing to them, this becomes significantly more common when a woman's libido is high, in general only a small subset of the male population is in this category. As for men not understanding chemistry and rapport, I agree with you, most men are not in tune with themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:33 PM
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I never said they wouldn't, they do. I just said that RP addresses it towards men since that's who it's aimed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:16 PM
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Betty Brosmer aka Joe Weider's wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:11 PM
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I know that, my point is that a lot of people actually have this inner desire to be loved in an unconditional way(RP obviously caters to men in this scenario) and RP addressed that. I believe it has been described as "Woman can never love a man the way he wants to be loved" or something similar. The way you left out the unconditional part is misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:06 PM
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women can’t love unconditionally. More accurate to RP mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:49 PM
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He didn't say women's libidos are weak, just that they are weaker than men's on an AVERAGE. Which is blatantly obvious, if women's libidos were as high as men's then their physical standards would drop considerably when it comes to casual sex and they wouldn't need as good looking of a guy to get aroused spontaneously. Both men and women's libido fit in line with their biology perfectly, this is not optimal for a functioning society because it leaves out the genetically "undesired" people(Men pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:55 PM
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I am not too familiar with anti-depressants but wouldn't taking a norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor increase stress levels? I have tried amphetamines and even though I feel the "happy" feelings of the dopamine, the norepinephrine puts my body in almost a fight or flight situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:16 PM
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If you don't notice any mood benefits then congrats you have a more balanced neurotransmitter/hormonal system than me and the others that do notice a huge difference. The elevation in mood is enough for a lot of people(including myself) to keep at it, for me blue balls and not nutting everyday is worth the trade off but if you don't see any benefits then yeah I completely see why you don't want to do it. I just don't see why you can't consider the possibility that it works for others but not you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:09 PM
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Even the damn Robb elementary school shooter had a gf Source? There was a girl he typed to on instagram but she apparently didn't even know him and just followed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:56 AM
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What's your beef with NoFap anyway? I can never understand people that are so inherently against something that essentially only provides benefits. It encourages young guys(primarily but not exclusively) to stop wasting their sexual energy in solitude on internet porn and instead approach women they find attractive/interesting to make meaningful connections and possibly relationships with. The benefits it provides towards people that suffer from over stimulation induced ED(both physical and ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:44 AM
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You're assuming I haven't already gone down that road, I did and it gave me worse results than listening to men that were actually successful with women, it was quite eye opening at the time how dramatic the difference was when I applied it, which is why I stuck with it. If you find all the success you want by listening to women then as long as you are happy have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:26 AM
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There is a difference between studying the fish and asking the fish on how to best catch them. There is no advantage for a woman to teach men on how to attract them because by default that becomes forced behaviour and is unnatural and unattractive. Success that seems effortless also showcases as being completely genuine and is universally attractive amongst both sexes. Kind of like if you have a muscular, lean body and a girl says "You must workout all the time !" It's better to say "Nah, like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:19 AM
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All of my childhood friends that grew up with sister(s) are in some ways naturally "redpilled". They will never put women on a pedestal because women have no "mystique" as someone else pointed out, to them. This is obviously beneficial when it comes to the ease of talking to women but removes some of the excitement in general I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:45 AM
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So if they themselves are encouraging promiscuity in women, then why are they going to later say that women are too promiscuous? I think there is a bit of a misconception here and whilst I understand that in a a theoretical sense this seems illogical, think about it from the perspective of the real world - Not every guy is going to have access to all these women for sex purely because women don't work that way and have a higher threshold for casual sex than men do, we all know that. What TRP is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:32 AM
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Based on my take away from TRP it was more about becoming the best version of yourself and to go after what YOU want, if that is ONS or LTR that is completely up to you, the self-improvement part is just to increase your chances of success. Keep in mind a lot of the big TRP guys and regular posters over there are actually in LTRs, because eventually the casual hook ups get less rewarding as with anything you become too familiar with and you seek something more novel and perhaps(hopefully) grow a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:29 AM
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"because I asked her first". Do you mean she went with him because HE(Your friend?) asked her first, basically made a sexual move?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:06 AM
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How did u find out that they had a dinner party? If they didn't try to hide it, then just ask them if they had a good time and pay attention in the future. If they were trying to be covert about it then just ask them/whoever you meet first what they did that day and see how they respond.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:31 AM
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Just write successful jingles and live off their royalties in a Malibu beach house.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:30 AM
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She's trying to figure you out, never answer it directly, keep the mystery, it's for the best in the long run.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:26 PM
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Money/Status = Power/Capableness which is attractive. Hobbies = Compatibleness(Long term relationship) but can also be associated with something sexual, for example wood worker/mechanic = Raw/Masculine/Being good with his hands etc, which can trigger sexual attraction. Whilst Danny DeVito is considered on the very bottom of the physical attractiveness scale(Very short, fat, bald) it makes him so polarized it puts him in a very niche category. His celebrity status halos him and whilst I would fin…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:35 AM
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Lol it's only complicated for people to explain if they make a living out of it.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:52 PM
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Happy to hear that you got the dogs man. Btw if you don't mind me asking, I have never been in a LTR before but how do people go from being "in love" aka honeymoon phase/great relationship to straight out trying to ruin/character assassinate the other person??
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:43 AM
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has no reason to lie to me. She has all the reason to lie, imagine if her real count was 25 or something, do you think that would be beneficial for her to tell you?? If she is really attractive, likes going out clubbing, very social etc she most likely has a higher body count. If she is a bookworm/nerd, shut in, not that attractive etc then she might be telling the truth. You have the most info on how she behaves, how easy it was for you to sleep with her, how her friends act etc..
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:50 PM
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"I was just about to ask you that." "Sure, you get the first round, I get the second."
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:42 PM
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You didn't follow up so she lost interest/started thinking you were a pussy, you have to make a move or they will lose interest. Girls will never invest in 99% of all situations BEFORE you sleep with them, next time just hit the girl up instead of being passive.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:55 AM
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A semi known guy in my relatively small city went on one of those "Love Island" TV shows and went on and on about how tough his life had been and how he grew up with adversity. This guy was good looking(Otherwise he wouldn't have been on the show in the first place) and went to a 80% female precursor SJW generation type school. The place where I live is also VERY safe and a joke compared to anything resembling a "tough neighbourhood".
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:35 PM
0

Natty lifting is a joke if you have bad genetics for building muscle, trust me I know. If you're 15-18 and have very high natty test/GH(IGF-1) levels then it's a pleasure and 18+ with good genetics is also rewarding.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:54 PM
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Book of Pook (If you like Ebooks there's a free version available on youtube with a good narrator) Models by Mark Manson (This book is gold if you're above average looking IMO)
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:14 PM
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"I'm sad my ex is seeing other girls" "You should come over here and do the same then"
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:41 PM
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In what country is this possible? There is no fucking way I could pull that off in Sweden. I have been doing Caffeine/Nicotine and it's working good so far but have to go underground to get those type of stimulants.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 01:29 AM
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I mean it's quite the assumption to expect him to develop a food disorder from it, also "16/8" does not guarantee weight loss, you still need an understanding of how much you are consuming. Fasting isn't that much of a big deal tbh, as you say yourself the results are great, he's not a teenage girl and seeing as how he follows TRP I assume he wants to get jacked afterwards and not go full skeleton mode.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:54 PM
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Waster fasting is not dangerous with electrolyte/vitamin supplementation, we have evolved to use the fat in situations where we didn't have access to food. I'm not talking about the GH spikes, it's just the fastest way to lose body fat and since you say "he has no muscle to lose" so he might as well fast.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:12 PM
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Because 99.8% of the men are a mixture of both. VERY few people are entirely red or blue pilled, actually I am willing to bet there is zero "natural" Alphas out there as in them being completely oblivious to sexual dynamics and just acting pure RP on instinct. Some people might call someone like Patrice O'Neal a "natural" but even if he was gifted with his ability to talk/joke around he still occasionally talked about him being a complete beta in his younger teens, writing cringey poems and shit…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:06 AM
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If you're skinny fat it's just easier to fix the problem PHYSICALLY which will automatically fix the problem mentally. PSMF or water fasting with electrolyte supplementation are the two fastest. Standard 500kcal deficit if you are afraid of losing muscle/lowering test even further. Even if you lose some muscle you will look 2x jacked when lean.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:55 AM
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It's a masculine haircut, great for getting girls age 25-45 that are tired of pussy boys, it goes best with a masculine face obviously. However it's the worst haircut if you are going for JB.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 12:45 AM
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You are literally saying the exact same thing in this post just in a sugarcoated way. This is not conscious behaviour on the part of women, it's subconscious. Hence it's not a plot or plan to deceive and take advantage of men, it's just nature's way.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 03:47 AM
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Her: Sorry, I'm seeing someone You: Yeah, you're seeing me, tonight. Pretty much the only time your line would be appropriate would be if you're at one of those medieval dinners(like in Cable Guy) if those even exists, and you're wearing a shiny armor.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:24 AM
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considers me a fuckboy Yes but I assume she already knew this when she started going out with you so why haven't you made a move? If she did know then in her mind she already knew well in advance and had prepped herself to get fuckboi'ed by you..
/r/askTRP31/12/17 10:54 AM
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