Rilinius Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
118	It's done!	Success Stories	Rilinius	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/25 09:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I’ve reached my breaking point! This is exactly it, you need to remember the mission: Everything you do must be what is right for your daughter. Letting your anger control your actions and thoughts is not what is best for her. What's best for her is channeling that anger constructively. You remain calm, gather your evidence, and file when you are fully prepared. That is the only path.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/25 02:14 PM
9	Filed today I'll tell you what, the night after I filed was the best night's sleep I've had in years. This whole process has been unbearable sometimes, but that night was the first night that I'd felt like I had control over my life again.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/25 09:12 PM
1	What's your custody schedule arrangement like? Right now because of her work schedule it's 1-2-5-2-1-3, lol. Both kids are under 3 and in daycare so it's not a big deal now, but eventually that'll be changing!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/25 11:42 PM
1	She Plotted I 100% agree with you, I wouldn't trade my kids or who they are for the world. I just regret that it had to be her that I had to be with to get them...	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/25 04:15 AM
2	She Plotted I get it man. I do not regret my kids, I love them more than life itself. But I do regret who I had them with, you know?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/25 01:38 AM
8	She Plotted My STBXW and I were married for 6 years. She later told me the first time she thought we wouldn't make it was 1.5 years in. At the time hearing that damn near broke me, now it just makes me angry about all the lost time.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/25 03:30 PM
5	I need a pick me up, men Exactly, why would she share that? Why do you have any reason to believe it? If she can't articulate why she wanted the divorce, she obviously isn't in the habit of telling you the truth. Take what she says with a huge pinch of salt. And remember, kids have a hard time regulating what they say, and what they want changes. I have a almost 3 year old daughter, and even though she has a ton of fun with me and we're thick as theives, she still says "I want to see Mama" all the time. Sounds like your…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 12:13 AM
3	Can’t move on I can't tell if you've done it or not, but if not, I highly recommend therapy. So, so much. Because there are other women out there, there are better women out there. Living a life where where you aren't able to connect with people fully... Well, that's not living, that's existing. You have to get serious about getting out of your own head. She's moved on, why aren't you letting yourself?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/25 02:58 AM
1	Did your Ex stay with the AP? 100% agreed. When I get into a relationship it'll be 4-6 months before she meets the kids, at least. Their wellbeing comes first!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/25 05:53 PM
3	Did your Ex stay with the AP? Geez, honestly yours is worse! But you're right, that's my sole goal in life. No relationship yet, honestly I'm not looking for anything and won't be for a while yet. But my finances are better, my health is getting better every day, and I do everything I can to make my kids lives better without spoiling them.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/25 05:18 PM
2	What are your 2025 goals post divorce? 1) Get out of the apartment where she cheated on me and buy a home, with a fenced in yard so my kids can safely be outside (you'd think my current place was built on a racetrack) 2) Lose weight. Last year was about restoring my mental health, this year is physical. 3) Get my finances in order. I'm almost done treading water, the biggest bill is almost paid off, and then things will snowball rapidly.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/25 05:14 PM
8	Did your Ex stay with the AP? We're just over a year out from my wife leaving (Mid-November), the divorce is still going. Last February she told me they'd been "officially dating" since the new year. As far as I know, they're still together. She has gone to pretty great lengths to keep the relationship hush hush, nothing on social media, that kind of stuff. But people in her family update me from time to time (I keep a good relationship with her family because most of them are genuinely good people, and its important for the…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/25 05:07 PM
5	Who else felt like they were forced to initiate the divorce Yep, she left me last year for her AP. I'm the one that had to file, I'm the one that's pushed this thing through. I've been the driving force behind a divorce I didn't want.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/24 08:38 PM