Rimavelle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What should a man have before even trying a dating or relationship? Self esteem Seeing women as people Good hygiene	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/26 04:03 PM
10	Once again,i find myself completely stuck in the redpill So as far as I read... it's mostly about online anti-women hate, and it works the same way as anti-race hate law. So how is this any different than any other hate speech laws? Any other harassment laws? Are you fearing each day someone will misinterpret your slightly angry online msg as a death threat and try to call police on you? then why does it change if it's against women? I also don't see anything anywhere about this being punished by 5 years in prison... I donn't see it being punished by …	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/26 01:26 PM
2	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? My dad was head shorter than my mom, and our house looked like a hoarders coz of all the things he was collecting and the various hobbies he had. Literally a hobbyist painter with obsession over WW2 and collecting beer mugs. He would go into long rants about his interests my younger self couldn't listen to anymore. I have no clue how mom and him started dating, as she's a very active person and he loved to just sit at home with a book. I'll also say my mom was his second wife so he managed to ca…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/26 09:11 PM
4	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? My parents lol	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 07:01 PM
14	How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc? "Want real connection," what does it mean? Coz everything you say sounds like you want "a woman". A woman. Not particular one, just any woman. (And women don't like feeling they are just "a woman")	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/25 04:38 PM
23	How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc? So your reasons are: - have sex - "fun time"/romanticism (whatever does it actually mean) - feel whole - don't feel alone - not to be seen as failure - feeling unjust others are in relationships and you are not None of those points mention anything about what you actually want to do WITH this woman (I don't count sex). In another post you say you actually have success in dating, even to the point of kissing, but then women leave "probably coz I'm needy". If all your reasons to be in a relationsh…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/25 03:33 PM
10	How to not become mysonistic during the war? But why?	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/25 11:05 AM
20	How to not become mysonistic during the war? I had this conversation many times with men. "When war happens feminists will suddenly play house wives!" "Well a lot of feminists fought for women to be able to be part of military too, and men were those against..." "Yeah, coz women are weaker and in war you only need the strong ones! We can't lower the requirements!" "And other feminists are against draft in general" "And who's gonna fight for your country then, huh?" They never want a solution, they just want to vent	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/25 10:57 AM
12	How to not become mysonistic during the war? Why do you think women would be more organized to protest and be more successful than men, who ALREADY are forced to the draft? Why do you think men living their whole lives knowing they can be drafted wouldn't do anything about it, but women would?	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/25 10:53 AM
7	Another day seeing that Black Pill is wrong I knew a charismatic "big" man, who was a definition of a neckbeard from looks - actual neckbeard, wore a fedora etc. Bro wouldn't go a week without a gf. None of his gf were overweight like him and honestly, just generally way better looking. (Guy would talk to anyone tho. Like, no shame. He could ask 99 women and one would finally say yes, type of guy.)	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/25 03:50 PM
2	How do you deal with being "mogged"? Plus hated by his ex-wife, his daughter and being a joke every time he opens his mouth.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/24 03:58 PM
1	How hot does a man have to be to date a skinny woman? If you have low self esteem then everyone you compare yourself to is better looking than you. EDIT: according to your profile you're bi so it can be they are just your type, lol.	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/24 06:16 PM
2	What you have thoughts about modern feminism and modern masculinity on internet? I think you're mistaking another term for feminism, or you're watching very sketchy videos. Would help to know what you're watching. Feminism is not an organisation with official members. Anyone can call themselves a feminist, regardless of their intention and knowledge. Any teenager can tiktok about whatever she thinks and try to call it feminism. If you want to know more about feminism from academic sources, there are lots of entry level books you could read. Not as easy as watching YT videos …	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/23 07:34 PM
9	How do I let go of hateful thoughts I have towards women that started when I learned about red pill content? Your own data shows you most women have few partners around their 20s... No one is saying no women ever fuck for the rest of the population, but it's nowhere near your claim "majority" does it. Also this survey is 22-18 years old. Those 20-something women who answered are in their 40s now.	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/23 02:20 PM
4	What about femcels? "obviously there is no equivalent..." Dude the term incel was created by a woman to describe herself.	/r/ExRedPill	06/11/23 02:48 PM
4	Was I wrong all along the 80/20 thing is the easiest to disprove. the study it came from mentiones, that the women found more men less good looking than men women, but they were more likely to contact them, while men where going mostly for the top of women. there was also significantly less women in this study, coz the % are skewed on dating apps. I mean, think this - if there is 20% women on apps, and 80% of men, then even if those women had gone with first man that texts them... that leaves still 60% of men alone. …	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 11:30 PM
12	What do men want from women? If you don't seek romantic relationships, and are fine just reading about them in fiction, then maybe it's not a men-women issue, and it's just you being aromantic or some other combination. Most people do seek romantic relationships for intimacy and connection, men with women or any other gender combination. it's possible you just other women - you don't see them as people, but just something people expect you to have, but you using the word "what is missing" makes me think it's more aromantic …	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/23 08:28 AM
9	Recovering from RP You should ask yourself not what all women want, but what a woman you want to be with would want. As, if you're a "traditional" man and looking for a traditional woman, the common things she would be looking for gonna be different, than if she was more progressive, etc etc. I feel like a lot of RP men are just lonely and they would go for ANY woman as long as she breathes, and that makes any list of "things she would want" impossible to make, even approximately. As for what they dont want - nobo…	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/23 01:13 PM
8	“Why would he want you? He can get younger.” Bold of you to assume he can in the first place	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/23 01:47 PM
8	My disturbing experience with a Red Pill man at work ...do people actually believe it works? I don't really see how jumping at someone implying they're cheating is gonna get anywhere but have the person be offended and not talk to you again.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/23 08:50 PM
5	The Speech Prof talking facts Speech prof is a great man! Also the 20 top men "statistic" is always irking me, coz it makes no sense. It talks about dating apps. Where majority of users are men. If even all those women had no dating standards at all, and just went with the first man that talked to them... this statistic would still be the same. Coz there's SO much more men there.	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/23 12:09 PM
18	What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok? If he was called an abusive misogynist he wouldn't care, coz that's his brand. What's also his brand is that caricature of masculinity. If you tell him this caricature isnt working but makes him look insecure (which is the energy part about) then that hits him where it hurts. And you can tell by his meltdown later. Also she didn't even say "you have a small dick". She told him he's acting like he's insecure himself about his size and that's why he decided to show off to a teenager on the interne…	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/22 08:28 PM
15	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? I looked through your profile, and it's the weirdest mix of generally sound thinking mixed with pilled talk and absolute refusal to acknowledge you're good looking. You look good, are fit, earn a lot, have a good degree and yet have ultra low self esteem. You put yourself in places where women are but you assume they won't be interested so you won't even try to hit on them. You have female friends but insist to listen to anyone but them. Idk if you just use reddit to get on the subject of dating…	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/22 05:39 PM
16	Men claiming the'yre "a good guy but ignored" are usually not good in actuality Also just being nice is... A basic requirement of being a person. It's not automatically a standout reason to gain interest from other people.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/22 04:24 PM
9	Is the idea of women dating/marrying a "provider" type of guy as they age, just a huge myth? "Betabux" or whatever it's called Also women on average earn less, especially those with kids who are usually the parent who takes time off to take care of them. Not even counting the unpaid housework. Plus, if men think women expect them to pay for things they are more likely to offer it themselves.	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/22 11:53 AM
1	if people were open and understanding in a lot of these young guys would not go to these communities What hypocrisy exactly? Can you tell any examples?	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/22 05:32 PM
3	“Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically” I need someone to copy paste this comment under every post on this sub. This is all that will ever need to be said in the matter.	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/22 06:29 PM
6	What to do when I cannot bother passing shit test? How is this a shit test? Shit test would be her making up a scenario to see how you respond. This is a real situation where you two simply have difference of opinions. Also the way you talk about your wife is worrying - she's "nagging" and you would tell her to shut up or you just give up. Why aren't you two talking about it? We can't tell how you reacted, maybe she's crying coz she's overwhelmed, maybe she got scared you got mad. What does she need the money for? Did she tell you?	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/22 04:54 PM
1	Is life really much better when you actually have a pretty attractive girlfriend or a girlfriend period? It's good to be with someone if they like and respect you, because you like them back and feel important to them. But it won't fix all your problems. If you're insecure you'll still be insecure. She can help you battle it or you may completely blow it and make her leave over it.	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/22 12:19 PM
3	I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video... Why is starting a family supposed to be a virtue? You start a family because you want to. Because you have a person you want to share your life with, and maybe you both want kids. It's just your own expectations and needs that should inform this choice. And government often takes the role of a father, coz fathers often abandon this role themselves. Women are left with kids that they can't raise by themselves. Yeah the family courts can be biased yada yada, the fact still stands women are the maj…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/22 04:23 PM
13	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? Not all women want kids. And being provider implies being the main provider for both of you. Of course most people don't want to enter relationship with someone with debt and no job, but that's different than "someone who will financially support me".	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/22 07:03 PM
8	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? The old system worked coz men could support entire family on one wage, and women had whole days worth of housework. Now two people have a problem to support their family, and housework is less complicated (better house devices, cleaning products, smaller houses etc). Supporting the old system is just something people do coz "that's what should be done" for no real life reason.	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/22 10:11 PM
1	CRP - Coach red pill And what is he saying?	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/22 07:47 PM
5	The advice I tell all my female friends when they ask me where all the good men have gone. I've never heard a woman ask where are all the good men, and definitely never heard a group of women ask that. And I don't believe for a moment that after this monologue you will still have female friends.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 01:06 PM
3	Not a popular post Coz not everyone can fake things convincingly, and not everyone is good at reading others. That's why most pills is centered around polishing your bullshit skills and finding vurnerable women	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/22 09:26 AM
1	The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is… I need one look at this sub to see the exact opposite of the attachment you speak about - men getting desperate to kill their boner and complaining coz women logically chose their partner. That's a lot of smart sounding words for basically the same philosophy redpill tries. Stop treating women like another species and you will have way easier life.	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/22 09:00 AM
31	It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence. Also they are wrong. The government may be anti-feminist, but women don't live in a vacuum. They soak in cultural changes from the west and demand the same from people around them. Pillers and pickup artists prey on vulnerable, low self esteem women who don't know any better. They like culture of violence coz they see themselves at the top.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/22 09:32 AM
6	The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is… If women would fall in love with men through orgasm alone, then the humanity would die out. When you solve your attachment issues and you understand how the opposite sex responds chemically, usually through understanding true evolutionary biology and it’s influence on psychology, dating does not just become easier, life becomes a cakewalk. Here, fixed it for ya.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 10:35 PM
7	I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it. AND they feel emasculated if their female partner is earning more than them, coz "men are supposed to be providers".	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 10:25 PM
4	Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here? The way pill guys see women is so alien, that I can't stop myself from just debunking their views. And if it helps them in the process, then all the better for all of us.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 02:44 PM
6	What Toxic Masculinity REALLY Means - by Adam Something. short video about men and how they are harmed by rigid social expectations and roles Adam's content is always a win. And this topic is often misunderstood so definitely worth a watch - especially since all pill is heavily anti-feminism.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 02:42 PM
9	Thoughts on betatization? what actually is "shit test", coz when I google that all I get is "how to pass shit test?/men's worst nightmare blah blah". Is this just women asking men questions to learn more about them without spelling out what they want to learn right away? And if so, then it's just... getting to know a person, right? How does that lead into "taking over" a relationship? How does that lead into your girlfriend cheating? I'm actually scared to look into what "betatization" means.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 02:36 PM
2	Personal perspective on modern society dating from an average looking young man My lack of success with women was down to my bad looks. You say you get dates that don't work out after you meet. That means it's not your look that is a problem. The internet has allowed them to connect with 100,000s potential suitors. women make 50% of the society. if each woman is rejecting 100k men, then who are women dating? other women? do they share one "chad" among 100s of themselves? do they just all stay single all the time? the math is not checking out. dude with plenty of girls on hi…	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/22 09:03 PM
2	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? A good entry book, that was released not so long ago "Think like a feminist" by Carol Hay. The real deal isn't compelling coz it doesn't sound as catchy as "do those 10 things to get all them ladies". Nothing new that people like fast, simple "solutions".	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 07:07 PM
2	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? The redpill communities won't be "shaken up" by anything a non-mysoginistic woman would write. Coz redpill is not born out of "I don't know how to date :<", it's born out of some grifter taking advantage of frustrated single men offering them a fake golden solution to their dating problems. There is no golden solution. There are things you can do not to become a woman's worst nightmare and win their trust, but there is no golden solution to be attractive and interesting to all of them. That's wh…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 05:43 PM
4	Why are a lot of red pillars dishonest ? If your only quality is that you're a gentleman, then yeah, she's probably not interested. Coz being nice is the bare requirement of being with someone. Try working on some other qualities on top of being nice.	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 03:42 PM
7	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? You have women here telling you what you wanted to know, and then you dismiss everything they said coz you know better apparently. Even if a woman wrote a book with step by step through a relationship, you wouldn't read it or wouldn't believe it.	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 03:33 PM