Rindo3 Archive

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3	The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails... "Hi. Im Neither-King8568" Extend hand. Shake hand If she doesn't shake your hand in return, upon introduction, she has failed the first litmus test. You have passed the first litmus test by introducing yourself like a capable, confident adult.	/r/seduction	16/03/21 07:18 PM
2	Has anyone here genuinely improved their state of mind from the advice given in this sub? If nothing else, this Sub is a good 'reset' for me when I get complacent. This sub reminds me of the basics, and in a way, illuminates the breadcrumbs I have left myself over the years (which allows me to arrive at where I left off faster), before I deviated away for some reason or another.	/r/seduction	14/01/19 11:00 AM
2	FR: banged two new girls last night, somehow I still feel empty Perhaps the "mental issues" you think you have, are the negative, insecure, helpless, thoughts from deep down in your subconcious memory, that have accumlated your entire life from your previous poor lifestyle you are trying to repair now. Perhaps you are only cognitively noticing them now as they slowly move through your mind until they are permanently discarded once and for all. Because they are appearing now, yet seem familiar and not foreign, may just be merely mean you are able to 'digest' …	/r/seduction	21/05/18 06:16 PM
5	FR: banged two new girls last night, somehow I still feel empty Being this introspective will only help you grow into what you strive to eventually become, as long as you can turn that switch off while you are in the moment with women, trying to smash. All of these thoughts you are having is your mind trying to discard your old lifestyle while creating your new reality at the same time. It takes awhile. Let that shit progress, and play out naturally as you nail down your routines, and fill those voids with more stuff women find interesting and attractive (th…	/r/seduction	21/05/18 04:46 AM
2	Importance of the opener seems underrated You said the interaction usually goes well if its a warm approach. So what I would do, is if you frequent certain spots regularly, and you go for a cold approach with a girl, just start by introducing yourself. Say "Hi. I'm u/Tapewormterry", hopefully she will reciprocate, then you leave and go about your merry way. Who cares if you think it was awkward. You introduced yourself. So now the next time you see her, it will no longer be a cold approach but a warm approach because you two already met…	/r/seduction	04/03/18 04:26 PM
7	What percentage of your platonic friends are women? A few, and honestly I would sleep with most of them under certain circumstances. The reason they are my platonic friends in the first place is because I see something attractive in them. But, you'll tend to find as you continue to reach higher ranks, and talking to women becomes easier, oftentimes you meet women you like but you find out their not your "type". Yes, that sounds stupid, like something a woman would say, but hear me out. Once you reach a certain level of atttaction yourself, you st…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 07:15 AM
3	Is it possible to talk too much? Yea, its possible to talk too much. See, the problem before was that you weren't sure what to say, or, you didn't know how good what you did say, was. Thats where the insecurity came from before. Now that you've practiced speaking to women, and have confidence in what you say and how you say it, you want to use your new ability all the time. Don't. Save it until you need to use it. Now that you know you can do it, you speak more often, and more than necessary. That too, shows a lack of confidenc…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 06:30 AM
23	I've never been the most interesting person, but I still crushed it. Here's what I've got going for me. (My personal story of how I came-up despite working 9-5). I find that generally, if you have your shit together more than most, then you are enough. That simple: sometimes you're enough. That's it.	/r/seduction	04/12/17 03:21 AM
2	Exactly 25 numbers in 3 months and every single one of them failed. It only takes one number man. The idea of approaching is to boost YOUR confidence, and not to receive THEIR validation. 25 numbers is good practice for when you meet a good one, and don't fuck it up due to lack of experience.	/r/seduction	04/06/17 06:03 AM
1	So apparently women hate harmless men. How do I not come across as harmless? Ahahaha	/r/seduction	22/04/17 03:26 PM
2	It seems that men with many options (because of looks/game, whatever) stay single more, and settle less. Currently I live in a place with low population, thus, many of the girls I find attractive are already taken (married/engaged). I don't plan on living here in the next 3 years. So right now, I'm practicing and working on myself so that when I get out of this situation, I will be well-equipped to date and eventually find a girl I want to be in a long-term-relationship with. This may be a flawed philosophy on my part, but I feel it's better than just 'settling' with someone out of convenience. My …	/r/seduction	20/02/17 06:47 PM
2	Girl Says I'm Overconfident? Maybe today wasn't a good time for her to give you her info. However, if you maintain this same demeanor of yours, over the long-term, she will more-than-likely respond to it in a more positive fashion the next time you two meet.	/r/seduction	11/02/17 07:08 PM
3	What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"? In High School, sometimes there are "leagues". This happens because kids end up being friends with the people they happen to get sat next to on their first day of school. As they get older, a lot of the time, they remain friends. Once you get older after you graduate, you'll see yourself gravitating towards people with similar morals and ideals as you opposed to people you just happen to be associated with. In Highschool, the guys that get the hot girls are generally the "jocks" or "preps" or wh…	/r/seduction	07/02/17 05:54 PM
1	This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want Boys This is the case with many methods in this thread, as well as many methods in life. Nicely articulated.	/r/seduction	03/02/17 06:11 AM
2	Am I being paranoid or does this girl like me? If you are not looking for signs from her, but instead are noticing signs from her that she is interested...then she is probably interested. Introduce youself, shake her hand, and see what happens from there. If you notice she is doing those things more often or more blatantly in front of you, then that's your evidence to talk to her more informally. If you mistake the signs and a blunder happens, be cool, you have one "get-out-of-jail-free card" because you introduced yourself fornally with a h…	/r/seduction	02/02/17 07:54 AM
2	Giving your number to a girl I worked at a College town bar, and have employed this tactic before. It does work about 50% of the time. There were times where I would get girls' numbers while bartending but the success rate was low because they would be long gone by the time I got off work. There were times I would get a girl's number, and text her in the next couple days and sometimes I had success this way as well. The reason I liked giving a girl my number the most was for a couple reasons: First and foremost, I take my w…	/r/seduction	02/02/17 07:27 AM
2	Getting rejected by someone you still has to see, how to deal with the aftermath? How to you deal with it? Simple. You don't have to say or to anything. There's no need to address your attempt at a later date. The "elephant in the room" is just something you're imagining. She is NOT imagining an "elephant".	/r/seduction	15/01/17 09:39 PM
30	The best way to prepare for a date is make your day as productive as possible and forget you even have a date I found out as recent as this summer, that if I just sat on my ass all day on my days off, looking for stuff to do, nobody would call/text me. By the end of the day, I would feel like a loser, because if people DID text me and ask what I was doing, I'd reply "just hanging out, etc". But, I started to realize that if I made a simple adjustment, such as making plans, even by myself, for my days off, prior to my days off, I then had something fun to anticipate and look forward to. This gave myself …	/r/seduction	04/01/17 08:38 PM
49	"This One's Special; The Sex Can Wait" Quality post	/r/seduction	19/12/16 07:40 PM
2	Just a PSA: When texting, don't say "F*** it i'll just send it" Here's the deal: when you come to a dilemma, and have to make a choice, the more you think things over and mull each consequence over in your mind, the more invested in the result you are. If you have an idea you want to express to a female, and you think it over, do the 'pro vs cons' thing, until you finally send it in a long ass paragraph, and her response isn't favorable to your expectations, then you are going to care more, and take a bigger hit to your self esteem. If you have an idea you w…	/r/seduction	11/10/16 07:12 PM
2	Older guy, getting fit, not there yet: What skills should I be working on while dropping the weight? Well done on the weight loss, Sir! Keep in mind, the self-discipline you gained losing weight and getting fit can be converted and applied to dating and vice versa. Comprehend too, that your body type will generally reflect the kind of body type that you will get in return. This is to say, for example, if you are now stacked, you will have easier access to gorgeous, beautiful women; your body type alone is enough only to get your foot in the door, the rest is "inner-game" or confidence. This con…	/r/seduction	14/09/16 10:20 PM
2	Older guy, getting fit, not there yet: What skills should I be working on while dropping the weight? What is your endgame? What are you presently looking for from women right now in your life? Once you get to your fitness goal, women aren't suddenly going to want to sleep with you. You must work on other intangibles to prevent being a one-trick pony. Start asking women out on dates, be prepared for rejection, and when you do go on dates, don't be needy, and don't have expectations. Most first dates are an opportunity for them to get comfortable with you and vice versa. If you have a good date, …	/r/seduction	14/09/16 08:43 PM
1	Priority Date Scheduling: Go with higher potential to close, or meet new? You're in quite the pickle. I'd say go with #1, the 'sure thing', and use that momentum as a stepping stone to climb the ladder. Best case scenario, you go with #1, and #2, whom you think you potentially like more, will be okay with the postponement. After you do the deed, you will feel the success, and have momentum and immediate experience going into a date with #2. Now if you look at it the opposite way, Worst Case Scenario, you abort your plans with #1, who's cool with it, to hang with #2. D…	/r/seduction	14/09/16 08:33 PM
13	How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy Returns I understand what the OP is elaborating on. Sometimes people don't "get" something until they "get It"; this is the basic principle of an epiphany. I've always felt that phenomenon the OP calls "feminin energy", but never realised it was a separate entity and a real thing. To Be honest, I always assumed that 'thing' was just something in my own head. I appreciate this post, and it will be beneficial for me going forward. Some of the main points don't work for me personally because I don't live i…	/r/seduction	12/09/16 07:21 PM