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Being a chef is pretty cool. Do you like it? What’s your best dish?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:13 AM
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No one can help you, not even your ugly mother.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/21 05:01 AM
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Choose not to be harmed — and you won't feel harmed. Don't feel harmed — and you haven't been .- Marcus Arelius Explore stoicism. These concepts will free you from the burden of interpreting others actions or intentions. Some would call this the art of not giving a shit. You do need to recognize when there’s call to give a shit, but that becomes better defined when you generally don’t.
/r/askMRP16/09/20 06:57 PM
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Sitting there twiddling your dick, ready to leave your wife (who loves sex) and new baby because you saw some reddit threesome porn. Fuck straight off. You’ll never own your shit, because you’ve no clue what shit you own. I predict you do nothing. You’ll go through the coming years with your dick in your pocket, missing opportunities to advance as a man, too caught up thinking about all the orgies you think you deserve. Poor, thirsty you. Go ahead, lean outside the boat and drink some salt water…
/r/askMRP16/09/20 04:58 AM
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Tell her you want the both of you to do some independent work, as prep for counseling. Tell her you should both choose a book, and both read it. This gives you a chance to vet the message. That hopefully settles the comfort test. An author can better serve as your third party. If you get in a room with a counselor, you’re done. I have no advice on a book. You’re gonna have to do that research settle on one that isn’t complete bs, and at least provides some good general interpersonal skills. Try …
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:39 PM
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Just like that, huh? You knew this, why are you wasting everyone’s time? If you’d spent any amount of time consuming here you knew full well the response you’d get. So what’s really going on. You’re in lurv. RIP. You like your ex seeing you ‘moving on’. You’re still operating in her frame even after divorce. You want your kids to have a Mom. Maybe you want them to see you treated properly as a man in a healthy relationship. It won’t be. One year, tops and all the shit you failed at the first rou…
/r/askMRP20/07/20 06:40 AM
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Man, what a great post. This is an essential awareness. Don’t presume the storm has passed, when you’ve moved into the eye. Awareness is the navigational north star. Your strongest ally is knowledge of your true position.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 08:56 AM
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Were you really expecting an honest response? Of course she is going to deny it. Go ask a teen if they vape. Catch her in the act. It’s the only way to move past the denial. Be prepared for the confrontation, don’t wing it, don’t judge, shame, or act repulsed. Prepare your language, go in practiced. For the sake of your unborn child, stay focused on getting the result you desire, talk her off the ledge. All that matters is getting her to stop. To do that you need to stay calm and feign understan…
/r/askMRP05/03/20 12:52 AM
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Fantastic. This post, and several valuable replies, paint the landscape of that point far beyond the 1000 foot rope, where the hard work delivers a natural frame able to strip away any veneer. An expression of pill that resonates so strongly a harmony of two can truly be achieved. It is important to know that land exists. Peek at this revelation, but look away fast. The training wheels come off from wear, not from a wrench.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/20 04:55 AM
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No marriage before 30. Stay free, work on you see how she aligns, and whether she’ll add value to your mission. If part of your mission is to grow a family, great, but there’s plenty of time for that in your 30’s when you’re more firmly situated in your career, strength, and frame. Age is a modifier to degree and application of red tenants. A womans behaviors from 20-30, 30-40, 40-50 and 50-60 require adjustments to expectations and response. As you build frame in your 20’s, you’ll be better equ…
/r/askMRP13/12/19 08:40 PM
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OP has provided this community a wonderful Christmas gift. Listen up, homos - no matter how pathetic your current situation, at least you’re not this chump. You’ve robbed yourself of STFU. All that’s left is salvage. Don’t focus on the mistake, rather what drove you to it. You need to have a conversation with your wife about your dissatisfaction. BUT THATS IT. Do not go into details about your sick dick, or you will be rightfully berated into a shade of perma-blue. Stay focused on logistics; cha…
/r/askMRP10/12/19 05:49 AM
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Something is missing in your assessment. It’s natural, but ego is not allowing you to recognize the reason for the branch swing, and that’s valuable data you need to target for ‘you.2’. One of the strongest pillars here is owning up to a ‘It’s my fault’ position. Be honest in your search for that fault. It’s certainly possible that your self-assessment is accurate. Confidence in your value may have lulled you into a false sense of security. Perhaps she isn’t trading up, just got a tingle from wh…
/r/askMRP18/08/19 08:52 PM
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You’re a very long way from understanding the core philosophy here. You’re a very short way from your sex life drying up and your wife fucking Chad. From where you sit that probably seems like hyperbole. It is not. Your crying dissatisfied wife is longing for something you are not providing. Of all the rp tenants I could hurl at you, theres only one that you need right now. Lift. Get a gym membership, get your bored ass out of the house. Lift heavy. When you are strong, built, you are going to f…
/r/askMRP26/06/19 03:44 AM
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Potential employees will often bail during the offer process due to family relocation objections. It’s a discussion to get in front of, before wasting everyones time or creating undue stress.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 09:04 PM
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Would any potential employer require a move out of state? On that you should confer.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 08:22 PM
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Depression seems a rather normal response to how badly she fucked up. Guess what, nature is doing its job. Maybe this will leave a proper mental imprint and she’ll take better care to not become the piss drama. Listen, (aside from suicidal depression), do not ever let some lazy quack-fuck doctor throw anti-depressants at someone. They hand that shit out like candy and it is a wrecking ball. Anxiety and depression should be first handled with cognitive behavioral therapy. No short-cuts. SSRI’s ar…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 06:32 PM
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You took the reigns. That’s the important part. Yeah, clumsy as fuck, but you got what you needed done, done. It’s not the easy choice, but it’s the right choice. Don’t play angry games. Do what needs to be done, don’t deer. Keep it short. Don’t shut the fuck up, short the fuck up. ‘It’s best’. That’s all you need to say if this come up. Move on happily with your MAP and disregard her mood.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 02:41 AM
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Three hard no’s landed you in butthurt. Your frame collapsed and you ‘talked’ ? She pulled you into her frame with that text guy she doesn’t even likely give a shit about. It’s a power move for feelz, and it worked you over. When you’re dealing with chronic no’s, look at yourself, do the work, take the yolk. You crumbled right into her frame and what transpired is textbook. OI does not stop at 3, 4, 5 rejections. Never engage in butt hurt. STFU and MAP.
/r/askMRP21/01/18 04:59 AM
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Birthday presents are for toddlers. If you want to celebrate, go to dinner. You don’t really want to give her something, so don’t. Or, make a donation to a favorite charity in her name. That’s a nice way to say: “someone else gets your present.”
/r/askMRP12/01/18 05:53 AM
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Don’t forget drug-fueled. Kinky, drug-fueled orgies.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 04:02 AM
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Home gyms are great, but there are useful machines at the gym you’ll never need at home, a membership somewhere is useful, and can augment your lift regimen. Also, it’s good to be amongst other people, and escape.
/r/askMRP26/12/17 09:09 PM
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Make other plans. Do you have friends to be with? If you go, you’ll be miserable, dragged into melancholy fueled by Christmas whisky. But if you sit home alone, you’re going to feel the full weight of what this holiday does to the left-alone. And I don’t fucking care how red any of these faggots think they are, dealing with this over the holidays will compromise your frame. Make alternate plans, strong plans, focused on a fresh start new life scenario. Do you have some buddies nearby who know th…
/r/askMRP12/12/17 06:27 PM
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There’s no greener grass. Just better mowers.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 06:18 PM
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This is an excellent post. The core principle here is abundance. When you diversify your income stream you become much less beholden to any employer. Abundance is the soap of freedom. Wash in it. Owning an income property is an excellent way to move to horizontal stability, if a secondary ‘job’ , or freelance consulting is not feasible. When purchasing a home, especially your first, choose wisely, pick a college town or desirable location etc, and when its time to move up, keep it. I kept my fir…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 07:17 PM
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I’d adjust a modifier for age. A 25 year old say this? She’s fucking someone else. A 45 year old says this? She wishes she was fucking someone else.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 09:45 PM
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It seems to me you’re at that point where any ‘pushing’ from you could move you into the unattractive arena. Nagging, prodding, not attractive attributes. Sometimes a leader has to resort to sideways tactics. Flank the problem, so to speak. How is her social life? Are her friends overweight? Just one ‘fit’ friend could really help. It takes some maneuvering, but that sort peer pressure, getting them talking about going to the gym together, etc, that can help you pass that motivational chore. Rat…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 08:25 PM
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RE: deadlifts. I have not come across that advice anywhere else, but you’re spot on. I used to run cardio on rest days, but suffered from splints. Figured I pushed a little too hard. Took six months just concentrating on SL5x5’s, and now that my deadlifts increased dramatically, no more splints when I run. I had ‘t really considered the connection other than perhaps core strength and better flex, so thanks.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 08:03 PM
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Excellent. Makes me wanna chop some wood.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 02:18 AM
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I agree with this. There are some fundamental questions that have to be asked. Out loud, in context, under witness. Want kids? How many? Who handles the money? Is travel important? What if a parent becomes ill and needs to move in? Will you both work? How important is sex? Etc. You may think all of that is well understood, but if you've strong opinions on any of those topics, take this final opportunity to lay the cards out. She'll tell you what you want to hear, but a third party can have bette…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 05:18 AM
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Don't trust the diary. If she's making shit up about you, she's making shit up about your wife. There may be more going on with your daughter along an adjacent spectrum, the beginnings of a personality disorder, schizophrenia, or delusional release. As others have offered, I too suggest you first protect yourself, find an advocate, a lawyer, family therapist, etc. Do this quietly, STFU. This will help create some team partners for you, should things go shit-south. Once you have some perspective …
/r/askMRP27/09/17 06:52 PM
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You're not getting proper sleep, and that's going to fuck with your gains, with everything in fact. Get sleep. Try a day of rest in between workouts, for a while. If your weekends are less hectic, cook yourself some food you can just heat-up during the week, or cook on your rest days. You've got to optimize the time you spend on each activity. But, get sleep.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 04:29 PM
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That crime inflates their fate as such; to bed the woman, hot.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 02:59 AM
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You should take this to the married red pill. You're gonna get the rubber hose though, unless you post more info on your stats: sidebar knowledge, lift results,etc.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 12:31 AM
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WTF! Nooooooo! STFU. You are balls-deep in her frame. Go away to your own thing. There's very little not to understand, about you not being around. Be around even less. And S.T.F.U Eventually, she will address it. And when she does you shrug it off with a happy go-lucky, unphased, didn't give a fuck, having fun, whistling zipideedooda out your asshole attitude. Do not fold, bitch. Do not fold. Fight that urge back. Oak, motherfucker. Oak.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 07:28 AM
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You can recover if that's what you want. Fuck all the 'walk away' bullshit. That's the easy road. That's the advice you get on deadbedrooms where no balls exist. Look, you recognize you've got work to do. Stay the course, handle it better next time. Always be improving.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 06:46 PM
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