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I honestly just am not sexually attracted to people's bodies by themselves either way. I am attracted to my husband's body because I love him. A random guy does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 03:56 PM
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Good question. Tbh I always dreamt of getting laser treatment for my whole body from the neck down. Prolly not gonna happen cause I won't get naked in front of some laser lady, but permanently hairless arms and legs would be nice fo sho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:42 AM
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I read from several sources, not sure if credible, that high frequency of ejaculation and hair loss have a strong correlation.... So if it has an ounce of truth to it I think as a guy I'd choose wisely whether to waste my hair on masturbation lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:11 AM
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Same to you! Idc what others do in their private time all that much if it's not to a destructive extent, but I'm always happy to see that my husband and I are not the only ones who just don't care for porn, since it seems like such a staple nowadays. If he wants something he got me vice versa, watching random other people seems more awkward rather than being a turn-on imo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:01 AM
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Never watched porn. Married a guy who doesn't like it, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:04 AM
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Eh. I think living as if AWALT is an understandable option, especially for a guy who's been burned before. I do wonder though whether the focus on learning how to game very AWALT-y of women does not sometimes ruin the possibility of meeting a better woman for these guys. Sure, RP says look for a woman that is less like that for an LTR, but if you attracted her to you by being Very RP then it's still hard to predict how she will react if you ever step out of frame. And abundance mentality as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 12:17 AM
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Eh, I refer to myself as a unicorn more tongue-in-cheek than anything mostly cause a lot of people here accuse every female poster of being a lying slut if she recounts her experiences and they do not sound like a history of constant cc-riding (or she must be fat or ugly). Anyway, again, I believe in soulmates so technically I believe nobody's a unicorn because everybody is somebody's unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 04:00 PM
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There's only so much time, love and affection that one person can give. Sure, people can decide whatever, but doesn't change anything about the fact that I won't interpret that relationship as true love and commitment if one person were dividing their attention among 72 partners and those 72 people were all focusing on him, hypothetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:56 PM
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Because I believe in monogamy and soulmates I'm automatically tradcon? Lmao. Most people traditionally married people they didn't give two shits about just for whatever things they could give them, and were monogamous only by appearance. I make more money than my husband, have a higher education status than him and am considered more attractive by society's standards, yet I'm extremely sexually attracted to him and only him, just because he's himself, I experience no hypergamy whatsoever. So yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:19 PM
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Well duh anybody willing to share their man with 71 other bitches is a ratchet hoe. I'm totally a unicorn though <3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 10:19 AM
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Beat up. I don't think I could mentally handle a rape so that would likely lead to suicide, broken nose and everything would suck but it won't damage my honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 04:37 PM
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Idk where you at but the women I choose to interact with aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 03:04 AM
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Just as disgusted by either scenario If by "being with" you mean sleeping with them. I'd rather die. If you're willing to sleep with a girl who's conventionally ugly, that means you're still attracted to her imo, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 02:24 AM
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Having a specific upbringing doesn't mean that all the beliefs your parents want to instill in you actually WILL become your beliefs. Especially when the parents are TOO restrictive, the children might lash out and do the complete opposite, but that still means that their behavior was influenced by their upbringing. How many children of happy parents who have only ever been with each other want to find the same kind of relationship when they grow up? Probably most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:29 PM
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Pretty sure even Adriana Lima kept her virginity til age 27 or so. Surely not for lack of offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 04:50 PM
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Why do y'all always assume a woman has to be ugly-average if she's not a whore or interested in the type of guy you find "alpha"? People's upbringing and tastes vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 04:42 PM
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Nothing in that FAQ was a question tho I'm triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 11:19 PM
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Some of these women are mentally ill. Some are just dumb. Others are just loyal despite the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:07 PM
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Roflmao But hey, maybe there's hope... I mean dicaprio worked things out with his delicate features somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:01 PM
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I'm way too cute to be a guy. The whole goldilocks, rosy cheeks thing won't look too good on a dude I think. I'd also get made fun of for being a major pussy and life would suck because my husband is clearly not gay. I would go from being model height to I guess just a little above average and ppl might make fun of me for my amount of ass lol. I also couldn't wear dresses without being made fun of... I'd rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 10:55 AM
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I would never be with a man who thinks that way, I don't care if it's the norm. That is why I thought I might just stay alone. But my husband never cared about other women and thought he might be asexual before meeting me. Either way, the behavior and mindset you described in men is gonna keep breeding more sluts. If you're willing to fuck tons of women then tons of women will have tons of men who fucked them before. It's not a one-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 11:18 PM
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Eh, I don't believe in segregating the sexes forcefully by law or whatever but in my personal life I sure as hell don't interact much with men outside my family. And I'm not sure if porn is a "distraction" or not just another addition to the problem. I also think alpha has too vague a definition to make it the decisive factor when it comes to whether a man will be "allowed" to reproduce or not. I don't think anybody should be castrated against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:31 AM
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I wouldn't want to have sex with a man who won't for sure be my husband and father of my children. If I don't love you enough for the other two, I don't love you enough for sex. I'd have to commit seppuku after doing what you suggest here. I'll gladly help in other ways but then again I don't really keep male friends cause sooner or later they start creeping on me and I don't know how to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:20 AM
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You can suppress those primal urges just like whatever other primal urges you already suppress almost every day, I'm not really sure why this is where you'd draw the line. Not everything is good and requires no self-control just because it's "natural". I understand that controlling thoughts is difficult, controlling actions however shouldn't be all that hard. Women don't even need to have anything on display much to get awfully rude comments from men or be followed around, unless we're supposed …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:09 AM
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On one hand, I agree, on the other, I don't think men are exactly incentivizing women to be sexually conservative, either. Even many of the self-proclaimed "nice, respectful gentlemen" drool over porn sluts when their wives aren't home. (And WOULD be promiscuous, if they could.) And as a woman, if you would not be willing to accept this kind of thing in a relationship, you're labelled as everything from crazy to controlling to possessive to completely unrealistic. I don't even know why possessiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:57 AM
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I would like to talk to a woman who thinks that way, cause I'm really curious. I'm the complete opposite. I'd be disgusted if my husband had had any experience before me. And hurt and jealous. To the point where I don't think I could sleep with him. It's a shitty comparison but it's like I have my fresh dip here and you're giving me a nacho that's already covered in God knows what, I'd rather get a fresh Nacho you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 12:14 AM
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So if yall can show your chest and not get much attention why can't I cover my legs in leggings and not get much attention? Unlike men, I don't have a bulge when I wear something tight (and I make sure not to wear anything see-through or that gives me camel toes or whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 12:03 AM
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Wow. You must be quite the actor for her to have bought that. You shoulda given her the big reveal after she's been with you a bunch of times, I'm curious what her reaction would've been to finding out she was with a virgin and noticed no difference lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:22 PM
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It sucks that you were made to feel that way. I literally listed down all my worst traits and most embarrassing and gross things about me to my husband before we even started dating cause I wanted to make sure he loved me and not an idealized version of me. It must be painful to be so intimate with someone but have them react with that much disgust to a secret of yours, so I can see why you feel the way you do, especially if it's a reaction you repeatedly witnessed from the women you were intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:32 AM
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I don't know whether my circle is just a bunch of special snowflakes or what's going on but even one of my most "promiscuous" friends (aka bj and HJ with 2 guys by age of 17) was pretty unhappy that her first boyfriend had slept with 4 women before her. Made her uncomfortable to think about. Another friend of mine is 22 and hot, but an unkissed virgin and nervous about how MEN will judge her inexperience. So from my experience, women just want someone at a similar experience level. But of course…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 03:27 AM
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A lot of white guys who get with asian women are not very attractive, especially if it's one of those "creepy old white guy looking for submissive asian wife" relationships. Most asian guys have to be extra attractive to land a woman outside their race since they are portrayed in such an unattractive way by most western media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:40 AM
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Lol. I never think that, so I guess women who literally don't care about "Chad" must exist as well because I don't think I'm that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 11:50 AM
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Brad Pitt has caught johnny depp's hobo disease last time I checked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:24 AM
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The second girl you mentioned is quite pretty I guess. Sasha Grey has a strange chin and nose, it all seems kinda off. Idk I'm very picky with certain facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:13 AM
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Welp. I went crazy for my husband partly because of his innocence and I'm still crazy for him now that he's "less" innocent (aka totally wants me all the time mwahahahah) but I guess it's cause he's still adorable af, like getting super excited over little things and just being a huge cuddly teddybear with a babyface.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:31 AM
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Faces too ratchet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 03:23 AM
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do people actually consider most female pornstars above a 6? Most of them aren't particularly pretty, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 01:55 AM
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Ew. I can't even picture the word "stud" or "Hercules" coming out of anybody's mouth for real (unless they're quoting grease for the former).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 03:15 PM
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Omfg I hate anybody calling me. I'm always in the middle of something unless it's night time and late night calls are for family and close friends only, and even then, usually for emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:19 AM
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I wouldn't mind him texting later that same day especially if he's got something fun to talk about, best would be if he picked up something out of a conversation we already had.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:17 AM
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Tbh I don't see that push much outside of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:07 AM
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I would prefer one where they mated for life but because they want to and not because cheating is too difficult somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 11:14 PM
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Most mental illnesses are due to genetic weakness of some sort. Sure, some come from trauma of some sort, but many are just written in that person's DNA and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 05:03 PM
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Well, I just wonder why some people here act like my assumption of mental illness or him not truly loving the woman is inappropriate just because the guy's arousal would be involuntary. I don't care. If we were talking about a pedophile then I doubt people would try to argue that "his arousal is involuntary and he really does love that child!".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 05:56 AM
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So it still is an abnormality. I mean, pedophilia also happens naturally and somehow is not erased by biology. I'm not saying it's the guy's fault that seeing his SO get raped turns him on, but that still makes him unfit as a partner in the eyes of most women, because that kind of fetish is pretty much a defect. Meanwhile, involuntary arousal due to having one's genitalia touched is common in both men and women who are raped, so I assume it might be how most of our brains/bodies are generally wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 04:41 AM
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They're still usually being sexual... But don't care about biologically reproducing. Which I'm not entirely sure where that attitude comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 04:36 AM
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not sure if they are less sexual. I do notice a trend though in educated people to talk about how they'll "adopt to stop overpopulation" or whatever and it kind of sucks to think they might not pass on their intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 04:42 PM
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I'm not sure why this OP made you think of asexuals or childless people. Most of these monogamous men might be more likely to actually want kids and have them than a dude who plates 30 women who are all careful to not get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 04:21 PM
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Most of the relationships on that sub are already a tragedy before anybody gives them any advice so there's not much to harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 03:55 PM
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I would imagine that these physical reactions are unavoidably connected to mental states of arousal. Our brains aren't seperate from our bodies. Again, I don't understand "rape fantasies" but arousal WHILE being raped is probably a more complex issue due to the physical stimulus being connected to certain reactions, mental ones included. I also am pretty sure nature would profit from women reacting that way to rape, as it was pretty common in the dawn of our civilization. Arousal over watching t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 02:03 AM
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Show me your studies, I'll show you why most of them are bullshit. It is very difficult to get believable studies on gender-related questions, as we are conditioned from a young age into believing that our gender SHOULD influence us a certain way. People did math tests with women and men before, the women had two test groups: one was told that women were worse than men at math right before the test, the other women were told that actually, there was no gender difference in math skill. The second…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:06 AM
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Again, I said that makes more sense as it is a PHYSICAL act causing a physical reaction that is meant to protect the victim. The vagina lubricates itself just so that the rape won't cause as much damage. The physical reaction therefore makes a lot more sense here than in reaction to viewing someone you allegedly love being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:40 AM
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Tbh I don't think it benefits society OR the individual but people want to be free to make their own choices, even the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:53 AM
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Men on average are always going to be physically stronger than women, so a man with bad intentions tends to be more dangerous than the female counterpart in a context of physical violence. How is that ever supposed to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:48 AM
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My husband was a virgin before me. I prefer seeing him becoming more and more experienced WITH me, wouldn't want to imagine him having learned something on another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 10:59 AM
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What disconnect are you talking about? And ok, so if you watch the actions of most women who fantasize about "rape" I bet you in the real situation they wouldn't be all that ecstatic about it happening to them. Idk if I'm just too vanilla or if being that fucked up really is normal nowadays? Sorry, you can't tell me a man who involuntarily gets a huge boner from watching his woman get raped is completely normal in the head. He likely has some sadistic tendencies, else idk wtf is going on. Next t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 04:07 AM
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I don't understand women who get off to rape fantasies, either, clearly, there's something wrong with them too or maybe they call it "rape" but since their imaginary selves WANT it, it's not. In case of a real rape, however, I can understand that THE BODY may react with arousal due to getting the physical indicators that it SHOULD be getting aroused, again, to protect the vagina from damage. I don't hold anybody to higher standards. I'd understand a man unwillingly getting a boner while being ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:29 PM
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That's not the same thing. If Women who get raped experience arousal it's usually because of the physical touch that naturally brings arousal, e.g. Getting wet to minimize damage to the vagina from sex. Most cuckold fetishists in general already have a serious issue I think, often caused by too much porn, but rape of someone you love should definitely not be a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:24 PM
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Even cuckold fetishists don't usually want their women to get literally RAPED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:15 PM
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No, the woman is just likely gonna have a hard time looking at her SO the same because she'll think of the rape everytime she looks at him and feel terribly ashamed. Also, if a man enjoys seeing his woman getting raped then it means he doesn't really love her and he's a sick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:12 PM
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Omg I feel like such an insider lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:48 AM
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I'm married to a big cuddly guy who loves video games and adores me more than anyone so I don't have to worry bout any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:16 AM
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I deal with it similarly but even with people's backstories in mind it is often difficult, especially if the intensity of the feelings seems way off for what caused them. And while it may not always be about the absurdity per Se I do tend to laugh in inappropriate moments or sometimes mistake people's genuine emotional reaction for a joke just because it is so unexpected. Not exactly a way to make oneself popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:52 PM
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Idk much about decrease of testosterone but I do know that men end up being exposed to tons of female hormones through meat and drinking water, and it is surely not helping them develop the way that nature intended them to (same for women... All these hormones are to blame for girls going into puberty earlier and earlier on average these days). At least that's what I've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 06:11 AM
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I'm not sure about the latter since I don't think I've known any INTP man (then again, not like anybody would tell me they're INTP irl lol). I do sure as hell have trouble understanding feelings though. I think I have the terrible habit of arguing against the logic of people's feelings, even my own, which usually only escalates a conflict rather than resolving it... I try to work on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:55 AM
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Yayyy weirdness~!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:47 AM
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Y'all make me feel like a predator cause I feel hella attracted to my husband's innocence tbh...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:59 PM
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Guess that explains why I'm weird af, being an INTP woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:44 PM
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We're talking about a man who is otherwise attractive. An unattractive guy is gonna be unattractive whether he frequents escorts or not. An attractive guy who visits escorts is unattractive mostly to women who prefer men to have a lower n count or to view sex as something one does not pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:06 PM
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Dude. You are NOT ugly. You look perfectly normal judging by your pics. Yes, skin issues, but a lot of people have that. I've seen really short, skinny men with bad acne and awkward personalities still get laid and get girlfriends and even get quite pretty girlfriends, so whoever is severely disgusted by you just being in their presence has some serious fucking issue themselves ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 11:00 PM
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Well, then in a way it might be harder cause the type of women who don't hook up are bound to need more individualized approaches than the ones that do. But it could also be easier cause you might just find a woman that's into exactly just you. Idk, in my experience, it's easiest to just talk with a girl you're attracted to (easier if you know her from class/work/etc) find out if she's single, and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 08:09 PM
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Welp. I was obsessed with my husband since being a teen and it all worked out, you'd just have to wait a few years loool. Nah but on a more serious note, regarding the how to approach a girl question, I guess it depends on what you're looking for. Do you want an LTR or just some experience hooking up? What type of woman are you into? I guess that would help in figuring out a good approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 07:39 PM
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Most people rated you above average so idk what you're worried about bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:31 PM
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3 I think. 6 was an asian dude, 5 was a little blonde boy, 4 was some older middle eastern looking dude. 1 was some dude with glasses and a little chubchub in the face and 2 I think was a guy with a very characteristic mole on his cheek and business clothing. 3 was someone looking like you taking a selfie in front of a mirror wearing I think a grey sweater. Yes, my memory is really good with useless shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:26 PM
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Have you been back to a dermatologist after that? My friend had similar problems after taking pills for her acne and they helped her find good products that worked for her. Otherwise, at least for the dry skin portion, have you tried jojoba oil instead of lotion? I mean, most oils generally can be more effective as moisturizers, it might help a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4w7vzi/experiment_rate_these_men_and_guess_their_age/? Pretty sure your lookalike was number 3. Too bad op deleted links to the pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:11 PM
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Seriously though, have you had your blood tested? Because eating well won't do much if genetically your body isn't as good at retaining a certain nutrient, for example. Have you been back to a dermatologist since accutane failed you? And did you have only one round of accutane or several ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:08 PM
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Either we saw you or your lookalike on that thread about rating some dudes some time ago (very precise description, I know). Anyway, your (lookalikes?) ratings were rather positive, if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:03 PM
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So it runs in the family? Did anybody else manage to solve the issue? And btw, If it runs in the family it could still be a hormonal or nutrient issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:58 PM
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Really? I wouldn't have guessed, in your pic your acne looked more like it was mid-tier more or less, not necessarily the large cystic Kind. Well, there are tons of people with similar issues. And yes, some of them accutane didn't work for, either. You can always check out people's acne stories on YouTube to find more unconventional ways to get rid of it. I know it takes several tries and it's annoying but I definitely don't think it will be impossible to find something that helps. Did you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:25 PM
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You used to look good? How did that change if I may ask?btw, steve jobs in his youth looked like Ashton Kutcher, basically. Pretty sure that Wozniak is the actual genius and Jobs was the "face".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:16 PM
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I'm pretty sure the women most disgusted by men who frequent prostitutes are not exactly the biggest sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:44 AM
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Nah. I'm married. My husband thought he was asexual before we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:09 AM
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Much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:46 AM
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Well, I think even the biggest slut can still be suited for marriage with a likeminded individual. How marriage works out has more to do with how the two people mix than any of their individual qualities. That being said, I consider people promiscuous very quickly myself, but well, I'm conservative as hell and can't even picture myself with an n any higher than 1. I would want my son to hopefully find a virgin to marry and be a virgin himself because that seems like the most beautiful way to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:57 AM
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My lord. Cause risking drug addiction is definitely a great solution to the problem. Remember, these men are already not in the best state emotionally, so they are at even higher risk. And idk why people here don't understand that most incels DON'T WANT a hooker. They want a woman that at the very least finds them attractive enough to willingly have sex with them, some want hope for a loving relationship. You don't get that from a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:46 AM
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Well, most women really DON'T know what the red pill is. And I assume most don't care, especially outside of reddit. That being said, I cringed really hard at "40 year old GIRLS". Seriously, is there no longer any age at which women are old enough to no longer be considered "girls"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:38 AM
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I see what you mean. Honestly, I don't quite get that part about many women, they can earn money for themselves now so who cares either way if the man is not earning that much now or ever? All you gotta make sure about is that your partner is not a lazy bum so you KNOW that when times get rough you'll both work your asses off (especially if kids are involved). But yeah, I get a lot of women asking me immediately about my husband's job when they hear I'm married or how expensive my ring was and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:53 PM
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I think a pretty sizeable portion of people would love that, except many of them give up early because they realize that the majority of other young people these days don't really want anything serious anytime soon. I don't like the term "sexual liberation" being used the way it is because if people were truly sexually liberated they would have the sexual lives that THEY want, yet I see many people, including young girls, who feel pressured into being overly sexual, which is not better than the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:40 AM
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I don't know. My husband is the only dude I ever even kissed vice versa and personally I like that we're each other's only experience, wouldn't want it any other way. But not everybody's lucky like that, or even WANTS that, so uhm yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 01:43 PM
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Only ever seen him in his bed in a rather poor looking room, typical sad-looking place with paint turning to shit and christian images on the walls. I doubt he was rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:50 AM
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Then how does that challenge OP's view much? A lot of women are happy just fucking until they find someone to settle down with, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:27 AM
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"Until I'm with the right girl" "UNTIL" Sounds like your ultimate goal is a relationship, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:18 AM
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Well his second wife (the nurse) married him when he was already the fattest man alive. Idk if he gained or lost weight after but um yeah I think at the point where you're bed-ridden a few pounds (even hundreds of pounds tbh) maybe don't make much of a difference in your appearance anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:12 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manuel_Uribe "On 26 October 2008, after four years together, Uribe —who weighed in at 318 kg (701 lb) after shedding 269 kg (593 lb)— married his second wife Claudia from his bed. He said: "I am proof you can find love in any circumstances. It's all a question of faith. I have a wife and will form a new family and live a happy life."[15] He was transported to the civil wedding on his specially-reinforced four-poster bed, draped with cream and gold and adorned in b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:04 AM
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The world's formerly fattest man who was unable to leave his house without his whole bed being lifted out of his place actually had a relationship with his nurse before he passed away. Js.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:43 AM
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Most incels don't want escorts. The whole point is that they want to sleep with a woman who WANTS to sleep with them, most of the time. And that means that your second point of pity sex is not gonna cut it, either. Btw, considering how many incels are hatefully calling women "sluts" just because they are not sleeping with THEM, why would I ever want to ruin my beautiful n=1 count with the man I love, just to make some random dude feel better? Why would any woman fuck someone just because they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:33 AM
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Um...well.... How exactly do you imagine that? Giving someone a place to stay or money or an education out of charity is one thing...and it's rather easy.... Fucking them out of charity is not gonna happen, and it's rather difficult for external influences to TURN them into "desirable" people, just like a women's shelter could maybe help a woman find a safe place but it might not fix whatever attachment she might have to the abuser etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:26 AM
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This... I am confused what is even hard to understand here. Most people don't want to see their partner being fucked by someone else. You can have your weird kinks and that's cool if it works for you, but I doubt that a large number of people could actually deal well with that kind of situation let alone thoroughly enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 01:53 AM
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I think liberals might actually have a less "toxic" attitude towards male sexuality. I mean, as someone who is quite conservative.... A man who slept around or even watches porn would be a no-go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 01:14 AM
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No. If my husband had two dicks I'd be cool with him doing whatever but I feel repulsed at the thought of another man anywhere close to me. That being said, I'd never want one with a woman, either. My husband has never so much as kissed another woman and that is a huge turn on for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:51 PM
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Acne or other problem? I'm really interested in skincare and I'm sure in some subs like skincare addiction (pretty sure that's a thing) you can find great tips as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:33 AM
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I would say by that definition that men's sexual desire is more reactive. Women can feel randomly horny a lot, eg during their period, with no object of desire in sight, it's just the physical urge. Men are more likely to see any halfway attractive woman and immediately react by getting horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 03:38 PM
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Where did I say you were implying anything? I just noted how the behavior you described seems to actually be a good one with RP in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:46 AM
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Hm. I thought that's technically what most of RP men would want though, since they don't seem interested in a friendship without the woman being sexually attracted to them... so if a woman doesn't wanna fuck a man but doesn't want him to feel like an "emotional tampon" or "friendzoned", what can she do other than stay away? At most, she can only make friends with dudes who have enough options to not feel bitter about her not fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:33 AM
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Your post sounds like you think that women hate every man that they don't fuck. That isn't true. Many women are naive and think their nice male friend actually enjoys being just a friend and being there for her (sometimes even if she knows of his attraction, she may still believe this) and usually she at least thinks that she is also there for him, sometimes she truly is. The fact that you seemingly can't appreciate any relationship with a woman that doesn't involve her worshipping your cock say…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:21 AM
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As a fellow blonde and blue-eyed Slavic person, I believe we should maybe not call ourselves "Aryan" to summarize our looks, because it makes it seem like we agree that those are primarily or exclusively "Aryan" features, when Hitler was really just full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 05:36 AM
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Susan Boyle before she became famous. Nice lady but really weird and awkward and dresses in basically drapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 05:11 AM
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I really don't agree with that at all lol. Most guys who fuck a different bitch every week either have trouble staying committed or random women might wanna bang them all the time for the most superficial reasons, doesn't mean they'll find true love more easily at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:26 AM
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Eh, most people have some childish things about them, it doesn't mean they are entirely underdeveloped idiots or need to be treated as children. But that's just how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:40 AM
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You can find their height requirements childish without generally treating them like children though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 04:29 AM
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Maybe it's a way for them to compensate. They don't want tiny kids so short women prefer tall guys. Tall girls don't need the guy to be tall to get the tall genetics. Though idk why height is apparently a desirable trait considering shorter people tend to live longer etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:35 AM
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It is commonly given advice, and it's good advice in a way, just has completely different use than TRP type of advice. I think "just be yourself" is advice for finding true love, and it is good for that, cause your love is not going to be true if you have to be fake to keep it up.... However, it's not good advice if you wanna get laid by a different bitch every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:31 AM
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Apply in person to restaurant jobs or little shops. If you seem halfway personable and nice and look decent you don't need much experience to get hired there. And once you've been there for 6-12 months and did alright it's much easier to convince other people to hire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:21 AM
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In my experience, most women just want the guy to be either taller than them, or taller than them+heels. On the other hand, with pretty tall women like myself I've noticed that we tend to often be more forgiving if someone's a little shorter because tall girls sometimes get that whole "you're intimidating and your height makes you look not feminine" type bs so they might also care less. Do not treat women like children though, that's a dumb idea. Just try to not care much about height. Some indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:53 AM
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I kinda feel that way about ScarJo. I mean, her figure is great, so I'm not surprised people are into that, but her face... Meh. Without all the glam and makeup I think she's really nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:43 PM
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The fact that a term like "breeders" is ever even seriously used to describe people who just have their kids the traditional way is disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:34 PM
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I never said all people who adopt were idiots. They're idiots if they're adopting kids to "save the world from overpopulation" and shame others for wanting to have their own biological kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:26 PM
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I think that's generally a common misconception nowadays. Some people my age would think I have a bad relationship with my mum because I don't consider her "my best friend that I can tell about aaaaaanything". When to me, she was never supposed to be my friend, so that is completely irrelevant to our mother-daughter relationship. Parents are (at least supposed to be) authority figures and responsible for the well-being of their children, that's completely different from friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:30 PM
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"Because the world is overpopulated and I'm such a good person hurr-durr" All I can say to this type of bs is I like to think I'd be a terrible person if I didn't pass on my bomb ass genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:12 PM
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He looks kind of weird and evil but I think that's what makes his face sorta cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:08 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:06 PM
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I understand. I was really skeptical at first, too. Mostly because I felt the same about him, which he didn't know but still, that seemed a little too lucky, plus in my teens I was constantly bombarded with how there is no such thing as a guy who doesn't fantasize about other women or watch porn etc....But my initial distrust really hurt him since he was being sincere and seeing how he behaves, I do believe him now. I probably look more at women than he does, no interest in boobs or ass on rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 10:45 PM
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It is true. He thought he was asexual before we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 10:03 PM
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This is also a very biased PLACE to collect info... Most of the women here are not exactly the "college party sluts" that so many red pillers seem obsessed with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:51 PM
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True, true. Don't even know how that idea still exists. Lots of cute girls seem to have nerdy hobbies nowadays, especially that whole cosplay crowd, but then it seems that sometimes ppl try to discredit them via "they're hot, so they must not be REAL fans" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:33 PM
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I'm the furthest from your dumbass AWALT someone can get. They simply are not a catch. But hey, I was also a virgin before my husband and wanted him to be a virgin, so of course I would've found it gross if he had a history of meeting up with hookers. But ofc, it's just that I must be sooo AWALT and trying to shame them so I can control them with the power of my genitals. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:29 PM
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You should probably note that a lot of women who are into the poly lifestyle or whatever might have completely different agreements with their bfs/husbands as to what they consider cheating. That being said, I fit description 2 and never cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 01:04 PM
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What I truly know are things I can prove. Those aren't always things that have much to do with what I feel. It really depends on the subject. I can know there's tons of men in the world, and still feel that my husband is my soulmate without really questioning it if the feeling is just consistent enough. But if I caught him cheating and knew that he wasn't loyal I'd automatically feel different about him, obviously. Gravity does kinda do both no? The moon for example is moving away from the earth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:49 AM
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Idk man, by that age my hands might be too shaky to keep those plates on the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:31 AM
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I like video games. My bff and I used to play them together during sleepovers. She's a small brunette with huge tits and an adorable face and I'm a tall blonde with nice ass and legs. There are casual gamers who play games and also have other hobbies that keep them fit. I think at most the thing is that it's hard to find female gamers that are as hardcore about it as the most serious male gamers and also the tastes may be different. Like destiny looks lame to me for example, even though my husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:28 AM
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Why is boogie alpha and the others aren't in your opinion? Just out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:22 PM
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Lol same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:06 PM
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I wish men showed interest in me by sending pizza... Would still have to reject them but definitely better than random sex propositions in the street lol (Though lbr that's kinda creepy with the knowing your address and pizza preferences and all... Hope you're safe)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:58 PM
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Sometimes logical arguments convince me to change how I feel about something to some extent. For example, I was feeling more strongly against abortion when I was younger, but honestly, no kid deserves to be born as someone's "punishment" and many other good reasons convinced me otherwise. Religion works for people for example without necessarily being logical or proven fact. Faith can have a strong positive influence on your life even if you're not able to prove that whatever God you believe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:48 PM
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Because most of the time, they simply AREN'T a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:39 PM
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I explained that already, if I know my thought or feeling is illogical or unreasonable I might keep having it but feel that I SHOULDN'T which either may lead to suppressing or changing the way I think about it or just accept it regardless of how dumb it is because it works for me. I don't really think much about the process others go through. Either they've told me their process, if I'm interested I may ask, if I know them well I may have an idea of how they got to said thought. It seems for mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:30 PM
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That last sentence resonates with me so much. You know how every kindergarten kid seems to think their mommy is the prettiest mommy in the whole universe? I think I never grew out of that. All my really good friends and family I think are beautiful people inside and out, I may notice some flaws but I think overall I'd still rate them all pretty damn high in comparison to strangers. Now we could theorize that I'm just surrounded by freaking supermodels but I guess that's less likely than simply e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:00 PM
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That's great! It's hard for many people to break any habit, or even just decide for themselves rather than do whatever is "normal" by default. Men have existed without porn before, so I don't find it hard to believe that they still can. Some dudes don't like watching men fuck some woman they find hot. Some men generally don't like watching it. Some associate sex only with women they love. Some are entirely asexual. Some like watching it but have the discipline not to cause they'd rather save it …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:53 PM
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Good thing I'm not into normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:43 PM
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I know he doesn't. He thought he was asexual before we met. Turns out he just really needs strong feelings to get interested in anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:37 AM
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......that's like asking is it better to be a hardcore christian or hardcore atheist (in both cases the kind who will be completely intolerant of any other belief)....why not just try to find some healthy balance in life? You can believe in true love without being a little sjw white knight doormat. Aside from a few crazy tumblrinas I don't think anybody will tell you that all masculinity is bad (though I think many people also interpret masculinity a little differently than just the typical Alph…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 06:40 AM
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My husband never watches porn either. Maybe some dudes are too solipsistic to realize that just cause THEY need to watch porn all the time, does not mean every man does. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 06:23 AM
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I think I'm pretty much egalitarian. That does not mean I think men and women are exactly the same though. I think there are definitely some differences, including mental ones, but I think that Red Pill largely exaggerates them and that in the end nurture is a bit more relevant to gender roles than nature, as well as that among individuals all these factors can vary greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 10:40 PM
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People would say that someone would love you romantically for who you are regardless of what you look like, and that, I think, is true. But I also think that this person is gonna be possibly a once-in-a-lifetime encounter, so if somebody wants to get laid more often than that and by different women then it would be a bad strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 06:36 PM
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I already AM loved for it. And I'm the only woman he's ever WANTED to sleep with which I doubt is because I'm simply objectively the hottest person he's ever seen or something, so I think that while I'm not getting laid JUST for my inner beauty it most certainly is a big factor. On the other hand, a lot of other men wouldn't give a shit about anything besides my looks, especially initially, and well, I think women are not all that different in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 06:23 PM
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I mean... I consider being interesting and having some cool skills and not being a lazy bum etc. part of my inner beauty....?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 07:51 AM
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I know the perfect man for you https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Scott_(The_Office)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 04:58 AM
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So I'm the only one who feels drawn to people who are really unpopular and seem to barely talk? ... Well damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:13 PM
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Well, since you said he's got a new girlfriend now I hope he realizes that HE was not the problem. But it sucks that he will have to be confronted with it sooner or later anyway if either him or her want to remarry. I hope he is ok, I think I'd be paranoid for life if someone betrayed me that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:24 PM
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Ok so we are talking that to get to 10-15 women by age 25 there must be at least one of those traits present? I mean, I guess. Women who are into a type who is none of these things are likely not into people who sleep around. And there are pretty masculine traits that TRP considers beta, that is why I specified masculine in the sense of a RP alpha type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 03:56 PM
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I didn't report you. I responded to you above and that was all I did. And we actually help each other and ourselves with our issues that do need improvement, so nah, not wallowing in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 03:17 PM
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I was using insanity as more of a term for general deviance from the norm, not really being clinically diagnosed with the same disorder. He also has gotten over much of his insecurity through the years, he says largely thanks to my influence, and he is not really someone who tries hard to be dominant in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:19 PM
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Elaborate, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:17 PM
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I think my looks are above average by conventional standards but I do not think I'm entirely sane and I have no problem admitting that. Then again I think most people are at least somewhat insane, so if your insanity matches with another person's insanity you may click even if to other people you may look like a really random pairing. But in that case no exceptionally noticeable conventional traits of attractiveness or masculinity need to be present for it to work, you'd just need to be attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:10 PM
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Because it's a CMV and I like playing devil's advocate, I shoulda put more effort into reading OP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:54 AM
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I apologize because I realized my earlier post is off-topic, as I spoke of the possibility of someone falling in love with you regardless of not having any super conventionally attractive traits, but since he was talking about exceptions of men getting laid often despite not having those traits it's not an appropriate reply. To answer your question though, I think most of all I was attracted to his innocence and how different he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:51 AM
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Out of curiosity, what do you suspect I look like? I think if anything the thing about me that's the most unattractive is my personality tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:48 AM
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I did but apparently too absentmindedly. I apologize for wasting your time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:43 AM
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So the only way to disprove it is if someone dates someone they personally find ugly, annoying, repulsive and disgusting? Or even better, 10-15 women fuck a guy they consider all of the aforementioned? (Though I do know guys I considered disgusting who got laid. But I doubt the women who fucked them thought of them that way.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:07 AM
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I'm pretty attractive actually. But it doesn't matter how I describe myself to you cause you wouldn't believe me. And I actually realized that my reply was irrelevant to the thread cause I was talking more bout exceptions where the guy finds someone who loves them how they are, not where he is a womanizer. I think the women who are into nerdy types of antisocial nice guys aren't really into guys who sleep around, so he wouldn't have 10-15 partners by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:03 AM
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Ok, since I seemingly don't get it: are you saying people have to have something that their partner finds attractive about them for the partner to be with them? Cause in that case, DUH. Or do you mean men have to have some kind of commonly attractive masculine TRP Alpha-esque traits to make up for whatever "deficit" if they want anybody to be attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 10:35 AM
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*attractive to the woman in question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 10:26 AM
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Best comment in this whole thread. Completely on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 08:47 AM
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Yup. And I'm pretty sure nowadays they're richer than Poland and only a few ranks behind germany and France in wealth (ranking European Countries only). Slovenia may be irrelevant to most people, especially on a global scale, but it's surely not a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:45 AM
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I'm not even really a feminist. Egalitarian, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:33 AM
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That's good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:32 AM
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That's a faulty argument. Do black people have it easier in general just because affirmative action based on race is a thing in some places?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:47 AM
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But if you're an attractive woman and work hard and have substance, a lot of people still assume you're like the vapid instagram whores and treat you accordingly. That's even after meeting you and technically having seen that it's not who you are, and it really does hold you back in life imo, because people want you to be vapid and take your clothes off, and if you don't, oh well, they'll replace you with a bitch who will, regardless of her lesser skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:19 AM
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I think gender quotas are bullshit tbh. There are tons of jobs where women are preferred over men and I don't see a male quota for any of those professions. I never said that working women have it harder than men though. As I said, both genders have it hard in their own way, I just disagree with women living "life on easy mode". I think all these instagram hoes maybe do, but that'll hit them soon enough if they don't learn or achieve anything else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:01 AM
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Ok, then to paraphrase "do not care too much about your work". A man who leaves his family for weeks on end is a successful hard-worker. A woman who does is a shitty mother. Or maybe those were just the standards where I came from. And yeah, men are shamed for their emotions, too, and I agree that they get shamed worse in some situations. Not all though. All I'm trying to say is that both genders go through a lot of shit, and although I think if you wanna be a lazy bum and achieve nothing or jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:42 AM
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I think you're in the wrong place if you're trying to address chad's ratchet baby mamas. Call your sister and tell her that if you wanna reach the actual target of this rant. Btw, my father was always a really athletic, good-looking, confident, tall guy. He's also a crazy good father who would do anything for his family, who has been with my mum since they were teens and still constantly shows that he deeply cares about her. He also went from piss poor to being the ace of the company he works fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:35 AM
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Some people assume you are inferior or dumb by default. When you prove them wrong, they dismiss it or call you a bitch. A moment later a man could say the same thing and be applauded for his intelligence/creativity/humor. To make the man in your life happy, you pump yourself with drugs that simulate pregnancy, but don't you dare be emotional, cause then you're a hysterical bitch. Also, if you have a completely logical reason to be upset and bring it up, you're also a hysterical bitch and it's pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:23 AM
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I'm from Eastern Europe myself, so I know it's been messy. Just didn't know when she came to the U.S. (I thought it was not too long ago) and heard from others that she was wealthy already before marrying trump.... And even then I'm not sure if Slovenia even back then would qualify as 3rd world, but maybe my standards for not being 3rd world are pretty low lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:03 AM
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I thought she was already wealthy before, at least that's what people say. Also, is Slovenia really a third world country? I don't think it's that bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:48 AM
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Ayyy I'm a female Bluepill INTP too! Though I think I've had different results in the past besides this one. And I actually would say I'm kind of an emotional mess considering I'm a wannabe artist and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:20 AM
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Donald Trump secretly loves Mexicans, but he can't admit it due to the racist circles that he grew up in, so instead he goes for the European Version of Mexicans, which are people from Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 11:14 PM
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Ok, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:11 PM
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Agree. I don't think anybody should ever have to feel like they settled or feel settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:06 PM
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Well, what I'm saying is, you have your beliefs and I have mine and you're not really able to prove me wrong any more than I am able to prove you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:02 PM
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Thanks for the insightful reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:56 PM
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I wish I had learned to be more violent when I need to be. I'm pretty great at debating and winning arguments, but now that I've moved out of my safe little bubble that alone really isn't a very useful skill when everyone around you could easily kick your ass. You need both. I think I got spanked once because I screamed around all day. It was not for any real reason, I was just being a little asshole and deserved it tbh. I also don't think little kids truly respect anyone or anything much yet, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:40 PM
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My thoughts and feelings about a certain subject don't easily change. My mind can be pretty "scattered" or seem that way in that it can move from subject to subject very quickly based on associations I've made and sometimes people can't follow. I can tell which feelings and thoughts are true to me by how consistently I have them and how difficult it would be to change them. That doesn't necessarily make those thoughts and feelings reasonable though. When somebody says they believe something is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:26 PM
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I wouldn't spank because of how the kid acts towards friends or anything even remotely like that. Maybe more like if they talk shit to me or the husband in which case getting hit would be the real life consequence. Except that outside they might get their bones broken instead of a spanking. I wouldn't know the exact situations yet but I'm far from wanting to be a mother anytime soon anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:51 PM
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It does lead to unattractive behavior if one person believes AWALT while their partner believes in true love and soulmates. It is noticeable when someone is not as invested in the relationship and I don't think most people are such amazing liars to conceal such strong beliefs entirely. As for your second point, Duh, that's why I married someone who is honest with me. And I assume that many people do value honesty, and try to be with someone honest, and again, most people are not such great actor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:39 PM
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Well. I love my husband for who he is, if his behavior indicated that he doesn't believe that because he doesn't believe that as a woman I have the capability to do so or if he signaled that he has "abundance mentality" then I'd gtfo. I'd rather be alone than be seen as just another hoe who'll take off the moment someone with "higher SMV" comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:56 AM
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Maybe if you do it too often or too hard. I said most people I know who turned out pretty well had at least one good spanking as a young kid. I really wouldn't put it in the same boat with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:47 AM
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Oh lord Jesus I weep for my future children already then. I get stressed about literally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:45 AM
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Yeah, I did. I do see now why my response might not be entirely appropriate to the topic at hand though, as you didn't claim that it was generally ignored. Personally, I do think anger phase is a thing though and aside from some extreme cases people do get over it. The ones who don't probably had issues to begin with, and whether red pillers ignore their extreme views or not is probably not gonna change all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:22 PM
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Well, again, I don't doubt that men for the most part can function despite being sexually attracted to a lot of women they encounter, since that is the norm. But I just can't deal with it. The moment a guy seems a little too interested I get anxious and uncomfortable and want to avoid them. With acquaintances especially... I think that maybe because in my brain sex=love I just get scared of hurting them with my inevitable rejections, even though I know that just cause they wanna get in my pants …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:38 PM
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I think AWALT is ok to use as a crutch for someone who's been hurt many times before and wants to protect himself. However, that person must also know that realistically, there ARE a huge number of women who are not like that. And technically, the main problem with AWALT is that whoever is using it as a mantra to protect himself may keep good women away with his distrustful behavior. So I guess it's either behave according to NAWALT and risk getting screwed over, or act according to AWALT and ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:18 PM
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Eh, I guess it's just the strong contrast between how it was when I was growing up versus how it is now. Or maybe perceived strong contrast. I just rarely had much to do with men who weren't family or close enough to being family and I was convinced that most men found me repulsive or, in the case of older men for example, didn't consider me at all in a sexual manner, and I was pretty cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:08 PM
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I just don't understand it. I've only ever felt true sexual attraction towards one man and that was after already having built a strong bond with him and having fallen in love with his personality. I find it weird that people in general, not just men, can look at someone they barely know and want to sleep with them, and imagine doing it or plan ways to make it happen, the whole concept of it seems like an insult to the subject of their lust to me even though I know it's perfectly natural and it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:50 PM
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Huh. It's funny cause my friends and I had the exact opposite of that convo once. "Men naturally look better than women cause their menstrual cycle doesn't regularly give them breakouts, their skin and hair is not usually damaged by makeup and hairdye, they build muscle more easily and their skin is not prone to cellulite like women's."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:02 PM
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I guess your phenotype theory makes sense, super high T men might die faster in battle or the like due to their temper, as well as have more trouble committing to one woman due to high sex drive, there need to be men who are predisposed to be more responsible for society to work out. I did just find that apparently smoking for example would increase prenatal testosterone, which is not at all a connection I would've ever came up with. (http://www.peaktestosterone.com/Fetal_Testosterone.aspx) And …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:57 PM
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I think one good spanking around age 5-7 has done a pretty good job in most people I know. I think it's pretty useful if you don't want your kids to be one of those whiny brats who throw themselves on the ground in a supermarket just to get their way. I think neither gender should be pussified, but both should learn basic homemaking skills, I've seen too many households where the male siblings never lift a finger while the girls have to clean. Their future wife is gonna thank me. I also prefer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:36 PM
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Now I'm interested to find out what even influences the amount of testosterone exposure a fetus gets. Also, how it influences your later testosterone levels if at all. I mean, I am pretty sure I have high testosterone for a woman now, considering I have a low voice for a woman and am pretty damn hairy if I don't shave lol. It's really strange to think about sometimes that we've been on this planet for so long yet there's so many things that we don't know even about our own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:28 PM
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Hm. My husband's ring fingers are longer than the index fingers and he has the cutest babyface on the planet along with having been an unkissed virgin before me (up to his mid-twenties), though probably mostly thanks to, as I said, really not giving a shit about other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:12 PM
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Oh, I know he's not, he doesn't care about other women. Like, literally. I'd also kinda expect a man to be exposed to more testosterone in the womb(?). Just never noticed that finger lengths could be that different. Only knew that some people have index, middle and ring finger at roughly the same length.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:04 PM
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Thanks for making me the creep who's about to check my husband's fingers in his sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:58 PM
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Huh. That's interesting. My index fingers are much longer than my ring fingers and I thought that was the norm for most people. Edit: On a kinda funny side note, I'm pretty sure most women don't like me. But that just might be cause of my personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:55 PM
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The problem with your argument is that a lot of the women who slut shame and the women who slut around the most are not the same women. (Though hyprocrites like that always do exist. Btw, people also have crazy different definitions of what "slut" means.) The real sluts are pretty open about being sluts nowadays, and about being superficial and primitive (prime example: Amber Rose). I don't mind slut shaming because promiscuity isn't really beneficial for society, whether engaged in by women or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:38 PM
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Cool, so? Same goes for a single woman, not sure what that has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:30 PM
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Welp. I agree with that to some extent since I'm neither having one night stands nor trusting people easily otherwise. On the other hand I'd never stay with a guy if he forever thinks some shit like AWALT actually applies to me and that he has to show "abundance mentality". Meanwhile, even a lot of RP dudes have ONS, which is not particularly smart since for all they know they might wake up with one less kidney or something, though that, ofc, is rarer than the women getting bad sex as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 04:16 PM
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I don't think so. Sure, financial issues can be a strain on the relationship but as long as both partners are willing to work hard and they can afford a good living standard together (even if for example the lady is the main bread winner) it should be ok. And most men are stronger than most women without much effort, so he doesn't have to be the Hulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 03:39 PM
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I'd argue that more women would be ok with the guy not being an amazing provider/protector (aka not rich and not that physically strong) than there are women who are ok with a guy who needs major convincing to want them at all let alone trust them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 03:24 PM
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In defense of the non-angry red pillers (who've usually been there longer), you do sometimes see them call out the dudes who say the most aggressive stuff against women, telling them to calm down, that they should take more time reading theory and working on themselves etc. So it is not ALWAYS ignored, however, the angrier dudes may sometimes ignore that type of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:57 AM
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I think in most relationships people both care about who the other is as a person and how they make them feel. If you love a person but they make you feel like a useless piece of shit maybe you'll keep loving them but eventually it'll break you if you don't leave, whether you're male or female. And no. 2 also applies to a majority of men. If their celebrity crush wanted to blow them behind the dumpster I doubt that most men would say no, even if they're taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:44 AM
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Idk man I don't know any frat boys lmao. But I guess that's why even more so I'm not just gonna think all of them must be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:39 AM
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I neither like promiscuity nor douchebags who force people to drink urine so I don't really care, I just prefer if people don't automatically believe every pretty woman is a slut and every frat boy athletic dude is a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:28 AM
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Maaaan. No one ever believes me I exist not even when I'm farting rainbows right in front of them it's so upsetting!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:25 AM
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I know. That is why I am saying, it's alright as a rule to go by to protect yourself, especially if you've been hurt before. But just because you act like all guns are loaded, doesn't mean that logically all guns truly ARE loaded, and while you and many other Red Pillers may understand that perfectly fine I guess too many still actually believe it as a completely factual statement with no exceptions ever. I assume those are mostly noobs in the anger phase, but those tend to be pretty vocal so pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:18 AM
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Wow, no to the first three and as for the fourth I'm pretty much asexual so I don't normally get sexy vibes from anybody. My husband was the only exception and I was attracted to his personality that he showed through e-mails, no idea what he looked like until much later. Where do I fetch my sweet unicorn badge?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:12 AM
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Uh... You don't normally know the woman's a lying, manipulative piece of shit until later, either....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:08 AM
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Like what? And I think AWALT is ok if men want to use it to protect themselves, but acting as if AWALT for your own safety and truly believing that it is entirely a truth engrained in nature are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:05 AM
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It's ok, I'm resentful towards you and most other men too cause I hate the thought of random men seeing me in a sexual manner. But as you said, it's nature, nothing you can do other than get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 11:02 PM
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Women are controlled by their feeeeeelz but they have no emotions these heartless sloots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 10:46 PM
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The blue pill is a joke sub, I doubt it's gonna give you dating advice. I thought blue pillers are what most people you'll meet in the real world are, by beliefs at least. And um yeah some people will flake on friendships if you express sexual interest because it makes them uncomfortable that their friend wants to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 09:51 PM
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His personality and soul. I can say that with confidence because I'm not sexually attracted to anyone normally, but was to him before I even knew what he looked like. After meeting him in person of course it was also that I really find him beautiful and he smells really nice, but I'm pretty sure that assessment was already heavily biased because of the feelings I had for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 12:25 AM
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I'd argue that women who are virgins for moral reasons would want virgin men. Which is a lot/the majority of virgin women past a certain age. And also virgin women who have jealous tendencies. Actually I had a friend who wasn't even really a virgin (HJ/BJ with two different dudes before, not at the same time) and she freaked out when her first bf told her he had slept with 4 women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 09:52 PM
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The problem is that both the men and the women often only see people way out of their league as dating material, or worse, they don't even see people who are below a 7 or 8 at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 09:28 PM
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Blue pill is hypocritical and contradictory because if you call anybody who is not red pill blue pill then that's gonna be a huge group of people with all kinds of ideas regarding dating. And btw, it's not that rare to not have your first kiss/first time in your teens, I understand the people who are nearing their 30s or older being upset at not having had a relationship yet but jfc....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:38 PM
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Looool. Sometimes I call him the alpha of the house but that's cause we got a lot of dogs. I don't really categorize him otherwise, he's the greatest man in the world to me but that's been the same whether he's sick, unemployed, depressed or God knows what. I just think he's my soulmate so it's him or nobody. If you're gonna spin anything into "he must be alpha to you at least" just so it fits your narrative and strip away all traits associated with alpha in the process then yeah, ofc red pill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:18 PM
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Yeah, but I thought they looked younger than 35 even.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 07:58 PM
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Are the women in those pictures aged 35-44 at all? I mean, 6, 7, 8 for example look much younger than 9 or 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 10:07 AM
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I don't spend time alone with any guy and never offer it, I am clear about being taken and most guys who get my phone number get it for work or school only and I make that painfully clear as well as that I prefer text over phone calls because phone calls are annoying. If the guy then still wants to hang out with me alone after a while, calls me, or constantly compliments my looks or wants to be touchy-feely, then I block everything and cut them off entirely as soon as work/school no longer requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 12:55 AM
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Ding ding ding~
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 11:46 PM
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Maybe. I have a hard time deciphering these situations because I don't befriend men much if at all and cut them off if they seem romantically interested even if it makes me feel like a total ass, as well as am pretty straight forward if I AM interested. Pretty sure I did more of the legwork up front for my SO even. I guess it just would be easier if all women were more direct but many are taught not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 11:45 PM
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Wouldn't it be easier for number 2 to just say she is not interested? I mean, the reason why women aren't just treating every nice guy that seems interested in them that way is because most of the time they're already friends with the guy and just treating him in a friendly manner which he interprets as more than that maybe, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 09:06 PM
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So.... I'm not an asshole for blocking that guy that constantly abused my number to call me at weird times even though he had it only for a project we had to work on together? I always end up completely cutting off guys if they seem too interested, it makes me feel mean, but this thread makes me wonder if maybe it's the right thing to do after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 09:01 PM
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The question is... Are the women who would be more interested because of it even worth it? Cause I doubt it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 10:45 AM
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Result: Tall people > Short people How tf did you get that result? You couldn't even tell their height from these pics??? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 10:37 AM
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Well this was not about me or your personal tastes, I was just pointing out that those are women who are commonly seen as very sexy. I personally find neither men of my age nor older ones hot so my list would be useless. My theory is though that older men are more likely to have A-class celebrity status than younger ones, as they built that status in their youth and now are still given lead roles. Women rarely have lead roles even when they are young and when they are old they are replaced by yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 10:33 AM
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Adriana Lima, Mila Kunis, Scarlett Johansson, Gisele Bundchen, Salma Hayek, Alessandra Ambrosio, Sofia Vergara, Bar Rafaeli, Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Miranda Kerr, Kim Kardashian, Penelope Cruz, Nicki Minaj....... Yah I guess 30+ is peak time for women, too, by that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 08:37 AM
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I'll try to rate in relation to other men around the same age, as I think compared to the general population of men all of them are above average based on just being young and at a healthy weight judging by these pics. 1: 5.5/10. Quite average 23-year-old. Has good skin. Chin looks too round. I dislike the beard and style choices but I guess some hipster chicks might rate him much higher. 2: 5/10. Asymmetrical eyes and pseudo-moustache along with beauty mark don't work in his favor, but I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 04:40 AM
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I'm sure women in chemotherapy totally look healthy like that and spend that much time on makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 09:04 PM
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Well, many women repeatedly make the same mistake and only end up convincing themselves they want something else in the end for a variety of reasons (e.g. The biological clock ticking) which changes their behavior but maybe not their real desire/preference, whatever that may be, relationships or hookups. I guess from case to case or man to man, they'll always know better what they wanted when they're out, but even then, a lot of people don't really learn all that much from their mistakes or mist…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 08:21 AM
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Well, it's fundamentally healthy and natural and not really shameful to poop, since everybody does it. However, if you poop in the supermarket, right in front of the cashier....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:18 PM
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A study was released recently that asked women whether they preferred LTRs. 100% said yes. When asked about the hookup culture, only 8% were comfortable with the casual sex pervasive today. I thought women had no idea what they want or are lying to appear less promiscuous hence self-reported studies like this are bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:10 PM
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Ok, but the people oppressing others through that system still DO get very real resources out of it, which ARE wealth, which COULD be distributed better. Just how much food that is perfectly edible is thrown away every day, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:56 PM
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Would you elaborate on that or are you just going to throw it out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:37 PM
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Yeah, cause instead of aiming to distribute wealth more equally, we should just aim to make procreation another privilege of the wealthy. They're not gonna do it anyway though, at least in the US I'd say, since the rich republicans WANT young, poor women to stay miserable by having tons of kids and none of the medical attention they need. Their pro-life stance quickly changes meanwhile, when it's about their own 16-yo daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:33 PM
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I actually think that men who wanted the mother to have an abortion but she decided to keep it either way SHOULD have the ability to opt out of child support (if they are not married to the mother and staying even after the child is there, I guess). And I think it would make this argument much easier to make the distinction between the fetus AFTER it has gained some kind of mental conscience and before. Otherwise, are the zygotes which naturally usually don't manage to stay in the uterus and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:27 PM
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How dare you imply that the father has anything to do with this!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:14 PM
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Listen, I'm one of the most conservative people I've seen on here in terms of sex, I have never even kissed anyone but my husband, but.... If you think it's empty and immoral to want to physically bond and pleasure the person you love, isn't that a bit far? It's not really hedonism in my opinion, since both people ideally care more about the other person enjoying it. Would we start slut-shaming people for having sex with their spouses without necessarily wanting children? And I think a "big brot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 01:25 PM
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Yeah, cause what the world needs is people taking even more drugs just to get through the day. There is already enough terrible shit in our food, water and cosmetics, many of its longterm effects still unknown, no need to add questionable amounts of medication unless your life depends on it (or that of people around you). How about society as a whole makes an effort to become more understanding of those with anxiety and depression and how to help, while those with anxiety try their best to consc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:54 PM
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I am not even speaking of casual sex. I am speaking of sex within a monogamous marriage with the partner you possibly might even want to have children with sooner or later anyway. Should those relationships still include no sex unless pregnancy is currently an acceptable scenario for the two? So if you want to have two kids, you'd have two phases in your life where you mayyyybe have lots of sex with your partner and that's it? (Vasectomies aren't always 100% safe, either.) And um ok. So since so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:43 PM
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I would like to speak about your first argument. Let's say women never had sex unless they wanted to have children with someone. How exactly would that work? If a woman kept her virginity until marriage, should she only have the option to leave her husband miserable without sex or risk pumping out babies all the time? And sure, this might not be such a bad scenario in a world where there is birth control at least. But a large number of pro-lifers are AGAINST birth control, while at the same time…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 11:39 AM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 11:10 AM
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So men who sleep around either before or within their relationships and call it "just sex" but want a virgin girlfriend are also hypocrites. Great that we've established that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 01:01 AM
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Same for a lot of RP men. "It means nothing if I have sex with a random hot woman, but if I have sex with my SO it's still more special" is exactly the same hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:57 AM
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The point is it's not hard to be born attractive. It may be RARE but it's not something that required effort of any sort on the kid's part, so it's not HARD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:54 AM
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I don't know, for me personally, the men that go beyond just acquaintances are guys I consider family. I can tell that they're not ugly but I'd personally never be sexually interested because they're like a brother or cousin to me. And the dynamic has to feel the same from their side for it to work. I guess people CAN be friends despite being super attracted to each other, but it depends on the person and I think it would require a lot of effort from both people involved and a lot of understandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:57 PM
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A whole lot of "cocky jerks" are nowhere near abusive. Some of the most abusive guys are the ones with the least suspicious reputations. As with many other traits, still waters run deep. Sociopaths would be better at hiding their asshole behavior until later, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 10:27 AM
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You guys are my new PPD OTP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:51 AM
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This is great advice and one hell of a positive outlook on life. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:47 AM
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Conservative in the sense of who they'd share it with. I think a lot of men would like an attractive Virgin who is entirely devoted and crazy attracted to them. But I think so would women. I doubt a typical "hot" guy with good personality needs to fuck around for his future wife to understand how attractive he is. Then again, some people on both sides might feel suffocated in that case if they themselves easily get the hots for a lot of people and don't feel equally devoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:36 AM
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I'd only ever want to be married to a man who thinks I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. And who hasn't fucked anyone besides me, but I guess the latter is a more rarely shared sentiment among women than the first lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:27 AM
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So being born rich is hard since you must be born to the right parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:14 AM
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Must be an extremely chill guy. My jealousy+crazy longing for fairness would never let that work out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:49 AM
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Well, it's not like you should have to aim to be ugly just so that you can make sure that people value your skills above all else. Looking attractive in a classy way at work is different from sleeping with your boss or jiggling your tits in his face all day to get a promotion. I do think my outlook sometimes almost makes me sabotage myself, I don't accept job offers that ask me to wear makeup for example and I often don't even dress particularly nicely for interviews, I feel bad when I apply to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:12 AM
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Thanks, that was an interesting read. Now I am curious though, do you believe that you do have a desire to procreate that you are actively fighting because it would inconvenience you or do you think you just do not have that particular desire at all? I agree that we shouldn't have to act according to our nature regardless of what it is, and that some people do follow it blindly. But sometimes that makes me question how much of that "nature" even still applies to those who are not following it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:55 AM
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Now I'm curious...how did he react to her number and that rule of hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:11 AM
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It just seems weird that an ideology (? For lack of a better word) that focuses so much on how we can't escape our nature at the same time says that you CAN escape your nature or actually have a desire completely against nature for example NOT to procreate. Along that logic can't it also happen perfectly well that a woman might have desires and preferences that do not align with how people used to be in a more primitive setting? I just generally always found it weird when people explained promis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:09 AM
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Oh, sorry, I didn't notice since it still worked as a logical reply. That's true, I know by now that I don't have to respect it. It's not like my lack of respect limits their choices anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 01:56 AM
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Yup. Trust me, most of us women who are serious about doing our shit WITHOUT using our bodies are just as pissed at that fact as you are. I'm so done with dumb hoes who literally have no talent other than having a fat ass and being willing to show it becoming famous and "fighting double standards for #feminism". Bitch, your whole career is a double standard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:12 PM
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Oh, I see. I guess at least that much is good then, that your whole career did not depend on that particular network. Though it's still crazy that those people would've known you and worked with you and just believe some woman's allegations so easily. Did they even know her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 10:57 PM
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Tbh, I think the situation you're asking about is pretty rare to begin with. Most women talking here didn't even have a boyfriend that turned red pill. I constantly do dumb shit but it doesn't make my husband turn red pill, God bless his heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:01 PM
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Congrats on the graduation! Sucks though that she dragged your reputation through the dirt like that, honestly, networking is so damn hard and to lose all that effort.... Are you trying to get back into the same type of work or looking elsewhere now that you graduated? Do the accusations come up when you apply somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:30 PM
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I have some male acquaintances but I barely interact with them. I don't have any exes. I do have some men in my life that I consider family even though we're not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:24 PM
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I thought that was the whole point. You'd be you, your brain, just in a woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:17 PM
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Those are normally not the women who stay virgins until marriage though. Of course the women who slept around themselves don't care if a guy did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:16 PM
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Well because most of the time female "sluts" and male "sluts" get along while virginal women who are super conservative about sex like me would rather marry a man who's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 10:03 AM
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I guess crazy assholes behave like crazy assholes regardless of what's between their legs. Though I rarely hear stories of MEN trying to force a pregnancy (in the west, at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:45 AM
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It seems like most of the men who want this kind of relationship don't mind if it's an arrangement like #3, and while I don't consider that a real relationship, either, those who view all relationships as basically trade contracts probably wouldn't have that issue. So I guess whether it's a successful relationship model depends on what the person or couple's definition of success or relationships is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:21 AM
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Lord. I'm sorry to hear that. Honestly, those fake accusations have to lead to more serious consequences for those who fabricate them. I'm tired of women being able to ruin a man's whole life and then basically being able to say "oopsie!" After she's found out and that's it. Did you get back on track with your education afterwards? Did at least people who knew you both personally believe you that SHE was at fault and lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:02 AM
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It just seems weird in a sexual strategy that otherwise tries to base itself so much on what you believe people's biological needs and natural strategies are, to largely avoid the main goal of those primitive human behaviors, which is reproduction. Or at least I always thought so. Sure, it also wouldn't make sense to raise children with a mother you don't trust, but on the other hand red pillers often lament the ways they were raised, often without proper father figures, but seem to rarely have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:48 AM
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Well, your mind would still be in there, so you wouldn't be that automatically. Also, NAWALT, though I doubt you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:55 AM
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Fair enough. Before the relationship starts, it's best to pay attention to red flags and basically make sure as much as possible that the other person is trustworthy. Once in the relationship, however, I think abundance mentality and not entirely trusting the other person are not as helpful as true devotion and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:35 AM
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I don't know, I literally can't even picture him beating me, ever, and so I can't really blame other people for trusting their partners maybe too much sometimes. Most people would rather not go into a relationship expecting the worst of the other person, actually I think if we all thought that way then TRP type lifestyles would be much more common. That's why I understand THAT part of red pill, because a lot of red pillers have been betrayed by women in one way or another and now they would rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:53 PM
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I've always wondered about that one. Isn't that counterproductive? Chad likely gets to reproduce at some point, you don't (you meaning red pillers who want vasectomies before having kids). Or is there some altruistic facet to the red pill where they'd rather have a next generation of mostly chads than pass on their own genes and witness more suffering of "lower tier men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:29 PM
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Welp, I'm in a foreign country and don't know anybody besides my husband or his family here, so too late for that I suppose lol. Then again, I've known him for 10 years, so I trust him. And I'm at least not financially dependent. As for the latter, I do think we can have an idea of how we might do in a specific situation. But you still never know. I mean, somebody might be going through much less than you or "nothing at all" and simply have chemical imbalances in their brain that make them react…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:13 PM
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Well, some people were hoping to beat a rigged game. Doesn't mean they're cowards. The system simply isn't working how it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:05 PM
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I don't think they're always entirely different things. Sometimes people take on all the other non-paid responsibilities because they trust that their partner will share what they are later able to earn thanks to one's support. Team mates can either have completely different tasks to take care of, or divide all of the same work 50/50, or be somewhere inbetween. That doesn't make them less of a team. And well, I'd like to think I wouldn't self-harm or commit suicide if I were depressed. But that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 10:48 PM
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In a loving relationship people think that they can let their guard down and function as a team. My dad would've never been able to educate himself if my mum had not sacrificed her education and taken care of the kids while he was studying. I don't think it has to go to that extreme but I don't see the point of a relationship if both people are just gonna be selfish messes and never put their partner's needs ahead of their own or make compromises. And yes, abuse seems worse, but that's our outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 10:34 PM
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Imho there's a much bigger difference between Bernie and Trump than there is between Trump and Hillary. So if anything, voting Bernie would mean taking a much more defined stance against Trump than voting Hillary would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 10:26 PM
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Again, the fear factor becomes much more of an issue if you know that the other person is also physically stronger than you or much higher in status (eg you're financially dependent on them), which happens more often to women. That doesn't mean that being an abusive asshole will make a woman happy or create a good relationship because "she stays after all". That's the same as romanticizing arranged marriages in places where divorce is not even an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 10:21 PM
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Exactly, I imagine that the isolation happens very slowly and often people don't notice until it's too late. There is quite a thin line between what is "controlling and abusive" and what is a valid concern. Often it is barely a nuance in how it is expressed. Example, some people might think my husband is controlling or abusive because he always advises me not to hang out alone anywhere with a guy (edit: family is a different story ofc). The difference is - he ADVISES, not DEMANDS, he doesn't thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 09:56 PM
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I agree with that. SOME of the fault lies with them if they stay long after the abusive person shows their true colors. However, I don't think it's their fault for not immediately guessing that the person they're dating right now and who is treating them well now will turn out to be abusive. My major point here is that it happens to both sexes, rather than being a one-sided "women go for jerks" phenomenon. Many of the people who openly might seem like jerks are actually good people towards their…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 09:34 PM
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Please don't do this. I'm Bluepill as all hell and neither would I ever support communism nor do I have a hard time understanding that sexually frustrated men might lash out sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:38 PM
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Well, first of all, sexual frustration is not the ONLY reason for crime, war and violence. Reasons such as hunger/poverty have been on the decline in the west, as has politicians' willingness to start wars instead of using communication through UN, EU and other organizations to solve problems. In the cases where sexual frustration COULD be a cause of violence, a lot of these young men now have porn or video games as outlets, aside from the fact that there are fewer young men in the west now to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:35 PM
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No. Demisexuality is not about what you CHOOSE to do. You can be a person with regular sexual attraction (allosexual) and still CHOOSE not to do hookups. Demisexuals don't choose to be demisexual, they just don't experience sexual attraction at all based on only physical appearance, they must build a strong bond before they see someone in a sexual light. If you can easily get aroused by looking at a stranger as long as they suit your preferences, you are not demisexual, whether you act on it or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:29 PM
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Why would a demisexual guy want anything else? Demisexual means he doesn't feel sexual attraction towards anyone unless they've already built a strong bond with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 06:54 PM
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As someone who often wears yoga pants - I wear them because I can't find pants that fit me comfortably. Most pants are too short for my legs so I hate shopping for them, can't even afford good ones, therefore I often wear leggings or skirts or dresses instead. It doesn't mean I want sexual attention at all. I only enjoy sexual attention from my husband and he never objectified me, because he only ever showed sexual interest after already showing romantic interest in my personality (we met online…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 08:13 AM
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I agree. Mostly because I think that people are not as great at lying to themselves as they'd like to be. Those people know that they are throwing someone who's had their back for a long time out the window for some "excitement". They just don't care, or feel entitled to the excitement because in both cases they pretend to be blind to the sacrifices their partner has made for them to come this far or severely underestimate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:23 AM
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Who said anything about celibate? I'd only not touch him if the doctor told me it might kill him or if HE didn't want it. But I do think there are other ways to support someone in a relationship, taking care of them in illness, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:52 PM
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Married men might to some extent live longer because many men won't go see a doctor unless their wife drags them to one, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:37 AM
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I appreciate seeing this coming from a red piller. I've said it before, I'll say it again, just because women aren't willing to use a cheese grater to scratch the itch doesn't mean the itch is not there. High drive does not automatically mean being attracted to many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:35 AM
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Pretty sure you're not serious, but damn. Well, if, God forbid, anything ever happened to my husband that made him weaker than me, I'd stay and support him, but I think most people would feel overwhelmed at the prospects of entering a relationship with someone who's already severely disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:10 AM
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Well, he'd have to be blown away by the slightest breeze to be significantly weaker than me so I don't think that would be an option. I am already "more intelligent" than my husband according to him, and I guess it might be true in an academic sense but it's not really something that lowers our quality of communication. I wouldn't date someone I truly consider "stupid" but stupidity, to me, manifests itself in ways very different from not having my level of education or whatever. I wouldn't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 11:36 PM
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I don't watch porn at all, or know the exact stats, so I wouldn't know. IME a lot of women like bigger men, not obese or weak (aka no muscle at all under the fat), just big, but I understand how my personal experience might not be enough for you. Just, if you've grown up like me, surrounded by couples of big men with skinny women, I guess it's safe to assume that it's at least a considerable enough niche?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 10:26 PM
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Well, as you just said, the Internet can be a bad reflection of what women are truly into as a lot of them might not even look at porn sites to begin with. I like bigger guys better than muscular ones and I know a lot of women who have similar preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 09:29 PM
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There's niches like that for hetero people, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 08:56 PM
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You've been posting some good stuff these days. (Not saying you didn't before, just that the posts in the last few days are the ones I noticed.) Insecurity is what holds a lot of people back, whether romantically or when it comes to their career or all types of other aspects in their life, and surely rejection feeds into insecurities, but it is often not the original source of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 06:35 AM
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Hm... Weird. I was gonna say I rarely meet women who are one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 12:58 AM
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What is average however is dependent on who is in the sample group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 10:31 AM
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Subjective would be my own opinion, not "how society is nowadays". If what used to be a five is now considered a seven because women became bigger or whatever, then that means that the bigger women are now the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 03:39 AM
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Then I might be a bad person to ask because I DO believe in "the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 10:40 PM
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Well, you "wait" and just do your thing until you meet a woman that is WORTH pursuing. Just like you can "wait" before going to college until you actually know what you're passionate about, but when you figure out that thing you'll still have to study before you get the degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 10:22 PM
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Try to live life as best as you can, do what you can to bring yourself your own happiness and maybe validation and experience coming from non-sexual sources, then you'll meet like-minded people sooner or later. Don't pursue a relationship for the sake of a relationship, pursue a woman because you want THAT woman and not just any woman who can tolerate you. That means including her personality, not just cause you think she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 10:01 PM
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Thank god for this post. Seriously, valuing someone doesn't mean you have to fuck all of them, I don't know why this sub seems to be implying shit like that pretty often. I've talked to homeless people, I've given or offered to buy them food, I even gave change a lot until recently I started questioning that approach cause one of the guys took my change and threw it on the road, at night, in the rain, no way for me to get it back. I'm pretty poor myself so that hurt. But I can't look at homeless…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:48 PM
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As I said below.... If they think by wait I mean sit on the couch until some hot woman rings their doorbell, then they're as dumb as someone reading the bible saying that "God will take care of you" and sitting down waiting for food to fall into their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:32 PM
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??? What I gave you is the objective average. And if HB7 is your objective average then that means that you don't even see the majority of women, making it your subjective perception. If we assume that attractivity has a halfway normal distribution then the average women would be 5s while 7s would be rather rare, 9s and 10s barely existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:06 PM
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Well I'm already married to someone so Duh not me. My husband however was an unkissed virgin until his mid-twenties and I actually LIKED that, go figure. But I guess it might be because he just didn't even want any woman before me. If he had tried on everybody and their mama and got rejected by all of them and THEN came to me obviously that's not what most women want. You never want someone who seems to want to be with you only because they want to be with literally ANYBODY.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:01 PM
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I never understood how anybody would think "wait for the right person" means they can sit in the basement and never talk to anybody until a good woman falls from the sky. That's like someone reading the part of the bible that says you don't need to worry cause God will take care of you and then just staying unemployed sitting on his ass cause you know, God will feed him and all that anyway. Maybe I don't understand cause I pursued the same person for years against all odds until it worked out. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 08:58 PM
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The average American woman, according to Google is 5'4 but weighs 166 pounds. That makes her overweight bordering on obese. (BMI 28.5, above 30 is obese.) I'm not sure whether that would still be the same number for women below 30 though. I would assume (hope?) they are fitter on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 08:52 AM
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She is probably over 200. Or at least over 180. Unless she's really tiny, like between 4-5 feet. I'm 5'10 and weigh 157. You can count my ribs if you look closely and my stomach is almost entirely flat unless I just ate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 02:45 AM
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Depends. I'd understand if the ones past age 25 or 30 get mad, but when you're 16-25 and already thinking that no one will ever love you, I think that's just throwing in the towel way too early. People who are different have a harder time finding friends, logically they will also have a harder time finding a partner. I'm sure for some it's very difficult even at a young age, like there was a guy here who was chronically ill, but that seems to not be the norm among them, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 02:29 AM
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Out of curiosity, where are you from? And can you post a pic of a woman that you'd think weighs 160 pounds by looking at her? I'm curious cause I weigh slightly less but most people think I weigh 110-120 and should eat more. Maybe it's cause people glorify being overweight these days idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 02:14 AM
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I have not once met any guy who is good at guessing women's weight just by looking tbh. So unless you're only into super short girls or great at guessing weight that seems like a system that wouldn't work for most men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 01:56 AM
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Welp... I always say most people just have to wait for the right person. But some incels get mad at that type of comment. I truly believe that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 01:38 AM
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I'd classify that first girl as above average. Some hollywood starlets look worse than her without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 01:34 AM
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My good friends are all straight females, so when a male acquaintance starts making moves on me I get terribly uncomfortable and don't know how to act towards him anymore. I'm married and pretty much asexual outside of my husband so that doesn't help either, I don't really understand attraction like that and I don't wanna give the guy any wrong ideas or hurt him. So I guess we're on opposite ends of the spectrum but with the same outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 10:54 PM
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I'm not entirely sure what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 09:54 AM
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On a similar note, I have noticed how everybody, as soon as they know I'm married, wants to know what my husband's job is. Most people who find out HE is married just wonder what I look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 04:19 AM
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I would like to be friends with some guys. But I don't want to be friends with anybody who wants to have sex with me. I don't befriend guys who approach me sexually, but the guys I try to befriend sometimes get sexual sooner or later and then the friendship ends before it even started. So that's why I don't really interact much with men outside family. I don't accept their help either though, It happens much more often that I help THEM, actually. With studies and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 02:46 AM
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I feel similarly to you. I would be kinda disgusted if my partner had slept with others before me. Like I'd be disgusted by a soggy nacho with God knows what kind of dips mixed all over it. Can't relate to wanting an "experienced guy" at all. I am happy my husband was a virgin. I don't condemn others for not thinking the same way, I know my view on it is extreme, but I don't think it's anything I could've ever fixed and luckily, I don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 02:30 AM
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It is more dangerous when it's the first child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 04:35 PM
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I have never cheated OR given a man a sexless relationship so you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 09:26 PM
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There. A smart man would either already have a prenup or go search for the best lawyer possible and get the papers signed before looking for another woman. It might actually make things more favorable towards him in the divorce, too. Cause he's the one who "tried to fix a loveless marriage but she wouldn't let it happen" instead of the "cheating asshole"....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 07:41 PM
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Well, it IS a matter of principle. My principle is that cheating is not acceptable regardless of what the circumstances are. I'm not victim blaming. That the court might victim blame is a completely seperate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 07:35 PM
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I'd always rather not sink to the other person's level. Just because THEY are acting in a dishonorable way doesn't mean I'd throw MY honor out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 06:18 PM
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If you married someone then you should know that fidelity is expected of you unless you had a different arrangement from the start with both people knowing. He could tell her that he'll seek it elsewhere if she's not interested, and If she's ok with it, that's not cheating. But she might also just be prompted to hand him the divorce papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:17 PM
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It works that way for me, apparently. I was dead set on him regardless of what he looked like as long as he wasn't lying to me about who he was as a person. If I had seen him in the street without knowing what his personality is, I don't know if I would've noticed him. I'm still not into anyone who looks LIKE him. I'm not really into any other look either. I'm just into HIM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:14 PM
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Agreed. Cheating is never ok imo. If things don't work out and you feel like the other person (in this case the wife) doesn't care enough about your happiness, leave and THEN bang whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:49 AM
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The "sexy nickname" bit would immediately end the friendship for me lol. I don't think I can be friends with someone who finds me sexually attractive in general though. I'm used to the comfort of having straight female friends who don't give me any of that trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:15 AM
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I never wanted to be with any other guy, including movie stars. I was in love with this guy only since age 12. I personally don't pride myself in dating someone who's not what most other women I know are into looks-wise, I pride myself in being with someone who I love Entirely as a person and not just based on something as fleeting as his looks or "status". And you seem to think that that's not enough to prove anything unless I personally thought he was completely hideous, which I'm telling you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:07 AM
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I don't know. The way I see it, the greatest thing about sex is making someone you love feel good. Therefore even making some compromises is no problem because your main point of enjoyment is that the other person is enjoying it and they feel the same about wanting YOU to enjoy it so.... And you're kind of confirming what I said, you had no idea what you liked before you had sex. So that means that your previous sexual encounters have shaped your preferences, and if you had always been with just…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 11:42 PM
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Do people develop kinks or preferences for "how hard the cock should be" without having sex or watching porn? Can't you communicate about the "rhythm" and switch it up and compromise? And um won't one person almost inevitably need more foreplay? Only thing I sorta see where you're coming from is libido. But even then, you know whether you're constantly horny or not even before having sex. And most times, unless it goes to extremes of being a sex addict or asexual, people can somehow meet in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 11:14 PM
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I will never understand that whole "we gotta figure out if we're sexually compatible first" argument.... If everybody waited and didn't consume tons of weird porn, wouldn't it be quite easy to just learn sexual compatibility with whoever you're otherwise compatible with? I mean isn't good sex mostly about communicating well with your partner and being attracted to them, both of which are things that you can figure out without actually having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 10:27 PM
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Well, I was an unkissed virgin before my husband and I think that's generally the best option. But I know that some girls fuck up in their teens and maybe are dumb enough to sleep with a guy after a short time in hopes that he might commit but then realize it was just a "casual thing" for the guy even though for her it wasn't supposed to be that, so next time she wants to wait instead. Or she could've been a total slut years ago, then been a nun for several years, then tell the next guy that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 10:17 PM
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Can't tell if you're serious or not lol. Either way, women would be pissed too if some dude told them that they're special and he loves them and all that but he goes on to fuck some other bitch the same day. I'm not sure why anybody is trying to defend this. Maybe some women realize they're not into casual stuff quickly and then I think it's ok to say you wanna wait next time, but if you're simultaneously fucking other guys? That's bullshit and the girls doing this know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 10:02 PM
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The real women who aren't sluts aren't gonna want to be with a guy who automatically categorizes them as a potential slut though, so while what you're describing is a safer way to assure that YOU'RE the one in control, it's also a self-fulfilling prophecy that the kind of women you'll attract will be the kind who easily could be potential sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:57 PM
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Eh, I never said I found fucking chads while making some poor dude wait logical at all, so I still don't know why you're telling me that. I'm just saying a woman who's a "slut for one man only" is not a slut by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:55 PM
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I'm saying that conventionally he'd not be considered particularly attractive, but I have a preference for his look. And of course there's more to him than the fact that we share some hobbies. He's not shallow, he's got the same core values as me, loyalty being the one I care about most, he doesn't care about other women whatsoever, I find him really funny and adorable even though most people would think his humor is wayyyy too sarcastic, he's very caring when it comes to his loved ones, and I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:53 PM
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I'm not sure what this question has to do with my post. Are you asking me? No, I don't fuck chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:45 PM
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Um, "being a slut for one person" equals not being a slut. A slut is a woman with many casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:09 AM
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That's so cool that you do fencing! I always thought it looked like such an elegant sport and Daaamn these people have crazy reflexes (my knowledge is based on seeing it on TV only so bear with me if I'm superficial as all hell with my assessment lol). Do you also just not feel attracted to people based on their looks only? I mean, unlike my friends I never just look at someone and think "he's so hot" or want them anywhere near me or whatever. I can COMPARE someone that is shown to me to the pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 10:46 PM
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Right? That's what I thought, too. Realistically, aren't most people 5s or close to that? And 10s would have to basically be near non-existent. That means most of the people that society considers "really hot" are likely 7-9.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 10:00 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you that most cases where either one or the other is a bit "traumatized" by the encounter comes from misunderstandings. I really wish there was a guide on how to have the right balance between being clear and not being a rude bitch, but since the amount of force in the rejection needed varies from guy to guy, I think often times women either just stick to being rude af regardless of whether the guy did nothing wrong (since the harsher rejection works on nearly everyone) or so …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 09:22 PM
1

Well, when "the rest of your life" is already much shorter, there's less time to get divorced lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:49 PM
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Well, women aren't rewarded much for virtuous behaviour. Now less than ever. In fact, the more you're willing to slut it up and dumb it down, the more likely you'll gather support among men and women, sometimes, ironically enough, even respect. Even female politicians mostly get comments about their fuckability or lack thereof regardless of how virtuous they may be. In fact, some women only ever become halfway relevant in politics BECAUSE they're "attractive for a female politician".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:29 PM
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Oh come on. 90% of what TRP says they want when describing a great girl for an LTR is exactly who I am. That's what makes it even funnier, cause all the statements you quoted above are the type of things I would say. Maybe your definition of "pretty" is different. If you're into plastic bimbo whores then idk why you're surprised that they're dumb or slutty or gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 05:50 PM
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I wasn't really picturing him at all? At first he was his words and the drawing he used in his profile pic to me (a drawing he made himself). He told me he was fat pretty early on. So eventually, in my mind, he was a faceless big guy wearing the type of clothes he told me he liked. I don't really find him feminine? He has soft, pretty features but they're manly in my eyes, I mean, you can clearly tell he's a guy by looking at him. And I do like features like that better than the square jaws and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 05:34 PM
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So you think/know sexual jealousy doesn't exist in chimps? That is a genuine question. I'm not saying we should act anything like that, I'm all for monogamy rather than any of that promiscuous mess, but to me that's regardless of what's our "nature". We live differently from how we were "naturally" supposed to anyway so nowadays when I see either men or women excuse their lack of self-discipline that leads to cheating and all that bs with "nature" I think it's ridiculous regardless of what our "…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 10:28 AM
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Attractive TO ME. According to TRP I shouldn't find him attractive because he's overweight and has a babyface and doesn't provide "resources or status". I don't feel sexual attraction to anybody based on just seeing them anyway because I'm weird, but honestly, I don't know how anybody could love someone and truly find them ugly. Wouldn't your love for them automatically make them beautiful in your eyes? I just know that he is not "conventionally attractive", cause people always approach us with …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 10:11 AM
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Well, when it comes to primates, who I imagine might not be behaving that differently from how humans originally used to (but it might not be the case), there tend to not be very many young females around who are ready to conceive at any given moment, so when that time comes, sure, the alpha would get her first, but basically everyone in the whole group would try to fuck the female at least once. Often weaker primates would corner her together to "rape" her if they are otherwise very low-rank an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 09:53 AM
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I fell in love with him before even knowing what he looks like. Now I PERSONALLY find him attractive as hell, but he looks basically like the opposite of everything hollywood deems "attractive" while I fit the bill pretty easily. Idc because the "muscular guy with harsh features" was never my thing to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:45 AM
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I'm married to a guy who commented on my anime fan art online. Does that count? I generally don't mind talking to guys who share my nerdy hobbies. Just the ones who try to hit on me sooner or later despite knowing I'm married, but that would piss me off regardless of what the guy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:20 AM
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This is a pretty relevant comment. Surely, there are cases in which women just call anybody who approaches them a creep as long as he's not attractive to them. Those women happen to be assholes. However, a lot of times someone becomes a "creep" only after women feel like they've extensively hinted that they're uncomfortable with the situation. That could still be THEIR mistake, because their hints might just not be clear enough, but at the same time, it's not like anybody enjoys harsh rejections…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:04 AM
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Honestly, I don't think it has much to do with women "not being capable of finding beta and omega men attractive", but more with the fact that most marriages back then weren't SUPPOSED to be truly about love or attraction anyway. Of course it's more difficult to be sexually satisfied in a marriage that to some extent was forced on you. For all we know a DIFFERENT guy, even if qualifying as "beta" in whichever way, could've been attractive to said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:54 AM
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Good Apple here then I suppose. I'm married to my first and only love and best friend and not interested in anyone else. I know some women are inconsistent, especially when they're young and confused, but come on... That doesn't mean you have to dismiss every opinion expressed by a woman anywhere with "y'all say this, but y'all do something else".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 12:00 AM
1

? A lot of the times I've seen that statement it wasn't even in a conversation with me at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 09:57 PM
1

Well they say it HERE, in ppd, which I suppose is not supposed to discuss male points of view only?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 09:51 PM
1

That's interesting. I think in my relationship it's the other way around. My husband spends money on more fun stuff while I spend nearly all my money on just groceries, laundry, transport, hygiene articles, Medicine etc. In the past two years I've bought one pair of pants and that was for work. We don't have kids yet but I honestly think he'll be the better nurturer. Although I do take good care of HIM, so who knows, maybe I'll do fine with kids, too. He's just a lot more patient than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 09:37 PM
1

Well then it's stated very one-sidedly often. People nowadays are taught to be selfish, putting anybody ahead of themselves is looked down upon, or worse, people will think whoever you put ahead of yourself must have enslaved or pussified you rather than recognizing it as a sign of devotion or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 09:11 PM
1

So I'm guessing you're the one who earns more or your wife is a stay-at-home mum. I've already had this conversation yesterday, but basically, I believe that while marriage for resources is still a widespread concept, it's mostly a choice nowadays, it's not how the dynamic HAS to be anymore. I personally don't see my marriage that way, my husband's "social status" or employment status or any of these things really don't influence my attraction to him whatsoever. All I want in return for sex is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 09:04 PM
1

....because it's impossible that a husband might actually ENJOY spending time and attention on his wife or that she might ENJOY having sex with him. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 08:43 PM
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Well, to be fair, a bunch of red pillers run around even on this sub saying women are good for nothing besides sex. So that might be where the impression came from. I do know that not all Red Pillers believe that, though, especially those who actually want an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 08:34 PM
1

:(((
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 03:39 AM
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I know what you mean. But happiness over someone else's happiness is part of what people don't learn anymore. My mum and grandma are the kinda women who basically thrive on caring for others, so I've witnessed it, but it seems uncommon or even looked down upon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:04 PM
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I think too many women are taught nowadays that if they do anything that is not just for their own happiness it means they are "spineless doormats submitting to the patriarchy". Of course a lot of them don't mind that cause it's easier to be selfish and only do things that give you instant gratification, but it's surely not a strategy that builds strong families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:20 PM
1

He'd probably come in the form of an army of enraged goats. Or a harmless looking old lady named Betty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:05 PM
2

In my experience many young women who are into men old enough to be their dads have serious daddy issues. Just warning guys in their 40s who go for girls in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:02 PM
2

........... It depresses me that being able to cook something or willing to cook anything at all is enough to make a woman stand out nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:59 PM
1

Well... For science?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:16 PM
1

I mean, I find him hot. But in other people's eyes? He gets high-fived in the street by random strangers when he's seen with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:08 PM
1

No. He's minimum wage so it'd be hard to earn less. For a while I actually made much more, but recently switched jobs. There have been times when he was unemployed and I was working, there have been times when I was unemployed and he was working, my attraction to him is not affected by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:56 PM
1

Lol no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:37 PM
1

That sounds great! Good luck with your novel! I won't ask what it's about cause there are some idea thieves online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:26 PM
2

If they perceive a guy who calls them "hambeasts" and "whales" as high value then at least I wouldn't feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:35 AM
9

Thanks for giving me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:14 AM
1

I believe if anything then the fact that we can't read a guy's mind often leads to wrong assumptions and inappropriate reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:11 AM
3

Mah lord gurl. That's dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:42 AM
3

thanks for cracking me up lmao for real
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:39 AM
4

What was she doing that impressed you that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:33 AM
8

Possible. I might pay too much attention to terpers' posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:13 AM
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Because then they could make an informed decision about whether they really want to sleep with someone who sees them that way and maybe decide not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:11 AM
4

Don't make this an us and you thing. I'm not all women, can't speak for all women, and you don't know me. Not all women who are into guys who are not conventionally attractive are not conventionally attractive themselves though, just look at all the cute girls online who are into skinny asian dudes etc. I'm cute too, my personality just scares people :). And as for "invisibility"... I have tried many times to be friends with short nerdy guys, cause we often have common interests, but a lot of gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:10 AM
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I'm only speaking based on what I see in these types of communities so my view may be skewed. Most guys here speak with quite a lot of disgust about less conventionally attractive women. But I am not ok with women speaking with disgust about less conventionally attractive men, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:49 AM
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I weep for humanity tbh. I especially weep for women who are willing to sleep with someone who calls them that. Do you ever call them that to their faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:43 AM
2

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EJVt8kUAm9Q
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:33 AM
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Well, it seems that they have a choice mostly between getting pumped and dumped by a non-Chad who finds them ugly and has no intention to commit or by a Chad who finds them ugly and has no intention to commit. Difficult decision tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:29 AM
4

That's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:26 AM
8

That's disgusting and sad. (Not cause the women are fat but cause they're referred to as "whales".) But that aside I'm not particularly serious about my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:02 AM
12

Got a little crush on Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 07:00 AM
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Shouldn't guys be mad at Chad for being such a low-standard ho then? Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:45 AM
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I guess according to TRP I am not a woman. I'd have more resources and opportunities without being married to my husband. I'm just happier enjoying his company and doing my best to make him happy. The only thing I want "in return" for having sex with him is him having sex with me. The only thing I want for my loyalty is his loyalty. I know that history is full of marriages like you described and they still exist in high numbers, but that is a choice that some people make, it's not how the dynami…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:39 AM
2

Any reasons why you're not a fan of cosplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:57 AM
5

This is a must-read for so many people tbh. Especially point 3 and 4. So many people trash talk their partners so badly in front of friends and it's not good. You likely don't tell them about every NICE thing he does and friends who only hear the bad parts will start resenting him and affect the relationship negatively. My confidante is my brother-in-law cause he's very close with my husband and I know rather than paint my husband as the devil he's more likely to give me some insight on what mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:46 AM
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Pill: Blue. Status: married, been together for 4 yrs 1: I agree about waiting with sex. If you are young and a virgin, choose wisely who you'll give your virginity to. At any age, expect commitment first. 2: If you have any exes and no ties like kids with them, don't stay friends. Don't get with guys who claim to be great friends with their exes, either. 3: Go for someone who shares your core values and has the same family goals as you. 4: Be honest. No need to play games. When within the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 02:12 AM
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Listen, I told you we can agree to disagree half a century ago. You are the one pushing this conversation. It's difficult to prove that "the one" is a naturally existing concept, but because I believe my husband is "the one" he beats those other 7 billion people by default IN MY EYES. If you believe tons of people are compatible with you, confirmation bias will help you feel assured in that stance. If you believe you've found your soulmate, confirmation bias will help you feel assured in that st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:09 PM
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We met online by being huge anime nerds. He commented on my fan art and I replied and we just started talking nearly every day from there. I'm still not sure if skill sets is the right way to describe it lol, probably not. But for our relationship to get to the point of marriage we basically took turns in pushing each other to get past our fears. He had trust issues and well I had to learn to be a bit more selfish and not worry so much about my parents or the future. In every day life I am basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 10:49 PM
1

Well, I can't prove god's existence, either. Doesn't mean I have to consider his non-existence when I strongly believe that a God does exist. That's what faith is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 08:13 PM
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That was surprisingly humorous. I like your writing style.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:51 AM
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Well, we've known and loved each other for 10 years but since we met online most people would consider the time we actually started dating 4 years ago. I think we're pretty equal in leading the relationship. We have very different skill sets (for lack of a better term) so sometimes I take over, sometimes him, other times it's a group effort, etc. I think some guys just look like they would make pretty women and among the women I know that's actually been talked about quite often lol. My husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:20 AM
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Well, he believes that I am the only woman in the world that he would ever want to be with, and that I am his soul mate, regardless of whether God exists or not. That's good enough and I knew that before we entered the relationship so I don't see it as a big expectation at this point. And maybe I like my guy conceited /shrug. I don't get why it's such a big deal for you. Some people believe in "the one". If you don't believe in it, that's cool, but truly proving it would be difficult and there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 10:49 PM
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I do! He's better than anything I could have ever dreamed of! And I used to say I'm lucky to have him, but he said that's not true because I'm his other half, so it's not just luck. Now I usually just say I'm happy to have him, probably describes it better. I haven't seen magic mike, but I sorta know what you mean, I often look at other women with envy or admiration (sometimes I look with envy at very feminine looking men.... Like why y'all skinnier and have nicer eyelashes than me wth???) while…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 10:31 PM
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Hm, you do have a point about the way I think usually being quite all-or-nothing. But tbh my husband is pretty much the same about that, so that works. All I expect from him is to feel the same about me and be loyal, which actually seems like less to me than what most others want their partners to live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 08:55 PM
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Nope. Though I've never seen any stripper irl (at least not while doing their job? Never know who passes you by in the street), but the ones in movies and such? Nah. I always think the way they look and move is corny as hell and it makes me cringe more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 08:52 PM
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Kudos to you for not cat calling! Do you think the beauty of women in general is inherently sexually attractive or just to you? Tbh I can find women very beautiful but nothing sexual crosses my mind. If anything it's like looking at a beautiful landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 07:45 PM
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I believe that it exists since I met him. I thought about it a lot. I did think at first it was impossible. I tried to run away from it because it scared me. Then life taught me better. Humans are dumb, I accept that there are things that don't make sense according to our science because it's like expecting a shimpanzee to explain a complex mathematical formula. We'll never be able to know and explain everything, but that doesn't make it non-existent or not true. Also, what benefit is there from…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 07:40 PM
1

Because we still do have free will. Those policemen chose to hurt people instead of do what's right. Similarly, I could choose to accept my soulmate and be devoted to him or run because it made things difficult. But see, I'd have to go into more detail to explain my worldview, I doubt you care, and I don't care whether you agree with me or not either way, so again, let's just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 07:14 PM
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lmao We can just agree to disagree. I believe God sent me here to love him and with how our lives went, that actually seems more plausible than that he's just another random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:57 PM
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We wear tank tops so there are no sweat stains because people give a woman more shit for sweating at all than a man. At least that's how my friends and I see it. We really don't wear that shit for men at all. I also never thought that shoulders could possibly get anyone aroused or distracted. They're about as sexy as an elbow imo lol which is not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:47 PM
1

That is sad. I know about cat callers being desperate like that but if that's nearly all men it's honestly very disappointing. It also seems like it would suck to be a man. I am very happy to not feel sexual attraction outside my SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:40 PM
1

I could meet every single person on the planet and they could never beat him. I've known him for 10 years and he's the only one I ever cared about that way. Aside from that I believe there is a reason why I don't meet the people I don't meet. I believe there is a reason why I got to know him instead. And it was unlikely enough considering we met online and he lived in a completely different place /shrug. Idk I'm one of those crazy people who believe in destiny and soulmates, so I really am sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:35 PM
1

Now I wonder if the numbers would be different when asked about wanting to hook up, not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:28 PM
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Well, actually they wanted sex with Scarlett Johansson and you were an acceptable substitute, unless of course you are vastly cuter than I expected. That's a little off-topic but... Who wants to be fucked just cause nobody better was around rn? Granted, I know women who do this shit, too, tell their boyfriends that if celeb X ever comes around, they're gonna cheat but..... I find that gross. Growing up I really believed people chose to be with the person that was their favourite out of all peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 08:41 AM
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Well, I understood that men wanted sex. I did not understand that they wanted sex with ME specifically. For older men, because they were much older and I thought why the hell would they be attracted to me when I'm just a kid and not sexy in any shape or form. For classmates, well, I was always a high-achiever and considered scary and mean and weird, never even had any male friends, when I first found male "friends" (~18) I got frustrated because they soon started hitting on me and I felt betraye…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 01:55 AM
2

Nope, I'm speaking one-itis, not that abundance mentality "it's just your turn" AWALT bs where you think your LTR will fuck you over any day and it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 01:15 AM
2

How would you explain the latter type of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 12:17 AM
1

I kinda know the feeling. Luckily I have a safe haven at home, but when I talk to people outside that circle or watch the news I really just wonder wtf is wrong with humanity most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 11:48 PM
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Agreed. It's all fun and games when you're young and independent and successful. When you're old and sick and your parents passed away, your siblings and friends have their own lives to worry about... Then being single and childless suddenly becomes much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 09:56 PM
1

Hm, I recently saw a study that said men with high n-count were more likely to cheat in marriage, but I don't have the link rn so maybe I'll dig that up later if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 06:23 PM
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I honestly don't think n-count has a much different meaning for men and women. That would mean assuming that every man if only given the chance would fuck whichever halfway attractive woman who lets him, therefore a man who has a low count must me "defective" and not attract women. A man with high standards and self-discipline won't fuck around just because a bunch of women are interested. I doubt I have low testosterone, for a woman I suppose my levels might actually be pretty high because my v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 06:11 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 02:32 AM
1

Ok and any rape and murder etc. is a result of human nature, doesn't mean we should accept it and do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 03:58 PM
1

I can see how that's annoying. Both the attention-seeking and not respecting what you told them. I don't know, maybe it's time to hang out in some different circles. Doesn't have to mean travelling or moving but even just trying to find new people to do any hobby you enjoy together or something. Might be harder if you live in a rural area or something though. It really depends, I don't think you HAVE to have women in your life but if you WANT to talk to some that have more than hot air in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 06:44 AM
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I seriously don't think a guy willing to seriously fuck a robot is any loss to the women worldwide anyway. But that's just me. Maybe it will lead to a beautiful love story like in chobits. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 06:32 AM
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I just googled that cause I'm not particularly up-to-date with that stuff but maybe that "queer" girl was bi? Cause the definition I just read said that anybody in the lgbt community can basically use it but I wouldn't know lol. What would you consider a hostile reaction? I'm kind of curious cause I have a hard time maintaining halfway normal interactions with male classmates lol, so it's interesting to hear from someone with the opposite problem. Have you told them you dislike the bragging? I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 05:55 AM
1

First of all, I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. I didn't mean to sound like I was trying to be a hero or something, I just have known quite a bunch of people who played with the thought at some point in time, and their lives actually did end up taking a better turn, even if of course people always go through some type of shit regardless. Either way, sorry if I sounded too dramatic. I'm assuming you're pretty young since you're in university? I can see why your health situation wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 05:30 AM
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I'll gladly let him have my sympathy so what's the problem? He was asked about his abusive ex, he replied with honesty because he wants to spread awareness and yes, that includes making people aware that MEN who are raped deserve SYMPATHY rather than being dismissed or told how lucky they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 03:56 AM
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How do you think it would impact you on a personal level? I'd rather die than be a prostitute. I'd rather scrub toilets for the rest of my life for a living, seriously. What would you tell a potential romantic partner? If I actually was dumb enough to do something like that? Well, I would want to know something like that before committing to someone, so I'd like to think I'd try to do the right thing and give the person a choice. But I can see why it's hard to admit to it, which is another reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 07:41 PM
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Hm. I don't tell college classmates about any problems other than whining about assignments and bad profs to each other. Were those girls people you were actually a little closer to? Did they let YOU ever talk about whatever YOU want to talk about? I mean it's normal to want to talk to a friend when there's a problem, and maybe they thought of you as a wise or non-judgmental type of person.... The problem is when it's completely one-sided and they overstep all boundaries you've set. But I can re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 07:11 PM
2

Are you sure? It's working fine for me still.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 01:08 PM
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Damn, your reply nearly made me tear up. First of all, I am so glad that you've found a new partner who actually cares about you. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to trust again after that kind of experience, so it's great to hear. I know it might be completely unqualified advice since I know nothing about your relationship, but I mean I've had a long distance relationship for a long while myself, and sort of was in your SO's position, though the reasons for his suffering were entirel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 01:05 PM
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I am so sorry I can't even imagine the horrors you've been through. People can be so fucking cruel. Was this recent? I know this is a stupid question but are you getting any help? It sounds like you didn't press charges...seriously, people need to stop thinking that sex with any woman can only ever be a blessing to a man's life, fuck, even when it's a conventionally hot teacher in her 30s and a little boy they try to make it seem like he "lucked out", fucking disgusting. I'm sorry, I know my wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 09:35 AM
1

Well, how old are you? Where do you meet most of the women you interact with? Why is it that most women you meet are older?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 09:19 AM
1

Well, I think you're free to not talk to them much if you don't want to, as long as you're not being super rude. I rarely speak to men outside of who I consider family, too, just for work or school and that kinda stuff. I'm polite and friendly but kinda distant with people outside of my loved ones in general and it's working well for me. No need to be best friends with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 06:26 AM
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I understand why you'd be skeptical, but she might not be lying. http://www.vasectomy-information.com/pregnancy-after-vasectomy/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 11:59 PM
1

I was thinking of cases where people murder or severely hurt someone for example to take revenge because that person e.g. Raped their child or the like. I can understand why someone would do that and don't think they'd deserve to go to jail and be punished like other violent criminals, or at least not as harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 10:06 PM
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I see the point you're making, but tbh if my husband or any of my close loved ones ever did anything like that my first assumption would be that they had a good reason, BECAUSE of the kind of people I know them as. Self-defense is not the only good reason imo though, which others might disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 09:40 PM
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I was with you up until "all while knowing you fuck other women". In that case I think she's a desperate doormat who doesn't know her own value. I do all the things you mentioned for a man who's LOYAL because that's a major part of him being the "right man". But then again I also don't care what other women think about my husband, unlike the type of woman who can only recognize a valuable man by the drool on some other woman's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 09:07 PM
1

Why can't an old person who probably has a lot of baggage themselves be with someone else who might have some? I especially find it ridiculous to expect a lower n-count than your own in a partner. If it naturally happens, ok, but to actually have it as a requirement seems hypocritical to me. I know purely sexual interest is natural but I don't experience it, therefore making it hard for me to relate tbh. That's why I find it interesting to hear what goes on in other people's minds. Again, I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 08:28 PM
1

So we agree that it wouldn't work on a woman like that? And I'm not sure but from some examples I've seen I think dread game is often advised even in situations where for all we know the woman might not be doing anything that really requires such an extreme response. I also think it's basically close to an unspoken ultimatum - "do what I want or else look at all my other options I'm willing to leave you for". Seems like a kind of tiring relationship for both partners if they can't achieve a comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 08:07 AM
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Well, for one, I am never interested in anything but friendship from men, the exception being my now husband, so that already makes it extremely awkward when I'm being approached for sexual reasons. I've had many experiences with men getting angry (yelling insults etc.) or creepy (following around, blocking the way...) even after a polite rejection so if a man approaches me on the street or on the train or something I usually already get nervous that this might repeat, but maybe they're not a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:56 AM
1

What about a woman who is 100% devoted to her man, would never do any equivalent of flirting with someone else etc herself, and recognizes his value without him playing any mind games or regardless of what random other women think. She would just interpret dread as him not valuing her the same way and get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:50 AM
1

"Unicorn" here, can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:40 AM
2

Well, as I said, I do think men have a higher drive on average, just not by all that much and obviously that also means there are many relationships where the woman has a higher drive than the man. Also, it seems more common for women to just not have sex if they are horny but not feeling attractive that day, even if their partner is willing and totally attractive to her. Especially on their periods or when pregnant/after birth etc. I'm not sure whether that's common for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:23 AM
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"Circles you move in"... Doesn't that just further prove that someone with the same "innate intelligence" or potential could grow up to score lower than someone else if given a different amount of opportunities based on e.g. being part of a different social class? That is the part that bugs me most, the fact that so many people just take IQ to mean a fixed number describing your innate intelligence.(Admittedly, most of the scientists involved with this stuff do not claim that, but people just se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:51 PM
1

I wasn't being sarcastic. Do whatever works for you cause the women who are easily freaked out over that stuff like me are probably in the minority. I still think it'd be ridiculous to believe all women wanna bang you, but on the other hand you believing that as a mantra for your own sake without actively forcing yourself on them won't hurt anyone, so eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:28 PM
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Ok, I will give you that they DO measure specific skills that are valuable in our current culture and therefore associated with intelligence. However, the problem is that a very large amount of people think that they measure someone's true innate intelligence and then base some hilariously dumb arguments on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:13 PM
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I kind of honestly think IQ tests are complete bullshit, and I did have a 130-something result when I last took one at 13 or so lmao. They seem like a way too biased way to determine intelligence and everybody claims to have high scores, and I don't think they're all lying since as I said, even mine was high, so I think maybe a lot of them just give you feel-good results, just like modern clothing sizes? Not sure. They were, however, racially and culturally biased from the start, so that adds to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 05:54 PM
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A lot of people are blessed with above average attractiveness AND intelligence I think? We tend to notice the exceptionally "ugly" exceptional geniuses more though. I call it the Susan Boyle effect: as a society, we seem majorly baffled whenever someone who goes against conventional beauty standards in almost every aspect is exceptionally good at ANYTHING really. It's kind of insulting really. People react to it like they react to a one legged man climbing Mount Everest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 05:32 PM
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I've read a few of your comments here and if you don't mind me butting in: you're talking about completely separate things here. Having a high or low sex drive and how many people you are attracted to are completely seperate things. High sex drive imo is mostly comparable to "how often do you get a really strong itch?" not to "would you be desperate enough to scratch that itch with a cheese grater?". You spoke above about how you think the sample here is biased because of "feminists who don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 05:17 PM
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I'd feel rather scared and uneasy interacting with someone who treats me like I secretly want to fuck them but I guess whatever makes y'all feel better. Maybe for every woman you terrify you get a bunch of others who love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:59 PM
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They're just hiding it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:28 PM
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I've actually heard many times that there is a correlation between attractiveness and intelligence, so that more attractive people also tended to be more intelligent. Example: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/201012/beautiful-people-really-are-more-intelligent However, I'm not sure how true this is so if anybody knows of more credible sources confirming this it would be much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:23 PM
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I have a lot of "RPesque" ideas because I happen to be rather conservative. Most of them I still hold. But the thing is that I believe in soulmates and true love and honestly don't think men and women are all that different in how they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:12 PM
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I don't think women have a MUCH weaker drive on average. They just know that often it makes more sense to take care of it yourself, cause often her orgasm requires a lot more work than a guy's. My theory at least /shrug. Also, being attracted to fewer people=\= lower drive, I see that misconception too often, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:45 AM
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Well, I think most BP people here agree that confidence is a good thing, just seems ridiculous and rather insulting to think someone wants to cheat on their partner with you just cause they glanced at you. I constantly stare at random people on the train while day dreaming and I don't even notice until much later /sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:20 AM
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She's a special snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:06 AM
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I've mostly seen thin woman and fat man in my life. Not obese or anything, just someone with a lot of belly. My parents and my husband and me are both like that. I like his belly so I think the BP answer is at least true for me. Ofc, if I saw an old fat man and a 20 year old blonde bimbo I'd be more inclined to think he might be rich, too, but I haven't really witnessed that besides on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:06 AM
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I do think there is a societal problem with people having the widespread misconception that a man's opinion on whether he wants to become a father or not doesn't matter. People seem to only consider the mother, as she is the one who has to carry it to term, but while that may be true, those 9 months are rather a small timespan compared to "being a parent for the rest of your life" or not, which affects both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:42 PM
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I have to say, I don't agree with the whole movement of calling morbidly obese people healthy and all, clearly THAT's not healthy but... My husband is overweight and I think a little bit of extra weight suits him. He'd be like a bear without fur without it. He's also healthier than me (based on test results from doctors, not just my perception). Better at sports and I eat like 5000000x more candy than him even though I'm slim af. So I think people are a bit unfair with their judgments sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:01 PM
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I think I'm kind of a bad person to answer the other questions, cause I'm weird. I don't drink. I think people should know their own limits and if you drink so much that you'll make out/sleep with literally anybody then that's your fault. The only truly predatory thing the guy can do is put a roofie in her cup without her knowledge or buy her more alcoholic drinks while claiming they're non-alcoholic, then proceed to touch her while she's passed the fuck out, which I don't think very many guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:49 PM
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I was a virgin before my husband. I'm not entirely sure what the question is, but I assume you're asking whether I knew what behaviors were attractive/what I enjoyed during my first time or not? Yes. We were both Virgins though and love each other so it doesn't matter if the start is clumsy, you can learn together you know. I don't believe in needing anything but friendships to figure out what kind of person you want to be with. I think if everybody waited until marriage, things would actually b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:22 PM
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Lmaoooo the "delusions" part reminds me of some guy on TRP claiming "he loves exchanging looks with women who are out with their beta boyfriends, he can see the desire in their eyes to get fucked by him real rough while the poor dude is right there" Like...Hun. What probably really happened: dude is looking at lady who's out with boyfriend. She notices, feels awkward af, smiles at him awkwardly to not be rude but keeps looking back just to make sure whether he stopped yet or nah. "OMFG SHE WANTS…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 09:51 PM
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"Stupider" and "more stupid" are both correct, as far as I know. Don't ask me why though, English is a weird language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 09:36 PM
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You can watch their stuff on YouTube, not sure if there is like a "premium" version anywhere else cause I'm a poor bum. But yeah, I recommend. Sometimes the "reporters" they send can be a bit dumb, but it's different ppl for nearly every topic so that doesn't take much away from it overall imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 09:12 PM
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You know, surprisingly they manage to document some of the weirdest shit like it's them talking bout the middle aged lady from across the street gardening on a Sunday. So yes, it might work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:46 AM
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Submit the idea to Vice, they even did a documentary on german grandpas who like to dress as female latex dolls so I doubt there's anything too bizarre or niche for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:41 AM
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"I'm happy and the way I did things worked for me and a bunch of others so all ideas attached to what I did are correct and proven as scientific truths!" Ok, and I prayed to be with my soulmate and now I am, and I'm happy being with someone I consider my other half and equal just like many others who did the same thing, so I have proven god is real and what I did and my ideas behind it are correct and universally true. I don't even think it's wrong to decide to USE TRP tools to make your life be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:35 AM
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This is a good comment. Plus what I guess turns a large amount of people away is the assumption that women aren't even capable of love or logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:41 AM
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You don't say, a guy is gonna meet fewer raging whores if he regularly attends church and doesn't go to drug fueled gang parties instead? I can't believe it. I thought these catholic girls were all sluts!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:50 AM
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I kind of have to agree with your sentiment. Plus a lot of the guys I've seen that look sorta like this also get drunk and party a lot around women who get drunk and party a lot. Plus he looks like he'd have the most time on his hands, as unlike the others he might not have such a demanding job or go to the gym all day errday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:36 AM
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Ok, I agree with you that men do not have a genetic predisposition to rape, I never said that. I said they are more likely to succeed if they try, but fair enough, I'm not more careful with my stuff around someone athletic just cause they could run away faster if they were a thief. On the other hand I'm nowhere near as afraid of someone stealing from me than of sexual abuse in general for obvious reasons I guess (and cause I'm a poor fuck, nobody will rob me lol). I am sorry for taking up so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:22 AM
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Well, those statistics do not prove that black people have a genetic disposition to commit violent crimes. Correlation vs. Causation. The U.S. has been systematically racist for a very long time so that minorities have been pushed into and are still more highly represented in the poor and less educated demographic that tends to be more violent in most countries of the world. This proves nothing about black people specifically in my eyes. Again, never spoke about "disproportionate crime statistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 04:58 AM
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Yeah, I disagree with women calling it victim-blaming when they're told to be cautious or basically hate the whole "teach men how not to rape!" Crowd. Because most men are not rapists and those who are know it's wrong, so all you can do is avoid being an easy target. I think you still do not entirely get my point though because unlike the black person, who again, in no way is more likely to be a thief than anyone else based on genetic disposition alone, a man is more likely than a woman to be se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 02:11 AM
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Hey, thanks for actually taking the time to reply! I guess I'll just follow your structure a bit so... 1: The way I see it, the issue is that the people you're talking about had a negative experience with a person that happens to be black, and end up equating black=thief or whatever, when really, there are factors such as prevalence of poverty in whichever area they are in and crowdedness that should dictate how careful they are about keeping their belongings close, and they wrongfully connected…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 12:10 AM
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I understand what point you are trying to make, however, I can't entirely agree on the comparison being appropriate. See, white people steal, too. In fact, there is no such thing as any believable source proving that black people have any genetic disposition that makes them more likely to steal than anybody else. The ladies you're talking about mostly don't even base it on prior experiences of being robbed by black people (not that this would make it ok), they just base it on a stereotype. It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 10:03 PM
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No to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 07:12 AM
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Haha, no worries I suffer from occasional blindness, too, it happens. If I was gonna let my crazy show immediately, I would say I didn't need to pick my husband because God did. But I'm assuming that is not the answer you're looking for lol. So... First of all, we met online and I loved him years before I even knew what he looked like vice versa, so he's clearly not shallow (that's already a huge plus) and we just naturally had an inexplicably strong connection that I never had with anyone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 06:05 AM
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As I said, I do not have children yet, so anything I can say about that is hypothetical, but I am pretty good at predicting my behaviors, generally. I am 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 11:41 PM
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I'm not denying that this happens. I cringe when people carelessly neglect their families to pursue their own dreams or get divorced over petty crap without thinking of how they have children and a long history with their spouse that they're throwing outside the window. Or parents who behave like friends only, not offering the support and guidance a parent should be giving to their child. My parents have always been huge examples of sacrificing their time, energy and money for us children and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 11:32 PM
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Lmao. I am not American. I perfectly fit the bill for what most RP men say they want in an LTR. I am a conservative, religious girl from a traditional culture who was an unkissed virgin before my husband and who is absolutely willing to self-sacrifice and stay by his side through good and bad, based on one condition: you better be fucking faithful to me and only me as I am to you. I am not hypergamous whatsoever by TRP definition so I don't need him to "keep frame", "lift" or any of that BS, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 10:52 PM
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Well I'm scared of men I don't know BY NOW because of all these terrible experiences. I used to be a naive, nice person who gave literally anybody a chance to be my friend. Then I moved from the countryside to the city. I thanked and still thank people for polite compliments ("you're beautiful", "you're pretty", "your hair is gorgeous", eyes, etc, if you're complimenting specific body parts it better not be anything below my neck cause "dat ass" or "nice tits" is certainly not polite to a strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 10:27 PM
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I beg to differ, I got married and totally became more interesting to people /hairflip. (Mostly cause they wonder why tf anybody would get married at 20 but still.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 09:55 PM
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Because it usually involves a complete stranger entirely overstepping the boundaries of what could possibly be considered polite or flattering of a complete stranger to say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 09:47 PM
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"By what reasoning is catcalling creepy"? Ok listen, it's 11 PM, my train is unexpectedly fucked up, I have to get off in a place several stops away from where I live, and a big, bulky, hella intimidating man, old enough to be my father probably, who has never seen me before, blocks my way out of nowhere to tell me that I should "come home with him so he can teach me how to squirt". How is that not fucking terrifying? And disrespectful and fucking creepy? Different story. Dude asks me for direct…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 09:35 PM
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They wouldn't need to "supplicate" in order to gain friendship if some of them didn't at some point start inappropriately hitting on all their female "friends" despite the fact that they know they are taken and/or not interested, making it much harder to trust any of the other guys who come around claiming to want "friendship".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 09:17 PM
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I think in a marriage your spouse should be more important to you than your children (and often yourself). Children will benefit more from parents who love each other and have a healthy relationship than from parents who put the children ahead of everyone including their spouse. In such a marriage infidelity would be unlikely to begin with, but yes, I consider infidelity from anybody completely unacceptable because I operate on a code of honor that would absolutely not tolerate that kind of betr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 09:10 PM
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You sound like the female version of a "nice guy". I'm sure the men don't flock to these women SPECIFICALLY because they are mean. But I don't advise faking a different personality, either. Just look in a different place maybe? Based on common interests etc? If you actually ever decide to still bother looking for an LTR, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 08:50 PM
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So you think infidelity should never be grounds for divorce? Is that how you see it when the woman is cheating, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 08:43 PM
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First of all, children aren't stupid. If your marriage is terrible they notice and often realize it's better if you part ways, too. Secondly, if your marriage is for the sake of the children only then it's already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 05:45 PM
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Ok, cool. Sorry, I should've probably read your other posts first but the suggestion made me immediately so uneasy that the response just poured right out of me. I do think your other suggestions could help, especially if you can introduce the guy to a friend who might like them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 06:24 AM
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Please, for the love of God, I hope NOBODY takes your advice about paying hookers on the down-low seriously! That seems so disrespectful. Can you imagine just how shattered the guy would be if he ever finds out? And you should never do something to someone you care about if you KNOW they'd be hella mad after finding out the truth, even if they might never find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 06:04 AM
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What women refer to as "nice guys" aren't actually nice, sensitive, good men who occasionally let their vulnerability show, they are dudes who become a part of your life under the pretense of just being friends or acquaintances - they're friendly to you, you're friendly to them, and all of a sudden they go batshit insane out of seemingly nowhere and clearly overstep the boundaries of what you're comfortable with, and wonder why it's not ok. Or even worse, they continue to be nice to you while yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 05:40 AM
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I think you have the right idea. Most people want a relationship in which they can openly communicate without fear and in which they feel like they and their opinions are valued, both partners should be able to put the other's needs ahead of their own every now and then and make compromises. The reason why some guys get cheated on, divorce raped, etc. is that they were the person who wasn't properly valued in the relationship, after applying TRP too religiously the woman will be the one in that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 04:50 AM
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I don't think anybody should seek out relationships with somebody who fetishizes them in such an unhealthy manner, basically getting off on ruining their health. Just look for someone who shares your interests or something. I think a lot of women are perfectly capable of finding a fat man sexy if it's the right guy, it's just usually not the fatness per se that initially attracts them. Edit: This is advice if you're looking for an LTR of course, I guess it wouldn't matter as much for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 04:24 AM
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Lmao not saying it's vital. But women wouldn't have the capacity to do it if it was completely useless in every aspect, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 10:53 AM
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To be honest, I think it is so sad to dismiss a valid, logical statement based on the "wrong" choice of prefix. People, not just women, seem to commonly use "I feel" as a colloquial way of expressing thoughts and from what I looked up it is correct to use it that way, just differently perceived by some people. It's like dismissing someone's statement entirely because at some point they used "literally" while meaning the opposite or whatever other oddities there are to the English language. I con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 06:31 AM
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Well... It would be nice if most guys were just happy with their hand as long as Mrs. Right is nowhere to be found but I think then this place wouldn't have as many incel related threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 04:10 AM
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Well, the way I understand it, they do end up feeling physically attracted to the person, but as a result of bonding with who they are as a person first. Therefore they might say they don't find him physically attractive, when truly they do find him physically attractive but he doesn't really fit the regular mold of "their type" aka doesn't look like the kinda guy they'd NORMALLY find physically attractive. Then there's also demisexuals who don't even HAVE that "type" or whatever and ONLY end up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 01:36 AM
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It's alright, thanks for your concern! I was just genuinely curious why that particular word caught their attention so I wish they had elaborated. (Tbh I didn't even know they were male. Aren't RPW here, too?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 01:10 AM
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What kind of women do red pillers go for? The ones you guys plate and the ones you consider ideal for an LTR seem to be very different types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:42 AM
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Wasn't there an article linked on TRP a bunch of times about how orgasms make it more likely for conception to occur?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:39 AM
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I would argue sex is a big deal to women but in a completely different manner. When I go outside for whatever reason, especially at night, I am more worried about getting raped than about "not getting laid". I'm in a relationship and I am not and never have been interested in sex with anyone else, and waited to have any physical contact with them for 5 years. So I know what it's like to be desperate for someone specific, but not for sex with just anybody who's moderately attractive or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:35 AM
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/sigh so onto googling I guess. You know, you're strange. You replied to a wall of text with nothing but a multiple-choice question for nuance of language, ignoring the rest of the content, and you won't give out the answers. Are you a teacher? Roflmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:46 PM
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So what would the difference in meaning in this case be to you? Or a native English speaker I guess if that is what you are? Now you're just worrying me that I've imitated a speech pattern without correctly understanding it thinking that it means something completely different than it maybe does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:28 PM
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Ok, I THINK. I am not sure what difference it makes tbh, I have seen TRP speak a lot about women using "I feel" too often showing how all they focus on are their emotions but tbh as somebody whose third language is English, I have experienced the two being used interchangeably by people of both sexes in this particular language. I never say "I feel" for "I think" in any other language but it sounds naturally interchangeable in English, is it not? And if not, what would you infer as the implied d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:14 PM
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Does that mean everyone is sort of solipsistic? I thought it was mostly a problem that women have according to red pill theory but I don't think I know any men who are able to truly relate to anything outside of their own frame of reference, either. I mean, maybe I misunderstood what I read, maybe the men I know are exceptions, or maybe it's rare in humans in general to not be solipsistic to some extent? I understand why many people don't want to have "oneitis" in case anything goes wrong, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 09:53 PM
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That's what I thought, too. There are people who are just not ok with porn. I never watch porn, wouldn't want to be with someone who does. I mean maybe it's true that she just didn't take care of him enough, but maybe she is just a genuinely possessive person who sees porn as a form of betrayal, maybe she's the kind of person who in a relationship is only Really attracted to her partner and can't understand how he actually gets off on that stuff. Is it really that weird to not be comfortable wit…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 07:50 AM
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I try my best to study and work hard so that I can have a career that brings in enough money for my husband to do whatever he wants. If that happens to be something that is not particularly profitable or if it's to be a stay-at-home dad eventually (we don't have kids yet) I will absolutely support that choice as long as he's happy with it. All I really care about is that If we do ever have a truly rough patch and we NEED two incomes to feed the kids and get them an education, I know that we will…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:26 AM
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I find both weird as hell but as long as neither I nor my partner is the one using these things idc what others do tbh, even if I don't understand the appeal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:10 AM
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I can absolutely not imagine being with a non-virgin. My husband was my first kiss, first time, and quite frankly my first time even truly experiencing sexual attraction. If he had ever touched a woman like that before me I would not be able to emotionally handle it, so I am extremely grateful that he was equally inexperienced before me. I know most people are not as lucky that things just work out with the very first person, but I don't know how people deal with it. If my husband had slept with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 06:55 AM
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That's around the same argument as do women wear makeup/provocative outfits for themselves or for others? Most of the time, it's a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 03:21 AM
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Men like fat on a woman cause she needs to survive a pregnancy in which having a few extra pounds will be helpful. Wide hips are also attractive because they show that she's more likely to safely give birth. Women are naturally structured to build up muscle less quickly than men do for a reason. Men are supposed to be strong to protect the woman and offspring, so fat sans any muscle isn't normally attractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 03:14 AM
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Well duh. To get a plastic bimbo you need to be a buff meathead or rich or both. I would've thought that this was common sense already.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 02:51 AM
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I was one, but like most others who fit this description I suppose, I married another conservative virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 02:15 AM
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It's not a moral choice to me. I've only ever felt sexually attracted to one person in my life. I can find people aesthetically appealing but it's more like an "oh, I like your hair color!" Type thing. When girls back in school spoke about the guys they found "hot" and what they'd like to do to them I had a hard time adding anything cause the thought of being touched by anyone like that was really repulsive to me. Therefore, most people thought I was asexual or gay or somehow traumatized from ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 01:15 AM
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The way you speak about her sounds about as disgusted as a woman speaking about her purely betabux husband. You feel like you SHOULD like her, but you really don't. Just let her go, for your AND her sake.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:19 PM
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As I've said in other posts before, I believe that TRP basically gives men a choice: keep looking for "the one", and know that you might never find her or she might not even exist for you. Or accept that there is a large population of women with higher degrees of hypergamy, who you can learn how to win over and even keep. It may take a lot of discipline, but you basically know what you have to do, and you know it will work out, while with the former option, you wouldn't. I don't think you can ha…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:01 PM
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The pill is around 99% safe. So out of a hundred women taking it correctly for a year, one is still likely to get pregnant. That adds up if you think about how many people use the pill only and no backup methods. Sure, sometimes women also take it late, forget, or purposely try to get pregnant but I am just reminding people that either way, no birth control is truly 100% safe. Sometimes a woman also develops a need for higher hormone concentrations in her pill over time, so her lower dosage pill…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:54 AM
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Please be aware also that even a woman who takes her birth control pills correctly can still get pregnant. Sometimes nature can fuck you over regardless. Better to always use condom PLUS pill or whatever she uses.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 02:16 AM
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Agreed. Especially if he really was her first. My husband was my first vice versa and God knows if he ever touched another woman it wouldn't end nicely. I believe most women with self-control want a man with self-control, unless they're into being cheated on or only pretending to have self-control and being sluts on the side.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:41 PM
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As I said, it doesn't matter to me what her mental state is. If she stopped physically growing and started only aging instead, getting less and less likely to bear a healthy child because of her age, then she is not a girl. And I think women WERE more mature at that age before society started telling them these lies that their "20s are an extension of their teens" etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 05:56 PM
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I don't use "lol" to negate a sentence, I don't think most people do, they just say what they really think but add "lol" in case someone gets pissed so they can say it was just a joke even if it wasn't, which I don't really do either. I thought it was ridiculous imagining a 31-y.o. Woman being referred to as a "girl", no matter what she acts like, hence laughing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 05:48 PM
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I never said he was not Bluepill, I just really like Quasimodo, he has always been one of my favourite disney characters. But that's what I'm saying, in those movies, the legitimately nice guy doesn't win. And even in many other Disney movies, the guy who wins is not necessarily portrayed as a nice person. He's just a rich, handsome prince. Technically, most of disney does tell you "be good-looking, rich, and kinda douchey to get the princess" the more I think about it....
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:07 AM
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Not true for "any disney movie"... Watch "beauty and the beast" - Belle chooses mean beast over the guy from the village who's just trying to make sure she's not being abused/isolated from her family/friends by the beast. Or "hunchback of notre dame" - Esmeralda doesn't want kind but deformed Quasimodo no matter how much he adores her and how nice he is, she goes with the "handsome blond soldier" guy. The latter still makes me salty lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:46 AM
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Can we please not call 31 year-old women "girls"? I feel like that's just another way of granting them no accountability for their actions. No matter how immature she may be, she is no longer a "girl" at 31 lol. Also, I'd understand if a woman tried it once and didn't like it, therefore never did it again, or if medical issues were involved, but anything else just shows that she is not as attracted to her current SO.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:42 AM
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Well, that is the point. Some men here seem to believe that AWALT is entirely true, when realistically, NAWALT. But that doesn't mean that those women who happen to not be hypergamous are these perfect unicorns or whatever. Nobody's perfect, and all relationships whether romantic or platonic ones have their own hurdles. It's a good precaution to act according to AWALT if you really wanna be safe. I'm pretty sure a woman who is hypergamous but doesn't really act on it is on average saner than you…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:30 PM
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Well, all rules have exceptions, so that alone would make me already conclude that NAWALT, even if I understand that ACTING as if AWALT applies without exception is much safer. If we define "AWALT" as referring to hypergamy, I do seem to know women who are not like that, but it's obviously difficult to verify that if I can't read their mind or watch them 24/7. So the only thing I can say with certainty is that I myself can't really relate to hypergamy, and am not necessarily drawn to "high SMV" …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:15 AM
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Those are valid points. I guess that I feel like the specific points I brought up would have been up to feminism to fix since they brought them about in the first place, entirely going against the actual definition - to make women equal in terms of political, social and economic issues. That should have never involved burdening men with more responsibilities and less rights in the first place, going by that definition. So yes, maybe those who had this original definition in mind should move on t…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 06:21 AM
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I am sorry, I don't know where the Scottsman reference comes from. I agree that feminism's results don't match the original idea, but sadly the same can be said for a lot of things including political concepts and religion. Does that change what the original idea was? That is a thing I genuinely wonder about. I thought it was great that some feminists now are at least also saying that they would like men to not be faced with ridicule for being vulnerable or having traditionally feminine interest…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 06:03 AM
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I think it is called "feminism" because initially women really were the ones who had less rights, and still do in some places. However, I will look into egalitarianism and see if that is a better way to describe myself, maybe that way I won't have to go into a long rant every time. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:54 PM
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No, I just think that my interpretation actually fits the definition of feminism while what most "feminists" practice doesn't, so why can't I call my purple purple just because others have decided that blue is now purple? If I was just trying to "fit in" I think I missed that train a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:40 PM
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I do think I'm a feminist, I just want actual equality that also acknowledges differences between the sexes and not women being treated superior to men. I think the feminists who constantly talk about equality and don't want to have any responsibilities assigned to them just for being female but then bitch to their SO that he doesn't buy enough flowers or is not good at fixing stuff around the house or whatever are being hypocrites and not really feminists. Women are not entitled to special trea…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:19 PM
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That's true. I just can't really imagine it to be honest, and that "it is my child" IS a condition imo. It's not unconditional. But I generally can't relate to the male love/female love theory entirely, so chances are I'm just an outlier of sorts. I think love always has conditions. There has to be something special about my SO compard to other people, IN MY EYES, for me to love them, sure, investment and common experiences cement that attachment but there has to be some initial thing that sets …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:24 AM
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I don't believe in truly unconditional love. Even for one's own children. My condition for loving my children will be that they will have my and my SO's DNA and that they pass it on in a respectable manner. Anything else and I will be disappointed tbh.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:12 AM
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It's honestly the only way things make sense to me based on my experiences. I look at how the world is right now and to a large extent it is scary to me what is going on between men and women and where our society is headed. I think this subreddit makes quite many valid points about many women and society. But some ideas expressed here are generalizations that are repeated for the sake of protection of the men here rather than for being absolutely true, I think. They are not necessarily the enti…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 07:36 AM
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As far as I know, according to research, transgenders have hormone levels no different from other people with the same biological sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 11:26 PM
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Exactly. I believe that the truth is that not all women are like that. But finding one of those, especially with the amount of women who PRETEND to be that type of woman, is extremely difficult. And if you do find her, the tactics that work on the more predictable women wouldn't necessarily work on her. Not that I think that there are women who will love a man "unconditionally", but she might have more honorable conditions. Common values, principles, etc. I don't believe in unconditional love fr…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 11:40 PM
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Hm. Are men and women really that different in that aspect? I've heard both parties in a couple proclaim that they'd make an exception "if this one celebrity came around and wanted them". Or do you think women are more likely to actually mean it while a lot of men just joke to not sound sappy? I personally never understood how anybody is ok with their LTR/Spouse saying or even thinking these types of things, but a lot of people of both genders seem fine with it so maybe it's just me. As for bein…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 01:02 PM
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So you think women lie on surveys because they don't want to ruin the image of women overall? Why? Wouldn't it benefit them if surveys say every other woman is on average a bigger slut than themselves? I think some women might lie because they're in denial about their own number (aka "this and that doesn't count"), but I doubt that many would do it to protect women as a group. As for the latter, why would I need to be attractive for women to show me that side? A lot of women have given me more i…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 07:12 AM
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That's true, as well. I can't think of any logical reason why the new "acceptable numbers" would be lower than before, other than the fact that a lot of times humanity does not operate logically anyway. I also do actually think most people would be honest in anonymous surveys or at least give their best estimate. As for the "secret sluts", well, I think that because a lot of TRP users were deceived in a former relationship, they might be more afraid of it and understandably have trust issues the…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:30 AM
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I agree with you. Although as for the "self report" a lot of people here have already said countless times that it is likely that some women would still instinctively rather not reveal the real number. But while I've had some extremely slutty classmates before, even the worst of them did not get past 5-10 different sexual partners before age 19/20 as far as I know. In my own "clique" the "sluttiest" girl had kissed a few guys, given a HJ to one, HJ+BJ to another and then had PIV for the first ti…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:37 AM
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I'm not exactly sure what the point of this exercise would be... I mean, if she's anything like this woman I would hope that readers of this subreddit in particular would notice it long before they even consider her for LTR let alone marriage. I doubt she is as good at hiding it as she might think. Your advice reads like "Imagine the person you wanna marry was not at all like the person you wanna marry, would you still wanna marry them?"... that makes no sense to me, unless I somehow misundersto…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:57 AM
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No, I just figured maybe there are a few people here who identify with similar ideas or who will question certain conclusions after reconsidering. There is plenty scientific evidence linking both women's AND men's promiscuity to all sorts of negative effects, and you are about as likely to go seek them all out and read them as I am to invest into reading the whole sidebar. Aside from the fact that I guess you can make statistics and studies to say pretty much anything you want, and you can manip…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 01:07 AM
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So your argument basically is "you backing up your opinions with personal experiences is invalid, because we have been backing up ours with our own experiences". Well ok then, logic. I actually agree with a lot of red pill, in the sense that I think modern feminism has been harmful to both genders, promiscuity is ruining people's ability to bond and build strong families, and people (both men AND women, maybe especially women) need to develop more of a drive for self-improvement and for effort i…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 11:32 PM
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Believe it or not, some ppl actually do think that. Ppl seem to think I missed out on shit because I married the first and only guy I was ever with. They automatically think it means you only forever have vanilla sex and are super boring. Truth is, I have no desire to "experiment" with anyone else if I can explore my sexuality with the man I love, it's probably more rewarding, a lot less awkward and less dangerous than trying to do it with random other men, plus I feel attracted to ONLY this man…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 11:14 PM
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Heeeell no. If you have a woman that doesn't even care about you cheating, then she never really loved you in the first place. If she is willing to share you then likely she only loves the lifestyle you provide to her. Or she's as "progressive" as that brainwashed guy in the OP. I would throw up my own guts and kill myself if I knew my husband fucked another woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 10:57 PM
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Damn, this is horrible... In some places rape accusations are treated as lies, even if the rape really happened, in most of the western world they are treated as the truth even if they're lies with no evidence... How about having some actual INVESTIGATIONS in both cases rather than deciding by your country's gender biases?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 10:30 PM
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I think that when you're with the right woman, your mind will relax and strive for self-improvement almost automatically, and so will hers. A good relationship imo is one in which you help each other grow as best as you can, not because you think the other will leave otherwise, but because you both constantly strive for each other's happiness. This can be hard to achieve nowadays, not necessarily because of some natural predisposition I think, but because society is teaching young women constant…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:55 AM
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Personally, I like to think since there are so many other "unnatural" behaviours that we follow either way because of modern society's standards and morals, there is no reason to excuse terrible sexual decisions using the same logic as we would in other apes. Yes, we are a type of animal. But we do not really live like the majority of animals in almost every other way possible, so why come up with the "animal" "nature" blah blah excuse everytime it comes to promiscuity and cheating? People are j…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:39 AM
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Agreed. I wouldn't be impressed by a guy who just because he gets attention, starts being promiscuous. Good quality women get attention all the time and still stay virgins for long or at least have a low partner count. A guy who reserves special affection for special people is much rarer, and much more impressive.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 11:46 PM
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I do have to agree that the U.S. seems more obsessed with blonde hair than Europe, excluding Southern Europe because a lot of men are thirsty for blondes there, too. I do not like it though. I do not receive help or nice gestures as portrayed here, for the most part I receive harrassment for being blonde. I don't want to dye my hair because I've always preferred a natural look and don't even wear makeup or style my hair at all, but I am scared to go outside alone sometimes because men follow me,…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 10:50 PM
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I guess it's kinda true. I normally can't remember shit, often times even about my own family and friends, but with my hubby I could basically quote whole conversations we've had over 7 years ago....
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:27 PM
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You really think that would help? If a lot of those ladies already don't care enough to learn about the risks that all kinds of contraception and promiscuity bear, among which are many diseases and also always a chance to get pregnant as well, or even if they do learn about it they don't care for the most part, why would talking about hypothetical future children change anything? They don't even care about themselves in this moment, they're not gonna care right now about a potential family that …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 10:27 PM
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^This. Like you know, some ladies ain't as interested in random hookups as y'all think. I took a year off to go abroad to a country I had always wanted to immigrate to, I worked as a server and cleaning lady, improved my Korean, went to songwriter meet-ups to find ppl to play music with, otherwise spent tons of time reading and watching lectures to figure out what I wanna study, and travelled a bit after saving up money. This whole time my only romantic interest was still the same guy I have bee…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 09:45 PM
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Lucky you, all Pakistani ladies I've met so far were really friendly and gorgeous! Again, wish you all the best~
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:05 PM
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Well, I guess if I define special as just a euphemism for abnormal or weird I'm more comfortable calling myself that. Is your lady Eastern European or eastern as in Asian? I only ask cause I'm the former, grew up most of my life in Western Europe though. I do think there is quite a difference in culture/upbringing between the two. I hope things go well with her for you! Thanks again for your time.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:18 AM
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Well, even if it is a first love experience I don't find it any less valid, considering I still never feel tempted or impressed by other men at all. I am actually annoyed by how many people keep telling me things are going to be different with age or whatever. I am not you, and I am married to this man, any doubt of yours in my vows is highly disrespectful (addressing a general second person now, not you specifically). My family has had generations of women getting married at age 20, and they're…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:26 AM
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I am 21. I have been in love with my husband since age 13, if that gives you any more perspective.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:38 AM
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I see. Thank you for your reply. I do feel like an exception just by reading about hypergamy, but at the same time It seems conceited to think that way... I don't feel like I'm special much, I guess I just found a person that is very special to me so it's not hard for me to be special for him. At the same time, I don't think I would be pursuing any men whatsoever if I had never met him, because I seriously feel asexual outside of our relationship, so I still can't imagine being hypergamous, but …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:28 AM
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Honestly, as much as I agree with a lot of RP ideas, AWALT is not one of them. Yes, I'm not perfect, I have issues with anxiety and if I'm put into a situation where my anxiety is triggered I become an asshole or a needy wreck, but I try to avoid that and if it does happen I apologize immediately once I've calmed down (which is usually pretty quickly). I also do not always understand other people's point of view and can be pretty stubborn, mostly because well, I'm pretty conservative so it is ha…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 05:04 PM
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Why did you decide to sleep with him before it was clearly stated that you love each other? I do not consider someone fully committed until they love someone. Honestly his coldness and the fact that he considers himself a sociopath along with his attitude towards animals are rather worrying as well. It may be way too far fetched but honestly as someone who's heard/read a fair share about serial killers and how their psychopathy first started showing early on in life this is pretty much the patte…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 11:28 PM
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My husband and I have survived very many months of ldr arrangements before I could immigrate to be with him, and it wasn't a struggle for either of us to stay committed. If you trust your lady, do not dump her. If she cheats on you in those 15 weeks, well, then she wasn't worth it in the first place, 15 weeks really aren't even much. My biggest struggle with my hubby being gone was that neither of us wanted to ever hang up on skype tbh, so yeah, if you're truly committed I wouldn't even know how…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 04:24 PM
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I agree with most of this post. I do not get the mindset of men who think that aiding a woman in cheating on her significant other has absolutely no moral implications on their part. I don't even take this shit from my female friends. Oh boohoo, you knew he was in a relationship from the start but now he's the asshole for hurting you by not leaving his girlfriend? No, the only victim here is the girlfriend, don't come crying to me. So if a guy get's fucked up by some girl's man after sleeping wi…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:58 PM
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I fell in love with a guy 7 years ago. Never got over it even when we hadn't seen each other for years later on. I (in my TEENS) had the mental presence to decide that going for what females and media would tell me was a solution ("meet other men and you will get over him") was not for me, and also unfair to whoever I could have potentially used to distract myself, considering I knew I was already taken, even if just emotionally. I ended up deciding I would go all in in terms of pursuing this on…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:22 PM
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To me personally the difference is the language used and what is complimented. I appreciate compliments regarding my smarts, skills and hard work (backhanded ones a la "you're smart...for a girl" not so much). The ones regarding looks are tricky. Telling someone they're beautiful or complimenting facial features, hair or whatever in a humble way are fine. Yelling about "dat ass" or how much you wanna "tap dat" isn't. Also I really do not appreciate when men somehow seemingly expect to get my num…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:46 PM
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