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To Reddit that means you’re a porn addict and just want a “bang maid”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 07:18 PM
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Be very direct but still fun. Ask why she is looking at you like that if she denies just let her deny it say that you just have imagined it then etc.
/r/seduction24/02/25 12:04 PM
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Good sassy is probably Russell Brand vibe. Whether a woman likes it or not depends on her. Depends if you’re chill or bitchy tbh, sassy can be uptight as well and that can be annoying to the people around you.
/r/seduction30/11/24 06:40 AM
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If you have a good job it will help you.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:47 AM
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Go with what you’re comfortable with then
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:41 PM
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Send a voice message instead. Depending on your age people might not do calls anymore. Older people might FaceTime so they don’t waste each others time on cat fishes.
/r/seduction13/06/24 09:43 PM
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“Hey you like coming to the gym? Haha, me too. You work out? Haha me too. Yea….”
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:25 AM
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Yea, no normal person has a normal conversation with 100% eye contact. You make eye contact when you say some stuff then you can look away when you say other stuff. You don’t even need to wait for the girl to drop it, you can look away then look back like a normal person. The only time when you’re supposed to go full on eye contact is when you’re really escalating and about to be physical soon.
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:11 PM
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Because it’s better than nothing. People need to cope while trying too. Help isn’t that straightforward and some people have no help. Just because someone is coping doesn’t mean they’re not getting help or trying their best. Cope is not a negative term, you have to cope with the problem even while you are trying to make things better, cause problems don’t go away immediately.
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:29 PM
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Actually loads of people do. Its a coping mechanism.
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:10 PM
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Yea, to a certain extent but it doesn’t matter all the time imo. Depends how comfortable you are with being uncomfortable as well lol.
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:42 PM
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That’s true, that’s why one of the most important things is to be comfortable with yourself. At that point small things like eye contact, voice tone become much less important.
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:21 PM
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What do you mean by “smell real attractiveness”?
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:04 PM
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Girls want sex too, if she likes you she’s gonna close an eye to accidental goofy shit you do. I’ve done things that I could tell made the girl visibly lose attraction, I notice it immediately and change my tone/body language and they act like the last 5 seconds never existed. Not sure if anyone else has noticed this.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:57 PM
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Start with women you already know, just dm them if you know them but don’t talk to them a lot. Like the gym, you’re gonna look like an idiot at the start, just keep going out with women, aim to have a good time but not solely for sex, but don’t act like their girlfriend either.
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:24 PM
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Some people do develop tunnel vision and get trapped in the “if I have enough muscles, my self esteem will fix itself” mentality though, nothing becomes enough, same with money or any hobby/purpose etc. That’s how you become a lonesome bodybuilder/rich geek. Actively work on your mental and social aspects as well.
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:41 AM
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And my bow
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:16 PM
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Agreed, I’d say that men find “intelligent”conversation that’s not within their scope of interest at that time boring too. I’m out to chill and have fun, when I’m gonna work or learn new things I’ll look for that info and ask around on my own time. If someone is interested in learning they’ll constantly ask you questions about that topic when they get the chance. Also sometimes people just spout facts and studies that they’ve read before for intelligent conversation or just keep giving advice wh…
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:22 PM
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How’s your social circle like
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:18 AM
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Half will find you mysterious half will find you socially awkward
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:52 AM
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Focus on having fun, be the “everyone is my friend” guy but with a basic level of respect, it’s hard to beat the fun but respectful guy that looks great. Everyone should feel safe and relaxed around you, guys and girls alike. The fun and spontaneous part will take care of the attraction aspect with women if you got your looks and style down already.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:09 PM
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And different energy levels. I’ve been told off by girls when I told them I’m way too tired to meet these days too. I really am, and if I do I won’t be a good date. I could, but I’d probably yawn the whole night and not be as engaging as I normally am and I don’t want to waste your time like that.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:47 AM
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It’s the easiest way to be hot that you can control.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:37 AM
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Step 1: Get really jacked and sexy. Step 2: flirt
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:03 PM
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Or mum
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:12 AM
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Allow me lace these lyrical doushes in your bushes
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:13 PM
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Tbh, having purpose actually made me want to have sex less so I can work more on it.
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:17 AM
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You have a great face. How’s your style like? How’s your body like, are you in the gym? Also watch this: https://youtu.be/stZN7F1orq8
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:03 AM
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Hi not interested in the nicest way possible, I’m Dad
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:27 PM
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Yea I’m currently trying to gain mass so I can fit that look. Currently still to small to really stand out with that look.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:18 AM
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What does the bad boy look consist of? How do I change my look to that?
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:26 AM
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So were the matches cause of the boost? I used to be able to get 300+ matches in about a year, but haven’t been able to recently, even with the same pics. I’m not sure if I tanked my elo as I didn’t talk to over 200+ of them that time. After I deleted and restarted my account I found it really tough to get matches, so far only 30+ in 2-3 months.
/r/seduction02/02/22 07:30 AM
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Sounds great but it’s total opposite of the advice I’ve been given (don’t pay for tinder unless you have 99+ likes). May I ask how many likes you had before you decided to pay for platinum and how much your matches improved?
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:01 AM
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Does platinum work if you’re not already getting 99+ likes? I’ve heard you should get that first before even thinking about paying for tinder
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:36 AM
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Same situation almost. Covid was really unfortunate timing wise for me.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:40 AM
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Make dinner and watch a movie at home
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:11 PM
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Which dinosaur
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:29 AM
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Bulk to 160lbs, earn more money
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:13 AM
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How do you plan on getting good pics?
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:14 PM
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No need to be beta. Just talk your friends up when you guys are in a group, never have individual contact eg. Text or meeting up without your friend. Don’t engage with her on social media. If she pushes the boundaries tell your friend first. After that, how the relationship with your friend turns out entirely depends on him.
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:04 AM
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Treat them like dudes.
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:52 AM
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Welcome
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:06 PM
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General advice: start with the gym and a job (any job that’s interests you, don’t be afraid to change it) , fix your teeth and skin, spend on a proper barber (one that talks you through it, try a few different ones) and to get a hairstyle that suits you. Dress acceptably. Hang out with different groups of friends, not just one, engage in small talk with people (anyone, cashiers, neighbours, old ladies, men). Reading is good, but I’ll rather do audiobooks cause you can do physical activities like…
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:40 PM
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It’s the weed, don’t worry.
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:37 PM
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That’s cool. Always good to have past exercise experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 07:49 AM
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I agree. He doesn’t even look impressive. Newbie gains and some muscle mass that he actually already had under all that fat. 4 months is realistic, and he looks 10 times better. Proves you don’t need to be in an aesthetic crew to improve your dating life (improve meaning better than now, not perfect or your “dream dating life”). It definitely would help, but for people less genetically gifted and unwilling to juice or have busy daily lives and many responsibilities, it gives hope.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 04:40 AM
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Any advice on how to treat acne or ice pick scars?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 09:38 AM
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Yea the strength benchmarks always confused me. Really stalled my progress cause I read that you're not supposed to switch to an intermediate programme before hitting those benchmarks.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 11:57 PM
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Awesome, cannabis still illegal here though, sadly. Does it just help with the pain or does it help energy levels as well? (eg. able to lift/intense exercise, work full time, have a good social life etc.) I would guess that it just helps with pain and sleep + appetite (which in turn helps energy levels maybe).
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:39 AM
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Hey thanks. By shrink MD do you mean psych? I have and they said I'm mentally fine. It's not like my condition is as bad as 7 years ago, I do have meds now and on a good day I'm probably 60% of a human being while on a bad day I feel like I'm running on 30% charge. Much better than last time where it used to feel like I'm on empty or at best 10%. Hopefully my condition does improve but I don't know what I can really do right now to improve my situation. I can't go balls to the wall working out, …
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:38 AM
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a lot of shit I need to get together What do you need to get together? No one can give you the right answer if they don't know where you're at currently. If you're 300lbs of fat, bad haircut, no job, no school, no degree then yea you need Option A. If you look decent (no need the perfect body), got an okay job (don't need to be the richest guy in the room), got good style, then go for B. If you don't know and you really want to have periods where you focus intensely on yourself, then I suggest d…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:00 AM
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If it drives you, go ahead and think about it. If it cripples you, don't compare. Do what you must to make your own life better. Earning $2000 a month is not as good as earning $10,000 a month, but it sure beats being depressed in your own room and not having a job. And who knows, once you get the $2000/month job you might have the confidence and experience to go for the $5000/month job.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:16 AM
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DGAF about the people that try to knock you off your purpose or try to influence you to do things you don't want to. Give a fuck about people that support you and the people that you respect and believe that they can help you reach your goal. You say you want to be the cool guy. What is the cool guy that you want to be? No one can be the cool guy in every single social circle or every single moment.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 11:47 AM
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Why be 3% when it’s a 5%er you wanna be, right babe?
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:13 AM
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How many rest days do you have now? Maybe you actually need to rest. Work with your body, not against it.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:20 PM
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Some people work on motivation, they get “pumped” go all out 150% effort for 2 weeks, tire themselves out and give up. It’s better to go 70% effort for an entire year. An important part of discipline is managing your fatigue and stress levels correctly. Take rest days, have fun, but not excessively, and always go back to your job. As you see yourself improve and progress, you’ll naturally get hooked on work.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:21 PM
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The dryness, although that might be the photo quality.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:51 AM
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The funniest prison workout vid is the one with kali muscle and the hodge twins
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:00 AM
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That's why he has no friends now and needs to find some.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:38 PM
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But try stretching for a month before leaving your house vs not doing that It's not very easy man. I can't stay home waiting for 1 month to leave the house after stretching. At that rate I'll only get to leave my house once a month.
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:06 AM
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Or fuck the puppy.
/r/seduction09/12/19 02:28 AM
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Jordan Peterson says to choose your sacrifice or it will choose you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjfClL6nogo From a comment on the video: "A man who procrastinates in his choosing will have his choice made for him by circumstance" -Hunter S. Thompson
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:24 PM
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Decide what you're going to monk mode about first. What is the specific goal?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 06:24 AM
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Cool, is your full sized planner like an A4 sized book? Do you write your to-do list in there too?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:45 PM
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This doubles as reference and record keeping for everything ranging from which girls I went out with when (and what I did with them) to workouts to things I need to do around the house just to plan my week (taking the trash to the dump, mowing, etc.) Curious to see what this record looks like/if you have a template for it. It sounds extremely detailed. Could you show a pic or screenshot? Or maybe an empty template if you don't want to post anything personal. What's the purpose of recording every…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:21 AM
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Starring Michael Cera
/r/askTRP12/07/19 03:55 AM
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Dress well and find a style that you like and fits you and makes you feel good about yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:59 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:55 AM
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How did you get into it? I have a cheap DSLR but I don’t use it much. Do you have to learn shutter speed and all that jazz?
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:53 AM
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Also casual sports or shit like rock climbing is good too. Learn to strum some chords on guitar. If you can learn to sing, great. Learn to cook. Find a hobby that makes you active and not some passive hobby like watching movies or playing video games.
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:00 AM
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Hit on her at the pool party and get her number there. But, is that girl so important? Wouldn’t it be better to have a good friend in OP if he’s a good person? If your neighbour is a good guy and is cool, wouldn’t it be better to have a good neighbour whom you’re bros with? You could learn from him, hang/work out with him, go to bars and get a great wingman, this will help you get more girls in the long run too.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:09 AM
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If you have low t levels find a doctor that will give you TRT instead of what a you plan to do now.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:59 PM
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Is stretching your vocal chords with vocal fry equivalent to tightening up to increase your range in the opposite direction? What do you suggest instead to increase range in the lower register? Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 08:43 AM
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Tbf this isn’t that bad advice. I’m against the regurgitation of mantra here too but lifting is like meditation to me. When you’re feeling extremely sad, go do that first, or any other form of meditation. Don’t need to lift heavy or kill it in them gym, just focus. Tackle and evaluate your feelings with a clear mind after that.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:02 AM
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Sounds like a plan. Make sure you re-evaluate everyone month to gauge if you’re progressing, even slightly, or if your routine is overworking you.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:19 AM
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Glad to see many in this sub talk sense. The reason why people think TRP is bad is because of people like him. Like what you said, he has no abundance mindset and he puts women on a pedestal, to the point you can’t even be a human being. Yes, if OP is still bawling his eyes daily 1 year from now, he does need to straighten up. But this just happened and it’s okay if he wants time to grieve. If he wants it, he will do it.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 10:35 PM
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Yea. People that don’t plan ahead and know when to move on to the next step. Yes you’ll never be 100% ready, but if you’re not at least 60-70% ready your chances of failing will be much higher. Failing isn’t bad, but if you keep failing again and again it’s time to look back and figure out where you’re going wrong. Always slow down and evaluate.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 11:48 PM
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What are examples of these big name certs you mention? Also what does tech consists of? Cybersecurity? Building/maintaining systems?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:43 PM
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It’s ok to slow down now and figure out what you want in life. If you keep looking and comparing with others you’ll always lose to someone. This can be good motivation, but if you’re too harsh on yourself you start to harm yourself. Not telling you to stop working fully, or stop improving yourself, I bet you’d massively regret it if you start to become a total slob and look back at all you had 5 years later, but it starts to become unhealthy competition when you’re in this state. Figure out what…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:13 AM
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Welcome, take care and all the best.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:38 AM
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I've gained 6.6lbs from my previous weight after cutting. Stopped all my vices. Got a better style in terms of clothes. Made a lot of friends and connections. Do you consider that your "monk mode"? How long did you do it for? Or are you looking to get into monk mode now? If you consider that your monk mode then it'll be good to take a break for awhile. We all need breaks from time to time, especially when you seem stressed/lost. IMO during monk mode I don't make it a priority to make friends and…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:42 AM
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For a few months, best months of my life. I achieved the point where I loved myself and DGAF about noone. I'm referring to physical, tangible improvements. eg. managed to finish your degree, managed to gain 10lbs and look muscular. What did you achieve then? What did you discipline yourself to do? This is important. Madman level of discipline must have helped you achieve something. Also, what's your current schedule like? In school daily? At work daily? If you're a student it's much easier to go…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:55 AM
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How long were you disciplined for and what did you achieve/improve on for that period of time? What are your vices? What bluepill traits do you find yourself developing? Also, what was your social life like before your disciplined period?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:41 AM
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Depends on what you want to achieve within that time. Any specific current short term goals?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:01 AM
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Yes, that’s why you don’t do it for too long. There is a trap whereby guys will stay in monk mode forever because they get too comfortable in it.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:06 AM
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Totally agree with you. A lot of people here have the mindset that men are right and women are wrong. That’s not true. This is human nature, we all look out for the best for ourselves, it’s normal. It’s just that divorce laws make it so much more in favour for women.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:41 AM
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Any links to how to learn to do this?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 11:06 PM
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Cool thanks. What about things you concentrate on later? What do they include? Things that you want to continue working on? Things you’re missing in your current lifestyle?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:36 AM
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Sounds like a cool idea. Any examples of what you write down? Do you write down even the most obnoxious things in your mind or is there a limit you stop at? Also how long does it usually take you in a day to do a journal? Thanks!
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:45 AM
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What career did you switch to after music?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:34 AM
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Thanks for putting the doctor & CEO thing into perspective. Indeed, most are older. path of managing people(emotional and social intelligence) , become very knowledgeable in your field of work I would suppose a CEO would be a balance/mix of the 2 above factors? I think things like being a salesman (real estate etc) would also be a mix of those. have a talent(music) I would suppose banking on this factor would be a bigger gamble than the previous 2 factors as well, since it has a lower demand (ta…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:31 PM
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Thanks, appreciate it.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:47 AM
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Cool thanks for your insight. What do you think people who aren’t brilliant enough to be a CEO or a doctor can do? It seems like jobs like that are either scarce or you have to be extremely brilliant in your field. Eg. Top real estate agent, sales person, tech whiz etc. even if you’re a business owner you’ve got to be very good at it too. (Average business owner probably won’t bring in anything comparable to a doctor or CEO)
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:45 AM
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Haha do I? As I said I’m asking for options to evaluate. Doesn’t mean I’ll give up the moment I see “2nd place”. I don’t see what’s wrong with not having your own business too, some people don’t want that. I understand your desire to want to be the best at everything, first place as you might put it, but some just want a peaceful life. I’m just asking for new perspective on how to balance this with the whole status thing. If your stance is starting your own business is the only way to live then …
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:56 AM
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Information/suggestions on jobs regarded as high status in general/ high paying would give me a starting point to evaluate my options. I might or might not take it, it’s just information that could possibly open a door that I’m not aware of yet. Don’t really need information on what kind of businesses to start as you can start a business doing almost anything as long as you find a market that feeds your needs (and vice versa). The job market is more limiting as it is what is offered to you. I’m …
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:42 AM
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Cool thanks
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:22 AM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:20 AM
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Yea I did mention other than having your own business in the title though, just to keep the discussion within jobs. I understand having your own successful business would be the best.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:20 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I do understand what you mean, but it seems like jobs contribute quite hugely to money and status (and income contributes to status too) and those things do contribute to the amount of freedom you can have. Maybe by asking this and getting more information I can find a happy medium between job satisfaction and a job with status/money. What if the field/job I love is one that is low paying and low status? That surely does affect the SMV concept that is taught in RP. Eg. A d…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:12 AM
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Cool all the best and hope things go well, how old are you?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:42 PM
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Damn that’s rough man, I would suggest you move to your grandparents. Are you able to change schools? Honestly changing schools would be a minor inconvenience. You might even do better in school and have a happier life for the next 2 years (and be able to develop better as a human being) without all that trouble around you.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:46 AM
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Where do you meet them in person? Clubs? Day game?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:15 AM
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Where do you meet them?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:14 AM
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Are you able to hit the gym? From what I've seen, there are many Paralympic Athletes without legs that look really attractive, more so than the average person. All the best.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:11 AM
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Keg press to train for those nights at the bar.
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