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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Revenge cheatingNeither of you love or respect each other other. You’re just scared to move on. Time to grow up you and your wife and most likely smart to divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Finally the "love" I had for her died. Just filled with angerOne day you’ll be laughing and totally over it. No sadness, no anger, no feelings whatsoever. Learn to heal forgive her and just not care it’s the best feeling in the world. Don’t want to give her any thought and energy anymore. Your mom was right to slap you lol but you got this brotha part of the process | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/26 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Them leaving is the best thing to ever happen to you 🙌You wouldn’t get to know your son if you were divorced? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/26 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Ex wife texting another guyYou answered your own question brotha. I’m fairly fresh in the divorce game myself and my ex wife tries to blur the lines as well. I just stay away because I’m trying to live my own life. I think you just realized it’s best she finds an uber or a ride home from someone else next time. You guys can’t move on being close and doing stiff like that. Otherwise you’ll encounter worse scenarios than that for sure. Shake it off focus on yourself and just practice being broken up fr no need for any of th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How to handle the giddinessHow could you be giddy still living in the same house? I say control yourself and focus on the divorce and getting out of there. A lot of bad things can still happen while you’re living together. One of you should really move out | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 01:17 AM |
| 16 | She downgradedBro you can’t be jealous of this fat loser kinda sad. Love yourself more it’s ok and doesn’t matter who she’s with after you. You clearly haven’t moved on and are hurt | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Emotional collapseDo your best but honestly bringing should take that much therapy to work. Things hurt when they don’t work out the way we planned. Take care of yourself but move out as soon ad you can and move on with your life. This isn’t living. Everyone deserves peace and joy and your only denying yourself these things by trying to make it work all these years with someone that has constantly pulled away from you. The most liberating feeling is to let go. It hurts but just let go and trust me don’t do some w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/26 06:50 AM |
| 15 | Birthday partiesThis is weird and unnecessary. Seriously having birthday parties together after all that? You know the answer and it’s non negotiable. No thank you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 04:01 PM |
| 3 | For any dad going through divorce who knows he really triedHonestly the most painful thing I lost in my divorce was my dog my Flower. A 6yo golden that chose me from the day we got her. I’m sure she’s sick and misses me too. One of the things I’ve had to go through silently that hurts the most. Divorce is fine and God bless all the men and anyone going through this. But going through it with grace, humility and self respect goes a long way. I’m Moving on and forward knowing I have my all to a very toxic narcissist of a woman. Guess what tho I’m not mad … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Found the affair yesterdayMy wife chatted a few years ago. Cried, begged and prayed we’d work things out. Terrible decision she’ll cheat again. Your wife has probably cheated multiple times. She just got caught finally . That’s not good for you, your kids or your wife. Everyone move on no need for that shit let her sleep with whoever. ✌🏿 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and young kidsIt’s hard but you gotta do it. I kicked the dirt on this as well should’ve divorced 3 years ago. Way more drama since then. Do it before you start fighting in front of the kids and they are a few years older. They’ll understand everything and it’s painful. Divorce isn’t the end of the world it’s honestly a new beginning. It’s a true blessing and I’m thankful I finally pulled the trigger lol my wife is insane but I wish her the best. Just not at the expense of my happiness no dice. Good luck to t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Can’t imagine myself ever being in a relationship againHonestly don’t do it bro. Divorced with no kids is totally different with kids. Just be glad you have a second chance at life and I’m with you I wouldn’t get married legally ever again. Too dangerous, expensive and just a mess in general | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How long to fight for a marriage? 3 years, no kidsGet a divorce brotha. It’s honestly the right path for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 10:28 PM |
| 7 | What was the point of it all?Perspective and attitude is everything. You’re alive and free to do whatever you want. Don’t dwell on any of that and don’t call her your wife anymore. It’s ok to have a successful happy life post divorce. What’s the point of being all down about it? Makes life miserable | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Ex-Wife has brought new boyfriend into our house and refuses to make him leave; Can I do anything?Guessing you’ve never been to jail. No woman is worth throwing your freedom away to be in nasty ass jail or prison | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 06:18 AM |
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