TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

RipleyxStarling Archive

View 2 posts and 39 comments by RipleyxStarling on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

Yeah I got it too and immediately reported it. Fuck that noise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:14 AM
3

thank you for being supportive. It means a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:49 PM
10

Youre absolutely correct. There is no reason for us to be in touch anymore. We were engaged once but not now and all I’m doing is enabling his ego and shitty behavior by speaking with him. You’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:23 PM
6

I’ve been guilty of this even recently. My messages weren’t to rehash his wrongs but to ask him to do right by the girl he has currently PREGNANT and to leave me alone. Begging him to be a decent man and leave me to move on and find someone who will respect and love me. He had his chance. He still pops up every few days to send me snaps of his day and tell me he wants to see me. When I say no, he’ll delete me, go silent and then pop up agaik a few days later. Rinse and repeat. I love him and def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:40 PM
11

If he disrupts your peace, he’s gotta GO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:08 PM
35

Anger: I’m being disrespected 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:47 PM
7

OT: That outfit it a fucking look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:46 PM
8

Girl it’s okay to have the feelings as long as you are loving yourself first. Don’t give him access. It’s okay to love someone and know they’re wrong for you. It’s okay to cry. Love yourself more than you ever loved him and don’t get played again. I’m here if you want to talk. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:32 PM
10

I had no clue it was a book before becoming a show. I’m definitely intrigued to read something from the point of view of a serial killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:22 PM
14

I mean it’s funny as hell. But yeah, I’m still deeply in love with not only a LVM but a genuinely horrible human being who has brought me nothing but pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:52 PM
24

I feel attacked 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:37 PM
8

You.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:31 PM
2

But you came out stronger. Not because of him but in spite of him. The gaslighting really threw me off too. Felt like I was insane. But now I know better. I’m proud you made it out, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:49 AM
6

Truth. They’ll push boundaries again and again and know you’ll always come back after each one is disrespected. One and done. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:35 PM
9

But you’re free now, love! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:47 PM
14

Love and respect for breaking the generational curse. ❤️ Im so sorry you went through abuse as a kid. It’s an awful, painful, confusing thing. I’m proud of you for finding yourself and a way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:45 PM
4

Thank you for saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:42 PM
35

This 💯. Fucker told me every single issue that came up in our relationship was my fault. Every abuse I suffered, every name called. I caused it. I found out recently he got another girl pregnant within 3 months of our engagement ending. Guess whose fault that was? Mine too. Fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:41 PM
37

That’s very valid and I’m sorry if this post triggered some really unpleasant stuff. The relationship I just got out of also altered the course of my life. I hope you’re doing better now and I’m proud of you for breaking the cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:39 PM
25

The worst part is I still love him. It’s so fresh. He got another girl pregnant within 3 months of calling off our engagement. I still love him. I don’t know why. I don’t forgive him. I won’t entertain him anymore. But I love him and likely always will. I just love myself more now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:36 PM
6

Thank you 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:33 PM
16

Thank you! I definitely will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:33 PM
52

Shit hit hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:12 PM
28

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ for growing, healing and being kind to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:29 PM
113

Totally. I was so beat down and I knew I didn’t deserve it but I was programmed to seek out this man’s validation. It was his design. I was also operating under the sunk cost fallacy. I put so much time into this relationship I had to make it work. I did horrible, degrading things to make this man happy and in the end I was still alone. He left me which hurt even worse. I didn’t get the strength to leave. He discarded me. And I’ve been trying to build myself up slowly piece by piece. But I know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:06 PM
3

Thank you for introducing me to her! I’m trying to mend a battered soul after a grueling two years with the first narcissist I ever had the displeasure of being in a relationship with and her videos are so so helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:03 PM
1

We were still in communication regularly. He claimed he wanted to live together again and fed me a bunch of bs that he wanted to grow with me. I’m very close with his family so they ended up telling me. He’s still trying to reach out even now but I’ve no contact and stonewall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:20 PM
5

I just read an outline of the book and burst into tears. Both of my parents were distant, my father was an abusive alcoholic and I learned at a very young age that if I did what he wanted, he’d give me attention. I never ever made the connection and it makes 100 percent sense and I feel like a child and so heartbroken rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:12 PM
4

Thank you for saying this. We tried a lot for a kid and it never happened. Thank God. But I definitely internalized it as some deficiency on my part. He’s an incredibly weak man and it’s so unfortunate because his family are lovely people and they loved me and I them. I don’t get to be apart of their amazing family anymore. I’m definitely happy they still have my back though and told me the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:10 PM
5

Thank you so much for reaching out. I’m so sorry you went this. The good news is he’s discarded me so many times, that I now know I can get through this. I can see the light at the other end but it’s definitely far away right now. Everything you explained felt like you were telling my story. It’s like an abuse playbook. I thought I was smarter and I was just as easily duped and pulled back in again and again and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:18 PM
14

Dude I had never been in a relationship with one before. I felt like I was insane. There was no winning. It was just lie after lie and manipulation and accusations. I never felt stable or safe with him. He isolated me from my family and friends and broke me down. He almost won. It was mental anguish. I can’t even explain how far lost I was and how hard it is to just not spend every day curled up in bed now crying. It’s been 3 months since the breakup. I let him back in briefly a month ago and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:15 PM
8

I’m trying really hard. I’ve learned that grounding myself and keeping myself. the present is best for me. If I’m not being mindful and present, I dwell bad. And thank you for responding! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:55 PM
36

I needed this too. Found out my narcissist ex fiancé got a new girl pregnant 3 months after calling off our engagement. He didn’t even have to balls to tell me himself. His sister told me. I need to let the fucking scrote go and love myself. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:21 PM
6

Funny Face is incredible! One of my favorites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:44 PM
2

Yeah. It’s just so pathetic. Like he thinks that’s a compliment? The most mediocre fucking man in existence thinks I’m a ***** but misses me? Well, aren’t I just the luckiest girl that ever lived? Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:28 PM
3

This guy cheated on me, emotionally abused me, gaslit me and then when I was a shell of the bubbly fun girl he originally fell for, he dumped me via text an hour into my shift at work. Looked through my phone records and found out he had been cheating on me, turned his phone off and began trying to rebuild my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:16 PM
3

Mine convinced me we were soulmates. Said all the right things. Once I was completely smitten with him and hooked, he started showing his true colors. Name calling, boundary pushing, gas lighting, cutting me off from friends and family, going through my phone. Just classic narcissistic abuse. And I was too far in. I will always have strong feelings for mine as well. And I know one day he’ll come crawling back. But I’m strong enough now to never fucking go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:27 AM
2

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we have the same god damn ex. I loved that man so god damn hard, the piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:21 AM
4

Same. I’m still get waves of shame and guilt and want to contact him and APOLOGIZE for him cheating on me, lying to me, calling me the most horrible names, gaslighting me, taking all my money, highs and lows of “you’re the one for me, I’m obsessed with you and love you until i die, I’ll never hurt you” to “you’re a stupid fucking idiot and i can’t stand you.” I’ll be fine for a few but he’s always in the back of my mind and then something will remind me of him and it’s like i can’t breathe. I ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:06 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter