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DiscussionRis-O/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:14 PM
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CMVRis-O/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:41 PM
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Question For WomenRis-O/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:40 PM
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DiscussionRis-O/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:24 PM
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It may be uncommon but I find it an easy and accurate grading system
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:26 PM
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I think what you say in that example you gave of your mom would definitely be true if she was like a 4 or higher. Looks play a part in it for women too but to a far lesser degree compared to men. But honestly I believe in anyone's ability to hit 5 or 6 through proper health, self care, and presentation We don't tend to use numerical scales in this sub and it is very arbitrary, but I definitely think there's some numbers at play here. r/ truerateme attempts to use a normal distribution based rank…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:14 PM
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To be fair they always had the option to go to a bar or public space in those times and get approached by men. But yes, it's was far less. And with social media and online dating, there is the matter of preselection, status, plays a bigger role, as do looks through the superficiality of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:22 PM
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I've been surprised to see how willing some women are to just dump their life and family problems on a dude they hardly know. Wouldn't have even crossed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:00 AM
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Or she's losing options and defaults to the backup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:06 AM
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I'll be honest, as a dude there's been a few times I've been lusted over and didn't enjoy it. Either it's a fat or crazy chick tryna eat you alive or women who will only be interested in sex. As with most things this can go both ways. Admittedly men in general are more horny and willing to get down and dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:09 PM
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Confident, capable, knowledgeable, respectable, stoic. Knowing how to handle awkward situations and act under pressure. Not being fazed by things which don't matter. I guess there are a lot of traits which can be attributed to it, masculinity is quite an abstract notion. What makes a man a man, and what makes some men more man than others? A lot of it is maturity I think. The more life experience and knowledge you have, the more you will naturally attain the above traits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:34 PM
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Not for me that's on some degen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:39 PM
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And you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:36 PM
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We humans can choose better and worse times for people to be born I find this deeply immoral. You can be born, you can be born, fuck you, you can be born... I see it as toying with human life and denying people the chance to experience the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:33 PM
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😂 still figuring that one out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:25 PM
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To me the being formed at conception deserves just as much respect as the adult human being they are supposed to be come
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:35 PM
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You make a good point. I could see how low self consciousness is attractive to women. It is deeply intertwined with confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:23 PM
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Ultimately you have to become handsome and masculine to maximise success in the game. Luckily even for a guy who wasn't dealt the best hand in this life, there are ways you can maximise your 'handsomeness' through proper grooming and self care, and become more masculine naturally as you mature
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:18 PM
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Like it or not he's rich, jacked, has fame and status, and doesn't struggle with getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:18 PM
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Everything alright back home? There's more to family than a name
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:42 PM
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Unfortunately strong LTR material seems hard to come by in this age range. A surprising amount of young women I dated in my early 20's only wanted to have sex and weren't looking for commitment, or not from me apparently. Pretty much the female equivalent of a fuckboy, I imagine a large part of it comes from social media and dating apps. But this is a great post with good responses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:37 PM
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My friends told me I looked too straight but I didn't believe that could be a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:04 PM
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Gay bars it is then lol. I've only ever tried to go one time, but wasn't let in. Had my id and everything, all the bouncers were brutal. Me and another guy in the group were told to buzz off, they were turning away so many people for no apparent reeason
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:57 PM
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For jokes I would totally act gay to slide in with a large group of women. Your story's hilarious and gives credence to the idea "Well you know... I have been getting more curious about the idea of being with a woman. But I think I'd be too scared to try it..." 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:47 PM
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I'd consider myself a pretty average dude, but I have quite a few things going for me. And yes, every now and then when I go out a woman will basically invite herself to my bed Part of it is I'd say I have good game knowledge and understand women pretty well. Self improvement is the main thing, max out your looks, body, money, and style. Learn social interaction and gain confidence through team based hobbies and hanging out in various social circles. Have a long term vision and goal you are work…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:37 PM
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Cuz you pretty and scary. And I may not be in the mood to talk to anyone either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:43 AM
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To the titular question, you would hope that you have become a better version of yourself which shouldn't be complained about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:42 PM
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I will be the provider. My wife will need to be there for the kids. I'm not letting anyone or anything but the two of us raise them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:27 PM
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Men literally pay for pussy. Like who’s denying that? People with some integrity I guess. I know I wouldn't fuck a woman just because she paid for it, neither would I cheat on a partner for any imaginary sum of money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:22 PM
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I'm definitely guilty of pretending I don't see women in my age range sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:31 PM
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Use it but don't pretend you don't have it, or that its not something advantageous to women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:39 AM
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I'm pretty sure more and more men have stopped cold approaching women in the past 5-10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:33 AM
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Oof lol. I also like how the men have a clean bell curve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:30 AM
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Lmao maybe they is why dating is so tough for me. Is it abnormal to be ready to settle down at 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:13 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:11 AM
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If she was providing value but is now unable to, that's a very different matter and love comes into play ideally. Love is sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:08 PM
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She doesn't sound like she's very into you and probably fooled around during the 'break'. LDRs are difficult. I would cut my losses and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:58 AM
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Check the post on my profile where I asked women for their preferred age range
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:29 AM
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It varies from person to person. But I would guess most red pill men desire monogamous love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:08 PM
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Yes, if a woman is unhappy with you for whatever reason her head will turn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:07 PM
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A lot of people think RP is some defined ruleset for how to treat and interact with women. That's not true at all, it's a thought train attempting to observe and understand the real world dynamics between men and women. If there's a game, there will be game knowledge which can be discussed and debated upon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:25 PM
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That's a good bit of banter. You have to tease them sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:10 PM
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He lays his feelings bare and allows himself to cry in times of distress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:07 PM
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In theory, but this guy also has status and supposedly money. You could make the argument that his looks played the largest part, but that's still within the teachings of the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:06 PM
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It demonstrates that being nice and open with your emotions isn't going to attract women. Being handsome, having a hot body, money, and status will
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:02 PM
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That's rough but at least you found out. The worst part of cheating to me is then stringing your partner along like nothing happened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:59 PM
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Where would you recommend to look for more mature relationship-minded women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:17 PM
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Dang I remember how tough dating women my age was at 20. Now at 24, they're the majority of my dating pool. It's funny how that works, I really couldn't compare to the older dudes at all when I was that age, but now I'm on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:30 AM
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Out of curiosity, what drew you to much older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:25 AM
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I meet women mostly via friend group, bars, house parties, and clubs, in that order
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:23 AM
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Funny thing is I'm not opposed to settling down! I never understood the hype for sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:19 AM
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I want a committed relationship if anything, not interested in wasting my time on casual sex with women who are only into me on the most superficial level. Is this the sexual objectification women often complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:02 AM
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I'm experiencing the maturity problem with younger women, which is why I'm not shy to approach slightly older women. Most girls below my age haven't figured out who they are, what they want, or how to be independent. They're overly invested in consumerism, pop culture, and social media. And heck, a lot of them don't even want anything except sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:37 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:02 PM
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I'm sure we tend to be more sprightly than the 40 y/o dudes ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:44 PM
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I'm the 23 y/o guy whose heart you shattered 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:39 PM
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These responses are making me feel somewhat better about myself lol. Not long I met a beautiful woman in a bar, she was very receptive when I went to talk to her. We had a good time chatting in the bar queue and she even bought me a drink of her own volition I was enchanted with her pretty face, bubbly personality, and mature aura. So naturally I asked for her number before I made my leave. But in return she asked me for my age, and said I was too young for her. She was 27 and I was 23 It's nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:30 PM
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Yes they are obviously lying lol. "It's for myself" yeah, it's for making yourself feel better from the increased attention and attraction from men. Women, especially as a swarm on the internet, are highly disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:14 AM
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I've seen many guys work around their disadvantages quite easily. Anyone who is healthy and has even a bit of fashion sense, grooming skill, and confidence can get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:27 PM
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You'd be surprised how easy it is to get pussy these days if you take half decent care of yourself. I'd say a good half of guys can and do find success
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:41 PM
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I'm a weird mix, women seem to find me decently attractive and I receive a good amount of opportunity to have sex, but I'm just not about the casual life. Never entered a relationship with a woman either, but I'm happy on my own for the time being
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:37 AM
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Guys do this too, but we're not going to lie and say a bro is handsome or hot when he's not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:28 PM
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No one's talking about picking fights except you mate 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:44 PM
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Dating anyone with BPD will not be a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:30 PM
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Only if you didn't like him that much lol. When women are unhappy they'll look for excuses to leave the man or cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:26 PM
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Compromises can be made if need be - don't go balls deep, keep fetishes to the Sunday, etc. Again I think if you like each other sufficiently it's not a huge deal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:20 PM
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You could call a hookup mutual co-masturbation - better than beating off on your own, that's why so many people do it regularly. Me, I'm quite solitary and would rather know and like the person first if I'm going to devote time and intimacy. To each their own I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:37 PM
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I'm of the belief that if you're sufficiently attracted to each other, are in love, and healthy, there's no reason the sex wouldn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:25 PM
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Makes sense. I can only speak on my experience and knowledge of dating women, but of course it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:40 PM
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A lot of women really just want everything without putting any work in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:59 PM
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It's merely parroting the training data...
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 10:24 PM
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Yeah, that's not great either. But, if these stats are based on BMI it's not accurate to compare between men and women at all. Remember the much higher muscle density, which will lead to higher BMI's at lower BF%s Anecdotally when I had an overweight BMI, I didn't actually look very fat. It's the same thing with bodybuilders, they too will have high BMIs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:00 PM
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Uh oh. That's why I really like Eastern European women, they're generally healthy, slim, beautiful, and more feminine (you know, like women were meant to be up until a decade ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:40 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't even entertain it unless she is ready to not only stop, but take all that shit down. Otherwise it's just not worth my time Shit like this is why I'm single and don't expect it to change anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:48 PM
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Mmh, don't worry bud, put in some effort and life will get better. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:28 PM
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I eat them if that's what you're into
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:07 PM
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I don't know about yours but mine married at 21 & 27, and still going strong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:06 PM
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At the very least, the higher it goes the easier it is to pick up on. The way she dresses, talks, flirts, social media, her opinions or lack thereof. Granted women tend to be pretty forthright with me, as they're usually not looking for an LTR in their early 20s anyway. I've met a decent amount of women who wanted to fuck first and ask questions later
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:13 PM
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Some happily married women will tell you that they found theirs. What I will say is, no one is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:06 AM
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Divorce rates are up now, and they're lower in more traditionalist countries than they are in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:04 AM
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She will screw this guy over in the long run, but hopefully he can utilise it as a learning experience. In this day and age, it's like a rite of passage for men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:48 AM
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Half these women think they can just get ran through, act like nothing ever happened, and then settle down with Prince Charming happily ever after. But even if she doesn't mention it, a 304 can be spotted from a mile away, by anyone with even a basic level of life and dating experience - it's written all over They also won't accept that most of the time, Prince Charming doesn't want a promiscuous life partner either, or just doesn't exist. At the end of the day, that's how we end up with the cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:42 AM
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Meanwhile half our parents where married at that age 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:33 AM
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Yup I lost all my hopeless romanticism the very first time I tried dating a girl who turned out to be a 304. Since then I've lost a lot of interest in dating women at all, but it's done wonders for self-improvement. If this guy is smart he'll use this as a learning experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:29 AM
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I already hang out with my guy friends when I can. But not even the bros can scratch the itch for a beautiful heterosexual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:21 PM
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And the 'good' women get whipped off the market in a jiffy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:59 PM
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I already have plenty good friends. I would like a female life partner at some point down the line. Maybe tomorrow, maybe in a few years, ideally before I hit my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:53 PM
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Where to start... my goal is to find a woman who bares as little resemblance of thought and behaviour to the typical woman as possible Selfishness, materialism, hypocrisy, hedonism, unkind, dishonest, lacking critical thought, paying too much heed to the opinions of others, seeing a partner as a utility or accessory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:38 AM
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The average Joe is in the gutter, and the RP is the only movement which cares or offers a helping hand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:11 PM
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I agree it happens on both sides (really the whole right vs left thing in America is artificially orchestrated in itself). That said I think it's rather obvious which side more commonly displays this behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:09 PM
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I disagree with Tate on a decent amount of points, but he talks about so many things, and hits the nail so many times, that it's a non-issue. I still like him, support him, and believe that those who wish to silence him do not want what's best for the average Joe, who is currently in the gutter. I have friends of many cultures, ethnicities, and backgrounds, because as opposed to hating each other for our differences, we appreciate our common ground (which there is always plenty of - we are all h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:51 PM
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Society has turned on men so badly that anyone who tries to help them is demonised, it's quite sad. But they can keep oinking and squealing, at the end of the day it just ends up helping spread Tate's message to more men who need to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:36 PM
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Not even close, it's crazy seeing women project all this shit onto RP men. Just today I've also seen, 'they're all abusive' and 'they don't think women should vote'. Yeah ok 👍 Most of us are just normal dudes wanting to find a suitable woman to give our love to. The red pill is about teaching men which women do or don't deserve that from us, because you better believe there are a lot of shitty women which must be avoided at all costs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:48 PM
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If I'm going to commit to a woman it's ride or die, us against the world, into old age, and for life (unless she cheats on me of course). It's the reason I've been single my whole life so far. I much prefer my solitude to 'just having fun' with someone I have no future with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:54 PM
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You'd be surprised at the amount of shit some of us guys will put up with, especially those who don't have many options or love their partner regardless. That said I won't assume anything, and wish good luck to your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:49 PM
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Most RP men aren't against women's voting rights, or their ability to work. To me traditionalism refers moreso to gender roles in the relationship. The woman selects me as a man she can trust and submit herself to. She's comfortable with me taking the lead on decision making in the relationship. She can work if she wants to, but not when kids come along. She's intelligent and reasonable, and is not going to start meaningless or unnecessary arguments I can provide for the both of us. This include…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:40 PM
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9 / 10 I simply don't have to ask. Red flags, dishonesty, emotional issues just speak for themselves. It's painfully obvious, unless the woman is putting overtime into acting pious That said if I were to commit to a woman, I would ask before said commitment takes place. How people don't do that perplexes me - aren't you supposed to know the person you're going to be with? A person's past quite literally comprises who they are and who they will be... every single memory and experience lived throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:54 AM
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That's very shitty I'm sorry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:41 PM
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Just because you want a relationship doesn't mean you're not promiscuous. Actions speak louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:14 PM
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If only you could ask for commitment before you put out...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:07 PM
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Why are you on this sub then, if you can't further the discussion just don't comment anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:35 PM
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It's a 2 way street. But this is the reason I couldn't marry someone I'm not head over heels for in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:45 PM
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For me depends how fat she is... whale territory is highly off putting but I don't mind a bit of chub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:36 PM
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There is no cut to make if a woman has disqualified you already
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:05 PM
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Let me give you some examples Last night I started chatting to a beautiful 27y/o woman at a bar. She liked me enough to reciprocate my flirting, and buy me a drink. When I asked for her contact she asked how old I was, guessing 22. I am 24. In the end she went back to her group and sadly, that was that About a week ago I met a 36y/o divorcee and single mother. We hung out in the same group for the whole night. When I tried to flirt with her she also asked me my age, and I guessed hers as 28 (low…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:58 PM
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Yes, they didn't like me because I was younger than them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:37 PM
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🤣 the amount of times I've been turned down for my age or treated like a child by older women. I'll stick with my experience on this one mate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:29 PM
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You'd be surprised how often men are told that drunk women cannot consent and so it's rape to sleep with them, even if they consent and you are drunk as well. One of the most egregious double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:06 PM
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ONS = rape, confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:02 PM
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Women like older men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:00 PM
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You might like r/truerateme
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:51 AM
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Yeah, love is dead in the modern dating scene. If you ever find a woman who doesn't care for impressing anyone but you, hold on to her for dear life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:55 PM
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Saying we hate women instead of arguing the point made, is so egregiously lazy. You should do better, this is a discussion sub, not a female circlejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:51 PM
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The pinnacle female figure is slim and lean with thick thighs, and large chest and booty. Best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:02 PM
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Idk, these days with social media women are telling on themselves crying about how they hate being single yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:05 PM
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Things certainly look bleak but I don't think the dating market can sustain these dynamics indefinitely. I have a feeling that women will eventually start to come back around to monogamy, but only time will tell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:54 PM
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That's reasonable - everyone should first be happy with themselves before getting into a relationship. You should love yourself before you love someone else, in my opinion. Otherwise both parties are set up for a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:49 PM
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That's just crazy... a single mum living with parents acting like that? That's a huge bullet dodged for you, and I feel bad for those kids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:43 PM
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Good for you. The question is whether you would be happier with a man who makes you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:53 PM
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I agree, that's the way life goes for a man. I'm already seeing a big difference compared to my early 20s. More confidence, better style, more money, better at grooming myself, more muscle, more independent. Overall objectively far more attractive They say women wait at the finish line and pick from the winners. I think this is largely true. That's why when I arrive at my finish line, I won't be open to the women my age who would have rejected me a couple of years back for not being good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:36 PM
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It is what it is. But it feels to me like love & romance is absolutely dead in this dating climate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:27 PM
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Only time will tell how it pans out for them. Good luck honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:21 PM
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Can't marry young when young women aren't wanting to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:16 PM
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Can confirm. I'm mid 20s, and trying to find an attractive lady who doesn't think like this, or monkey branch, or keep a 'roster', seems like an exercise in futility It's why I dropped out of dating altogether, and instead took the time to focus on myself. Best decision, but I'm still keeping my eyes open for a down to earth girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:05 PM
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No one is perfect. 10-20 years from now a lot of unhappy, lonely, and aging women will make this realisation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:59 PM
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It's much more difficult to have an attractive body as a man. A woman just needs to exist, and not be super fat. They don't need regular exercise, strength training, or a clean diet anywhere near as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:58 PM
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Funny thing is the woke agenda even goes one step further, where you're a bad and evil person if you don't date certain people. Fuck me, people who say this kind of shit unironically are all so childish and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:38 PM
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I call that one the cart before the horse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:35 PM
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Whatever works for you, even though I have my doubts that it will. Majority of famous relationships are all PR or publicity stunts anyway, a lot of things you see in media (I would even say most things) are simply not real. Even if they were, what are your odds of meeting and attracting a famous man? But I digress, like I said, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:50 AM
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What you see is extremely limited. Famous people are hardly an accurate representation of the dating market as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:01 PM
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The more options a man has the more he will vet out promiscuous women. Still, I imagine there are plenty men with no options who'd rather remain single than compromise or settle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:14 PM
-2

Bruh I already told you. Women don't like young men I don't expect you to understand if you were never a young man. But at least try your hand at English comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:05 AM
-3

Point is men and women age differently. Basically any woman will have left her best years behind at 30, whereas many men will still be in their prime at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:52 PM
-1

Women do not prefer older men; women like hot guys. Have yet to meet a single young woman who would pick a hot old guy over an equally hot young guy. Men get 'hotter' throughout their 20s. As a 20y/o going after women my age, I couldn't compete with the 25y/o guys. More time to mature, gain confidence, and get their shit together. Looks wise it's the same thing, it's like there's a second puberty in the mid 20s if you take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:35 PM
3

Romance is dead and women killed it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:55 AM
9

Enough said. It's highly off putting and I've dropped women because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:54 AM
2

Yeah but if it's an option then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:51 PM
1

You've got it twisted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:50 PM
1

What about don't work and take care of the house
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:48 PM
1

It's not wrong but height you can't control, so it's a shallower requirement than not being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:27 PM
1

Dating pretty women in their early 20s is a nightmare. I'd rather not date at all than date casually. You're looking to fuck around, I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:21 PM
2

Good topic. I agree with pretty much all your points
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:41 PM
1

I guess but I don't know how to feel about getting the least attention from women at my fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:40 PM
1

I didn't gain much muscle if any. I've always been relatively strong so cutting weight revealed a decent bit of definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:09 PM
3

Thank you. I would never interact with random kids even though I like them, for fear of being branded something I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:27 PM
2

I lost a bunch of weight and become a lot more attractive. More girls came on to me back then, than they do now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:02 PM
1

I'm in mid 20s and yes I will prefer women younger than me. Not a deal breaker though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:53 AM
1

That's what I'm on now, stopped chasing women and dating in general. I'll only speak to a woman if we're acquainted, or she speaks to me first, which doesn't happen too often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:28 AM
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Or women in their 20s are dating men in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:34 PM
29

If you look good sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:33 PM
1

A sweet verbal proclamation of love and loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:41 PM
1

Kind, caring, honest, loyal, intelligent, loving. Will make friends and go do stuff with me, but will just as happily cuddle all day. Allows me take the lead but speaks her mind, providing her perspective. Similar views on politics and spirituality. Likes long, sometimes meaningless discussions on abstract topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:00 PM
-1

Valid point good sir
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:24 AM
1

Pfff women call men boys all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:34 PM
1

Sadly true, women manipulate men far more commonly than the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:22 PM
0

🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:13 PM
2

Never have never will. I stopped approaching / making moves on / dating women for the time being anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:36 PM
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I'd pick the virgin woman either way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:20 AM
3

For one, I am a Bible-believing Christian. If the word of God doesn't recommend it, I trust that it is for good reason. Secondly, the thought of mindlessly fucking someone I don't care about, and don't want to be with long-term, just doesn't appeal to me. And I know if I did it once I would regret it, and it would open the flood gates to soullessly fucking many women while feeling dead inside. I prefer a personal, loving, and romantic connection over the act of sex itself, which is much harder t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:40 PM
3

Nooo lol I have to steer clear of the sunk cost fallacy on that one, I've been voluntarily celibate since I went to uni. I just hope the woman I settle down with will appreciate the effort in the end, because shit's hard sometimes (pun intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:40 PM
7

Ironically, not going for women makes many of them want you more, like a forbidden fruit. Just look after yourself (exercise and learn to groom), make some bread, have a social life, and be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:58 PM
3

RP men are not homogeneous. I probably don’t want the same woman as Reddit user #1123 or #8871 I like this, RP is not any particular thing. I would describe it as a set of independent ideas related to life as a man, which you can choose to believe and apply, or not. There are no rules, no leaders, no hierarchy. It's just a massive train of thought spurred by a global community of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:48 AM
2

Top 10% maybe, but the truth is, it's still going to be harder for a top 1% man to get laid on a whim than a below average woman. There are always leagues of desperate men willing to partake of a woman, even if she is fat or looks like a Halloween prop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:42 AM
2

You can say that but in reality knowing your worth, setting a standard, and being able to walk away from unfavourable relations shows much more confidence than letting a woman disrespect and walk all over you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:38 AM
2

Yeah being able to grow in your sexuality alongside a singular partner must be an amazing bonding experience (if there's sexual chemistry)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:36 AM
0

Eh. I often hear the trope that women are more attractive than men, but I don't think it holds water, even though I'm straight. The key here is to normalise for make up. You'd be surprised how natural they can make it and how much it improves their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:34 AM
10

This. I don't fuck around even though I have more than enough opportunity, out of belief in monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:24 AM
0

The post implies promiscuity. If the hot woman gets as much attention as she does it's reasonable to assume she's in her 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:22 AM
27

Tldr: liberal women are more likely to jump through hoops and perform mental gymnastics to justify cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:08 PM
0

When the settling comes after being ran through be dozens of men, the 'lucky guy' at the end is getting a very short end of the stick, and will likely regret it down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:09 PM
0

You say I'm wrong I say I'm right, either way don't let your girl near me or some cucking may occur. Well, you're ok with that so no holds barred right? Brb let me grab some lube and a bottle of pinot grigio
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:29 PM
0

Well, before we go in circles let's agree to disagree. But you are a cuck and I am the chad ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:57 AM
0

Claiming jealous & insecure is pathetic shaming language used by whores who don't want to be left out of relationships. For you to use it as a man suggests to me that you really are a cuck, or at the least a lapdog whipped into effeminacy by your woman Not everything in life is about fucking like a rabbit or being in a relationship. To me, the ability to turn away relations based on personal standards shows much more confidence in the self than doing otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:24 AM
3

Different strokes for different folks. To me that's not a healthy relationship and you're getting cucked, but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:37 AM
3

Saying you're not jealous or insecure on Reddit won't get you laid IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:00 AM
1

That should be controlled in this hypothetical, otherwise it's pretty useless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:58 AM
3

Don't forget r/ Advice That is no advice sub, it's blatant leftist indoctrination
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 09:57 AM
2

Call me conspiratorial, but picture this: you are a member of the world's elite. Money is no object as you can source and print it freely. So what more do you want? Power and control. What's the best way to exert power and control over the common people? Make them confused, scared, divided, and have them fight it out amongst themselves. Destroy family bonds, twist reality itself, and distract them from anything else you may want to do So with your infinite money you reach out to executives of al…
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 09:53 AM
2

Idk lil bro, I'm cool as a cucumber. When I'm not, rage is an energy for driving change
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:35 PM
7

Right, you're lucky to have even one friend. A lot of people think they have friends when really they have acquaintances at best and snakes at worst
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:56 PM
2

I've turned away sex and dating a good few times, out of principle. I don't like the concept of 'test driving' people, so if I immediately know something isn't going to work long-term, then I'm not interested in anything short-term. Those are my values I'm in my mid-20's now and quite unsure of how women perceive me for this. At the end of the day, the type of woman I'm looking for wouldn't view my lack of experience as a bad thing, but I feel I may be single for a while yet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:48 PM
1

What if the man is voluntarily celibate because he hasn't met any one he wants to go long-term with, and isn't interested in short-term stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:37 PM
0

Meth is fun too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:23 AM
13

No one's stopping you, just don't be surprised if some don't want a relationship from you after the fact. Although a whole lot less women care about this than men
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 09:58 PM
3

The echo chamber to rule all echo chambers
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 06:51 PM
1

Take it from me, as someone who hangs out in a lot of RP circles. The only problem is marriage is a huge liability for men, and few women are marriage material in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:46 PM
1

You can tell yourself that, but you are deluded. Most red-pillers want a wife and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:24 PM
3

/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:22 PM
2

I know it's probably somewhat an exception to the rule, but I've turned down quite a lot of sex from attractive women as a single man. It is just self-control and I won't settle for a woman who couldn't do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:56 AM
0

Shoots far out of her league. Complains about men as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:37 PM
0

I think there are two types of rage. Outwardly manifested rage is for the most part a very fleeting emotion. Anyone can snap, but most will only sustain it for a couple of moments. Those who throw tantrums for extended periods are immature and should be avoided. Internal rage is bottled within, and doesn't interfere with decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:30 AM
0

A successful man isn't going to care for a woman's career, wealth, or status. The common example is he would take the poor feminine waitress over the rich masculine businesswoman, anyday of the week. Personally, it's no contest. At that point all you want from a woman is love, loyalty, companionship, and a pretty face. Otherwise, might as well stay single. You already have money and a career, and you can enjoy the upsides of freedom, solitude, and peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:17 AM
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I believe that by seeking out men with better careers / bigger salaries (hypergamy), most women are inevitably skewing their dating pool toward more logical men. I'm not one to call myself logical but I love the concept and have studied it in academia. What I will say is you could never catch me bitching at a woman about something trivial, if something pisses me off there has to be some reason that I can articulate. I couldn't settle for a woman who will nag me over trivial / meaningless / petty…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:20 AM
-3

Men are moreso driven by logic and reality, whereas women are moreso driven by their emotions. You tell me how true you find this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:02 AM
0

What do you want to be protected from? What do you fear most when you wallow in the cold dark, or walk through life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:53 AM
3

Keep that mindset, I'm here to tell you - we don't care. There are enough women willing to team up with a man who takes the lead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:46 AM
-1

My ideal woman is intelligent and rational enough to provide her input on all our matters, but respects and trusts my decision making enough to follow my lead. I call the shots based on what's best for both of us, try my best to fulfil all your needs and wants, and protect you with my life. You stay loyal and faithful, support me, and keep my spirit strong I think that's love which goes both ways. A woman could either drain me of my life force and make me miserable, or have me wake up with the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:38 AM
3

The duality of woman lies in not only the intersection, but the women who shout 'don't objectify' to men, whilst supporting female sex workers as strong empowered queens. That is a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:21 PM
2

The woman in set A shouldn't only talk shit about men, but also the women in set B. It's not fair to rag on men's sexual proclivities whilst ignoring the women who satisfy them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:11 PM
2

Or rational discussion. Even the 6 women who can do it will agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:50 PM
-1

You want him to post one of the millions of OF posts? Pretty sure it'd get banned here Sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:41 PM
10

Whilst a lot of women complain about women's sexual objectification, there are a lot of women who sexually objectify themselves The duality of woman. The worst would be one woman doing both based on the scenario to benefit her. For example using OF to get money, then 'don't objectify me' once she stops making money and can't find a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:40 PM
0

You picked the wrong guy to say this to. I've turned down sex from far more attractive women in my time. Her I wouldn't have to think twice about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:34 PM
-2

Breh she has the build of a sack of marshmallows. You don't need to be a virgin incel to recognise that truth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
5

Just don't go saying 'men are trash' when your delusions don't match reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:01 PM
1

2 sides of the same coin - bullshit over reality, kick and scream, no civil discussion, feelings over truth. I also think the whole right vs left thing in America is manufactured for division, with the left prone to receiving programming from society, media, and the government Sad state the world is in, it can't go down this path forever. I wholly believe it comes to an end within the next few centuries, albeit this is easy to believe as a Christian man
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/23 12:38 AM
5

Disingenuity, runs deep in feminism / leftism
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 05:35 PM
2

Is this 'girl code'? Surely they know she doesn't give a shit about any of them. Do they think supporting her will make it easier for women to get away with abuse?
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/22 09:25 AM
5

Hivemind. Crazy how many women today want to just shut off their brain and go with the flow
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/22 12:04 PM
1

Shouldn't be mandatory if both parents want to opt out
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/22 01:24 PM
-1

Well I think there are enough bad men out there that women should be rightfully weary when it comes to strangers. You wouldn't tell your daughter to be open to every man she might chance uppn
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 04:38 AM
3

Sure
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/22 08:40 PM
3

Nothing wrong with tats themselves, it's the connotation like I said. There are some negative traits and qualities which are more probable to occur in people with tattoos, that's all there is to it. One very simple example is prison inmates - is their population more likely to have tattoos than those who have never been incarcerated? I'll leave you to fill in the blanks
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/22 07:37 PM
2

There are some connotations
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/22 07:15 PM
3

Not all men. I've turned down casual sex multiple times, because I don't need or want it from someone I don't care about. I wpuld expect my woman to approach it the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:51 PM
3

Facts were spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:48 PM
6

Okay just tell the thots to stop getting their panties in a twist when a guy says he doesn't want a thot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:45 PM
1

Some, sure. I can't speak on that from experience. I've turned down casual sex from multiple women because I knew I wouldn't find it fulfilling, neither did I want any complications
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/22 12:44 PM
1

3-4 is already setting of alarm bells. Above that it shows the woman engages in casual sex, or gets in relationships for the sake of it. I am relatively young
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 09:58 PM
4

He may be unattractive but the women who are equally attractive or less won't look at him either. That's the root of the problem: Women's ego's get blown through the roof with matches, simping, online validation She now thinks she's hotter than she is, and deserves a top guy All women now want the top guy Top guy ploughs through many women She can't secure commitment, starts claiming men are trash, yadada. Meanwhile it won't occur to her that there are many great potential relationships from men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:06 PM
2

Yup if women tell themselves not to settle, then neither will I lol. Casual sex is an instant red flag even if in the 'past'
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 08:18 PM
4

The two go hand in hand. Every hookup is more use and abuse, more emotional baggage
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 08:16 PM
3

Study for what? If you don't think there's a difference between being being careful, selective, and conservative of sexual relations, and sleeping with a lot of men, then I can't help you. Sorry
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 08:15 PM
2

Whatever helps you sleep. But if we want to talk reality, it absolutely takes effect, leaves a mark, and speaks about an individual. High n-count is the antithesis to a quality, long-term, monogamous relationship
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 07:24 PM
1

Dating apps are a waste of time. But as someone who works with software, you can still be a normal person with a social life lol. Sure, there are a lot more nerdy homebodies in this field than elsewhere, but that just gives me an edge. 'He works in tech, and he's fit and goes out and has friends?'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:55 AM
1

I did once have a girl scoff at my Microsoft t-shirt. But I think most of them recognise there is money in software
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:48 AM
7

The women who pick men as accessories or for bragging rights are absolutely the type that should be avoided anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:35 AM
5

Yeah, not many a straight woman would choose to spend her time there
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 03:14 PM
2

If you read what I said, you would see that what I dislike is not that I'm not getting pussy, but that it was given away freely before, and now the girl wants to act pious with me. I don't fall for that, I'll spot a thot a mile away If I wanted pussy I would fuck girls that I don't want a relationship with, but I don't. I've always been more interested in relationship potential than sex, and find fulfilment in other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:49 PM
3

Encouraging to see some C's here, as a guy who's always been more interested in relationship potential than sex. Good few times I've had to forcibly wring conversation out of a woman when all she wanted to do was bang. Needless to say at that point I wasn't interested and kindly refused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:23 AM
1

This is women with their hypergamous nature. Finding a woman who loves me for me and not the things I can provide is starting to slip into fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:11 AM
3

You've got it twisted, romance is absolutely something to be given. Case in point, you're not giving your heart to every stranger you pass in the street, and if you do, there's something wrong with you. Same way you're not marrying random people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:08 AM
6

That's a black pill incel ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:53 AM
3

If you can't read, save me the bother of discussing this topic with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:32 AM
3

It's simple, you sleep around, have a high body count, you're not relationship material. The act of casual sex is an antithesis to a quality, long term, monogamous relationship. Now on expecting sex early on, I for one don't. But the notion that you gave it up freely before, and are now holding out for me, is preposterous. Personally at that point I'm not interested in a relationship anyway, so I don't really care. But the notion of it is ridiculous and gives me a good chuckle. I'm not the sucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:34 PM
2

I like to think I still am, but it took only one instance of getting played to become cold and calculated with potential female prospects. If I ever meet a woman worthy of my romance, she can have it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:09 PM
1

Not tame compared to not dropping your tits out in the first place. I feel no need to settle if there are girls who aren't into shit like that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:55 PM
3

This is the way. Albeit finding a girl with decent values these days feels like a needle in a haystack
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:11 PM
4

Political opinions aside you make good points friend, leftist women are not relationship material however much people are sidestepping the point of your post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:55 AM
2

You can't help these guys they're too far gone
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/22 11:50 PM
1

Let them have it their way, the men they desire aren't giving them a second look anyway. That's how it goes when you have options, you take the cream of the crop in youth, beauty, and femininity Just don't be that guy she will eventually try to settle for, not worth sacrificing your bread and peace of mind for a woman who won't respect you because she's dreaming of what could have been, and will make you miserable for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:33 AM
9

Yup weight gain and health problems snowball as long as you don't break the habits which cause them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/22 06:43 PM
9

That subreddit is a prime example, I've lost many a brain cell trying to use logic on there. Most disingenuous bunch, they will argue against common sense and mass upvote exceptional anecdotes just to try to prove you wrong
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 06:15 PM
0

If obesity is determined by BMI it's totally inaccurate to compare between sexes due to the male's much greater ratio of muscle mass. I once fell into the overweight range while looking like your average dude, muscle is a lot denser than fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:28 PM
5

Some women call themselves hoes and sluts, a spade's a spade. You don't see men without hair crying that they shouldn't be called bald
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:17 PM
4

Complete lack of accountability from a certain group, won't say which.. Yes this is a bigger problem on one side of the fence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:38 PM
6

Put 'em to work till retirement age like the rest of us
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/22 05:26 PM
1

One step ahead of that game, single for 20 something years, not dating for the past 2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:52 AM
12

To sleep with a lot of women, a man must be inherently attractive to them To sleep with a lot of men, a woman just needs to spread her legs. Doesn't matter if she's a big chungus or looks like a Halloween prop
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/22 06:35 PM
13

Either that or the end is a nice place to live, trips, bragging rights to shitty friends, and money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:20 PM
2

For me, sour dating experience, and completely agreeing with the logic behind all of the most prominent RP talking points. Shit is logical, factual, and observable. That's before the philosophy of improving oneself as a man. For me it was a very easy pill to swallow and backed by my own experiences and desires
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:58 AM
1

Don't hate yourself is what I'm saying, there's nothing inherently wrong with you. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:43 PM
0

I disagree and don't think that's a healthy view to have, especially as a woman. If there's ever a time for, "You're perfect just the way you are", it's when considering traits as natural and innate as one's own gender. Biological burden is made up for by all the wonderful things that come from being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:33 PM
0

Do you believe women has some kind of inherent design flaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:01 PM
1

That's a tough one, I would attribute a couple of qualities to femininity. Graceful, elegant, gentle, caring, nurturing, orderly, pleasant, thoughtful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:57 PM
1

Well, I think that quote makes sense too. Maybe I spend all my time around dogs, and cats are a breath of fresh air?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:26 PM
1

I think the driving factor behind what you describe, is the societal drive for women to enter traditionally male dominated roles and playing fields. Call me conspiratorial, but destroying the nuclear family unit, pitting men and women against each other (gender wars), and turning both genders into work drones has obvious advantages to the global elite that can manipulate the fabrics of society for power, control, and monetary gains. We've somehow reached a point where women shame and put each ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:18 PM
1

I guess femininity is one of those things that everyone will define / see differently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:59 PM
1

Yeah, thanks for the heads up, I am relatively attractive but not enough for women to approach me very often. If I don't find anyone by my late 20s, I may start sweating. At that point the plan will be to return to my motherland in search of a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:57 PM
1

As a dude I prefer woman assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:00 PM
1

I'm aware of what women want, I think we're going in circles here. Good talk despite your unnecessarily aggro demeanor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:49 PM
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I mean, I'm single by choice, so there's that. Believe it or not, not everyone needs a relationship to be happy, and I'm young enough to not worry about a lack of relationship at this point in time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:46 PM
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I said I'd like more time to spend to spend on interests, doesn't mean I don't enjoy my work Do you think that never ever having had a full blown relationship might be a “you”problem, not a “modern society “ problem? Bit of both. Me because of my standards and fulfilment in bachelor life, modern society because women have become less attractive for relationships, and themselves are also not seeking relationships as much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:40 PM
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Your badgering about a lack of success just sounds like projection to me. I'm very comfortable with my achievements and position in life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:36 PM
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Damn, you really went digging huh, mind telling me when that was from? Anyway I'm glad to tell you that despite a rough patch a while back I'm doing much better now Edit: not cool to bring up depressive periods, that's a can of worms I didn't need reopened lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:26 PM
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I chose and enjoy my work, I also never said my women don't respect me. In honesty, I've never had a full-blown relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:22 PM
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I'm aware of the concept of earning respect, and I wouldn't be expecting it if I were weak, fat, unmotivated, and unintelligent. If I say so myself, I'm a decently eligible bachelor. I'm secure in myself and my life, and receive a good amount of validation from the opposite sex. So a woman can choose to respect me and my leadership if she desires, if she doesn't then I don't want / need anything from her. That's how the game goes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:17 PM
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Bruh if you don't think the world is full of danger you live in a bubble, and probably have a reality check coming your way I found my relationships on respect, I think it's a fundamental baseline and there won't be a relationship in the first place in the lack thereof, so no problem there. And what do you mean by not living one's fullest life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:54 AM
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Seen as weak by who and in what way? If a woman sees her own femininity as weak, I would think that's on her. I mean just being a woman alone basically guarantees suitors, and the ability to manipulate some men for personal benefit. That's a pretty powerful capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:00 AM
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At least back in the day women weren't shamed for being feminine. The internet has taken society for a ride, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:55 AM
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Fax. And if I wanted to spend time with a man, I'd spend it with the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:21 AM
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Everyone is different including young men, I don't think what you describe is as pervasive as you deem it to be. I don't think I personally know anyone who believes women should not be able to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:59 AM
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It's good to be yourself. Where I take issue is people only doing things because it's pushed in society or media, or even worse shaming the women who do want to be more traditionally feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:50 AM
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I just find it very intresting that after generations of "women are weak" and "women should submit" and "women should stay at home and not aspire to greater achievements" people are now going "why don't women want to be more traditionally feminine?!" Imo, * The average woman is objectively weaker than the average man. Nothing wrong with that though * Women should submit if they want to, and find someone worthy of their submission. I think protecting with my life, caring, and providing to the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:41 AM
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For me a couple of dates have never been enough to come even come remotely close to thinking I know or understand a person. I'd say it would take a good couple of months of regularly spending time together before I could fully trust that they are who I think they are. But that's just me I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:23 AM
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I'm not sure what the first point you're trying to make there is, I'm not trying to act like anything just voicing my thoughts To your second point, not necessarily, I think you can have a successful career and be feminine, they're not mutually exclusive. I would also say that it's possible to be more feminine (or masculine) in personal relationships, than presented to the outside world or workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:19 AM
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Interesting take, we certainly wouldn't be compatible for a relationship but that's fine. It makes sense that there would be some hyper competitive, driven, and assertive women, but it seems to be an exception rather than the rule. To me that explains why men are more likely to excel in almost any given field. It's cut-throat and high pressure at the top of any game, with slim margins for error, and masculine qualities are needed to thrive in that environment My question to you is, are you fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:08 AM
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Why wouldn't it be. It's good because it's in (most) women's nature. It's desirable because I find the qualities attractive, and they are seemingly scarce, like precious metals or gems
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:47 AM
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Women are awesome, no worse than men, just different. Shit would be so boring if we were all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:40 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm aware of most of these. Giggling and hair flicking are specially obvious, although these behaviours can just as easily be done intentionally to seduce. Boss babe knows what she wants and often times she will manipulate and use her femininity to get it, even if it means putting on a two-faced façade
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:54 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:46 AM
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I didn't say that, I want a mutually happy and respectful relationship. If there's something so wrong that I would have to bitch at you then we're probably not compatible and wouldn't have ended up in a relationship in the first place. Even then, as opposed to bitching we talk out any grievances calmly and openly like adults. Throwing tantrums / attitude is childish and a huge turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:29 AM
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Yep you can't really go wrong with a good ole' vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:16 AM
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I mean there is the age old adage of 'bad boys' and 'assholes', as well as actual predators being a thing. I support women being being as careful and selective of men as they can to protect themselves, but that seems to go out the window when it comes to casual hookups. I guess it's different strokes (pun intended) for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:11 AM
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Great input, thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:05 AM
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This sub is awesome! Discussing this topic anywhere else on this site will spark a full blown gender war of downvotes and insults, I'm loving the thought out and intelligent responses such as yours I agree about the idea of a spectrum. Certainly, I don't look for a woman who is a doormat, but neither would I classify that as a strongly feminine trait. I'd like a strong woman who will show me her weak side, I have one too after all! But a weak lover that relies on me for strength, I'd fight till …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:01 AM
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Oh you know I can walk the walk. But do you care to provide some examples of behaviours you'd categorise under 2? You got me curious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:42 AM
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It's a dog eat dog world, you shouldn't be submissive or agreeable if you're trying to survive out in the world. That said, if you find someone who you trust and respect, why should you be bitchy and give them attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:38 AM
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It's good to be who you are. At least you're not being influenced by external factors
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:32 AM
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I'm a man. I can only speculate that as a woman I would embrace and lean into my femininity, can't really say without the experience. What I will say is that men and women are different, and that I think we should embrace our differences rather than trying to become the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:27 AM
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Inferior in what way? Certainly I would say to me, feminity is more valuable and attractive than masculinity. But either way it's two completely different things, not really comparable. Apples and oranges what have you. We're not the same, and it's okay, actually it's rather great. Another 2 cents here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:24 AM
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A lot of what's considered masculine is just the human default, or behaviours that are beneficial to those that perform them, but I guess when women act for themselves and not others that's "acting like men". Interesting thought this one. I agree about performing behaviours that are beneficial, I for one am obsessed with efficiency and maximising value and parameters in life that I deem important. But I'm getting my bag to provide for my family. Not much interest in materialism past a basic poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:17 AM
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this is just a red pill/incel talking point It may be, but it's also observable. You are probably paying less attention to it as a woman. We're not talking fashion here, rather, mentality and attitude Men do not like sensitive people I don't think it's accurate to generalise like that. I'd agree I don't want someone sensitive around when I'm shooting shit or doing stuff with my guy friends, but that's just because none us are particularly sensitive in that way. At the same time I appreciate sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:00 AM
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I don't see it, maybe because I mostly deal with women in their early to mid 20s, seems like what you are saying is more applicable to an older generation. I mean how long have you guys been able to vote? It is an interesting perspective though, thanks for the input
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:43 PM
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Well said. The notion that all a man has to offer is his height, looks, dick, status, and money, is the same level of objectification, if not worse, as the notion that a woman can only offer her tits, ass, and pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:26 PM
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Everyone got a plan till they get punched in the moufth
/r/AntiFeminists07/11/22 07:30 PM
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I wonder what 'dismantling patriarchy' would look like to these people. Funny thing is they probably don't know and each would give a different answer There is no uniformity or common goal to modern feminism, that's why it's such a joke. They don't even know what they're fighting for now that they match or surpass men in western society
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 12:08 PM
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Lol, I know this all too well. Always present my 2 cents with logical backing, when faced with bullshit feminist rhetoric. Always get downvoted, with no one engaging in intelligent discussion to argue their piece. Either radio silence or some 0 effort comment calling me a misogynist I like to think that each downvote at least read my point and although angered by it, may have been forced to think twice. But I notice most of them are very disingenuous people
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 06:48 PM
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Hats off to you for escaping the programming. In a world where many are thinking what they're told to think, having independent and critical thought is an increasingly rare and desirable trait
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 11:14 PM
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Lol. Honestly though I'm not bothered, on average we hold ourselves to higher standards than women which is why we are more likely to excel, and lead basically every field
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/22 11:06 PM
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If by backfire you mean a slap on the wrist at most
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/22 03:54 PM
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He's more at risk due to money, status, and fame
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/22 10:05 PM
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Heya A personal definition? To me it's both a lifestyle and a mindset. I have to love myself, and in so doing, work for myself. I can never stagnate, become complacent, or give up. I need to have hope, dreams, and ambitions. No matter how hard I fall or get beat down, I have to get up and keep taking steps forward. My personal goals are to continually grow as a person, increase my knowledge and understanding of the world, improve and maintain my physical and mental wellbeing, improve my fitness …
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 08:12 PM
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I'd go so far as to say that social media is intentionally weaponised to create echo chambers. If you believe in the concept of 'the elites', this would be attributed to the desire for the common man to be divided, dumb, and submissive. Well, what we do know for certain is that all of the big social medias are completely predatory in their nature, from their UX, to their algorithms and data collection, you name it. TikTok is a sin in this regard, but it's all the same for Meta products like FB a…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 06:34 PM
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I am a red piller, just checked out this sub right now out of curiosity and your post was at the top. I love engaging in discussion so if you have any questions or whatever please go ahead.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 06:10 PM
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No, do not ban them. They might say something worth listening too, and will otherwise just embarrass themselves. We can't be devolving into an echo chamber
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/22 07:15 AM
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Yup. Went from 'she has a point here' to 'she's batshit' very quick
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 12:08 PM
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In modern feminism, a woman can do no wrong
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/22 06:13 PM
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The comment has 9 upvotes at the time of writing... seems most people were able to decipher the secret sarcasm. I made it as obvious as text would allow lmao
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 03:45 PM
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Yes
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 03:17 PM
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You missed the /s. Ever since I stopped chasing women and started focussing on myself, I've been getting more attention from the opposite sex. I'm in my mid 20s now and still want to get married at some point, but I don't know what the odds are I meet a good honest woman who can think for herself (unlike 1st world feminist drones). Someone I can marry knowing she doesn't have any ulterior motive, isn't driven by materialism or hypergamy, and wants to have a lifelong monogamous relationship
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 01:12 PM
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As a male he is always accountable
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 11:49 AM
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Because they're all incels who can't get any, obviously. Definitely not because they're happily single, and have standards for women to enter their life
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 11:47 AM
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Feminism in a nutshell. There is no individual and there is no nuance. Only blanket statements, generalisation, and black and white
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 10:10 PM
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Why removed? For fucks sake I hope this sub doesn't start getting censored
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 09:16 AM
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Imagine having a Mum who would turn her back on you because of the programming she receives from society and media. That's NPC shit, a real Mum wouldn't consider it
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 10:09 PM
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I really don't want to hate these people. Although a lot of them would hate me and the complete lack of logic is becoming more and more infuriating
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 02:20 PM
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A lot of the hate for age gap relationships definitely comes from a place of jealousy
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 10:21 AM
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Yup, women can get sex whenever they like. Except when it doesn't fit whatever narrative they have currently loaded into their RAM. Whatever the subject they will change the story to put themselves in the best light.
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 07:47 PM
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Women need to lose weight. Men need to put on muscle and get ripped which is a lot harder
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 05:58 PM
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We can't force anyone to be impregnated against their will, that's what would be inhumane. And her body her choice? Sure, but you might be forgetting something. Think about it
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 01:17 PM
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So we let people kill kids, because they're mature enough to practise and enjoy sex, but don't want to have any accountability... this is some of the filthiest hedonism known to man
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 01:07 PM
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I see it as murder. I'm willing to permit it in cases of actual rape, or the woman's life being in danger. Aside from these 1% scenarios, to me it's a disgusting act of killing kids for the sake of convenience, pleasure, and lack of accountability of the parents I do my part by practising safe sex, and generally not engaging with women who I don't see long term potential with. If I did happen to have an 'accidental' child, I would 100% want to keep it, no questions asked at all. That's my little…
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 12:32 PM
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Speaking for yourself? Because that's the only person you can speak for
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 08:08 AM
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I got banned from r/ crazyfuckingvideos, because I had commented in this sub. The mod is literally the textbook power tripping simp. I called him out for being a little bitch And don't forget r/ whitepeopletwitter and r/ blackpeopletwitter, for politely stating my dissenting opinions. Funny thing is I'm mixed, don't know if there's a sub for that lol Moral of the story Reddit is going to shit and it is being overrun with bots, both human and digital. And free speech? Pfff. Justice for Aaron
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 05:32 PM
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This is very true, the ability to 'release' several times a day from an almost infinite selection of quality content is insane as an impact on physiological, mental, and societal dynamics. All of this shit is so new to the world, porn is what spurred the development of the internet. All of history is split by this line drawn about two decades ago, marking rapid technological advancement and societal shift. And this is just the beginning, who knows where we go from here. It's shaping up to be a w…
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 05:09 PM
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The men at the top will have even less reason to commit and will be able to get by even easier without a relationship girl
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 04:48 PM
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e-Waifu androids aren't that far off
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 04:17 PM
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Fucking ridiculous. The matrix is real
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 04:07 PM
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Oh no, men are so bad and mean and I'm just a poor innocent lady and I am so scared and oppressed what ever will I do?
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 04:02 PM
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They're not even subtle about it, and they get their upvotes, dopamine rush, and validation for it from social media. And we're supposed to put up with this bullshit and sit quietly, or we're insecure or whatever else stupid insult they use
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 03:59 PM
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And demand men accept all of their bullshit, and allow women to do whatever they want with no accountability
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 03:54 PM
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Every piece will now move like a pawn. Communism baby
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 03:44 PM
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All simps and feminists can do is attack our manhood. As if I would ever care what internet low-lives have to say about me, without even knowing anything about me. It's laughable
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 03:43 PM
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Same reason they encourage the notion of the friendzone. How so many poor guys let women play them so blatantly is beyond me
/r/AntiFeminists29/07/22 01:09 PM
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Saying you 'hate men' or 'hate women is inherently meaningless because you're saying you hate a lot of people you don't know, billions of them, as well as the few that you do know. Way to be a stupid donkey
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 02:42 AM
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Honest, transparent, caring and loving
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 02:34 AM
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Props to the women who actually go and do hard work or enter male dominated fields. The rest of them sit and bitch about 'women being paid less than men'. You think you have what it takes to be an engineer of any kind with your washed humanities degree and aversion to logic and critical thinking? Starbucks commies
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 02:30 AM
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