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Doesn't sound healthy if you're unlucky though.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:37 PM
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I mean, I am denying the traditional "God" as that is what most people talk about when they talk about a God. Science can never disprove the existence of a God. Whatever your understanding is of this god I don't know, but I do know that it is probably hard to debate with you on this because yes, if you're always going to call things that we don't or will never understand "a God". Then your God is an everlasting, but also ever-changing definition. I can tell that you probably need to do more read…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:06 PM
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But then you can just believe in everything that can not be disproven, and just because there is an idea of a god in society it seems like the most acceptable thing to do. But it doesn't make any sense to do.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:57 PM
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I think it is there never in the way where it goes against scientific evidence. In the other cases, there is just no way to disprove the existence, just as much as not being able to prove its existence. It is the god of the gaps problem, and the gaps are closing. My second thought about this is, even though you can apply god on the stuff that we do not have an understanding of yet, there are already so many things that we understand, like evolution, that disprove the existence of god. And accept…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:43 PM
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If you're speaking of things like quantum mechanics, I don't know anything about that field.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:33 PM
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We know things within our own reality. Whether that reality is relatively big or small doesn't really matter to us. But we haven't seem to have encountered any evidence that we were created though. Even acknowledging that there is probably a lot that we will never understand is not a reason to believe in a creator. But it is useless the speculate what's outside our reality, creator, no creator or anything in between, I guess.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 05:32 AM
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Just us? Or also the animals, the plants, or even the cosmos?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 05:19 AM
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In what kind of creator do you believe?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 05:00 AM
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Yes, I know what you are feeling. How does this sound to you? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zzjoe/fr_multiple_girlfriends_multiple_lives_lived_in/
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:56 AM
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Yes, from a biological point of view; machines built to let our genes replicate is all we are. However, I feel like there is still more to life and we can still have goals as there is a intangible evolutionary layer called society that we can exploit. But to not digress, Understanding this I think is an important step in TRP. It allows you to rationalize your and other peoples feelings up to a point that you can actually figure out yourself why you are feeling them and which biological factors c…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:47 AM
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It didn't really do a great job understanding itself yet though. Kidding aside, it's an interesting thought, I just hope people don't take the anthropomorphism of it too serious.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:35 AM
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Good for you. If I were you I wouldn't take any advice on how to get her number right now. You have the confidence, you've met her, you've been in the situation and you know the rapport you've built with her. Do whatever feels good next week.
/r/seduction25/03/16 04:18 AM
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I'm an atheist, and was agnostic in my childhood. I always feel like that; if one truly understand how science works, or if one truly understands how red pill and therein especially the dynamics of game work there is no room for a god. Therefore, if someone tells me they believe in a god, I know they don't truly understand either.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:00 AM
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Thank you for this. I am very much interested in these things. As I'm doing business myself I often find situations that I can turn into a metaphorical seductive situation. It's funny how things like seduction can be so similar to business. However, I also stumble on situations that do partially relate to seduction but when different incentives come in, the relation to seduction flips to the complete opposite. I guess it does make sense when I look at this. I've been in a high-demand business in…
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:43 AM
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Show her that you want that one night stand. You can not risk not doing it because then you will never get it, unless you meet a girl that is for some reason so in to you that she's escalating the situation to make YOU feel comfortable instead of you making HER feel comfortable. I don't ask numbers until I actually need them. You need them to reconfirm a date or when you want to see her again after you had sex. Asking a number without having attraction is no different than matching someone on Ti…
/r/seduction17/03/16 03:36 AM
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At 20 I was about to give up and had the mentality that I'm just gonna fuck random bitches my whole life. It blew my mind when I found this girl. Let me guess, this was the first girl you found when you had that mentality.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:02 AM
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You're probably spending too much time on them. Go for the date much faster, and if they are not receptive move on. Also, setting up the logistics or reconfirming a date is a good reason to get her number, getting her number to continue the conversation over text or whatsapp is not.
/r/seduction02/03/16 03:07 AM
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tl;dr anyone?
/r/seduction27/01/16 09:59 PM
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context.
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:38 PM
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Hi there. Thank you so much for the advice. Can you please tell me what I should ask for if I want to go for anal straight away?
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:40 AM
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Uhm. Yea. Hard next is fine at all, but you do need to tell her that she has an std if she doesn't know. It can cause irreversibele damage when you walk around too long with it and she may infect others. Nvm, i see your edit.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:25 AM
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Uhhhh, what?
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:04 PM
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I can concur, it's a good book about sexual strategy. Haven't read his second book yet.
/r/seduction04/11/15 11:03 PM
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The favor thing was a side note not something to support my opinion. Anyway, I'm obviously not saying I think you're helping anyone... I'm saying thats what can be in a girls mind, hence the different perspectives. Please elaborate on those morals instead of attacking me on my opinion. Because thats what I'm trying to do here. Saying have some morals is just as easy as saying you're better than that.
/r/seduction17/10/15 11:43 PM
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Exactly, you're already talking to the girl. It's only going to make it harder when you switchover to text. I'm only interested in a girls number when I've set up a date, or need to leave and for some reason can't make a date but I'm pretty sure I will see her again. It's really not like these american high school movies where asking the number itself is an achievement. It's useless.
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:13 PM
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tl;dr: Is this a date? Yes, yes it is. She knows it is a date. Now stop worrying and make your intentions clear by your actions.
/r/seduction15/10/15 10:33 PM
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Not sure if this is a brag, but. It's not really a good test if you've already hooked up with her. Imagine a friend-zoned guy, right? Because that's the usual situation. A girl and a guy get "befriended", they talk and talk, for the girl it's normal she does this with all her female friends. But the guy gets confused and thinks he has feelings for her. He isn't going to text her "I want to eat your pussy so bad right now" out of no-where. Imagine you sending that to a girl and you get back "let'…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 11:43 PM
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That's exactly what approach anxiety is. You don't have to get nervous out of your mind to have it.
/r/seduction14/10/15 10:11 PM
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You're putting that guy on a pedestal. It wouldn't surprise me if she's going to like him more than she likes you. Hangout with both after you've hooked up with her. Not because I actually think she's going to like him instead of you. But because then it actually makes sense. Right now it's weird, you're basically trying to go on a date with two people here.
/r/seduction14/10/15 10:02 PM
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I don't really get AA Yes you do even if it gets me my ass kicked You see? Read up on how to beat AA.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:48 PM
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Cut the crap. You're nervous. Just go do the date. Don't try to re-validate whether it's a date or not, this is a date and she knows it.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:45 PM
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Embrace your sexuality.
/r/seduction05/10/15 07:35 PM
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I don't really get what you're saying. But I wouldn't hope that the quality of your life depends on (the answer of) those questions.
/r/seduction04/10/15 05:13 PM
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That crossed my mind too and I have been paying attention to that in our interactions. If the student/mentor approach exaggerates this, I wonder how I can neutralize the roles then. I would really hate it if I mess up his game. Edit: Thank you for your input btw
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:50 PM
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I agree with you but it isn't really like that. What happens is the following; we go out together as friends and he wants to approach. He has AA so I have to pull him out his comfort-zone else he will be standing in the corner the whole night. We open groups together, etc. But as I'm doing this for a while now I'm getting the good results. So he asks me what he did wrong etc, and I answer his questions if I know the answer. I tell him what I would do and why I would do it. I am not nitpicking, I…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:41 PM
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My name is not Tony..
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:03 AM
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@OP: I can't tell you how much I agree. And it's not only the feel good posts that are upvoted, there's also non-seduction dating advice (aka extremely beta) and things we have known for years that gets repeated because nobody reads the recommended shit. But oh don't you dare say something harsh about it we all have to treat each other like little insecure boys. @/u/ThrowawayPUA, do you not see those posts i am talking about? We get dating advice posts that are called "How to win your ex back!".…
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:53 AM
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Ok! We need to act quick, when are you going to the cinema with her? We have about 3 books and the full side-bar to read, and 100 approaches todo so you can answer this question yourself! To be serious and I don't want to be harsh... and before your post gets deleted because it's not in the "AskSEDDIT" section I will give you this; you're asking advice from people on the internet on how to handle one specific situation. How are you going to handle the rest of your relationship with her? There ar…
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:27 PM
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If you want to get laid straight away, fine... run the numbers, it'll work and you'll get some tallies on the board. (This can be useful for confidence and experience... but it's a grind and long term it's counter-productive for the correct attitude.) For me this really was a phase, and I feel like it's a phase I couldn't have skipped. I very much agree with you now, but I understand it because I've experienced it. If beta-me would read your post he wouldn't understand what you're talking about.…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 09:07 PM
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What if you had sex but didn't come?
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:30 PM
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It's exactly the same with horses. Maybe even worse.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:56 PM
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People often go to other jobs to get more challenging work. It happens. If you encounter it, good for you, you're getting better at what you do.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 07:29 PM
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It may have took your post out of context. But his post didn't give me the same message as the one you are making right here. You say: /u/nemaxofredpill isn't wrong when he says that it is normal for a man to feel that feeling. Oneitis is a common occurrence among men who don't understand how all this shit works. Is it safe to say that you mean that it is normal among men who don't understand how all this shit works, which happens to be a lot of men? That is valid but his message didn't strike m…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 07:20 PM
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Bro....this is normal. I feel it everyday. Just want to scream "Why!?!" I didn't want to cherry pick words together or counter the rest of your post. I just want to point out this part I quoted again, is a part I don't find normal. Edited to make that more clear.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 07:01 PM
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Bro....this is normal. I feel it everyday. Just want to scream "Why!?!". If you are relying on women to be happy you will always be pleasing women in a way. It must be about your own life. You live your own life which makes you happy. You can be happy with the woman following the same path, but it's not happiness itself that you should gain from women. I need help. I want to feel free from woman. I want to be able to go through my day and not feel like I need a woman to make me happy. I want to …
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:55 PM
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My main point came through. I meant the metaphor differently; you think you are there but there are many challenges along the way that will make you become a master. You will miss those challenges by comparing yourself to others instead of yourself.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:42 PM
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What do you mean for something else? You mean someone? A provider.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:47 PM
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It's possible that somewhere, deep down in your subconscious, that you are afraid of failure. He might be afraid of success. I'm constantly hearing how I'm so good at everything and how others wish they could just pick things up like i do, but really, it sucks! It doesn't mean you're really good, it just means you're better than them. Is this the end for you? Is this when you are satisfied? Have you actually been able to show yourself that you can master something, instead of telling yourself yo…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:32 PM
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Love like romeo and juliet doesnt seem to exist ... BINGO! The trick has nothing to do with liking a girl in moderation. The trick is to accept the fact it doesn't work like the stuff they show you in romco's, the fact that you've just discovered, and learn how it does work. Stop making things special and abstract like a woman "I really like her", you're a man and we ARE different. Think about what it means when you "really like" someone. Read The Book of Pook.
/r/seduction26/09/15 04:28 PM
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Nah, don't do that. Pressure flip.
/r/seduction24/09/15 05:13 PM
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I know but I'm a big fan of the 3310. It's also like carrying a legal weapon, and it became an unintentional conversation maker. No regrets here.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:26 PM
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I feel like the problem could be in what you're saying right there. I have a friend who's not the most attractive guy I know. I wouldn't want to rate him, but let's say he's not so successful with women, and I think he would come close to what is referred to as a 4 here. One of the reasons is that he almost never approaches. But I think another reason is the expectation that he has, and something that he got used to. He is always talking about models, having pictures of models on his phone, he k…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:24 PM
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I got myself a Nokia, guy did not have 3310 FYI. I did the same thing, but I did get a 3310 actually. From AliExpress for $20. The battery sucks compared to what I remembered though, it's old. And it didn't come with an AC adapter either, it was a bitch to get a US adapter actually.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 08:29 PM
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He basically is arguing its pretty easy to do lol You're just making stuff up to make your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:48 PM
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I wasn't really aware of people making rants with financial brags like this, because then I would have made it more abstract. The amount of money is not the point I was trying to make. The point I am trying to make was that my hard work is paying off. And I feel this is also related to what you're saying about most dudes in the MBA program, right. I went to a technical university and most of the guys are just doing an underpaid job, but we have the same profession. It's not that if you study som…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:11 AM
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You're making assumptions though. I never said it was easy. I didn't start studying my profession 7 months ago or something. 7 Months ago I was convinced that I could actually start making a lot money starting for myself. It was a big risk and maybe I got lucky, but I worked my ass off every minute of it and I still am, and I have to else it isn't going to work. My profession is actually something I've worked for a really long time now. Nice job on the MBA program, I don't think I would be able …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:56 AM
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Yea you have obviously no idea what you're talking about... Most of the businesses fail indeed, but it takes time. I don't think I will soon, but I could still crash hard. Look at this: https://media.licdn.com/mpr/mpr/shrinknp_800_800/p/6/005/087/2cf/0936fff.jpg I would actually be a statistical outlier if I already failed after 7 months. Next to that, 6 figures is not so extreme in my area. I made 120k at the job I worked for, they offered me 150k and a percentage of a sister company when I qui…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:41 AM
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Yea read what /u/dukechaz says. No it's not, it could even be too late. Tell her, let's .... tomorrow.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:32 AM
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F "I have a boyfriend" M "So do I" F "Do you really?" M "Yes, do you care?" F "No of course not" M "Good, I don't care about yours either, let's get a drink." But no, kidding aside. It doesn't sound serious. Just proceed straight from now on, don't verbally break it to her, she can tell her bf she's going to have drinks with a gay guy.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:18 AM
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I think most of it does, except for the hating the entire sex. I don't think he does that.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 12:33 AM
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Your post actually made me giggle. To be honest, I don't really care whether you guys believe me or not. And I am obviously not going to post any proof. I'm reading my initial post a couple of times over already to make sure I don't reveal my identity. And that's not because I'm ashamed or that anything of it isn't true, but I don't want the XX attack. I'm a consultant my business is only worth the hours I make and the contracts I have. I learned a lot actually from TRP that I use in my business…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 12:15 AM
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Thank you. Yes, I meant too extreme for not understanding that you're lying to yourself. I didn't think your example was extreme. P.s. be careful not to fuck your friends girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:52 PM
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I should follow this advise, especially since I feel like he came close. I wasn't joking about the beta xxl part though. His response was pretty aggressive (or defensive).
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:22 PM
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I didn't actually put much effort in getting these friends yet. It mostly came with the flow. With ambitious people I think it has to do with the respect I created for other people that or making it or trying to make it because I know how hard it is. For the rest it is mostly the interest I show in them and our mutual interests that connect us. I agree though, most people I meet are boring too, mostly unambitious, not willing to work for something.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:19 PM
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"this is the way it works" "this is how it's supposed to be" "it has always been like that" "that's just what I feel" It still amazes me what people say that doesn’t make sense. People are so accustomed to the things that have been talked into us by our society that they forget to think about what it actually means. A couple of months ago I was worried that I may rationalize this stuff too much. But then I read a post somewhere, this guy was talking about his gf broke up with him and he told her…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:16 PM
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I don't want to be the mood breaker here but this stuff should be pretty well known to the people here that actually read the recommended side-bar material.
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:40 PM
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There's much you can find about day game. But if you never do it you never know where you can improve, maybe you're going to do great? All the better that your mind is blank, you should walk up to a girl when you see her and don't think of anything to say before you said "Hi". What does it matter if you get turned down? When you turn down someone that walks up to you on the street you don't think about it anymore after a second. So why should you care for a second that you're getting turned down…
/r/seduction10/09/15 10:01 PM
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The problems you indicate are all after you got the phone number. Even though you can improve your text game without a doubt, it is probably the impression you make on them before. How does your approach look like? Do you escalate at all? Is asking the phone number one of the first things you do? Do you immediately leave when you get the number? I only get a number if I want/have to continue my game later, so that also means only if i have game at all. Don't ask a number so you can continue from…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:29 PM
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I like the binary system too, but it's still subjective of course. I find the HB1-10 stuff a bit childish, but I guess it's a way of telling how good you were in holding frame, which on its turn means you aren't there yet.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:10 AM
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Do you also offer other services?
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:59 PM
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As Owen Cook says; "Your inner self is always coming trough.". And it's true. I haven't honestly read what you put in there, I took a glance while i was still cringing over the title. But I saw some stuff about finding your own thing and hobbies, maybe get a new relationship kind of stuff. If "Wanting your ex back" is driving your self improvement you are on the wrong path. You can't make small improvements to get your ex back. Your inner self will come through. Let me basically translate the se…
/r/seduction13/08/15 08:06 AM
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"A girlfriend?"
/r/askTRP12/08/15 11:26 PM
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My recommendation stands.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:47 PM
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One scientifically founded book I enjoy very much is The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins. It a contains direct, but (i believe more) indirect foundation for Red Pill stuff. In my opinion it gave me a better understanding of the world. It was not very uncommon that my mind digressed and I ended up philosophising about the material in a TRP way.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 01:10 PM
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Look at the beta in the beginning immediately grabbing his girlfriend. You know your body language is good when that happens. I like how the last guy looks at his hand when she doesn't give him a hand. First I didn't see it correctly and thought he was playing by pretending to read lines from his hand, which would actually be funny to use as an opener.
/r/seduction11/08/15 08:10 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 10:51 PM
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Yea, I can't say I disagree. But let it be 95% inner- and 5% outer game. There are still practical things in the outer game that do not come from or are influenced by your inner game.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:01 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:26 AM
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I do wonder if that's the true answer to the question. Because what about the part that you get out of it? What do you like so much about that? Do you like the response from girls when you are acting so sweet to them? This is not altruism, so there has to be something. And if you really are convinced that it is you helping them out of their insecurity, stop looking down at them. They don't need your pity. Make sure that you are being yourself, and other people can be themselves around you too. T…
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:42 AM
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If you have it with multiple women it probably IS the problem. Anyway, you shouldn't become a hater. Stay the nice guy that you are, that's attractive. But be hard for yourself and set boundaries. Because it's also for yourself right. You are the one that don't wants a relationship, yet you are saying all these sweet things. Ask yourself why?
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:25 AM
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Don't put her on a pedestal...
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:08 AM
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The question is, do you know how to act with girls you just want to hook up with? Are you giving her pet names? Giving her gifts of some sort? Do you say sweet boyfriend things? Do you call her for no reason? Do you have a long call with her if she calls you for no reason? It's all boyfriend stuff. You are the one that really needs to show that it is just a hook up, and not when it's too late because then you are an asshole. Make your intentions clear from the very beginning, and don't forget to…
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:04 AM
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OP's next date "You. Me. Sex" "Eww, you sound like a caveman!" "Nah baby it's all perspective"
/r/seduction28/06/15 06:54 AM
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Inner game is really important, that's what you're describing. I agree. But this way of achieving it is way too spiritual imo, there is no 'reason' to be on Earth. Just make sure you are interesting because you are doing something with your life. It doesn't have to be a long term goal, or you trying to answer the semantically incorrect question what your reason is to be on Earth.
/r/seduction27/06/15 10:01 PM
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Good job. You could try tricking her into telling you. Ask her "Actually how do you spell your name?". Just have to hope she doesn't have a really simple name like Kate.
/r/seduction27/06/15 09:54 PM
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Yea you probably fucked it up. But not because you didn't invite her for a set date, but because you have an oneism mentality. Look up 'abundance mentality'.
/r/seduction27/06/15 09:49 PM
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I second this. Also Dutch and find it much easier in NYC.
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:52 PM
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Actually, no I met two on Tinder, one was a friend of a colleague, one in a bar and two were friends of friends. I am also pretty sure my game changed quite over these years.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 05:53 PM
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You are saying this like you have quite some experience, yet you seem insecure about doing it. I really wouldn't care about the crowd, especially if you can enjoy yourself, dance a bit and i don't know what, like 99% of the people in there won't realize you're alone. When talking to girls you can just lie that you lost your friends, or something like that.
/r/seduction20/10/14 05:45 PM
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You really learn this by practice. I think my most teases come from ambiguity in their sentences or when they say something wrong, you can make fun of her for that without being too rude. For example, last weekend i introduced myself to a girl, and the girl next to her already knows me and says "that's kelly's ex boyfriend", where on the girl responds "Oh nice!". So i put a smile on my face and start saying shit like "Did you just say oh nice? NICE? You think it's nice I'm kelly's ex boyfriend?"…
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:38 PM
3

Well people also die, and since OP is into granny's, we should take that into account too.
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:20 AM
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I swear, in the first 20 seconds I was convinced you were going to hypnotise me.
/r/seduction16/09/14 06:03 PM
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Your advice is good, but I want to make a tl;dr because I had to read it two times to see your actual point, which is very simple: No matter how much you like her, do not be afraid to stick to the plan and stay focused on your game. Because if that doesn't work, she ain't right for you in the first place.
/r/seduction16/09/14 04:09 PM
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Everybody knows the first rule.
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:45 PM
1

Nice push and pull going on here.
/r/seduction15/09/14 10:00 PM
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