RissaDarling89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options? Thats awesome. Good luck to him, he can choose one of them then.	/r/seduction	30/03/21 01:41 PM
4	How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options? If I'm into a guy, yes, other girls liking him makes him seem more attractive. However, if he is actively pursuing multiple options, I lose interest. I'm not going to run the gauntlet with other women. When just starting out seeing someone and getting to know them, exclusivity is ridiculous, but I don't want to hear about the other women he's dating. If he is desperate and tells me I'm the only date he's had in like x amount of time, thats not going to be attractive either. Be confident, not coc…	/r/seduction	30/03/21 02:54 AM
1	I need advice on OVER PRICED Escorts and getting laid in general. If you think it's too expensive and your not willing to pay then it's not for you. There are plenty of sex workers that are exploited. Seems like maybe you should educate yourself a bit. I am saying the cheap and affordable ones are most likely being exploited. Women and men are not going to sell their bodies for cheap if they are in control. Sex is an intimate act that also comes with great risk for them. So yes, they get to name the price. They dont have to cater to you. You want it, you pay f…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 02:33 AM
5	I need advice on OVER PRICED Escorts and getting laid in general. Sex workers get to set their own prices, it is their body they are selling. You dont really get to tell them it's too expensive. I wouldnt advise Thailand, the majority of those women are most likely held against their will and many are minors. If you find a cheap sex worker here, she is most likely being exploited. Tread carefully	/r/seduction	13/01/21 02:13 AM
2	I recently saw an article where Sia admitted to texting a male friend "... If you're interested in some no-strings sex, then hit me up.'" Women, have you ever sent such a forward text to a someone that you had NOT previously been intimate with? The response. Sorry I should have been more clear. I would only reccomend if there has been some sexual chemistry or tension. It was awkward. We were no longer friends after that.	/r/seduction	12/01/21 12:29 AM
2	I recently saw an article where Sia admitted to texting a male friend "... If you're interested in some no-strings sex, then hit me up.'" Women, have you ever sent such a forward text to a someone that you had NOT previously been intimate with? Yep, and it went very badly. Dont recommend.	/r/seduction	11/01/21 11:33 PM
0	What are some objections you’ve gotten when trying to take a girl home and how have you managed/handled them? She could be saying those things because she doesnt want to go with you. Why are you pushing and not listening to what she says?	/r/seduction	10/01/21 06:47 AM
1	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? They arent putting the word string in their profiles. A lot of profiles read they want independence and confidence. A lot of guys dont want gold diggers so independence is important. A woman who makes her own money and can take care of herself. I'm assuming wanting confidence is because a lot of times women without confidence arent that adventurous in bed, dont want to be seen naked with the lights on, etc.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 08:54 PM
1	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? I get what your saying. I just think it's unfortunate. As far as hiding my number. I dont necessarily hide it. I just dont consider men for relationships who ask me that question. Of course I would like a man who is caring and nurturing but I would also want strength and confidence. As with all things I suppose balance is key. If men dont find confidence sexy, why do they all put that they are looking for a confident and independent women on their profile? It seems to help them weed out leeches …	/r/seduction	28/11/20 02:27 PM
-1	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? Wow this whole comment just really has me worried about the human race. That is not how women go about having sex. The woman is valuable intrinsically. For her brain, compassion, friendship, etc. Sounds like you are only valuing a woman for her sexual organs. Men want more sex but look down on women who have too much. Really sounds like your shooting yourself in the foot.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 06:43 AM
0	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? So what it like then? It sounds to me like if guys could get laid more, they would totally be up for it. Male promiscuity is not nearly as frowned upon as female promiscuity. If I were to ask someone I'm starting to see (I'm female) how many women they have slept with. I just dont see that conversation going well. I would be expected to just see it as men sowing wild oats before trying to settle down. Reversed the woman would be seen as being easy, loose morals, likely to cheat, etc.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 06:32 AM
1	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? So its jealousy? They cant get laid so people that can arent worth their time. So sad.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 06:20 AM
2	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? True. And I do. I dont often share my "number". Its so rude to ask someone that. I am clean, that's all that matters. I run far away when I meet someone who seems to think that a womens measure is only who and how many have been in between her legs. So much more to a person than their sexual history. It's just a bummer to repeatedly see that double standard still held on too so strongly.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 06:16 AM
1	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal? I'm all for it. The only thing that bums me out is that it is more socially acceptable for men to sleep around. I've seen many comments on this sub that women who have too much casual sex are not gf or wife material.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 05:46 AM
2	My red flags Hmm, I dont know that we can quite be aware of what our subconscious wants even when involving therapy. I do want someone who's nice and wants a relationship . I would also love to have hot sex and have fun. Those things can exist together. I've worked on this and so maybe I dont do this as much anymore. But it seems like women are often given messages throughout development that we should be nice, accommodating, not ask for too much, dont be demanding. It can be hard to voice what we want, if w…	/r/seduction	18/11/20 06:59 PM
2	My red flags Dating, love, relationships, and sex are not always logic based. Intimacy involves a great deal of emotion. A successful approach would need to consider both perspectives. Again, does it say somewhere this sub is only meant for men?	/r/seduction	18/11/20 06:53 PM
2	My red flags I also missed the part where this sub was only for men. I'll stand corrected if I missed it. I didnt see it in the headline for the group or the about section.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 06:44 PM
1	My red flags You made a comment about how womens perspective are not helpful because they arent upfront about the truth or what they actually want. My response was an attempt at actually trying to be up front and honest about it. I'm not mad. That's fine if women arent welcome here. I will move along after today then. I'm just curious why womens perspective wouldn't be important in knowing how to be seductive. A bunch of men trying to coach each other without womens opinions seems misguided. Assuming that th…	/r/seduction	18/11/20 06:41 PM
1	My red flags "She behaves like someone who saved her virginity until marriage" lol. What does that behavior look like? You discuss your coworkers and his wife's sexual relationship with him? That seems odd. If for some reason I knew a coworker who started dating someone (male or female) that I for some weird reason knew they had a lot of partners in the past. It wouldn't matter. Is my coworker happy? Then it's none of my business. So it seems like the issue here isnt that she slept around, its that she didnt…	/r/seduction	18/11/20 06:00 PM
1	My red flags Why would your peers and friends be privy to the knowledge of her sexual history? Unless you are breaking her trust and spreading around what she has shared with you. Sure, some women are easy but not all women who have slept around are easy. Women are sexual creatures as well and do engage in sexual activity. Sleeping with anything that gives you attention is being easy. It is possible to have a lot of sexual partners in ones history but not open ones legs to anyone who asks or tries. There is …	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:43 PM
1	My red flags I'm not even sure how to respond to this. It sounds like you are saying if a woman has had a lot of sex in the past that she will for sure cheat on you with someone more handsome just because she can? That sounds like a red flag to me. Confidence and insecurity issues. If a woman has chosen you and is in an exclusive relationship with you, why be paranoid? Sure you can have your preferences but it sounds like your closing yourself off to potential matches. Good luck to you.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:28 PM
1	My red flags It should also be considered if this person has had actual long term relationships in the past. Choosing to be impulsive and have multiple partners and also being capable of a monogamous long term relationship are not mutually exclusive. You even just admitted that you engaged in impulsive hookup culture. Do you not hold yourself to the same standards as women you want? Or are you just being hypocritical on purpose?	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:12 PM
1	My red flags Of course the dad would be blamed. Who in their right mind would be blame a baby or a child for a poor relationship with a father? Once a girl reaches adulthood, the responsibility would be on both of them if they truly want to heal and repair the relationship but oftentimes one or both parties isnt willing. Stop blaming children for the actions of adults.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:05 PM
-1	My red flags Having multiple sexual partners in the past does not mean people cant be loyal. If these past partner encounters, no one was cheating, there is no evidence here that that person would cheat.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 05:00 PM
3	My red flags Okay, I'll play along. I do have daddy issues. My initial response would be pushback because the post says I'm to be discarded and not be an option for anyone. I have done a lot of work in therapy for abandonment issues. Does it affect my dating. I'm sure as hell it does. I will never "arrive" at a perfect place or be fixed. Therapy is about breaking patterns that are harmful and not serving you. It's about learning tools to deal with trauma and disappointment. It is not a fix all. I will never …	/r/seduction	18/11/20 04:53 PM