Rivendesu12 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Getting girls at clubs	Escalation & Calibration	Rivendesu12	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why are women so confusing? Hey man, have this problem more than enough times. The girl likely has Bdp (borderline personality disorder) and sadly you shouldn’t take this girls seriously if you don’t want to fuck your mental health (like seriously I got pretty traumatic experiences with these type of girls) if you want to clear your head on the matter I’ll leave you a video that will make everything make sense https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oOnTHbDNdbw	/r/seduction	16/09/22 11:27 PM
1	I hate my brother because of his success Maybe your brother knows something you don’t and would help asking him for some advice. Is your brother tall and handsome or is his personality giving him success? Focus on what you can do	/r/seduction	30/08/22 03:35 PM
1	(20m) Couldn’t get girl to hook up with me? Bro what. How is this a question. Next time just shut up and scalate phisically instead of talking too much waiting for her to give you details in what to exactly do. Just kiss her neck and touch her everywhere, get her naked slowly and fuck her. If she didn’t want the sex you wouldn’t have gotten that far. So just go for it	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:30 PM
1	Getting girls at clubs Yea this works best. But sometimes I just get into the club with no girls so I need to pick some up	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:53 AM
1	How conventionally attractive are you? Maybe a 7. Pretty good shape and a somewhat handsome face, not model tier but still pretty good looking. I dress good enough but can’t afford really good clothes. Also 5’9 living in London which doesn’t help a lot	/r/seduction	21/07/22 06:52 PM
3	Looking for new dirty talk literature Just say what you actually feel like saying. No memorised lines	/r/seduction	18/07/22 10:22 AM
2	What are your best moves? My best move is not giving a fuck and being as cocky confident as possible, always has putted myself first all my life and that makes me extremely extremely polarising, so a girl either hate me or love me there’s no middle way for me, so I only have to play the numbers game. Also gym and smell helps a lot	/r/seduction	18/07/22 10:15 AM
2	How much of our own toxicity should we embrace? There’s no such thing as “being authentic who you are” you are your experiences, knowledge and beliefs. These things shape your behaviour and what it’s all of a “temporal you” since you will get new experiences, knowledge and beliefs, what you call “your authentic you” could be nothing more than a lack of knowledge and pure ignorance that hasn’t developed in what you truly thing is right. If you were a bully as a kid that is not what you are but what you did, for reasons you probably don’t even …	/r/seduction	22/06/22 05:27 PM
1	My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.) It’s not society, it’s biology, we all work based on our genes and biology, even our psychology works on that, and all society works toward simply biology motivators of pleasure and pain, younger women will always be more attractive and valuable to men, that’s just how it works, whats your point?	/r/seduction	26/05/22 07:08 AM
-5	How to keep a girl interested if you’ve got a low sex drive? More than a girls problem it sounds like you might have low testosterone and this will fuck your life in every way possible. Sex it’s usually the biggest motivator for men, men conquer the world for it, without you will have a difficult time getting motivated to be better, lot of physical and mental issues, you might be like this but I doubt it, get checked just in case	/r/seduction	11/05/22 06:55 PM
1	Let's Discuss Arousal! It looks like it’s a personal problem or insecurity of yours bro. To be honest with you, I quit porn and all bullshit like that, I genuinely get hard as fuck with eye contact and simple touching a girl I like. After that I get soft after fucking her and coming, then hard as fuck again in about 3 minutes, next round probably takes me 5-10 minutes, and next probably around 20	/r/seduction	14/04/22 12:37 PM
2	Really wish I didn’t hear this. Bro no offence but I doubt you get laid at all with that. You always polarise women straight away and you don’t waste your time in giving her free attention or you’ll go straight to friend zone or some stupid shit like that. If she can get your resources without giving you anything she’ll do that. If you don’t show any sexual interest even when CLEARLY that is the reason you spend time with her that is so weak of a frame and such a turn off to women. You don’t give women competition anxiety aski…	/r/seduction	01/04/22 09:01 PM
1	I feel like I'm just too old to find any significant love at this point First chill the fuck out. Fix your clear mental issues, start improving yourself and you’ll see result with practice, things don’t happen to you, you make them happen. Now get to work, there’s no time to be depressed, go kill it. And btw, real life for a man starts at 30. Beauty is for girls, go get into the gym, eat real food, educate yourself in the real world, improve some skills, groom yourself a bit, you’ll be above 90% of guys already	/r/seduction	30/01/22 04:01 PM
1	[deleted by user] The name says it all. When you are a player, you just play the game. You don’t get carry by your “nice guy” emotions. But in my opinion you are just not confident as you think you are. Otherwise you wouldn’t even have this worry. So what to do? Get a life and stop worrying about if they see you as a player or not, improve your inner game that you clearly lack and improve your seduction skills and how to speak to girls. You don’t simp them as a nice guy or tell them what you like to watch on Netf…	/r/seduction	30/01/22 03:58 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yes you have low self steem, since that’s not your problem and you shouldn’t worry about it. But it can also be true that she’s seeing another guy or possible more, no way to know. Why don’t you just ask to be exclusive if you care that much and play your chances?	/r/seduction	30/01/22 03:49 PM
4	(19M) Is it even worth it for me to try talking to girls in college, or should I just wait until later on in life? Everyone here will tell you to just go ahead and approach as many girls as you can, get comfortable with rejection and eventually, maybe, a girl say yes. From my point of view, you are wasting your time this way. You have to be clear about how the sexual market works. Stop thinking about it for now, hit the gym, diet, hobbies, educate yourself, experience life a little, maybe make some extra money, and your be in huge adventage, then it will be way way easier to gain that experience back that yo…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 12:18 AM
2	Should I stop being her friend? Yes. You should stop giving her the attention she wants without receiving anything back. There’s 0 profit for you in that relationship and but there’s profit for her. If she would be interested in you she would make it the easier possible for you to make a move, that’s not the reality. Now, swallow that pill and move on. If you see her in the gym say hi and focus on your own shit. Build some value for yourself, hit the gym, groom yourself and build those social skills, if you focus on that you m…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:48 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yes there’s is. Hit the gym, get into a healthy diet, paleo diet is perfect, no more than 1800 calories a day, learn to chew and swallow properly to vanish that baby face, get a haircut, use some boots with a good clothe style if necessary, learn some social skills through books and videos, if you can grow a beard. That’s it, you are already above 70% of guys despite being short and ugly. Remember, girls don’t value beauty the same as men and it’s not the most important attractive trait for them…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:44 PM
2	If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen. I think it’s really sad that men falls on this trap. It’s a situation that never should happen. Men have the prize, I don’t see why would you stay as a friend of someone you want for something more, when you can just focus on build your own value and have all the girls you want. It’s that simple. Only thing women have it’s beauty, if a man chase for the same external thing to bring value to his life then his going to kill his internal game, and that boys, it’s game over. Even if you actually wan…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:37 PM
1	[deleted by user] Maybe you don’t look approachable? I usually (and pretty sure lot of guys) avoid girls that look like they are too much into their own world or any other non approachable body language, also I don’t think lack of experience in girls it’s a problem, I would see that as a bonus. And maybe you are not ugly but your expectations exceeds the value you give and end up not giving a chance to other potential guys “in your league”, but well that depends, it could also be that you have big ego and give yo…	/r/seduction	08/09/21 07:45 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? The reasons comes to the reward, once you start the journey I doubt you'll be interested in those things anyways. When you know that doing other things can give you a way better reward all that automatically becomes a waste of time. It's not about doing self improvement and do the things you like, because the self improvement becomes the thing you like. and for the pussy again, once you stop giving importance to it, it will come to you. You are not aware of your Subconscious mind which controls …	/r/seduction	01/08/21 02:04 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? Fear it's an illusion, It all comes to the phenomenon or whatever it is called ''resistance'' in your brain that ''helps'' you survive by not letting you do big changes in your life. Your body it's nothing more than a tool, if you let it control you, you'll regret it big time later on. Start with the simple, build your body (exercise, taking care of your aesthetic, etc) , build your wallet (career, side hustles, a skill, etc) and build your mind (books,youtube , experience, whatever get you out …	/r/seduction	01/08/21 01:51 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? I highly recommend you to start hitting the gym with a goal in mind. Get away from dopamine addictive stuff like Social media, Porn, netflix, anime, video games, looser friends and specially jerking off. Start persuing something, learn a skill and monetise it, try out to build a business or a persuit a career (for me it was entrepreneurship what made my feel in the top of the world) since I started entrepreneurship, working on my mental health,etc, girls find my highly intellectual (even when I'…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 05:53 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? Idk, for me it is as simple as that, I wasted my teens also with video games and didn't get laid not once because I didn't had interest. Now at my 21 I started to build myself, my physic, finance and most important social skills. The best thing you need to do It's to get as much skills, knowledge and life experience as you can, then you start conecting and relating with more people, start being more social and keep improving yourself, it all compounds, now I get laid pretty much when I want beca…	/r/seduction	31/07/21 05:46 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? Build yourself little by little every day. Create a purpose. When you start growing yourself and have a sense of where you are going your self steem sky rocket, you get many knowledge and experience with it which compounds, after you start that path and have knowledge in many concepts of self growth you can connect with almost any girl, you’ll have the confidence to do it as well, once you start talking to one, getting more experience and knowledge it compounds again. Before you know it, you’ll …	/r/seduction	29/07/21 09:58 AM