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| 1 | The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single"Your comment was snarky, hence the dislikes and snarky reply. Though you may not relate, one liners like that come off across as having no empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Before lamenting that you aren't getting hookups you should make sure that you are indeed hookup material.There is a woman on YouTube named Deborrah Cooper. She is literally the troll under the bridge--nasty, entitled attitude and physically repulsive. Yet, this unexceptional woman expects an exceptional man. It's not going to happen. No man is going to work that hard for an ugly, old woman. We don't care if they think we are less desirable and jaded to them. They are invisible to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameWomen need to start reaching out first to the men they are interested in to remove any ambiguity that she doesn’t want you to approach her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menMany women don’t take care of themselves, especially as they age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menAnd men don’t want old women with unattractive physical features. It cuts both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.Yes, I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.I’m not going to explain something that I have already explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.I’m not going to explain this to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.I knew a guy who had confidence that he could pass the CPA exam. He put in the work, but he wasn't able to adapt his mental faculties to perform on the exam. He eventually accepted that accounting was not for him and he moved on to other things in life. Not every mind or personality can be shaped and molded to fit a standard that you are expecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.I have so many thoughts and feelings about this, so take from this what you will. I've heard women complain about men copying comedians to develop their humor, and how their obvious lack of originality was a turn off. These women don't seem to appreciate the effort from men who are aware that they are doing what they can with the resources available to them to improve their sense of humor and ability to meet the demands from women to make them laugh. In my experience, the rare times when my "jok… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Do you have any insight into the fat dude's socioeconomic standing? In the states, the general rule is "like attracts like," and "stay in your lane." The fat dude likely made up for his lack of conventional physical attractiveness with his ability to provide financial security to the IG influencer. Unless they are extremely desperate, even conventionally unattractive men are not willing to surrender the resources they worked so hard for to a woman they find physically repulsive. Likewise, women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.True. A man who cares about what his family thinks about him, isn't going to bring home an OF woman with piercings and body art. A man's choice in a partner also affects his professional reputation. Nevertheless, most men doing well, financially, are not going to spend their money on women they don't find physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.This is the point I have been trying to make. If a man is exhausting himself competing against women for a decent income, why would that man play the provider role for a woman who is just average-looking? If her sex appeal cannot meet raise her value to the level of the man's income, why would that man surrender his hard-earned income for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.True enough, but women with degrees and money still have to face the possibility that the men they want will not find some of them attractive enough to date. If said man expands his dating pool with his income, he is still going to pick the best option out of that pool, which likely excludes physically unattractive women and average-looking women who expect him to contribute more money than she does. My aunt is a perfect example of this. She makes very good money, owns a very nice home, has two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Wow. Your guy is in the top 10% of earners in the United States. What do you both do to earn so much? You said he's "hot af." That would lead me to believe that he also finds you conventionally "hot." Based on the way you described his sex appeal and income, you both are above average. You are not the kind of woman I am talking about. The woman I am talking about is not "hot," she is conventionally an AVERAGE-LOOKING woman. She has an average shape and build, average facial features, average ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.So he has to go for really ugly women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.If he didn’t pay most of your expenses, would you still be inclined to be in a relationship with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.I heard that women with masters’s outnumber men with master’s, so his pool should not be as small as you are making it seem. If women demand certain socioeconomic status from men, those same men should expect the same. He should not have to pay for an average-looking woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Whatever opinion you have of him, he wasn’t wrong or unreasonable. Average-looking women with average jobs have no reason to expect more than they have to offer men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.I spoke with a man who held a master's degree. He was of average looks and personality, but his strict dealbreaker was lack of a master's degree. He did not mention anything about other preferences. His rationale was that if he put in the time and effort to educate himself and earn that status, than the woman he dates must live up to that status, also. I think men who do care about socioeconomic class are those who expect their girlfriends/wives to carry their own financial weight in the relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?I agree that above-average-looking women can expect an above-average-earning man, because her physical appeal offsets the money he is paying to treat her. I don't agree that this below-average-looking woman is deserving of an above-average-earning man. If she expects a man to make more than $50k, then it is only fair that she loses 50 pounds. And there is a difference between curve and curves in regards to body shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?I just turned 40, and have still not found a career, and I am back to square one in search of a path. Of course, I am in no position to judge a woman that age who is also struggling. So I would feel comfortable dating her, as we are both on equal footing. I'm assuming that you are at an age where you have established a career that sustains your lifestyle, and you expect a partner on the same level. I can understand that you would not date a man who doesn't have the same career status as you. How… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:18 PM |
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