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Riversfomo/r/seduction25/06/18 05:17 AM
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Riversfomo/r/seduction03/07/18 02:52 PM
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Not true, took a girls virginity a week ago and I can guarantee she's not in love with me lol. She just wanted to rip a bandaid off.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 07:07 AM
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Could be? You won't see a middle class guy of that size punching so far above his weight
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:02 AM
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How so
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:04 PM
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You already said that in the original statement. Hence my comment. Do you have a reason
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:16 AM
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the men are ultra beta That's precisely the symptom of the cause he's explaining. the smallest penis averages so they aren't exactly known for skills there. Yeah but penis size comes at the end of seduction what's the connection with skills?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:32 AM
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Todd V is fine. I watch a bunch of other dating advice guys and honestly if they're big enough for you to find then they're not misogynists. You really can't afford to be that way in today's climate, YouTube will shut that shit down instantly.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 08:30 AM
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Lmao those are bad friends
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:19 PM
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What is young really
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:28 AM
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You forget good friends
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:48 AM
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Your assumption is the true self of every person is what others like. No, that's your assumption based on what I said. Being yourself is the best advice because pretending is pointless and you're just lying to yourselves. It's not like when you start being yourselves, all people will automatically start liking you. The human experience is vast and varied and people have their likes and preferences. You're going to find the people whose preferences you match as well as attract people who didn't n…
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:52 AM
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It does work, this sub tries to bring out the actual identity of a person from under all the negative walls, beliefs and fears that have accumulated over the years.
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:37 AM
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But he never got laid until he dropped the weight and moved to CA Yea that'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:41 AM
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Can someone help me understand why all the mods of FDS are all subbed to cat subs? I mean literally almost all of them are. Fuck this is funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:44 PM
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He said heavy lifting. Also you're generalising cardio exercise. Heavy lifting definitely burns more calories than steady state cardio like walking. Keep in mind that we're talking about overall burn, not just calories burned during the activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:59 AM
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Lol what are bitch abs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:57 AM
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I'm not asking you to write me an essay, just give me something to google. Or do you expect me to do a deep dive of the massive field of psychology?
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 03:29 PM
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It doesn't need to be replaced by another method, Never said it did ere are things that will be nigh on impossible to understand and how our psychology changed over centuries/millennia is probably one of them. Probably, but not certainly right What phenomena? That muscles are attractive? There are plenty of studies you can read up on the psychological reasons behind sexual selection that don't rely on us talking about our hunter gatherer ancestors. Interesting, I'd like to read a study that expl…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 02:53 PM
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Okay this is still a criticism though. My question was whether you can name some alternative to evopsych that explains this same phenomena.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 02:32 PM
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As I have pointed out (and named) some anthropologists have demonstrated some use but the vast majority of it doesn't hold up to legitimate scrutiny. Yes, the so called "legitimate scrutiny" is what I'm referring to. Please expand.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 02:18 PM
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Do you believe in some alternative body of knowledge that debunks evopsych?
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 01:02 PM
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So do you not believe in evopsych as a whole?
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 12:37 PM
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Why do I reject people's own imaginary ideas as evidence....? Those actually aren't my original thoughts. Also Evopsych is most definitely not biology No, I meant what I was saying was biology, I wasn't equating the two.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 11:20 AM
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we extrapolate modern ideals to primitive cultures and then apply our own conjecture on what it might be about with basically no evidence. Why do you reject it as evidence? Evopsych is one hell of a drug Biology*
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 10:46 AM
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MUSCULAR MEN ARE ATTRACTIVE BECAUSE MUSCLES ARE SEXY. Why are muscles sexy? . Why are you so obsessed what life was like 10,000 years ago? Do you sit around and think "I would've been SUCCESSFUL as a cave man!!!" or something I simply stated the scientific explanation behind certain attraction.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:35 PM
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Well yeah, I never said otherwise
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 06:57 PM
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To be clear, I’m extremely confident sexually speaking but my claws come out thinking about him with other women - which again, there have been lots LOL. Well he's no longer a fuckboy, that's what's important. He's chosen you. In a way I find it attractive because he’s experienced A high number of partners doesn't mean experience. It's usually the opposite. Spending a lot of time with one partner gets you experience.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:01 PM
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No argument there. Although this isn't subset of those things. There's evidence of it in every other species too. However, nary any compelling evidence that disproves it.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 04:40 PM
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They were commenting on the provider role concept as if it was the transactions that caused the attraction. I was only pointing out that that was a misconception.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 04:37 PM
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Can't a woman just like big dudes because she likes big dudes ? Human behaviour can be explained by science. Why do men like breasts? Why are butts attractive? Sure we could just stop at recursive causation i.e. it is so because it is so. But biology actually does explain why it is so. Similar behaviour as well as correlation can be seen in other mammals as well. Man is no exception.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:20 PM
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What's attractive to some men too? Muscle or money?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:08 PM
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Love and attraction have nothing to with sex work. I don't believe I said that
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:08 PM
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Yeah, that's my point, it's an arrangement, not a relationship built out of mutual desire of a similar kind.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 03:05 PM
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Oh no, I was talking about the provider role being attractive to women.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:39 AM
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Hmm, you think sugar babies are actually attracted to their sugar daddies?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:19 AM
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What
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:06 AM
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I don't need someone to provide for me. I can provide for myself. I want someone who can contribute to building out lives together, who has the same goals and values. That's a common misconception of that idea. It's not necessarily the actual things you can get out of a man that make him attractive, it's the fact that he can provide. That's what's attractive. Why are muscular men considered attractive? Because in the old times, that meant being able to hunt prey and provide for the family. It ha…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 11:03 AM
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During covid? Yeah I don't think I have.
/r/seduction10/10/20 06:11 PM
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A lot of people live with vulnerable relatives. Even if they're desperate, they wouldn't risk the health of their loved ones for some affectionate touch.
/r/seduction10/10/20 06:08 PM
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Sure, but that's easier said than done.
/r/seduction10/10/20 04:46 PM
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Yeah but don't you see the catch 22.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:23 PM
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Breaking the touch barrier is a bit tricky with covid
/r/seduction10/10/20 12:08 PM
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Didn't you feel retarded when you wrote this stuff? This isn’t too different from most of the posts here.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 03:37 PM
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Right, because men with a healthy sex drive turn into animals that have to have a release.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 04:42 AM
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Or it just never happened. There’s a lot of possible reasons for that. Plus having self control may be abnormal but there’s definitely nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:37 AM
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=w= represent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:27 AM
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Whoops, sorry, thought you were talking about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:45 PM
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What’s creepy about abstinence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:30 PM
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This may come as a shock, but people aren’t always honest about n count.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 08:05 AM
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Not just anywhere man. It’s gotta be a place where single people are sexually active and hookup culture is a thing. The general challenge is to get a chick to do stuff with you that she has done with other guys. It would be pretty hard to get a chick to do stuff with you that she just doesn’t do at all because of sexual repression, cultural beliefs, values, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 08:28 AM
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What if you only see them around but never directly interact because you work in opposite corners of the workplace?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 07:41 AM
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I’m all natural and I don’t see why we should have to pick which one is better. Let’s just agree they’re both different. Why shame those who had no say when they were cut.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:23 PM
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“How can our eyes be real if mirrors aren’t real” What are you taking about, this shit is dope as hell.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:34 AM
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“Don’t wanna be a rapist? Don’t rape anyone” What a stupid statement. So many men have got screwed over allegations alone. Talking to women just adds to the plausibility of any potential allegation case against you.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 04:09 AM
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He’s 23. Btw what do you mean by he’ll understand?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:17 AM
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Wow you’ve got your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:03 AM
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Don’t worry about not getting laid. That’s not what TRP is about. TRP is about being alpha. Sometimes that’ll get you laid. It’s a bi-product but the not the main deal. Be proud of how far you’ve come. If TRP gets you laid, good, if it doesn’t, who fucking cares? Your n-count doesn’t define you, you define you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:06 AM
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I’d say 80% of guys don’t use anti perspirant like he does. I’m one of them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:33 AM
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What business are your running where you don’t have any debt? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:07 AM
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But what if they don’t want the suitable mates to think they’re sluts. Not putting out easily would be a good way to do that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:05 AM
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We don’t talk that way here.
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:21 PM
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Have it sticking out of your back pocket so she sees it.
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:50 AM
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Yeah, you got this one. Although, keep in mind, this isn’t seduction. Once you’re done with this, try to put yourself out there like she did.
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:54 AM
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Textbook neglected wife here. She takes care of her looks and the husband’s let himself go. Now she wants to take it but not from him. That’s where you come in. Now if you’re ok with the moral aspect of this, then go for it. This is a slam dunk ffs. Tell her the pics make you want to come over right away. It’ll give her the attention she wants.
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:46 AM
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Stop being shy and awkward. As Negan says: “First impressions are important.” Your intentions need to be clear from the get go. Most guys think they gotta be friendly and ease in from there. But doing it can lead to you friendzoning yourself. You tell her to think of you as a friend, then that’s what she’ll do. Your flirt game needs to be strong and confident. Get in there and start working her from the get go. You wanna be subtle about it though. But I think you need to become confident first. …
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:32 AM
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I believe we do have the the sexual equivalent for nice round asses. In fact, it’s the same exact thing. As for tits, pecs aren’t as effective but they do get attention.
/r/seduction01/07/18 07:52 AM
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Seems like a decent situation. Although you need to find out if it’s purely a friendship thing or more than that. Some more interactions and observations should give you an idea. Keep at it for now.
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:32 AM
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People stare for many reasons in general. When you have one thing on your mind, it’s easy to think that others do too. If you suspect that a girl is interested because she’s looking at you, you can try to confirm it by flashing her a smile. Her reaction should tell you more. A smile is harmless so use it as much as you can.
/r/seduction30/06/18 02:33 AM
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Pune :|
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:32 PM
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Btw where in India are you from? I could really use a wingman lol.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:55 AM
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From a fellow Indian, congrats man. Sounds like you made a breakthrough. Just starting a conversation is something so many guys just can’t do. Now take it even further. Looking forward to hearing about your progress :)
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:42 AM
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You don’t need facial attractiveness to get noticed. I consider myself average at best. I’ve been called ugly more than a few times. Yet I’ve been approached/hit on 4 times. Two of them were attractive and one of them was basically out of my league. I’m 6ft tall, with an alright frame and I’m a little overweight. Maybe that’s what got me noticed or maybe it was my behaviour at the time. My point is facial attractiveness isn’t the be all, end all. Most of the time, it’s the person holding themsel…
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:32 AM
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Your expressions are a huge part of how you’ll create mystery. That, what you say and how you’re dressed. Mostly the first two. Not appearing creepy or weird is upto how you handle it. I can’t tell you exactly what to say because this works best when it’s situation specific. But you need to give off a vibe of a guy who is the life of the party. Imagine that one guy and be him. She should feel cool to be in your presence. Don’t be a complacent douche though. Very thin line. Born in Bangalore, liv…
/r/seduction27/06/18 03:27 PM
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Like I said, in your approaches, you seem too laid back. You want to be a bit more involved and connected to the situation. You want to be the right amount of laid back and show the right amount of interest. You need to build up some intrigue in her head too like “What’s this guy’s deal”. Mystery can be very attractive. I’ve noticed that once I figure out a girl, she becomes less attractive. So try to generate some interest from her and it doesn’t have to be sexual although, try to avoid the fri…
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:27 AM
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I’ve been approached 3 times in my teens. The first two didn’t happen in the night party scene but the third one did. I remember just coming there for some dj and because my friend wanted me to. Anyway, we both just danced to the music and suddenly two girls approached us and introduced themselves. In retrospect, we were just having a good time and not worried about anything else. I find what they say here is true. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin. Act like you belong and don’t have sex…
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:13 AM
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That’s funny. I would say the opposite. In the night time they are looser and more relaxed so they’re more likely to give you a chance.
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:02 AM
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Congrats on moving on! Some guys feel too down to even do that. Although, I have to say, you’re stacking the odds against yourself in so many ways. Approaching people who have somewhere to be is not a good idea. If they’re in a hurry, you are an inconvenience to them. Also, may I ask, why are you doing the daytime game? You’re really cold right now so go for the bar scene at nights. That way, you’ll only come across people that are probably DTF or at least open to advances.
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:58 AM
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From a fellow Indian, it’s nice that you are so confident that you make such daring cold approaches to complete strangers. Although, your lines need some real tuning. Comic book characters are the last thing you want to mention to a girl you’re interested in. The odds of her being a fan as well are pretty low and you’ll most likely come off as some inexperienced nerd. You wanna be easy going so don’t say anything flashy. Say something smooth or funny instead. Asking someone to kill time with you…
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:27 PM
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You’re shy because you’re scared of women. The simple answer is to be more confident but here’s a tip that might make you less scared. Once you spot a girl you want to approach, don’t dive in right away. Observe her for as long as you want (without getting caught of course). You might get a good read on her. Knowing your crowd is very important. Before you approach her, make sure she knows that you see her. How do you do this? Flash a smile. Shy guys don’t do that. So you’ve already got her thin…
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:04 PM
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That’s the one
/r/seduction26/06/18 02:40 AM
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Clearly, it was too forward for her. That, or she wasn’t interested. Know your crowd. But yeah, you gotta do this in person. In this case, you come off as shy and lacking in confidence.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:36 PM
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I’m pretty good at making people laugh so that shouldn’t be a problem. Although, I think I’m going to open with something less obvious since I don’t like revealing my intentions immediately. Plus this isn’t a bar so my approach needs to be less direct or I might look like I’m not minding my own business. I’m honestly curious to see how any conversation in this situation will go so I’m going to find some inconspicuous way of starting it. I really appreciate the advice though. Looks like everyone …
/r/seduction25/06/18 01:34 PM
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Pune
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:42 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:45 AM
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Yup, and that’s exactly what I intend to do the next time I see her.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:40 AM
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Not from Boston, but, I’m a PM away lol.
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:21 AM
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Aww
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:02 AM
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Definitely gonna talk. I’m not going to chicken out this time. I get the conscious thing though. I do that too sometimes. Hell, I might’ve done it to her lol.
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:00 AM
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Noted.
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:09 AM
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I know what you feel like and it’s crazy how much I can relate to so much of this. I’m in a very similar situation to you. I haven’t done as much as you although the opportunities I got would’ve allowed me to do so much if I hadn’t screwed them up. I have yet to make a cold approach as well. I’m gonna change that very soon though. PM me if you read this. We could push each other to do things in solidarity.
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:08 AM
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Don’t be afraid of it. I’m just as old as you and in the same situation. You know what I realised? If you constantly feel like time is running out, you’re not going to get anywhere. Also, here’s the thing about male virginity: just like a lady boner, it’s not real. It’s a feminine word that’s used to describe a biological detail exclusive to women (hint:something breaking). Do not consider yourself a virgin. Don’t let women have power over you. They are your equals. They’re not scared of you and…
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:53 AM
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I don’t mean to sound typical but you are your problem. Your post reeks of self doubt and lack of confidence and self esteem. If you don’t act like a catch, no one will think you’re a catch. When you’re on the prowl, be smooth and be confident. The ugliest guys get the hottest chicks like this. I could mention so many celeb couples as examples.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:44 AM
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Well if she says that, your natural instinct is to get out of that interaction as soon as you can right? Don’t do that. Stick with it. She doesn’t know you yet. Try to charm her in a very subtle way. Do not show interest in her. Instead, you want to ace the conversation and impress her at the same time. So don’t talk too much. Try to get her to talk. Preferably more than you. Also, be a good listener and maintain eye contact 100% of the time. Women are intrigued by men who can carry a conversati…
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:40 AM
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Will do. Nice to know someone’s reading this.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:23 AM
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I hear it’s not unheard of to clean the gun before you go out so that you’re relaxed and can perform your best if things go that far.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:13 AM
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You sound jaded. Put yourself on a sabbatical and go cold turkey. Don’t be messing with women when you’re not feeling any of it. It might mess you up mentally. Only do what you wanna do. Socially, you should always do what you feel like doing. Don’t force yourself into anything else. Although, you can always try new things even if you don’t feel like doing them because you might discover something you like.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:08 AM
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I’m not up for hitting on a chick just for sport. If I’m doing it, I want to be willing to go forward from there. Right now I’m only looking at this one girl. But thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:05 AM
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I mean that she might be trying to be your guy friend. She might really wanna be your friend and is acting extra casual. Although you say this has been going on for 2 years. There’s a lot of context missing in your post. What happened in those two years. She would’ve probably given up trying to get your attention after a year maximum. That’s why I said forced platonic.
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:52 AM
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A lot of people here have the same problems. I personally have yet to approach someone I know, let alone a cold approach. It’s baby steps. Don’t worry, you’ll get there.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:28 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense. Besides, if you tell the joke and then look around it’s gonna look like you’re desperate for some laughs. Friend is the way to go.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:25 AM
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Yeah dude, don’t be shy. She clearly isn’t. She might be toying with you so you need to find out what’s going on. It seems like a forced platonic relationship to me but if you’re not sure just straight up ask her.
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:24 AM
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Be proud of dropping those 65 pounds! Although, what’s with the chickening out bro? The approach is the part where most guys give up but you pulled it off. Then you didn’t try to get her number. Don’t do that. Be confident. If you’re gonna approach her and try to make her laugh, and at the end of the night, you gotta ask for them digits.
/r/seduction24/06/18 07:01 PM
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That’s not the kind of behaviour you ignore, regardless of how you feel. Sounds like you’re not interested. In that case, you need to tell her that you’re not sure how she feels about you because she’s confusing you and if she wants something that you don’t, just tell her. Alternatively, she might just be trying to show you that she’s one of the guys by acting platonic. I mean, what girl asks a guy the size of his penis. That’s just bad dirty talk.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:46 PM
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Don’t go straight for the game. Start by making some friends. You could try the gym, local rec centre. You could go door to door and introduce yourself to the neighbourhood or you could just talk to your neighbours. Getting at least one friend should be enough. Start hitting up all the happening clubs with your friend(s) and get to work. You don’t need to have someone with you. Going solo also yields results too although you need to be able to pull it off. Be confident throughout all of this. Yo…
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:30 PM
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You don’t have to talk about your day although it’s not a bad idea. You can also make plans to do things you haven’t done together, watch a movie that you can talk about beyond “it was good” or “it was bad”.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:16 PM
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I’ve heard this somewhere. Although, aren’t you supposed to tell the joke and see who’s interested? Why is the friend telling the joke?
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:13 PM
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Either she’s trying to play hard to get but showing some interest at the same time, or she wants to be FWBs. You ask what she wants but you don’t say what you want. If you’re interested, just tell her, if not, tell her. I have a feeling this has gone on for 2 years because of how you’ve been reacting to it.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:08 PM
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Yup, anything’s a fetish these days. But I wouldn’t reveal my virginity on the chance that she had that fetish. It could backfire so easily.
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:12 AM
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You’re right about virginity. It’s like a lady boner. Not a real thing (hopefully). Plus virgin is a really feminine word. It’s just weird associating it to men.
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:10 AM
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What the guy above me said. You really don’t need to tell her you’re a virgin. There’s really no moral aspect to this. As long as you’re sure that you won’t get too attached there’s really no need. In fact, it could backfire. Telling her would be like the opposite of surrounding yourself with attractive female friends. You do that to show that you have pull so you can’t be that bad. When you say you’re a virgin though, she may wonder why no one has slept with you, what’s wrong with you and wheth…
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:17 AM
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See I’m not questioning the logic here. If you’re in that kind of a situation already, consent is kind of redundant. But like you said, you gotta be careful of those certain kind of women. So we need to look at consent from a legal perspective. Verbal consent holds up in court. So while what you said makes perfect sense, silence does not pass for verbal consent.
/r/seduction23/06/18 07:03 PM
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Literally the same as you. Turned 20 this month and didn’t have any of my firsts. Not even a relationship. But guess what? It’s because of me. I’ve had attractive women come on to me before but I’ve never put myself out there because I’m scared of rejection. Once you get past this initial barrier, it becomes much easier because you’re not scared of it anymore. Eventually, you’ll get so good at playing off the rejection that women will start second guessing their decision. Take the plunge my frie…
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:43 PM
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You’re right about OP missing major signals and also, great tip on the getting her consent part but I have to point out that silence does not pass for consent today.
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:27 PM
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