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| -1 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.Look, you're absolutely right. It is self serving. And we are totally assholes sometimes. But if a woman isn't keen to sleep with me by the end of the third date, then I have to assume she has no libido and won't take care of me even if I did date her. Or at least that her libido won't keep up with mine and we're mismatched. So yes I reject women who's timetables are more drawn out than mine and a lady buys herself more time to get into my heart simply by ENJOYING SEX!? how hard is that, honestl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?Exactly, I find many women can't maintain a casual relationship past 3 months as they catch feelings. It really seems women have little ability to compartmentalize. Do you see it that way and do you think men and women would get on better if women got better at compartmentalizing? Like we expect men to be more emotionally available but we don't expect women to need it less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:02 AM |
| -1 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?Ok cheers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?Cheers, but of course a FWB that doesn't satisfy you isn't worth it. He's really hot and you've learnt what each other like. The sex is good and there's no strings. Is it still not worth shaving your legs and having him over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?Lots of ladies are saying they would rather masturbate than have a FWB. But I find sex way better than masturbation,why do you think many women here are of this opinion? In the absence of a man you want to date,why not have a FWB? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about the “phenomenon” that is apparent in this sub?Thank you, fully agree. Wish there was less man/woman hating drivel in this sub and more constructive conversation. I think most of the woman hating men on here need to understand that reading a study is very different to goin on a date with an actual person! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | New South Wales, Australia adopts affirmative consent lawsIt looks a lot like guilty till proven innocent isn't it? I'm for 8f4m jury splits is rape cases to try and make this crime more prosecutable but feel like this reverses a fundamental tenent of our justice system. Innocent until proven guilty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)Well good luck with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 0 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)You're not buying sex. If you don't want to pay for dinner, don't. In all odds, you pick the date! Pick something you'd do whether she's there or not and then you won't feel like you're wasting money. Most women are scheming to use their sex for free dinner! They're just hoping you're not a weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her?Yes! For God's sake i don't understand women thinking we'll judge them poorly for loving sex and communicating their needs. If I can tell a lady's not having a great time I might be concerned to ask, so it's nice! It's sometimes a relief! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her?A woman who uses her words to communicate what she'd like and who initiates and shows that she wants to be there is way more valuable than ladies with no confidence in bed. Also if you enjoy giving him pleasure it's fucking awesome to know. Then I get to feel sexy and hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | There is no point debating false knowledge.You could also takes deep breath and work on building some confidence and self esteem? My worth doesn't hinge on how much pussy I get coz I'm not immature as fuck or insecure about who I am. Suprise! Pussy went up once I worked that out. Lol this post. You may have anxiety. Talk to a doctor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?Crazy, yeah well PSA - we totally don't care. Just gonna give em a little attention before the main course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?No there's a hole below the clit yeah? I was mainly curious that women seriously can't give a fuck what a porn stars vulva looks like and this lady who had her labia clipped was a bit of a nutter yeah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?seen the doco "the perfect vagina"? A good looking young lady has plastic surgery to alter her vagina after her sister told boys she had "big flaps". I couldn't believe it. Never thought eeww flaps! So maybe not envy but maybe. Also Porn is meant to be making ladies worry about their vag not looking like the porn stars. Is this really a thing? Hard to comprehend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her?Because they enjoy sex and think I'm attractive? No need to be any more complicated than that. I'm perfectly happy with just that and if a good one comes along I'll date her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 10:09 AM |
| 5 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Yeah it can feel like they want collateral. You can't leave I know too much. I can hurt you the worst don't try it. But pretty suspicious this might be based on fear ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?I guess a lot has to do with pacing early on. Women want it faster than men and the man may not feel she's done enough for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. I still don't get it but I have been practicing my vulnerability lately and the sky hasn't fallen down but I still have very little to show for it. Frustrating but I guess I'll have to be patient. I think many man think they are emotionally available but the ladies need EVEN MORE! Emotional availability and it's too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:08 AM |
| 0 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?I just don't get why you would want to be vulnerable or why you would need -Supportive, attentive. I value my independence and don't see what I gain from being vulnerable to you or why I would want you to be vulnerable to me. Sort your own shit out, don't be a leaner. I want you to be strong with me. I want a lady who is as strong and independent as I am so I know she will be a valuable ally when the chips are down. Not someone I need to support and help emotionally regulate. I have been trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Women Shouldn't Complain About Nice Guys, If They Aren't HonestThumbs up to the lady's who bothered with this thread. It was clearly a high risk of toxicity but I bet many men got something from your responses. If you're unhappy with the way a lady treats you,man up and talk to her!if she says no have some self-respect and move on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:42 PM |
| -1 | How literal of a thinker are you?I think the main problem in communication is that men prefer to think logically and exclude other types of thinking (emotional intelligence for example). So when a women says something that she understands has emotional context, the man will interpret it strictly logically and it may well not make sense to him. He becomes confused but none of us like to admit our failings so it's much easier to blame the women for not communicating. It has been frustrating learning how to "speak woman", when it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Fuck me you're agro. I haven't had time to properly read them yet or I would have responded to that. It's clear when someone starts attacking the other person they're not feeling on solid ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:44 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Lol, this thread has a high risk of toxicity so it would be sweet if you'd play the argument and not the person. It's clear you don't understand what I have said 3 times. Just giving you a friendly video so you can. It does sound silly saying that because they are correlated then one has any effect on the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:38 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Again, correlation is not causation and that's a pretty important thing to understand. Here's a ted talk that explains that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8B271L3NtAw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Doesn't look like anyone is saying casual sex is strongly correlated with depression or drug use. I had a look through your old posts to try and find the sources you said you had posted previously but couldn't find them. Would appreciate if you could repost or send them through. So it seems there is in fact no correlation and this may just be your opinion. https://www.talkspace.com/blog/casual-sex-mental-health/ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/oct/10/casual-sex-one-night-stand-se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Correlation isn't causation. You said casual sex was detrimental to health so you would need to show not only that they are correlated, but that one causes the other or else it's bunk. It does clearly matter. I am also expecting to see that this is mainly an issue for women when I have a look on lunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 01:55 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?I'll give it a Google but I'm suspicious it's a horse and cart issue in that the depression/anxiety cause the greater casual sex and not the casual sex causing the depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 12:49 AM |
| 0 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Why do you think that?also you're a lady yeah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Once men know they can easily get a root they would be more likely to think about what else they could have......like a relationship!( Just like women do when they have that option!) But when we wake up with a boner every morning and have to work out how to get it's sorted our priorities are a bit different. So yes if women pursue men more I'd expect more men get laid regularly - more men up the anti on what they want - more men want a relationship - more men are available to women for relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?I thought your argument was "women pursuing men won't solve men's problems and make us less lonely" in short? Is that what you were saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?You get rejected for commitment. Many levels above sex. How often you get rejected for sex? Most men wouldn't feel lonely with a shag a week and could live happily. So yes this would completely solve the problem. Lady pursues me, We bang, loneliness gone, repeat. So much easier than jumping through hoops just to let the lady down. It isn't fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 09:07 AM |
| 18 | CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return.It's not a competition. And they decide what issues they champion, you can champion whatever issues you want. Why is it their job to care about what you care about when you're not accepting and supporting them (Not that you have to)? And you make no complaint about the legitimacy or otherwise of their complaints. Can't they do good things in their space and you do good things in yours and we all move forward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 10:24 PM |
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