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Field ReportRjw12141214/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 04:41 PM
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I’m sorry OP but I’m not even gonna read after “most girls will make you wait”. I’m not trying to be a dick but this is simply not true. Most chicks put out quick af if they are into you. Even “good girls” will. If you want to smash in reasonable time frames (3rd date or sooner) all you have to do is establish some type of sexual tension on or before the first date. I.E. make her think “I wanna fuck this guy.” The best way to do that is just bring up sexual topics. The problem with that is there…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/24 05:26 AM
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Gotta find a way to make sexual or suggestive comments without it being cringe. Can’t explain how I do this it’s just something you learn over time. Once you get a foothold you can run with it for a little. Keeping it going too long is also bad. Gotta know when the moment is over.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 03:32 PM
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I’m not reading this. But I’m gonna give you all advice. The number one rule for success. Doctors hate this! It is: You must create some form of sexual tension before or on the first date. That’s it. Your success rate will go through the roof. Easiest way to do it is texting and get flirty before you even meet. But however you wanna accomplish it is up to you. If a woman does not view you in a sexual capacity she just will not be interested at all. You’d feel the same right? Would you date a gir…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 09:02 PM
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These aren’t shit tests. These are women you haven’t hooked completely yet so they are half interested.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 03:39 AM
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Just say “I’ve date girls, as in gone steady and seem them for a while, but I haven’t had many exclusive relationships. I’m picky, so it takes a quality woman to tie me down.”
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 06:52 PM
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I have said straight up to women “I’m not a fan of talking about past relationships on the first date. I think there’s many more fun topics we can discuss.” And then change the subject from something fun. If you say it in a lighthearted manner they usually agree and just move on. I would assume if you act weird they will smell it out.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 03:43 PM
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This is my opinion and not a fact. TRP as a community is only a few decades old (maybe 30 years?) and is only now becoming mainstream. It started as guys trying to get girls and comparing notes. This lead men to wake up to certain realities about the nature of men and women over the years, which has been the main but not sole focus of the community. Recently, however, realizing that TRP is more of a lifestyle than a religion, more discussion on how to raise sons and daughters has started to beco…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 05:41 PM
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You should go and act normal while being somewhat reserved. Reserved as in, have a nice time but know where the line is when it comes to what you say. Aka have a laugh and be sociable but don’t throw out anything unsavory. Your former military boss did not “switch up” on you. They smoked you because you didn’t know when to fucking cool it in a professional setting. You took it personally instead of realizing there’s a time and place for everything. Go to the dinner and socialize. Read the room a…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 03:35 AM
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If you take care of yourself rollo will say peak smv is like 35. The main idea is men and women have smv for different reasons. Women mostly have smv from looks which typically decline with age. Men have smv from other shit like money, social status, demeanor, which tend to mature and improve with age. Which is why men age like wine and women age like milk
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 01:30 AM
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I’m not even gonna read this post. Never go back to an ex. Even just for pussy. Don’t do it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 01:44 AM
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Sadly you cannot unplug those who do not want to be unplugged. Friend of mine is absolutely fucked because he never took my advice. Sad to watch him fuck his life more and more over a broad.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/23 05:29 PM
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Rational male books by rollo Tomassi are the best IMO. If you’re unfamiliar, book one is all you need and then the subsequent books get into the nitty gritty details of RP thought. Another good book is the unplugged alpha by rich Cooper. It’s basically the same thing as the rational male book 1 but it’s written like you’re having a convo with a regular dude. Audio book is like 4 hours long. You should also strive to get a decent job, lift weights, eat well, sleep well, and have at least one some…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/23 11:28 PM
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Dog I hate to give a semi NAWALT but you’re getting really philosophical over club thots. Guys it’s really a simple program and we complicate it. I used to be very into the deep philosophy and all that good stuff. I still appreciate it but I have boiled down my “game” to two things: Get a girl. Keep a girl. To get a girl you have to attract a girl in some way. There’s millions of ways to do this so I’m not gonna belabor that point. But I have one pro tip to really GET the girl and not end up fri…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/23 07:04 AM
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Sounds like the women you fuck are just not fun people. Try finding women you actually enjoy being around/interacting with
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 11:46 AM
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Dude. To me, it sounds like you literally just have to get good at breaking balls. A hobby isn’t gonna make you a better conversationalist. How to achieve that I don’t know. Personally, I just think “how can I make a small joke or a funny comment out of this” all the time. It’s not a conscious effort I was just raised in a house where we break balls a lot so it’s like a default impulse. Using this thought process, being naturally funny and trying too hard are one or two unfunny comments away fro…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 02:29 AM
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I didn’t fully read your post I pretty much skimmed. I’ll give you some tips and in regard your last sentence, read Rich Coopers the Unplugged Alpha. Good summary of red pill principles in a quick and digestible way. Written like a normal dude instead of rollo Tomassi pontificating (I love Rollo though). Okay your first problem is scarcity mindset. “She’s the best so far.” You’re scared you won’t find something as good. Let me tell you, the dating pool is definitely crappy today, but you’ll find…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 01:11 AM
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Same brother. Same. J4 really do be feeding though
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 08:52 PM
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This is the correct answer. Also “rich people” are like any other group of people. Diverse. Some are chill, some are stuffy, etc etc. Good places to meet rich people: any place or thing that has an air of status about it. As in ritzy versions of normal things. There are also charities, yacht clubs, country clubs, pricier gyms, social clubs like the union league, the lotus club, and I’m sure many others. The only thing is a lot of people that attend that shit will be stuffy. Probably great friend…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 08:44 PM
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Guy was a little too on point with his knowledge of league of legends. Are you projecting OP???
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 08:36 PM
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Your cynical examples are black pill not redpill. Redpill is simple observed reality. Redpill discussion is how to navigate said reality. Ex: RP observation, establishes phenomena: women will shit test you as long as you live. Even in an LTR. RP discussion: how do we navigate this phenomena? You cannot forget the matrix once you realize it exists. You cannot become Cypher. If you become RP aware, you will always be RP aware to some degree as long as you have your faculties about you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 08:35 AM
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Guy used a league of legends picture for a redpill subreddit post. Somehow this is funny to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 04:13 PM
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Rations male book 4 religion goes into how all this shit happened pretty well
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 04:39 PM
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OP you gotta do it for the love of the game. If flirting is actually fun to you whether you score or not, your odds are gonna go up. It’s about the having fun talking shit to hot girls. Try watching some Austen Summers. Guy is average looking imo but pulls girls like crazy. He has a game plan, and has fun with it. It really is that simple. You say you fuck around 1/100 approaches but how many do you get digits from and talk to for more than a day or so or go on a date with? If you’re landing dat…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 03:56 PM
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OP your post highlights a sentiment that many people waking up to the matrix face. The problem with this “realization” is, it is a fundamental misunderstanding as to the true purpose of TRP teachings. The point of the red pill is to make you aware of the way things work for the sake of it. That is it. Now, a PART of TRP, which is usually the most discussed but at its core not the POINT, is using this knowledge to your advantage. Being aware of the way things work will allow you to better handle …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:26 PM
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I would say the above comment is good advice but instead of having a talk with her, just bust her chops and let her know she needs to lighten up when she is being a Debbie downer. If she doesn’t get the message after a while a serious talk isn’t gonna do much. Women cannot self reflect the same way we can. She will just feel attacked.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 06:50 AM
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Stay fit, groom yourself, don’t be broke af, dress half decent. Ugly face? Try facial hair. Not an insanely tall order. If you can do the above, you’re ahead of the average guy. You do not need to be a 5 percenter to get chicks. That is on dating apps. Many chicks that would left swipe you on an app can be pulled face to face.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 03:00 PM
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The basic answer is conduct yourself in a way that makes her believe you are a desirable man. Have a backbone, keep a good/attractive personal image…idk it’s a long answer. Rich Cooper has a good book called “the unplugged alpha”. Audio book is about a 4 hour listen. Give it a go it’s worth the few bucks.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/22 12:04 AM
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Is your question how to maintain frame in marriage?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 11:57 PM
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Your basic question is “how do I avoid becoming emotionally attached?” The basic answer is less communication. Don’t fall into the routine of texting and talking a chick every single day. Kind of unavoidable to get feelings after a certain amount of time though. Just part of life. Let your brain take precedence over your dick and your heart
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 11:29 PM
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Hey bro listen, no slice of pussy is worth losing a nice 6 figure income. You said it yourself that she’s chasing validation from other men because you didn’t give it to her. Is that really who you see as the mother of your children? She’s not “the one” she’s just another woman you happen to be in close proximity with. Talk to other girls, fire one off, and get your fucking head on straight brother. Don’t shit where you make six figures dick head (said with love).
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 07:26 PM
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I told you to read the rational male so you would understand why. The book describes the answer much better than I could in a quick comment. But the short answer is you are too available. She sees you as an emotional outlet and not as a sexual interest. After her breakup she was probably emotionally vulnerable and associated you with a sense of comfort which is why you got a first date. During that date she remembered why you’ve always been just her friend which is why you aren’t gonna get a sec…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 07:15 PM
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You are her emotional tampon and not her first choice. Read the rational male
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 03:40 PM
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Sex comes first. Then relationship
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 09:43 PM
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Ok I’m about to get brutal on you but it’s out of love. Bro you gotta not do this shit with married women. First off you shouldn’t fuck them in general it will only complicate your life. Not only is it wrong but what if the dude catches wind? You’re fucked. If I was married and I found out a dude was fucking my wife and he knew she’s married that dude is dead. But if you do fuck then you should do only that. Why the fuck are you texting a married chick? You have trouble holding frame because you…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 10:16 PM
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To say no fap has no real positive effects is ridiculous. I’m not a nofap advocate but guys on average definitely jerk off and watch porn way too often. You’re crushing your brain with dopamine and other reward hormones on a daily basis. In fact many many times a day because I know most of you see gym thots and bikini thots and shit on insta or other social media. Multiple times a day. Again I am not a no fap guy but humor me. Try not jerking off or looking at porn for a week or two. Your mind w…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 03:52 PM
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“Long detailed messages” you treated a fwb like a gf. Why are you texting long detailed messages to a fwb? You probably opened up too much in those long detailed messages. And gave her too much attention/were too available. The last two sentences turn off any woman, not just a fwb. Go next and maybe in the future you can fuck her again.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 10:31 AM
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Your ps is funny. This is a MGTOW post through and through. The redpill is about making yourself your mental point of origin. This is how it works Redpill: I understand the rules of the game. I will use this to my advantage and win the game. MGTOW: I understand the rules of game. I hate the game and refuse to play. Just focus on yourself. You can do this without casting aside women for your whole life.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 02:12 PM
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It’s not “my reality” I don’t give a shit about phones you’re missing the point. I have an iPhone because my Samsung broke and the iPhone was free. The point is OP is trying to seem unique but he’s chosen an odd avenue. Most chicks don’t wanna date a dusty ass with a flip phone
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 06:52 PM
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Bro I don’t make the rules and I didn’t make it up. Status and money are not always the same thing. American girls generally don’t like Samsung. Have you ever owned a Samsung? I had one once and almost every single girl went “ew green text 🥴” or some dumb response. I never had a girl outright reject me because of it but it’s something they notice and I have heard of guys getting turned down because of it. Peacocking is the act of using something unique to grab attention. OP is trying to do that …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 05:47 PM
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You are attempting to peacock. The problem is you’re doing it with something completely uninteresting and outdated and trying to sell it as quaint. Also, phones are a status symbol you can’t do it with something like that. There are plenty of women who literally will not even date a Samsung user. It would be like wearing a spongebob watch from Walmart. Some chicks might find it interesting but 99% will think you’re a weirdo.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 04:44 PM
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Sure whatever you say
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 03:04 AM
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Girls go out to clubs to field attention from guys. It’s an activity for single women. If they wanna do brunch or some shit have fun
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 09:52 PM
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You’re right it is weird for a woman to have a very close guy friend. The thing is men and women simply cannot be friends in the same way men and men are friends and women and women are friends. There’s a difference between your girl having guys in her friend group and having a guy friend(s) that she hangs out with. Like if your girl goes out with a mixed group of friends and doesn’t bring you along, that’s a huge red flag. In an agreed upon monogamous relationship you obviously can’t spin plate…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 04:20 PM
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Women will ignore social norms if you hold enough frame. If you tell a woman “I don’t want you to be friends with him” a woman who desires you enough will comply. A woman who does not desire you enough will not comply. Compliance tests should be part of every man’s arsenal. This is just one scenario it may come up. This is where plate spinning/abundance mentality comes in. If you have a woman that complies, she is a plate that requires less attention. This is good for you. If you have a woman th…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 02:57 PM
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Techno-Capital has reduced women into fragmented husks who float from desire to desire with the lucidity of a schizophrenic subway masturbator. I’m not some MGTOW black pill doomer but holy crap I have never heard of a more accurate description of modern women.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 05:56 PM
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If we were already dating I would say “nah you’re not doing that. That’s what single girls do.” And if she insisted I would say “okay but if you’re gonna act like a single girl you’re gonna be a single girl.” And you have to be able to stick to your guns and next her if she goes anyway. Same shit applies to stuff like girls night out and girls trips. If a girl actually values you she won’t do that shit. Go have brunch in the light of day if you wanna see your girls. Also important: if she compli…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 06:54 AM
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None of these are good or necessary lies. If you have solid game you don’t even need to come close to any of these subjects.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 05:40 PM
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OP you have to accept that’s just how women are. you hear a lot of redpill personalities say shit like “you shouldn’t hate women for being who they are in fact you should love them for it.” But I disagree. Accepting something’s nature doesn’t mean you have to hate it or love it. It’s like a mosquito. Their nature is to be annoying fucking pains in the ass. But do I hate or love them on a personal level? No. It’s just a mosquito. I don’t give a fuck. Part of being redpill and gaming women is seem…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 01:46 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/22 01:22 AM
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You have to understand women to not love in the same way we as men expect them to. You can express your love to them without driving them away. The problem arises when men confuse love in a relationship as meaning “I don’t have to play the game anymore. I can just be myself.” The simple fact is, you will have to game women as long as you live if you want one or more of them in your life. You need to game them, especially in long term relationships. The harsh but truthful reality is women don’t w…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 03:19 PM
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Everything you listed excites and entertains women but doesn’t necessarily make them happy so I believe my tldr stands my good sir. You can entertain a woman without being a soy boy circus act.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 04:39 AM
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TLDR women don’t actually want to be happy they want to be entertained
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 01:57 PM
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Just read the title. Are you sure it was a girl? Kidding of course. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 02:00 PM
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There’s literally studies but okay
/r/TheRedPill27/06/22 01:11 AM
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Most chicks are not fucking a new guy every week. But also body count isn’t just a number. Body count is inversely proportional to a woman’s ability to commit monogamously. 6 is the semi agreed upon threshold because of studies and blah blah blah.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 03:03 PM
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Most girls have fucked stupid douchebags and it often happens after losing a good guy. You ever fuck a slut because you’re bent up about another chick you actually like? Same thing. Letting it eat you up is a you problem but I understand how it bothers you. This is part of why talking about past partners in detail is never productive. Getting a surface level understanding of a girls sexual history is imperative in vetting, but keep it surface level. Also pro tip: don’t try to first kiss a girl i…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 09:29 PM
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Yup. You can still be a funny smartass without it being an act. I mean women do be saying stupid shit a LOT. It’s easy to react like they’re children because they genuinely act like it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 10:50 PM
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Welcome to the modern era brother. Chicks get bored quickly. You will have to game women as long as you want to be with them. Especially into LTRs. It’s just part of life and you have to accept it. Keeping them guessing doesn’t have to be an act. It’s just is what it is. I understand what you mean though. Find the balance between what you think is an act but gets you laid, and what you think is real. Understanding how women operate doesn’t mean it isn’t the real you. The real you just knows you …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 10:19 PM
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The answer to “why do so many civilizations have a story like this?” Is boiled down to one realization: what good pussy does to a mf. It’s a concept that transcends culture.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 12:46 AM
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Great post OP. Tldr is great. Women aren’t capable of real relationships in this era. The phones have fucked our generations dating market. The on demand attention it gives them has completely destroyed their ability to be part of meaningful relationships. Before I get crucified, I’m not a black pill doomsayer. I realize there are exceptions to every rule, but these exceptions are increasingly harder to find in this day and age.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 10:20 PM
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Believe me I feel you dude. I hate when RP guys say shit like “hating women means you don’t understand their nature” like no I accept mosquitos nature but they’re still fucking annoying lmao. But yes OP don’t give into the black pill we got you
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 01:46 AM
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You are in the wrong sub OP. What you are saying is the black pill. The red pill says “here are the real rules. Use them as you will.” The black pill says “reject the game outright.” Anybody that truly grasps the redpill mindset can sympathize with the black pill, but we do not endorse it as right.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 12:38 AM
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Hate to be “that guy” but I bang a new girl just about every month. The point of this sub is to learn something from other people
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 04:18 PM
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Nope I just think it’s a funny picture and I actually like anime
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 11:24 AM
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Just don’t talk about it. Just act like it. Don’t be like “yea that dude is a total blue pulled beta he needs to read the rational male” just say shit like “yea that guy has no clue how to handle women” etc etc. one of the biggest redpill tenets is not talking to women about the redpill. Also I have an anime pfp cause I think the picture is hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 11:17 AM
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Here’s how a convo should go. “Omg are you like into that redpill Mano sphere shit?” “I have no clue what you’re talking about.” “You’re such a liar you definitely are! Those guys are all misogynists who hate women cause they got hurt or can’t get laid.” “Whatever. I said idk what it is.” Keep a playful tone throughout. If she is picking up on the fact you’re redpilled it’s probably cause you’re talking about it or something. If you just act redpilled without talking about it, your behavior shou…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 11:09 AM
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You just do what the redpill teaches you to do when dealing with women: chuckle at their attempts to shit test you, and treat her like a child. Don’t actually engage
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 10:51 AM
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You’re right about the social proof. I breezed over the “in a group” part my fault. Sentimental feelings are nice but if they are constantly disrespecting OP then they are not good friends and his sentimental feelings are misplaced
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:37 AM
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You could also just straight up be like “hey I don’t like when you do that I know I used to goof around when we were younger but don’t disrespect me like that anymore.” If they are not willing to do that it’s time to find new friends. Why you hanging out with female friends anyway?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 02:03 AM
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Fellas do not be guilted into outright stating non exclusivity unless a chick presses you on it. Then it’s bad to lie. Otherwise let her know with your actions and your availability (or lack there of)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 11:24 AM
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All good man that's why it's a community
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 12:11 AM
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OP’s concept is dead on but they left a little tact out which I can see the comments are having a hard time with. OP did not say you need to fuck on the first date. The moral is don’t let a woman waste your time more than it’s worth. If you’re spending time with a woman and the prospect of pussy is nowhere in sight, then you need to be proactive about it and let her know you are not gonna just wait around and let her waste your time. What OP didn’t mention is that to do this without burning brid…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 11:04 PM
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OP your first problem is you do not understand the red pill from the start. The red pill is not a set of directions. The red pill is a collection of observations which is why it’s related to the red pill from the Matrix. You see the true reality. How you respond to it is up to you. I hate to be mean but if you are really a 21 year old kissless virgin you are doing many things so wrong. You need to lift, eat well, and most importantly READ well. There is so much reading material on how to enact p…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 04:54 AM
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Here are some tips off the cuff 1) hit the gym, eat right, sleep right, stop drinking during the week and excessively on weekends. This will improve your physical and mental state. Nothing is immediate but you will notice dramatic improvement over time. I’m speaking from experience. 2) make an effort not to look at your phone. Not only is this good for your mental but if you actually learn to not care about your phone you get better at not caring who texted you and how fast you respond 3) start …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 05:38 AM
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I’m having a discussion. You still haven’t said anything to back up you stance or refute mine.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 08:03 AM
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Really good response everybody is learning a lot from that. Maybe refute my claim in any way instead of getting butthurt that I said you’re wrong. Trust and comfort are not prerequisites to intimacy or shit tests. Especially initially. Your problem is you probably handle shit tests the same way you handled my response: like a petty bitch. That is a fail in realm of shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 07:14 AM
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To clarify, do not make a woman DISTRUST you outright. That is of course wrong. But trust is not a prerequisite to intimacy.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 05:37 AM
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Comfort is an post-sex feeling fueled by oxytocin. Everything pre sex is uncomfortable and anxious fueled by testosterone. Comfort/trust is not the way into a woman’s pants nor the way to keep her attention long term. Does a woman trust the hot guy in the foam canon party that she met ten minutes ago and is ready to fuck? No. A constant sense of competition anxiety is the way to keep a woman’s attention both sexually and romantically. “Caffeinating the hamster”. Women do not necessarily want a m…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 05:34 AM
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Probably not a great response. Trying too hard to steer the conversation in a sexual direction probably wouldn’t be my go to shit test passing strategy. Unless she gives you a complete layup.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 04:32 AM
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Terrible advice. Read the description of this sub before you comment on another post.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:28 AM
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Happy to help. Keep in mind the main point of all this (the red pill in general) isn’t to be mean or not be kind to women. The point is to realize and accept how women operate, and use it to your advantage. The end result of the red pill is a healthy lifestyle and how to vet women to be a part of that lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 09:21 PM
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Totally fair but a dismissal of a shit test doesn’t always mean you send the message you aren’t interested in a chick. In my case I just wanted to covertly send the message “Don’t ask me stupid questions.” I still like the girl and we just changed the subject and moved on.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 06:58 PM
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You are getting into a bit more broad spectrum on human interaction that my post intended. I really just wanted to highlight how shit tests can be subtle. You also hit the nail on the head with your last two sentences which is part of what I was trying to get at. Most shit tests are NOT masterminded. They ARE however tools for perception adjustment. The terms pass or fail are just how the spheres refer to a response to a shit test. If you continually placate to a shit test aka “fail” it alters a…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 06:54 PM
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It would be rude but depending on how into you the girl is that could definitely be a viable response. Good litmus test for how much she respects herself too I would imagine.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 06:00 PM
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The point of a shit test is for a woman to judge you character as alpha or beta. If you feed into the test and placate, you show you have no spine and lose. If you rebut the shit test and show you have balls, you win. Trust is not the goal of a shit test. Women don’t care about trust. They SAY they care about trust but really they care about status (alpha or beta) which is why women would rather share an alpha than have a beta to themselves. Faithful beta men get cheated on all the time and offe…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 05:58 PM
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Of course it’s blatant it’s a post directly on shit tests so you’re already aware and looking. The point is that when you’re NOT thinking about it in day to day it might just go over your head. I was out and about and not thinking too much about it so I almost passed over it. That’s the whole point of the post.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 05:54 PM
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You make a good point while starting to add plate spinning to discussion. My opinion on plate spinning is you don’t need to burn bridges. So instead of saying “next” to every girl who isn’t a perfect plate, you can call her on her shit without burning a bridge. That puts the decision on HER and you do not have to wonder if you should or should not drop her as a plate. What I mean is: call out the shit test but don’t “next” her. If she accepts that you passed the shit test, she continues spinning…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 05:21 PM
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Yea I felt harsh might not be the correct word but the point was really I could have just joked around and still passed but instead I chose to completely shut it down
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 05:16 PM
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