Roaaarr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] it's awesome that you are the most confident guy in the room That's awesome indeed :) that is not helping the guys that are not confident I agree. It's true in any circumstances: the achievement of person A doesn't help the achievement of person B. It's not specific to inner game. You say outer game comes from inner game, but I say that it goes both ways. I must agree. There is a positive loop in wich outer and inner games feed each other. The question, and what we're debating here, is: by which…	/r/seduction	18/05/13 01:09 PM
1	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] OK, but there is no opposition here between outer and inner game. You don't underline what makes outer game superior in this context.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:37 AM
2	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] The concept is easy to understand. Put it in practice and that's another story.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:34 AM
3	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] OK for your point about other subbreddits for improving your overall life. No offense taken about my approache figures. We are brothers in arm, I'm here to share. Anyway, I've joined this subreddit recently, I guess that's where I have to tell more about myself. I'll take your basketball analogy. What you're saying about praticing sounds to me like: "hey! I discovered this game called basketball 2 years ago and I've been shooting 1 000 throws a day since then and this is awesome! Want me to teac…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:28 AM
2	Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant] You're right in a way, but I think the main reason why people upvote the pro-inner-game comments is because they have come to realize that it's applicable in many more areas than in seduction alone. It just makes your life easier anywhere, at work, amongst friends, etc. With a good inner game you can enter a room full of people you don't know and still feeling comfortable, you won't even need to light a cigarette to fill your hands... Plus, a good inner game will make your own outer game. It wil…	/r/seduction	16/05/13 05:11 PM
4	For those of you who started learning seduction at a young age, how has it affected you now that you're older? Do you mean for people who learnt by themselves or people who studied the material? I've done that my whole life. I've obvisouly improved along the way but it's inherent in what I am. For that reason, I haven't been through the hardcore gaming phase that some recovering guys may experience, so no going out 5 times a week with 20 approaches a night or stuffs like that. And I'm happy with that, since I think this way to start must be very painful. What I suggest: be friendly with everybody get int…	/r/seduction	14/05/13 03:43 PM
1	Good instructional video for dancing at clubs? You actually don't need to know how to dance but you do need to feel comfortable. So what you can do is practicing alone at home, with the music you've heard in clubs. Just do whatever you want and whatever move you think is cool. Practice regularly. You need to become convinced (or get the illusion) that you're good at it and better than all the guys you saw in clubs. One day you'll know that nobody is good at it but that's another story. Also, when you'll get comfortable with this, you'll find…	/r/seduction	13/05/13 08:05 PM
2	Billy's Guide to Shit Tests Or... why don't you just drop the absurd terminology and answer as you want? There is something wrong when you call a normal girlfriend-boyfriend interaction a shit test (refering to your “Does this dress make me look fat?” example in intro). I can't count how many times I said to girls I'm gay or I have a micro-penis, I can't count how many glasses I paid (when it made me happy to)... And the harem line? basic joke that I used over and over again. And the conclusion of that: after these alleged…	/r/seduction	10/05/13 03:00 PM
1	Dear Seddit: Help me find excuses to get out of my living room on the weekends. I would advocate for dance lessons, like salsa. Great way to make friends, get in touch with a lot of women, and train in some seduction basics like kino and leading. And to find some, like anything else... you take google maps and use the local function. And then you pay them a visit.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 05:52 AM
2	Ever closed girls that haven't seen you in forever? I've done it several times, I love it. I'm doing it this very week. You come with a huge advantage cause you have changed. Usually people are excited about meeting some old acquaintances because their are curious about there evolution. They want to know if other people have changed as much as themselves, who is better, etc. So you are. You're stronger, you're funnier, you're more confident... you've got game. Time to play what should have been played years ago. Believe me, it's a lot of fun, and…	/r/seduction	11/04/13 04:15 PM
1	How to get over oneitis? Posters who answered are all right but the truth is you don't really get over one-itis. Some people used to call it love. So basically what you do is stacking. You're piling one girl over the other and you focus on your current game. But, then the girl you one-itis-ed shows up again and you realise that, wow, she's still gorgeous in your eye. We consider them, we please them, we love them. Don't be a victim, just stack and stack again.	/r/seduction	10/04/13 10:32 AM
3	FR: The universe is your wingman Can answer this: yeah. Kind of people who like video games and find out that they are attractive in this part of the world, so they become "PUA"s... but then they should never come back to their homeland. I've seen some big failures. BTW, very bad idea to use drugs in Japan, the law is tough... and you don't need any drug. Went out the same night as OP, in the same disctrict, apparently different club, was tired as fuck, didn't want to game, got approached multiple times, finally kissed, didn't …	/r/seduction	08/04/13 11:12 AM
4	Seddits: let's talk about hygiene for both parties before f closing! I shower nearly everyday but still Am I the only one to think it's normal to shower every day (not nearly every day). I shower more than often twice a day actually (in the morning and after sport). And I always assume the girls I meet are clean. And they consistently are. If not, well, usually I'm not interested beforehand.	/r/seduction	04/04/13 08:10 PM
1	How do you usually get with a SNL again? What works and what doesn't? Personnaly I just act as before the SNL, casualy texting, sending message on facebook, plus I try to meet her for drinks or diner with no sex involved. And I don't kiss her, hold hands, in public (i keep the kino very light) so it doesn't look like a boyfriend-grilfriend relationship.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 05:12 PM
2	Gaming girls you find boring? Excuse me kid, but you sound very childish. Explain further. People are answering your questions, they give you advices on what being sociable means, and you just don't want to hear. That is very childish. You're basically saying: "I don't care that to improve myself and get girls I have to open my mind, I just want a girl as nerd as myself". Well, guess what, you might find one, but she won't be as beautiful as you would like her to be, or she will love video games but will be dumb, etc., becau…	/r/seduction	25/03/13 04:26 PM
3	Gaming girls you find boring? Excuse me kid, but you sound very childish. My advice: if she likes you, take her, because regarding your current state of mind you won't find another one. You might be here to improve yourself, so just do it. People are not interesting when they like what you like, but when they are passionate about something. You have a lot to learn. Good luck.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 01:47 PM
1	Need tips from people that have successfully faked it till they made it. When I was a teenager, a long time ago, some friends of mine asked, and I said I was a virgin. They were good friends, I didn't care, no big deal. End of the story. Now if your question is "how do you answer when asked in front of other people" that's another story. Very often you can tell whether someone is virgin or not, or whether someone is experienced with girls or not. So faking it makes you an obvious liar. That's why they will keep on asking. The answer depends on your age and on the peo…	/r/seduction	25/03/13 11:18 AM
1	How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want. Ah ah. It's exhausting indeed. I do take breaks but in control, like telling a girl it's her turn to organise our next date and i expect it to be marvelous. Then i can rest.	/r/seduction	21/03/13 01:19 PM
1	How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want. Guess what, this is aimed to be sent by a guy to a girl, not the other way around... I've never had a girl asking me to entertain her because I'm the one leading.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 03:50 PM
3	How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want. My 2 cents: March 17 Me (9:59pm): So imma be stuck at work tomorrow, can i count on you to text me atleastttt once? Too needy. I would have said something along the line: " imma be stuck at work tomorrow, so text me to entertain me. Thanks." March 18 You waited waaaay too long. I would have answered after: Her (10:45pm): DON'T MAKE ME CONTINUE WRITING IN ALL CAPS. ... with: "you're cute but have to be punished anyway. Pay me a drink tomorrow night." ... or after: Her (10:46pm): I will text you a…	/r/seduction	20/03/13 10:32 AM
5	How can I be more.. mysterious and playful? I had to up-vote this. You can talk about whatever you want. I've talked about some of my nerdiest hobbies to women who had no clue about them. I've talked about my job which is not so exciting. I've talked about being unemployed, when I was. I even tried to talk about how it is great to do nothing: how more empty a conversation could be? Guess what? It all worked. Just be passionnate, just mean it. Women feel the energy. Fuel them!	/r/seduction	20/03/13 01:04 AM
4	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" one of my friends was clearly trying to flirt with her a good amount and getting no where. Seduction is not only about flirting hard with your target. Actually it's often the contrary. But anyway, I get your point, you're fine tunning your game -we all do- and you've found something that works for you. That may be a good start to improve your inner game as you put it. I'm just saying the assumption that "they all have boyfriends" won't help you in the long run. I'm telling you that because I gam…	/r/seduction	19/03/13 11:56 PM
27	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" Or you can assume none of them has a boyfriend and proceed. Your assuming she had a boyfiend worked for you here but more than often it will hold you back. On the other hand, assuming all girls are available, and gaming them all with outcome independance will take you further. It worked here for you because it gave you the outcome independance but it seems you didn't really game her.	/r/seduction	19/03/13 06:20 PM
2	Trying Something New You're doing it right. Keep going. Good luck.	/r/seduction	15/03/13 03:37 AM
5	Good responses to "How big is your penis" I always say I have a micro-penis. They just want to know if you feel insecure about your size and they won't believe you actually have one. Then the door is open for a lot of jokes or comments, e.g. "that's why i had to get so good with my tongue".	/r/seduction	11/03/13 02:36 AM
1	Day Game [FR of sorts] and the Power of Enthusiasm No doubt you're right about the power of enthusiasm but there is something wrong in describing your normal daily social interactions as game. Don't get stuck in this mentality. This is great to use seduction tools in your daily life, but there is a confusion when you think you're gaming while the only thing you do is just saying hello to a receptionist and make her laugh. But don't get me wrong: keep talking to people like you did, that will make you special and that will help improving your gam…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 01:54 AM
2	In college, does style really matter? If you like girls who like guys wearing pajama pants, then go for it... But you may miss a lot of opportunities.	/r/seduction	07/03/13 04:10 PM
2	How does an overly literal intellectual become a natural conversationalist? It seems that you look for being funnier in your conversations, so here is my practical advice: watch some stand-up comedy consistently, maybe once a day for a fair amount of time. You'll get the vibe of it. I'll tell you what it did to me. I'm a rather natural playfull conversationalist with women. Some years ago I happened to like more and more some stand-up comedians, so was watching a lot of their performances just for entertainment, and not for the sake of improving my conversational skills…	/r/seduction	06/03/13 03:16 AM
6	This subreddit needs better modding and GOOD advice. What's happening to you RadianHero? I've seen your posts around here, you're always interesting, smart and calm. Just answer the arguments. Btw, I'm not a big fan of the nomenclature but I admit it's convenient to describe the reality quickly. Like, when I write about a HB8 I still think about this beautiful, intelligent girl with blue eyes and blond hair who makes me laugh often and that I like to meet. How is this dehumanizing? I keep my feelings for myself, "HB8" just conveys the rating of my…	/r/seduction	05/03/13 04:18 AM
1	Advice Needed for HB9+ Circumstantially: Before talking to her, put yourself in a good mood, meaning lower her status and laugh at it: think about her in an embarassing situation (like in the toilets for instance) and smile (really do it) thinking about it. If she notices you smiling it's ok, you're better off, you can just say that you're were thinking about her, with a grin and/or a wink, and go further in convo. Structurally: As other posters said here and there, just have several girls around. I'll give my current…	/r/seduction	03/03/13 02:08 AM
2	The friend-zone is not always bad. It sounds a lot like you're trying to convince yourself that nothing will happen. But, well, you're 19... I've seen plenty of guys like you at that age. And I was one of them a decade ago. I was experimenting and got friendzoned a few times (so many missed first kisses...). Eventually the girls became awesome friends of mines and still are, but I'm not confused of where I stand: 10 years later if I get a chance to bang them, I will for sure (if they become single again...). And I actually did wi…	/r/seduction	15/02/13 05:41 PM
1	How to stop dry throat when speaking to HB10s I don't really know why that happens but I can give a piece of advice on how to overcome this. While talking to a HB10/high status person just imagine her in an embarrassing/funny/awkward situation, like say, in the toilets taking a big dump. Works fine.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 06:39 PM
1	New personal rule - Only hitting on HB7-HB10 even though my success rate will vanish. Anyone with experience from hitting higher than their comfort zones? You're right! Go for it. I mostly spend time with beautiful women, either targets or friends. I sleep with HB6 only when their are really funny to hang out with. I had a very cool HB6 fuck friend, who actually approached me and made me laugh a lot. But that's it. I only approach girls I find really attractive, and it goes pretty well.	/r/seduction	08/02/13 06:03 PM
1	Went out in Japan and was confronted with a completely different ball game. Got any hints? Go to Shibuya or Harajuku between the hours of 7:30-10:30 Important point here: is it am or pm? And what are the next steps? "Cohi nomu"? And then "sexu shimashou ka"? Going back to Tokyo soon, so need to be sharpened up.	/r/seduction	03/02/13 12:14 PM
2	So I just finished my free ebook [AVIS AUX FRANCOPHONES] I've never had to deal with such archetypes but that's a funny subject maybe worth reading for the future when there is gold to be digged in me. Donc je vais y jeter un œil ;)	/r/seduction	02/02/13 05:05 AM
1	Don't make your first kiss one of those awful Hollywood-inspired, "goodnight kisses" Nice article. Funny to read that right after the date I've just come back from. For some reason I missed the slot to kiss although the kino escalation was pretty high. I exactly thought what was written here, that kissing good night would be cliche and really lame. So instead I said goodbye, made a joke about walking myself home safely, and texted her playfully when I got home. No pain here, everything will be fine next time I meet her. In the meantime: one date tomorrow, one party, one date the…	/r/seduction	02/02/13 04:51 AM