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| 0 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?You don't know anything about my failure or success. I don't know anything about your failure or success. I don't care. It doesn't matter. What matters is which parts help of trp help attract and keep women without daddy issues? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?It's a shortcut for the advice uniquely perpetuated by trp. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:51 PM |
| 5 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?It's not shaming. The point is a feedback loop of acting a certain way to attract a certain type of woman. Were the reason for acting this way not perpetuated by validation from this women and were this pain healed...then what would someone from trp do differently? It's not a competition. It's not a rant. A proper answer or refutation helps me and whoever is reading. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?I dont think all women are broken. I'm saying there are broken women just as there are broken men and that what is tactically advocated on trp is geared toward attracting women is focused on that broken subset. Evidence is: dark triad, dark triad, dark triad. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:38 PM |
| 0 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?My anger stage was 7 years ago. I'm past it | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 0 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?That's fair and I've made some assumptions instead of soaking up every single thing there is to soak up and by that I mean every single post and theory and all this. But I've gotten definitely gotten the gist of trp. My results in the past have worked in a certain way with certain women. They have been rebuffed by others. Being physically attractive, playful, and the best partner possible is something I am absolutely on board with and have been trying to do it since pickup artist days. How that … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?That's not the point. The point is that all things uniquely advocated by trp will see success from only variously broken women. The feedback loop created is that broken hurt men use things that attract broken hurt women and then these parts get advocated. This is what I posit. And what follows is this doesn't help attract, physically attractive, emotionally healthy, quality mates. People that treat you as you would want to be treated. If you are after this then what parts of trp strategy and tac… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:31 PM |
| 0 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?That's great you got success. Did you find cases of attractive women that were not responsive to the frame that you have acquired? Were the responses different when you were building up to being able to maintain that frame? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:21 PM |
| -1 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?Major Bewbage even? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:20 PM |
| 5 | trp just geared towards broken cheating sluts?The question is in the title and the closing paragraph. The response should be: you are wrong for these reasons. But a ban is fine and it's not a loss for me if I'm banned from a community if a fundamental reason for being can't be answered or negated. Also. You are 100% blue pill pointing to procedural rules that weren't even violated instead of being a man and standing on your own merits and ability to argue, debate, or explain. You are either lazy or can't answer the question. Pick one. The f… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Trp...directed for all or some?Yeah so don't turn into a pussy | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Trp...directed for all or some?Ok...I've read a bunch of it. Doesn't help answer the question. Specifics would help. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:46 AM |
| 0 | LTR won't straighten her hair anymoreAnd it is impossible she would want to do it for me...why? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | LTR won't straighten her hair anymoreGood points all. There are some obstacles for us to be able to see each other and my effort I mentioned is more about that and doing things that are explicitly for her and to support her which I can see her truly appreciate and not just "awww that's so sweet (...loser)." I have seen myself compromise on career progress. I skipped a week of the gym. I haven't skipped a week of gym (lifting) in a year and 3 months. I see myself turning more and more into a beta and losing that which made me the pe… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 11:18 AM |
| 0 | LTR won't straighten her hair anymoreI don't feel right with dread. I also have a feeling she won't respond to that and will see through it. I suspect it will only make things worse. Every time she has asked me which one I would prefer I've said straight hair. The one time I noted her straight hair looks better than something in comparison she shut down and got very sensitive about it. What is there to read between the lines is correct. I suspect I've ignored my own advice about being a man and have given up a lot for her. I don't … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:59 PM |
| -1 | LTR won't straighten her hair anymoreRight fair point and the first one to come to mind. If I used to dye my hair purple for years and now don't and she wants me to say at least try it again I wouldn't say flat out no. All of my grooming choices are oriented to what the kind of women that I'm after would like, as best as I can tell. Now that's it's just me and her its oriented to what she thinks would look best. I've followed through on preferences she has expressed as far as clothes and grooming. She hasn't. All the things I did f… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a guy made unattractive by physical disability?I'm too tired to formulate proper advice if I even have any...but you inspire me. Best of luck on your path! | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Accepting TRP Will Make You Unhappy: Your Choice if That's PermanentYou misused the inequality symbols | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?Were you one of them? How do you know? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?Yes. Do you want to help or just refer me to a nebulous body of work I'm aware of? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?Well oral not a virgin but having sucked 1 dick a few years ago before doesnt bother me | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?Hymen | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?Anything in what sense? I don't have a big mouth and am not about to start mentioning identifiVke specifics. Yes we have met. We are dating. See each other several days a week. Not a fantasy. Can you put your rage aside and explain what is incoherent? Because I want input and I want to know what is unclear so I can get helpful opinions. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis?I am making her wait in return. I am not concerned about the pussy being held hostage. Her personality is why I'm with her. We get along swimmingly. She has the stoic temperament of a man. When we argue there is no raising of voices. We rarely argue. When I'm old and she's old I will still enjoy her company. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about/deal with your body hair?If you are ballin, laser off anything on upper arms, shoulders, neck, and back. If you aren't, then use a mangroomer. Cheap. <$50. Get a $5 mirror from Walmart. Put it in the shower and angle it so you can see. Do it once a week or before a date. Also trim your Bush if you have one. No girl will legitimately say she prefers all the hair on the parts I mentioned above. They will love their man in spite of it, not because of it. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The true meaning behind "Beta" and "Alpha" polarity.You should totally go for it. It doesnt help anyone to advocate being a domineering shithead as most "just lift and be alpha bro and try to fight everyone!1!11" like the average mileu of the posts here | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 4 | The true meaning behind "Beta" and "Alpha" polarity.Great post. Humans have no such thing as true Alpha males like Gorillas that have both size and social dominance. Humans have far less body dimorphism even between the sexes and dominant physical sizes are very difficult to acquire compared to other men. Strength wise, you will be more or less evenly matched in similar environmental ancestral conditions. Social dominance is not acquired by individual brute force but by consensus building and diplomacy with other allies to gain or assert social d… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 06:17 PM |
| 3 | I feel like if you ever get on a girls level she will lose respect for you.What stops you from being the same fun person she was attracted to in the beinning to being a giant pussy within the timespan of a week? Use romance as icing on the cake and dont just eat all the icing you fucking fatty. That's how you go from 6'3 to 5'15 in one week | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this?You respond by cultivating valuable and atteactive skills instead of loitering around a website trying to talk to bikini porn | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Are girls often testing your social-skills?Social submissiveness. You will know when you feel like a bitch when a woman challenges your views and you accede to her demands of adopting her view. Have strong opinions, weakly held. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:21 AM |
| -1 | M, I’m sorry I gotta cancel."No worries" | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?Yes. No one ever got laid because of being a dancing monkey. Only in spite of it...with probably incredible looks. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?This is good. Make funny friends. It is safe to bomb with them. However have something to contribute to the group. No legitimate group of intelligent and funny guys will accept if you add no value to the group. Think of what that is. If it isnt humor then be able to demonstrate expertise in some other area other than comedy. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?That is bad advice and too broad to not be taken the wrong way. Make fun of people preferably in arbitrary situations where they are not there around you. If there are people around you it is less socially appropriate and more risky, likely to garner the kind of disapproval you dont want from a woman or other people. Do not make fun of people in your group. No one who asks this kind of question or has this on their mind will be able to make fun of people within their social group present in pers… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?1 Situational humor: Have enough social intelligence to identify something absurd going on around you or in a different situation being talked about. Be able to apply a range of extremes to how normal to how ridiculous something would be. Be able to point out and verbalize all of this. The more you do it, the less you will bomb. This is all I do. Girls have explicitly gone out of their way to tell me that I am funny...as if their chronic and sometimes uncontrollable laughter is not enough proof.… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why females are physically weak?Selection doesnt proceed according to logical lines. It's a feedback loop. Sexy daughters like sexy sons and their kids continue to do the same preferences with a minute twist or two which eventually gives us gradually more hairless bodies, blue eyes, etc. "Oh yeah she can do the dishes, give bomb head, but most of all she can overhead press more than I can." - said no dude ever. The body size and by extension muscular dimorphism is very small compared to guerrillas. Don't underestimate the nons… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 03:12 AM |
| 23 | Why females are physically weak?Why? Because big broad shouldered broads are not attractive. Also...humans have no such thing as true alpha males. Gorillas do and their male size and social standing reflects it in relation to females and other true beta males. Everything else is bro science horseshit. Alpha should only be used as a shortcut to masculine | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Submitting to Alphas around meIf you are worried about looking, feeling, or being like a little bitch around high status men, then you almost certainly are a little bitch in those situations. A marker of secure, high status men is a relaxed attitude and worrying about this kind of shit is not helping you tick that checkmark off. Relax, have fun, enjoy, and most of all learn. These guys are better than you in all the ways you care about. Learn and stop viewing it as an alpha/beta struggle. Dont worry about trying to be a domi… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Good LTR material?I phrased the ideologies question kind of badly. I guess I should have written: what kind of values does she subscribe to and what kind of ideologies would raise flags i.e. feminism etc? But you've answered it nonetheless and I agree with it. To expand, I think on the religion part it wouldn't hurt if someone follows the kind of chaste lifestyle that mainstream religions advocate but isnt into all the other crazy shit or tells you every time that you bring up biology or evolution that it's "just… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Good LTR material?Great, great reply. Didnt know this study. The part about 2 partners is very interesting. This greatly helps make a decision for vetting someone. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 12:02 PM |
| 9 | Good LTR material?Rings true with what my hunches are. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 03:02 AM |
| 4 | How to become more “Masculine"There is a lot at stake for defining what is masculine or alpha....marketers will say you will become more masculine by buying their products. The state will say you will become more masculine by serving in the military. Women will say you will become more masculine by paying child support, "doing the right thing" etc.etc. HR will say you will become more masculine if you work hard and effectively and don't ask for a raise. TRP guys will say you will become more masculine by doing what they are … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How to become more “Masculine"As long as he is plugged into a woman or wearing socks...by definition he cannot be gay. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 07:06 PM |
| 3 | The EASIEST way to Cure Approach Anxiety: Cold Approach Pickup is ChessWhat about when you approach and its yellow neutral but because you are a random she wont know in the immediate approach moment...like when you are out minding your own business and some sales douche approaches you? The linear color range is kind of worthless to me in this way and it doesnt tell me anything that I wouldn't already know before and outside of trp/seduction and all that. Non spergs can easily take social cues and tell if someone is nice/warm, neutral/appropriately functional, or co… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious, what do you talk to girls about? Not a troll... I am a hermit.Wow! Kudos to you for taking action immediately. This approach will help you not only here but will map well to the rest of life. Consider also volunteering at an animal shelter or something where there are girls of an age of sexual interest to you. You will not face the hurdles of talking to a stranger and you are both immediately "on the same team". I would do this once you feel comfortable with convos. Convos at an animal shelter with younger women don't necessarily need to have a sexual over… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious, what do you talk to girls about? Not a troll... I am a hermit.https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/10/how-to-get-people-to-like-you/ Dude also has a book somewhere. That might be the one I was thinking of. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious, what do you talk to girls about? Not a troll... I am a hermit.Also there is a book by some FBI guy whose job it was to make friends undercover super quick. This will map 80-95% talking to women you don't know. I forgot the name of it. I'll reply here once I find it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious, what do you talk to girls about? Not a troll... I am a hermit.Nope, but if I had to start somewhere, this is where I would start. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Dead serious, what do you talk to girls about? Not a troll... I am a hermit.Start talking to old women at an old folks home. No sexual pressure that will turn you into a temporary sperg unless you are into GMILFs. Get the hang of conversations. Talk to cashiers a little bit beyond how you doin. Like a line or two. Talk to female coworkers if you have any. No sexual stuff and don't shut where you eat. Once you can carry on a normal conversation with other humans then you should be able to do that in a romantic setting. Make it a detective game to find out about her. Peop… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | woman DA pussy pass deniedI'm not your buddy, guy | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 09:11 PM |
| -1 | woman DA pussy pass deniedOh don't like hypocrisy pointed out? Cool | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 08:46 PM |
| -1 | woman DA pussy pass deniedIf you really believe that treating other human beings with respect constitutes virtue signaling, then you're a parasite on our species. Wow. Such respect. Much decency | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 06:25 PM |
| 0 | woman DA pussy pass deniedNo u | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 05:16 PM |
| -1 | woman DA pussy pass deniedI know right. Uber doesnt provide the destination. You are de facto required to ask your customer for navigation | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 04:16 PM |
| -5 | woman DA pussy pass deniedWe are hitting virtue levels that shouldnt even be possible | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 02:20 PM |
| -1 | woman DA pussy pass deniedIm sorry. You're right. He should also have asked her if she wants to listen to mmmbop on repeat. Or also... if she prefers to stop by the side of the road for an hour so she can get some fresh air. Or if we was a pilot he could ask her if she prefers to fly over the Atlantic or rather the pacific. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 01:16 PM |
| -6 | woman DA pussy pass deniedVirtue signaling checks out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 12:59 PM |
| -5 | woman DA pussy pass deniedUsername checks out | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 12:49 PM |
| -54 | woman DA pussy pass deniedWhy the fuck is he asking her where to go? If you drive for uber dealing with drunk people is your job. If you're going to be a thin skinned bitch about it then be a school bus driver. Honestly she just had bad luck because she got caught on tape. We've all acted like this at one point or another so this is kinda bullshit | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?Agreed. Good end goal | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 10:32 PM |
| -1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?That's a good video. The dude in there is fit not really jacked beyond reach like I hear preached. I'm not trying to hamster not working out. I work out every day. I just don't buy the beyond natty body type advocated | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?no u | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?Why wouldn't they have a chance to bang him? If all you had was muscles and thought that they were more "importanter" than actual hard or soft skills and other generally attractive qualities you have nothing to offer. It's pretty common to see jacked dudes with average or subpar thots. Also a guy like Brad Pitt has every chance to kill Arnie. 3 little letters: BJJ...also kind of his intro in the movie Troy. So no, I don't buy this explanation one bit. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?I agree that's why I get perplexed when people are peddling this look at least from how I read some comments or posts. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?K. That's more reasonable. Mostly achieved by trimming fat hard. Fucking Brad pitt....fucked it up for the rest of us | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?If that were the case then all of the rest of the men he hunts with would be the same size. Successful hunting was a group exercise and there's no douching your way to surplus protein. You don't get to eat when others in your tribe starve. You also don't get creatine or testosterone injections. So no that person wouldn't have existed and doesn't exist in any surviving hunter gatherer tribes. What you as a MALE imagine a formidable sexual rival to be, does not equate to FEMALE sexual preference. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?K. What is? | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Evidence for jacked body type preference?Visual evidence | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Should I have sex or no?Reasons to smash: -you will get better and less nervous when hotter girls come around. If you are a nervous wreck when a hotter girl is wet and ready for your dick how bad do you think you will feel when you don't perform or can't even get it up because of nervousness...avoid this -you will regret not doing so if she is down. Don't catch any diseases, especially the worst one...a kid and you will have no regrets. -if no one finds out you got nothing to lose. No different than you jacking to porn… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 03:04 PM |
| 7 | During foreplay, girl was giving orgasmic spasms and twitching from me just rubbing her belly and back, what is this?Red rocket...red rocket | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | My (Muslim) family is more extreme than I thought.Honestly the path of least resistance is to just fast. Unless you are an Auschwitz level skinny fuck or diabetic it will probably do you some good and get you leaner. Your shrieky mom will be off your back and you wont get honor killed or poisoned due to crazy Muslim shit in your parents' heads. When you are old enough and get the means to move out do it. Then without any leverage over you, you can more safely communicate to them any deviation from religion and not worry about reprisals. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 06:41 PM |
| 2 | My (Muslim) family is more extreme than I thought.Agreed. It's easy enough to despise religion without your mom shrieking about it | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman?30 - tinder date who explicitly wanted to fuck that night. Maybe a 6.5. Started fucking her at half mast. Went totally limp a few minutes in. Winged it with foreplay. I tried to explain to her what's wrong and that I've never done this before. She said she wouldn't have guessed my virginity and was shocked how that's possible since I am fine as fuck. She sucked me to get me going and we were aces after that. 9 women fucked total. 2 female friends that used to be plates (they found golden ticket … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Im 16 and I need to change my life. My life rn is making me depressedAdd one positive habit per week which is either an improvement or a lessening or elimination of a negative habit. Multiple threads you can start in parallel: Stop being a fatty. Make it a goal to go to the gym even for just 5 minutes. It won't do jack shit for your fitness per se but going from 0 to something is harder than going from 60/100 to 61/100. Make it an explicit goal and feel free to quit and go home once you do 5 minutes. Complete this goal and aim for 6 minutes next time (although re… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman?I think it's a voice that you enable because you can use it as an excuse to listen to when you want to avoid potential discomfort. I list my virginity later than you did. First time was awkward as fuck. There are other times I went limp (due to stuff in my head...the plumbing was fine. I beat my dick every day like it owes me money). How do you do more pull ups? Go do pull ups. You will try. You will fail. Do not give up hope. Some Buddhist or whatever saying is "before enlightenment..chop wood.… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Why does only texting for logistics work?Tinder and stuff good luck opening with just "dinner at 7?" or "up for a nooner?". If it's from real life where you've already initiated some kind of tangential plans before the phone number it's more plausible to get away with logistics only. It's easy to fuck up over text. Ive done it plenty. I fuck up way less now. Gauge it and don't turn into a chatty bitch texting her "good morning" every morning. That advice is probably repeated so often because it mitigates the chance of fucking up by ske… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to find suitable friends to go out with?Thank you that makes sense. Wanted to do BJJ for the confidence and calmness anyway. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Science for nofapA search wouldn't have answered this specific question for scientific backing. Without it's just an old wives tale. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and Bumble as downers compared to real life?So the convos can't all be logistics only right? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and Bumble as downers compared to real life?What are some good ways? Activites/locations? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Tinder and Bumble as downers compared to real life?Guidance on how yo take good photos and recognize what they are? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 04:07 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Tinder date, several makeouts but failed to F-close. Analysis of possible mistakes + questions.You spanked her was with no sexual tension. Do that after you fuck her. I did that once (premature slap on ass)...got criticized on the spot and managed to pull it back because she still liked me in spite of it. Don't slap-rape her buttcheeks | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Venue 1 to Venue 2: "I don't think we're ready to hold arms yet"Yeah so it could be it was too overtly romantic too soon. That's something she would do with a bf for sure so she might risk someone else seeing you with her like that and assume you two are together while she doesn't even know if she'd kiss you yet. Sounds like you're both in a younger crowd and holding arms is something older fashioned. No point in risking it on a first date if you're both young or one of you is...same way you wouldn't call her to set up a date instead of texting her or ask he… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 10:28 PM |
| 2 | GhostedWell calling and texting her for 35 hours a week couldn't have helped getting ghosted. You could have made $200 picking fruits and veggies as a migrant laborer, gotten a great tan, and made some sweet natty gains during the time you spent drying that pussy up. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Venue 1 to Venue 2: "I don't think we're ready to hold arms yet"I've had a bunch of first dates go from venue 1 to venue 2. Rarely would I want to hold arms cuz I walk fast and I have to slow down or calibrate for heels and shit. The few times I would actually hold arms I just held my elbow out, fully expecting the arm to be held. Said nothing, girl would wrap her arm around through the gap. I'm betting that if you did that instead of rape her arm gap then she would have followed your lead (as she followed you to venue 2). Outside chance she was embarrassed … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Shit test fun - age differences"I will enter thou" | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily calorie need authoritative calculatorSo let's say you get your BMR and calculate your daily need, do you subtract calories from lifting or cardio? The activity estimates are there for the daily calories need but does that just account for your metabolism or is it meant to include ALL exercise during a week? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | how to drink moderately? or should I just stay in sobriety ?That should be the case but I've found that people do care. If any mention of not drinking comes up people very frequently will ask "oh you don't drink?" (Which then begs an answer..."no I do I was just driving then") and I've had some weird situations on purpose not drinking where people tried really hard to get me to drink. I don't blame them, most everyone is drinking and having a good time. Just wanted to add that then if you go out and will not drink, have an answer ready beforehand. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 02:10 AM |
| 2 | How to make friends and talk with chicks when I haven't even had any social experience in 2.5 years?House parties? Well make it your goal to meet new people and have fun. You can't fail at meeting new people can you? If it's not fun OK...been there too. Ideally your friends aren't ditching you unless there is a very good reason. It's always much easier to meet people and have fun at these things when you're with friends as opposed to some lone wolf prowling around. If you're alone for the moment and recognize someone else go talk to them. If you don't recognize anyone just strike up a conversa… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants the D, but she's thousands of miles awayTinder Con Air | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Second Date Ideas?I often try to move to this on the 1st date but since you haven't...something mildly active where there is opportunity for you to touch other and see her receptiveness: pool, bowling, minigolf, arcade have all worked for me. Try to avoid more boring type shit. Also if it's winter ice skating would be good and it should be around somewhere | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Psychological HealthMindfulness meditation, lifting, running, and gratitude journaling (with 3-5 goals achievable for that day) are very quick and easy things to do. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Was this an IOI?It wasn't an IOI it was a deportation notice. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Can I have a good life with Software Engineering?My team on one project right now is like 1/3 women...all Indian. One attractive one. I have seen 0 non-Indian women in our department...however I'm in a company where there is a large section servicing only accounts and there are other departments with attractive women too. If your goal is to be around women as a Software Engineer one option is to really do your research or just look around the workplace when you interview (probably uphill battle). There may well be jobs like mine where there ar… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Telling her you got cold soresIt isn't. My doctor refused to prescribe me antivirals unless I would have an outbreak again. In her letter when she told me the test results she mentioned nothing of the chance to pass it between outbreaks and said to just avoid intimate contact with others during an outbreak (duh). The whole thing seems to have gotten stigmatized by the marketing department of the company who made the antiviral to treat it back in the 80s. No one seemed to treat it like a scarlet letter before then. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Telling her you got cold soresIn no particular order reasons against: Reason 1) transmission between outbreaks is extremely unlikely. Reason 2) no one night stands. Ever. If I have to give a girl time to consider then it isn't one night. Reason 3) I would feel like I'm the only dumbass doing this. I have never heard of anyone warning someone of this. I've been warned that I'm about to fuck someone who has a boyfriend...warnings about diseases never came up with anyone Reason 4) being so open with something intimate and secre… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Dealing W/ Depression/ Life After College/ Need TipsWhat does depression have to do with requesting a citizenship? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Telling her you got cold soresHow did she react when you first told her? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Telling her you got cold soresI don't have the same fair share but same I have never been warned either, or heard of anyone warning someone male or female. There is that adage if you know ahead of time that 8 or 9 out of 10 people in a doctors office are coughing or have the flu the onus is on you to protect yourself against the flu. A part of this is also "oh if he's telling me something like this, this early (first or first few dates pre-kiss) what kind of horrible secrets is he hiding that he's not telling me about?" | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Telling her you got cold soresYes true HSV 1 is not just in the oral area. You pointed that out well. Thank you. I figured that as a silver lining to already have antibodies for HSV 1. What would the smoothest way to tell them be? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Telling her you got cold soresThanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:01 PM |
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