| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Why can’t I even look women in the eyes?Try 4 decades :) | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Does reading reddit and statistics make anyone else feel like total shit?Listen to yourself. This pathetic little pity party of yours is going to get you nowhere fast! My God! if this is your mindset, then it really isn’t any wonder that you are struggling to get laid. First thing you need to do is pull your head out of your ass and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are not entitled to sex, and those who are getting it only got it because they played hard and worked for it. There is absolutely nothing stopping you from getting just as much sex as them and a whole … | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:54 AM |
| 11 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanDad? | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Guys with girlfriends cause emotional damageYou sound like an incel, do you know that? This little pity party of yours is just so weak and pathetic and will get you nowhere in life, and it certainly won’t attract women! Think about it - why would any woman want to be with a man who walks around in a perpetually jealous state of insecurity and constantly sizes himself up against other men?! Ugh! The problem, my friend, is YOU! You need to understand that you’re not entitled to a relationship, it’s something that you have to earn. Quit your… | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 08:42 AM |
| 13 | Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?THIS! I’ve literally been saying this for years but nobody ever listens! The most meaningful and enjoyable dates/sex/connections I’ve had were always with wonderfully sweet, funny, and kind women who were average looking. I don’t know how to describe it except to say I remember them much more fondly than I do the women who were considered ‘hot’. My theory is that hot women become aware that they’re hot early in life, and they subsequently believe that they no longer have to work on themselves or… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I....cannot do it....feel like cryingOh mate fuck the 3 second rule bullshit. I’ve never liked that. The most successful approach of my life occurred in a bar more than an hour after I’d initially spotted her. Do it when YOU are ready, not when someone else says you should be. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I need advice for an upcoming dateYou need to focus a hell of a lot of energy into her friend. You win her friend, you win her. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How's this for a pick up line?Mate that’s cringe as fuck. Don’t lower yourself to such a level. Pick up lines are for idiots and they rarely ever work. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍30,000 women though?! Come on brother. How can you expect me to take such a ludicrous claim like this seriously?! | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Not sure about you guys but I stopped reading at 30,000 women… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 41 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateDon’t go. She’s going to ‘give you a chance’?! lol. Allow me to translate what she really means…. ‘You have virtually zero chance with me, but I’m going to use your enthusiasm to manipulate you into buying me an expensive meal and some drinks. I may even flirt with you a little bit, but only enough to also secure dessert and the possibility of a second date, where I’ll follow this exact process all over again. As soon as you’ve dropped me off at home there’s a good to almost certain chance that … | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Indian wingmenThis is a really shitty generalization to make here bro. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 3 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?The ‘enormous pressure’ you are talking about is coming from you and you alone my friend. I’m sorry - I know it’s not what you want to hear, but it’s true. Take complete ownership of your situation. If you haven’t lost your V card yet, so fucking what?! You don’t answer to your friends, you don’t answer to the media, and I seriously hope to fucking God you don’t answer to Reddit! My advice to you is to take responsibility, ignore any and all perceived external ‘pressure’, and focus exclusively o… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I can get hard but as soon as I try to insert my penis it immediately goes soft this is seriously destroying my self esteem can someone please give me adviceI have experience of this. This isn’t a seduction issue. This is a legitimate medical problem that you’re dealing with brother. Go and see a doctor asap. I can tell you from experience that this kind of thing is easily treatable with professional support and small lifestyle changes. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I take your point. Fair enough. BTW I’m also based in UK (London) so I’d be interested to view some of this guys content | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 9 | I feel like a loser!LOL wtf with the shoes at least bro! What happened?! | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 105 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?lol who is this ‘coach’ of yours and what is he smoking?! The beauty of game is that there are no levels. No ‘fundamentals’. No hard and fast rules or formulas that have a 100% rate of success. Every woman and every set is different. You can use a so-called ‘strategy’ that earns you a kiss close after just 20 minutes - and then the following night the exact same strategy can simply crash and burn. Don’t overthink this. Just enjoy the ride. Each set is a small adventure. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youMirroring. Specifically, your attitude towards them should be a direct reflection of their attitude towards you. If they’re acting disinterested, then walk away. If she asks you to wait there while she talks to someone else, then walk away. If she’s into you, then run your best game on her. Never buy her drinks, never be a simp, and never be afraid to walk away if she’s not giving you the respect you deserve. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:18 AM |
| 8 | Did my first cold approach today and pretty embarrassed!Dude don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Literally 90+% of the guys on this sub wouldn’t have the balls to do what you just did. And you number closed!!! No matter which way you look at it, that’s a motherfucking WIN for you brother! Congratulations. Keep up the good work | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | So twice now I've gotten women to drive me home but I can't find an excuse to get them back inside, what's best to say here?I can’t believe grown men do shit like this | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:09 PM |
| 0 | 4 ways to go for the first kissYou sound like you’re a lot of fun at parties | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:56 PM |
| 9 | 4 ways to go for the first kissOne of my favorites (but one to use with extreme caution and only when you know for sure she’s into you) is to tell her that she has something stuck in her eyelash. She’ll naturally rub her eyes and try to get it out, then look at you to confirm that it’s gone. When she does this, tell her it’s still there and let her struggle for a few more seconds before saying ‘here, let me get it’. Move your hand close to her face as if you’re about to touch her eyes, so she’ll instinctively close them. As s… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 2 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?Sad | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in returnStep 1: Delete this post and try to forget that you ever created it in the first place. It’s embarrassing for you. Step 2: Dismantle this ridiculous pedestal that you’ve created in your head for all women. You have serious value, so start acting like it or nobody will ever see it. Step 3: Quit getting bitter and comparing yourself to other guys who you think are doing better than you. Trust me, they have their own demons, and it’s none of your business anyway. Step 4: Stop raping your wallet to … | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Where do you take someone on a date?This 100%! | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Where do you take someone on a date?Ok expert, let’s hear your suggestions… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 12:58 PM |
| 7 | no teasing or push/pullGood question, and here is where I differ a little; I don’t care. You read that right - I literally couldn’t care less. So I do absolutely nothing. I just keep going. I love talking to people, I love feminine energy, and I love myself. This is powerful. Usually, when I’m in a really upbeat and positive state of mind, and I’ve made a connection and developed rapport whilst talking to a beautiful woman, I don’t even NEED to do anything to take things to the next level. The IOI’s begin to come very… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Easy seductionOP I’ve read your post and I’ve read your negative responses to comments that you don’t like, and I have to say your attitude and general outlook on this topic is more than a little fucked up. If you are projecting all of this frustration and insecurity when you’re trying to meet women then don’t expect any tangible results any time soon. You didn’t ask for any advice in your post but I’m going to give it anyway; take responsibility. YOU and YOU alone are responsible for your successes and failu… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 18 | no teasing or push/pullSo instead of negging, teasing and piss taking, I ask her about her favorite books. I’ll ask her if she’s ever read a book that changed her life. If I’ve read the book, I’ll give her my honest opinion on it. If I haven’t, I’ll ask her to give me reasons why I should. I’ll be very comfortable asking her about her goals and plans for her future, and then ask open ended questions which relate to whatever she tells me. The point is to stimulate her mind and allow her to talk about HER. Then throw in… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 33 | no teasing or push/pullNot to brag, but I do very well with women and I don’t tease much either. I am a huge believer in the lost art of in depth conversation; stimulating and challenging her on an intellectual level whilst keeping things fun and easy going at the same time. I find that this approach often works much better than just mercilessly negging the shit out of her and acting like a clown. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 18 | I stopped giving her validation by muting her social media posts/stories, and she came backClassic case of ‘cat string theory’ here. Respect to you for knocking her off of her own ridiculous pedestal and refusing to be treated like just another asshole. Stay on track my brother. Good work! | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 10:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenBullshiiiiiiiit | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:43 PM |
| 3 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough.Do you think that ‘game’ is limited to just picking up chicks? Wrong. I got into ‘game’ not because I felt unworthy or inadequate. I got into ‘game’ because I wanted to be an upgraded version of ME. I apply ‘game’ to multiple areas of my life. I’ve used it to form platonic friendships, succeed in job interviews, close sales, get discounts… I could go on. Your personality is a lot like a computer; You can install updates to improve the system and make it operate the way you want it to, but it’s s… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 09:06 AM |
| 4 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?I normally go with a (maximum) 3 second elbow touch accompanied with the initial handshake. The elbow is a very non-intimate, non-intrusive, uncreepy area of the body, which makes it perfect for establishing an early bond through physical contact. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:48 AM |
| 29 | Friends with benfitsImagine asking Reddit for permission to start dating. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:46 PM |
| -1 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?The shortest explanation is that the vast majority of users on this sub are bitter little simps who would likely feel much more at home in a sub for incels | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:19 AM |
| 5 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreI feel two ways about this; First - your ‘friend’ is a bit of a cunt and an energy thief and you’d be better served to put some distance between you and him. Second - As toxic as he is, he’s doing something right. He’s getting the results you want for yourself. What is it? Look at his hinge profile. Look at his chat logs. Observe his interactions with women. Compare and contrast. Where is he strong where you are weak? What is he doing that you’re not? You can take this opportunity to learn a thi… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 02:23 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter