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| 3 | "I am not looking for anything" ? - How do you guys proceed?If she moves away, she doesn't like you. Politely exit the conversation. If she doesn't move away, keep the conversation going. The way you're swapping info probably makes you look insecure. Just say 'let's swap numbers' or something like that. You don't have other tell girls it's okay not to answer. If they don't want to, they won't. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Picking gorgeous girlsDepends on what kind of women you think are beautiful, but being in shape, dressing well, and having good conversation skills are universally attractive. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 11:09 AM |
| 41 | Feel somewhat emasculatedThat's called banter. You're supposed to joke back. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Women Only Find Me Attractive in a CostumeDid you sleep with any women because of these costumes? It sounds like you chose childish costumes, so women aren't even looking at you as a man, but as an overgrown child. This might be framing you as less intimidating, but not attractive. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:09 PM |
| 27 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?'Shit test' is just another term for banter. Some girls are arseholes, and some guys rationalise it as a 'bitch shield'. If a girl has an attitude problem like that, just move on. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 09:50 AM |
| 12 | Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?Casual sex with a woman who's got mental health problems. That's definitely the best foundation for a stable relationship. 😂😂😂 Seriously though, some women will just have sex with people regardless of whether they like them personally. That's probably what was happening here. Some people think they have mental problems. Some people think they're just super horny. Who knows? You should also bear in mind, while almost all women could have a different dick every day for the rest of their lives, mos… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:10 PM |
| 48 | How do I keep calm when I "found out" the girl I was DM'ing is very attractive?That's enough internet for you. Go outside. Talk to some women while you're out there. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:28 PM |
| 15 | Is it over for me?This isn't a poetry sub | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 01:42 PM |
| 66 | What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?I've found that just saying hi and playfully commenting on what's going on is a good start to a conversation. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 224 | Never compliment her looksIf a girl is into you, complimenting her looks is a turn on. The girls you knew thought you were just friends, and felt creeped out by the compliments. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 02:54 PM |
| 17 | Shit tests do not exist. They are just situations where you feel insecure / inadequate and you project those feelings onto the women who are 'testing' you. Stop deluding yourself and be better. Shit tests don't exist when you're worth something.Shit tests aren't a deliberate attempt to test people. They're a subconscious thing that people do to see how well they mesh with others. If you fail, you signal that you're a bad fit. If you pass, you create more opportunities to bond and create relationships. Guys who aren't as socially capable will often respond poorly. That's why they need help identifying and crossing these barriers. It's not about feeling insecure. It's about further developing an individual's social skills. Also, men shit… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 01:06 AM |
| 0 | How to get your ex on a date?Cloroform? I know you don't want to hear this, but it's probably best to just move on and cut her out of your life. Having someone claiming to love you and refusing to even meet you sounds like a depressing waste of energy. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 05:18 PM |
| 11 | How to not be “too nice”?Read 'No more mr nice guy' by Robert Glover | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 03:58 PM |
| 23 | Girls and headphonesYes | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 04:09 PM |
| 34 | Trouble with 2nd girl with a boyfriendYou're cheating on your girl and stabbing your friend in the back. Take a long walk off a short pier | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Approaching the Local Barista???If she knows you've recently moved, ask her if there's a place nearby that does good pizza or something similar that you like. Then playfully invite her to join you after she's finished her shift. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Can I still attract many women if I have small bones?I can tell from this response that your personality is about as far from masculine that a man can get. Do you think that Makhachev cares about his wrist circumference? I seriously doubt it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Can I still attract many women if I have small bones?David Bowie & Mick Jagger are some of the most effeminate men to ever live, but each spent their youth drowning in pussy. Your thin wrists will put some women off, but most won't notice. Your charisma is going to be a much bigger factor in making a connection. Just look at the guys from one direction or K pop groups. They're a bunch of little twinks, but girls love them. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Soft text openerWhen you say text opener, I'm assuming you mean you're messaging on social media. I think you'd be better off saying something like; 'Hi. I love your style.' 'You have a beautiful selfie collection.' 'Your (insert pet/hobby) is awesome. How'd you get started?' This way, you're telling her you're interested in a more conversational and playful manner. What you're currently doing relies entirely on her finding you physically attractive enough from a first impression to continue messaging. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Does anybody here feel anxiety while attempting to approach and gut wrenching regret after you don't approach?I have in the past. At the time, my self-esteem was pretty poor, but when it improved, dealing with attractive women became much easier. It's probably worth examining your life, and working on areas that seem deficient. Try to talk platonically to a few women when you're going about your day. It'll help to take the pressure off of you when dealing with women. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 06:47 PM |
| 38 | Dont act needy they said. Welp now I am in a relationship and it backfired.Just how long distance are you, and how flirty were you with the friend? It sounds like your gf needs more attention than a long-distance relationship can handle. And 'loyalty tests' are crazy manipulative. You probably don't want to hear this, but the relationship might not be worth salvaging at this point. You may both be better of starting over with better fitting partners. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Are women more attracted to good looking guys?Yes. Looks aren't everything, but they're always going to be a factor. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:05 PM |
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