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Nah, it quite specifically has to be a penis. Otherwise it's probably something like aggravated sexual assault, I'm not sure.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 11:55 AM
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Yes. Rape is the forcible insertion of a penis into the mouth, anus, or vagina.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 10:17 AM
2

Same with ADHD - there's more recognition that it's been vastly underdiagnosed in women and girls (and generally, outside of the US).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 09:17 AM
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Me too. Then I realised that that's ambiguous - I don't know if it means believe they should be equal or have achieved equal status.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 08:44 PM
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This is such a happy comment, it makes me feel cheerful about being a dude.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 12:18 AM
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I've suffered from lack of sex. I felt unwanted, lonely, rejected, depressed, and honestly, pretty fucking sympathetic to the incel community before I realised how insane they got. Maybe you're built different, but enormous amounts of (I would say most) men, women, and others need it. The feelings of validation, joy, comfort and companionship it brings are damn hard to find elsewhere Comparing something we have a biological urge to do with a fist fight is a terrible comparison, by the way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/22 08:15 AM
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You're defining a need as something you die without, which is a bit restricted. I think anything you suffer from the lack of can be called a need. And it's not the same as wanting ice cream - most people would get the horn if they'd never even heard of sex. It's wired into us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 08:15 AM
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Happy to talk!
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/22 11:49 PM
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Weirdly, I just finished reading a book about robots and ethics, and it covered this. The argument goes that if men get used to using and abusing objects that resemble women with no consequences, they will end up viewing women more like objects and treat them with less respect. Apparently this argument does not apply to dildos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:43 PM
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I like 'em. What were things you had a problem with?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/21 08:24 AM
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I don't understand why this is an insult! I will laugh on my tiny little island!
/r/MensRights11/06/21 10:50 PM
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laughs in British
/r/MensRights11/06/21 08:32 PM
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What the fuck
/r/MensRights01/06/21 07:57 AM
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Did the boys retaliate? And did they encounter boys starting it too?
/r/MensRights13/03/21 03:48 PM
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I've been on a journey with all of this, to be honest. I called myself a feminist when much younger, then had a period of not doing so, now I would call myself a feminist again. I don't think my views have been arrived at without a fair amount of critical thought, and by no means do I think feminism is beyond reproach. But I have arrived at the view that women are systematically disadvantaged in many ways that are harmful to both the individual and society at a whole. I also think men face a gre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/20 11:13 PM
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Of course, it's not even a category without something in common. I didn't say they had nothing in common though, just that I have seen a shit-ton of different viewpoints (some I liked, some I didn't) represented by feminists. It is a broad movement, even if they share the common belief of women's historical oppression (which I think is a well-justified one).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/20 09:39 PM
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Feminism is easily broad enough to encompass all of this. I've seen all the points of view you mentioned represented under a feminist banner at one time or another. It's more a movement, less an ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/20 07:57 AM
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I don't think it is quite so coercive as "man up", but it is hopelessly naïve. It's a bit like telling women "just ask for that pay rise, go for that CEO job". Yeah, maybe they should, but there's often a lifetime of conditioning in the way to deal with first.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/20 10:54 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. You're right: men should speak out more about mental health. But they won't, so the rest of us need to lean in. It's so bloody hard when you're in that state of mind, and men are conditioned not to seek help, or "burden others with their problems". Things are changing, but even well-meaning people struggle to know how to comfort and support men. We are typically less encouraged to be emotionally articulate, so we're less practiced at it than a lot of women. I'm sorry aga…
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:57 AM
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No-one's making anyone shave to comply with mask laws. I want women to have sanitary products for their sake and mine. I'm perfectly happy for my tax to be used to guarantee others basic standards of health, hygiene and dignity - as far as I'm concerned, that's what it's for. I don't see this as an issue.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 12:53 AM
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maybe they are maybe they arent. Agreed. That's my point. but I'm saying gender roles as an overall concept certainly isn't a mere social construction They are so, so culturally ingrained and reinforced that we can't eliminate social influences to see what's left. So we don't know where the nature/nurture line is. But you can see different performance of gender roles in different extant cultures (they're not so consistent, as you claim), and change in gender roles over time in a single culture. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/20 08:58 AM
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I would say it's pretty much impossible to extricate the biological from the cultural, so we really don't know what we can be. Humans are enormously adaptable. We should not assume that the way we are is innate and unchangeable. I think many men around the world are emotionally stunted from a very early age, and I'd like to see what we can be when this doesn't happen. We don't have the evidence to dismiss possibilities on the grounds of biology, so let's keep the field nice and open.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/20 07:39 AM
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Child support is for the kids, not the parents. Children should not have to suffer because of their parents' problems, where possible.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 11:08 AM
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With regards to 1.. The socialisation of men to be less expressive with their emotions begins at such an early age that we cannot disentangle nurture from nature. Infants of six months are given less attention when crying of they're male. So..we might be naturally averse to emotional expression, but I'd say that we just don't know. Which also means we don't know what men are capable of, which is why we need these conversations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/20 07:47 AM
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That sucks, it must be hard for you at the moment. Anecdotally, I've noticed that I'm far less tuned in to my own emotions when I don't have anyone else to talk to. I'm a massive extrovert, though. These are such weird times, it's probably best not to judge ourselves on how we are now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/20 07:48 AM
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I'm not sure that really answers my question. We're a flexible species in terms of what each individual is capable of, and the societal roles of each sex aren't set in stone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/20 07:44 AM
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Ironic really, as it takes confidence and strength to demonstrate that vulnerability. Pretty manly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/20 09:48 AM
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Are you assuming that they are inherent and not prescribed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/20 09:25 AM
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You've said men just express emotions differently, then described cases where you avoided expressing them for fear of how it would be received (as a burden, etc). When I was depressed it was not my experience that people checked in. I check in on others to the point of being annoying now. I don't want anyone else to do it alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/20 09:10 AM
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I agree, and there's some evidence to support that parents behave differently towards their children based on biological sex from an early age. I just finished reading Cordelia Fine's "Delusions Of Gender". It's an aggressively-researched debunking of the supposed scientific evidence for natural gender differences. The point is mostly that it's almost impossible to eliminate the effects of nurture and so disentangle it from nature. It's left me faaaaar less certain of any innate difference betwe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/20 10:31 PM
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That's a really positive role to take on, and it's probably the best you can do in this respect. Provide at least one context for them to practice some emotional expression. Age helps, I think. I definitely ran out of fucks around 30.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/20 10:05 PM
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Male friendship groups are made up of other men who don't know how to cry, have been conditioned not to cry, and have no idea how to deal with men crying. With the best will in the world, they're not magically going to work out how to create a supportive space in which they can all express vulnerability through crying. It takes self-exploration, emotional maturity, and probably a lot of crying in private before you're going to be able to do so in front of others. I'm a man in my mid-thirties and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/20 04:25 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 02:26 PM
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No idea! I will leave you to Google that as I'm a British person who's going to sleep now. However we've ended up here, it should just be recognised for the damaging act that it is.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 12:50 AM
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It comes under sexual assault and carries the same maximum sentence as rape. This petition is about recognising that it is the same damaging act legally.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 12:43 AM
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The act is still a crime, It's just not called rape. Not sure if that's what you were getting at.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 12:34 AM
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If he gives them a sense of confidence and self-worth, that's half the battle.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 08:29 AM
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They won't demand it down the pub, but you'd want it on the spine of a book you wrote or on a popup about you on the TV because it demonstrates that to some extent you know what your talking about.
/r/MensRights25/08/18 08:41 PM
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The show this was on is satirical.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 02:02 PM
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It cuts both ways. Totalitarian little shits are the problem.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 08:37 AM
1

Under the standard rules, masculine trumps feminine in plurals, meaning, for example, that a man and a woman are described as “amis”. Two or more friends are called “amies” only when no men are included. To put it another way, there's a special case for when it's all women. Funny how you can cast the same situation in many different lights.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 08:35 AM
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Segregation is segregation. And this isn't segregation. We aren't talking enforced separation, we're talking about the option. Doesn't have to be at prime time. Why the fuck should i have to suffer because some bitch or bastard has "image issues." Why should some "bitch or bastard" have to suffer because you can't tolerate even a minor inconvenience? And as for responsibility and accountability, the second an unhealthy, overweight person turns up at the gym, they've demonstrated both. You seem s…
/r/MensRights13/09/17 04:39 PM
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No, it's not. It gives people a choice, it doesn't enforce segregation. Also, the groups being given their own space (NOT forced apart) necessarily have a relationship to one another where aesthetics and presentation are important. You don't necessarily want the other side to see you being weak, or fat, or for women, overly masculine. I don't think there's a problem with those feelings.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 08:45 AM
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At the very least, a study would show if there is that demand. Who knows, we could be wrong about make demand for this, and that in itself would be something to consider. Of course, I don't think I'm wrong :)
/r/MensRights12/09/17 07:53 AM
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Ignoring the obvious sexism of this, I can easily believe there are plenty of guys who would feel more self-conscious and inhibited in a mixed-sex gym environment. I can understand why many women would want this women-only time. Yet the notion of men-only time would be met with..well, extreme prejudice, probably. And that's not OK.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 03:14 AM
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Google made life as easy on themselves as possible.
/r/MensRights09/08/17 07:20 PM
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It's more that anorexia is a thing. If Mc ChickenKing tried to say obesity was healthy it would start a shitstorm too.
/r/MensRights18/07/17 06:18 PM
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What? It's not controversial that the DM is a right-wing paper. Can you point me to some of these left-wing articles the DM is churning out? For what it's worth, I'm left wing, and I don't want to read any bullshit, left or right wing. Interpretation is one thing, bullshit is another.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 08:10 AM
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The Daily Mail has a strong right-wing bias, and frequently prints utter falsehoods (not just twisting the truth but making stuff up). It's a right-wing mouthpiece with entire blogs dedicated to debunking the lies it churns out. It's very popular garbage.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 07:28 AM
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With the exception of the small penis bit.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 07:12 AM
3

It ain't just balls. Male hips and female hips differ significantly. Men's and women's legs will naturally rest in different positions.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 07:04 AM
3

As soon as she said it, you can almost hear him say "gotcha!"
/r/MensRights20/04/17 06:58 AM
3

Yeah, I noped here. Someone bunked off biology once too often.
/r/MensRights23/12/16 08:26 AM
7

What's that second bit?
/r/MensRights01/10/16 07:41 AM
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It's almost like wildlife photography of humans. I suppose that's what it is. He's not a model, he's just as normal human being a good father.
/r/MensRights20/05/16 06:55 PM
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As a Brit, I'm much more interested in the fact that he's one of eight children of a bus driver and not some posh, tax-avoiding twat, than the fact that he's Muslim. Working class boy done good, regardless of religion.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 07:54 AM
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Starting from certain parts of Britain they could get to France.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 07:50 AM
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The age range surprised me. I thought it works be older.
/r/MensRights28/04/16 07:27 AM
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Often it's a lack of good communication Communication takes at least two, and yet only men are being required to attend these workshops. Women can be just as guilty of poor communication. Why is it only a man's responsibility to ensure good communication? That's why I think consent workshops work. Not really any evidence though, is there? Just "I think it works"..
/r/MensRights04/11/15 07:54 AM
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I think the issue is that a lot of guys would have slept with her. I would have if she was my teacher. That's exactly the problem. It was her responsibility to keep it in her pants, and instead she betrayed the trust she was given. I say 'could be' because I wouldn't have called it abuse if I was 15 and sleeping with her, and I would have been pissed if anyone else did too. Everyone's different. The law exists to protect the innocent, so in cases where some people would be hurt by an event but o…
/r/MensRights19/03/15 12:51 PM
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The Daily Mail is a work of fiction written to make people afraid of foreigners, fat people and the poor. Citing it undermines this sub.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 06:25 PM
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It can't. The Daily Mail is a hate machine.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 08:36 PM
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It's "double-x-plainers", guys.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 06:42 AM
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The first woman you referred to is Malala Yusafzei. She was shot in the head by a member of the Taliban for refusing to stop attending school. She's only 16/17 now, and does a huge amount of campaigning for women's rights.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 06:25 PM
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Surely femsplaining should be called XXsplaining..
/r/MensRights25/07/14 07:06 PM
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