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I’m grateful for my wonderful husband that is an amazing role model for our two boys and one boy on the way! I couldn’t do this parenting journey without him.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/21 03:24 AM
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Thank you! I will look into reading that.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/21 05:36 AM
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Thank you for your comment. I definitely have a lot to consider.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/21 08:13 AM
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Thank you again. I’ve been reading about it. I’ve been reading a lot from Fight the New Drug, an organization that advocates against porn and how destructive it can be for families, especially if a loved one is fighting with addiction. I’ve also been listening to the podcasts.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/21 03:43 AM
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This was so beautifully written. Thank you. I really needed this ❤️
/r/RedPillWives03/04/21 03:41 AM
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I’ve now created the discord. Please join if you’d like. The link is in the thread 😊
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 11:27 PM
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Hi! I created the server on discord. Feel free to join. Hopefully we can all navigate our marriages together 😊
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 11:26 PM
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I really appreciate your input. And I agree with you. It is hurting me, despite me lying to myself otherwise. I’m not sure what ultimatum I could give him short of leaving him or divorce which is absolutely something I don’t want. I love him. I want to grow old with him. I just don’t want him to hurt me anymore. I’m going to have to find a way to live with it if he cannot change on his own. I know I cannot change him. He has to want it.
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 09:37 PM
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I’ve suggested counseling as well. He doesn’t believe in it and says it would make him extremely uncomfortable to talk to someone about his addiction and our intimacy issues. That is why I started reading Laura Doyle’s books. The books basically emphasize that you can change your marriage by changing yourself and not relying on your spouse to change. So that’s what I did. The first thing I implemented was self care. I hadn’t cared for myself well in a long time and reading the books helped me to…
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 09:20 PM
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For those who are interested, I’ve created the server on discord. Here is the link: A Surrendered Circle: A Safe Place I’d like to keep it relatively small and intimate so we can get to know each other and really help each other. If you’re comfortable, I was thinking we could also meet via Zoom once a week or biweekly. Once you join the server, we can discuss it further. Thank you for all who are interested ❤️
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 08:54 PM
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Thank you for your input. I really appreciate it. I have made it clear how it makes me feel and sadly he keeps doing it. I just caught him again this morning after posting this. I could tell something was off. I’ve been crying all morning.
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 08:46 PM
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That’s great! I would love to start a group with you as well. Feel free to reply to my post and we can get the ball rolling and work out the details. I don’t want to highjack OPs post 😬
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 06:04 PM
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Hi ladies, I’m in the same boat. I looked into the prices of both the Coach training as well as joining the Ridiculously Happy Wives Club which includes group coaching sessions and access to the private Facebook group. The Coach training is 15000 dollars. The Ridiculously Happy Wives Club is 300 per month. These both are astronomically out of my price range. I literally just posted about starting a Surrendered Circle or a discussion group so I could talk with like minded women about their journe…
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 05:56 PM
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This! I’ve read it and am implementing the strategies. It’s helping me cope with some of the problems in my marriage
/r/RedPillWives28/03/21 09:08 PM
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You’re welcome! Just find a pair you like. You’ll know when you try them on. A good pair of glasses is like a good friend lol. I also have a really strong prescription and I get special lenses so that they are not thick (they are quite pricy though). My glasses cost around $450 and that was with my insurance discounts but I usually only get a new pair every three to four years or so. Good luck on your glasses hunt!
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 04:25 PM
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S.E. Cupp, Rachel Maddow, and me! LOL! I’ll also be your role model. I love my glasses. I feel like they are so much a part of my personality now. I had the option to get contacts and was “nope”—rather have my glasses. They make me unique (not a lot of people wear them full time) and you can really showcase your personality with them as well as your style. My current pair have a slight cat eye shape, and I couldn’t love them more. My husband picked them out for me.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 04:13 PM
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I’m reading Laura Doyle’s The Surrendered Wife right now, and the book has a whole section about sex. In this section, she brings up that the more feminine you are, your husband matches you in masculinity. The farther you are apart on the spectrum, the stronger the sexual attraction will be. I bring this up because I feel as though I am in a bit of your shoes as well. When I am actively seeking sex and I come off too strong, my husband just doesn’t seem that into it. I then feel rejected. In thi…
/r/RedPillWives20/03/21 06:50 AM
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