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Feel free to dm me and we’ll see if I can help you in any way brother
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:35 AM
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It’s highly relevant since I only asked for your opinion on the matter and not if I should. I’m perfectly ok with the fact that you didn’t gain anything from my post, I don’t post things believing that everyone would either agree with my thoughts or not. As I’m sure goes for Jordan Peterson’s work as well. I’m glad that you feel that you are enlightened, Im not and most likely will never be since I believe that true enlightenment is unreachable and that it’s an ideal that you should strive for b…
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:49 AM
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No I’m asking you since you are obviously the one in the right here
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:27 AM
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Would you prefer if I deleted this post since it doesn’t contain any real insights, in your opinion?
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:24 AM
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Try something more innocent first. Something like teasingly push her away if your walking side by side, if she’s making you laugh then touch her arm a bit. Try starting small, you don’t have to go for the lover back. A small friendly touch is better then no kino at all.
/r/seduction02/08/20 02:51 PM
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That’s great, I’m sure you can help other with guidance and help so that they can achieve greatness just like yours!
/r/seduction02/08/20 12:31 PM
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That’s amazing! Great advice
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:57 AM
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A couple of years ago, one of my mentors thought me the whole “my business, your business and gods business” and I thought it was brilliant, when I learned that he had gotten it from her then I started to look her up to learn more! Almost all my advice are based on people like her, people that you would never think of when you are talking about game, pick up and seduction.
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:53 AM
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Sometimes you need to go back to basic? My whole philosophy is that you should keep things simple since people who overthink everything tend to struggle with everything as well. I mean I think it’s pretty obvious why I posted this. Most guys here think they’re struggling with very specific things, almost every question is something like “how do I act in this very specific situation?” Thinking that you need a “how to” for every single situation is only gonna hurt your game. But having a few basic…
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:49 AM
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Yes! It is, love that you know of her!
/r/seduction01/08/20 11:47 PM
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I agree with you 100%. But there’s a difference between “focus” and “acknowledge” You should act responsible and stay at home during these times, especially in the states. And your focus should be that “I’m doing the right thing and instead of going out right now to approach girls, I’m gonna act responsible and improve myself by taking care of myself.” That way you acknowledge the corona but it’s not what’s controlling your situation, you are in control by choosing how you will handle and act. M…
/r/seduction01/08/20 11:35 PM
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It’s only awkward if you make it awkward afterwards brother. If she rejects you then she will most likely still be glad and flattered that you asked her out.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:23 PM
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Well it depends, if you don’t want to have anything to do with her then no. But if you you are interested in her, then why shouldn’t you? Don’t wait for her to make a move, take control over your life and do something yourself brother.
/r/seduction01/08/20 07:55 PM
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Yeah totally, i would also argue that your thoughts will reframe them the more you start to focus on yourself, but yes it’s a big part of it.
/r/seduction01/08/20 07:49 PM
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Out of curiosity, where is this place that doesn’t allow you to ask someone out?
/r/seduction01/08/20 04:49 PM
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This. Take risks and you will soon understand that most other guys, especially in your age don’t so you will stand out and this will automatically make you more attractive since you stand out from the crowd. Rejections sucks but they never hurt you, you will be ok and the more rejections you experience the sooner you will loose your nervousness and gain confidence
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:43 PM
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You don’t wait for iois before approaching, if you get one then yeah, ofc you approach her. But if you wait for a certain amount before, then you will miss out on a lot of girls brother. The only thing you need to look for is if a girl catches your interest or not, if you’re interested then that’s all you need. Don’t fear rejections
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:40 PM
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Ask her out next time you see her, you don’t need her to hold up sign saying “I’m interested” to ask her out if you are interested in her yourself. If she’s interested then she will say yes, as easy as that brother.
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:37 PM
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It sounds like your are overthinking this and your own thoughts and inner voices are confusing you. Maybe it’s a part of a lack of self esteem that you don’t recognize because you might still be confident. Some people have it all on paper, good job, healthy life, popular etc etc. but their self esteem is still low and is sending themselves signals of low worth. You already have written down all the answers yourself, that you consider your standard in women being unrealistic, wasting time on redd…
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:08 AM
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The optimal time is more based on where you and your girl is in the conversation more then what time of the day it is
/r/seduction29/07/20 04:04 PM
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What advice should they take? What advice would you give to a POC who is asking these kinds of questions?
/r/seduction29/07/20 03:25 PM
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I mean some 40year olds are as immature as girls in their early 20s so if you are interested the don’t let the age trick you into overthinking this. I mean she matched with you fully knowing your age, so most likely she expects you to act like a 23 year old? In other words, just do what you usually do and try to mirror her language, that way you will be on the same level and you won’t coming off as insecure brother.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:14 AM
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Have you tried the app “Couchsurfing”? It’s basically an app for when you travel and want to met up with locals or other backpackers. The best part of the app is that not many people use it like tinder, but does who do are often really open minded and want to met people, so it’s easy to get invited to hang with people if you reach out there. That way you have people around you that you know and you can use that to your advantage. Don’t know how many people that are using it now since corona is a…
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:08 AM
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Have you tried the app “Couchsurfing”? It’s basically an app for when you travel and want to met up with locals or other backpackers. The best part of the app is that not many people use it like tinder, but does who do are often really open minded and want to met people, so it’s easy to get invited to hang with people if you reach out there. That way you have people around you that you know and you can use that to your advantage. Don’t know how many people that are using it now since corona is a…
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:08 AM
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It all depends, an icebreaker shouldn’t be creepy and if it isn’t creepy then go a head.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:32 PM
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Try to find confidence in your value as your and not in lack of experience, she is going out to met you with you and doesn’t care about any previous experiences that you might or might not have. So be proud of who you are what you have to offer, don’t let any of your thoughts get in your way and everything will work itself out brother.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:17 PM
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Great question since this is a way more common problem out there then you might think. We have a tendency to want to add values, just so we can compare things to each other. And in your case you are comparing your values in attractiveness and social values to other guys around you, so that you can put your own value in perspective. We humans do this all the time and the problem with comparing your values to another, is that you will loose control over every situation that you put yourself in, si…
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:59 PM
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Yeah, Jodel is not a good app for that sorry.
/r/seduction27/07/20 06:29 PM
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That’s a rough word, “failure”. Very few people like to fail, if any. But people still take chances out there and not every chance ends successfully. Failure means progress and improving your self, cause never failing only means that you’ve never taken a risk and only played it safe. It’s very common to chase after perfection and 100%, and being a perfectionist isn’t by any means a bad thing, but you can only achieve perfection in some parts and not all. Cause if you do, then you will be stuck i…
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:11 PM
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I agree with your additions, especially since it might help him “ease up” to ask girls to follow him home, since it seems that his difficulty is that he don’t even knows how where to start. The best part of your advice is that it removes of stress of sex, since the goal is to continue having a good time and not to get her in bed. Might remove some of the nervousness and anxiety
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:29 PM
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If you find it hard to get them to follow you home then here is something you can try, get them to follow you somewhere else. If you are in one bar, tell them that there’s another bar that’s even better. It’s low effort from them to change place and it’s way easier to ask them to follow you home to your place if the have already followed you somewhere else before.
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:59 PM
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This is exactly what it’s all about, it’s not about learning the magical tricks to help you get more successful, it’s just about improving yourself and the way that you feel about yourself. This is the best advice you can give someone who is struggling with approach anxiety and a fear of rejection, since they start to overthink everything that they do and get increasingly insecure since they need advice with everything. That sort of behavior only lovers your self esteem and your confidence, sinc…
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:05 PM
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Maybe the fact that no one is giving you that, is the answer to your question? There’s nothing wrong with your legs brother, if you are insecure about them then start training and building muscles on them. Nobody else in the world cares about your legs as much as you do, so you are only doing this to yourself.
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:57 PM
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Just out of curiosity, if you get the answer “yes they are to thin” what would you do with that information? Same goes if you get the answer “no they are not”. I mean what are you searching for?
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:54 PM
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My honest opion is that I’ve never looked at a guy and thought that his legs was to skinny, so no I don’t think that your legs are to skinny. But you shouldn’t really care what others think of your legs, the only opinion that matters is yours.
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:48 PM
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Only if you think that they are, If they bother you then train them more to build muscle. But is it possible that your real issue is that you are self conscious about your legs and that you make their size a way bigger deal in your head?
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:11 PM
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Of course there’s way more to it, otherwise people would just go out dancing and people wouldn’t have to ask these kinds of questions here. The issue is that the questions is extremely vague and open for interpretation since the only info we have is “I want to score with girls in the club”. So I gave him him a very simple answer that help must people, and that is to basically not overthink it and have fun, that way it’s harder to get approach anxiety and fear of rejection since you are only ther…
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:05 PM
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Sorry to break it to you but its a much higher probability that you are the one that’s approaching in a weird way then that multiple women have found you weird enough to call security on you, just because they “can’t handle a compliment”. If people around you get that uncomfortable that they need to call security, then that should be a huge indicator that you are doing something wrong and that you are going out way too strong. It’s great that you are approaching girls since most people have diff…
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:41 PM
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Just approach her and stop overthinking it, if she’s sending out these signals then that means that she wants you to approach her. If she’s not and you have miss read the situation, well then she could still be interested in you since you approached her. In other words, if you don’t approach her then nothing will happen but if you do something could happen.
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:30 PM
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Don’t hesitate and wait for them to approach you, if you want to talk with someone then you should do it. This doesn’t sound like an issue with eye contact and more approach anxiety and fear of rejection. But to help you out I can give you this: When two strangers locks eye contact for longer then 3 seconds, it usually means either two things. 1. That they like what they see. 2. That they feel threatened and is in a “fight or flight state. The first one is way more common and if it’s the second …
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:26 PM
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Sarcasm right? English isn’t my first language so sometimes I miss when people are being sincere or sarcastic.
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:15 PM
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By having a good a time and be fun to hang around, people who go out to club is looking for just that. Girls included. My game when I’m out clubbing is to first and foremost have a great time, I love to dance so I’m always at the dance floor since that’s the place were I have the most fun. I invite people around me to dance and encourage them to really let loose and have a good time, this way the center of the party is always around me. This way I don’t seem desperate or creepy. Instead I’m some…
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:13 PM
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The thing about kissing is that usually when it’s bad, it’s just because the two people kissing don’t click. I’ve had bad kissing experiences but they’ve always been because either the girl or I was kinda forcing the situation, that led us to kiss, even though neither of us really wanted to. I believe that your last experience has made you second guess yourself and now you are overthinking it and it’s hurting your self esteem. I’m sure your kissing technique is fine, but your anxiety and fear of…
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:58 AM
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I meant that I would try to speak with your accent just to prove to you that if I can pick up a girl with the same accent then why wouldn’t you be able to? Is it possible that the fact that you are thinking that your accent is ruining your chances, makes it true? I’m willing to bet that someone else with the same accent as you is using it to his advantage, because it’s how you feel about it that decides what’s true. If you feel self conscious about it then you will act as if it’s something that …
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:28 PM
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Does you girlfriend hate compliments?
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:20 PM
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I believe you when you say it’s not easy and I’m not saying that it’s not. The truth of the matter is that everyone out there have something that they are not entirely satisfied with about themselves. I don’t know how your accent sounds or how your barber reacts when they hear you speak, but I’m sure that you are not the only one with your particular accent in the world, right? If this is true, then ask yourself these two questions. Is everyone with a accent single? Would I care if I met someone…
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:13 PM
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The only time you truly fail is when you stop trying brother. You will look back at this moment as the beginning of your new life and not as a failure. If you have a problem with asking a girl for the time, then maybe just start with a “hi” or try to get eye contact with someone and smile? If it helps you then try doing this together with a friend, or call on the phone for 10 minutes before you make the first approach. The only thing you shouldn’t do is to overthink your approaches, because then…
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:01 PM
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Don’t overthink this brother, i mean why would it be any different getting a compliment from a girl than a friend? The advice you need is “don’t overthink” but the advice you might want is this, if she gives you a compliment then say “thank you”. You are confident enough to accept a compliment without the need to give one back just as a response. If you think this is to rude, then you can give her a compliment back, but you should only give sincere compliments. Meaning that if you like the way s…
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:55 PM
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Well in your case it’s obviously ruining your chances, but only because you let it. It sounds like you have a problem with you self esteem more then with your particular accent and if you didn’t have one then you would most likely be very self conscious about something else. I’m not gonna lie and tell you that girls doesn’t care how you sound like, because some do. But there’s not one guy out there that appeals to every single woman out there, in the same way that some girls don’t appeal to you …
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:42 PM
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Since we don’t have much to on regarding what you have or haven’t tried yet, I’m going to assume that you haven’t even asked your crush out. If you haven’t then I would start with that. No need to really overthink it, if you like someone then you should just make the first move before someone else does. That’s really the only advice I can give you with this limited information. If it doesn’t help you then try giving more details about your situation.
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:28 PM
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Wether or not it’s “normal” isn’t really the issue here, since I assume that you don’t really care if your situation is normal or not. For example, it’s not considered “normal” to have girls that are straight up tens begging you to be with them, but it might be something that you would still want, yes? If that’s the case then you don’t really have any reason to be stressed about if it’s normal or not to not be seeing anyone at the moment, or any other aspect of your life. Since I assume that you…
/r/seduction25/07/20 08:01 PM
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Wether or not it’s “normal” isn’t really the issue here, since I assume that you don’t really care if your situation is normal or not. For example, it’s not considered “normal” to have girls that are straight up tens begging you to be with them, but it might be something that you would still want, yes? If that’s the case then you don’t really have any reason to be stressed about if it’s normal or not to not be seeing anyone at the moment, or any other aspect of your life. Since I assume that you…
/r/seduction25/07/20 08:01 PM
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This is one of the best advice out there, so many guys out there who’s looking for excuses not to approach someone, saying that they are waiting for the right signals just so they can say hi. The only ones they’re fooling are themselves. If I could add something to this is that you shouldn’t overthink everything, it’s not a big deal to approach someone and it should be somewhat of a second nature.
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:11 PM
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Glad that you felt confidence in this group so that you could reach out with your questions. Sometimes all you need is to write your thoughts down and then the answers that you are seeking will find their way to you. Im willing to bet that you already know all the answers that you’re looking for. Best of luck brother, even though we both know you don’t need it!
/r/seduction24/07/20 07:55 PM
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If you want to approach them, then go a head and approach them. You don’t need a signal to tell you that since its not a big deal to walk over and talk to someone. And since approaching someone isn’t a big deal, then getting rejected or walking away from them isn’t really a big deal either, since all you did leading up to that, was approaching a person.
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:10 PM
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Is it possible that you are overthinking this? There’s a difference in “not trying” and “not having to try” and you even point this out yourself in your post brother. It’s usually kind of obvious when someone wants something out what ever it is their doing. Especially when it’s sex. This might be your issue, that you are so focused on playing the game, making all the right moves and with a clear goal in your mind. That whenever you are out with someone, you are not truly present in the moment. M…
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:01 PM
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My point was if you could share where you read or learned about it since I don’t entirely agree with you but I would like to read more about it.
/r/seduction20/07/20 04:07 PM
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That’s really good progress and I’m glad that you’ve improved and gotten further! I hope that you will continue your path of progress and get to a place where you deserve to be at. I’m sure you will get there. I believe that the only thing stopping you atm is a lack of belief in that you deserve what you want and that it is within you’re own ability’s to reach it.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:54 PM
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It’s interesting how you view your source of self respect and confidence, is this something you would say is knowledge that you’ve collected from your path of self experience or have you gotten it from someone else?
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:47 PM
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Hey brother, great habits like yours are an amazing part of being the best version of yourself that you can be, and I agree that it helps to build up you self esteem and that you should feel good about yourself and be proud of your acknowledgments! But I don’t really agree that you “can’t lie to your ego/self esteem”. I mean you can’t tell me you haven’t met a person that’s regularly working out and eating healthy, but their inner self is telling them otherwise? Success and self esteem isn’t nec…
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:18 PM
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I’m not at all taking this as a form of attack, just that you had a different perspective on the matter based on your own experiences and current situation. I’m always looking for a discussion, to help broaden my mind and help me grow as a individual. Truly I respect that about you. Just how I respect your opinions and that I’m positive that you know whats best for you in the end and hopefully will act accordingly. There is nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone that’s not optimal…
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:24 PM
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I don’t really understand your response, maybe it’s because English isn’t my native language. But what does that have to do with your own value? If someone has a busy schedule it could just mean that they have a busy schedule, that’s true for me in periods when I’m traveling in work. If they contact you again for a hookup, obviously that most mean something right? Otherwise, whats stopping then from meeting someone else instead of you? If you on the other hand feel like you are being used and th…
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:05 PM
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Honestly just say that you like them, it’s not that complicated and if you are overthinking this then you might have other issues that you need to work on. I’ve found that most people that fear that whenever they want to express something, they give of the wrong signals and either comes across as to needy/desperate, cold/rejecting or what ever they have a hard time with, that it’s not what they say that’s the issue that they need help with. Most of the time people either overthink and it becomes…
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:31 AM
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You don’t need signs brother, I mean if she touches you, laughs, look at you when you speak and actually listens, asks you questions and speaks whenever a silence appears. All these things are a good indication that she’s at least interested in you. Because that’s the real secret, you should know best yourself why she should be interested in you. So instead of focusing on her and whether or not she is likes you and if she shows it, ask yourself: why shouldn’t she be interested in me? I have tons…
/r/seduction20/07/20 10:13 AM
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I find that you should, just like you said yourself, approach them with the confidence that you are the single most important and best thing to ever happen to them in their life so far. And that they should be thanking their lucky star that you made the first move. But you should also know that sometimes people just don’t click and that you are not right for everyone in the same way that not everyone is right for you. Nothing personal, it just wasn’t the right fit for whatever reason and that’s …
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:54 AM
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This is great advice, be playful and just act like whatever she throws at you isn’t a big deal. No one likes a serious or butthurt person. Just shrug it of, laugh and just act fun. Because only a person who’s not having a good time would get upset that a girl is so superficial that she would call someone out for being to skinny. Show her that your life is amazing and a silly comment like that won’t get under your skin.
/r/seduction19/07/20 02:37 PM
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Do that, I can’t really hurt right? And whenever you’re in doubt, change up the question from “what am I doing wrong” to “how can I improve myself further from here”. Otherwise you will be your self confidence’s own worst enemy and that’s a heck of a lot harder to improve then the small details that you need to tune. Best of luck!
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:46 AM
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You had a positive result of 61%, that’s really good. Seems to me that you are focusing on the wrong thing here, as in “why didn’t I get to score at least once out of 100”. Thinking like that won’t really help your confidence and when your confidence is a bit of then that’s enough for you to either seem desperate or insecure. Try to change up your game a bit, cause obviously you are really good at the ice breakers and starting up a convo, but something has been a bit off with closing. Try to use…
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:34 AM
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The response you will get, is most likely the same no mater how long you wait to tell him.
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:33 PM
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