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| 4 | Best peacocking items for 2022Matching pink cardigan and all star hi pink converse. Don't forget the cashews. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:13 AM |
| 93 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?Because normal people don't fucking act like that. Holy shit. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:24 AM |
| 30 | What's w/ women and toxic guys?Wtf has this sub become. Height and toxicity aren't correlated. This is some cope. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 4 | "Wow when was the last time you got laid?". Could girls really smell your sex history?disagree because it was a joke answer | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teeth/u/bluesubarucrew something something rigged | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksMaybe he meant if you have a son or daughter to watch out for predators like him. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How To Start Dating Multiple Women -- The Honest Way [xpost from r/everymanshouldknow]How do you deal with making time for multiple women with work and errands? | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should't Add A Girl On Social Media (If You're A Noob)I don't think following girls on social media necessarily equates to being obsessed with them. Obviously there are people that are like this. "Oneitis" and being obsessed with girls like that. I think a good time to exchange social media is after a successful first date. You have already gotten to know the person a little better, but they are still a little bit of a mystery, especially if you met them via cold approach, night game, or dating sites/apps. They are a complete stranger and social me… | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?I agree to a certain point. However I believe girls match with you if you pass a certain threshold. Then you get a chance to try to stand out or click with the girl. However since there are so many people on tinder, even if you pass her threshold and match, that person might have better options, whether it be looks or connecting better. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 10:42 AM |
| 5 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?How hot do you have to be for girls to respond to "hey" | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 10:40 PM |
| 7 | We live in the fucking future!! Getting laid in hillbilly country on Tinder.D.C. Market might be a little harder but sounds like you have your shit together so you'll find something. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 9 | what would you ask a chick with ~2000 matches, growing at ~70 a day?Any girl above a 6 can get that many matches a day. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?It's the angle of the pics you're using. Girls can be super picky on dating websites and apps. They are swiping right or left in less than a second. They will instinctively swipe left on bad pictures, even if it was a 6-4 Zac Efron. You need to have people take candid pics of you instead of just taking your own selfies. Some people even recommend hiring a photographer and I believe there is a general guide somewhere on the subreddit. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Made out with 2 friends in 1 week!Wear a condom. No matter what. | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 12:15 AM |
| 12 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Thailand | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 05:18 AM |
| 2 | This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how.Hey dude, just some life advice is to always wear a condom if you aren't already. Even if the girl says she is on birth control. You can't rely on 18 years of your future on someone else's word. Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 01:47 AM |
| 3 | This time last year, I'd hooked up with exactly 0 girls. Right now, I'm looking for my 24th. Here's how.Simple, don't be awkward, and also be attractive and people will want to be your friend! | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Best Tinder Openers Guide [Screenshots Included]Congrats on the sex. | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Instagram SeductionBuy them. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | So I'm thinking about approaching this girl Thursdayjust be yourself, but not like that. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 07:53 PM |
| 5 | The REAL reason you don't have a girlfriend (and why it's NOT your fault)Online dating shouldn't be the only avenue people use to try to meet others. It should just be a supplement. Additionally, online dating is not the best tool for everyone because of the abundance of dudes, thus making girls more picky. When it comes to online dating, either tinder, okc, pof, etc, girls who are average when you are above average might not even give you the time of day, even with good openers and normal conversation, simply because they are flooded with "better options" so to say.… | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 12:13 PM |
| 5 | How many of you guys try to pick up women in Target and Wal-mart?I recommend Whole Foods and Home Depot. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Stop trying to convince girls you are a "good guy"/u/bluesubarucrew | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | The Deteriorating "American Woman"; Attention Seeking Whores.I read the reasons listed and it seems that OP isn't realizing the sign the girls want him to fuck off. Girls want to talk to people and go on dates, just not with guys like whoever posted. Overall, how have you improved yourself to make yourself desirable is the important question. | /r/seduction | 09/03/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Introverts Can Crush It In Bars and ClubsIt's called social proof theory | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 02:09 AM |
| 9 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeOP mentioned that they are roommates in college and therefore they more likely than not share the same bedroom. So it will be hard for OP to not avoid seeing girls that he had feelings for come over if they are still interested in seeing his roommate. OP, my advice for you is to talk to your RA first and ask if there is a possibility to switch rooms and explain that your roommate is messing up your studies by bringing home girls that you have explicitly stated that you like. From my experience, … | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundI agree. However I believe if an attractive guy were to use more tailored openers, their response rate would be even higher, and also allows them to find more quality women. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 05:40 PM |
| 3 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundI disagree. I think most of what he said holds true. Although my anecdote is only for Tinder, my female friends say that the first thing they consider is looks or good pictures. I have seen my average looking female friends swipe left on conventionally extremely attractive men simply because the picture was not taken well. Their process is essentially stopping if they see someone with a good picture and is attractive, then they read their profile and if it is interesting they will swipe right. H… | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 05:28 PM |
| 10 | My COMPLETE guide to gameThere are essentially two sects of seduction, the first, which is essentially do whatever tricks/methods you can use to increase your chances to get pussy. Now there is another sect where we talk about self improvement. Well guess what, people weren't getting into PUA and seduction to become better people, they were getting into it for the pussy. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to get your looks fixedYeah it seems like common sense but you would be surprised how many guys can't even do things like brush their teeth, even just once every day. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 02:10 PM |
| 3 | How to get your looks fixedUnless my reading comprehension has failed dramatically, I don't agree with the point you are trying to make. OP is NOT suggesting people go out and buy flashy material things and fancy clothes to try to impress women. The vibe I got from the post is that if you look put together, you look like someone who has their shit in order. This is an attractive trait to have that someone can change/obtain unlike their physical appearances. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How to get your looks fixedGood quick summary of things you can do. However asking women for clothing and fashion advice isn't necessarily good. Everyone has a different sense of style. Additionally, women don't know shit about men's fashion. They can say if something looks good, but overall they can't put together a decent sense of style/fashion/outfit from scratch. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 07:14 PM |
| 2 | College- How to text girl to get a response?I disagree since you can separate yourself from others by texting her and showing her that you are not like the majority of other guys who will either text "hey" or some desperate bullshit that ends up on cringepics or creepypms. Also overall, girls generally don't text first so why would she text you first? Unless you are top 1% in looks and completely blew this girl out of the water with an amazing first impression, she is not going to text you ever. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 07:23 PM |
| 5 | College- How to text girl to get a response?And then you become just a number and you will never get a text. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Man I don't care that they don't like me, I am just gonna place my body inside the club everyday and one day I'm gonna land something.I think another big part of game and seduction is understanding things from the girl's perspective. Social proof is a good method of showing that you are "safe" so to say. It shows a girl that you must be normal/cool enough and not a creep so that they would consider giving you a chance. Yeah it's unfair and the game is rigged, but it's called game for a reason so you have to play it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Man I don't care that they don't like me, I am just gonna place my body inside the club everyday and one day I'm gonna land something.You say you promise you are going to make those women regret turning you down. But why? Is it because deep down you know you are fun and have social proof and are somewhat decent looking? The hardest part is changing your mindset but once you do, your confidence will build and the results will come. Now lets say you actually are no fun and don't have social proof. Why would anyone want to talk to you then? But the BEST part about those things is that YOU can change that. Pick up a fun hobby. Mak… | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Here's a list of reasons why you should delete TinderBack in the day when people had unlimited swipes you had the possibility to match with anyone if you had funny pics. Tinder was kind of new back then too which might have played a role. I am not ugly, but I am not even close to being an extremely handsome dude. I would say slightly above average and try to dress well. I have never experienced success like that again. Not even with in-person approaches. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Here's a list of reasons why you should delete TinderBack when Tinder had unlimited swipes I matched and went on a date with a really beautiful girl who was a Miss Teen (state) winner. I think that if you can even get your foot in the door and you aren't like 90% of the girl's matches by sending stupid bullshit messages, like either "hey" (hey is for horses you fucking retard) and a stupid pick up line that isn't original, you have a good chance. However, Tinder should also not be your only source for trying to game. It should just be a supplement… | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Review my Tinder Profile (x-post)Get rid of the selfie with the stupid face in your dorm room. Make your first pic the portfolio styled one. Not really sure if the shirtless pic while driving is good. If you're gonna have a shirtless pic it should be you probably at the beach showing off your body. No selfies or mirror pics. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Tonight, I broke 3 plates and threw the pieces in the trashThank you for your amazing contribution to the community. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Problem is HS politics and social proof. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Anyone tell me why women are typically alot less nervous in the attraction phase between a girl and a guy? Are they really just better at controlling their emotions than men or is there something more involved?I saw that you posted a few comments and they all got downvoted. I just wanted to say that it seems like you have given up hope. However, truly ask yourself, in the state that you are in, do you think a girl would want to date you? Or even just have a casual fling with you? If the answer is no, ask why? What can YOU do to improve yourself? The road isn't easy and self improvement requires a lot of effort and strength. A lot of people would argue that this sub is about self improvement with the f… | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | The Absolute Idiot's Guide to Fashion - Budget Edition.A t-shirt with a chest pocket is sometimes called a frocket for front pocket but they are just t shirts with a front pocket. Anyhow the color scheme of the shirts you really like are called "melange" in case you need help finding more. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThis is literally a long and drawn-out version of, Be yourself Let them approach you Which doesn't work unless you are like top 2% in looks. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:18 PM |
| 18 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYou can be physically attractive, but this guy must be on another fucking level or this story is all horse shit. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:16 PM |
| -1 | Why I Get Laid A Lot From Nightgame And Most Don'tI hope I don't see you around the campus bars because you might steal all the girls away! | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 03:12 AM |
| 6 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?Yeah this is also important when dealing with flaky friends too. You can't just waste a large part of your day just sitting around. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on opening 9/10 girls on tinderI agree. Also I think the hardest thing for majority of guys on tinder is just getting good matches. But a match signifies interest. And the key to getting matches is good profiles. | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on opening 9/10 girls on tinderIf you are extremely attractive and just say hello, you will almost always have a girl respond unless this girl is also a 9+/10. | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on opening 9/10 girls on tinderI disagree. For girls on tinder they have maybe 10000 options. Even if you are extremely attractive with a really good profile with amazing pics, a "hello" doesn't separate you from the rest of the penises. If you have matched with the girl, she is already giving you a chance. Don't waste it with a "hi". | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Shit-tests or just a jerk? Cam girl with absent father.She's a fucking psycho. | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Need tips to enjoy party tomorrowJust go into it with the mindset of having fun and meeting new people. I'm not sure what your age is. If it's HS, College, or older but each has its own party style/seduction etiquette. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Why Do Girls Say They Have A Boyfriend?I mean it seems like you did well from your context. She said she liked your confidence which is nice. However you also have to realize that even if you do everything right, sometimes girls just won't be into it. Like she said, she was having a bad day. This is where number game comes into play once you have the confidence and social skills. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Girls Say They Have A Boyfriend?No. It's just the easiest way to get you to go away. Regardless of if they actually have a boyfriend or not. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 06:09 PM |
| 16 | Why Do Girls Say They Have A Boyfriend?They say it because they are not interested in you at all or that they actually do have a boyfriend. Either way, don't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt youWell you have to do a read on the situation. If you think there is a chance you can pull it off, a good way to throw a wrench at her is to approach and then ask, "hey, who is your friend." She won't expect that you approached her to give validation to someone else. She might start trying to prove herself to you. If all else fails, I like to carry about 9 of these in my pocket. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt youYou have to throw them off their game. A method is approaching a girl, then throwing a wrench at them. Since they're expecting validation, they'll never see it coming. | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl danced with me in a nightclub, got punched in the face multiple times by her BF/dateYeah but one of them leads to possible jail time. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to Transform Your Apartment Into a Panty-Dropping Bachelor PadMy parents made me take a twin bed to college after I begged them to let me take the bigger one. They knew. They didn't care. Ahhhhhh | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How To Neg And Blast Through Her Autopilot Response (+INFIELD)If you're attractive you can get away with a lot of things. | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Memes That Women LOVE: How To Use Online Humor To Get LaidYour blog sucks and you should feel bad | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 11:31 PM |
| 2 | My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymoreI used to think that when girls do this, it is because they aren't interested. Actually that is still true. However a lot of times, these girls just never had to put in effort to keep a conversation going so they are bad at it. | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastIt's because it is a cheap, decent smelling cologne that is recommended to every guy at a department store. It smells good, but with smell, it triggers emotions and thoughts of others who wear it. Since everyone is wearing it, it does not set you apart from the rest. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 03:30 PM |
| 6 | How does the typical tinder hookup process look like and what do I have to keep in mind?When you get to the part where you stick your penis in her vagina, you're gonna realize the hole is a little lower than you expected. Also she's probably gonna be able to tell you're a virgin. Just play it off cool and say you're really nervous. | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Don't laugh... but I need help getting over my fear of women.You're gonna need either a good friend that lets you intermingle with girls. The biggest reason that people are afraid of women is because they see them as superiors that are always judging or as sex objects that you have to impress. You have to realize that women are just ordinary people just like you too. However it does sound like this is strongly affecting you in a negative way (can't even interact with female coworkers). You may have to see professional help to try to get over your fears. J… | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Just approached a 10 at a restaurant - chatted for half an hour and talked about tinder. This blew my mind..Sometimes people don't want to spend every moment of their time talking to others. This goes for guys and girls my dude. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on tinder game?For something like Tinder, a 6 won't even get the opportunity to make any mistakes. If you aren't very attractive or have an interesting profile BUT you are interesting in person, you will not find reliable results on Tinder because personality doesn't show online. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 11:31 PM |
| -1 | I'm worried to start a new relationship after being cheated on.Latter Day Saints | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 04:18 PM |
| 0 | I'm worried to start a new relationship after being cheated on.Join LDS | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl to ask YOU out?Ones with high smv. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Here's some of my Tinder conversations from the last couple daysYou should start being less flirty and find a common interest to talk about and then lead up to asking to meet up. | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 01:15 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]They aren't giving advice. They are seeking it. However there is an /r/askseddit but it's pretty inactive. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 12:45 PM |
| 0 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]None of those posts are top posts. The third one you sent is trying to figure out why girls have different emotions than guys. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 12:24 PM |
| 21 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]None of the highly upvoted posts have been about how to get "one girl". Top posts this week have been about inner game, a success story, best way to use online dating, and self-improvement. What are you on about? | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 12:09 PM |
| 0 | What's the worst reaction a girl has had to you asking her out?Pepper sprayed | /r/seduction | 20/04/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, True or false - Your parents influence a lot of your success with womenI believe how you were raised sets the starting point of how you do. Your parents could have made your success with women higher if they were encouraging when you talked to girls and didn't belittle you and make it sound like talking to girls was somewhat taboo or embarassing. Comments like "Oh, you're talking to Mary now? Is she your girlllllfriend?" Shit like that doesn't help your child. Your parents could have given you advice instead or treat them like any of your friends. In addition, pare… | /r/seduction | 08/04/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What the DayGame is at these cities.Get a travel guide book like Frommer's or whatever companies make that type of stuff now. You can borrow them from libraries too. They are super helpful, especially if you travel by yourself or with friends without the help of a tour guide. I don't speak any Japanese whatsoever but it helps to know "please" and "thank you" which the book will tell you how to say. These books are super helpful because they give you great info on what to see and also there is a scams section that tells you the sup… | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What the DayGame is at these cities.Japanese people are generally kept to themselves and not that outgoing to meeting strangers. Most people are probably also super busy due to the work culture there. However for evening/night game it's a lot better. There are plenty of clubs/bars where whites are basically hunted by these Asian women. Be careful though because some places are scams/shakedowns and also don't get any girl pregnant and make sure they aren't prostitutes. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 06:07 PM |
| 10 | Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a weekfood and shelter unfortunately :( | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 06:06 PM |
| 3 | If you forget a nameMy favorite one that I use for anyone is "What's your name again?" "Samantha" "No I meant your last name!" | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 10:22 PM |
| 2 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail.I mean there are 2 forms of seduction. One is to get a girl to have sex with you using any method possible. The second one is self improving yourself so that girls are attracted to you and you become a better/improved person. | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 08:17 PM |
| 7 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail."Sorry, my memory doesn't serve me too well but you're super cute so I guess I stopped my routine twice today." or something like that | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Could need some advice on textingGirls love Pepe | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 11:08 PM |
| 23 | Tinder and you: a brief guide to successbad. sounds pretentious. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and you: a brief guide to successThere are 2 reasons for this. The girl just wants validation or they have hotter options that they put ahead of you. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do I always miss the opportunity to hookup?Maybe he's afraid he'll have sex with her and then she'll claim it was rape and carry a mattress around campus for the rest of her time there until graduation. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Living near a university campus but not a studentThat's how my friend let an 8 year old score the winning shot in pick up basketball against him. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 23 year old girl who has a kid - shes dtf, but is she a liability?There are millions of other women out there. Avoid women with kids at such an early age at all costs. The risks outweigh the costs. Sure, maybe you use a condom, but what if she turkey basters that shit for another kid? Just kidding on that last part hopefully. Anyhow I would strongly advise not to. She could try to introduce you as the father to her current child. She could become a massive clinger. She is probably just looking for someone to provide for her and her kid. Be careful. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 01:06 PM |
| 6 | If you think cold approaching girls is intimidating in the slightest, then you need to do more with your life.Play in traffic for a few minutes. Like interstate level. Then come back and live to tell the tale. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How to hold your frame when your naive cousin dances in a funny/embarrassing manner?Nah, girls like when guys are having their own fun. In a club setting, it creates an energy that is attractive. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 6 | How to hold your frame when your naive cousin dances in a funny/embarrassing manner?If you're going out with your cousin, you should try to have a good time with him too. The purpose of going to clubs is not to try to pick up women, but to have fun. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Here's a good re-frame: Behind every guy you see with a hot girl, is 100 girls who rejected him or who didn't work out before her.Or it could just be his sister! | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The Text She Can't Ignore - How To Get A Girl To Stop Ignoring YouThe girl just wants a more attractive guy. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 01:11 AM |
| 30 | Girl wants to hang out tonight but I can't as I'm supposed to have dinner with another girl. How do I tell her I'm busy in a playful sort if way?What's wrong with trying to hook up with 2 girls at the same time? Girls can and do it all the time. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys respond/react to the "I have a boyfriend" card.My friend is not good with girls at all. A girl talked to him and touched his arm so he assumed she was interested. Touched his fucking arm. He has no self awareness and is definitely a below-AFC. Not sure when but I'm gonna eventually have to tell him he needs to change. He gets super emotional and attached to girls and has a disgusting sense of entitlement when it comes to people who talk to him. He assumes any girl who talks to him is interested. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 03:37 PM |
| 17 | How do you guys respond/react to the "I have a boyfriend" card.Don't do what my friend did and yell "WELL YOU DIDN'T ACT LIKE YOU HAD ONE." | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Appearance as a minority.. Having little to no success.Your attitude of entitlement to girls and probably persistence of chasing after them after rejection, something common in Indian guys is probably the cause. Also height might play a role here too. I would recommend working on inner game. You need to be able to appreciate and accept who you are. In fact, I would say you should be able to love yourself. It will help you show confidence. | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 03:12 PM |
| 2 | I think I'll go for broke an get this chicks number but fiiirst..seduction?This post is focused on one girl and this forum is based on helping everyone in the community to improve or learn. If you have specific questions go to /r/askseddit . However since I'm already here, there are a few things I want to point out. 1) It looks like you realize that this girl is giving you signs that she likes you. So what's stopping you from asking for her number? Asking for numbers isn't weird so stop making it sound like it's a huge deal. 2) You said you are worried you'll fuck it u… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 02:12 PM |
| 2 | “Taken” does not mean “Unavailable”. Stop using the excuse “she’s probably with someone” to avoid approaching.Yeah. However I would argue that there are 2 types of seduction. One where you actively trying to improve yourself so you are desirable for others and also a better person. Then there is the one where you just do whatever it takes to get pussy. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Sometimes it's better to have two mcdoubles than eat steak tho. Lol jk, but I saw that somewhere and it was funny. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 01:02 AM |
| 23 | What are some fun games to play for a casual date?Make sure to ask for her social security number after too! | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Nexting7 times. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:16 PM |
| 2 | I don't know if i can continue going to school. My heart hurts every time a girl walks past me.All issues are important. Their job is to help whoever comes in. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a blind date?Lamborghini is a good standard to follow though. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 04:14 PM |
| 22 | 1st Date TipsFrom my experience, girls don't like it when I sit next to them instead of across from them. However I have no problem with kino, I pretend I can do some palm reading bullshit and they like that. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 06:57 PM |
| 5 | For Those Of You Starting A New School Year (High School or College) This Principle Is HugeTalk to everyone and go out and get drunk first 2 weeks of college. Everyone wants to make new friends. Get numbers. If you're upperclassman, invite hot girls to parties. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 02:27 PM |
| -4 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.Tokyo is the hardest place I have encountered. I think they're all xenophobes in Japan. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Got any tips for a short guy trying to pick up women?Dress well+confidence is all you need! | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Don't Sleep on College: How to Get Numbers Before you hit CampusJust make friends with some girls during orientation. Also apparently a lot of girls think it's cool if you have a fake. | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Don't Sleep on College: How to Get Numbers Before you hit CampusI don't like this approach because you can easily be labeled as the creepy guy who added everyone and messaged them before meeting them. You can get a reputation on campus and people will know you in a negative way. Also if you're a freshman, how will you know what parties to go to during syllabus week? | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Cologne 101: The Fragrances that Turn Women OnYou can get some good ones on amazon for $40 and you should be able to use it for over a year. | /r/seduction | 05/07/15 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Cologne 101: The Fragrances that Turn Women OnCan't take the article seriously when he started it by saying to wear cologne not directly on the skin. Also it's not always best to wear the cologne that you found on "most popular cologne list" because you want to smell somewhat different than everyone else. A part of seduction is leaving a memorable impression and the sense of smell is a good way to do that. If you're wearing the same scent as everyone else, it puts you at a disadvantage. | /r/seduction | 05/07/15 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Here's my style. How to go further? (college game)College junior here too. So it seems like the biggest problem you have is hesitating to escalate. It is kind of scary because you are probably thinking that you are annoying the girl or you will scare her off. However you have to realize that she is hoping you will escalate. For example, in your first scenario where you dropped the girl off, you could have talked about a TV show or movie you liked and asked if she wanted to watch it at her place. This gives her a reason to let you in to her home… | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm being a bitch again, how do I stop.Well think about it this way. If you do not approach her, nothing will happen. If you approach her, many good things will happen and the worst thing that could happen is getting maced in the face, which I doubt will happen. You said "again" so it sounds like you found success before, continue with what you were doing. For cold approach at a cafe, if she is reading something or has an interesting drink or is wearing a cool outfit, you can start the conversation with those things. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | "There Is No Rape Culture in the West": She held up that sign at SlutWalk, and this is what happenedAre you from a big city in Australia? I live in DC and HK isn't any different from other big cities. Plus it is fairly clean for a large city. The city officials always have people picking up trash and I don't think there are any factories nearby. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | "There Is No Rape Culture in the West": She held up that sign at SlutWalk, and this is what happenedHe mixed the cities up I think. Hong Kong is super nice and it's always sunny. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 9 | how to destroy a friendship/ friendzoneSo just escalate and bang? | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Racial insecurityMy friend is an international student from India. He has the stereotypical Indian accent and is a goofy-esque engineering kid. However he is very popular with everyone he interacts with. He shows confidence and does not let anything throw him off. He keeps himself in shape, has great social skills, dresses well, and practices good hygiene. He has hooked up with over 20 girls in his first semester at a Midwestern college and has no trouble with girls. However, there is a polar opposite to him. On… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub?I saw what /u/MauPow said and he is right. You aren't bad looking at all. From the one pic I saw, you dress stylishly and the only thing you should work on is your inner game and self-confidence. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub?Dance like you were born on earth to dance | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 06:36 PM |
| 60 | When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up"It's just slut defense. Just ask to meet up at a coffee shop or something and use your seduction skills to escalate enough and try to close by recommending going back to her place or your place to watch a movie and continue to escalate until the hookup. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on picking up girls in a small town.From all the stories I have heard when talking to girls from small towns, their town, especially in HS will slut shame the fuck out of every girl who kisses a dude. So girls will be hesitant at first so you have to demonstrate a lot of value towards the girl. My general consensus is that the girl will want a relationship before anything happens. That's why in small towns, many girls have had a lot of boyfriends in a short period of time. Be careful, a lot of smalltown girls want to get married r… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:38 PM |
| 8 | Are there any games you play with your wings for your own amusement?My friends always try to make me talk about Shrek or trains. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 02:25 AM |
| 5 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Whatever you decide, just do it confidently like you do it all the time. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"I just think it's kind of weird to open the car door for anyone. Because you have to walk to the passenger side then around to the driver's side and you also leave her alone in the car. IDK it's just something I wouldn't do and I don't think it would make a big deal if you didn't open the door for her. Also if you do open the door for her, do you open the door for her as she is getting out too? I've never thought about stuff like this what is life. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 01:29 AM |
| -11 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"I think she should be able to open the door herself :) | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 01:21 AM |
| -5 | How To Be A Boss In CollegeI won't take seddit advice from a guy who admits he couldn't even graduate from his own University. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Tip For the gentlemen who tend to get fake phone numbers...My bad. What I meant was to use the method of repeating the number back with a few digits swapped and if she still says it is right, then don't make her feel awkward because that's her method of rejection. Even though it's a shitty method of rejection though... | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Tip For the gentlemen who tend to get fake phone numbers...However, there is a reason she gave you a fake number. It's a rejection. Almost every time. Please don't make her feel uncomfortable because of it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Tips for guys who like guys?Tinder is super easy for gay/bi men. My friend and I tried to see what tinder would be like if we chose to find other men and we got over 1000 matches in 2 days and at least 40% of them will message you. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:34 PM |
| -1 | What alcohol should I keep in my room?Southern comfort cherry and Sierra mist or ginger ale. Also buffalo trace. For beer, girls I know all love angry orchard and Shock Top. | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Is there an appropriate time to admit to a girl you really like her?I only agree on the "her investing in you" part but admitting your feelings doesn't make you beta. | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 55 | The local Cafe, Have a seat!What took you so long to decide? That girl was wearing yeezys. No brainer!! | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 02:12 PM |
| 3 | What is Social Anxiety Disorder?If you have Social Anxiety Disorder, you shouldn't even worry about seduction because it severely limits your ability to do anything in public. There is a kid I know who has it and even though we are on speaking terms, he isn't able to speak to me if there is anyone else in the room. He says he feels nauseous and starts to shake if there are other people in the room. You need to see a therapist if you have this condition. | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 03:28 PM |
| 23 | How do you respond to "you look clever" or "how are you so smart?" without sounding like a pretentious twat or a nerd?He never said it didnt ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The average female clubbing experienceGirls go to the club because it is a way to boost self esteem. Most guys there are thirstier than a man stuck in the desert for a year. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Self esteem and negative body imageDon't talk down about yourself. Also you seem to fear rejection A LOT. You know what is worse than rejection? Not even using the chance you have. People are replaceable. Opportunities are not. Don't be afraid of rejection because the feeling of regretting not approaching or talking to a girl or dating a girl is worse. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Hosting a party soon, trying to get lucky. Any advice?I guess the best chance for you to hook up with a girl is to first build a connection. Like you said, you're funny, so find a girl that just loves everything you says. You can tell by the way she genuinely smiles and laughs and can also their pupils will dilate if you can catch that. If the party is too loud, the best thing you can do is to isolate by saying something along the lines of "The party is too loud, lets step outside to talk a little bit" and then you're isolated. You can continue tal… | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls at anime conventions.First thing you have to do is look normal. I hope you are normal. If you are normal then you should not have a problem. Approach a pretty girl cosplaying and talk about WHY they chose that outfit instead of complementing them on the outfit. Ask questions like why did they choose that character over another character from the same video game. Ask if it is their favorite video game and such. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 07:10 PM |
| 5 | How to start a conversation with someone that you have had added on FB for a long time, but never talked to.Don't start conversations with people you haven't talked to in a long time on FB. Guys or girls. Only exception is family members. Like AMDB9S said, you're gonna have to hope you bump into them in person. Sorry but that's how it is to not come off as creepy and first impressions are the most important. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 06:29 PM |
| 2 | So a post on /r/cringe caught my attentionHe has done over 300 and hasn't improved one bit. Not one bit. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 7 | 18/M never kissed a girl, had sex or had a girlfriend. More social at university but left out of group's dating life.Act like the person you want to become. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 10:19 PM |
| 15 | Rich girls.Rich girls have emotions like poor people too. I guess the best places to find them is at your local country club or hipster coffee shop. Also what is your definition of rich girls? Like ones who are upper middle class? Or ones whose parents are filthy rich and they drive around in the newest sports car and vacation at Vineyard Vines in the summer and then the Hamptons in the winter. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Pretty good opening Tinder lineI swipe left on those because there is a reason why they only have face shots. You can tellll!!! | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Steve Jobs: If you're afraid of failing, you won't get very far.Dead? | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 03:57 AM |
| 0 | Going to a party for the first time tonight, need help!Talk to everyone and just be social. Ask them what their interests are. If you and a girl have similar interests and you think she is cute/hot. Try escalating from there. Get her number/snapchat. Just ask for them and she will give them to you unless you are EXTREMELY weird. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Getting a phone numer differently"flawless system" lmao. If she was interested and you asked, she would have gave it to you. Anyways, good job on the # close. I hope you know how to play tennis :) | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Gaming in college without a social circle.I don't really drink but Yo Gotti said it best Truth be told I don't really drink but I'm tryna turn up for a bitch | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 01:26 PM |
| 6 | How? Step-By-Step. From Approaching To Getting HER NumberNothing big really. Just a huge overreaction. I was walking and cold approached and took mace out of her purse real quick. It happened really quickly and luckily I was just by the gym so I just washed my eyes out and just sat at the gym for a while until I could see again before heading home. People approached me and asked what the fuck I was doing. I just told them that I just approached to say hi and she freaked out. Luckily the cops didn't come because I was kind of worried about having to ta… | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 02:13 AM |
| 16 | How? Step-By-Step. From Approaching To Getting HER NumberI did this and I got maced. Middle of the day on campus. I found the crazy one. Would recommend. 10/10 I'm not creepy. I promise. Only happened once. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Some girl gave me a fake number. Jokes on her, turned out to be the number of one really cool dudeI wouldnt call her a bitch because she gives you a fake number. Maybe she isn't interested but is too awkward or feels bad by saying no. But I still would call her out on it and try to make her feel awkward. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I cant "connect" with anyone.95% of guys don't approach during the day. | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm constantly being berated by other "alpha" guys....and it's hilarious.Just call him out as being a try hard. Depending on your age (highschool-college), that is one of the worse insults. It jabs at insecurity. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Daygaming [direct] in CollegeI don't know how big your school is but I go to a huge school and this dude cold approached so many girls in such a creepy way that he has a reputation on campus, parts of reddit, and sites like TFM, Jezebel, and other places. This guy had a few results and posted them on his PUA blog. He basically raped these girls by getting them fucked up on 151 then taking them back to his room. What I'm trying to say is, don't be that guy. Make sure you don't come off as creepy. Since you're new, try joinin… | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 5 | "The biggest mistake you can make at parties is following your girl around like a puppy dog"Holy shit my friends always want me to go out but then its like 9 dudes and I always say no because its 9 dudes and no way in hell im rolling up to someone's place with 9 dudes. Why don't they understand??? | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 05:05 AM |
| 2 | The Quick and Dirty Guide to DaygameMajority of girls acting defensive or non-receptive. Means you're probably coming off as creepy or pushy or needy. | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 12:59 AM |
| 7 | So, what am I doing wrong on the dance floor?Because most guys at clubs flock around girls and it looks like they're doing mating rituals around a girl. Best advice is to go to clubs to have fun instead of hoping for a result. If you're having fun, the result will come. | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 10:09 PM |
| 17 | When a girl asks you if you remember her name.Me :"I'm sorry, English isn't my native language, can you please spell your name out for me" Her: "S-A-M" Me: "shit" | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I date an 18 year old girl as someone in there mid 20s in the south?Slimy as hell. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 12:38 AM |
| -8 | HOW TO ESCALATE WITH COLLEGE FRESHMAN?You're a troll and should not take advantage of someone like that....unless they were a 9/10 or up! | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 01:00 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/7/2012A girl has a boyfriend but they are in a long distance relationship. Is their still a chance for me? How successful are LD relationships? She has given me a couple of IOIs but she also said she wants to transfer to his university next year. Help me seddit. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 09:09 PM |
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