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2

I'd bet anything it's not your looks that are the problem. It's your defeatist attitude.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:42 PM
1

Then don't act on it.
/r/seduction28/01/26 01:26 PM
16

THIS! Don't apologize for what you want, OP.
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:52 PM
3

This may well be some of the best advice I've seen here yet.
/r/seduction06/01/26 07:24 PM
27

You're overthinking it. She just changed her mind. Maybe someone else came along. Maybe she got cold feet. Maybe upon further reflection she realized you weren't a fit. What does it matter? You weren't all that interested, either
/r/seduction18/12/25 08:03 PM
2

If you can only get laid by being unethical, then don't get laid.
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:40 PM
2

If you think you have to be unethical to get women, then you are most definitely doing it wrong. You are also a bad person. You should never, ever compromise your ethics or morals.
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:30 PM
1

Aww hell I can do better than that--- just pick up women that you can pay for sex and you'll never fail.
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:01 PM
8

This is false
/r/seduction14/10/25 12:47 PM
2

Haha thanks
/r/seduction02/09/25 07:24 PM
89

Because you're not used to talking to people. Approach and talk to EVERYBODY, male and female, whether you're attracted to them or not. You'll get so used to talking to people that the hot girls won't trip you up. Also, evolution isn't perfect.
/r/seduction02/09/25 07:15 PM
4

What do you mean? How do I find her gorgeous? Well, she has beautiful hair, skin, and eyes. I love her smile and her laughter. I love how her eyes light up when she sees me. She has the most perfect legs I've ever seen. She does little, quirky, dorky things that make my heart melt. And to this day we still joke about how I thought she had 'crazy eyes' in her Match photos.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:37 PM
2

I did. Now she's my wife and I think she's gorgeous.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:11 PM
1

Oh yes, guarded women please! I also enjoy paper cuts and long, barefoot walks across sharp rocks
/r/seduction20/08/25 02:55 PM
2

OP you are very wrong and if you continue to think this way you will eventually end up bitter and angry with no friends. I think you are mistaking kindness for boring. By that, I mean if kindness is the only thing you have going for you then yeah, people aren't going to want to be around you. But make no mistake- that doesn't mean you shouldn't be kind. It's still extremely important and a great quality to have. But you also need to be fun, interesting, friendly, etc-- charismatic. Kindness alon…
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:42 PM
5

Well said. 100% agree on all of it. And it's also just generally great life advice.
/r/seduction30/07/25 08:35 PM
8

This guy knows what he's talking about, OP. All his points are solid.
/r/seduction29/07/25 07:32 PM
2

This reads like a 12-year old boy's first attempt at writing porn.
/r/seduction15/07/25 04:58 PM
3

The root of good humor is saying or doing the unexpected. Clever word play is good, too. Learn how to say off -the-wall things that no one expects. Example: I like cats. I just can't eat a whole one by myself. People find this funny because the second sentence completely reverses what you thought was meant by the first sentence. See? Unexpected. Always be on the lookout for opportunities like this.
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:55 AM
2

Um no need to ever be talking about creampies when flirting-- that will just come off as creepy. Subtlety is key.
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:08 PM
1

Thanks for sharing! That's great, brother! Nicely done!
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:03 PM
2

That is literally the worst thing you could do. Having wandering eyes in no way makes you 'high value.'. It doesn't't even mean you have options-- it just means you are a womanizer.
/r/seduction04/03/25 02:28 PM
1

Hey man, what you did took a lot of courage! Be proud of yourself for that, and keep trying-- it will get easier over time And don't worry about what other people think. They won't even remember it after a few days. It's funny, but people tend to be so worried about what others think of them that they forget that everyone else is just as worried about what others think as you are. So don't even give it a second thought.
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:00 PM
1

Rejection hurts, and it will be awkward at first, but that's ok-- everyone starts out like that. Just get out of your comfort zone and keep trying. Also, it helps to have a wingman.
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:02 PM
5

She's not interested. Move on. EDIT: I'd also like to point out that she may have been somewhat interested at first but you have been harassing her to the point that she probably wants nothing to do with you now.
/r/seduction06/11/24 03:56 PM
1

Here's a guy offering free, and actually good advice, and the comments are filled with bitter, angry men being rude and ungrateful. You are only proving his point-- you aren't getting dates because of how you look on the outside. You aren't getting dates because you're an @sshole.
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:32 PM
5

Jesus some of these comments. If you want to be a scrub, then don't pay. If you want to be a decent person, then pay. This should have no bearing on whether you plan to see her again or not. It's just decent human behavior.
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:44 PM
2

You better not be giving me a fake number like the last 3 women!
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:16 PM
6

Lol
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:46 PM
1

Looks help you get a foot in the door, but you still need a good personality, humor, confidence, and charm to get anywhere after that
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:42 PM
12

Never, ever stop dating her, even if you've been together for years.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:52 PM
54

Yeah it’s a definite no. Hey, you took a risk and took your shot— be proud of that! But this one’s a no-go. Keep putting yourself out there, though, and good luck!
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:53 PM
1

Don’t be subtle. Women do not like subtle. You make it very clear that you are asking her out on a DATE and go from there. Women tend to like men that are confident, direct, and clear about their intentions— not men that pussyfoot around.
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:27 PM
13

Who are you to decide what's best for this woman!? She chose to date this other guy and not you. It's not up to you to decide what 'type' of guy she should be with. That line of thinking alone is very disturbing. Please leave her and all other women alone until you learn to be less controlling and a little more humble.
/r/seduction27/03/24 03:03 PM
6

You don't really know for sure until you ask her out. It's a risk, but as long as you're not attached to the outcome then you'll be fine. The fact that she is actively approaching you is a good sign at least. I say go for it-- you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Good luck, man.
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:02 PM
3

Haha no. In any case my gf has no complaints whatsoever😂.
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:45 PM
38

Sounds like you need to work on your massage technique, as it is very difficult to ignore a really good massage that just relaxes you and removes all tension Also, have you tried using warm coconut oil? That tends to work like a charm. She'll have a hard time ignoring that! EDIT: Seriously, though, it sounds like she is just being polite and not really interested. If you see her again you can try chatting with her a bit and asking her on a date, but don't pursue it any further than that. Even if…
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:26 PM
89

Don't worry. You will now have dozens of redditors DMing you to volunteer.
/r/seduction29/02/24 01:35 PM
0

I thought you meant social security number and I'm like, sure, I guess, if you're a scam artist....
/r/seduction28/02/24 08:41 PM
6

Sounds like way too much texting between dates. Also sounds like she didn't get pissed but probably figured you were no longer interested since you normally text her practically non-stop and then suddenly dropped off the planet as far as she could tell.
/r/seduction15/02/24 08:44 PM
73

I get why it seems that way, but this is actually not true. Women are regular people, too. They also get nervous, have insecurities, and can be just as afraid of doing something dumb as any guy out there.
/r/seduction12/05/23 07:36 PM
1

This is creepy. Don’t do this.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:19 PM
3

‘Playing it cool’ isn’t some sort of secret strategy to prevent women from losing interest. It’s just better than being clingy and needy because they’re the only thing you’ve got going in your life. Some, hell- many women will lose interest no matter what you do. That’s just how it goes. However, double and triple texting is a great way to talk a woman out of liking you….so don’t do it.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:15 PM
1

Yeah that’s not BS, but …. You do you, bud.
/r/seduction01/11/22 02:44 PM
2

Alright dude, you're no Jason Momoa but you're not ugly either. Dress and groom well, stand tall, smile with confidence and you'll be just fine. Listen to what the others here are saying.
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:27 AM
4

That is not an answer. Give us a number. I bet it is far short of anything reasonable.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:16 PM
3

‘Be social’ is the starting point, not the end all be all. You also need to be fun to be around.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:30 PM
1

Ouch
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:28 PM
1

Don’t stalk and harass women. Jesus dude. That’s not a ‘shit test.’ She literally thinks you are harassing her. I strongly doubt she was leading you on, but rather you are delusional.
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:14 PM
1

Or, you could be a bad kisser and she didn’t have the heart to tell you.
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:41 PM
3

Her body language was normal for a girl who is not interested in anything except the movie.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:55 PM
2

Women aren’t NPCs in some sort of video game where you just have to figure out the right moves to get her ready for sex. In this case, everything she did— looking straight ahead, hoodie up, sitting apart, and outright rejecting your kiss request— all of that screams she is absolutely not interested and there really wasn’t much you could do to change that. At best, you should have chilled out, been patient, and maybe try to sit closer to snuggle or something but that’s pretty much it. She was not…
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:54 PM
1

This guy knows!
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:39 PM
5

Comparison is the thief of joy, my friend. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:17 PM
1

Humblebrag. Dude, you trippin’.
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:02 PM
1

The only people who never fail are those who never try.
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:53 PM
2

Ignore and avoid eye contact is the absolute worst thing you could do. Just look at her and smile every time you see her. Wave or say hi from time to time. And that’s it. This demonstrates self confidence and that you are not perturbed by rejection.
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:48 PM
9

Categorically false.
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:17 PM
1

Working on your social skills is part of ‘working on yourself.’
/r/seduction10/10/22 08:16 PM
1

The things you say you ‘bring to the table” have absolutely nothing to do with showing a woman a good time, or being funny, interesting, or even having any kind of personality. No one cares about your summer job, especially if you are boring the life out of them. Loosen up, learn how to be funny, and how to make people feel GREAT around you.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:36 PM
52

Next time one of them bumps into you like that, you push her down to the ground, hard. ASSERT YOUR DOMINANCE.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:40 PM
4

Just friendship? Really? Why? I’m guessing that you are not being honest with yourself or the women you talk to, and they can pick up on that.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:48 PM
3

You’re taking this way too literally. I believe his point is, hordes of people don’t normally just treat someone with contempt for no reason. There is a reason that OP is being treated the way he is, and he needs to figure out what that is and make some changes.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:04 PM
1

Hey OP, I really feel you. I, too, have a tough time taking an interest in other people, but I’ve learned how to do it well enough that I can get out there and carry a conversation, and I come across as a friendly, outgoing guy. I STRONGLY encourage you to read ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie. That book literally changed my life. Two main takeaways are: People like to talk about themselves. You don’t have to do much taking yourself at all. Just find out what really int…
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:30 PM
1

Dude, what? Not everyone enjoys socializing, and no that doesn’t make you a freaking psychopath. That is an absurd leap to make.
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:16 PM
1

Perfect!
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:58 PM
2

Please don’t say that. Just…NO.
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:38 PM
2

Their bedroom.
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:22 PM
3

Yeah I bet lol. Just learn from it and do better next time! We all do dumb things sometimes.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:22 PM
8

Yeah dude you need to CHILL.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:11 PM
1

You’re confusing being masculine with being obnoxious. You can be quiet, reserved, introverted, and yet still be confident and strong, and able to stand up for yourself when you need to.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:21 PM
2

You can do everything right and still not work out. Just how life is. However, if I had to guess it sounds like you put out serious friendship vibes. Next time, be more direct, flirt more, and try to be less boring.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:24 PM
1

Huh….who would have thought that personality matters when it comes to attraction?
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:57 PM
2

Preach!
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:59 PM
1

This is exactly how to get stuck in the friendzone with someone. Yes, rejection hurts but learn to embrace it as part of the process, and don’t be afraid to ask a girl out….or you’ll end up going nowhere like you will with this girl.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:20 PM
6

Cool then that is the next step. Only make conversation and try to get to know as many women as possible, not just the ones you’re interested in. Doesn’t have to be an hour conversation. Just a hey, where are you from, how long have you been here, how do you feel about x movie…whatever. Repetition is the mother of success.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:22 PM
5

Just start smaller. Don’t ‘go for broke’ on your first interaction with a woman. Approach and talk to ALL women, not just the cute ones. Start just by asking for a recommendation— ie, a good place to get coffee, etc. or ask for directions. Or a neat place to visit, or favorite thing to cook with broccoli (if your in the produce section). And that’s IT. Only after you are comfortable with that do you start trying to carry on more of a conversation, etc.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:55 PM
2

Well, you will never get anywhere if this is how you think of others. Women pick up on your trash attitude, and want nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:24 AM
2

Casually without being nervous just means : BORING. Stop worrying about screwing up, or what people think. Be funny, be goofy, be spontaneous and unpredictable. Have FUN! Yeah, you might say or do something stupid but that is still leagues better than…boring and unremarkable.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:04 PM
1

If you think money is all you need then yeah, just hire prostitutes.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:48 PM
13

If they’re not asking questions about you, then they’re just not that into you.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:37 PM
2

Don’t listen to that guy lol. Looks and height are only part of the equation. If you are confident, warm and friendly, and carry yourself well, you’ll still get plenty of attention even if everything else is ‘average.’
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:59 PM
-1

You couldn’t be more wrong, Psych Radish. Sounds like you just need better friends.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:08 PM
1

That’s ironic, since ‘doing what you want without worrying about what others think of you’ IS alpha behavior. If someone thinks he needs to drink what others approve of…..that is exactly NOT alpha lol.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:32 PM
9

I’ll add it also provides social validation. Having friends shows that you know how to be social and probably aren’t a jerk.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:18 PM
1

Huh. And I found my current, amazing gf of 14 months on a dating app. Sure seemed to work in my favor.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:59 PM
3

Bro, don’t be that guy. She’s not interested. Move on. And never, ever, ever vomit your ‘feelings’ all over like that. That is the worst thing you can do. Life isn’t a fricking rom com.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:31 PM
32

Love yourself. Know your value.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:22 PM
2

OP took a lot of time to create a well written, thoughtful post that will help a lot of people, if they are willing to do the work. Your post, on the other hand, helps no one.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:51 PM
7

There’s that static mindset OP was just talking about.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:33 PM
-1

OMG the comments here. You redpill guys are off the chain today. Such bitterness and negativity, and you wonder why no one wants to date you? Gee nope couldn’t be the condescending, negative, loser mindset nope, nope it’s gotta be looks…yeah….sure, pal.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:09 PM
2

Plot twist: it’s the same cologne her grandpa uses.
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:26 PM
1

Sounds like you did just fine. Don’t do anything else. If she flakes again, she’s done.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:03 PM
-5

Did you even read the post? If so, then you grossly misunderstood just about all of it.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:55 AM
2

I agree. Those guys are confused about what negging is. Playful banter, where you very obviously don’t really mean what you are saying, is not negging.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:54 PM
1

The study and terminology doesn’t matter. This doesn’t change the fact that women are generally more attracted to confident, strong, dominant men, and not so much to insecure, weak, needy men.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:13 PM
0

No man. I’d say each sex has their own challenges. Sure, men have to be strong, confident, and willing to take risks. Women, on the other hand, have to worry about getting constantly pestered, sexually harassed, stalked, raped, and murdered by psychopaths.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:24 PM
2

Good points. I’d say it is also biology. Woman are genetically programmed to seek the biggest and strongest mates both to protect her and her young and also to pass good genes to her offspring. Well, generally speaking, the biggest and strongest will also be confident and willing to take risks, which—hey guess what— that’s exactly the kind of man that will approach first.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:00 PM
1

Um, no. No, you don’t have to do any of that.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:38 PM
5

You don’t hold hands like a robot just because. Also, you should have made it very clear it was a date. Otherwise, as what happened her, you’ll just end up friend-zoning yourself.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:25 PM
1

Yes, absolutely. Decisiveness is attractive.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:20 PM
6

It doesn’t mean anything. Move on. However, next time be MUCH more specific. Ie— let’s go to xyz for coffee. Is Wed or Thu at 2 better for you?
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:17 PM
7

Bowling
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:00 PM
1

Once again, a post like this with no mention of confidence or personality. Two things probably more important than that entire list.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:47 PM
5

Imagine you were saying those thoughts out aloud to your best friend, or someone who cares about you. Then imagine how they would respond. That’s what worked for me really well, anyway.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:32 PM
2

Move closer to her and burp loudly in her face. This is how you continue to assert your dominance as part of this silly staring contest.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:29 PM
3

Astroglide lube, bro. Put a little on the head of your penis to start with. That should do it. If not, you can put some around her opening as well, but warm it up with your hand first— that stuff is cold.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:28 PM
5

Absolutely false. Looks matter of course, but absolutely not 100%.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:08 PM
10

Only if you allow it. You can’t control what happens, but you can control how you react to it.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:06 PM
1

Agree 100%
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:01 PM
1

The quickest way to get someone else’s attention is to remove yours.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:29 PM
1

Why is this vitriol getting upvoted??
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:57 PM
6

Well there’s your problem. You don’t want to make a move unless your certain it’s what she wants. This goes nowhere. Always act on the assumption that of course she wants you, because you’re amazing. It’s better to act on that assumption and be wrong than just….never act, pretty much.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:40 AM
1

Just a ‘girls only go for the hot guys’ post in disguise.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:25 PM
13

And don’t forget: NO MERCY!!
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:04 PM
2

Holy hell either you have poor hygiene, or you’re doing something wrong. That is a stupid high failure rate.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:34 PM
1

Wow and I keep seeing non-white dudes with wives and girlfriends. Wait, come to think of it, there are entire continents where the majority of couples are BOTH non-white. But I guess that is just media propaganda or something…..
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:20 PM
1

Man I absolutely can’t stand this idea that if you ‘like someone’ and declare it, then you somehow have ‘dibs’ on that person as if he/she is a fricking piece of pie at a buffet. She’s a PERSON just like you, who is gonna like who she likes and if your friend can’t handle that then that’s his problem.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:17 PM
0

Join a convent.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:05 PM
1

So? People commit murder all the time, too. Doesn’t mean you should.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:47 AM
3

Stop worrying about making people like you. Take a genuine interest in other people and they will naturally like you. Ask them and talk about their hobbies and interests as if it’s the most fascinating thing you’ve ever heard of and you want to know everything about it. Read How to Win Friends and Influence others for even more great advice like this.
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:16 PM
2

That does sound a bit flirty…..but she’s married so none of that should matter. Leave her alone.
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:11 PM
1

Woah. Invite people over to your table on a DATE? Please don’t do this. While it’s good to be friendly and sociable to those around you as appropriate, I think this is taking things a little too far for what is supposed to be a date to get to know each other— not a bunch of random strangers.
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:17 PM
2

Yeah, rejection sucks, but the more it happens, the more you’ll get used to it. Just try to remember— no matter how badly you get rejected, you’re going to be fine. You won’t get injured, or lose money or knowledge. She won’t even remember you in a year, or care. The world is MASSIVE, and any one person is just a tiny speck of dust in comparison. Yes, it’s easier said than done, but hopefully that at least helps a little.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:00 PM
1

That would be a long and complicated answer. Let’s just say it took many years, but only because I didn’t know what to do for so long. Women barely noticed I existed. But now that I am more cheerful and upbeat, confident, and not nearly as worried about what others think about me as I used to, I am noticing a huge difference in how women interact with me.
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:56 PM
3

Dude you are I the best place, and age, to practice, practice, practice. Pick a well travelled spot on campus, and talk to and try to get the number of 20-50 girls a day. Search for and watch ‘how to beast’ videos and learn how this guy does it. And above all, accept that you’re going to say stupid things, and you’re going to get rejected a LOT. But that doesn’t matter. You’ll live. And after a while it will be so natural and comfortable to do it won’t even matter. NO ONE is born knowing how to …
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:36 PM
34

Hahaha no the only disgust I have is for how I used to behave in the past.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:03 PM
1

No. No you didn’t. What you found out was they weren’t interested, and that’s the lame excuse they gave.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:34 AM
6

Neat. So understanding biology is sexist.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:34 PM
2

I didn’t say anything about showing emotion. I specifically used the word ‘weakness.’ Those are very different things.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:22 PM
0

So…a link to one guy’s opinion. Not a fact.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:20 PM
5

It’s biology, not really a conscious choice. Women are genetically programmed to desire a strong protector who can protect them and their children. When men show weakness, it’s a turn off, even if they can’t explain why.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:17 PM
2

Perfectly said, and 100% true.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:10 PM
30

Be funny, use humor, say ANYTHING but the expected, even if it seems dumb. IE- what are you doing? I’m trying my hand at juggling cats right now— it’s getting kind of painful. Do you think I have a future in this? Yeah it’s dumb. But it’s still infinitely better than ‘Oh just watching tv.’
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:39 PM
1

No, and you should also delete IG from everything you own. And give yourself a concussion so that you forget she exists. Can’t be too careful.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:02 PM
1

As long as you keep blaming women for your problems, you don’t have to do anything to change!
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:28 AM
1

Stop talking/texting so much. The phone is for setting dates only. You’re removing all mystery about you. If a woman already knows everything there is to know about you, why even bother going on a date? And also, dropping everything to drive 4 hours to see her probably is a little unsettling to her. Definite stalker vibes. Why are you even talking to someone so far away? Find people closer, or move somewhere with a bigger population.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:55 PM
1

Yes, yes you are, because women either don’t want to hurt your feelings, or they will make up whatever they think is most likely to get you to drop it and leave without putting up a fight.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:36 PM
1

Well for one, abusive men tend to be pretty good at lovebombing and not showing their true colors until months into a relationship. Also, they target insecure women who more easily fall for their crap. A positive attitude isn’t just good for dating, by the way, it’s good in all aspects of life. That doesn’t mean you can’t ‘get by’ with a crappy attitude, but it sure makes things harder.
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:25 PM
1

Dude, don’t ever assume a date is implied. That’s weak behavior. It’s either a date or it’s not, and she should 100% know which one it is as soon as you ask her out.
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:50 PM
2

Comparison is the thief of joy. There is always someone better off and worse off than you. Self worth comes from within. Know your value and don’t let others tell you what it is. But this is all most likely not going to help until you really, really, get it. And to do that, you need therapy.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:08 PM
1

‘ No worries. It was great meeting you. Hit me up if you ever change your mind.’
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:54 PM
6

Don’t try to be her friend hoping for something more later. EVER.
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:57 PM
1

A little support is one thing, but never EVER make your gf your therapist.
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:56 AM
4

I am so damn tired of all the ‘I am short waaah woe is me’ posts here. Like there literally is a new one every day. It’s easy to blame your height, because that means you don’t have to actually do anything except sit around and whine. But it’s not your height, it’s your attitude. No one wants to be with a mopey defeatist. So just stop it already. Edit: and by the way, I’m 5’11, but I’m also 52, balding, wear glasses, I have a bad back, and I can barely pay my bills. But I have a beautiful, amazi…
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:02 AM
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LOL. You’re funny, bro.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:10 PM
1

So, no actual date yet….
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:38 PM
1

Sure, and has either one of them gone on an actual date with you yet?
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:58 PM
3

Bruh wtf? These women are not flirting with you, they are doing their job. You are being creepy, but they have no choice but to interact with you because THAT’s THEIR JOB.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:32 PM
8

I met my current girlfriend on a dating app. We’ve been together for a year now and so far we have the most loving, fun, caring relationship I could ever have asked for.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:23 PM
3

Why do you want him back? Sounds like you really don’t much care for him.
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:28 PM
3

Talking about nothing for hours is a fantastic way to get friend zoned.
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:41 PM
2

Hell don’t even ask if you did something wrong. She’s a human being and probably has bad days and good days. Just be friendly and chat her up if you want. Or don’t. She’s a bartender.
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:14 PM
10

ROFL
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:09 PM
0

This obsession with height is just out of control. Your height is FINE. Just stop, already.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:15 PM
1

You’re hilarious.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:31 AM
1

LOL that dude’s post history is nothing but bitter, angry rants. But that sure can’t be why no one wants to be anywhere near him. Must be his looks. Jesus wtf man. Such denial.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:30 AM
0

Yeah it couldn’t possibly be your negative attitude and sh*t personality.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:22 AM
4

This isn’t r/niceguys. You get ghosted because your attitude sucks.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:18 AM
2

That is most definitely not ‘something guys do.’ Not decent ones, anyway.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:16 AM
1

Ok man, you do you.
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:26 AM
1

People do NOT like being around arrogant narcissist pricks. However, confidence IS attractive and arrogant narcissism is often mistaken for confidence.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:44 PM
2

No. You are not ‘average.’ You have unique qualities, skills, and traits, that define you and you only. You need to recognize what those are, and why they make you a catch. If you don’t, if you feel you are just average or not really a catch, people around you will pick up on this, and eventually they will have no choice but to agree with you.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:42 PM
2

Huh?
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:40 PM
68

Yep, pretty much. Good responses might be, ‘Well of course you were,’ or ‘Yeah I get that a lot.’
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:20 PM
5

Be upbeat and cheerful. Take genuine interest in her and ask lots of questions. Don’t be predictable. Say unexpected things, be funny. Whatever you do, don’t ‘play it safe.’ Safe is BORING. Don’t be afraid to say something silly or look like a dork. It’s ok, and not boring. Boring is the kiss of death. Funny, quirky, and unpredictable is much, much better, even if at times you end up saying or doing something stupid. Be comfortable with yourself and who you are.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:14 PM
2

BRUH
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:50 PM
2

It’s terrible. It’s not funny. It’s crass. It sounds like something a 13 year old would say. Wait— are you 13!? That might explain a few things.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:58 PM
1

Yeah, my ex wife. Too many times, in fact.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:06 PM
0

They are probably getting seduced by men that dress and act like actual men.
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:54 PM
2

No it is no longer practice. Now it’s just comfortable for you. You practice by going on dates with NEW people on a regular basis.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:37 PM
1

The ‘proper conversation, happens during the date. Texting is just to briefly get to know each other and set up a date. You should only send 2-3 short, meaningful texts, and then ask for the date, if interested.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:51 PM
3

Nope, move on. She’s taken.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:00 PM
3

Someone here actually gets it.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:18 AM
2

NO it is a turn off for many and so unhealthy.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:09 PM
1

Bro you are being waaaay to hard on yourself!! The shit you are trying to do is NOT easy for almost anyone! What you are going through is NORMAL!! You are getting out there and trying to get out of your comfort zone every day and that alone is more than a lot of guys can do. Give yourself some credit, man, and stop listening to that negative voice in your head that tells you all that bs to keep you safe. Now for the advice: baby steps!! Right now you are trying to bench 500 pounds on the first d…
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:06 PM
2

Because women are inundated with hundreds of messages a day and don’t have time to keep responding to someone that just wants to be their pen pal. Sounds like you’re texting way too much and not really adding value or moving things forward.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:28 PM
10

No your comment was perfect. Flirty, lighthearted, fun, and funny.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:58 PM
1

Those wrinkles are HOT.
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:45 PM
2

Huh, so bad porn style sex is the way to go. Wow, I mean, I just had no idea that giving a woman mind blowing orgasms would make her lose respect for me. Thanks for heads up, pal.
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:49 AM
2

THIS. OP please listen to this guy. I couldn’t have said it better myself. At least you’re getting out there and making an effort, and that is a lot more than most guys in your shoes can say. Learn to see the good in you instead of the bad. Your brain just talks crap to you to keep you safe from embarrassment or discomfort. The problem with that is, you only grow and get better by getting out of your comfort zone. And on that note— if it’s too hard, dial it back. Starting out trying to approach …
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:27 AM
1

Yeah…I didn’t say that. Byteseed did. I just mostly agreed with him.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:20 AM
1

You didn’t even get the first quote right. Everything after that is just insults. And I really don’t appreciate your condescending tone, either. None of that adds up to much of an argument.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:27 PM
2

You mean, why do women only approach men they are interested in? Hmmm, gee, one of life’s mysteries, I guess.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:25 PM
2

You’re putting way too many words in my mouth, man, not to mention your wild assumptions.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Are you the dude’s sister?
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:20 PM
6

No one said bottle it up. Let it out in front of your buddies or your therapist. NOT your woman. Never make your girlfriend or wife your therapist. It’s weak and a huge turnoff.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:11 PM
1

Why do you still feel anything for him? He’s weak, doesn’t care about you, and treated you like a blowup doll.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:03 PM
1

‘Hey I’m not really interested in being just friends, but if you ever change your mind you know where to find me.’
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:46 PM
11

Yes this. Just GO. You’ll be scared, nervous, and you’ll come up with reasons and excuses not to go. And it will be tough and awkward. But when it’s over you’ll be pumped that you did it!! The only way to get better in these types of situations is to keep putting yourself in them. Keep getting out of your comfort zone until it’s no longer out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:47 PM
5

You say ‘they’ as if they have some sort of hive mind. All girls are different and are attracted to different things.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:51 PM
7

This is the weirdest thing I’ve read on this sub yet.
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:31 AM
1

Caring whether or not she has a boyfriend has absolutely nothing to do with being an Alpha male. It has to do with whether you’re a decent human being or not.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:58 PM
2

You don’t HAVE to say anything, actually. People will pick up on your negative vibe no matter how much you try to hide it. Especially women, who tend to be more empathetic.
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:32 PM
2

If she literally died then she is a corpse. Literally.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:02 AM
2

What doesn’t help with women is your self loathing and constant negativity. NO ONE wants to be around that. Looks don’t matter, money doesn’t matter, the way you dress doesn’t matter. NOTHING ELSE matters if you are just a big, negative, miserable killjoy.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:00 AM
1

Dude are you even for real? All you do is make excuses. Everyone has a negative inner voice that says the same crap you are saying. You can either choose to listen to and believe all that nonsense you tell yourself and be miserable your whole life, or tell it to go to hell, and start living. It’s your choice.
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:56 AM
5

‘Spaz out with your mouth’ is NEVER a good idea in any context.
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:57 PM
3

‘Hey, does this look infected?’
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:02 AM
1

Your mindset is too full of fear and what ifs to be successful.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:53 AM
4

I 100% agree with the last 4 lines of this comment. Everything else is just silly. High school is not the workplace. It is very specifically a place to learn. That includes social skills. Practice practice practice and be absolutely ok with failure. Also any ‘reputation’ you get in HS won’t matter within a year of graduation.
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:30 PM
3

Don’t text that nonsense. It’s boring, adds no value to their lives, and just makes you appear needy. The phone should be for setting dates only. Save the rest for the actual dates.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:04 PM
1

Just because you have a right to do something doesn’t mean you should. It’s still a dick move.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:18 AM
2

Dude wtf? How self centered do you have to be? That’s despicable behavior. If you aren’t man enough to pleasure the woman you’re with then you sure as hell don’t let her give you a blowjob or anything else. Learn to be more considerate of others.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:11 AM
1

You prevent weirdo vibes by not acting like a creepy stalker. She gave you hint after hint— she’s not interested. Yet, you ignored every last one of them and kept pestering her. Even after she flat out told you she doesn’t want to see you, you somehow thought you could convince her to like you?? Bro, stop watching the lame rom coms that make it sound like you can make any girl like you if you just wear her down enough. And also, have some self respect. Don’t keep begging someone that treats you …
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:49 PM
2

Daily meditation, gratitude, and journaling my thoughts. It’s very easy to focus on what’s wrong, but there really is a lot to be thankful for. Over time, this shifts your mindset to be much more positive. I saw a therapist via Betterhelp for a couple months and that helped, too. But the biggest takeaway from that was this: There was one time when I was really just beating myself up mentally. I told my therapist all the crap I was thinking, and she just asked me: How would I respond to that if i…
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:52 PM
1

You're right. It is hard. I had the same problem, and it took years to fix. But I did it, and so can you
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:55 PM
1

Well you need to fix that, and your negative attitude towards yourself, or learn to enjoy being alone and paying for sex.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:14 PM
1

Absolutely not.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:33 PM
1

Nerves is normal. But you’ll only get better with experience! Unless you didn’t vibe or something, assume she wants to kiss you and go for it sometime before the end of the date. It’s better to assume this outright than wonder and worry should I or shouldn’t I, etc. Worst thing that’ll happen is she’ll turn the cheek or say she’s not ready, and then you’ll know! But more likely is she’ll be really glad you kissed her, so go for it.
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:00 PM
1

H3ll yes. Woman generally like talking more than men, and like a little mystery. A good ratio would be the man talks 20% of the time, and the woman 80%. And besides it’s much easier on the man to ask questions and listen instead of constantly thinking about what to say next.
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:50 PM
1

Number one thing: Don’t sweat it!! You’re going to mess up. No one is born knowing how to date and that’s ok. Just laugh, make her laugh, and don’t take yourself too seriously. As long as you don’t make anything a big deal, she won’t, either. Number 2: Woman are emotion based. She will associate how she feels with YOU. So be cheerful, funny, optimistic, and don’t speak negatively or complain. You can forget everything else and just follow those TWO rules, and you’ll be far ahead of almost any ot…
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:43 PM
5

Tell her she’s got something in her teeth. Works like a charm.
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:35 PM
7

You both lied to each other right off the bat before you even met. Maybe this whole story is a lie, too. But if it isn’t, at least you are both perfect for each other.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:35 AM
1

Yes. Talk to and treat every single woman you interact with as if she is just as special as the woman of your dreams. And keep interacting with as many woman as you can, even those you don’t really care much about. Eventually you will be so used to talking with anyone that even talking to someone amazing will be second nature and no big deal to you.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:14 PM
6

No one is born knowing how to do everything. You can learn from experience and from reading. And there is really nothing wrong with learning from both.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:33 PM
1

Yeah that’s the very rare exception, not the norm. Don’t don’t don’t double text just don’t do it.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:39 PM
11

You should have gone for the kiss, bro. It’s not too late but you damn well better do it on the next date or you will friend zone yourself. If you’re nervous that’s ok— just do it anyway. Even if it’s awkward it’s better than not doing it at all. How to kiss: Stand still, look in her eyes, smile. Gently brush her hair out of her face and lean in a bit. Gently put your hands on her cheeks or back of neck and kiss. Be gentle, touch lips while mouth slightly open. There’s much more but that should …
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:49 PM
2

Absolutely NOT. That is a weak approach. Assume that of course she’s interested and ask her out directly. If she says no, then move on. Confident: Hey, let’s meet up for drinks at XYZ. Would Tuesday at 7 work for you? Weak: Gee, do you think you might be interested in possibly spending some time with me, your highness?
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:59 PM
1

Stop worrying about your height. It’s a non issue. You don’t get attention because you’re too insecure and have a victim mentality. So, work on that. Learn to love yourself and be confident. Stop seeing yourself as a victim of genetics, get out there, and take risks (ie— talk to and meet a lot of strangers, and ask women out). As long as you keep seeing yourself as a victim, you’ll continue to be a victim.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:37 PM
1

Sure thing. I’d google ‘how to be funny.’ It’s actually not has hard as you might think—just takes a little practice! Well that, and the ability to not take yourself too seriously. Aside from that, I’d recommend 2 books: How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. You learn the ideas in those books well, and you’ll be unstoppable. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:17 PM
6

Just being ‘a good conversationalist’ is not nearly enough. That is boring and will get you friend zoned in a heartbeat. From what you wrote, it sounds like you are trying to impress women with ‘your intellect,’ but women are EMOTIONAL. You need to be lighthearted, funny, and unpredictable. You want women to feel GOOD around you. Forget about trying to impress them. Ask questions and let the woman do 80% of the talking. Try not to be serious and try not to care if you say or do something stupid.…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:02 AM
2

Stop overthinking things. If you think she’s cute then strike up a conversation and see what happens.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:24 PM
1

This is the way ^
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:25 PM
1

Love this way of putting it!
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:53 PM
1

It’s true, she is not interested in you. But take heart! There are literally billions of other women out there. You just have to move on and find someone who loves you as much as you love her. It’s not easy, and it will take time, but you’ll find someone eventually.
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:49 PM
2

The problem is, you’re doing all that stuff to try to get women to like/want you. You need to be doing all that stuff for YOURSELF. Be a man, live your best life, be confident, happy, and love yourself for who you are, first and foremost. The rest will follow.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:54 PM
3

OP didn’t say anything about ‘to everyone.’ You added that. The idea is you want to be with someone that says ‘Fuck yes!’ To being with YOU, not everyone.
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:45 PM
3

The problem is, you think you need her to be happy, but that is false. True happiness comes from within. Learn to be happy by yourself. Also, there are billions of women out there. She is just one, and a shitty one at that. Go out there and keep meeting more women. You’ll find someone better if you just keep at it.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:29 PM
34

I don’t understand this. He was in the same room as you but you communicated by text/writing? That is NOT confidence.
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