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That's good man, glad it worked out for you
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:24 PM
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Did something similar. Was friends with a girl for nearly a year that I reconnected with from high school. Feelings got to be too much to ignore. She stopped talking to me immediately and blocked about a week later.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:10 PM
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Too bad I'm a virgin because I dont know how to escalate
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:10 AM
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Which why I dont approach random women. Literally zero way of knowing for certain if they're interested, neutral, or want nothing to do with me. If they aren't giving me explicit looks, then why bother potentially upsetting her? I realize I've probably lost opportunities because of that, but I really don't want risk potentially upsetting them or worse
/r/seduction17/08/21 03:00 AM
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This is why I dont cold approach. I know women are afraid of men when out in public, which is something thats completely understandable because a lot of men are monsters. I'd rather approach women I've already established some sort of something with. Whether she be a coworker, classmate, at a party, friend of a friend, etc. I just don't want to be that creepy guy always keeping my eye out for a girl that is giving me looks. If she's remotely interested, she'll make herself aware, otherwise I don…
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:42 PM
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Not always that simple
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:28 AM
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Old school game, hell yeah
/r/seduction18/06/21 11:43 PM
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I've been experimenting with my skin care routine since 10th grade and I still have a lumpy forehead. Idk, maybe I should see a dermatologist at this point since I'm 21 and still have issues keeping my skin clear
/r/seduction30/05/21 01:42 AM
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Some people get offended/self conscious when you laugh at them. Better safe than sorry
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:40 AM
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Lmfao, I'm sorry but thats a great reply
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:20 AM
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Yeah even as a guy I feel like this is dependent on the women. A man taking control is the gender role men have had since the beginning of our species, but nowadays that has been challenged and a lot of dudes feel its inappropriate to act that way or simply don't have "alpha energy". Confidence is important but that doesn't mean a man must be "alpha" to be confident. There is however a fine line between being nice and being a "nice guy". Don't be a "nice guy" fellas, be confident with yourself a…
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:19 AM
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Damn i need to revisit swoozie. I haven't watched a video of his since freshman year of highschool
/r/seduction15/04/21 06:58 AM
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I want to be clear, I'm not complaining or trying to demean anyone with the following statement. I really wish I was attractive enough in such away that allowed me to sit back and have potential partners come to me with the only effort on my end being slight interest. I know this isn't something that happens to a lot of people, only the very attractive ones, but its natural to be jealous of such people.
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:55 AM
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My problem is I don't know how to talk to people that are complete strangers. So in this instance, I would have no problem getting to that party but once there, I would have had no idea on how to approach someone.
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:18 PM
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I think where dudes get the idea of "women always have men available to them, they just have to let themselves be known" comes from women having success despite all the other factors that they have to put into dating. Desperate men don't care about compatability, or have to worry about their safety to the same extent, all they are looking for is a women that will allow them to get close. So when a man that has that low of bar and STILL doesn't find success but then sees a women who is able to ch…
/r/seduction02/01/21 07:50 PM
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The last point you made is what I think OP is trying to get across, at least thats what I read from it. Rather than developing a crush on someone and spending months trying to seduce them, you might as well just make a move when you decide you're interested. And maybe to motivate yourself you have to think, "if I dont make my move, someone else will and eventually one of them will succeed" I think that's what OP is trying to say here, albeit in a somewhat toxic way. Obviously not all women are g…
/r/seduction02/01/21 07:07 PM
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Because some dudes need the reality check that while they are sitting around trying to decide when to make a move, that girl has a high chance of already having other guys that have made a move and some of those are likely successful. So rather than getting caught up in trying to seduce them over time, you just have to tell the girl you're interest or realize it isn't reciprocated and move on. Otherwise you're going to develop a self made fantasy and never make any progress.
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:59 PM
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Now my only question is what if neediness stems from loneliness? Someone who is able to validate themselves to the point of being comfortable with themselves from the day to day but still seek out a deeper connection with another. So rather than being needy due to not being able to validate oneself, the person instead is needy due to inherently missing out on vital connections despite how content they are with themselves. Through writing that, I'm not sure if there really is a difference between…
/r/seduction29/12/20 06:56 PM
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I agree, but knock the men putting in work at the gym. Most guys that stick with it when building muscle are doing it for themselves, not trying to impress the ladies.
/r/seduction13/12/20 01:00 AM
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no problem chief, good luck
/r/seduction26/11/20 04:47 PM
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Don't put in more effort than she is willing to. If the relationship can't exist without putting in an unequal amount of effort, than its a relationship not worth keeping alive.
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:53 AM
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A sincere connection?
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:45 AM
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This is what beats up mem, including myself until I have to correct myself. Stop trying to solve the girl you're interested in. You have to be comfortable with yourself no matter what and know what you want in a relationship. If you keep that in mind, you dont get caught up in mental games by trying to "solve" your dating interactions. I remember reading all the tips on getting a relationship and they always mention "be yourself, be confident". I didnt fully understand that until college. You ha…
/r/seduction10/11/20 05:37 AM
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Why'd you have to use my name and age?
/r/seduction07/11/20 03:17 AM
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I know this is what everybody always says, but seriously, this has helped me a lot in the past 6 months. You gotta start working out. If you start putting the effort into not only improving your mind, but also your body, you'll find that the two coexist. If you can adopt physical exercise and stick with it, I'm telling you it will help with your anxiety, it has helped me immensely. I'm serious when I say that I wish the best for you. We're all in this together, we're all struggling to Improve ou…
/r/seduction04/11/20 07:50 AM
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Best of luck to you my man. Just remember your self respect and keep improving yourself for no one other than yourself. Covid isn't the best time to be meeting new people but I wish you the best whenever we're able to intermingle with our peers again.
/r/seduction04/11/20 07:39 AM
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I'll add it to the list. I may be a 20 year old virgin with 1 girlfriend under his belt but at least I'll have some knowledge for the future.
/r/seduction04/11/20 01:02 AM
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It can be hard sometimes to figure out if a girl is flirting or just being friendly. Some guys can tell the difference better than others but its better to make it more obvious than not. That being said, if a guy obviously isn't into you, flirting isn't going to change his mind. Try not to be upset if he doesn't respond to your flirting because it could just mean that he isn't picking up on it but it is possible he isn't into you. If he isn't into you though, he will likely let you know in some …
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:39 AM
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As a 20yr virgin, I really hope I'm not worrying about losing my virginity when I'm bordering on 30. I'm not in a hurry to lose it, focusing on improving myself both mentally and physically. I just hope this covid stuff is solved sooner rather than later as I feel like I'm missing out on my early 20s. I know this isn't very related to the post much but I saw the term virgin and felt like venting
/r/seduction23/10/20 04:11 AM
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Just remember that its not always about the numbers. Unless you want it to be, because that's fine if that's your goal.
/r/seduction19/10/20 05:40 AM
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Focus on yourself man. I'm a 20yr male and I'm in a similar situation as you. I've had one romantic relationship in my life that lasted for 6months, and that was nearly 4 years ago. If you focus on yourself and self improvement, you will be happier for it. Its not healthy to obsess on "getting a girl". Just learn to enjoy yourself first and be truly confident in who you are. Now is a bad time for everyone to meet new people/make connections. Hang in there and focus on yourself until you're ready…
/r/seduction19/10/20 03:08 AM
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Very true, thats the mindset to have. If you let yourself fall into a negative thoughts, people are going to notice that in your personality. It's much easier to make new friends when you're in a positive state of mind despite everything that's going on. Life's hard, but you've just gotta keep working at it until it gets a little better
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:22 AM
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I'm in my 4th semester now and it sucks man. Like I haven't been in a classroom setting since March and as a result havent met any new people like i was the semesters before. I hope this shit gets better soon because its really going to wreck a lot of peoples early 20s if it doesn't
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:37 AM
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Covid has ruined the college experience atm. No clubs going on, classes all online, the gym is closed. Unless you know people from previous semesters, you arent being invited to the few small parties that are happening
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:14 AM
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Truth on the porn man. It might seem harmless but once you take a substantial break from it you realize that it isn't doing you any favors
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:49 PM
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Shouldn't have to have "nice guys" give her validation. You're suppose to have that confidence within yourself already, even after a breakup.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:09 PM
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Are you serious right now my mans?
/r/seduction09/10/20 02:24 AM
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Learn to enjoy being alone. You don't NEED a girl to make yourself happy, you don't NEED a BFF to make yourself happy. Live your life and enjoy your new healthy self. Once you can accept where you are at in life currently, thats when you start opening up that social life again. You don't always have to be on that grind for the next girl
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:13 AM
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Thanks man, now I just have to put my thoughts into action. Good read
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:02 AM
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Thanks chief, and same to you
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:35 AM
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Just chill my man. If you push the issue you'll come to regret it. Maybe give her a week and then see if she's interested in meeting up or something. If she doesn't responds to that, than its better to just drop it. Don't pursue someone if they aren't willing to meet you half-way.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:32 AM
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Thats my mindset. We're both adults here, why can't you just come forward and tell me why you're ignoring me? If you dont feel comfortable with telling me, I'd take just a "I don't feel like speaking to you." I get people dont always want to speak their minds, but outright ignoring someone is just childish. Not worth your time.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:38 PM
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I did this recently and I recieved a block for it. Maybe I didn't read the signs right. I was never pushing the issue, just giving her my take and letting her know I'll be around if she ever feels like talking again. If not, than no harm done. Guess the block was her way of saying that she'll never feel like speaking to me again. It hurts but oh well, no reason to get mad over it
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:33 PM
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Ladies...please do more of this. It doesn't have to be a cat and mouse game. If you're interested, shoot your shot, both guys and gals.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:22 AM
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Just wish I handled things differently. Life goes on, I'm good chief. Thx
/r/seduction04/09/20 10:17 PM
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How does one be direct yet tactful? O always try to tell myself that but I feel like I always come on way too strong
/r/seduction04/09/20 05:08 PM
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Now imagine this but once you ask her out, she instantly stops talking to you and asks for a "break" in your friendship. Then 6 months later when you try to reach out, she continues to ignore any talking points on the matter and treats you like the last year and half of friendship never happened. I'm happy for you chief, I'm just jealous yours worked out lmfao
/r/seduction04/09/20 12:53 AM
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Jokingly, yes
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:22 PM
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Getting puss is one thing. Finding a partner to raise a family with is an entirely different quest.
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:44 AM
1

This works with friends as well.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:03 AM
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Same argument can be made for men. But men don't have another option, because most women don't cold approach.
/r/seduction22/08/20 06:46 PM
2

Are they ever personalized for you or are you positive that she sends them to everyone? If the latter is the case, I'd think nothing of it other than her being a confident women
/r/seduction27/07/20 11:15 PM
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All she said was that she had another friend of hers do this a couple months ago and that I should, "Just give me a break." I took that as a solid, message her in a few months on her birthday and see what comes of it. Really I expect this "break" to be the end of our friendship. I'm glad I expressed my feelings because I couldnt just sit there and act like I didnt want more from the relationship, but i also miss my close friend. Oh well, such is life.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:28 AM
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I told one of my closer friends about a month ago that I liked her and we havent talked since. It's good to get your feelings across, just be ready for the potential downsides of it not going well.
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:37 PM
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Did you read it properly? He went up to her and right after was attacked
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:36 AM
1

You got it gurl, just walk in there with your goal in mind and go for it! Just take some deep steady breathes and calm your nerves before hand. Hope it goes well for you
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:59 PM
1

Guy here. I would definitely ask him for some help finding something, and while walking over definitely give a compliment or two. Then when he's about to leave go for something like "Oh, I could use some help finding something else." And that's when you ask him for his number. Goodluck with whatever you end up doing!
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:28 AM
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This. Whenever I talk to a girl I constantly have to reel myself back in with a "Jesus dude, you make yourself way too accessible" and then I hop right for the phone when she responds an hour or two later. No point in overriding your life to talk/hangout with someone nor expect someone to do the same thing for you unless you're already committed to one another
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:05 AM
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That's a wholesome gift and idea that he should definitely enjoy. Though some people will always be critical of themselves, which is a good thing as long as they arent overly hard on themselves
/r/seduction23/07/20 04:57 AM
2

It is definitely an easy way to see if someone is a bad fit or not. I just dont see why someone would feel the need to say something so rude right out of the gate. Banter is one thing, but if the first thing out of someone's mouth is a heavy insult, that person just thinks too highly of themselves.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:53 AM
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If a girl ever said something along the lines of "Aren't you too short to be asking me out?" and I didnt know her well enough to see it as banter, I'd probably call her a cunt and walk away. I may be looking for someone, but if you're going to be a bitch right out of the gate, you're not worth my time.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:10 AM
1

God damn, what a power play. I've never had a girl be so receptive so quickly.
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:50 AM
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Gotta ask him on a date gurl!
/r/seduction22/07/20 06:07 AM
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