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Field ReportRobster25/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 06:54 PM
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ScienceRobster25/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 03:50 PM
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Rant/VentingRobster25/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:35 PM
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Field ReportRobster25/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 06:16 PM
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Rant/VentingRobster25/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 07:29 AM
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Red Pill TheoryRobster25/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 10:39 AM
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My experience is that when a woman goes cold, you either fucked up in some way or there is another guy in the picture to whom she is more attracted to. But from what you told, she has some serious issues and you handled the situation well. Good for you on not chasing her, after she told you that she needs to focus on school. Never contact her again, until she contacts you and I would only use her as a fuck-buddy. She clearly has some issues and I wonder why you became exclusive in the first plac…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 03:06 PM
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The guy is an idiot for not being able to control himself. The girl is a lunatic and an attentionwhore.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 05:56 AM
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Thank you. That's the problem with this forum. 90% of the guys are here to get laid quickly. Posts which aren't connected to pussy don't get many upvotes, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 04:42 AM
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I know and I belive you. But posts who are intended to make peoples lifes better are not as interesting to those retards as posts about getting pussy...sadly.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 06:15 AM
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It hurts me to read your post. Not because it is bad (I really like it), but because it is wasted on most of the people here. You are right in everything you say, reading the sidebar would be enough. But most guys on this forum are here for pussy (betas..). Otherwise you couldn't explain why your post only has 20 upvotes (at this time) and a retarded post about spinning plates ("sunglasses") has 600 upvotes, or my post yesterday about meditation (which IMO improves peoples life) has less than 20…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 03:13 AM
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Thank you. I do the same...Breathing into your belly is easier while lying down.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 02:54 AM
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That was not an answer to my question, but I edited the post.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 05:04 PM
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Have you tried meditation for yourself? If so, how long did you meditate? Many people give up to soon to see any results, because they can't turn off their brain. I can only speak from my own experience and I noticed benefits from meditation compared to days, on that I don't meditate and I get the same feedback from people I know, who also meditate. Even if this is a placebo according to you, why not keep that habit, if it makes you feel better?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 04:36 PM
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I totally get your point. But while being active is a big part of improving oneself, you can't always be active unless you never get exhausted. I take meditation breaks in between activities and find it to be a good solution. But what works for some people, doesn't work for others...
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 04:25 PM
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Nowadays if she can't find you it does not come off as "mysterious", it instead looks like you are either "not fun", "broke" or "not cool". I made different experiences. If she can't find you on social media, she will search more, tell her friends that she didn't find you, then they will talk about you and look for you = you become more interesting, because she thinks about you. Besides that: Do you want to date someone who is so retarded they assume you are broke, boring etc., because you are n…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:45 PM
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Not having social media is honestly a red flag if you're under thirty. That being said, social media is very hierarchial because you're comparing your "behind the scenes" life to everyone else's "highlight reel." Elaborate, please. I see it as a green flag, because the person is not seeking validation and has something else to do besides posting (mostly worthless and stupid) stuff and enjoys life, without the thought of "I need to share this with my contacts!"
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 11:18 AM
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You could've proposed a venue change and then escalate...
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:56 PM
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If you want to look good in front of thousands, you have to outwork thousands in front of nobody. Really well said. I think that's the hardest part for a lot of people (including me sometimes). Sometimes you get doubts about achieving your goal, but you have to push through, even if you don't see immediate results.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 07:00 PM
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Stop texting ffs. You are boring her. Use texts for setting up dates only. And as /u/fereallyred said you missed your shot. You still believe things women say, instead of looking for what she does. Right now she is using your for attention only. She made out with you, you didn't escalate = She thinks that you don't have any balls on you and probably fucks someone else who has the balls to escalate. A man knows what he wants and you were hesitant.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:18 PM
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If she proposes to meet on a different day she is still interested. If she breaks that appointment again, and proposes a different day, again, I would give it a last shot. After that I would move on. If a girl wants to see you, she will make time to see you, easy as that.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:09 PM
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Do what /u/redhawkes said. If that doesn't work I would tell him straight to his face (even in front of people) that you have enough of his bullshit and that if he doesn't stop, you will report him to HR. In case this doesn't work tell HR as the last option.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:05 PM
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I think that's one way you can see it, but IMO OP meant that if you reach a certain stage there is no need to refer to alpha/beta anymore, because you are just doing your own thing. As OP states the terms alpha/beta are mostly thrown around by guys who are new to the red pill and beta. No alpha or person in general for that matter who would like to be taken seriously runs around and tell people how alpha he is.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 02:32 PM
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Maybe in this case "befriending" might be wrong, you are right. Being friendly to her is more fitting, but ignoring her and focus only on the 6 was the wrong move. If you ignore a woman in the group it is most likely, that she will be pissed if you hit on someone who is less deserving of attention than she is (in her opinion).
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 05:06 AM
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I guess you have read the rational male. What I'm interested in is, how can you be "friends" with them, when you know, that they don't appreciate you for who you are, but what you present to them?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 10:54 AM
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Okay, maybe I don't know the type of women you know. In times of instagram etc. it's nearly impossible to find a woman you can talk philosophy, psychology, biology etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:23 PM
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I dont spend time with women enough to be interested in their hobbies, I think people are taking this idea from my post that I spend every waking minute with women. I dont, I spend little time outside of my own hobbies, but when I do it tends to be with women. Okay, then what are you talking about with your female friends? your 4th point I have two arguments, 1; if you have to be someone else with a person then they are not your friend. what you describe, to me, is super naive. If I meet a girl …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:33 PM
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I think we have to go deeper and define what "friendship" is to you or for that matter everyone of us (males). Personally I like reliable friends, who are as driven as me or even more driven than me, who have hobbies and to whom I can talk to about everything honestly and openly. See the problem? Most women aren't driven. Those who are, lose nearly all of their feminine traits, because they usually have to compete against men. And I am a big fan of feminine women. Out of these women, who are dri…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 06:24 AM
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Probably you have been raised as a beta chump, that's why you feel bad for standing proud. Let me tell you a short story: A friend of mine lost his dad when he was about 18 years old. Since then his mother raised him to be a "nice guy" and not "as bad" as "all the other men out there". I know his mother and talk to her on a regular basis and as we talked about him, she told me this. He is now in a relationship and he is a submissive bitch (as much as I like him, he definitely is), just like his …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:55 AM
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In Germany we have a saying: "jemandem die Butter auf dem Brot nicht gönnen" = "won't allow someone to have butter on the bread". By now you should probably know that there are no friendships between girls/women. They always want the best thing for themselves and are not willing to share things easily. You should've tried to befriend the "Alpha female" (I don't believe in Alpha females, because Alpha means to lead and women are no leaders, at least not competent ones and those who are, are more …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 05:25 AM
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Can you please define first what your abbreviation means, when you use one? I'm not sure everyone knows that "NMMNG" means "No more Mr. Nice Guy". Lately this has become a plague here.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 05:09 AM
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It's nice of you to sum up some of the 48 laws of power.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 04:59 AM
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I'm glad that you got the main message at only 19 years old. And while it is good that you were obsessed with the book of Pook, you fell into the same trap that said "beta males" by your definition fall in: You read stuff over and over again, instead of doing stuff. But it seems that you now are making something out of yourself, so congratulations! Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there, who confuse reading self-improvement books with actual self-improvement. It hurts to see them don'…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 11:12 AM
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As FollowerTRP said, you make women your priority...Real confidence comes from achieving things in your life, you can be proud of. And how do you achieve those things? By working hard to reach your goal(s). Soon you will realise, that you don't have much time for women, if you are striving to reach your goals. And if you approach girls and get rejected your mindset will be "It's her loss. If she only knew what I got going for me...". Your mindset will change and you will see yourself as the priz…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 10:53 AM
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Damn! She is in a hurry! "We have been dating for over a year now!". She has to be pretty old when she thinks about marriage after dating for (just!) over a year. I'm glad he sticks to his decision. "I let you fuck me 3 times in the last 24 hours and you say you don't want to marry me!" Lol....I would've loved to see her in her twenties when she got gangbanged by multiple guys without an afterthought regarding marriage. ​ The funniest thing is, that when he says, that he will be there for her (t…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 02:21 PM
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I do, too. But a simple "no" is not causing you any stress, unless you are already invested in her and keep thinking about the situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 06:03 PM
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Of course she will try again and you can tell her "no" again. But why not have fun in the meantime?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 05:57 PM
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This is why you spin plates. Once the conversation of wanting a relationship has surface she no longer is willing to play by your rules. By you double dipping again you only show that you are indeed of lesser value and care more about a piece of pussy than your self respect. Based on what how she tried to disrespect me in those messages, I would be a fool to go back to that even if she served the pussy on a silver platter. I disagree on this one. If she talks about having a relationship with you…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 05:49 PM
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The first point of the mainpost is fucking stupid. I'm not a friend of manipulation, that's why I wrote "so you basically tell us to behave like a woman". You don't have to pull back first, to keep the attraction and the tension. Just don't chase, after she pulls back and her hamster will keep the tension for you. "Why doesn't he chase? He must be seeing someone else!" and then she comes back. But I forgot about the many retards here, who are too dumb to get what I meant by writing what I wrote.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 05:08 PM
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So you basically tell us to behave like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 04:09 AM
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Okay, just my humble opinion: You have no clue about girls, but everyone was a beginner once. So let's go: The chick arrives about 10 minutes later and she was all smiling and happy and greeted me with a cheek kiss (this is common in my country between girls and men, if they are close, so this was a green flag for me). You arrived 5 minutes early, that means she is 5 minutes late. I would've checked her for that. Since time is your most valuable asset, she should respect your time. Before that: …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:28 AM
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I think they can't disagree with Rollo, because they cling to every word he wrote in his book. He is like a guru to them. And for the people on this panel: I like Rian to be honest. He is less autistic than the rest of them and does not belittle the people in the chat or the people that call in. For the second part: I don't know how Rollo censors the people who critizise him, but he always emphasizes, that he is willing to get into an argument, as long as the other person stays civil (does not i…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:36 AM
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To be fair: this forum is like this in a way, too. Every second or third post includes "Lift, bro! Meditate, bro!". The red-pill philosophy is not endless, that's why they are so repetitive. You have to/will repeat yourself at some point. But yes, seeing this circle jerk on air is more cringeworthy than reading it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:31 AM
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I agree with most of what you said, except Rollo being a beta. Even alpha males make mistakes. Regarding MLD and Donovan Sharpe I have to agree with you. Everytime I hear them speak I wonder why they are included in the RMG. Donovan is insecure as fuck and a controlling little bitch, always interrupting people. MLD is just a freak show. And just let's not talk about Anthony... Doesn't the rest of the men on the panel see what an insecure beta he is, or do they just ignore it to profit off him? H…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:13 PM
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After watching the woman in the first link I feel a bit sorry for her. On the other hand it was her choice to get banged by multiple dudes and not being able to "catch" one of them. Also I'm always amazed how blind women are to their own mistakes. She does not even once thinks about mistakes she might have made. "For some reason the relationships didn't last long" "There are no blessings left for me". Super natural explanations for her shortcomings. I can't even imagine how many guys fucked her,…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:09 PM
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but it’s almost a necessity for young guys like me. That's what you tell yourself. Guess what? Girls will be more interested in you, if you don't got any social media. I talked to a female colleague of mine and she was droning about her new boyfriend and how it made her crazy, because he got no social media and she couldn't stalk him. Young people (<25 years old) are just addicted to soical media.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 05:32 PM
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so it was at this point I remembered something I read here that said don’t be spending a lot of time texting and especially don’t be spending a lot of tike together early on. You shouldn't remember things you read on here, you should understand them, so you don't have to remember them like an actor. Do you know why you should not text except for setting dates? Because you should be busy living your life, pursuing your goals. Do you think someone who is busy achieving something in life has hours …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 07:02 PM
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I admire Anthony for what he does and the effort he puts in his business. On the other hand I believe he is a fake and an absolute autist. His high-pitched laugh is extremely fake and kind of like the laugh of a psycho (just watch some videos of him..it is 100% not genuine). No wonder he was married to some psycho-bitch, like attracts like. He doesn't contribute to the red man group, let alone the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 11:04 AM
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They don't live polyamorous, he is just a cuck. He states that "one girlfriend is more than enough for me" and lets his GF fuck other guys, even stay with them for weeks without seeing him. And destiny is not an alpha, just look at his bodylanguage especially in the beginning. He is all over her and she just looks bored.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 09:45 AM
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I would take everything heartiste writes with a grain of salt. Some of his posts are gold, some could be written by a retarded toddler. Edit: This doesn't mean it's not true, he even based it on a study...but as you know for every study, there is a study telling a different thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 06:00 AM
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Very well said. Being married is just a label, just as being in a relationship is. It should not change who you are as a person.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 05:30 PM
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I can understand you don't want to cohabitate with your fiancée, because it would restrict your freedom. But don't you think it would be smart to live with her for some time, to check if you two are compatible in the same household, before you marry her? (I assume you want to get married, otherwise you wouldn't have proposed).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 03:22 PM
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You guys are overthinking. Just be honest with her. "I like what we have and I don't want a relationship right now/I don't think we can have a good relationship". If you fucked her good she will stay, because she can't get that sex elsewhere and if she wants to leave, that's fine, there is more than one girl on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 06:25 AM
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^ what he says. Only use texting for setting up dates. I cringe everytime I hear someone say "I'm not good at textgame", because there is no text game. There are only idiots who try to be funny over text. Just set up another date, if you hear from her. You can't fuck her over text. ​
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 06:30 AM
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He is right, actually. If women would be in charge in general, they would try to optimize their mating-strategy, instead of looking for the best way to improve society. As someone living in Germany I "love" to point out to the migrant-crisis as an example: Most of the people standing at the train stations welcoming (mostly male) migrants were women. Why? More mating opportunities for them. From a male perspective it would be stupid to let your country be flooded with mostly uneducated foreigners…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 06:24 PM
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Don't get it twisted, I am not staying the night" and as I said that, I knew I just made it worse. Like a spoiled child demanding something it does not want. Except that he said it, not she. But maybe you thought that he is so good, that he needs to shit test himself, to stay sharp. Or maybe you just misread.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 06:59 AM
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It's like this: do you look for potential LTRs at coke-filled orgies or at your local grocery store? Nope and women know that, too, indeed. But it's more fun to be banging broke, tattooed criminals at a coke-filled orgy, than the fat overweight, boring nerd with a well-payed job. When they get caught, they pretend to be looking for a LTR at said orgy, because why would they admit to be whores who only go there to get used?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 06:13 AM
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I have read the article and it's stupid. Roosh encourages women to think logically and pick the beta just for the sake of finding a provider. Women know this already, but they wilfully ignore this and go for the guy, who gives them the tingles (alpha), unless they get too old to compete on the sexual marketplace. Roosh sadly seems to have no clue how women work and tries to appeal to their logic.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:12 PM
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Nice read. If you have boner problems try to cut porn. I had the same problem and when I cut porn off, it started working again.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:59 PM
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You won't like what I'm going to say, but from what you wrote I would say she is probably already cheating on you. My long distance girlfriend has a pretty face, big blue eyes, big tits and a heart of gold. She could be at least an 8 if she lost 30 pounds, as could I if I did the same. That means she is a 6 or a 7, which means that there are guys out there, who she considers hot and fuckable. If she would be an 8, 9 or 10 (is this even possible?) her standards would be much higher, because women…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:42 PM
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Even though I was drunk and confused I start to see what is going on and start freaking out. Made so much worse by how drunk I was. Nope it wouldn't have changed the result with her sleeping around on him, but atleast he wouldn't have freaked out and looked like a fool. ​
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:54 PM
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Not even that...You said you haven't seen her in a long time. Can you only enjoy each others company, when you are drunk? Hate on me all you want, but it doesn't look very mature to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:52 PM
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It was very smart of you to get hammered, when you know that you are on a date and haven't seen your GF in a long time...not. Hope you learn that you shouldn't get wasted, when you are on a date.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 09:56 AM
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Regardless, despite my reading of the red pill, this experience has scared me a little bit. It's different when you're the one experiencing it. It scared me because it proves that no matter what I do and no matter how happy we are, she can just come up with something as simple as that and call it quits. I know it's very tough, especially when you have spent 4 years together, but I'm really happy for you, that you make this experience at this early age. Many guys realize this much later. Besides …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 07:53 AM
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Yes, now it makes more sense.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 07:47 PM
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On point 2 though I'm absolutely going to disagree. There must be a high level of investment (in you from her) for this to actually work. Otherwise it's not a big deal. Women almost always have options, and if you're not at the top of that list then your attention isn't her biggest concern anyway. I get what you say, but the point were we disagree is, that I don't see nexting as punishment, but staying true to myself, by respecting myself enough to cut someone loose, who is not respecting me. It…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 05:02 PM
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As much as I agree with you on the definitions of hard/soft next, I have to disagree with you on the purpose of nexting. You don't next girls as a punishment, but more out of respect for yourself. She should not matter. Let's take your example and say that she called the cops on you for no reason: You hard next her, because you don't want to stay in contact with someone who tries to ruin your life, not as a punishment for her behaviour. Your focus should lie on you: Shall I waste my time with so…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 09:51 AM
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Don't text her anymore. You have texted enough. Wait for her to text you and then make a date. If she is busy, don't bother anymore. If she would be interested in you, she would find a way to meet you.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 09:28 PM
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Unfortunately yes. Everything which is not extreme left, is automatically labeled as right-wing propaganda. Most newspapers are controlled by left journalists, who publish extreme bullshit. In earlier times I read 3 different newspapers, now it's only one, because two of them are unbearable to read now. And the third newspaper pisses me off, because it reports the ugly truth, but it is still better, than to ignore the truth. One of the newspapers I don't read anymore explicitly admitted, that it…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 03:54 PM
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Okay, I understand. But now it depends on her age. For women hitting the wall, definitely
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 05:34 PM
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And convenience and laziness in that context are different, because...?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 06:51 AM
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Many guys come to me with the question, "How do I get the respect back into my relationship", and the short answer is: You don't. You never had respect within your current relationship and you never will. Even though I agree with the most of it, this part is wrong. Many guys are well respected by their girlfriend/wife and then get lazy, thus leading to the loss of respect from their girlfriend/wife. ​
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 08:49 PM
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I agree with a lot of things you say, mainly the "time enjoyed is not time being wasted". But the point still stands: When he advises people to not hesitate and seize the moment, why did he wait? The other thing I have to disagree on and maybe I have become misogynistic over time, that I don't enjoy talking to women as much as I enjoy talking to my male friends, because I can't be completely honest with women, because when it comes to topics which are not to their liking they make drama and you …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 04:11 PM
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[...] so I looked at her, waited for her to look back at me and gave her a kiss. Don't wait for it for the end of the date if you see an opening. You are contradicting yourself. On your first date you saw that she wanted to kiss you and you didn't go for the kiss. Now you tell people not to wait. It looks like you don't value your time, because when I go on a first date with a girl I want to know what's up. ​
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 06:43 AM
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I also wonder about your experiences, if you guys also had hard time to accep things "as they are". Definitely. Everytime I got hurt, after reading the rational male I thought to myself "fuck! how could I forget about the nature of women?". It becomes more and more easy to not forget about their nature. Sometimes now I feel bad about the way I treat (or "use") them, but then I realize that they treat lesser men the same way I treat them, so there is no need to feel sorry for them. ​
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 11:52 AM
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Your post would be better without the intro. Would a truly confident guy tell people how he is a 10 and has a big dick? It sounds like you are trying to persuade yourself. While I think you make some good points in your posts, I don't understand why you feel the need to talk about yourself so much.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:12 PM
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I would've kept it. We are (nearly) all grown men, fuck reader-friendly.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 11:35 AM
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First of all: I really like your post and the idea behind it. Secondly: it is completely useless, even though you mean well (I still upvoted it). Let me explain: I tried to introduce many people to TRP and self-improvement, but very few actually change for the better, even though they read one post after another and watch videos and read books about self-improvement. As you said they jerk-off to the idea, that they believe they are now smarter than the rest of the world, without realizing, that …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 11:20 AM
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It sounds counter-intuitive compared to other comments, but do yourself a favour and take a break. I'm studying law (in Germany) which is brutally compared to other countries. We are told that it would roughly take 10 years to finish, which is correct unfortunately. For the final test (which consists of 8 tests in writing, each test takes 5 hours over a period of two weeks + an oral test, if you pass the tests in writing) I was learning for 10+ hours every day, seven days a week over months. I w…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 07:47 AM
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I believe one of the main reasons for a loss of attraction is, if you are too available. Use your phone only for making dates. Let her initiate all of the contact. No need to walk away, yet. Just distance yourself and don't be too available.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 10:32 AM
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I get what you mean, but don't you think that saving face doesn't take strength, especially in a weak moment? Instead you could've chased the other person. Sure, you could've done better in the first place, but the last action they see is you walking away.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 08:41 AM
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I think you have to differentiate. Action speaks louder than words is what OP means, I guess. If you say "no" to someone and stutter or your voice is trembling it may appear weak. But if you walk away after that it demonstrates strength. They may laugh at your weak behaviour at first, but when they realize that you are gone, they tend to forget about your weakness and look at your last action: walking away.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 06:21 AM
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Pretty sure. I learned about the "on-off guy" when I met her the first time (with the 2 other girls around), even though she told me it was in the past. That evening I got her number and when I met her alone the guy never even crossed my mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 01:32 PM
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Yeah, I guess I am. As someone mentioned above, I haven't been my mental point of origin.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 05:59 AM
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Thanks for your honesty, man. I'm trying to constantly improve myself and being more open minded is one aspect of it :)
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 06:02 PM
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Maybe I didn't make myself clear. She said, that she had an on-off relationship (in the past), so I thought she was over him. But the fact alone that she mentioned it to me, should've been a sign, that she might be still involved. I fucked women on the first date, but they all gave more signs than her (I actually didn't even see a hint that I could fuck her that evening). But as you said, I should dare more and try to escalate further the next time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 05:58 PM
1

I get your point, that it shouldn't matter what she thinks, but I enjoyed the time we spend and some good conversation we had. You are absolutely right, that I can say what I want, but if you enjoyed the time I think it's okay to tell her and be honest, about what you think.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 05:54 PM
3

You're right. My response should've been shorter.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 05:51 PM
1

She is obviously unsure of herself and her feelings. And of course I have a lot to learn. I probably made a few mistakes which I have to reflect about, but fact is, that women are emotional beings. If she has a stronger emotional connection with her ex due to the fact that she spend about one and a half years with him, compared to one evening with me, she will choose her ex most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 07:29 AM
1

I disagree. Even though there are a lot of wannabe alphas around here, if you text her this, you would come of as a complete asshole who doesn't care about her. You can be kind to her, even if she doesn't want to date you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 07:26 AM
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Thank you for taking the time and trying to help me! The difference between his case and mine is, that he went on multiple dates and didn't fuck her, because he was worried that he moves too fast. I just had one "date" with this girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 07:24 AM
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Hm...Most guys I know would've waited for the kiss until the date ended, instead of going in after half an hour. You don't know me and I don't blame you, but I'm pretty confident. Moreover I dated lots of girls and know the signs when a girl is down to fuck and she wasn't (yet). Tell me about the "multiple chances", please. Lol. You meet a girl for the first time, you pull her in and kiss her. It gets late and she brings up, that she has lots of stuff to do and you walk her home. You kiss her ag…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:15 AM
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I appreciate your advice and I know that every girl likes dick. I find it funny to read all the comments, cause from what I read every girl that the commentators meet fucks them on the first date. My experience is, that this happens on the second or third date most of the time, but well... We parted, because she said that she got lots of stuff going on tomorrow and it was late and so did I, so I said "I'll walk you home" and then I did. Believe me, I'm in touch with my sexuality, otherwise I wou…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:10 AM
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Right now I got two plates to release some pressure from time to time. But to be honest I'm more of a relationship type of guy: I prefer one girl who is on the same page with me, instead of five side-hoes who I only get to fuck and the two plates don't meet my standards for an LTR. The girl I met was smart and good looking (in my opinion) and shared the same interests as me, so I saw potential and wanted to get to know her better.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 06:34 PM
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From what I read you have absolutely no clue how women work. Sorry to say that, but I'm just being honest. You don't want to fuck her, because you are afraid that things will progress too fast? You have clearly no clue how it works. If you don't fuck her soon, she will kick you to the curb, because she thinks you are a pussy without the balls to make a move, which you admittedly are. From what you've told us you fall in love with every girl who spreads her legs for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 07:40 PM
2

You didn't understand Corey it seems. He tells people to ask the girl when she is free and then pick a date where you and her are free. Not to try to make time when she is available. When you ask her: When are you free? She: On Monday and Tuesday. If you got nothing to do on Monday and Tuesday you can pick a day. If got something better to do, then you ask her when she is free to get together another time, because you are busy on Monday and Tuesday. What I like about Corey is that he teaches to …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 07:35 PM
1

The best thing you can do is divorce her. Think of your son: Do you wish him to grow up in a loveless family where you despise your wife? He will imitate the relationship of you and your wife when he gets older. Get divorced, find another woman if you wish to, but don't stay in that marriage for the sake of your son. You are just harming him and his future relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:49 AM
1

Yep, that's what my post is all about. You can fake it, but you have to put in the work to become as good as you are pretending to be.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:57 PM
1

Getting dumped is brutal, but use your spare time now to improve yourself. Also put yourself in her shoes: Would you want to be together with someone who whines about his problems instead of attacking them head on? I don't think so. Women need men they can rely on, that's why it's crucial to not show too much weakness. If you have problems and need a shoulder to cry on, talk to your male buddies.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 12:04 PM
1

It is only if the microscope is held over you that the fragility of your ruse can be revealed, but it is very presumptuous indeed to suggest that you cannot live an entire life built on the shaky foundations of faking, and falsehood. But don't you think that if you are the owner of a company and you are hiring people, that you would hold the microscope over the people who are hired, just to make sure that they don't harm your company? ​
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 03:13 PM
5

Thank you. I try to make as few mistakes as possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 03:10 PM
0

Dude...i didn't mean to offend you. You are delusional. The whole thing went pretty sour from the beginning. They didn't show up on time, they went to the wrong bar, and when I met them, they were already kinda cold and the energy was drained somehow. That kind of excitement was gone which got through to me and made me a bit passive to them for the rest of the night. Do you expect them to tell you to your face that they know you are faking it? Guess why they showed up late and why they went to t…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:24 PM
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I got autism from reading your post....You are proud of yourself, I get it and that's good. But you are still an actor and you didn't internalize the principles. I made sure to crack jokes about everything and everyone in the room. Even the cute bartender wasn't safe. I acted cocky, funny, was easygoing and everything went smoothly. I got IOIs from girls and it was time to hit on one of them. You either are cocky or not, but acting cocky is fake. You are just an actor..just some PUA robot. And p…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 08:48 AM
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That's bullshit, too. Only because a hoe is loving and caring doesn't stop her from being a hoe. Do you know if she fucked other guys behind his back, while he was having cancer? I know hoes who are loving and caring and even though it is nice to be comforted by them, I know their history and how they betrayed and cheated on their past boyfriends.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 05:01 AM
2

Sorry, I'm retarded sometimes. I blame it on the lack of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 04:42 AM
1

Second, wear something light and clean, so that you don't offend anyone. Worst advice ever. Wearing perfume depends totally on the situation. I own about 10 perfumes, which I wear depending on the season and the occasion. Something light and clean is okay in the summer, but when it gets cold you should wear something more heavy (For example Dior homme intense, Armani Code profumo etc.). And don't wear perfume to please other people. Sure it's nice if they like it and you get compliments, but you…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 03:55 PM
3

Try to focus on the present moment when you are with a girl. You are overthinking way too much. If you talk to her, say what comes to your mind regardless if she likes it or not. If she likes you she doesn't care if it's funny or not. If she doesn't like you...well, tough shit. There are others who will like you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:19 PM
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This is why meditation is great. You can observe your emotions and realize, that you are not your emotions. Besides you can question your emotions and why you are feeling them and why you are reacting to an event like you do.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:49 PM
1

Try to text less. Shit tests over the phone are annoying as hell and all the things said over the phone cannot be as easily defused when said in person. She can make drama out of nothing (even more than in person) which annoys you even more. But good on you for ignoring her text. I wouldn't have said "my turn to not want to bug you", because it can be misinterpreted by her, that she is above you (which she is not). Always assume that you are better than her, because you really are. You may ask "…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:51 AM
1

Try to text less. Shit tests over the phone are annoying as hell and all the things said over the phone cannot be as easily defused when said in person. She can make drama out of nothing (even more than in person) which annoys you even more. But good on you for ignoring her text. I wouldn't have said "my turn to not want to bug you", because it can be misinterpreted by her, that she is above you (which she is not). Always assume that you are better than her, because you really are. You may ask "…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:40 AM
1

Try to text less. Shit tests over the phone are annoying as hell and all the things said over the phone cannot be as easily defused when said in person. She can make drama out of nothing (even more than in person) which annoys you even more. But good on you for ignoring her text. I wouldn't have said "my turn to not want to bug you", because it can be misinterpreted by her, that she is above you (which she is not). Always assume that you are better than her, because you really are. You may ask "…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:37 AM
1

Try to text less. Shit tests over the phone are annoying as hell and all the things said over the phone cannot be as easily defused when said in person. She can make drama out of nothing (even more than in person) which annoys you even more. But good on you for ignoring her text. I wouldn't have said "my turn to not want to bug you", because it can be misinterpreted by her, that she is above you (which she is not). Always assume that you are better than her, because you really are. You may ask "…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:36 AM
1

Try to text less. Shit tests over the phone are annoying as hell and all the things said over the phone cannot be as easily defused when said in person. She can make drama out of nothing (even more than in person) which annoys you even more. But good on you for ignoring her text. I wouldn't have said "my turn to not want to bug you", because it can be misinterpreted by her, that she is above you (which she is not). Always assume that you are better than her, because you really are. You may ask "…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:36 AM
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There must have been warning signs before you fucked her. I talked about the craziness before fucking, not after fucking. ​
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:06 AM
1

Nope, you just talked about deadlifting is easier if you have longer arms. I said deadlifting is easier, if you lifted heavy stuff before not related to deadlifting. Two different points. But I get your point now, that some people are better, because of their genetics. ​
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 01:40 PM
1

I can live with your point, that genetics give people an advantage. But you didn't even answer my points or go into detail about the examples I gave.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 01:25 PM
1

I might be wrong indeed, but let me give you an example from donkeydodos post below and explain the way I see it: To elaborate, someone is talented in e.g tennis, because they understand the concept deeply enough to be seen as relatively good at it. Someone would be a natural talent in tennis if spoken someone would try tennis for the first time and learn it quickly; that is, how to move, where to aim the ball, how hard to hit etc. What did the person who played tennis for the first time do, bef…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 02:12 PM
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I have to disagree with you on this one, because in my eyes there is no such thing as "talent". The word "talent" is often used by mediocre/lazy people as an excuse to not become as good as the person who they believe is "talented". I would rather say there are different interests. Let me give you an example: If a small child discovers that it has fun climbing and starts climbing everytime it is on the playground and keeps on climbing when it gets older, until it joins a "climbing-sportsclub" (f…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 09:35 AM
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You should write more articles. I'm a very critical person and I believe many articles on here, even from endorsed contributors are written like absolute trash. This article is flawless. Confidence isn't about winning. It's not about losing. It's an understanding that there are things you are good at, and there are things you are bad at. It's a relationship with the truth, its a truth you trust and know a lot about. It's being real with yourself and knowing when to quit, and when to commit. Winn…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:12 AM
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I fucking landed this mummified cleopatra You are already putting her on a pedestal. Everytime somebody comes around with the term "alpha female" I have to laugh. She is "alpha", because the people around her are too weak to stand up for themselves, if she bosses them around. Has lots and lots of guy friends In my own experience: Girls with lots of guy friends usually fuck some of them. Acts innocent when confronted directly That's how most girls behave. She is not special. After all she is a wo…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:59 PM
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You should've told us how you realised she was crazy to begin with. There must have been warning signs before you fucked her. There is not much to learn from your story, if you don't describe the red flags she had. Sending nudes...okay. But she might have been just horny. And a tip for you: Never send dick pics. You don't know to whom she will send them.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 06:52 PM
2

If there was room for him to say no and the no would have been respected, it wasn't a case of amogging. You don't decide if you're getting amogged or not. The girl does. If she feels more attraction towards the other guy there is nothing you can do. Anyway this story made me cringe, because OP tries to sell it as a happy story even though there is nothing happy about it except his friend got laid which is nothing OP achieved, but his friend did by being more attractive than OP in her eyes. Why w…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:19 AM
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So it kind of leads to this cognitive dissonance, where I don't want to see them again, but I feel like shit for blowing them off. In the end I'm not going to do something I don't want to. The 'sadness' comes from imagining they'll probably spend a decent amount of time trying to figure out "what they did wrong" or "what's wrong with them". It's like I'm punishing them for trying. This is based on personal experience from my blue-pill days on the flip side, and seeing it as a third party. I beli…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:58 AM
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Yep, they are like dogs. If the owner freaks out, they freak out.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 05:39 AM
5

https://lawandcrime.com/live-trials/live-trials-current/nikki-yovino-sentencing/woman-who-lied-about-rape-rolled-her-eyes-in-court-while-being-sentenced/?utm_source=mostpopular Watching her in this video makes me angry af... It's an insult to all people who are actually raped and she wilfully destroyed the lives of two innocent men. I don't live in the US (luckily), but I hope she gets ostracized from society like the two alleged rapists did. ​
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 04:03 AM
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If a woman doesn't shit test you it usually can mean 2 things: She is not interested in you, that's why there is no need to test you. She sees you as "the shit", that's why she is not testing you. You wouldn't challenge a guy to benchpress 50kg, when he just benched 100kg right before your eyes. Same with women. If she sees you as strong there is no need on her part to test you. In your case it is obviously number 2.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 05:18 PM
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There are actually two ways: You can delude yourself into believing that you are the greatest. Mostly done by females. You can live a life that you are proud of, which mostly includes working hard on something you love and becoming successful in that area. Ask yourself if you can respect yourself for the actions you have taken that day. Are you happy with yourself?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 09:48 AM
2

As someone who doesn't know him it's hard to understand. Let me try to explain: He lies in front of the tv or sits in front of his computer playing videogames or watching videos about self-improvement/motivational videos, while scratching his balls and talking about "all the losers out there". He lives in his own little dream world. And I totally understand that this is not my problem, but usually you want the best for your friends.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:56 AM
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I'm not sure if you are trolling, but in case you are not: You completely misunderstood my point. I don't criticise people for leading mediocre lifestyles. If you're happy being mediocre, that's great for you. I criticise people for being mediocre and running around telling everyone how great they are, even if they accomplish nothing in life. ​
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 10:50 AM
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Amen, brother. I have a flatmate whom I introduced to the redpill, self-improvement and stuff in the hope, that he will change his life... Now he has read lots of self-improvement books, runs around and telling people how he is into self-improvement and how "alpha" he is, but he doesn't take action. Instead he wastes his life watching tv and playing videogames and fucking his trash-tier girlfriend which he tells himself is hot (truth is he is low-value and she is low-value, that's why he can't p…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 06:24 PM
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Ways to build strong vary frame from person to person, of course. It will only come to those who seek becoming their fullest self, and the only way to do that is to invest in the world around you. What I believe, most people fail to understand is, that "frame" comes from being happy with yourself. Happiness cannot be defined in general. I don't have to lift and become muscular to have frame. I can be a fat fuck, weighing 400 pounds and play videogames all day long, as long as I'm happy living th…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 08:48 AM
2

But she can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc. "If someone shows you who they are, believe them." Never ever entertain the idea of a monogamous relationship with this girl unless you want to get fucked over. I learned it the hard way. ​
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 04:24 AM
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Thank you for your post! I gave you an upvote when I had only read the TL;DR, because I feel the same. Many people on this forum behave like robots. Sure, if you got crushed by a girl and your world is in shambles, you maybe read "The rational male" and your eyes are opened and you see women for the first time as they are, it's understandable, that you need something to believe in (a.k.a. some guidance = the red pill). But after some time you should ask yourself critically, if everything that is…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 08:09 AM
1

"Who's FRAME am I in right now?" If the answer to that question is NOT my own, I try to disconnect from the conversation or go do something else. Frame is everything. The truly great men of the world have realized that. You can see it in everyday social interaction. That TRULY makes you alpha; not the tattoos you have, not the clothes you wear, not your hairstyle. Get rid of that mindset or you will always be a robot and stuck in your head. Fuck Frame. It is about being comfortable with yourself…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:56 AM
4

Double-standards in action... I bet she didn't even see fault in her actions back then. Everytime something like this happens I am amazed how women lack self-consciousness. Even though, I have to admit I would love to see life for one day from a womans perspective: truly egotistical and narcissistic, only focused on yourself, no true friendships. Just living with a devil-may-care attitude.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:32 AM
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Any tips on meditation? I usually try to just focus on breathing. But it starts to get boring. So I cannot do it for extended amounts of time. That's the whole point of meditation. It quiets your mind. Usually you're having one thought after another, but by focusing on your breathing you can enjoy the silence. I usually experience my body when I meditate. Each tingling in the toes or fingers, arms and legs getting heavy and you are in a complete state of relaxation. Try Michael Sealey, he has a …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 02:41 PM
2

In this scenario the person has to see your potential. Let me explain. I have to disagree with you on this. They might see your potential and genuinely want to help you without getting something back. But mostly people think "what can that person do for me? How can I profit from working together with that person?" Last year before I took some months away from working on my projects I had contacted many big indie developers, big names and certain company leaders. I presented the idea of starting …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 04:27 AM
2

Grinding for me is staying focused on your goals and actively persuing them. Submissive women don't allow you to lose focus of your goals, otherwise they will see you as weak. I believe to be a dominant person and I'm enjoying the grind, but sometimes I like to relax, too. Maybe I didn't explain myself well enough. Thank you for your concerns, though!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:34 PM
2

Sleep deprivation plays a huge role....Not sleeping for 20 hours is like being drunk at a level of 2 per mill. If you watch porn, stop it. Porn floods your brain with dopamine which is necessesary to get a boner. The problem is that porn rises your dopamine level to an extent where it is too much and the brain can't take it anymore and reduces dopamine receptors. From that point it is impossible to get aroused by "normal" women. For more information visit: www.yourbrainonporn.com (I had this pro…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 11:50 AM
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I figured I’d take the approach often touted here, where I treat a girl like shit Congratulations, you are a robot. Sometimes I think there are as many autists on the redpill as there are autists in rsd. You should do things, because they feel natural to you. If you attract girls by being natural, guess what? They like you for who you are. If you attract girls by acting, you always have to act to keep them around. You want to keep people in your life who like you for who you are. Posts like this…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 05:16 AM
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The post is true. At first it seems nice to date a woman who is constantly submissive, because you can enjoy being dominant and being the protector. The downside is: you have to be dominant all the time. You can't let your guard down and you have to be on point all the time. Submissive women are great to improve yourself, because you have to be grinding all the time to keep that dominant frame, but they are also the most stressful type of women when it comes to dating. And major red flag (at lea…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 04:32 AM
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It's more than looks. Looks are just a sign for girls that says: "this guy values himself enough to take care of himself." You can replace looks with everything you can achieve by hard work, but looks are the most obvious sign to show women, that you take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 07:03 PM
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You can't be angry with her, though. Women are like they are. You wouldn't be angry with a tiger, if he killed a zebra, would you? What helps is to see women as big children. You can't expect to have a logical conversation with her, like you would have with a male friend of yours. She is testing your strength to see if you are a worthy mate.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 05:58 PM
1

You didn't train her well. If she starts giving you shit, you have to call her out on that and don't take it silently. She was testing your boundaries and you just took it without saying a word. It will get worse from now on. You fucked up. It is a lot harder now to establish boundaries, once she has seen your weakness and that it is okay for her to give you bullshit. When she proposed going for a walk you could've just said no. Instead you went against your own judgement just to please her. If …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 05:38 PM
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I hate men who make girls their priority in life. I hate men who settle for mediocrity and claim to be happy, even though they are jealous of men who strive for greater goals and badmouth them. There are so many other things...But the list would get too long.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:56 PM
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Be patient and let her come to you. Let her make the investments. You should know that you have a lot of women to fuck and that you can easily next her. This is the only sentence worth remembering. Lately the redpill is filled with useless posts from people jerking themselves off about mundane things. People should consider writing diaries... "Today I said "hi" to a girl! I should make a post on theredpill about it."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:05 AM
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If what I do doesn't show certainty, I don't do it Certainty takes practice. You are always uncertain at the point of the beginning a new hobby/job/whatever. I think what you mean is persistence.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:22 PM
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Sorry, but I think there is no substance behind your post. You should explain your points. E.G.: Don't give a fuck. (How are you getting to that level where you are not giving a fuck?) Have your own opinion and be true to yourself. Don't change your opinion just to impress a girl. Have solid frame. (Yeah...sure. But how do you get solid frame?) You get solid frame by knowing who you are, by following rules you have set for yourself, by having standards and not taking shit from anyone. By being h…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:07 PM
4

Imagine you are being interrogated by a cop. Are you in his frame or is he in your frame?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:59 PM
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@Salted Pretzel: You should look up "Corey Wayne" on youtube and read his first book. It helped me immensely to understand where I fucked up in the past. Your mistake is that you are talking too much. Just open her and ask her questions about her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves and you want to get to know her and if she is worth your attention not vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:09 AM
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True. Always talk to your guy friends about problems and never show weakness (on purpose) in front of women. Your guy friends will listen and don't judge you and more important: they will give you their honest opinion about your problem and your behaviour. They will tell you, if you behave like a weak bitch while a woman will try to coddle you openly, but is disgusted with your behaviour internally.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 03:12 PM
1

One point you might add (and which is easily overlooked but correlates with your point: "Make sure your body has what it needs IE vitamins and minerals especially"): - Try to stop masturbating for a short period of time and watch what it does for you in terms of acne With every load you shoot out, your body loses minerals. I remember my teens when i was fapping heavily, I got fucking bad acne. Could be hormones during puberty, too, but I often read that people who quit masturbating, see a facial…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 04:57 AM
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Great post! But there are some things in life which you have to experience first-hand. I have failed enough with women (and other things) to agree with everything you say, but I can imagine that someone who is inexperienced won't listen to your words.... E.g: A good friend of mine ( M 42 y/o) has never been left by a woman. He always dumped them first because he says he gets easily bored. The last time I was crushed by a girl (I was dumb enough to think that I could convert a hoe into relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:49 AM
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At first I was confused, too....SYD = Stick your dick.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 10:29 AM
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