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| 3 | How to pick up girls at a bar?Become a bartender | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 03:30 PM |
| 126 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?Warning: cringe ahead, turn back now | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 08:23 PM |
| 57 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeIt’s definitely okay to text right away as long as you’re also texting hours later. The whole point of masculine energy is to do what you want when you want just because you feel like it. So text her right now if you feel like it, or text her later if you don’t. It’s whatever. Main thing to remember is that your life should be busy and interesting enough that you’re not thinking about it. Women can pick up on it when the reason you text sporadically (but also consistently) is because you’re doin… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageYeah I know what it is but how do you pick up girls there lol | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 04:14 AM |
| 5 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?Winner mentality | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:51 AM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your Advantage…Erewhon? | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Kissed girl too early ?No such thing as kissing too early | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | How do I make a move on my girlfriendThis is the best way. We have to communicate and show our vulnerable side just as much as we have to “game.” You’re both human beings, communication is the only path forward | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | 2 Proven Techniques to Crush Approach Anxiety (Backed by Science)Hmmm very interesting, would you mind sharing the video? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | 2 Proven Techniques to Crush Approach Anxiety (Backed by Science)Spartial anchoring? Do you mean spatial? Not being a smart ass ive just never heard either term before. What is it? | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Flirting with a Femme BoyOnly the fanciest for you king | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Flirting with a Femme BoyIgnore the haters in the comments and live your life. It’s the same as talking to anyone. Make conversation, be confident, flirt, escalate, get number. You got this | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 06:11 AM |
| 11 | Flirting with a Femme BoyI consider myself to be a radical feminist and I am a gender abolitionist (I’m a male) and I still think this sub is like 75% nontoxic and constructive. This is the only one of the sort of man-haven sex-based subs that is focused on improving oneself and treating others like human beings instead of just whining and bitching Not necessarily disagreeing with your criticisms of this sub just saying that the response here has been 100x better than it would have been in any incel sub | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?I became a bartender. Becoming a bartender is how you speedrun developing social skills and a friend group and also a cheat code for getting laid because the girls will come to you | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Understanding Christian girls?She sounds dumb as fuck. I don’t understand why people who believe in an all knowing all powerful omnipotent being think that they can get around his rules on a technicality lmao Jesus Christ | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:26 PM |
| 170 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?I’m below average but I’m a bartender. 1 or 2 new partners a month on average with fairly minimal effort because the girls come to me | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls don't see men serious? Not dating wise (Descr)If you are being actively removed from their instagram followers you should be concerned about which of your behaviors is leading them to do that | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:55 AM |
| -1 | Quick question: Does being placed in the “Close Friends” list mean anything?I’m sorry you’re being left behind | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Kiss closeAsk | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?Will you explain the flirting thjng | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | How to overcome approach anxiety?Approach | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Is it even worth learning night game?I have never heard the term lair before | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth learning night game?If you hate going to the club, you’re not gonna find women you enjoy being around there. Focus on what YOU want to do | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 5 | How to not lose a git by missing signs and being too platonic on first dateEvery time a girl has said something to me like “I’m a lady, we’re not having sex tonight” or “I don’t sleep with someone unless I’m committed” I’ve fucked them that night. Girls say this shit because it isn’t true. The girls who are actually like that don’t say it out loud. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:32 AM |
| 3 | How to not lose a git by missing signs and being too platonic on first dateYes, unless you’re actively receiving fuck me eyes just ask her if you can kiss her and 9/10 times she’ll say yes | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?Don’t respond till next day, just say “sure how about Thursday”, that’s it. Literally just reschedule. When you meet up make a little joke about how you couldn’t hang out last time. It should come off that her standing you up was completely inconsequential to you (which it should actually be) and that you did something else fun at that time block after you didn’t hear from her | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?I always reschedule when something like this happens precisely because I’m not invested. Like yeah sure we can hang out another time. I still want to fuck you even tho I couldn’t tonight | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How much of dating is really a choice?You can’t choose the hand you’re dealt but you can choose what to do with it | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?You should always go for a kiss on the first hang out bare minimum though. That dispels any guessing and at most you’ll present as bi at that point | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?I get this a lot and so does my best male friend, we’re both completely straight but sometimes get mistaken for a couple when hanging out. We ask people why they thought that and they usually say it’s because we’re smiling and laughing. We both just give off gay vibes individually so together we’re an unstoppable force of homosexuality. Has not prevented me from getting laid though | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:07 PM |
| 5 | I make artistic portraits of girls I date and especially like and post on IG. Creepy hobby?Then it’s not weird | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:49 PM |
| 23 | Anyone else ever get stares while on a date?This is how female attraction works. It’s a snowball effect. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 02:07 AM |
| -3 | 31 year old virgin friend strugglingHave you informed him that there is essentially a 0% chance of being “accused” of anything you weren’t actually trying do to a woman in real life? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:31 PM |
| 3 | How to hit on college girls?Can you elaborate? I live literally right next to a university and several college bars so v interested | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Are people here actually having sex?I’m a bartender so I can get laid a couple times a week if I want. That’s a lot of work and at a certain point you do have to watch out for your reputation so for me it’s usually a new partner every two weeks or so | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Share your BEST resourcesWhat the other guy said. Read Models though. Was really good for my self perception | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach 3xFantastic confidence man. This is exactly how it’s done. The only thing is that I might avoid using the word “date.” This can sometimes put pressure on the girl. If you act the way that a man and a gentleman is supposed to act, then you don’t have to use the word date at all, she’ll know what it is once it’s happening. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?Lol this is gold man thank you | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:35 AM |
| 3 | How likely is it to go from Dating to Relationship?Sage advice that I needed to hear, thank you | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 14 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?The power of rejecting a woman is underrated | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?The truth is that if she’s going on a first date with you, she wants to fuck you. She just needs to screen you first and make sure there won’t be unforeseen consequences and also make sure you’re not an asshole, because a lot of women would rather withhold sex from you even if they are physically and sexually attracted to you if you’re an asshole. Which is totally fair. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?Can you give an example of a bare minimum date that works out for you often? I do the same thing for all my first dates and usually end up spending $50-$100 and getting laid and it’s not a big deal but I would be interested in spending less | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 06:23 PM |
| 13 | Did 10 approaches per day. Video in comments. ConfidenceJourney 2Also you have a lot of awkward silences and in your YT short you mansplain a whole bunch of shit about game of thrones to that girl that no girl on the street is gonna give a shit about. Women don’t like when men explain things to them without them asking you to, stop doing that. It’s one thing if you’re super passionate about something and are going into detail for the love of the subject and trying to genuinely share something you love with another person, everyone finds that endearing. But co… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Did 10 approaches per day. Video in comments. ConfidenceJourney 2How old are you? Congrats on having the courage to do so many approaches at all, but you’re very stiff and awkward in your speech and that makes it seem like you’re either weird and approaching the girl for no reason, or you have a reason and are trying to hide it. It seems from the speech patterns that there’s not much smile in your voice (I know you anonymized it with robots so it may just be that). I think you could do with being a little more playful and taking it less seriously, you definit… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Hinge vs TinderIdk, I’m 26, pretty overweight. I just put a lot of effort into having good conversation and being charming. I don’t go on hinge dates where me and the girl I matched with don’t seemingly have enough in common to have energy. I ask for phone number within first five messages, text to set up date within 3. I got out of a 4 year relationship about six months ago it took me a while to get back into the swing of things properly. I’m sorry you’re going through that heartbreak right now. I don’t kiss … | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Hinge vs TinderYeah your hinge profile needs to be A1 tbh. Good pics, good prompts, good responses. Funny. It’s not a purely looks based game on hinge like it supposedly is on tinder (haven’t used tinder in like 7 years). Your personality has the chance to shine through, and luckily for all the ugly no-game motherfuckers on this sub like me, that means you have a chance | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 01:45 AM |
| 14 | Hinge vs TinderHinge is just as good for hookups as it is for real match making. Have never had a first date off off hinge that I didn’t get laid on. If anything it’s better because you can filter out people you have zero connection with so you can be fairly sure that there will be at least a little energy when you meet her | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 09:11 PM |
| 15 | I finally got laid, thanks for all the advice!Honestly dude, if you just tell her that it was your first time, she’ll probably feel kind of special and will try to make the second time better for you and guide you. At least, if she’s a girl worth keeping around then she will | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 10:20 PM |
| 2 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlWhat I always do is be overconfident with the other guy and try to befriend him. Not in a cocky mocking way, I shake his hand, introduce myself. Try to include both of them in the conversation, and compliment him. It will make you look more confident. You also have to keep it always in your mind that it is okay if the girl chooses the other dude over you. You should have several other options available or the confidence to get them at any given time anyways, so it really doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 03:45 PM |
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