| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isThis is certainly an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating the ugly girl won't save you.Same goes the opposite way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men outnumber women on dating/hookup apps?Personally I know of more guys being on those in comparison to women. While I have never and will never be on any, I am working on removing those who are from my social circle (so far so good). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:34 AM |
| 4 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 4 | For most men, sex is better outside of a relationshipThe title was enough for me to experience mental flinching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 03:11 PM |
| 5 | How do women feel about dating reformed players?Absolutely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophiesOkay. We are all allowed to have our own definition of this. Therefore, your definition cannot be applied to others. :) Any time I made my standards a suggestion; I heavily regretted it. Also I think, anyone who has shown poor effort and bad record within school is a no go for me. This is coming from someone who grew up with undiagnosed ADHD and got pulled out of class to get 1-on-1 sessions. I did exceptionally well in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 08:43 PM |
| 2 | People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophiesI think all standards you have should be deal breakers. Otherwise they’re just suggestions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 08:33 PM |
| 2 | People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophiesIf me wanting to be with a partner who doesn’t have a past or any tendencies of that kind is superficial so be it. I hold myself to the same standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:49 PM |
| 10 | Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life?Single and childFREE. Don’t threaten me with a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex?The US isn’t really the best when it comes to fidelity/commitment imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyI went for personality. Don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 0 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?If I had known what I now know about my partner before? I would not have said yes. It’s not just the actions that happen, it’s the thought process of this type of person that is concerning. Impo, promiscuity is a high indicator of dishonesty/dishonest person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be “picked” or settled for?From being on the receiving end of this (being “picked”). I’d say that’s self esteem issues and ultimately using the person as an ego boost. Just my observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be “picked” or settled for?Most men (not all) are pretty exited to see a warm body with a rump and lumps. Guys keeps saying “we’re visual beings”. Women will TYPICALLY (not always) be with a guy for reasons more than simple physical attraction (which I think makes sense as woman need emotional&intellectual connection - when it comes to someone who is serious about the longevity of their relationship). This isn’t to say she isn’t attracted to him, just that PHYSICAL attraction is not the driving force when PRIMARILY lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 09:03 AM |
| 3 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.For reference I do also have depression (C-PTSD) and possibly some other stuff too but I would say my ADHD affects me the most socially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:59 PM |
| 5 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Surprised that no one has mentioned when both partners are neurodivergent (sometimes undiagnosed). I’ve always had an inkling on me having ADHD (got diagnosed last year at age 25 - Inattentive type) and my partner is possibly AuDHD (haven’t got round to it yet but ADHD for sure - my meds made him feel how I feel on them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | “You weren’t in love with her, you were in love at her”I understand that. It’s one sided in this situation. (Assuming people are actually in love and not in love with the idea of being in love) I say this from my personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 03:32 AM |
| – | “You weren’t in love with her, you were in love at her”It’s also a very nuanced thing. Many people lie about who they are and people will fall in love with the person they present themselves as. Later to find out there’s a lot more (even stuff they may dislike). People can’t expect to be loved fully without being truthful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 03:04 AM |
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