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| 14 | How is it not better to be toxic? | Discussion | Robyn_YU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 12:29 AM |
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| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Yeah, I'd want to get married and would've love to only desire my lady, but so many people are grimey and shameless, constantly making excuses for their shitty and selfish behavior, it makes me question why I have to try so hard to keep mentally sane around people, it really seems like being shitty is the better way to live life than limiting myself to be kind or taking deep breaths and thinking before I speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:04 AM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Where do you actually find those women though? dating apps are the worst place to meet stable women, bars and clubs as well, even if you meet a decent woman there, her friends tends to be toxic and cheaters that influence her to flirt and sometimes even cheat. Maybe its confirmation bias, but when married women are flirting with you shamelessly you start to lose hope in humanity, some times the married women who stay loyal admit to missing the excitement of an toxic Ex. Are long term relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:53 AM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Thank you, been feeling hopeless and like shit lately, I think I'm just too sensitive to people's opinions, I'm very much a perfectionist so I look and listen to everything to try and become better, but it's exhausting sometimes. I got to work on not taking everything to heart, I insert myself in others people stories when maybe the good guy they don't feel passion for is just naturally boring and doesn't have the same obsession with improvement that I do🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:44 AM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Nah, I think long term you'll get nothing but sadness, but that already where I'm at 🤷♂️ Why not embrace it and be the hot/cold toxic guy she'll never forget and fantasize about when she's married with kids. Some things are romantic because they didn't happen, long term = boredom eventually. I fantasize about a world were it was different, but I have yet to actually see evidence of someone married who is actually 100% monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:11 AM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Lmao, lowkey that exactly the thing, I've seen it happen in real time with my sister, she had one boyfriend that treated her like shit, but she bought him gifts, and was desperate to change everything about herself to please him, her current boyfriend is told he can get replaced by a cute dog 🤷♂️ Even if you hate toxic men when you're older you still gave them more when you were younger, seems like a shitty deal from the guys perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:04 AM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?toxic struggling guys who get more and more bitter due to their lack of success You mean Incels?😂 I lowkey regret this post, just felt like shit at 4 am y know. But yeah, in my experience they do seems like the majority if you combine toxic women + the women drawn to toxic men + the women settling for good guys without passion. it leaves a tiny percentage of women who genuinely feels desire and passion for her man, who actually respects her and is upfront about his wants, communicates effectivel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:58 PM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?Its more the opposite for me, I feel like I'm fighting uphill trying to not be toxic because of how I was raised and how my family interacted with one another when I was young, not shouting or being aggressive in an argument takes effort. It's exhausting trying to be good all the time but I thought that eventually it'll pay out, that being good would bring you good, but I'm losing hope rn, I'm better today but made this post at 4 am when depressed and went off the deep end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:28 PM |
| – | How is it not better to be toxic?So I didn't expect a random depressed mood post I made at 4 am to blow up like this But what if a guy meets the criteria of Handsome, Charismatic, Witty, interesting, Godly in bed, + effortlessly Romantic, Thoughtful, Kind/Supportive, Emotionally intelligent. He will be more desirable than a toxic handsome guy who is charismatic and great in bed? It takes effort and diligence to reach the level of the guy above, but it seems kinda useless to spend 5-10 years only to get really nothing in return … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI still don't really get it, what separates the two? Is there no wish to do it again or any lingering feelings/desire for specific person/experience? was the casual sex a temporary thing like a sort of premium masturbation whilst looking for the right person for a relationship or did you specifically seek out casual only? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCould you give an example as to how it differs? I'm trying to wrap my head around it, if it is possible for someone to sleep around and still value monogamy and see it as something special, then maybe I'll lose a needless deal breaker, but as it stands my mind simply cant comprehend it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADGenuine question from some inexperienced, does the sex differ from casual and relationship? My only gripe about high body count is sharing the same intimacy we have casually, like it doesn't mean as much for her as It does for me. Like it loses some of that specialness of monogamy`? I don't doubt loyalty but I kinda doubt someone who has lived a life of novelty and variety can truly be happy and fulfilled in a life long monogamous relationship without even flirting with someone else or regreting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:07 PM |
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