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Weird after like 15 years of being strictly child free, I suddenly wanted children after nearly 3 years with my partner once I realized how deeply I trusted and loved him and felt like I wanted to not only reward him with a child because he deserves it and would be an amazing father, but because for once in my life I felt safe and secure and excited enough to explore that part of life with another person. Is my instinct broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:51 PM
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For a lot of men their girlfriend becomes their first “real” best friend. My bf has a large social group but from his own words, his relationship with me has made him question the depth and authenticity of all his other friendships. He obviously has cherished memories with them and they still have meet up several times throughout the year, but he would still always prefer to have me around or to be with me over them. I’m the one person he’s been able to be truly vulnerable and emotional with and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:44 PM
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Not creepy because they are in a relationship and they like each other and as long as it’s not abusive or taken advantage of them good to go. Sure but the reality of the situation is that most of the time a 25 & 16 year old are together there is abuse, coercion, and being taken advantage of. And I think sexual objectification of people in general is creepy and unhealthy, but I also know my audience here at PPD and would never expect a productive conversation about that. Most of the people here a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:24 AM
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I’m not necessarily talking about someone who is 18 waiting for their 16 yo girlfriend to become 18. I’m talking about the kind of guys who are 25+ that sexualize young girls and celebrate their coming of age so they can legally fuck or fantasize about fucking these girls. For example, it’s still gross that a 20 yo might celebrate the 18th birthday of, say, Millie Bobbie Brown so they can sexualize them “legally”, but it’s gross for totally different reasons. A 30 y/o man however celebrating thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:36 AM
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Okay if you wanna argue semantics, sure. It’s still creepy and most teenagers do not enjoy being sexualized or objectified by older men. It’s actually scary as a young girl to experience being sexualized by adults and it feels like betrayal if you think someone is just being kind to you only to find they just want to get into your pants. Sucks that sexual objectification of people has become so normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:07 AM
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Why don’t you see going after someone for purely physical reasons as a problem? Everyone ages and gets older and if your motives for starting a relationship are purely physical it is a massive red flag. You are viewing that person as a sexual object and placing all of their beauty onto that. It’s immature and not a sustainable way of viewing people if you want a genuine relationship. Sure, people are always learning boundaries and what to accept, but if we are going to look at it graphically its…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:03 AM
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Most young people are still learning boundaries and what they really want/need in a relationship. They are still learning what they should tolerate and accept from another person. They are still learning how to say no and how to compromise. They are learning what red flags are and what green flags are. I’d argue most young relationships have a lot of dysfunction, immaturity, manipulative attention seeking behaviors that both parties lack the experience or awareness to understand. When older guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:17 AM
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It’s a little pedophilic, or at the very least creepy/wrong when people wait for a girl to turn 18 to have sex with them. Like they are sexualizing them for years and the only thing stopping them is the law. Also a lot of guys go out of their way specifically for younger women because they are easier to control/manipulate/abuse. Most people are still learning how to create boundaries and say no, and often times these older men aim to take advantage of these loosely defined boundaries and inexper…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:54 PM
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That’s simply not true. Most women go for someone their age or older, but usually closer to their own age than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:18 AM
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I would say a large portion of people prefer to date someone their age especially if looking for someone they can relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:04 AM
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That is reassuring to hear. I think men that crave variety really are just in need of validation. Sex with multiple women is validation from multiple sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:49 PM
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I never said it was everyone. Im trying to say is you wouldn’t recognize them if you saw them. And often times these people with “poor personalities” dont really have that poor of personalities. It is often isolated to a few specific times or people. I consider myself a good person and am good to my boyfriend and a kind person but certainly i can recall incidents from my past that don’t represent the way i treat most people and where my family would deny i could be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:23 PM
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Well there are also no abusive hypergamous shallow women because all of my friends family and acquaintances are all nice to me and have meaningful interests and care about treating people right and they don’t date assholes sooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:09 AM
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Lmao i meet them all there time. “Where”? Everywhere. They are your friends, your family, the people you meet on the street. Especially if you are a dude, you wouldn’t notice. Most men with “bad personalities” treat or interact with women in a way that is different than how they interact with other men. As a result, you won’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:31 PM
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So you admit most men are mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:33 PM
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In your opinion, what is the motivator?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:28 PM
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This is the female experience of men lmao and as observers its probably a huge factor in why women are grossed out by male sexuality and where the concept of toxic masculinity is born from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:26 PM
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Male competitiveness is arguably what has propelled society forward. All men do is try to impress eachother whether its who can do or say the most outrageous thing, who can make the most money, bang the hottest chicks etc etc. How can you even deny this lol Especially as women this is like the typical female experience of men, either being an observer of, and often the target of such competitiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:24 PM
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These men think virgin women will be less likely to leave them. I dated a dude like that as a 23/4 y/o virgin and as it turns out, if you had a healthy upbringing and strong support system, you’re not going to be afraid to leave even after a relatively short period of time if the dude is still a shitty person. No matter how long you waited or how much you value monogamy or how much you only wanted to be with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:24 PM
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Majority of people in western culture don’t share the opinions on this sub. Majority opinion here is often a minority among normal adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:54 AM
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A lot of those laws are created to protect men’s wives and daughters. Spousal rape was legal until 70s. Rape laws were and act to protect against women as property not as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:18 AM
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Nah the tribalism that protects police officers from facing consequences to their actions is the same tribalism that prohibits men from seeing their friends as capable of doing wrong towards women. The left is working to hold men accountable for their actions and not just paid leave or 2 months because of a promising swim career.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:15 AM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:56 PM
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Some people have loyalty and natural obligation to others. I think about this with friends. There are a ton of people in the world to have fun with and variety will always keep things interesting, but I am wired for companionship. 1 friend to do everything with is what I want most. I’m the same in relationships. Just because there may be more desirable or exciting/new options does not mean I want them. I do like novelty, but I also find something much more novel about being with the same person …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:15 PM
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For most men it’s simply not true. If she’s hot that’s usually all that matters. If she’s got a personality they also enjoy, they’re sold. You don’t have to like it. Just my observations of slut-people and slut-friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:05 PM
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But in reality it’s uggos
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:36 PM
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Nah. You’re glorifying the past. And there are still men that do what you claim was so great about the past, today. You just vastly overestimate the percentage of men that were actually doing those things and respected in those ways. Like the past, most men and women are peasants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:35 PM
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JBP fans. Dating self proclaimed “black sheep”. He’s great , guess I got the 1% according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:30 PM
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Anything you wouldn’t want your partner to be doing with another person. It’s kinda arbitrary since everyone has different boundaries and limits so I think that’s a good, simple rule to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:05 AM
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Why though? Paying for porn or using something like onlyfans or whatever else is a lot more ethical than free porn or whatever. The woman is purely in control and there is less chance of trafficking or coercion or drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:00 AM
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I don’t know exactly what only fans is but I assume it is similar to cam girls or snap chat premium. I think there is a vast difference between porn stars, prostitutes, and even just women who’ve had only or mostly a lot of casual sexual relationships and camwhoring/only fans. I believe the latter would definitely be able to have a healthy relationship, however, I don’t believe it’d be a smart choice to pursue one for a LTR for the same reason it’d be stupid for a girl to pursue a highly desirab…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:33 AM
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I kinda think only fans / Snapchat premium is the female version of men going to strip clubs or following thots on whatever platform. Some couples are really not going to care and understand that it just satisfies a natural but distinct and non-relationship threatening part of each genders sexuality / needs, while others might be less okay Due to being more sexually reserved. Just like anything in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:07 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:59 PM
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And who do you think is going to end up holding on to all the assets ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:58 PM
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Feel guilty because it seems like it should be common decency. He is putting himself up there in front of the class to teach us valuable information the least I could do is not look at his butt, something he would probably not appreciate or be embarrassed to know I was doing. It’s not even like it’s a sexual think I’m literally just looking at it cus it’s there?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:51 PM
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There is a difference. I feel guilty simply looking at the teacher butt while they’re writing on the board because I feel it’s disrespectful. I could easily get away with it and not get punished, but I don’t because the desire to be a respectful person is stronger than any desire to dote on the fact that I can see his panty line through his jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:13 AM
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I feel like everyone bonds from doing activities together. I think that is just a part of human psychology that say going through traumatic or exciting experiences with someone increases bonding. It’s just doing what you enjoy with another person that causes bonding. Don’t get me wrong I love gossiping and talking shit but I’ve never met a man that doesn’t like that either. And most of my friendships with women revolve around what we like to do together, not talking / gossiping. That stuff is re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:50 AM
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I hate this. But what do you mean by that last point. Elaborate if you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:08 AM
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How many PMs have you gotten with men claiming they fit the bill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:05 AM
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Since reaching 16 I’ve never gone after a man purely for looks. Mental attraction > physical attraction. I think pursuing the former is a sign that you actually want a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:04 AM
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Yeah dude never seen it. Maybe the guys friendzoning ugly girls thing but even then they usually still use them for sex. And I’ve seen it’s usually girls that catch feels first in casual hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:00 AM
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I feel this though. My dad did a great job, but not at preparing me for what to expect from other men. It’s hard to explain the female experience of men to men, because we both want different things from each other. But my experience of men in HS really made me cold and turned off from dating. Just a bunch of hormonal dudes willing to justify anything that would advance their sexual interests and objectifying women to their faces to impress their friends. I get it to an extent. I wasn’t the nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:17 AM
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I disagree. You can have as many friends as you want guilt free. Just because you might have one person in particular that you have in mind for end goal. This way you can be more efficient with your time and and get to know multiple prospects at once, platonically. I think if after around 3 months to a year (depending on time spent together, ~ 200+ hours) and it’s clearly not moving forward, move on. It’s a great strategy for anyone looking for an LTR. Not for a mismatch of a man wanting casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:54 PM
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I saw a study at some point that said republicans have more sex but democrats start having sex at a younger age or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:49 PM
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“All the data” You mean that 1 study that is repeatedly thrown around, did shitty statistics and was funded by a religious think tank?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:44 PM
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I concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:29 AM
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Why did your old account get suspended?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:28 AM
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I always felt that sub just helped to point out and identify traits and behaviors in men that can be considered toxic or abusive or otherwise unacceptable in a partner. As well as forcing some self reflection on how some women behave out of despair and insecurity to keep or find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:06 AM
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Born in upper middle class and of course at the height of my parents career they’ve peaked probably crossing the line at upper and I’ve developed the perspective that it has actually allowed me to pursue someone I enjoy being with and that I can be best friends with since financial security is not something I really have to worry too much about. I suppose it could also be due to the fact that I wasn’t raised to be super materialistic and my parents are generally down to earth and kind people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:00 AM
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I don’t think all guys share this notion, but enough do that it is a problem for most women at some point in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:18 AM
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I think what I’m trying to say is that physical beauty is not the only key to attraction. There are a ton of men that I can think of that are not conventionally attractive, yet are irresistible to many women because of their personality, status, humor, or whatever else a woman might look for in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:55 PM
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Maybe on the internet where it’s easy to reduce someone down to something superficial, but IRL I disagree. I see “ugly” dudes with hot girls on a daily basis (well pre COVID anyways). But I can understand how it’s easier to accept that you are ugly than it is to accept that you are unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:23 PM
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It feels wrong to give your life away to someone who had all their fun before you It’s such a weird way to look at things. I do have a visceral reaction to promiscuity and never had or been into casual sex, so I’d rather just not know, but to act as if committing to someone after having slept around means you are no longer having fun is just a weird way to look at things. I’d think you would want commit to someone because you have more fun with them than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:40 PM
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I didn’t see anything about messaging first. Just messaging in general. And it still doesn’t change the fact them men primarily target more attractive women. What do superficial rates matter if they don’t make implications about first choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:17 PM
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Does it really matter if she thinks you are attractive if you’re the one she wants to sleep with? Goes to show that perhaps looks aren’t as important to women as other factors when looking for a partner. I’d wager for attractiveness, women are more selective for casual hook ups than men and less selective for relationships because in the long term looks don’t mean much. Would you really rather be wanted for looks over character?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:13 PM
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Wasn’t the other part of the study that’s despite women rating 80% of men as “unattractive”, that they still will be more likely to converse with men despite how attractive they are, whereas men primarily target the women they rated as the most attractive? You all always forget that part of the study, guess it doesn’t fit the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:57 PM
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Ah, yes, the evolutionary adaptation that allows men to know whether or not a woman has been with a lot of men or not just by looking at them. Brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:35 PM
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They probably are “LVM” because they have their own massive mental or personality issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:31 PM
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If women value men based on the fact that they’ve been with a lot a women, wouldn’t it kind of imply that those women have been with a lot of men as well? If you chase after men that constantly chase after different women you’re just gonna be passed around unless you yourself are hIgH vALuE. This idea makes no sense and really only holds up in religious or conservative areas where women are expected to be virginal and men aren’t, but even then, with such pressure to be pure they will be less lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:28 PM
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I mean I recall a study (which I can’t find atm) and have seen various threads that seem to indicate that most couples have similar counts. I don’t think number is a big deal in an of itself, but it can indicate compatibility. I don’t know why so many here seem to think all “high quality” / desirable men sleep around. And tbh girls I’ve met that chase after “man whores” aren’t so great either. Maybe good looking, but vapid and toxic even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:21 PM
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I think saying you should have “hobby’s” before you date is really kind of a way of saying that you should learn how to be your own person, how to think long term, how to sacrifice and manage time, and how to find some happiness or some sort of outlet, on your own. It’s also sort of a way of saying that you should seek someone that you would enjoy doing things with. Similar hobbies are a strong sign that you’ll like to do the same things and these sort of connections really help build a strong b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 11:38 PM
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there's a line where a man can be a total failure and a woman can be right on track True. 24 y/o late start college female, still lives at home and almost entirely dependent on my parents yet I get cheers and praise because I’ll get my degree in STEM/engineering in 2 years. It’s bittersweet knowing people don’t expect much of you. There’s so much less pressure, but there’s also the realization and dealing with the fact nothing you do really matters to anyone. Also that none of it matters to a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:01 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 04:28 AM
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Examples of softboi musicians ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:09 PM
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More or less, yes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:55 PM
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